When the judge said “well, how old are you” I screamed. Basically she was saying “girl, you’re not a spring chicken yourself” 😂

You can tell she stays roasting this poor man 😂😩

It's no way I would go back to work at 65 ... idaf ... hell no

From the very beginning she tried to insult him by sharing the make-up and height comments. Actually he looks good for a cat his age.

she picked an older man and spent 20 minutes complaining about him…. then has the nerve to ask a 55 yo man for a baby. That brother should run.

She's 49 years old and still trying to "mold" a man (65 years old at that) into her ideal man. Where's the wisdom that comes with age?

Thats petty of her to try to call him out on his hair and undereye makeup. If ur man hides his eye bags, uses dye, has erectile disfunction, incontinence issues, is self conscious about his hands or any other weird quirks that should be something you always cover for him. Never tell anyone his 'flaws'. That's personal and common decency

She's a nice looking lady. However, the first few minutes of her testimony showed me why he's hesitant to marry her.

The dude is 65 and retired and she trying to kill the guy and make him work to satisfy her dreams. She's to high maintenance and selfish for me.

She does not like nor respects this man judging by the way she speaks of him. She despises and mocks him I felt bad for him

Judge: "Life ain't perfect...there is no perfect ending to anything." Simple but profound. 👍🏽

I wish I could tell this judge that she is saving my relationship without even knowing me. If she is saving mine then she saving much more.

"he wears makeup to cover the bags under his eyes".... so do you and whole lot more.. and you won't even Say your age.

That lady isn't young too and insult her man like that in public 😭

Never allow yourself to fall in love with someone that cannot share your life goals.

When she started it with age issue, height and make ups, I'm done... Why did you want to be with him in the first place? Very annoying woman indeed.

This is a classic case of not dating on your level. they are in two totally different spaces in life.

the fact she was saving I've HAD my own home and HAD my own Mercedes says alot. Meaning she doesn't have it NOW but she's acting all high and mighty, as if she's better than her man! smh

she needs to find a younger man ,plain &simple ,hes already retired &settle down ,all he wants to do is relax& have fun

The judge killed it with this one. Advice was straight fire 🔥 She hit the nail on the head when she said that these two were at two different stages of life. They are just at two different plateaus. Nothing wrong with that, but it doesn't seem like neither can give the other what they truly need. This man has worked for decades and wants to kick back and this woman still has aspirations and goals that's she's trying to reach before she reaches that age of retirement. She wants kids and is still up and active enough to be an involved parent if she chose to adopt but this man does not want nor need to be chasing after children in his damn 70s and 80s. It's too much. They seem like nice people, but they need to call it quits and move on. It's sad but that's just how it goes. Both of them will end up unsatisfied or unfulfilled if they stay together. Hope it works out for them even if it means they are separate.

She was wrong for outing him 'bout his make-up & hair..... She does what's needed to keep herself up.

Hey girl, how you doin? First name is Charlie, last name Wilson..lmao😭😂😂😂😂😂

He would literally be paying child support for the rest of the life he got left if he had kids with her

I REALLY REALLY REALLY DONTTTT LIKE............. THE WAY SHE WAS TALKING ABOUT THIS MAN. THE WHOLE TIME.... MOCKING HIM, MAKIN FUN OF HIM AND HIS HOUSE....... like are you SERIOUS..?!!??!! 😠 THIS IS SOMEONE YOU SAY YOU LOVE......... SMH..... She is weyyyyyyyy to childish for 49. 😬😡😡😐😴

he is a great dresser, she tripping!

she selfish why she want a 65 yr old retired man to work

I feel bad for this couple. they obviously love each other, but sometimes, love just ain't enough.

SHE IS SO DRAMATIC. THAT FAKE CRY😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Where's Joe (The Bailiff) to give her zhe tissues 😂😂😂😂😂

He and his wife are hilarious. I'm cracking up all through this episode. These two are a mess 😂

She don't want no kids at 49 she want a suga daddy. I ain't coming out of retirement. NO WAY

If they marry she will kill the old man with unrealistic goals

I don't think he is all that into her. He doesn't look like wants to even be in a relationship with her

when sex got easy to get.. love got harder to find!

"he is older, he wants to retire..sometimes i just think he is tired.." No, the man is RETIRED. He has raised up children already. He worked (in a steel plant) for so many years and now he has EARNED his retirement. He has earned the right to take things easy and reflect on all he has been able to achieve with his life all these years. Just because he doesn't want to become a new parent at 65, does not mean he is TIRED. I mean, you decided to pursue your career or whatever, and that is your right. Now that you are 49, you are desiring to have a baby. Guess what, making and raising babies is something you should have thought about and done way before now. You have blamed this guy for all these superficial stuff (age, height, dress sense, etc) but you cannot, and should not blame him for WISELY deciding not to become a new father at 65. You honestly don't even need divorce court - tamp down your unrealistic expectations, and consider adoption if you absolutely have to attempt to be a mother.

