All I can hear is Judge Toler saying “Never let a man tell you more than once that he don’t want you”. He’s told her AND showed her and she STILL chooses be blinded by his words and actions. Hunny keep on waiting, he’s going to keep using you until he done and marry the next woman within 6 months. 🥴🥴🥴

Listen shuga, that man don’t want you. You can have 17,000 more babies and he still wouldn’t want you. Stop trying to force yourself on him. You deserve someone who loves you the same.

"I'm gonna be there for the baby not for you." Women your life was in the line & he did not care. Girl run!!!

He's been consistently showing her he's not into her and she's been consistently not wanting to believe him

My jaw dropped when he said he don’t believe in love. Why display those feelings if you don’t truly feel that way

Why is sis allowing this little hobbit to string her along like this? 😒

I'd never let a man get so comfortable he thinks I wouldn't leave. The things these women stay through is mind boggling.

When a dust bucket thinks he’s a prize 😂

His own hair is running away from his b.s..but yet you still there. 🙄🙄

How many ways does he have to say he don't love her, he don't want her, he don't care about her? A 4 year long hookup is still just a hookup.

I can hear Judge Toler asking the question " Is the dating market that tight? Is a good man hard to find?" 😅😂😅

He don’t believe in being in love til he meets the person he falls in love with

Judge Star killed me at the end!!! “Girl that’s yo man” 😆😆🤣🤣😂😂😂💀💀💀

Someone hurt this woman real bad, and she doesn't know her worth. I pray she finds it quick for the sake of her children, they deserve a happy mom.

2 babies! It’s terrible the situations we put ourselves in 🤦🏽‍♀️ 8 years, 2 kids and an engagement and still talking about no romance 🙄 sounds desperate

I heard “I don’t believe in marriage”, but I have never heard “I don’t believe in love.”

Never let a man tell you more than once that he don’t want you

Her desperation is sad..... he's just tolerating her

Yeah sweetie he doesn't want you I can tell by the first five minutes! He's basically screaming he doesn't want you🤧🤦‍♀️

Oof! Karma is gonna come for that man in the form of a woman he actually wants but she’ll do him how he’s doing her. Prepare for your heartbreak, my boy!! 😂 Also, I never feel sorry for ppl who choose to stay and keep complaining. What you accept, you deserve. Good luck to that lady.

Why is she NOT listening to him 😩😩😩😩 he does not want you 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻!!!!

When he said he doesn't believe in LOVE. Runnnnnnnnnnnn don't force it.

This man's heart is cold. Run!!

“I don’t feel like being in love is real” yikes lol gone head and move on sis.. he is not the one.

Man..... this guy said he's working on his craft as a PHOTOGRAPHER and that's why he can't get married..... I'm like SIR does that mean you can't be a husband and take PICTURES at the same time?!?!! 🤣🤣🤣

I don't think this dude really wants anybody. I think a friends with benefits situation suits him fine, which wouldn't be a problem except for they brought kids into it.

He does not love her, girl move on

He says they're "friends with benefits" for 4 years. And she believes they're inseparable even though they are just benefiting each other. And she accepted and was cool with being “Ms.benefit”, shame!

This man thinks he is the prize, and she is helping him to think like it! This woman is so attractive and seems supportive of her partner, yet she cannot see her worth. She cannot be helped until she sees herself differently.

BOY BYE! He would have been OUTSIDE The Window Looking In! 🤔

“I don’t believe in love”. These men are pitiful 😂😂

Not Doo-Doo on the shoe 😂😂😂😂, I love me some Starr!!If it don't fit don't force it was a couple!!!

i can’t believe how stupid he sounded when he was addressing the birth of his 2nd child … 🙄

Niece, pack your things and GO. That man don't even like you. He's with you out of obligation.

Baby at some point you have to STANNNND UP. This man has showed her no regard and basically said he’s in it for the kids and she wants him to be in love so bad but he’s clear that he’s NOT and she did not take the hint.

Who hurt Tom Thumb talmbout he don’t believe in love. 😂😂

girl... are you listening to this man.. HE DON'T WANT YOU SIS !!

He doesn't like, love, nor care about her. Anything associated with her including their kids, is tolerated. When asked if the kids were wanted/planned only she answered. The look on his face was not amused. He tolerates her because she is convenient. Though he says he doesn't believe in love, he doesn't believe in it with her. She will never be a priority. I wouldn't be surprised if he's actually looking elsewhere..

This "man" is absurd like foreal.... For her to even want him to keep disrespecting her is beyond me... Sad to see she really thought she was gonna force him to be watever she wanted him to be. But when u allow a low down trifling human being to dictate your life and feelings that's when u take a big L. She likes it

Ms. Star Jones is soooo Real 😂

He doesn't love her, she wants to be married, he wants to do the right thing and marry the mother of his children. Judge Star's verdict is right, they should stay together. But like she said, Ms Whitlock will grow unhappy once she's married because she still won't be his priority. She's caught in a loop and she wants to stay in it. Good luck to the Hills.

When you are a "friend with benefits", you don't let your emotions get involved. You definitely don't start having children with the " friend". Now here she is upset and complaining because he's not ready to get married.

That stupid laugh, when the judge revealed that she slept with him the first time she met him, like she thinks that’s cute.🙄 Why in gods name are people always so focused on what’s between the legs, is that all there is to want in a person?…..

I hope she truly understands that this man child does not want her and does what’s best for her. When he said he doesn’t believe in love my jaw dropped!! She looked so broken and defeated. If you’re reading this sis, PLEASE KNOW that you are worthy of the love you desire. This guy just isn’t it. Best of luck to you and your children!

Girl he don't want you, this getting married is high class ignorance.

