Roshall Lambert Thank you giving feedback!

I have absolutely no desire to spend one more minute of my life in relationships where I don't get my needs met, and someone else's insecure attachment issues are their problem to resolve, not mine. I'm done being part of peoples' healing process. Come to me with your shit together or not at all.

@@Revolution-tl5wo Period!

So a dismissive can go around and do whatever they want ..do the hookups and disrespect and ppl should be okay with it ? Oh hell na

@@space935 There is a difference between being a dismissive Avoidant and a person just doing hookups and disrespecting people. There is no link between the two. Any insecurely attached person can be disrespectful at any given point and there are root reasons for that.

Lol yes!

hahahahhahahaha

lmaoooo

Hahahaaa 🤣

😂😂😂😂

Me too...I’m sorry for what da’s had to go through...and I know they’re really injured...but it’s not my fault and we all deserve deep love and things that deserve trying for✨💜

@@cloudslady3400 Love is a two way street. No one should have to feel bad for not wanting to date DAs. In fact DAs should work on themselves before dating ANYONE!

@@bentuck7929 They will not, they will rarerly admit they are the problem...well if we are anxious attachment it is our problem too.

@@coralnegro3702 I already get educated and help for my attachment, I think everyone should. The divorce rate is insane!!! This is not acceptable. Marriage is a serious commitment, yet people get married willy nilly. They don't ever address certain issues and think its normal or will go away. The divorce rate is just so wrong. And many times BOTH people in the relationship are the problem. People also talk to much about sex. Sex isn't a relationship. Sex doesn't even mean there is genuine Love there. I see to many so called "Love Coaches" talking about sex and getting laid. It has completely destroyed the way we think about dating, relationships, and their meaning.

Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a man who brought us back together

my ex.. didnt even know what a DA was until years later, she was a DA.. explains alot of my trauma from her

@@exoticbutters8217 prob means shes not a DA but just done with u

I can confirm. I've lost over 5 kgs during our relationship and can't gain weight at all. Its emotionally and physically stressful

@@lilacrose9271 Same thing happened to me, I lost 8 kgs and cant gain back.

a secure person becomes anxious

It’s important to be happy single. If you’re secure you can help them become secure also

Yup👌🏻

Exactly. I guess he helped me be happy single.

@@kaycard766 nothing makes you happy single like being tormented for being committed

Facts. 😂

Totally relate to the being insecure and anxious….the worst in my life !

Same 🙁

I went through this for 8 years. I was insecure and anxious all the time! Ended up gaining 50 lbs! It's better to cut them out of your life early.

Totally agree

Gosh, completely agree! I feel like I have to change not only who I am, but what I say, what I do… Etc. And, what are they offering? Besides zero. No thanks.

🤗❤👌🏻

so true bestie

True :(

Unless we’re trying to work on ourselves okay 😭 lol

AMEN!

This is often the case. You’re right

Yeah, it is true. And the expression - walking on eggshells - is extremely appropriate when it comes to DAs.

It took my recent ex 5 years to arrange a date with me. I wasn’t too bothered just saw it as fun but then we started dating and I starting falling for him. After 2 months he ghosts me and I’ve known the guy 19 years!! Before ghosting he had me on eggshells. Not a horrible person but I’d chose not to date another avoidant.

You just described my ex bro she only gave small amounts of affection i was always walking on eggshells to keep her happy.

@@IamCoachCourt hey coach. Can u make a video on how or if dismissive avoidants deal with regret of breaking up with someone? Do they even contemplate these things or repress?

Dismissive Avoidants don’t work for relationships , they would rather dismiss you than have to confront themselves and their feelings so they do their best to avoid the hard parts and hope that you will come back , they’re not the type to reach out and say omgg i miss you im so sorry. Theyd rather try to act like nothing ever happened and tiptoe back into the relationship by getting you to spend time with them/keeping communication(access) (even if it’s minimal) but they are going to do everything to avoid the hard stuff if every way.

Nah I will get her back she's my girl I will fight for her ,I will get her well ,I will even if it means destroying my peace in the process I won't give up on her. Edit:nah man not worth the effort

We deserve a lot of things, unfortunately people are not perfect. There's always something...