Shes selfish and only think about her needs. She says she loves him and wanna be with him but disrespect him about his height and age. She didn't know his age before thinking about having children...what she saw was a well dress man to give her money when she need him. He deserves his retirement. Oh and that wanna be cry...fake

She take that wig & makeup off, she probably look just like him.

Judge Toler really does give the best advice ever. I'm a huge fan of Judge Lynn's just because of all of her great relationship and life advice. I love you Judge Lynn. God bless Judge and Ohana. 💖😉🌺🙌

This is the perfect definition of an incompatible couple...differ in life goals of kids, money, and lifestyles. You can't make a union where everyone will be happy, even if they compromise, they'll grow to resent each other if they stay together.

She is constantly ridiculing this man all throughout the episode...however, look who is so desperate to have him? Desperate for a man...desperate for kids with him...She is making fun of his concealer, however, she pancaked her face with all that damn powder and foundation to hide her bags under her eyes and all the other physical imperfections. How ironic. She says he is insecure about his age, however, she shows to be very insecure with her age. We, the viewers, already knew her age before she tried to evade the question. He is a classy gentleman and she needs to grow up. He dresses well, carries himself well, and is confident in himself and his accomplishments. He has his great work ethic, children, etc. to show for it. He doesn't need her putting him down. He needs a woman up to his level. A fool over 40 is a fool forever. She is playing herself. She is one of those women who thinks it is cute to be just as foolish as she was in her past. All this talk about what she does and does not do...obviously she doesn't save money either. Who does she think she is? Who does any person think he/she is to be so proud while wanting from others? All this talk about what she wants and needs...what she needs to do is make her own money, save wisely, and stop all this foolishness. If she did, she she should have enough money at this age to be with this man and perhaps (comfortably) have children. She insults this man's home, however, she didn't have anything of her own. How stupid is that? The 30 mins of tv exposure is not worth betraying your mate and having it on the net forever in cyberspace. After people's laughs fade and as the show ends, she is looking dumb. Isn't she supposed to know show business by now? When she wonders why her relationship isn't working, she has this video to tell her. They are incompatible. She seriously has to change her ways. If she wants to have children, she needs to work hard, save, and get married. Adoption is another great option if she can't physically have children...however, adopted kids also deserve a great home.

That's why you don't get with someone so much older than you

She tried to cry but the tears didn't come out lol. So fake

This fake crying. She couldn't manage to squeeze an actual tear lol.

She 49 talking I still think about having kids.🤦🏾‍♀️😳

The caption said she was 49 deal with it lady you are almost 50 embrace it...she is a terrible actress please get this lady off this show!!!!

When she started crying I thought she was acting like him 😂😂😂😂

she's about to be 50 with no kids.... isn't it harder for a women to have kids the older she is? I wonder if they'd have beautiful kids if they actually wanted kids

It's cruel to want an old man, who earned his retirement, not to have and enjoy his retirement. Why stress out the brother in his old years when he should be taking things slow and easy?

He earned his retirement, he is still a young man and he needs someone that is not necessarily older but on the same pace🥵

crying but no tears....super gold digger

gold digger...she wants to do a whole lot with HIS MONEY

Crazy banana kookoo! Lol this woman is a trip!

Sanetta represents a thought process that is a major peeve of mine. People have gotten too wrapped up in the "40 is the new 30" mentality, and she really thinks she should be having children at her age. If she gets pregnant right after the show, she'd be 67/68 when that child graduates high school - he'd be 83/84. Who wants to be facing college bills at that age? It's not like they're rich _now_, so they're not going to be millionaires in the next few years where they can kick back and just have a trust fund ready for the kid when he/she is legal. Sometimes, windows of opportunity don't just get closed, they get removed and filled in with cinder blocks and cement. Sanetta, you're older than you realize. Joe can act younger than his 65, but he's also a retiree. He should be playing golf or tennis somewhere, not starting a new career and raising more children.

Well, you put your career in front of being a mom and that ship has sailed honey, get a dog lol

Why does she want to have her own grandchildren

She is too damn superficial for me and she knew he was like this years ago. She needs to grow the hell up.

she only 49 with bags under her eye's too... her make-up ain't hiding her age either...

This couple cracked me up!!! Judge gave them the best advice 😂

Had you not been so into u, u possibly would have had kids earlier with the right person. Girl u senior citizen now .

