He's 14 years older than her and very immature. He can't keep a job, emotionally abusive, a drunk, and living in a hotel but having another baby 😒 There are different forms of birth control. Bringing more innocent kids into such a toxic relationship and instability is really selfish. She needs to leave this man-child, and get therapy because she is clearly broken.

He scooped her up at 17 or 18 to try to control her because she was barely legal. He was already over 30 and knew he had issues, talking about he was lonely and just got out of a relationship, that's why the other woman left probably got tired of his sh#t. Now this young woman only 25 stuck with 3 babies but she has family support she can do it and if he won't see his children leave him lonely with the bottle.

Didn't think i would like anyone else but Toler on this show but i'm loving judge Star. She's doing awsome job.

He's 14 years older, but got with her when she was 18. Calling her immature, while she states he damaged her. There is no coming back. He is not stable, and abusive. She needs to raise herself, and stop allowing him to sabotage her growth. He is grooming her. Young lady run, and do everything through the courts.

He doesn’t take accountability for ANYTHING. Girl…You know he is not fixable. Leave him. He will never leave you.

I Love The Way Judge Star, gets straight to the point with no fillers nor sugar coating.....👏

When it comes to infidelity, the only two options are (1) forgive your partner and stay (2) leave. After she cheated, he should have just left. Because he cannot get past it.

I love Judge Starr telling people the whole truth and nothing but the truth!❤😂

Age difference is 14. She is 25 with 3 kids. They have been together for 7 years. She was 18. This is why you do not marry before 30. She is mature. They are homeless. She needs to go to Domestic Violence shelter and help for women with children. Thank you Judge Star for offering resources to the MOTHER and her children. If I had the money, I would pay her rent for a year or two.

🤦🏾‍♀️smh This is the kind of stuff that makes me feel sooooooooo grateful to be single🎉🎉🎉

This dude is not the one. You can tell she feels trapped knowing she is carrying his baby….. I think she can get on some kind of assistance for her and the kids that’s better than what he is providing. I love how Judge Star can pull the truth out of anyone! 😅

Girl please walk away from him he's an abuser period.

Judge Star and Robert make a great team. I love the aftercase banter between the two of them. For her comments, decisions, facial expressions are priceless, Robert's expressions really add to the episodes. Great teamwork!

Definitely a case of an older man manipulating a younger woman.... I mean they have been together since she was like 18. She still hasn't gotten to know herself.... she needs to RUN and not look back!

7 months in a hotel??! And he's too good for a job??! And u want to verbally abuse people??!!

I love that the judge is not a fool!!

She threw her life away. Beautiful girl and chose wrong man. She is young and it’s not to late you can turn it around sis. Leave him and focus on yourself your kids and building a comfortable life

Sucks cause she was young and got trapped by an abuser basically. She was 18! :(

He's definitely manipulating and controlling her point blank there's nothing else to that. If he lets go his control he knows that she can leave.

A 30 year old man, has no business messing with that young girl in the first place.

Wow so he thinks putting his family in a hotel is normal 🤔

1. I will never understand a man marrying a woman over 10 years younger than himself and then complain about immaturity on her end. SHE WAS 18!!! She was still a child. He got with her to control her and he may be narcissistic by the way they moved so fast. 2. For HER to move that fast with a man that much older than herself, something within was already broken but HE damaged her. There's no saving that marriage. Once she heals, she'll find out why she even got with him. 3. She doesn't have to be stuck because there are so many resources available for women with children including housing. She could literally be living a better life within 90 days if she takes advantage of the resources.

Judge Star took the words right out of my mouth. He is an older man looking for a young woman to groom. He honed in on the fact that she needed help in some sort of way. I’m quite sure he’s been physically abusive to her as well. 25 w/ three small children , that’s a lot stress & hard work to do alone these days.

I’m only seconds in and she looks so miserable/unhappy hopefully the Judge helps her get right🙏🏽

Awwwe, she is so sweet, I hate that her parents didn't step in 🤔 or where's her brothers because he need some straightening.

Judge you really make me happy, you told him off.

This is why Judge Toler used to preach for women to control their fertility, as they lose all leverage and choices, the more children they have. As sad as this case is. If she didn't run when she was child free, she's not going to leave now she has children for him. If and when she does leave, it will be much further down the line when things are terrible and she can't ignore/cope anymore.