@@skay9096 the edit is crazy but so true 😅😂 didnt even know my ex was a DA for years and it explains so much now, the trauma i experienced from her will never be healed.

thats when they want you when you are not needy

How long did you guys date and or talk?

@@kourtneymarie8995 im curious of the answer too

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He brought back my husband after 7 years of separation and brought us together in peace within 3days and settle my marital challenges easily His name is Dr Miracle Gabe,he can also help you out__

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What if i dont wanna reach out?

@@sproonianlitch8232 Then you just move on

@@sproonianlitch8232they reach out

@@sproonianlitch8232 real shit

You forgot to say because they're so special they throw tantrums and we should tippy toe around them else they shout us out.

I can understand the pain DA’s put you thru but damn we’re human too

@@kourtneymarie8995 I actually get so sad at some of the comments I see about DA's. Imagine if people were saying that about their attachment styles....

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@@kourtneymarie8995 are you?

@@kourtneymarie8995 I wish you would show it though… I have loads of compassion for you and the guy I love but after 3 years I have to walk away for my sanity

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@@andreadilorenzo_ I have been on that roller coaster ride for seven years and I have just recently come to the conclusion that they are a DA!

@@andreadilorenzo_They should just stay single and leave everyone else out of their misery. It's like a cat and mouse game. Maybe they don't care or maybe they don't understand. They should be able to understand that without open and honest communication, there is no relationship and certainly no future. I met someone else like this in the past and it was the same scenario. It took this one for me to figure out what is really going on. Nobody is perfect, but it's like trying to love someone that doesn't know how to be loved. They say opposites attract. It makes one wonder?

😂 it's easier to find some rocks and go bang your head on it instead😂

Rocks are pretty and dont lie and betray you. Do not insult them. 😂

When she broke up with me for no explanation and cut me off. I was d best bf but she took me for granted. I felt betrayed and lied to

The best I can do is contact them a month later to talk about our relationship to see if they still feel this way and get some closure, not ask them back. If they don't ask to try again then you shouldn't (unless you did something bad you need to apologize for). Talking to them like that didn't hurt you and leave you is stupid. Either we talk about us and make a plan, set boundaries etc or they aren't committed

I have gone through something like that. I asked for support because my mother died and this person said no

wow I'm Experiencing the same thing now. with her a year and a half. my Mom hasn't got long. she wants me then when we get closer she creates an issue to push me away. so hard, I love her but it's happened often. she is a classic DA yet refuses to believe it

after two years of being bread crumbed i have only just learnt about attachment styles. i had a break down. i was so confused and the pain of heart break almost killed me. he was the love of my life. he was my best friend. then he treated me so badly and betrayed me in every way a man can betray a woman. thank you for this video. i am finally able to make sense of what was the most painful time in my life.

Same here! Hang on sis @@samanthalennon4447

​@@goulnazgalieva3121I experienced the same, when my father passed away he broke up with me. Anyone that want to talk and help me heal?

This is FUUUNNY 😂

Same thing with me. If I didn't have anything new to "teach" him I'm stupid, but when I do teach him something new, hed say don't try to be smart.

They confuse us oh, they make us anxious they bring down our self-worth and we think it's us when in fact it's them

@@ZenPepperClub self worth stripped for sure

Yes I agree. I didn’t realize I was dating someone with DA attachment style but when I drank with him I was too much, I felt so guilty and ashamed but now I realize what the problem was. I’m so happy I realized because I knew we both had issues, it wasn’t all on me. And I could tell he would get defensive when I tried to talk about something I liked that he didn’t like . It was just such weird vibes I’ve never experienced before and now I can put a name to it.

Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a man who brought us back together.

