Very true! People need to prioritize health 🙌🏾

@problactive285 and in some cases it ll kill you

For the preventative care. Yearly physical which includes that lab work, for women mammograms, and throw those occasional colonoscopies in there. Most insurance covers these. And get reimbursed for them. True life can play a trick on you & blind side you. However our bodies will let us know somis going on pretty early on.

@@SandrawilliamsJlukey you have to have a certain level of employment and income to get that kind of insurance

I don't know if he's healthy.... What does it mean when a relationship has run its course? That sounds very strange..... Relationships take work. That's never a good answer and always a red flag...

42 likes for kobe😮

Yes!!

Yes I love it 🥰

In addition to 2 PAC and Jordan. Nice taste in decor.

​@@user-cx8hf8gp4b​I agree, but that's the one that stood out to me the most due to the color palette and placement 🎨

And expect a lady to accept his 20 year old non bill paying, live in daughter. I don't think so. Kids are fine , but I wouldn't want an adult from jump in the home. 🙄 Maybe if she came 'back ' home for a short period to gather herself.

Never heard someone say that before 😂😂😂😂😂😂

@@dhqbrandi People say it in different ways. We grew apart is the most common.

He had two kids with one woman and was married to her for 17 years. He took it seriously.

Are you married?

Maybe he just didn't wanna drag his ex wife and over spill. Or call her a narcissist and accuse her of being abusive etc. Us men tend not 2 play victim or dodge all accountability as much.

Yeah it means they wasted each other's time...

@@shintikas3722 how so? Marriage is meant for riding it out

@@a.e1785 delusional indeed

I'm a man. It's the contribution to the household that got me and that's if he's talking about bill bills. not just regular little household things. And yeah even then that's a stretch for a child-free woman and he has 2 already.🤦🏿‍♂️🤷🏿‍♂️

Men like this always demand but come with baggage

​@@bboss7874 It's a bad deal only if she has better options. If she lived alone, she would be responsible for 100% of her living expenses, including rent, utilities, groceries, and other costs. Even with a roommate, she'd still cover at least 50% of those expenses. Contributing a small portion to the household bills not only shares the financial load but also fosters a sense of partnership and shared responsibility.

@@bboss7874 So she should move in and not pay anything? He's not having any more kids. She's not changing diapers of a 20 year old. Is she working? Why would she not contribute anything? That's weird to me.

He Didn't Say "No Children" Though🙄

Why is your photo filtered

Exactly!

You should date who you want just as you eat what you want. 😊

It's not like he is putting a gun to a woman that doesn't have kids and forcing her to date him lol. That's her choice to date him, can't get mad at him for that.

How does a marriage run its course?

​@@maiangellove8949he waited until the kids were 18 so he doesn't have to pay child support etc

And I immediately think of that scene when dude got rolled into the hot tub. Left there and she came back & sad you stink lol 😂😂

I was just watching this😂

Thank you! Just because a woman won't be providing financially to your children doesn't mean she won't have to make significant contributions to and for your child's well being.. especially if that child lives with you and even if they're grown.

White supremacy ideology.

Why do you say?

Really I didnt get that vibe

​@@1BeautifullyBlessed because he's merely out for the experience #divorcedanddating. I don't think he truly wants anything serious, right now

Message him if you’re single, maybe it’s a match made in heaven 🙌

The same way the comments turn upside down when a woman says a man has to be financially successful. 🤷🏽‍♀️

​@DreamAboutMe823 the difference is women want a man making 100k but arent making that themselves

@@DreamAboutMe823 LOL, he's in reasonable shape. All these women are broke and begging. And have absolutely nothing to offer. They won't even get in shape. SMH...

@@DreamAboutMe823 nearly anyone can get up and go get in shape. not everyone can get up and be "financially successful." for a society to even function, majority of people have to make less. if you think this is inflation, let a large % of americans start making 100k.

@@meloran2571 They will NEVER comprehend that. Most of them can't even comprehend that having 5 by 5 is NOT a flex.

Cause I see so many adult children still running their parents households smh

@@SandrawilliamsJlukey especially women with sons , them dudes be Jody and the grown daughters be independent. We avoid son husbands

Yep especially if entitled, and unprepared for survival. I couldnt live with a man with an adult daughter at home unless she is in school, or on the way out of the home......

@@mama2flythesidehustlequeen164 she is in college. And I would never let a freeloader live with me or poison my kids the modern women thoughts

@@mama2flythesidehustlequeen164shes only 20 jeez why he gotta kick her out 20

He just needs to be real. Just say, I want a woman with no children who has no desire for children in the future that are willing to put up with my children, even the adult one living with me. The back and forth, plus his explanations are making him look flaky. Many women would be interested, even with his preferences.

But she’s in the houses living with him like as if she’s a kid……

Like my parents always said “you ain’t grown until you move outta my house” 😂

But the thing is a woman with her 20 year old son still living with her will still be looked at as not an option.

