If you’re a pretty girl, over 25 and have no girlfriends….trust me, you’re normal. Don’t let people think you need friends to survive. You don’t. You your own best friend period ❤

“An attractive person always stays at home because beauty thrives in the sanctuary of their solitude.” - Carl Jung There are studies which suggest people are threatened by attractive women. Look up the “Femme Fatale” effect. No one is calling ALL attractive women saints, but ppl do actively discriminate AGAINST attractive, confident women.

When you’re a beautiful woman AND you’re an intellect… yeah, they can’t allow you to be both. You take up too much space.

There are pretty women who are mean girls, and pretty women who get hated on just for being pretty. If you're pretty, friendly, yet a bit quiet and not an over sharer?! The hyenas at the workplace will try to eat you up!!!! Subtle jabs, dirty looks, they will try to humiliate & humble you. Being a beautiful woman especially at the workplace provokes the worst behavior in insecure women co-workers.

I realised I was the problem long ago, I have an unhealthy ego from unhealed childhood trauma. I put up a wall and subconsciously repel people. I don't mean to but I'm working on it.

Im a grown ass women and I don’t have any friends and yep it’s a me problem cause I have a problem getting my energy mixed up with bullshit. Once you get to a certain age you realize no one is your friend. Stay safe y’all.

Especially if you’re pretty and kind. Story of my life I got bullied. But once I put up a wall now all the girls want to be my friend. I am still kind but I protect myself A-LOT better now.

When you bring up a negative experience with a man and they say "well you are so pretty,sooo.. " Run for your life. They think you deserve bad things to compensate for what they envy. Your natural beauty..

For me, my mum and auntie were my biggest bullies growing up so it's hard to trust women and befriend them

Men feeling entitled to you, woman envying that and hating your for it, the CONSTANT harrassment from EVERYBODY, the jealousy AND SO ON!

I modelled once and know how cruel people can be. Jealous and aggressive women, sexualizing and immoral men.. So I gained over 100 pounds to protect myself... They only got nastier and meaner, and I got some chronic illnesses. Now that I've lost all the weight again and am more attractive than ever, they try to keep me small collectively and harass me. And there is nothing I can do about it, no one I can turn to. You really can't win. I often think about ending things. This world is a cess pool of primitive and dangerous idiots...

Imagine every job you had being harassed by male coworkers to the point that you got to take them to HR imagine every job you had being harassed by your female coworkers being bullied by people that you barely knew is not easy at all, but is there some benefits to it at the same time? Yes, there is so I guess we all gotta pick up crosses and carry on. Being stoic helped me a lot meditating too be strong

Yes this is true , I don’t care what anyone says. If you are pretty/beautiful, and to add insult to injury you are intelligent, carry yourself confidently and have things going for you in your life , YOU will have a hard time keeping friends. Sure you will attract women who will want to hang out with you at first but usually it dies out because of the reason I just stated. Even some mothers are jealous of their own daughters and a mother is suppose to be a girls first friend or the example of it. Life isn’t just black and white , we humans are funny creatures with very complex natures. We compare and contrast a lot especially when it comes to beauty. Pretty privilege is real and people assume if you have it along with if you have other things going for you , your life is set when we all know that this is far from the truth.

The worst part about being attractive is your family member likes you. That's scary. Another thing is another attractive women feel intimidated by you that they will bully you.

in my experience a lot of girls are super competitive especially when a lot of pretty girls are in the same friend group. They are all competing for attention and they always try to one up each other. A lot of the pretty girls I have been friends with are back-stabbers and have no respect for other people. I think that some pretty girls make being pretty their whole personality, which is why they have a hard time making friends. This is just my experience im not generalizing all pretty girls.

Every female friend I've ever had has either tried to bring my confidence down to her level, or straight up tried to compete with me- even for the most random things. I was at a bar with one friend, and i was wearing a vintage tee that the male bartender commented on and struck up a conversation with me about. Ill never forget the way my "friend" just sat and glared at me THE WHOLE TIME... it was bizarre! A friend at work was jealous, i guess, that a certain customer enjoyed working with me and complimented me to management. This friend then tried to intercept this customer (who was an old lady btw) everytime she came in. She even bought her a small gift. Ive had another "friend" hop on my boyfriend's lap while we were out- he pushed her off lucky for him lol! 😅 so yeah, now i have one friend- but she's great so i consider myself blessed.