I totally agree with the judge, that man is 65 years old. can't imagine him having someone with they're hand out talking about child support. and as for her , she want a baby so bad hopefully she won't end up having one with a deadbeat then she will really be in trouble

Just because you've had your shit doesn't mean you're not a Gold digga😂😂😂😂😂

She so full of herself, you can't change a man. Spend your own money. DUDE RUN RUN AND RUN FAST!!!!

I dislike when people judge and when they want their partners to be what they want.

She needs to get a young man that can keep up with her lol

Am I the only noticed she 49 talking about big dreams and babies that’s around the time to be thinking about retirement coming up smh

these people are actors...during her crying scene I did not see a drop of tear

These two need to call it quits. This relationship will never work, they will end up resenting each other.

If I didn't know better, I would think that this was Kenya's triflin self from RHOA.

Pfftt....these two "performers" got together and cooked up a plan to perform for the judge. No way they are a real couple. A couple of friends, at the most.

Children?....Girl you really missed the boat on that one....your eggs are probably hard boiled by now...

She broke my heart when she was crying about having kids. Maybe she could get her a foster baby and love on that baby.

Good advice Judge Lynn. These two are almost two decades apart!!!! Its going to be tough wanting the same things and thinking alike.

judge: did you really say that? cool older man in red suit: "did gha?!"

They look amazing for their agr...she can pass for 30something and he for late 40s or early 50s

He’s a laid back old school cat. He comes from a different era. She don’t understand what he’s been through in his life.

Why dude dressed like a movie theater seat lol. He looks like he just got off stage 😂😂

Some ABW's never grow up, this woman is a living testament to that fact.

Sis leave him. He's not what you want

I feel for her about the kid thing. I'm 33 and feeling the pressure. Women don't have forever to have children. Men can have kids well into their 60s if they keep up their health.

Somebody give her a cookie 🥴For that acting she doing 😂

I will have Sonny the Cuckoo Bird personally send her a box of Cocoa Puffs.

"Too slow, need more dough and another goal", only Judge Toler could come up with that! Great couple!

lmaooo this episode had me cracking up they need to stay together lol

Worked in a steel mill for 30 years, he's tired and lived his best life and he's content... she's still living in search for more yeah they need to go their separate ways

I am talking from experience. She needs to move on. He has lived his life. She needs to live hers and find someone that is wilming to do that with her.

18:55 judge lynn is so smooth................

Why does he remind me of Morris Day? Gigolos get lonely too. The red jacket and earring only makes it worse. Old pimp. Sherman Hemsley playa. Yeah, they need to split. They want two entirely different things.

I smelt that Egyptian musk through the TV 😂😂😂 btw miss Gibson looks amazing at 50

Man I love this judge so much

I think she’s ungrateful and just stay cause she knows she can play with him

I feel for this lady that never had children.

Is she performing for us?!?!?🤣🤣

They both need to kick rocks from each other. She’s mad because he wasn’t the “Suga Daddy” she thought he was going to be to rescue her from the make believe life style she can’t create!

He really wore that fire engine red suit and big hoop earring to divorce court 😂 Lol yep, I think he probably is just a tad insecure about his age. Po lil tink tink probably went through his midlife crisis two decades ago but caught his second wind of insecurity when he started dating a younger woman.

This girl better be 25 the way she’s acting She’s prob 40 Trying to convince herself she’s still young

Me and my partner met at 18. 3 months into the relationship I sat him down to talk about our beliefs, political standing,what we want from life, career goals and kids. I told him I didn't and would never want kids. I want to have a career,what I expected about our roles . It turned out we are 99% on the same opinions. It has been 11 years and we are as strong as ever. You have to be honest and on the same page so you don't waste your time.

OIL and WATER.....

She needs to be rational. If you want a baby try to make it happen. Get a surrogate. And find another man. Keep making your own money and hit your goals. Stop relying on him for so much. Everything in a relationship doesnt have to be done together (in regards to work and hobbies not babies lol). Let him be supportive and you aspire to your dreams.

RUN DUDE RUN and WALLOW in your hard earned WELL DESERVED retirement!!!!!!

I love this damn show. I swear to god, I am so lucky I have had positive feedback from friends and family in regards to my relationship. Coming from a 5 year relationship. COMMUNICATION IS KEY. Tell each other everything!!!!!!! What bothers you, what you question, what you LOVE, what you want more of, do this for me. Just tell each other what you want

If she wanted to have a child she should have done that 15-20 years ago. Without fertility drugs she most likely will not have a child on her own and it will be dangerous. They at 2 different stages in life he retired chilling I would not go back to work after working 30 years no thank and I would not have a child either at that age HELL NO.