Oh yes that is going no where

@@jamaicaninthekitchen4358 . She’s dumb and stupid. She should’ve left him after three months of meeting him.

He also said he has no interest in marrying her that’s a wast of 15 years sad

@@tondujosiane8655 . Yeah, she allowed herself to be used for 15 years. She’s a doggone fool.

I couldn't have said it better! 👏

And he’s not man enough to leave her but she stayed in whatever this is

It's not about chemistry between you and the men . Also know how the men feel about you.

Always ask how they feel about you before you ladies open legs to a man that's not your shoe size.

You lying!!! Girl let me press play. Aint no way

@mogetit5999 She's not woman enough to put her big girl panties on and take responsibility for her life. She made up a narrative about this man. They don't live together and he's been telling her and showing her that she's not for him. Men aren't always to blame for women's bad choices.

Awesome! Keep going!

Best wishes love

FIX IT!!!!

You NEVER give your all to someone who doesn’t feel the same way about you.

I'm 42, 15 yrs in already, please don't do it Sis.

Your father is a beautiful black man you Bless

You’re right! The most she should’ve spent was three to six months, not two years.

Your father was right. Wise man

Yeah. They can't even be friends. He's too much of a prick.

He’s definitely a butthole. His Arrogant and condescending behavior towards her is disturbing. He shouldn’t have agreed to appear on the show if there’s nothing going on between them. I’m with Judge Star, “I don’t like his style “.

He’s a joke

It’s like he saw her as a challenge, not wanting to actually be a part of her life and future just …. “Let me see if I can make her break her celibacy promise to herself.”

No... he just didn't want her!15years!! You dont know his age, you never met his family, he uses a condom during sex for 15byears!! He uses her... and shes allowed it

EXTREMELY condescending.

He will get his own back all he had to say was I don't want a relationship. I wouldn't even be a friend cut away completely karma will bite him i would love to see it

Exactly. It makes no sense that he hasn’t slept with her in 2 years but she still thinks they are in a relationship. Seems like he’s lying and manipulative.

@@jo5755 Something is wrong with her. He's been totally honest. She is delusional.

He’s a true narcissist

Yeah, to try to get you to have sex with them.

Yep!

Great advice

@@lexislove639 . The best thing to tell him is that you just haven’t found the right person yet.

@@tummieflowers2681 oh honey Im not telling these men nothing… Im out of vagina… my ex ate it all! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

She can still have a child using a donor egg. But the whole package of the happy family it's too late with him.

She can still have a child but she wasted so many years.

@@justmythoughtsjustmythough7202 . It’s NOT good. She’s too old.

@@tummieflowers2681 It’s old as men that should be the worry. They’re the ones producing autistic children.

@@justmythoughtsjustmythough7202 . Usually, a man’s sperm count still works even though it’s rare for them to have problems.

True

Yep

Exactly 👏🏾 💯

The word narcissist needs to be banned from usage. Obviously she was good with it because she stayed for 15 years.

@@roslynhawkins1475 obviously you’ve never dealt with or know the signs of a narcissist which is why you think she stayed with him for 15 years for no reason.

And part of her 30's and now wasting her 50's.

IKR… “Pay attention to the signs”

She’s holding herself captive she needs therapy

This is a SAD case… move on please 🏃🏾‍♀️& he’s proud of how’s he has treated her!!🥴😫

Nope. She chose that prison.

He been sticking his thing in her mouth. She considers that to be sex and he doesn't

I agree.

@@mechielehardwick2844 . He might probably be married and NOT even tell her.

Sure youe right.

@@beatricesmith2847. If he's in another relationship, my question is why would he invite her to his house?

And she didn't know his birthday!!

Yes after 15 years

She doesn’t even know his birthday 🤦🏾‍♀️ I have the full ssn within less than six months. And my boyfriend at the time now husband gave it to me 🤦🏾‍♀️😒

@@Passion85031 . Exactly! When I was 21, I knew better. My ex told me his birthday around the time we first met. I even met his mother the fourth or fifth time we met. He even brought his grown daughter around me without even telling me before that she would be there. That’s how I knew that he was serious about me. If a man wasn’t serious about a woman, he wouldn’t introduce her to his grown children. The man in this video is hypocritical for talking about her hygiene when he left the trash in his house and she had to take it out.