It’s a mix. Some are really hated on but some are just meeeeeeeeean. If you’re only concerned about how you’re always winning and never supportive of your friends then people won’t want to be around you.

It's very true that the more beautiful the woman is the less friends she has. Especially if she doesn't realize how beautiful she is. They don't get asked out because people assume that she already has plans because why wouldn't she? Plus beauty is intimidating to people that are mid.

Letting be pretty your whole personality is often the problem. I enjoy all of your content.

I never considered myself even attractive, because I had no friends. I was around 22 when someone said "Girl, they are jealous of you- your success, your looks!!!, your outlook and outcomes in life." I had no clue! All the animosity was from being jealous. I found out most guys thought I was cute and perky. I found out friends were trying to undermine my successful business. I found out that my constant work on myself was causing MAJOR jealous overload from many, especially other women, including my mom and sister. My confidence was killing them. Now that I know, it's my super power.

My best friend growing up was conventionally attractive and embodied all beauty standards for the early 2000s. She and I were best friends while I was the fat awkward fiend, but baby, when I started to blossom and bloom and get the attention that she always got? It was over!

Girls aren’t jealous of me, but they def hate that I am charismatic 😢 I can’t help I have a rockin’ bright shining personality 🤷‍♀️

Im the successful pretty girl. Had a friend who was just pretty. And anything i did, finished and accomplished she had something negative to say. The examples are vast and all over the map. So i cooled off on speaking to her. What made me stop all together is when she was saying slick stuff about me being in nursing school and how she got in because she had to finish before me. The last dig was that im old and i was going to fail because she failed her classes. I told her, im not failing, i have A's and B's. Im stopping next semester and putting it on pause because im sick. I was diagnosed with a rare blood cancer. She says im sorry, what is it. I tell her and i guess she looked it up on her phone, a minute later says "damn that sucks your going to die in eight years" i said well that escalated quickly, have a good day. Hadnt talked to her since 2020. Now mind you its three years later, im in remission, doing great, moving better but still not all the way there. Guess who still hasnt finished nursing school. Her. Because she had three years to finish while I was fighting for my life and still hasn't succeeded. You're right. Hang out with other successful pretty girls because the ones who aren't successful, will try to drag you down because how dare you be pretty, smart and successful while they arent.

I’ve litterly heard all my life “oh I can’t hang with you ~ your prettier than me”. Even now, in my big age in corporate America. I’ve never been one for relationships (never getting married) so when I go out, I’m not all over guys or looking for guys. I get attention tho without even tryin~ and I’ve been told by multiple women “it’s not fair! You don’t even want a guy or get married” (been proposed to 3x turned them down). Idk if it’s jealousy, but their energy and attitude change and they takes shots at me or try and make fun of me in front of men. Same way men feel like they need to “humble” beautiful women. Now because I don’t put marriage, kids, relationships as a priority it’s hard to connect with ppl in this mindset. This also has allowed me to focus on my goals and careers~ built up 3 businesses (accounting, beauty, and art). So now ppl get mad and I’ve lost my old 9-5 friends because they see me with freedom, more money, able to do more things than them, with things they don’t have & we “started” in the same place. I’ve been told I got “pretty privilege” and this is why I’m successful 🤯😳, Not because of my hard work, dedication, and business smarts. I have a very very small circle of friends and family ~ but many acquaintances. I’m loving this new movement of decentering men 🤗🙌🏽🙌🏽. For the first time in my life, I’m making more genuine connections with women than I have ever had. Love this for us ladies 🫶🏽🙌🏽💯💯. My other issue is I’m shy. So it’s hard for me to talk and open up to strangers~ I have bad anxiety from childhood trama. I get called out for “resting B face” or being “stuck up”. Ppl think I think I’m better than them because I don’t say much.😢. I’ve learned tho, ppl who are supposed to be in your life will ~ and I only like good vibes. I don’t like making fun of ppl or gossiping about ppl so I’m call “werid” by mean girls 🤷🏽‍♀️😂 that one I really don’t care about tho cause I’m Not dragging ppl to make myself feel superior. If you made it this far ~ Thanks for reading *my Ted talk 😎😂 Love these vids, but yes plz! Make more vids of empowering women and brining us together ❤🙏🏽💯😎.

