Lawd I don't think I've ever heard someone on here get a GED and go off to get all these certifications and degrees and such. Get it!!!!

That's right girl...... get that education

School isn't for everyone but a GED is... totally agree. I got my GED in 2017 I am now getting my Associates in Business Administration

The issue is that she outgrew this dude and leaving him, although it hurts, is the best thing to do and maybe he will man up w/o you.

I know it's not for everyone but education truly is self empowering and a beautiful thing to embrace. However, don't just rely on book smarts because common sense and street smarts goes a long way too.

So this dude's reason for cheating was saying that he wasn't getting sex from her at home so he needs to get it elsewhere? Well that begs the question, where was he "getting some" during those 3 years he was in prison? 🤔

I'm glad to see someone who was able to get a GED and then go on to get certified in so many things. I know a lot of people don't like hearing it, but an education is empowering. It can really help pull you out of difficult situations and provide for you family when you wouldn't otherwise be able to. I would love to see fewer rappers and instead see more people put an emphasis on college degrees, trade schools, and certifications! 👍🏾

I like this guy, he is honest, hardworking, he ain't perfect but you know what?? he is better than half of the men that be on this show!

I like this guy Cedric. At least HE’S REAL. He IS what he IS.

I absolutely love it when women strive for excellence and come out on top

Sis said 'School ain't for everybody but a GED is!" I heard that! LMAO!

The man held down a great gig over 10 years and when he got into an accident and couldn't work as he was before, she abandoned him. The other dude was telling you right man, leave her alone!

I will never understand how people who have been together for 10+ years, decide to get married, and all of a sudden grow apart...

They could have made it together if each one of them would swallow their pride and forgive one another.

School ain't for everybody...but a GED is 😂😂

I listened and clearly he owned what he did, she's the one dodging the truth. You'd think she was the one locked up because he's the honest one. The judge saw what it was and gave that man props and went easy on her just not to drag it out.

He seems like a really nice guy, hardworking. I genuinely like him. glad the she got her education, but the he doesn't seem much bothered by the fact he didn't. works hard

At 7:54, that girl in the back started listening hard af when the wife was explaining about that motel text. Lol!

It is great to go to school and accomplish goals, however, it is no justification to be the way she has been towards her husband. She talks at the end about "owning up", however, she was so evasive and conniving when asked about cheating.

I like this couple, they are very genuine about how they feel.

;~``~; I ALWAYS LEARN SOMETHING FROM JUDGE LYNN TOLER...SHE HAS HELPED ME TO THINK BETTER ABOUT MYSELF AND FUTURE MARRIAGE!!! BLESSINGS!! THIS IS A PHENOMENAL CASE!!!!

I'm glad judge didn't put him down. Her education doesn't necessarily make her "better." She forgot she did get with a dude 30 days before went to jail for 3 1/2 years. No, I'm not putting down her education. Yes I have a BS in Management. But those hustles he had she could have teamed with him as a unit and made an empire. We get these European educations and forget to "come back home."

That lady will never be broke or jobless!!! She got degrees for days 👏🏽👏🏽

You get the man you PICKED. Im proud of both of them, schooling and working hard out of jail. Both are good people

Let me see if I've got this... they meet. Thirty days later, he goes to jail for 3 1/2 years. She sticks with him. (Sounds more like one of Judge Lynn's bounceable moments right there.) She gets her GED, a number of trade certifications, then hits college for associate degrees. He's a blue-collar laborer. Even before his accident, she should've seen this wasn't going to work long-term... he had no interest/motivation in joining her on the "better myself" ride. He owned up to his one night stand, but she seemed a little too smug responding to his accusations about her. Definitely better off elsewhere.

"bending corners" a new one for me😁

Gurl, he owned up to stepping out on you🧐🤦🏾‍♀️. She don’t listen 😑.

The Asian guy in the audience,wow 💕💕💕

Actually if you look behind the "lines" it seems as though she has lost a key word in a relationship...RESPECT !!

Having had alot of education does not necissarely make you a good wife..

Good job lady, education is the key, knowledge is power 🤛🏿

the asian guy in the back is cute!! ( sorry, it has nothing to do with the case)

The audience clapped when was reciting her credentials but it was crickets when he said he can build dog kennels.

