That's why the number of single mothers will grow up bigger

Shirkera B This dude is a fuckin bird. Shorty is a good girl. And he on some bum shit

Thing is she is living on her own... she don't need him financially...she just wants him there...she won't let him go so she's gonna continue nagging him but he'll never change cuz he doesn't have to cuz he knows she's not going anywhere...

#24YearsNarcMarriageWalkedAwayWhileHeEasatWork

These women love these men more than themselves

Judge Lynn gives the best advice.

Yes they are addictive !!!

I love the advice that she gives the plaintiffs and defendants. I’m addictive to these episodes ❤️

bionicbritt I stay watching and rewatching old episodes.

bionicbritt me too. i love judge Lynn. Felt like a mute who could speak and she does the voice in me... just that e parties i wanna convey to, couldn't hear it.

😂😂😂 Me too

Glad am not alone in this club😂

Karen Cristina Concepción me too🤣😂2018

🗑 🏃‍♂️

She need to bounce now, because he probably will not change

Amen

amen

Tena Casey, Judge Lynn was spot on!

HazeleyedGemini i know right

You heard her day she's going to continue to push him to do better...her mission is to try and change him that's why she's putting in all this work...but you can't change nobody...

Exactly! Smdh

Exactly she asked for help but don't want the help she was advised...

I bet she makes it. I bet she takes that advice. This woman is far from stupid if we was watching the same episode. Give credit where it is do. Women always first to put a woman down.

@@sevenheaven3992 because WOMEN KNOW the foolish hearts of another woman better than anyone else possibly could. I can call it like I see it too after years of failed relationships, divorce, abortions, adoptions, bankruptcies and homelessness..Women will settle for all kinds of degradation for the sake of " perceived security" or LOVE. Once a child is entered into the equation we settle with laziness, addiction and infidelity even more, for the sake of family " stability". People trying to build a strong foundation ( for a family UNIT) starting with the roof first. Control your fertility women...therein lies your power. Make a man work for, and earn your respect, confidence and body. Which takes years....not days. Foresight is ALWAYS better than hindsight. Make your moves with intelligence and calculation, not based on goosebumps or orgasms.

Im sure most of us can see that she is intelligent...however she is stuck..and women remain stuck far longer than they should have once the babies start coming. They just suck it up, take on 2 or 3 jobs and allow the men to act like boys, with no sense of responsibility. Quit wearing the pants in your household!! Put those back on the men. Work first then pleasure and leisure is added after that. That's how financial and emotional security is achieved! She started with nothing and will be stuck that way for a long time, simply because of her initial choices!

X226 sound like Washington DC right now

It's crazy how it was once a very prominent black community until.........

FRANK CASTLE frfr

Tulsa is horrible.

Sad it's way worse in Chicago

Michael McCreary exactly

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 on another episode a girl said “I sure does” haha goodness gracious

🤣🤣😅😅😂 he needs to go back to high school.

I thought I heard that ish!!!!!😩😩😩😩

I hollered when he said that 😂😂😂😂

LMAO

🙌🏾👍🏾I hope this lady gets her education and leaves dude in the dust.

Judge Toler IS savage

Thats because ABW are reckless with their wombs. They've ALWAYS been that way...

@@KhemistryIBMOR , that is unfair to say all black women. Any woman can make poor choices by giving birth to babies their not prepared to have..look at the foster care systems and Orpanages. They have all races in these places.

@@Msmac717 I spoke in general. But most ABWs are "like that" in my opinion. Many dont stop with one child...they keep spitting out babies (as long as the State keeps paying them or providing them with mules).

@@KhemistryIBMOR , I understand your point however Ive seen all races of women being irresponsible. We can agree to disagree.

@Marga A I defend men as well. If a statement is made about them unfairly..

Amen! Like Judge Lynn has said its like cutting someone and get mad that they're bleeding! You did it and if you're going to stay you have to stand in your mess and you can NOT put an end date on when they should get over pain you inflected

It's either forgive and/or move on!