Yes the woman in pink explained it perfectly thats been my experience, ppl hate when youre pretty and intelligent and not a hater , they look for problems with you its weird asf

The one arrogant woman who could use some grammar lessons, didn't exactly win me over. You can be attractive and still be a decent person.

It's just jealousy, pettiness, and cattiness. Women, especially BLACK women, really need to lean on each other because THE WORLD HATES US simply for existing. At the end of the day, we're all we have. Set boundaries and respect other womens' boundaries. 😊

I'v been told I'm very attractive- I have no female friends, I noticed when a couple is in my presence the girl would look directly at me then turn to her man get very close to him and grab on to him. I had cases where other females would try to style their hair like mine, even copy how I talk, talk behind my back, make synd remarks, it's also problematic dating, the first question men ask me is where is my boyfriend? when I say I don't have one, they think I'm lying, then think something is wrong with me because I'm single.

In my first year at uni, one of the girls I lived with was really nice to my face, but I noticed she sometimes gave me weird side looks and made small snidey comments. It was never anything big so I told myself I was probably imagining it. Then after a while she started doing things like inviting everyone on a trip to her home town and ‘forgetting’ to invite me. I never bothered bringing it up with her, and she carried on being nice to my face, so I never knew what the problem was. None of the other girls living there seemed to have an issue with me, or acted like this towards me. However I have experienced similar behaviour from other females in school too, without knowing the reason. I think some women just don’t like certain women but I don’t think it’s everyone. It definitely does make you feel more paranoid and insecure though, and because of that I think I have difficulty making friends, because I dont know who I can trust enough to open up to.

I like the switch to talking about female issues and experiences. Men don't need to be the center of everything. A good mix is nice. 🙌

Yes - they get extremely jealous and insecure and especially if you are pretty on the inside. It's incredibly sad honestly.

It's amazing to me the people that really think they are exceptionally pretty.

im grown ass woman with no friends...but that's probably because im an introvert lol..I have no problems with other women. i just csnt be around groups of women for long periods of time. Too much estrogen gives me anxiety. Now ive been told im attractive by many. I too have experienced other women judging without speaking to me. Assumptions like im stuck up, or an idiot, or they'll try to pick apart everything about me. And The Men...they will try to humble you to feel powerful, or treat you weak and helpless. It Dosent matter if im friendly or not , both sexes do these things. I know Women do this to each other on a daily basis. but when youre attractive its twice as hard to gain your respect.

I always felt like people liked my image but made other assumptions about me such as that I was a b*** or that I was dumb. I had girls admit they assumed I would be mean because I was so pretty. Guys couldn't see past it. They played the game hoping for more and when it didn't lead to more they didn't just cut me off, they displayed a vitriol and bitterness about me that was palpable. I not only began schooling for neuroscience, but also have a strong passion for music, and I am good at it. I also used to dance and do music in shows, paint for art galleries, model. I'm a complex being and it sucked to just be reduced down to what my mama gave me when the stuff I curated for myself ended up mattering less. Nowadays I tone down my look to draw authentic people, and my husband is bummed about it because he loves my style. Slowly I'm getting back into the stylish me who stands out instead of wearing frumpy clothes and a head scarf , and no makeup in public. Every once and a while someone still comments about my natural beauty, but I deliberately shrunk down to fit in and trust that people were approaching me for the right reasons. I'm excited to get back to creatively styling myself and amplifying my light, but this period of diminishing has taught me a lot of lessons that I needed to learn. I am always me. My image is an expression of my artistry and intelligence and who I am inside, also the beauty I want to add to the world is uniquely my own. Not only should I not dim myself but I should realize that it is up to others what they perceive, and my beauty is the least important thing to me, but not to many others. And that's ok. Maybe they are looking for the whimsy they find in my looks, but the people who take the time to know me past the outside, and value the looks I create as an expression of my inside world instead of my primary value should be appreciated so much more. That kind of beauty cannot be replaced, or emulated and it is beyond skin and bones.