She went for a free phone, he put her on his plan and 2 weeks later she moved in with him. Madness from the beginning, 7 years the man can't hold down a steady job and you keep having babies?? What the what? Madam you gotta know when to cut your losses.

He’s a cornball! Why did he stay after she cheated?he could have after he found out! Why hold it over her head? And the judge is right, he’s an older man who groomed a young girl coz they’ve been together for 8 years and she’s now 25, he’s 38 disgusting 😢

Are we gonna talk about the fact that he was 32 when she was only 18 and got her knocked up immediately. Then has the audacity to say his three kids and wife living in a hotel is satisfactory! Wow 😒

I've been where she is. She's scared to leave and feels if she does then she will fail her kids and not be able to do it. She can do it.

Love, love, love Judge Star. She tells it like it is. I love the format of her show. Judge Star rocks!!!

Sis, don't let him make you no more than a baby factory! Get your life back on track....you're beautiful and smart. You got this!

I can’t stand when men say if you leave I won’t see the kids anymore or nobody is going to want you grow up mature adults see their kids separated or not he doesn’t want to take any accountability that’s a problem, girl run!

Girl please leave, and don't look back. You really needs a divorce young lady. You can do better.

Miss' Tell that Lil' BOY BYE!🙄 BE DONE!

Judge Star, everything is on point! Your dress, shoes, makeup: everything!!!👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾

So he was with her when she was 18 and he is 14 years older....

Girl love yourself n your kids. Just co parent with him. He makes lots of excuses for calling her names n etc.

He is horrible and won’t work 😮Adios amigo

Judge Star's make-up is on point . Glamorous and classy

watch out for people who differentiate when they are, and are not being honest by saying honestly before a sentence. Honest people do not need to announce when they are and are not being honest.

Be out, give him 6 months to do right. Get a stable job, and don't drink anything. Good job Judge Star, read him like an open book! Own your own ish.!

I don’t believe for a second they got together when she was 18, they’re just saying that for the cameras

Loving ME beautiful, classy, the Honorable Judge Star! She is LOVEly, so smart, also funny & LOVE her outfits, jewelry, hair & her make up. Adore her relationship with Robert, handsome Bailiff, especially how he takes her hand to assist her so kindly to assist her off the bench, so respectfully! Robert is such a gentlemen! I look forward to their assessment of each case at the end. Judge Lynn Toler was my favorite, but Judge Star is such a breath of fresh air!! Judge Star thank you for your great new Divorce Court show. God bless you and your family!🙏🙏🙏💖💗💙💚💛💜💝💞💟❣💐🌸💮🏵🌹🌺🌼🌼🌷⚘🤗

She was 18 yo. He was a grown ass man! We know what happened here.... 😔

If he says in a better way one more time 👊🏽

Yasss Star ⭐️ she’s slaying this season 🗡

I will never understand women that have more than one kid with a man with no stability

I really wish women who are in situations like this had the mind and strength to leave

Anybody else tear up while she sat there crying 😢 from he just stood there wouldn't out a blink of remorse. Young women look and learn . My heart goes out to her.

39yrs old and can’t keep a job…. & she’s immature!?!?🥴😫

She was about to throw the gavel at him. Alright Sister💗💚

That man ruined her life.

I am loving Judge Stars hair.

Judge Star u are all that. I can’t believe u guys hit the jackpot. She is as good as judge Toler.🎉😂❤ Luv her

I agree with the judge but she doesn’t have many options. This dude needs to do better. We all get tired sometimes but take care of your responsibilities.

How does he feel comfortable at 39 w/ multiple kids and not keep a job?!?!! YIKES 😳🥴😂

Judge Lynn Toler would have called him " Tired, rude, tacky trifling, good for nothing and raggedy" lol Did I miss any? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

This was a great episode! Star Jones saw RIGHT THRU HIM! And, she also read the situation right! That girl needs to LEAVE ASAPO! He uses his behavior as an excuse to punish her for cheating.

Judge Starr, you tell it how it is every time, and I love it. I used the advice you give in my relationship. I hope this Young Lady find her strength and her self-worth.

Judge Star is the Queen!

So she was 18 and he was 32 when they got married?! 😮😳 ain’t no way they just up and got married but I’m not judging lol too close for comfort my mama would have freaked out so bad

This. Woman. Is. Not. Divorcing. Him. 😂

So she was 18 and he was 32 when they got together? That's disgusting

He rocking the cradle. They been together 7 years meaning she was 18 and he was 32

This so call man took advantage of 18 child at 32. Terrible and lazy guy. He emotionally abusive towards her

I must say your hair looks divine and what a lovely dress you have on today, and your jewelry perfect.