Thank You, Cuz Kendra and Kousins Were Over Complicating His Answer, He's Very Direct and Knows What He Wants.

Love cousin but She ALWAYS does that & some ppl aren’t intellectual enough to rephrase or reiterate their stance. They end up backtracking and talking in circles cuz Kendra will twist ur words real quick

He's not intellectual, he just had red pill talking points

😂😂😂😂 nothing he said went over my head. You must like him 😂❤ hopefully you are his type

Correct ​@@queene3oh3

THIS!!! He is asking for a child free professional woman who most likely owns her own home and travels lol...

In this day and age it’s highly delusional 😂 a childfree woman wouldn’t be bothered with a man’s kids in her personal space.

Would never move in with a man an pay bills smh

Aren't most people red flags 😅

Who wants a freeloader

@@thecoolreviewFor real !!!! Even if it’s buying groceries and toiletries..

@Nonnies.Glam1 it's pure math keep paying $2k or more a month to not give me $700 a month . Both ways I'm set

That's fair. I mean that's up to the woman that decides to go out with him. I mean he's the one who called so all u have is his side and he didn't say anything other than they grew apart. You probably should ask your mom that question because you're projecting

I think he would be *CONTROLLING!!!*

@@aroukapenn just like your dad and grandfather. If you even know them. The hatred for men in this comment section is astounding. That's for the lack of respect for therapy you God zillas need someone to talk to besides your vibrator u angry birds 😅

@@JustBree716Oooo chile…. Bree!! #praisebreak 💃🏾💃🏾🙌🏾👏🏾

I thought you were an accountant. Leave the relationship advice to the professionals.

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I can't unsee it, Lol BTW, I'm a Pocketwatcher!🤎

@@Tephiffanyme too! I enjoy his content 🙌🏾

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 man I look better

Yep and got tired of each other. Maybe they married too young

Dumb comment

@@professionalpookie go away Pookie. No one sent for you. Keep it moving

@@love_reka_777 nah, delete your comment

😂😂😂 that's a liability

​@@Evaselfmadea big liability at that

Exactly...

If you are married to a man with a child regardless of how old the child is, what does that make you? The child’s Step-Parent. 🙄

​@@Jai0234who is parenting a 20 year old. Lol.

@@Jai0234 True, but its not the same dynamic. Im a step mom and dont parent my step kids. I watch the grandbabies and basically a friend. I dont have to give them money, or do things as if they are minors....I help my adult son even though he lives on his own, and doesnt need help... I bought him a new couch today because I saw one on sale, and wanted to.....

@@Jai0234are you dumb you’re not parenting a 20 year old. especially one with their mother in their life. the parenting is done she just live there damn

So how do you think it will be living with some man's adult daughter? You think is going to go smoothly? Some of you are so short-sighted, sheesh...this is why you keep losing...

Did he flex tho? 🤔

Are you married

@johnjay3308 by saying his track record of being a married man, is saying he is proud of that.

@@stevensondebe6360 yes.

And saying that a marriage ran its course is a total cop-out.... What does that even mean? Relationships are supposed to be work.... When a person says that a relationship or a marriage ran its course, they are really showing how immature they are...

Funny cuz it takes less effort to be natural, than to put that bullshit on 😂😂

That’s not even a lot it’s plenty of women like that

😂😂😂😂 The way you said they , has me dying 🤣

​@@zay7443 In your estimation what percentage of women don't wear lashes, are natural, no makeup and are in the correct zone of the BMI?

@@zay7443doesnt mean they want him !

If she pays 75% of the household bills, then he might consider it fair. Otherwise, it's not a fair comparison. From what I understand, the woman who moves in with him will only pay a small percentage of the household bills; appx 25%.

Great question!

@@MarvAuthorbecause she’s gonna pay for that extra 25% by dealing with a bratty 20 year old who will of course jump in any private arguments/disagreements. Eventually the woman and the daughter will run into some issues with each other ESPECIALLY being that the daughter is grown AND living there, leaving the father to pick a side. I would never move in with a dude and his 20 YEAR OLD even if all bills were paid for and I could live for free. Recipe for disaster. People with kids should only date people with kids. PERIOD

@@prettykitty5416 That's your opinion, and you have every right to it. Millions of women worldwide would gladly accept that deal. A man should date and marry the best option that makes him happy.