I am friends with people who only feel good about their looks nowadays and mostly ok with their age. I don't have time for women age shaming me, slut shaming, making katty remarks etc. But usually women who take care of themselves and have dealt with the same harassment are nice people and we become good friends. The last friend I had to cut off was a woman supposedly struggling with her obesity, she would waste hours of my time complaining and reject every advice or idea I gave her. I told her I can no longer be friends with her when she chose to spend $10k (yes, ten thousand) dollars in a designer bag! The money could have been spent on a doctor, nutritionist and personal trailer and help her become healthy, but no, she needed that bag so that ''people are envious of her''. No, sis the world doesn't work that way.

If you are pretty other women won't like hanging out with you, because men will always look at you first. That's the reason why. Even if you don't like and don't want that, even if you are already engaged, your friends will always feel like second choice. It's sad but that's why it's so hard to find friends if you are better looking than the agerage woman. Find yourselves other women who are just as pretty as you are and you will be fine. If you are pretty and have an outgoing personality/like to enjoy life and be happy, than you will get even more hate, because people think you are trying to get attention.

I feel that. I stopped taking care of myself and looking more humble around other women. I had so many friends act nice to my face and then I'll end up seeing them hang out with out me and even overheard them talking about me. I would be with them everything seemed fine and the next day they are all silent and speaking short with a harsh tone and I would ask if anything wrong and they would just give me the cold shoulder. I've constantly seen women overcast me when I'm speaking and rolling their eyes especially if there are men around. I know I'm not the problem because there have been times I haven't spoken the whole evening but when I do it's annoying to them .I've had my cousin point out flaws in front of other purposely to embarrass me. Example I had eyeliner in my tear duct and I had been with the for over 30 minutes and she decided to say something once a guy is around. Literally watching women clutch boyfriend husband's when I'm around. Scoffing and judging my outfits and downplaying my outfits. For example someone compliments my outfit and their like it was on sale or I have one or seen one better. Or the it's cute but I like them this way because it looks better. Even women telling me i have it easy cause of my looks. Now I'm all humble af looking because it's the only way to not get dragged down by other women. Hell I can't say intelligent shit or share ideas because they roll their eyes and try to disassemble what I say. This happens at work.

Pretty people also different from person to person two of my best friends very conventionally attractive one was introvert but most kind, humble person other is extrovert and life of a party she's a caring person too with lots of friends, people really loved her. And there were other Pretty girls I knew so full of themselves. Downside of having Pretty friend is your crush won't notice you but her.

It's time 2000 with black women. No matter how old you get, the competitiveness for no reason never stops. Thank goodness I enjoy my own company.

The movie Malena with Monica Belluci depicts this perfectly.❤

"I like hanging out with guys, cause girls are so much drama 🤡🔫". -that last chick

I noticed something else about very attractive women. Sometimes when you have a more attractive friend they can not handle when the supposed less attractive friend gets attention or has access to something that they do not. Many times they can become a little frustrated not being the center of attention. It’s true that they are sometimes treated poorly due to jealousy but lots of times they come to expect better treatment and can’t take when it’s not their turn. Attractive people are typically treated better overall.

I'll tell you tea as someone who went from cute to beautiful in adult age, and professionally models. Friendships turn sour due to inferiority complexes in other Women. Husbands, BFs, Fiancés and FWB get jealous and possessive. They really try to become your dad giving you rules and threatening harm on other Men. Strangers stare and acknowledge your beauty which can give serious anxiety. I've heard "she's beautiful" in so many languages due to traveling a lot for work. Women can be competitive and or try and eye laser you for their Men looking at you. SA and Males eye-fu0king you. I've been grabbed, stalked, followed from the street, cars pulling over and Men getting out and meeting me on the sidewalk, and coercion and leverage for sex and relationships. It's not cute, here and I'll be relived to be 70 yrs old one day. I miss the invisibility. I appreciate compliments but I don't let them stick because my looks aren't forever.

Pretty girls that I have met seem to think looks are everything. Let you be good at relating to men( being able to talk about politics, joke around, etc) and they attack you and try to feel less than.