I'm only 15 seconds in but like... if you've been together for 15 years and married for 4... how do you not know her by now?

This is a good example of how women think they can "change" a man. They were not equally yoked in their ambition and goals from the beginning but she stayed with him anyway. Now she is complaining that he wont "better himself". She cant blame anyone but herself

Withholding sex for 6 months is way too long in a marriage

I feel bad for her cause she really does seem hurt but baby you just gotta find a man on your level period

Go girl!!! I’m here for all the education!! 👩🏾‍🎓👩🏾‍🎓👩🏾‍🎓👩🏾‍🎓👩🏾‍🎓👩🏾‍🎓

she wants him to take responsibility for cheating but refused to accept that she cheated. his cheating occurred in the last six months of their being together during which time she refused him sex. she flaunts her academic achievement but was character bankrupt. if she had shown him more respect maybe things would have taken a different turn and I think she knew she killed the marriage.

Man she meeting up with dudes at motels. Miss me with that education crap. Disrespectful. Dude is honest.

I think dude was really in love and willing to change but she was riding that high horse

Its amazing to see when a person betters them self, but when you get to a point that the person you were with when you didn't have anything isn't worthy anymore that's not cool!!!

She came out in a red jacket which magically changed to a white jacket. Amazing!!

Thumbs up for her getting her education! Wonderful!!!

YOU DID TWO AND HE DID ONE ...PS YOU LIE ON THE STAND ABOUT THE HOTEL..OWN IT............

Judge Toler's laugh is so infectious @6:15. 😍

Thank Lord I don't have this judges job. 🤣😂😅

The problem is that…she just outgrew him. She improved herself while he was in jail…came up a little bit…and she “realized” that she didn’t need him. Once she started to improve herself, nothing he did from that point was ever going to be good enough for her. All of their other issues are secondary to this…even the cheating. I’m not excusing the cheating but it’s a cause and effect thing.

She will never have someone as loyal, respectful, loving as that guy

"One of the major problems that destroys relationships between couples is the problem of money. Yeah. You've got to face reality. That sweet love that y'all had hit the rocks of a hard budget hard." Dr. Amos Wilson

That paralegal degree didn’t tell her bring the papers for the Malibu to court? #justsaying #stillproudofher

Sweetheart 1st off congratulations with ur achievements. Secondly, u can't take everybody with u. Keep moving forward

How did she go from wearing a red jacket to a white one out of no where? Lol!

I love her…school is not for everybody but GED IS 🤣

All that education and she ended up a cheat

Glad they parted somewhat peacefully

If one more man says “I’m a man I have needs”...... smh use your hand and control yourself omg

Awwww, I'm conflicted over this one. They both made some bad choices.

She cheated at the hotel & she also lied about it, he admitted that he went outside their home and got his groove on. And the winner is: the man who told the truth...

so she got all that education and certs but doesn't think to bringnproofbof her claim to court? how you suing somebody over something but don't have any evidence? seems like she has the papers but no real world application of all that knowledge.

I don’t know her, but I’m very proud of her. 🙌🏽❤️

When she start stuttering at 7:53...chick in the back funny as hell

I liked this couple, but it seems like he needed to step his game up. Yes girl, get your education!

Are ppl band from having social life or friends because they are in a relationship? Can u never visit a friend, family or someone because of a relationship? Oh I think he meant to say 'sexually active' not 'sexual active.' That's why gettin a GED is at least necessary.

AWESOME, loved that she put street smarts WITH book smarts, what a wonderful feelin' to be aware of the surrounds & the knowledge of what to DO with it... in all of her accomplishments, he feels threatened bc she didn't INCLUDE him & THEIR relationship as on of her accomplishments... she left him behind or made him feel left behind & that's where street smarts have to step in and save the relationship... things HAPPEN, but nothin' happens to any of us that hasn't happened to someone else... TOGETHER, they can accomplish anything they join MINDS to do, WORKIN' together does wonders...

Why did she walk in with a different color blazer, and end up in the white one?

I'm just SOOO PROUD OF HER. And he needs to drink more water and moisturize his lips...

sexual ban has never & will never work in any marriage .