STAY OUT OF JAIL ''ESE'', men don't create children, then begin taking breaks and going on vacations, MAN-UP 😡💯

It seems like he met her when he had a job and she needed money and literally trapped her. Thankfully her family is helping her.

Star: You want your wife to understand you have her best interest at heart Me: Not with that mustache 😑 Edit: Her parent(s) really failed her. At 18 years old she had no business getting on with a 32 year old man. He never had to prove who he was because he showed her a little kindness that blew her mind she went all in, 7 years later with 3 kids and a man with ego but no work ethic is a dangerous thing. Glad they will offer her resources. These are the young ladies who really need a mentor to come along side them and help them see things for what they really are. She needs to say good bye to him and put him on child support. But, she doesn’t seem like she is strong enough to do that if she manages to get away from him-that would be a feat onto itself.

This women is in an abusive marriage flat out! He got all the excuses in the world why his old butt can’t keep a job! How are you a man with family and children is being taken care of by someone else? But you cuss her and belittle her, please Judge Star help EXIT this domestic violence relationship! Verbal and emotional abuse the top two tags of domestic violence and they take a very long time try and heal from 😢😢💜💜💜

if I was her I would throw away the key and never look back and tell him go and kick rocks

This guy is giving toxic vibes a man who has no self control over alcohol and the fact that he broke glass shows how impulsive he can be, and the last thing you want is a physical abusive this is not good relationship,I don't know why the guy went to jail but she shouldn't have cheated they should've just broken up,this relationship should end.He clearly can't look back the past,and maybe because he was irresponsible is why he went to jail,this is not good characteristics for a sustainable marriage.

Judge Love your outfits Judge fly honey 😊

You STILL Need to LEAVE His RAGGEDY BEHIND!🤔

If he would of been my husband & he disrespects me calling me ugly names,he won’t have not one tooth 🦷 left in his mouth!! 🤬😡

Judge Star is absolutely the best Judge I’ve ever seen. She is real and she’s funny and she cares. I pray for this young lady. I was this young lady. I left my abusive relationship and went into a DV shelter. It was the happiest day of my life. I saved my self and my kids. My book is about to drop “Love don’t hit” it will be on Amazon on 6 weeks.

Girl get your pictures & your plants and GO!

He annoying me just by looking at him 🙄

99 cent store….. the men in this world now really get on my nerves. What happened to leading your home. Disgraceful.

It wasn’t fidelity she did it before they got married period

I would stay in a women's shelter than live like that.

Totally loving Judge Star 🤩😍🤩😍

Judge Star you are the best.. all the way from the Bahamas.. I enjoy watching divorce court for the first time..

Struggle love never ends well and I hope he doesn’t hurt her if she is trying to leave. Put this man on child support you are going to need that money with three children baby girl.

Been there done that...sold the T shirt on Oprah....lol yes! Judge Star! Own it😂

Ugh...another episode where there is a 10+ year age difference in your twenties and they wonder why there's maturity differences. It's manipulation and/or desperation on the older person's part and people still get in these relationships

Mrs. Martinez didn’t see the red flags within 7 years to leave him in the first place, she must be needed citizenship to stay in the USA🤦🏾‍♀️

Been together for 7 years, he has no job. So, yeah, it's a great idea to have a THIRD child! Yikes!!

Judge Starr your eye brows are stunning!

A lot time’s keep you around after you messed up just to remind you of what you did and to beat you up about it! Forgiving is to let it go! You can even forgive and walk away but what he’s doing is childish!

If deal breakers was a person. He's a manipulator, jobless, disrespectful, and irresponsible. Oh hell naw that's why they want younger women so they can be their loser selves while trying to groom her to be exactly how he wants and accept him as he is.

Bought the T shirt, saw it on Oprah. I love Judge Star. She rocks

Judge star looks GORGEOUS in that dress!

He stole her youth and her life. She wants to leave but feels trapped. She can't afford to leave him. It takes 2 to tango but he put 3 babies in her on purpose. What a hellish way to live.

Together for 7 years. She is 25 he is 39. So they met when she was 18 and he was 32

He’s a narcissist, living of the back of the fact he had a car sales business and demanding respect. Totally delusional. You cannot pay your bills and you do not want to work. Crazy

That is what a controller looks like

Tell him Judge