Well some pretty girls don't have friends because they are wrongfully judged and made fun of but others don't have friends because they can't be friends self. In my experience and I'm sure most other people as well the pretty girls with good personalities usually always have friends and people kind to them. It doesn't matter what you look like people will find someway to make fun of you and sometimes your not the great person you believe yourself to be.

It might just be aura-based and not necessarily beauty-based

3:14 truth! It’s because they think they are better than you, and no one wants to be around that kind of person.

From what i’ve seen is most of them make being “pretty” their whole personality. I have gorgeous friends even ones who are conventionally attractive (when im not which is ok) but the ones that im not friends with anymore is because they have bad personalities and narcissistic traits and think the world revolves around them. Beauty is subjective so yes some women are envious but if you don’t have one friend it’s you and it doesn’t matter how pretty you are.

I thought the video would be about people who like being alone (like me). Nope. Ya'll jumped straight to "JEALOUS 😤". Like your "beauty" is such a hardship? no. you just want to be a victim.

people in this comment section sound like they got no social skills and don't understand how friendships are formed AND maintained ngl. i'm not here to erase experiences of people who have hurt you or say that there aren't more people out to get you but some self reflection is needed and most people don't engage in it half as much as they think they do lol. some friendships come and go whilst others stay and yes you should be happy within and by yourself but realistically most of us are social creatures to some extent (even if it's just 1 person that is close to us).

I just stay byself, the people I loved had a silent competition with me, people lying on me..I even HAD men hating on me

pretty ,ugly ,tbh people just dont like women , ugly less likeley to be lonley cuz dont see us a s a threat than preety but still people often judge your value based on looks cuz ur a woman ,jealousy is a reason preety womena re lonley ,but also the other person feeling out of their league so scarred to be friends ,there is also the stereotype of preety girls being dumb or mean ,and ppl sxualising them...like gay/straight if ur preety ppl will sxualise you so u wont have ''friends'' ur gonna be fuk-zoned im ugly +mentaly disabled /neurodivergent and have no friends rly cuz most people just use me for their boredom etc cuz think im worthless so ''its ok to use me'' and they throw me away when they find someone else or get bored of me ,or ''its ok to sa /use finantialy her since shes worthless'' or let her do all the work cuz i wont ''lower myself to her let her chase me for ego so she has a crumb of friendship'' it goes bouth ways tbh ,mostly humans being shallow ,mean ,selfish ,believe in dumb stereotypes , intsead of having deep friendships based on who they are as a person and bullding eachother up in crisis and celebrating together in victory , you have the dumb ''competitions'' and ego trips and sxism its exhausting for everyone especialy non insane people to deal with the insane ones for me idc who im friends with as long as they chill ,race gender sxuality ,idc as long as we vibe and they are good

Nah I acted friendly and nice and people love me but I am an introvert so once I turned the sweet and nice switch off people don’t really like me as much and start to avoiding me because they thinks I’m a fake. It doesn’t matter if you are pretty or not. It is your personality.

The first girl- shes not friend-less because shes pretty, she has no friends bc she has a horrible personality 😂 having self confidence and being cocky are two different things

Hey, this doesn't only aply to pretty women. I am 24 not really pretty and I don't really have close friends. I think it is sometimes hard to maintain friends. Especially if you are an adult, it is hard to put some time apart for friends and hobbies when you have family, studies and work.

Ok, but that first "beautiful girl", (beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but anyway) even that few second clip is enough for me to kinda get the idea why she ain't got no friends... and it's nothing to do with her uh... 'beauty'. The "I'm always gunna weeen," bit gave strong nasty personality vibes from her. Some girls will be intensely jealous and threatened by pretty people in their circle. But I feel like it'll be obvious that it's THEIR problem, not yours. But the girls out there going "I'm too beautiful to have friends" more than likely THEY are the problem. They are those girls. Not their looks, their personality. Tons of these women who think they are too beautiful to have friends are just really not even pretty, tbh.