Yall was friends with benefits for 4yrs and just so happen to get pregnant he ask you to marry him to not look like the bad guy. Girl dont you never again give a man the milk for free.

Mighty proud he is standing there with his head looking like Jim Carrey as the Mask talking bout he's a catch.

Did he just not apologize again for missing his child being born?🤔 girl you can do better! He could care less how you feel about ANYTHING. YALL NEED TO JUST COPARENT AND GO YOUR SEPERATE WAYS.

This woman is not listening to this man. He is not that into you. He does not want you. He is only there because it's comfortable. When he finds the woman he wants he will leave you high and dry. Girl get you some sense and leave this man. Realize your value and don't remain a door mat.

That man doesn’t want her. She needs to run and not have one more baby with him.

Women REALLY Need to STOP. . . SMH! You already know He AIN'T About NOTHING! 🙄

Why would u want to marry someone who does not believe in love. And I see she is going to stay with him and keep being unhappy. Cause nothing will change.

Girl that’s yo man!! 😂😂😂

These lil men are a trip smh

Y’all talking bout love language and this man is a whole narc lol he literally doesn’t believe in it

He’s telling her 😮i don’t want you leave me alone please 🙏

He's loving her the way he wants to love her and she wants to be loved in her way. LISTEN when people tell you who they are.

She ain't trying to hear nothing he saying. Lawd it's soo sad

LADY' WHY are You wasting Your TIME? ? ? 🤔

Girl, give the ring back and co parent as friends. He will never be the man you’re imagining.

That's the problem with some women. They don't listen. Homegirl got this " I can change him” mentality. But dude is constantly saying he doesn't want what she wants. Just leave him alone. But you know what's going to happen? She's going to have 4 and 1/2 more kids with him to try to force his hands just to be a single mom of 28 kids

I can see him on tiktok talking about how women beg for marriage and etc...

He believes in love he just doesn’t love YOU

"Friends with benefits" is just mutual abuse. 🙏🏿✝🕎

I don’t understand how this woman could ever misconstrue that this man wants her in any form or fashion. She’s convenient to him and that never works out ladies smh

Lmao Wtf Was That? 2:26 😂😂😂

Not..." don't treat her like doo doo on your shoes" I'm weak😂😂

#girldatsyoman 🤦🏿‍♀️🤭🤣🤣😂😂🤣 well said Judge Star ⭐ well said🤣

He believes in love just not with her.

He’s on the down low

“I might as well take this doo doo off my shoe” 😂😂😂

Girl, HE DOES NOT WANT YOU!!! Quit fighting to keep this man. Let him go. If he's that insensitive that he wouldn't show up for his daughter's birth, he really doesn't give a damn. He is extremely narcissistic!!! Ooh, they live in my current city and state!!!

So I guess he don't love his kids

Miss, RUN' Real Fast! 🙄 The DAY He CALLS Whining refer Him Back to His Beliefs. ALL that Mess about being the Father of Your Children👉🏼ANYWAY! ! !

I do not understand why men love the idea of stringing a woman along but don’t want to be with her but at the same time don’t want her with anyone else this is the main reason why a lot of women want to remain single💯

....He doesn't want sis anymore,when a dude refuses sex he's preoccupied,he loves her but not in love with her,he needs to lose her to appreciate what he had

After 9 minutes in it's safe to say he doesn't love her. He only gave her a ring because that's what he thought he was supposed to do. After seeing the whole thing I was correct but he dont want to let her go because she benefits him in some way and once he no longer needs her then he will be honest after wasting years of her time

This is the worst case of unrequited love if I ever did see one

I love the judge realness!

Girl that man has zero emotions. Run.

He only proposed because of the kids

This really makes me sad for her and what she’s settled for and I don’t think she can see it at all

Honestly, I don't believe he has found the right person to fall in love with. She is an open door, he knows that, and he takes advantage of that. He doesn't want to be with her. I think she is in a fantasy world because they have children together. She's pushing for something, but he is not even though any man will accept what you're offering. #myopinion

She needs to find someone to love her - he ain't all that anyway. Cold fish

If a man told me that he didn't believe in love I wouldn't even allow him to be in any type of connectivity to me...

Dang Y'all... When the Judge urged him to tell her the truth, it just broke my heart. She deserves SO much better.

ITS CLEAR AS DAY,, HE DOES NOT WANT HER ,, THIS WAS A LONGGGGG HOOKUP

She should have left him at the house party, left him with no number or anything.

He said he doesn’t believe in love 🤨 That’s not the first time she’s heard that. Focus on u and your babies, sis

When judge Star ask him if he wanted to marry he looked up and ask her the question she asked him clear indication he's about to lie

So many ppl marry out of obligation. Worst thing you could ever do

Don't make a man tell and show you more than once he doesn't want you..Judge Lynn Toler..these words came from her late mother..

Judge Star definitely knows struggles in people.

He not into her.

I agree. Amen. Yes yes yes. I can hear that as well. It's time to cut ties. Run

That black bow tie though!😂

She need to get comfortable with being uncomfortable, she just used to him and that’s why she accepting all that

I respect this man. He's stepped up and is willing to make a committed life with her protect and provide for his family. He never wavered in his answer. A man to do otherwise would be called all kinds of names. It's up to her to decide if she's willing to forsake her love language of affirmations and time spent because he ain't got it. They're bffs who clearly have an active sex life, I don't see why everyone including the judge is painting him in such a bad light or saying he don't want her. He clearly said he doesn't believe in being in love. That's it that's all.

The laugh tells it all. BIg GIRL, just don't settle.

What planet is the dude from? Girl - he is screaming at you - telling you WHO he is. WHY won't you believe him?????