Thanks Tanya

i would do ANYTHING to unlove her. it’s killing me and it’s destroyed my life. she broke my heart at 47. i was convinced she was the love of my life and then that distant,cold weird behavior started like someone kidnapped her soul, heart and character. i am still as madly in love with her as the year we met. 3 years of bliss gone. i want my lover and best friend back. i’m so f”ed up in the head and traumatized by this i will never ever be able to recover and this pain is worse than my mother dying. i melt when she walked in the room and now she wouldn’t notice me if i was on fire. i can’t believe all of these comments. i don’t know what to think or do. for the rest of my life trust is a luxury i can no longer afford. i’m an certain that i will have to settle for dying alone

We give love no matter what and are extremely loyal.....to our own demise sometimes

You just want love ! It’s natural!

@@IamCoachCourt 👏🏾👏🏽👏🏼👏🏻👏👏🏿💯🎯

Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a man who brought us back together...

He helped me not quite long and I got my husband who left me over two years ago within 48 hour's...

You nailed it! 👌🏻💯 DA's are narcissistic and 🤮heavily selfish.Fuck them! They ain't worth Shit! Move on to better secure ❤🤗people I broke up with my DA ex two years back and kicked him outa my life forever and Oh boy 🙆🌺did I Healed and never been so Happier & Calmer❤🤗 I dated secure men and didn't felt anxious..I unfortunately dated a DA once and faced anxiety & hell both at the same time🤮 I hv met amazing men after I healed❤❤and My man who is a secure attachment style individual treats me like a Queen! ❤😍🤗

@@PriyankaGupta-ew1li you seem very happy ☺️

I know of a man who can manifest your ex partner back and restore back your broken relationship easily__

He brought back my husband after 7 years of separation and brought us together in peace within 3days and settle my marital challenges easily His name is Dr Miracle Gabe,he can also help you out__

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So... with some self-insight I can say this as a preoccupied anxious style, or at least what became one in the dynamic I was in and got out of 4 months ago. The anxious style has maladaptive behaviors too. Keep in mind there's always more to the story. But to explain... I had these pressure points and this was an LDR, I was the one doing the physical footwork of making it work. Flights, showing up, getting to know their friends and family etc. It wasn't enough. I've read that DA's idealize partners in the beginning and then slowly pick them apart, exaggerating and nitpicking flaws (clumsy, walks weird, turns the door key weird, you name it) and this is true without a doubt. Things nobody else even mentions😂 it makes you question everything. The devaluation process I went through the last months of that relationship was like a meatgrinder, with little inbetween gestures of love. Push/pull. I know what that does to one's head now. So what I was hanging on for was, in the first half of the relationship and during idealizing she would always say you should meet this friend, that friend, all the friends, because they all had interests that aligned with mine down to the bone. Her and I also had strong common interests and I loved the deviations and differences too. She talked about longterm things, imagine this, imagine that somewhere down the line (only to say that's how people flirt, it's not to be taken literally). I had a job opportunity where I could research specific topics where she lived essentially, building on my degree, it was also something she said earlier would have been great... if we were a normal couple; lived in the same region and area and town and yeah. I was all in. I spent the last two months of the relationships before summer working on a research project from the ground up to propose to the committee (I later landed the interview out of 65 people)... went to visit her for the last time, for 10 days. First met her friends and her in the next country over for a small trip, went back to her country... she broke up when we got back to her place. I was stuck there a week, we lived together. It was emotional abuse each day, you think there is a bottom one can reach through devaluation? No. It's endless. I can't tell you how far one falls mentally, or how many old wounds awaken and how pathetic it makes you. She made sure to say all of the things that would cut deep, and made sure to smile occasionally. I get that devaluation is a defense mechanism or yeah, but. And I did try to leave earlier, ordered a ticket out across the border where there were flights available... that country issued a state of emergency and I had to cancel it. At one point she said "you are staying here until your original flight, I dont want to look like an asshole, you are not leaving"... next day? "You were supposed to know you were supposed to leave". Zoom ahead? It got so bad I was put into a clinic for some weeks by my family and doctor when I got back, something in me snapped and I spiralled hard, by then it was summer. And throughout the summer when I got out... I blew up her phone, doing all the wrong moves. "You fucked with my head". "This is a setback that will last". The blamegame. I know my role. I know the pressure she felt from all of that and from working on moving there too, but at the same time... she was cheering it on while I was writing the project, even came with ideas. So I was pissed. And it's confusing because, you love the person and you DON'T want to blame them even after all of that. But the stakes were so high. I lost control. We've been no contact for 2 months now. She saw no self-respect from my part on any of that behavior and that I get, my mind was already at the point where the bridge was burnt which is why I said those things. At the same time... I told her while saying it I needed to vent. She validated how bad things hurt me, I didnt need it but she did. And I really wanted to still be friends somehow out of the common interests. But my behavior had already blown that. Point is... Anxious styles have maladaptive behavior too. I'm working on myself. I'm more grounded. But in terms of life and jobs and getting ahead? That situation created the worst setback I've been through and still am in, and yeah a part of me was pissed because in the situation she's in... she's living the dream. On my side of things, everything fell apart. The messed up thing is I still love that person and that's gonna take a while. Learn from my situation how you see fit, I take responsibility for my role at this point.

🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

Update?

Update?

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@✛19059193258❤⏯⏯눈‸눈.

Man. I truly do appreciate your feedback! There are a lot of different factors that come into play when I advice my clients to reach out. Since it was amicable, I would say it’s safe. It’s our pride as men, and fear of rejection as an AA that prevents it. For coaching email me at: www.fruitfulseedz.com

Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a man who brought us back together..

@✛19059193258❤⏯⏯눈‸눈

He helped me not quite long and I got my husband who left me over two years ago within 48 hour's.

You're welcome!

Yup👌🏻

Agreed

Hm as a DA it’s hard for me to fathom my partner thinks I don’t care which is part of the problem but when asking certain things how can I make the person know I care? For example how could you have asked you that question and made you feel like he cared?

@@kourtneymarie8995 y’all live in your heads and don’t communicate like normal people.

As a DA I can not imagine asking someone if they are going to abandon me or asking if they are seeing someone else.. unless I’m hoping the answer would be yes to both.

Thank you so much Ana 🙏🏾 . Share the channel to whoever you think would benefit! 😊

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@✛19059193258❤⏯⏯눈‸눈

He helped me not quite long and I got my husband who left me over two years ago within 48 hour's.

Thank you!

Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a man who brought us back together

@✛19059193258❤⏯⏯눈‸눈..

He helped me not quite long and I got my husband who left me over two years ago within 48 hour's

R they able to live without me? They actually care or just dont care?

Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a man who brought us back together..

@✛19059193258❤⏯⏯눈‸눈

He helped me not quite long and I got my husband who left me over two years ago within 48 hour's

Hey man, similar situation here, would love to chat if ure ever down?

Who reached out to who, after the 2 months?

@@russellfowler8186 She asked me if I was going to a cafe with her when we were having a group catch up.

❤️❤️❤️

block her ass lol

I hope you did a permanent no-contact. :O

Very well-said. I am now in episode #2 of where he just kind of disappears after a particularly lovely and vulnerable time together. The first time we had been seeing each other for about six weeks and then he disappeared for 2-1/2 months. I let him back in and the second go-round lasted 4-1/2 months. I last saw him on New Year's Eve and it was absolutely lovely. We have never argued and he seemed to be letting go a bit. Now it's been over a month with just one text from him that said he missed seeing me (his excuse is that it was duck hunting season all of January and he runs a club on his property). I don't reach out and I guess we'll see if comes back around again (I am still on some dating apps in the meantime). Trying to figure out the best way to state that I need to feel safe and for me that means not being ghosted (if he ever comes back into my orbit). I know he has a beautiful soul and I have told him that~~it must be horrible to be so afraid to let someone love you.

Thanks!

Us Dismissive Avoidants are a tough crowd. I really hope you're doing well and started to figure out your personal worth and boundaries to 'avoid' unhealthy relationships in the future. Unfortunately, many DAs don't get their strange trust issues either. But I do get how it left you confused. Keep healing and growing!

@@PeopleAreHell thank you....and hello from Germany.

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M e s s a g e h i m f o r h e l p o n w h a tsap.

Thank you! 🙏🏾

Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a man who brought us back together..

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He helped me not quite long and I got my husband who left me over two years ago within 48 hour's

Updates?

How long did you wait before reaching out?