He saw her reading a book on celebacy and saw it as a challenge!!! This ain't even a relationship - this is a waste of her time and energy.

You know men ain’t gonna tell you! You have to know as a woman when someone don’t want you! They will waste your entire life if you let them!

​@@biancablonc4609 yep

He thinks it’s funny too 🤢

​@@biancablonc4609 If he wanted to, he would have. Since he didn't, he doesn't want to. All men everywhere

She allowed this clown to steal all her good years. All her hopes and dreams.

I picked up on this too. He has someone else, while he played around with this chick.

Exactly! If he felt this way about her and they haven’t slept together in 2 years but you come on divorce court as if you’re a couple that needs help. It just doesn’t make any sense.

I picked that up too, and that’s when I knew he had another woman. No way y’all both have 2 drastically different times periods going from when the last time they slept together. That woman ain’t that crazy. He been with that other woman for 2 years.

PLEASE BLOCK HIM LADY.

I don’t feel bad for her she knew what it is 🤦🏾‍♀️😒

😂😂😂thank you I was lost on that

He was hypocritical for calling her ‘dirty’ when she had to tell him when to take his trash out.

Yes.....heard him.

@@deemaverick987 . He’s obviously not clean either.

You can tell he thinks he"s Gods gift to women . She not clean enough but you been sleeping with her for 15 years ,What that make you?

She did read signs at ALL

spot on

spot on

I don’t even think he has another family. He’s just merciless. Maybe his double life is that he’s bisexual or just wants to take advantage of women. I don’t know if he has other children.

@Tummie Flowers I say the say thing. He gives me gay vibes

Yes

Yup

She’s 53, it’s easier if you’re younger she’s probably sick and tired of being unhappy and lonely

@@bak3456yea but she’s in a relationship with him and still Lonely

😅😅

He’s definitely heartless. It pisses me off even more that he was laughing for the whole time. He called her a ‘booty call’ at 8:00. I blame her for NOT being able to figure out this man doesn’t want her by not telling her his birthday or introducing her to his family. He continued to use a condom when she told him that she wanted a child. There’s NO way that she couldn’t have been able to figure out that this man didn’t want anything from her besides SEX❗️

It doesn't matter if he's heartless or not... The fact is that she knew what kinda man he is and still wasted.15yrs with him Man used her for pussy He stood in that court room and said everything he told her N she still wanted him That's her business

@@dominiqueprescott4732 . You’re damn right! He’s heartless. But, she still should’ve still known that he didn’t want her or any children by her. 1) He constantly used a condom after she told him that she wanted a child. He told her to adopt a child. 2) He told her by NOT telling her his date of birth. 3) He told her by NOT introducing her to his family. 4) He told her by letting the relationship last for fifteen years without MARRIAGE❗️

@@dominiqueprescott4732 . If she still wants him, then she’s EXTREMELY STUPID❗️He disrespected her by laughing the WHOLE TIME.

Damn, the truth. She seems a little unhinged. Her energy is off

She reminds of the lady in the Tyler Perry movie who got finessed by the young guy

i like that last sentence

​@@biancablonc4609 I remember...the movie with all the damn bad wigs

@@cadillacdeville5828 😂🤣😂😅

Definitely!

Right and she had the nerve to speak in tongues 😂😂😂

@@VashtiPerry . If she was so religious, she wouldn’t have taken herself cheap. She would value herself better.

They are equally at fault

@@Tamfel_85 . She’s at fault for NOT being attentive to the signs. He’s at fault for using her for 15 years when he thought she wasn’t clean. He called her a ‘booty call’ at 7:55. Therefore, he highly disrespected her on national television.

Very sad...Whoa he has never shared his birthday or introduced her to his family in 15 years...Whoa!

I wouldn’t even want to be with a person if I never met their family, especially if they are around their family and they never introduced me. That’s the first red flag right there that he don’t see you as his wife or his girlfriend.