I dont know if im pretty or not so i wouldnt know Personally i dont have many friends i really just have one people drain my energy and i dont need random people in my house or even people i know for years and is toxic i just cant But i can read people energies

I’m considered in a weird place: I’m technically a “pretty girl” but I’m an adult tomboy, who does body weight for real strength (medical issues), and the two things other women cite when they start distancing themselves is A) they’re in a relationship and assume for literally no reason other than I have done a lot of stuff despite my medical disabilities, and they think I’ll steal their bf (this happened to my mom too, so much so that in the 70s and 80s she couldn’t even _be_ around a married man without his wife there to “protect him” from the successful business woman,) and B) by being a tomboy who legitimately like cars, classic or not, gaming, and other “societal stereotypical ‘man things’” but am traditional pretty if you don’t see me with my arm crutches (then ableism strikes really hard and violently about how I want to steal a bf/husband because I’m too broken to find my own) so they think I’m just _making up_ the hobbies and interests I had _before puberty_ and didn’t know what “liking” someone meant, just to impress their bf and steal him away. And as much as I hate to say it, if people don’t know about my medical issues, I could date whomever I want. I don’t want to steal someone’s bf because it’s against my morals and if the guy starts being inappropriate I tell his gf-which usually backfires because I had to be some sort of temptress as a tomboy while they’re a “semi-girly girl” or just very traditional in their idea of what a “real woman” is. My _whole thing_ is if a guy is gonna cheat on his GF he’s _always_ going to cheat on his GF. And yes, you’re absolutely right there are “queen bees” in HS and the sorority chicks in Uni, but I don’t fit in with that crowd nor do I fit into the kind of guys who want that crowd. My current bf is (in private, his job makes him an adorable loudmouth being paid by the word, and I’m trying to convince him he could start a podcast and not work for the local and dying radio station) a sweet guy who’s a nerd and like restoring old tech as do I. We bonded over our shared interest and then became physically attracted. I don’t worry about him stepping out with someone who looks like a bombshell bunnie, and he’s not worried I’m going to go find some gym-bro. Because healthy relationships are healthy. And I don’t think HS and Uni students realize that so they never end up growing out of it. Which is sad.

Men and women be jealous! I’m chocolate and have had people jealous of me since I can remember which is middle school and a few elementary cases BUT I didn’t realize it early on. I grew into my confidence so it’s rooted! They hate that!

I'm lucky that I have one friend, in which we acknowledge each other's beauty. We've both gone through experiences of people being jealous of our attractiveness. Apart from that though, I don't see myself making more friends to be honest.

Listen I consider myself and my best friend pretty girls...ppl generally say I look mean in person because I do have resting bitch face but ppl, even other women, generally love me when they get to know me. My best friend too.... Don't get me wrong, there r jealous insecure ppl who hate on ppl they feel are pretty but imo its not the majority and its subjective. Just because u think ur pretty doesn't mean someone is jealous or even thinks ur pretty. Not to be mean just honest.

The worst is when you are pretty, and men have nice things to say about you. Things like how nice you are or how much fun you are or how smart you are. I once had a girl in high school refer to me as "glamour girl". Another girl who was standing nearby looked me up and down then said, "not at this school". Then she walked away. When you are pretty and have good qualities to support that pretty you will have to learn how to let snide remarks roll off your back. It's simply a reality pretty women face.

Or maybe they are narcissistic? All my girlfriends are extremely beautiful and I loooooove them.

I have friends that compete with me. Constantly. If I do something, they do it. If I TALK about doing something, they rush to do it. Jealousy, envy. I think they try to make me as miserable as they feel. Not sure…

Priscilla, I enjoy watching your videos. I'm realizing how superficial people are and it's sad. People really have inflated egos! I am tickled 🤣😂

Yes, I'm beautiful. My older sister is also beautiful. We've always been pretty girls. I learned faster than my older sister that no matter how nice you are to other girls. Or be as friendly as a Saint with them they will stab you in your back if they felt they're not as pretty as you. I've watched for years how my older sister would be mistreated over and over and over again by girls who were jealous of her. Didn't matter what she did. The same as it didn't matter whatever I did they hated us.

If you have one true friend in your lifetime count your blessings. As we get older, we are forced to compete with one another. That competition wrecks friendships. The best you may have is a good acquaintance past age 30.