@@riktascale4 No. You eff up eff you. You are gone. I am 0 tolerance.

@@riktascale4 No or. No forgiveness.

Ummm, watching divorce court is an unfair assessment of relationships in general. That's like watching "Cheaters" and think all people cheat. There are great relationships and some not so great but to watch a show about relationship problems, you would be biased.

you go girl! *high five*

Amaryllis Soler what state do you live in .... I'm single by choice too 😂

why are american men so eager to be a step dad? like , i don't get it. Seriously why??

samy sosa my only guess can be that so many women in America have children out of wedlock by the same few guys so in reality most men will end up being a step dad.

what! ?

Ummm, what? Please elaborate.

A Who Dat? Keeper of taking L's you mean ..

Shut the fuck up encouraging any women to stay with a cheater. This bitch made dude is gonna keep cheating. You know the saying.

Ok...

Maybe if she stop nagging,he would start treating her better

He USING her for her place

B.S. She's full of SHIT. She picked a thug now she wants a man. Don't feel sorry for her stupid arse.

It's the same with marriage according to God kids grow up and live your mate supposed to be there forever

You nail it it. You can get a divorce in about 90 days, but you have to support that child for a least 18 years.

Amen to this comment

After being shot nine times and living through it and going through prison you think this man would have a new lease on life apparently not so she's got to go because he is going to ban them all in trouble with his immature Behavior. 9 time if I get shot one time I'm going to see the light if I get shot at I'm going to see the light

YaYa thats the truth ,get it together or step. Its a shame that some us have to go round and round and hurt and hurt before we find the strength to leave a situation that refuses to change for the better.

That is very true.

sirblkalot I caught the Holy Ghost 👻. She preached that sermon

sirblkalot Yep 👍🏾 She needs to move out and make him make the moves towards her before she considers engaging with him.

I agree, more nagging isn't going to help. An ultimatum might move things along one way or another.

sirblkalot well she made the mistake of doing adultery (may Allah forgive her) but she should give him some time and see if he changes.

الله سبحانه وتعالى

MdniteEagl She has a great way of explaining things to people in a way they may never have considered.

Facts

She's so full of SHIT. She talks a good game but is just like him. She talks about braking the cycle but she chooses a guy like him. She talks about her addicted family but smokes weed with his unemployed arse. She knows a lot but practices very little of what "She knows."

@@karlgabriel2861 yess!!! You are speaking the truth!!!

Right.

She getting prison penis.

Three kids?

RiddyOnline I said the same thing she went in

RiddyOnline She went off! Had me like 🐸☕️

He seems like a nice guy.. He needs to buckle down, focus on his kids.. Move out of the ghetto and take care of his lovely gf. Also find a stable job..

Au Di true

Exactly.

Leave and go where with no money. Are you stupid he is making money selling drugs and she knows all about that. prison, getting shot she knew not to say anything else on tv.

1st thing I thought . Dudes a D - boy ! She caught up in the life . This another hood baby mama story sadly.

If you notice it's mostly African American men. I don't understand the lazy behavior. I came here homeless from my country illegal. No documents, family and didn't know no one. No I'm an architect engineer 6 income. At one time before I graduated from college I had 3 jobs. It's about your motivation, drive and discipline.

joseph bethrant 1st i want to salute you for your success and hard work but do you realize allot of what you have accomplished in this country is from the hard work of African Americans (Civil Rights). Don't generalize and entire group based on a tv show. African American's have done more for any minority group in USA and that's a fact. This is all coming from another immigrant who have achieved a similar success as you. Peace my brother.

@@cementprint1211 OK if you say so

if moving out of the neighborhood was her intension, making a baby isnt gonna make it any easier

sharon oguta That's what I said

***** and you are very right my dear,,!

Doesn't mean you cant do everything to still try to. I think its amazing she hasn't let her stop her for wanting more now because she has a child.

Everything is easier to get done without kids 😆

Me too 😁

Preach!!!!