Wisdom has nothing to do with age

@@DJ-vj4vi . It’s supposed to. Unfortunately, some older people don’t have it.

Real sad, I would have spent 15 years single and happy .

That’s right! This woman is a doggone fool.

I still think that there’s some type of mental disability with this woman. The man constantly showed her that he didn’t want any children with her by constantly using a condom. He showed her that he didn’t want her by not introducing him to at least one relative. He showed her by NOT living with her at all. He showed her by not even telling her his age and birthday.

@Tummie Flowers Maybe so. All the red flags were there, and she ignored them. She wanted what she wanted, and she was going to do her best to make him give her what she wanted.

@@sweetsweet81 . People NEED to understand that they CANNOT change a middle-aged person over 40. Let alone over 50. This man was ALREADY in his 40s when he met her. He is five years older than her. She met him when she was 38, he was 43. People in their 40s are already set in 99% of their ways. He wasn’t a young man in his 20s. Even young men in their 20s still tell and show you straight up that they don’t want anything serious. A young man in his 20s might NOT be set in most of his ways until 25 or 30 because men mature slower than women. But, a man over 40 is certainly set in their ways. He’s NOT that young anymore.

@@tummieflowers2681 I wholeheartedly agree!

👇🏼🙅🏽‍♀️🙅🏽‍♂️🤮🤮🤮👏🏽👿🙅🏽🤦🏽🤡💩💩💩👎🏽

Yes big time Jerk

Yep!

Yes he did... standing there with his lips poked out like he's posing for the world.

😂😂😂

Thissss!!!! ESPECIALLY the last part! 💯👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

Facts because I questioned why would he come on here, smh! I doubt his wife & girlfriends will like this but they’re probably smarter than this lady & don’t care.

@Nancy Write . I kind of figured out that he had another woman when he said that the last time he’s been intimate with Chantell was two years ago. He was indirectly talking about the other woman that he had. If he had another woman, he should’ve just said it instead of deceiving Chantell.

No, she’s IMMATURE❗️If she was mature, she wouldn’t have been so naive.

I think that she was spiritually immature. That man is the devil's nephew. He said, if she was so celibate why is she reading a book. In his statement lies the truth and a lie. He knew that the book was just a visage. That makes sense to me. Ms. Christopher spoke in tongues therefore I can conclude that she must believe that God is able to sustain her life. Why read a book, when the mighty power is within her. Silly sung by Denise Williams is the theme song to her story.

@@Fanouvvi . It doesn’t have anything to do with spirituality. She’s just mentally slow and couldn’t pick up on the signs. That’s why he took advantage of her. I agree with you that he’s the “DEVIL.” If he thought she was “dirty”, he should’ve STOPPED having sex with her. He disrespected her during the whole case. He called her a “booty call” at 8:01 and said “Here comes the waterfall.” That showed zero respect or consideration for her feelings. He was laughing and smiling the whole time, too.

@@tummieflowers2681 Sir, spiritually has everything to do with it. She showed signs of carnality. She was deceived by his words. He asked her about the book about celibacy, 15 years later she is defamed and heartbroken. It’s foolishness on her behalf. She was willing to be engaged and conceive a child with someone who is unequally yoked. Besides satan is the accuser of the brethren. He publicly made a mockery out of her. I agree with you Tummie, about his character but her character was beyond being mentally slow because she lacked spiritual discernment.

@@Fanouvvi . I’m a woman. Carnality has to do with things that are of the world. I don’t see how this relates to carnality. You seem to be a religious person. Even people who are NOT religious have much more better sense than her. You don’t need to be religious to have common sense. She’s extremely naive. Some people on this post even said that she had a learning disability.

I thought the same thing, this must be acting

A lot of women do this. They hear what they want to hear and stick around hoping the man would change. It's easy to get caught up and many times the man play into it just to fees his ego or to have you there as a fall back.

@@kimaleycreese28 men does it too especially with women that are younger than them they stick around wanna do everything for her than when they see her in a serious relationship they wanna hurt her but the rule that i apply for my life is that if a man is interested in me and I don't feel the same I don't let them do any favors for me

@@islandgirlruby2750 . NO, this is REAL❗️She’s just OLD and STUPID.

