I love your kind hearted approach to supporting fellow moms. Particularly, I love that you acknowledged that perhaps that was a “bad day” for the child. As a mother of two non-neurotypical children who have significant behavioral regulation issues at times that spoke right to my heart. With my neurotypical children, I can’t agree enough about modeling and expecting respectful behavior. (Of course I model it for all the kids but my expectations are slightly different based on the children’s’ capabilities.) Side note, you have such a calming voice!

Thank you for this! Love the bit about parents having a loving tone, not nagging or yelling, so kids can more easily respond in the same way. Also love the focus on the child's heart, not just outward obedience.

During this quarantine, one of my goals are to give my children moral and biblical lessons. Thanks soooo much for having this channel. God bless you!

I myself have a lot to work on. Very humbling. Thank you for sharing this. ❤

I talk to my children about situations like this so they can understand there are things you don't suppose to do as a child while living under my roof. Thank you for sharing.

This is excellent. These are SUCH good videos Shirley. You have such a sweet way of challenging moms to raise their standard and be more intentional in the way we raise and nurture and train our children. Good old-fashioned wisdom right here. ♥️

I look forward to these mom talks now! Awesome topic!❤️

I'm 15 and I obey my mom to the max, she is the one that is in total control. Everyday, I come home from school and the 1 st thing I do, is give her my phone...don't want any distractions, then I do my homework, then all the chores for that day, which must be done to my moms satisfaction. Then I do whatever she tells me to do with no back talk or arguing. On the weekends, I do want she wants me to do, Before I have my "Free time"

This was so good... I'm sad to say my kids are very disrespectful...I don't know where to start to have this all change. But I see it's in praying to ask God for help and then I'm to learn to speak respectfully to them. I grew up in a house where although there wasn't yelling, there was an unkindness or authoritative way that was demeaning. I guess I really didn't have a good emotional example. But I know God can teach me and you've given me huge encouragement too. Thx a ton!🤗👍

Great video! Thank you! Love Sally Clarkson. I listen to her podcasts and recently purchased a few of her books. These are definitely things I need help with in my family.

You always do a good job of sharing your experience without preaching. Thank-you for sharing the resources you use, that book looks awesome. I think it is important as a parent to respect our children and treat them as equals even though we have authority and responsibility over them. It seems like you do a great job of that.

Wow Shirley, you have this KZfaq thing down! 👏 I love your quality content, and coming to your channel is like a breath of fresh air - not to mention I could listen to your sweet voice all day! 😁 Can we be neighbors? Haha. I agree, we don’t have to say that our kids will rebel or do the norm. I remember women telling my mom that about my sister and I and she would always gracefully(or sarcastically;)) reply that she doesn’t think her girls will be “the norm”...and I think she was right. I’ve held my mom in the highest respect and pray that the Lord helps me to be the same respectable mother 💜

Great topic! We are working on this right now in our home. Again, a lot of teaching our kids these things starts with being an example of them. Good reminder!! ♥️

Your channel is SO helpful to me and such a Godsend. I am learning so much from you.

Thank you for sharing! My oldest daughter/child is 11.5, and we are struggling with this. 💓

This video is so needed. Many people need to hear your advice. This generation is a generation that feels entitled. Thank you sharing such a great topic. God bless you 😊

Thank you for this video! Its very inspiring, practical information and beautiful energy💖

This is so timely. I was just listening to a sermon on Tuesday about honoring your mother and your father and I wanted more and it got me thinking if asking my pastors for some book references. This is great and now I'm off to find that book. Thank you so much! Also, where did you get the farm fresh tray on your table 😍

Thank you so much for sharing this. This is just what I needed to hear today.

As always, beautifully said and encouraging! Thanks you!

I'm a father, so I ignore the greeting to mom only, and other phrases that seemingly are directed to only moms. But everything else, mercy days, this is so great!!!

Would that devotional work for a 4 year old? I was JUST talking to my husband about this topic. My 4 year old often interrupts adults, disagrees with adults etc. Sometimes when she interrupts she's just trying to add to the conversation but I want to teach her to have respect. I didnt expect to have to have this talk so soon 😂

I have bible study with my daughter everyday. She is 6years old and it has helped us but there are times when she gets into tantrums which creates unpleasantness in the house especially when Grandparents are around.

Hi...loved the video. Thak you! Would you recommend the book for a young family? 5 and 7 year olds.

Great advice! Using real life scenarios is a wonderful way to teach our children!

Great advice! Thank you for sharing. :)

Great mom talk! I love Sally Clarkson and her books and podcast!

Thank you for taking the time to share.

This was so good to listen to. Thank you for sharing this. It's so very important.

Hi I like your video. 👍 But I have some questions. I'm doing home schooling with my girls 4 and 7 years old this is are first year doing home schooling and I feel like I can't do this. But I don't want to put them at school. How you did this for 12 years? How you did with science, history? I see a lots of curriculums and it is so hard to choose one.

too bad you have done new vids. I would've been interested to see how you were navigating the teen years. Hope all is well

Yes!! Teaching respect is so important!

Loved this message!

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Why is it acceptable for content to b directed only to moms?? In 2020?? There r women who suffer from addiction or mental illness that progresses AFTER childbirth.....& some that r simply selfish just as there r men. Then we have mothers who r unavailable at no fault of their own (victims of crime, tragic accidents, disease, etc)....So why only speak to one gender?? I am a single father who has always been the primary caregiver to a daughter. Though I know the world is full of others, I continually find parents still working from a fictional point of view that somehow suggest parents have stereotypical roles. They never have.....As far back as u choose to go in history, there have been death at child birth & other factors that make assumptions regarding these roles unrealistic.

I soo agree with u awesome vlog ...... when i get attudes i think spanking works well for discipline u are an awesome mom dont give up on discipline and spanking 😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎😎

Wow did I need this video! I absolutely loved it and pray that I can have half as much grace with my 4 children as you do. Btw I ordered the book and it’s 50% off on amazon today.

This talk was very timely, especially the part about respectful (not resentful) obedience! I’m going to check out that Clarkson family book. 😊

Let’s teach parents respect to ...

Why do we need to listen to authority. Sometimes authority is toxic. We don't need to honor those who have authority. All we need to do is live and just not break the law.

There's a fly hopping around...

This was really helpful

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Love and miss your Videos

Or dad life rite .. ?.. Moms arent the only ones who raise their children... Ima father who is the primary teacher in my sons life💯

And dads

Like the bible work keep it up!

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​@UCv6sKOt49GjNAUGrpmiobdg Socialism, communism, Marxism are better ways at instrucing ethics, rules, law & order. The opposite of that would be anarchy.

I don’t agree with the situation and example given here. Children are living beings and they need to be expressive about what they think. If the other girl didn’t agree with her mom, that it totally ok. She just needs to be guided about how to put it out better. Which basically means communication improvement. Disrespect or rude is a very serious term to be imposed on a little kid. Also, I am usually not using other kids as examples because that teaches my kids to judge others. I usually prefer them to learn by their own selves. Why to use anyone else as any example at all? That’s their family dynamics. Also, the girl maybe creative , talented or good at sharing. And it’s a missed opportunity just based on this little episode. Sorry for my alternate views. You explained very well everything just that I hold a different approach to rudeness.

Why do you mention the bible so much. Why do you force your children to read it. Also that is disrespectful of you to force any type of religion on your kids.

Learn antinatalism.

She lost me at the the bible says...

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I hate this