I feel the same way!!!

wise really? getting with a guy who got shot nine times usually isn't a great thing. i appreciate him providing trauma surgeons so much practice.

triad6425 I mean her intentions... you're right though

She had no one to give her educational and lifestyle direction. I would still say she still turned out okay. She fell victim to what many people fall victim to...love. They say if you know better you will do better. She doesn't know better.

She knows it, but had to hear it from someone else, pike the judge. Hope she takes the advice

He should b wise

Pedro Delacruz sad eh?

She married a man who wants to be a baby maker .

I work in a HUD(section 8) office lol she said public housing which is the projects that is not section 8.The difference is If she had section 8 she could move to a house. Also if she was on the section 8 program she wouldn't be on that long because our office push for you to take classes on getting your credit straight so we can help you pay a mortgage instead of paying rent to get you off the system. ;-) only lazy people stay on that system for years.

Or just say NO!

lol

TRILL 💯💯💯

At least, stop fucking broke niggas.

They like the feeling of rawness and the warmness, lol. They don't want to feel plastic and miss the feeling of the nut, 😂

Smart??? 😂😂😂that is why she is with this loser....

TRUE

triad6425 💯

MsHalabaloo IUDs abd implants are temporary contraception Not sterilization. No need to exaggerate. I'm simply advocating responsibility. Why do ppl immediately jump to eugenics? Is getting pregnant by accident or with irresponsible ppl better?

Amen XOXO.

triad6425, 👍🏽💯‼️

thats what i kept saying. I you did know you wouldnt be in this predicament

She probably has heard all this before, so maybe she does know, but needed to hear it from someone else. Either way, she's not making good choices.

Maybe she means she knows NOW. I think she has seen the down side and is now living where her decisions have brought her. I think she now wants better for her life, definitely the life of her child, and his life too.

ilovetrevor smith lol 😂

She keeps saying I know cuz she does know but doesn't want to leave him...she just wants him to change without her having to change herself...she needs to walk away already and if he wants her he'll get himself together and come back a better man...

It takes two to make a baby don't just blame her he running around

@@zipporahtefari4587 like the judge says, she is in charge of her own fertility...

Not all man

Preach!!

Yeah... It's crazy

😂

Don't forget the "🌴🔥🌬️💨💨💨😎" lol

504Thickbeautyy how long do you think she should wait?

There IS a time limit to marriage. 1 year should be the maximum once you're past 25 to 28, because your emotional maturity is SET. Ask Asia and Eastern Europe why they're keeping the commitment deadlines old school. Meanwhile the West has 50% of divorce. Chicks get engaged for 7 years then wonder why they're still not getting the ring. Marriage minded men bring that up, up to 3-4 months into the relationship. Once a dude brought it up to me after a month and a half. So we could see if we were on the same page. That wasn't exactly the case. No time wasted. Marriage oriented men do NOT even wait 6 months to bring up the subject and know where you stand. Cause they date to marry, not to "have fun and play house". Only jokers wanna wait 10 years.

Time limits on divorce INCREASE the divorce rate when men get married out of force. I DO think a woman who wants to be married should put a time limit on it, however the problem with it is that some men will milk it, knowing they're not intending to get married, and then the women do not leave. If you give a man a year time limit, and he does not set or keep a marriage date, do not stay. Many women stay so the men keep doing it.

I definitely would walk if a woman gives me a timeline; however, if i feel she’s the one - i wouldn’t need a timeline. Some women could use a timeline to keep up appearances... i think if any doubt exist, a year and a half is long enough to see someone’s true colors.

a year might be too soon, but certainly after 3 years you should know the other person well enough, have seen enough of their emotions in different states to know if you are capable of being together long term.

Safiya Lawrence i said that too....lol...thats crazy

He also has 2 other children..how is he supporting them?

iloveto pop Apparently, he's allergic to work and condoms.

johnny bravo I wish I could be counseled by judge toler. She's awesome

Well change the name of the show. Lol. Of course nobody would watch.

Josie Farley 💯