@@biblosantral . I met an older man who tried to change me when he knew that I didn’t want him. The difference between the older man that I met and the woman in this video is that she wanted a committed relationship with this man. Whereas, the older man that I knew wanted ‘friends with benefits.’ I made it CLEAR to him that I was NOT into him or his polyamorous lifestyle. He knew that I wasn’t attracted to him either. I even made EYE CONTACT with another man in front of him. Then, he still continued to approach me. When I got drunk in front of him, he tried to forcibly kiss me which was sexual assault. Then, tried to perform oral which was sexual assault also. When I yelled for him to get off me, he said “Fuck this. You’re not attracted to me.” He shouldn’t have been mad after I told him multiple times that I didn’t want him. That was a “drug facilitated sexual assault.”

😅🤣

After a certain age you’re too old to be anyone girlfriend. She’s immature and I’m disappointed she’s dealing with this at her age.

​@@opulence_prime well damn you are 100 💯

PREACH ON IT‼️

You would have wanted her to marry him? He would of been that same man, doing the same things in a marriage.

My God and how in the world or why in the world would anyone allow themselves to be mentally abused in such a manner? This woman needs help in the worst way. I pray she gets it and that this man is never allowed to abuse another woman the way he had abused this one. Unbelievable!

Yes, and he has neither.

YUP!!!!

once again, not sure where you saw a queen, ....sure wish ya'll would stop doing that...a so-called queen wouldn't let herself get dogged out for 15 years

Yes, Toler came to mind

darn spellcheck

Agree. A bad case of selective hearing

😆

I totally agree!!

Right! there’s something pathological about him. I wouldn’t want to be around that person either, romantic or otherwise!

If he's been honest for 15 years, that says alot about him. Yes, it says he's been honest for 15 years! So if he lied, would that be better? This is on her. She made up a fairytale with him as the main character. Why do women have such a problem with holding other women responsible for the silly choices they make?

@writenancywrite The only time women hold other women responsible for the silly choices they make is when that woman is sleeping with their boyfriend or husband, any other time, she's a victim. Now that's stupid, but common. Any other time a woman doesn't get what she bargained for from a man or a relationship, it simply just can't be her fault. The big, bad evil man must be a narcissist! How dare he not participate in this woman's ridiculous fantasy! He's been honest with her, brutal, but honest. Would it have been better if he lied to her? She gaslight herself, not to mention she's a grown woman who had the obligation and ability to walk away years ago.

Whats sad is there are so many desperate women like her & so many predator men like him

Exactly! Bought a whole ring for what ??

Yes, he’s beyond WRONG❗️

Why did it take her so long to hear loud and clear, and understand what was going on?

@@patriciahamilton2728 . Because she’s MENTALLY SLOW. He disrespected her on national television by saying “Here comes the waterfall” and laughing the whole time. There’s nothing to smile or laugh at when you’re taking advantage of someone for 15 years. That’s almost two decades.

Yes....not for 15 years.

I was like that in my teens and early twenties but now as a forty year old woman I’m well aware of the signs when a man isn’t interested. She should have walked away years ago!

Right how does that work

I thought I recognized her too. Crazy and very sad smh.

_Lmaooooooooo_ If she was in ANY of Tyler Perry's plays, that makes it 100x worse. _Almost ALL of his plays revolve around this very subject._ You had to rehearse your role in it and *you still didn't see this happening?* He's not a narcissist. He couldn't have cared less if she stayed or left. Even the judge stated that he was harsh but she felt gentle wasn't working with her. She tricked herself.

I knew it was the hotel manager from Madea's Class Reunion.

But she's also to blame, she ignored the signs

Shut up!! That is her! I just watche Madea’s Clasd Reunion. And she played in Madea Goes To Jail the play. Yes!

Yes, I told my mother earlier that this woman has a mental disability.

It is not

It appears she has selective hearing...He doesn't like her at all.

He saying it with his mouth too