@prettykitty5416 A provider man with kids might consider not dating a woman with kids for several reasons: 1. Financial Strain: Providing for additional children can be financially challenging, especially if he is already responsible for his own children's expenses. 2. Emotional Complexity: Blending families can introduce emotional complexities, including jealousy and competition between children, which might create tension in the household. 3. Limited Quality Time: With children from both sides involved, it might be harder to find quality time for the couple to nurture their relationship. 4. Different Parenting Styles: Managing different parenting styles and rules can be difficult, leading to conflicts and inconsistencies in raising the children. 5. Scheduling Conflicts: Coordinating schedules for multiple children, especially if they have different visitation arrangements, can be logistically challenging and stressful. 6. Jealousy and Rivalry: Children from different families may experience feelings of jealousy and rivalry, which can impact the overall harmony of the household. 7. Reduced Attention: The man might feel stretched thin trying to give adequate attention and support to all children involved, potentially leading to feelings of neglect. 8. Emotional Baggage: Both partners may bring emotional baggage from previous relationships, which can complicate the new relationship and family dynamics. 9. Household Dynamics: The dynamics of the household can become more complicated with additional children, potentially leading to power struggles and conflicts. 10. Potential for Favoritism: There is a risk of perceived or real favoritism, which can create resentment and division among the children. Considering these factors, some men might prefer to date women without children to avoid these potential issues and focus on building a harmonious and uncomplicated family environment.

Intuition or experience? Just curious

This dude isn’t a player yall don’t listen to understand . He has morals ‼️🆗

y’all are slow😂 he’s making much sense. sorry he wants his woman to pay something wtf

​​@@shedeserves365he will date a woman for years without marriage.... He has no morals! Did y'all even know what the definition of morals is? Goodness...

Have you every dated a man who's adult daughter, particularly, lived with him?

No single child free woman who’s a professional will want to share her personal space with a man’s adult children 😂 too much drama and baggage.

He said he wants one of these non traditional Boss Chicks who puts their career first and don’t want kids…..

He wants a lil bit of this and and a lil bit of that. Whatever flavor is in season with Fred lol.

Selfish? SMH

He wants a childless woman because he's done raising kids. Why would he move in a woman with a 6 year old when he's all but done supporting his 20 year old? Selfish is these women looking to leech off a sucker.

Well to a lot of BW in order for a man to not be labeled selfish, he has to gladly accept a baby mama and her six kids by Pookie, Ray Ray, Tyrone, Lil' Boo Boo, Dontavious, and Cave Man.

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@@reneegoldberg3580You know children are quick to tell their moms the truth about someone they’re dating.

English isn't Kendra first language 😅

​@@JustBree716😂

@@JustBree716where is she from?

Lol

@@candorsspot2775He may have to go take a dip in the snow. If he starts dating a big back with kangaroo feet. The first time she gets upset. You'll not be able to see my toes for the next 2 weeks. 😂😂😂

Feet are made for 👅 😂😂😂😂😂

The movie "Boomerang". Nuff said. 😆

@@thecoolreview😂😂

😅😅😅 right.

😂🤣😂

I guess some of you are okay with a man being cold with no compassion. A man who is willing to date you but doesn't think that you're good enough to be his wife. A man who requires more of the woman in his household then he requires of his adult daughter...

They better get with it! 🤷🏾‍♀️🤣

That's the least of his problems.... It's his attitude and thinly veiled red pill talking points that's the issue...

🤣🤣 My bff husband is name fred.🤣🤣

Civilized people

you know this dude named Jederious or Glocktavius..smh

He is almost 40, and he could be named after his grandfather.

I’m sorry , did I miss something ? Did he say he was 47 or 4 ??

I agree but that's where Kendra's nosiness would be an asset. Nothing wrong with a few questions like ie: who filed for divorce, did y'all try marital counseling, what do you think you did to contribute to the demise of the marriage. They don't necessarily require long answers. But the problem is people like me don't ask those kinds of questions. These days it's not really about correcting the past to have a better future it's about it's my time and I want and need a man now

It looks like he dyes his beard....

I do , letting it go salt and pepper for a hot sec . So you right

@@thecoolreview let the grays come out. There's nothing wrong with that. You've earned them.

@lovette7684 my kids be clowning me

@@thecoolreview are you dating your kids or are you dating grown women who understand that gray hair comes with a mature man?

That applies to people who read and believe in the Bible. But telling someone who thinks the bible is a bunch of hooey to read it is silly. You can't use the bible to prove something to people who don't believe in it.

@@Coolsnacker You must’ve missed my first and last sentence???? Which makes everything you just said invalid.

@@valpooh7532 Actually your last sentence was "Read a Bible". Not everybody wants to.

I agree with you but why off the jump assume he couldn’t lead his marriage or that he caused the divorce? Some women initiate divorce for trivial reasons.

I understand what he meant. Men are always saying they dont want independent women with degrees and their careers and assets. He's saying he's fine with those types of women, and many high value men usually are ok with women who are high achievers.

That's a fact. She would probably cut her living expenses by 75% or more.

@@MarvAuthor Definitly.

Exactly. As a woman I agree with him. He is not asking 50/50 but as an adult you need to contribute. His daughter is only 20, probably still in college and trying to figure her way out. The woman is cutting her own bills significantly.

@@nicolew8932 Yes, plus the daughter, she will be out the house soon anyway. They also forgot she has a mother too.

@Themusicalhealer Nice work on your KZfaq channel. I subscribed!