Coach Court 1 month and she said i dont want to talk again ever again so i deleted her number and now I’m in no contact for 4 months and I’m continuing in no contact till she initiate conversation i will never ever initiate conversation again , she told me she is avoidant attachmen she was honest anyway.

1 month wasn’t long enough. They most likely was still in the anger/relief phase. Sorry it didn’t go well 😔

Coach Court so my advice is never tell people to contact them , the best solution is for them to fix themselves on their own , if you keep pressure on avoidant he will get angry and will accuse you of things you didn’t do to force you to leave.

Coach Court thank you coach ♥️

Did it end up working out for you?

❤️

Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a man who brought us back together.

@✛19059193258❤⏯⏯눈‸눈.

M e s s a g e h i m f o r h e l p o n w h a tsap.

He helped me not quite long and I got my husband who left me over two years ago within 48 hour's

Test1 \test2 And I hope you l heal from your trauma 🙏🏾

DA's are narcissistic and 🤮heavily selfish.Fuck them! They ain't worth Shit! Move on to better secure ❤🤗people I broke up with my DA ex two years back and kicked him pura my life forever and boy I hv healed and never been so Happier & Calmer❤🤗

@@IamCoachCourt what possible " trust betrayals are THEY undergoing ? "

It honestly seems like it!! But the difference is narcs are hugely lacking empathy and abuse people often. They punish you after leaving or for offending them. DAs still have empathy but are just afraid. Narcs never love people or get attached to anyone

Let them come and go sounds bad, just means allow them to have time with their friends or alone sometimes

Welcome him back, but set better boundaries for the future. State your needs and expectations for a healthier relationship

Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a man who brought us back together..

@✛19059193258❤⏯⏯눈‸눈

He helped me not quite long and I got my husband who left me over two years ago within 48 hour's

I'm curious to know the update of your situation

@@kellegeez well.... Too much stuff.. this was back on August, he finally moved his stuff out in sept after his summer job ended that led to all this, we no longer had contact. He stayed hung up on her and spiraled far down. End of Nov he broke up with her (the umpteenth time) and showed up at my place, I compassionately let him move back... Ten days later he realized he still wanted her so I backed right off, and their toxicity continued til Valentine's Day, long distance, all while he still lived in my spare room... Currently, he's still at my place, they're over... we're, well I wish I knew, friends I guess... I miss our relationship... No idea where his head is regarding me, if it weren't for the lack of intimacy, I'd almost think things were back... I still love him but guess that remains with me....

@@jenerlendson5911 Ugh. These DAs are headf*cks! I hope you can find peace but I sadly doubt it will be with him💕

Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a man who brought us back together

@✛19059193258❤⏯⏯눈‸눈..

Learn to love yourself. It can be a challenge, but if you do, you will no longer tolerate dismissive folks. They are not bad people; they are badly wounded and will not change unless they are motivated to do so. It's tragic, but true. I've been there.

I feel your pain, they make you want to not exist anymore. It's heartbreaking and soul destroying.

Just went through this. I was just trying to show her I cared about her and got blocked on all social media. I should’ve just given her space but I thought her social media posts were passive aggressive posts about me and her being upset with “cold emotionally unavailable people”. So I broke initial no contact and got blocked.

You got it

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@✛19059193258❤⏯⏯눈‸눈.

M e s s a g e h i m f o r h e l p o n w h a tsap.

He helped me not quite long and I got my husband who left me over two years ago within 48 hour's..

Thanks Sally!

I sure hope you're feeling better bae! 🙏🏾

@@TheRialGlamLife a lot better, thanks so much! I think he’s more FA but I haven’t heard from him yet sadly. I’m working on me for now until I do. :)

That's all you do is cry with an avoidant. It's heartbreaking

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@✛19059193258❤⏯⏯눈‸눈.

🙏🏾

🙏🏾

Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a man who brought us back together..

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He helped me not quite long and I got my husband who left me over two years ago within 48 hour's.

Thanks for the insight Kourtney!

Wow great to know 👍👍

@@komatsu8169 Exactly. Not worth it! Life is too short

Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a man who brought us back together.

@✛19059193258❤⏯⏯눈‸눈.