5:27 OMG, this was my experience with most of the girls I considered my friends. I only have 1 friend now, we hae been friends since school, but live in different countries now. I do not consider myself a 'pretty girl' and don't think others do either, but from what I've manages to piece together after all this time is that I'm too kind for this world, people see it and shitty ones use it.

I'll give you all an example of how people find you threatening without you literally doing anything. I worked for a small non-profit and when I started my boss (woman) forced us to start wearing a uniform to work even though that rule never existed before. When I quit that position I saw that she removed the uniform policy immediately. Before she instituted the uniform policy she accused me of trying to compete with her. Like what? I don't even think about you.

I've had the most hate come from popular or pretty girls. Pretty girls bullied me in school, isolated me from a friend group, spread lies about me. I had pretty friends who started to hate me maybe because I got more confident, I was traveling more and I was making more money. They would start to diss me in front of others but in private act like a friend so I had to cut off those pretty friends.

I think your regular videos are fine. This was interesting but I don’t think you need to change your content

I'm in uni and one of my classmates complained a lot about not having any female friends. She seemed to think it was because she was pretty, but I think it was mostly her behaviour. She was the one who felt threatened by other women, not the other way around. The only person she seemed comfortable to be around was me, I didn't wonder why at first but later I understood it was because I am autistic. I don't talk a lot so people often put me in the role of the listener, like I am not my own person with my own thoughts. I think that's why she liked me, she didn't see me as possible competition but as an empty vessel that only existed to validate her superiority, she didn't talk to me but AT me. She definitely was hungry for female companionship, but ultimately she didn't know how to exist with other women without establishing some kind of hierarchy based on looks and male attention. I don't believe every pretty woman is like that, but having absolutely no female friends is not normal and cannot be only due to people being jealous.

When you’re pretty it’s like you’re not allowed to have anything else. If you’re talented, intelligent, hard working, kind, funny etc. none of it really shines through in the eyes of those who are envious and insecure. All they see if that you’re pretty and that’s enough to make people immediately write you off/ pick you apart and find things wrong with you. The attitudes people have when you achieve anything is very telling of who is in their light and who is not.

I am addicted to your channel. You bring to discussion important issues, thanks for that ⭐️⭐️⭐️.

LoL 😂😂😂 I have this belief that if you think people are jealous of you because you are pretty you are somewhat a narcissist... like beauty is in the eye of the beholder someone can think your pretty and I can think your ugly😂😂 however I love pretty girls and I don't spend time on the mirror trying to see if I'm pretty what matters more is I'm fit (healthy) and clean as for beauty standards yea I'm out

I'm in no way a "pretty person", been called "pretty" 1 time in public and I'm almost 30, but if you are just dedicating your time to being genuine completely and all the time, suddenly you will have no friends. It's not even about physical beauty, genuineness can be enough to live a life alone.

As someone who evolved from being extremely overweight and was depressed and bitter who is now thin I can speak from both sides. I was the bitter hater, and now as a healthier more vibrant woman who has worked on herself it’s true people turn on you. I had people like me but only as long as I was below them. Let go of the haters and the dead weight and commit to your success

I think it depends tbh. My sister is really pretty and she genuinely did get targeted a lot by other women. But even so, she’s still a girls girl. I had another friend who was disliked by everyone we knew. She befriended me and I liked her but as we were becoming friends I saw her ostracise a friend group she had for no real reason (they were all white and it seemed she only wanted to have non white friends, weird but whatever). She was one of those girls that was boy crazy and would ghost me for months for her bf (I was her only friend atp). I wasn’t too pressed even tho I did feel somewhat used since she only hit me up if her bf was busy. Long story short I moved abroad and when I told her she didn’t even wanna meet up to say goodbye or stay in touch. All she cared about is who would be there for her if I left😐

I will just say jealousy is real and someone can encounter that a lot of their life even if there's nothing wrong with the person. It's human nature, but someone can deal with that since they're young all throughout their life.

a little of both Priscilla, so probably fluctuating is good. I would like to see stories of women, making it. So, for example: I went through this and this and this but I came out on top, story. An edifying feel good story. It's good to have the decenter xy stories, because it keeps us safe as well.