Why is it controlling when your mate wants the best for you? yall dudes kill me...

5 cars sounds like he's still dealing drugs

100% on this one Sista got that GED and kept climbing. My components are a little different from a man, you act like a roommate, we are roommates. Its hard for a man to understand that there is a difference between a woman that NEEDS you and a woman that WANTS you. When a woman needs you she puts up with disrespect and issues, when she wants you she sets the rules and its take it or leave it.

I think she did cheat.

Whoever did the graphics is petty putting the "bending corners" definition and crediting Cedric like that 😂😂😂. I like that term tho!

He's not a bum. Don't let cars, degrees, separate you because at the end of the day, when she lonely she can't hold a degree in bed or talk to a car. It's good she got her education on but she must remember it doesn't make her better than him. What the dick not good anymore, it's not a PHDick. Get out of here with that foolishness, love your man. The only thing standing between you and loving each other is a piece of paper

This always get me when it comes to females. They say dudes not treating them right and their feeling hurt, but on the other side they'll go sleep with some else whose not trying to be in their life and just wanting sex. smh

So his money is no good, just keep paying the half on the car lol

I'm just waiting for the Martian's comments 😁😁😁😁😁 he makes my DC nights

The problem is that she was with someone in jail, instead of just letting things go and finding her somebody on the outside, she waited. She's actively achieving things for herself and she wants him on her level, that's where she messed up. She didn't know him well enough to know what kind of goals and dreams this man had and she wanted to just make him have that same drive as her and that's now how life works. If I want to be a highpower attorney, but I'm dating someone and they're happy being a line cook at a restaurant, I don't have the right to try to push them to want to go higher if they don't want to. There's nothing wrong with having a job you like and making an honest living, I think that's the biggest problem we have is that we want to out Joneses the other ones to show how we're living. I do agree that he could at least get his GED and have that done. I think she was definitely creeping and that's why he creeped and neither one of them is right for that, but she was trying to minimize the dirt that she was doing. They're not on the same page or level and it's good they're getting a divorce.

I'm so proud of you sis!! Way to get your GED and pursue further education!!!

6 months without sex or some form of affection and ur married...sorry u will be cheated on.

Shes a career college goer. She has all these degrees but no job.

salute to this sista for striving for excellence

I don't dig this lady. She is full of herself. For someone who has all these qualifications and suing someone for 5K with no paperwork to back up her claim to is unforgiveable

Wow was she smelling herself. She wasn't doing anything that no other person should do for their life if they want it. He obviously was doing well without a degree. Everyone doesn't need school to be successful. She know she wrong.

This gentleman is very honest. I think they need to communicate more. This relationship can be fixed but the baggage is too much ( the guilt, the resentment, the anger), just let it all go.

Why do ppl keep thinking it’s ok for men to cheat and blame it on just being a man. This is one reason why men do what they do it’s socially acceptable

Be the person you are sir! There’s someone out there for you!

She did that

At 3:07 : Sorry but I couldn't help notice that hee haw smile lol

I thought he was saying "bike" when he was saying "back", talkin about his injury. Soon as I realized that, I instantly thought of the Tootsie Roll song...."to the front, to the front, to the bike, to the bike" I thought they was just sayin back like that to make it rhyme with "right" lol. I didnt know that was such a thing. Im so late...20 years late to be exact, smh.

Yo GO GIRL! SUPER WOMAN!!! Just inspired me to finish this dang on MA with 3 classes left!

She's a professional student, yet so unintelligent.

She out grew him and she was trying to pull him up to her level and he fighting her. I think she should walk away

Omg gr888888 job ...u r very aspiring....wow u can do so much better seriously ....keep up the good work ...u really should be a motivational speaker for a lot of people that yes we can make it as well...

CONVERSE! He said "UMAN" I love it!

I thought I was giving her an interview for a second lmaooo I was about to hire her

Both are suffering from hoarding disorder The lady hoards certificates and the dude, cars

Wow judge Lynn is so beautiful !! Her hair and makeup is on point

In all fairness, school stuff, especially university degrees, are often worthless.

Bending corners=riding around 😂