Any updates?

@joev7014 that was over a year ago. A lot has happened. Back then, becoming just friends again worked. I recommend this to anyone trying to get back with an avoidant. A couple of months later we were together again. It was amazing, she was talking, kids, rings, house. But unfortunately as it got more serious, and I have to say it was her driving this more than me, she got more avoidant and I got more anxious. She left me 7 months ago after moving in with me. I went no contact for 5 months. I touched base, she was cold as ice, no intention of getting back.

@@droflivelife damn, thanks for letting me know… I have that problem too. I think I’m just gonna have to let her go for good even tho I still have feelings for her. It is what it is

My pleasure! ☺️

Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a man who brought us back together.

@✛19059193258❤⏯⏯눈‸눈.

M e s s a g e h i m f o r h e l p o n w h a tsap.

He helped me not quite long and I got my husband who left me over two years ago within 48 hour's

Wow! Just trying to educate. Thanks for confirming it!

I know of a man who can manifest your ex partner back and restore back your broken relationship easily__

He brought back my husband after 7 years of separation and brought us together in peace within 3days and settle my marital challenges easily His name is Dr Miracle Gabe,he can also help you out__

""Whts" App " him __

+2348029822204

🤣🤣

Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a man who brought us back together

@✛19059193258❤⏯⏯눈‸눈.

M e s s a g e h i m f o r h e l p o n w h a tsap.

He helped me not quite long and I got my husband who left me over two years ago within 48 hour's

Thanks for the input!!

Update?

Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a man who brought us back together

M e s s a g e h i m f o r h e l p o n w h a tsap.

He helped me not quite long and I got my husband who left me over two years ago within 48 hour's

I’m a DA and your comment is gold. I literally laughed out loud about already thinking about the next break up.

@@jh5588 🙊🙉🙈

Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a man who brought us back together.

@✛19059193258❤⏯⏯눈‸눈.

M e s s a g e h i m f o r h e l p o n w h a tsap.

🙏🏾🙏🏾 you got it!

I'm an FA. Which is why I love dogs and not so much cats.

@@sandra123marar lol

Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a man who brought us back together..

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Update?

Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a man who brought us back together.

@✛19059193258❤⏯⏯눈‸눈.

He helped me not quite long and I got my husband who left me over two years ago within 48 hour's

Yup. He just reached out….2 month mark. Pretending nothing happened.🙄

Update?

@@monicamonica5924 mine emerged at two months as though nothing happened.

@@kathleenburns4850 are you still together?

@@monicamonica5924 yes. Stronger than ever.

You’re on a roll today Kandice lol

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Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together, I got help from a man who brought us back together..

@✛19059193258❤⏯⏯눈‸눈

He helped me not quite long and I got my husband who left me over two years ago within 48 hour's

Thank you for insight ❤️

xScarlingx if you still care, don’t let his bids for connection go unwarranted

Coach Court I feel like I’ve been crowding him tho... It’s a hard place. I have been messaging him more than he has messaged me recently and I felt he may need a little space. And we haven’t spoken in a week so...it feels like I read it right But yes, I want to honour his vulnerability& not have my ego lead the show. So I feel stuck honestly.

Coach Court I REALLY appreciate you responding. God knows. I’ve been racking my brain 🙏🏾

xScarlingx see if you can see him in person and catch up

Coach Court I tried. As I said above - he eluded to meeting up and I asked when and he didn’t respond. He’s done this twice now lol but first tine he asked me what days I’m free and just said okay and continued talking about something else. So I’m just unsure what that even means🤷‍♀️

Maybe he’s still fearing being rejected. 🤷🏾‍♂️Hard to tell

Ty! My thoughts too. I will reach out and say, Hey 🙂

@@juliemichaud6118 good luck 🤞🏾

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You handled it well. Any update?

I’ll put that on the list!

@@IamCoachCourt any video about the question?

The difference is the intention. DAs are extremely defensive and want to protect their inner world. They end up using narcissistic strategies. But they don’t intend to hurt you

Thais Gibson has a good video on that, please look it up before pushing away a DA, like i did, and regretted it

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I will try!

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