Um .. the reality is the friendship word is freely used WAY too much. You may have lots of associates, but friends are rare. If you are an Ass, no one will want to be around you. People can feel energy and see the underhanded things you do, even if they are small. If you want friends show yourself to be friendly. But pretty girls with great hearts and character absolutely have friends. ***You don’t need lots of friends. 1 or 2 is it, and is more than enough

I have noticed 2 things 1) Girl friendships are weird 2) Women are willing to be around other women that they either they don’t like or the girls don’t like them, feel like they won’t leave unless they can leave as the official victim & not look like the bad guy

I have always been friends with pretty people, and them being pretty never made me hate them. But pretty girls really have a lot of privilege, people are always nice to them almost every one and treated me differently. That made me feel bad, bitter towards them and sometimes angry and as a teenager I did not have the knowledge and maturity to understand that it is not the friend that is causing this pain. But now I know and I still have pretty friends who are amazing people I love them and don't have any bitterness towards them. But it is kinda hard hanging around pretty people, anywhere you go the pretty girl gets all the attention, men comes in when you are trying to have a intimate conversation, men completely disregards you when you are around your pretty Friends, men act like you don't exist. Also a lot of pretty girls are kinda dependent on other people, I've seen them needing help to do simplest things , and they feel they are very entitled to that help as if they deserved to be helped and I see less gratitude in them . While I've seen not so good-looking people begging for help and not getting any , being treated like shit , non existent and that is painful. I think both good looking and not so good looking women needs to understand each other and empathise with each other because at the end of the day as a woman both goes through similar problems and female friendships are amazing.

Just hang out with other pretty girls?

2. I actually love the videos about men more because it made me realised tht I'm not alone and man have a lot of work to do...these videos are very educational thank u so much for starting this chanel oh also ur consistency 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 wow.

Don’t change your content sorry but if they want more female centered content there’s plenty of that on KZfaq like the luxury,self care,motivational,self help etc they just need to subscribe to those channels as well but personally I enjoy your content.❤

Yes this is true I cut off All my friend because of their Jealousy and Fked up behaviors towards me behind my back as well

I think there is some truth to this. It's not just good looks, it can be too much confidence. However, sometimes we need to look into ourselves. Maybe an ego issue.

My “friends” used to use me as a scapegoat to talk shit about n crack jokes on. I used to think it was just for fun n laughs but as I got older I realized how hateful n jealous they were. None of those friendships lasted after high school n I’m okay with that. I was the only one that would get ostracized out the group so I distanced myself.

I barely consider myself hitting the “pretty” privilege category but after having to backtrack of years of a friendship where someone was jealous you don’t trust yourself to trust others. It’s a very deep conversation about who you interact with

I can’t imagine only wanting to actual friends with someone for aesthetics. I don’t have friends because I don’t stay in touch.

I never ever saw my self as beautiful. Everyone always told me I am. To be considered beautiful but you don’t think you are and shy has made me the target of so many sick men, young and old. You can’t be kind and considered beautiful. I have been sexual assaulted by men since I was twelve. I get so upset with people saying pretty privilege. I lost count on how many jobs I got just to realise it was so my boss could sexually harass me. Idk why I keep being so naive. Yes, it’s such a privilege to be sexually harassed and never be liked for you, just your body. At least if you are not considered pretty, when people like you… they like YOU not your shell. What a privilege that is… you just don’t know it.

Sometimes it's theor attitude they act like they ate better than others etc sometimes it's that.

Yes I agree pretty beautiful intelligent woman unable to get friends because other woman or even men feel very insecure in many ways around confident person.

being pretty is part of it but also got sick of other female friends parading their bfs and being worried their bfs will cheat on them with me, idc if its pick me most women are catty, jealous, and very fake. specially if youre pretty

This is so true.

8:34 I never knew but I never been into TikTok, or other social media everyone should limit there online time 12:14 This is why men lead

Give us a balance of both. We need to open our eye more.

This is a good topic

9:20 is soooo real. my friends were like that and it makes me sad bc i genuinely loved them. 😢 edit: 14:45 i badly needed to remind myself of this. thank you.