Just take what is useful from what she said and be aware of that risk

She’s a demon

It's more like taking car buying advice from a mechanic. They have a vested interest in your car breaking down.

Word. 😂

Bingo!

That's exactly right. Thank you for keeping it 💯

Well make sure you treat her good, cause ain't too many women uttered that want cean shit after other and cook for them.

Yes yes..love and marriage traditional style. Fantastic. Done it, loved it ....they call it family.

THIS EXACTLY! Thank you sir!

Exactly , same here married eleven we both work we share responsibility, its OURS ..I LOVE MY LIFE..

That's beautiful ❤️

Yeah, we’ve been together forever, have three grown children, a small business, and I have a really important role. My husband doesn’t feel like an ATM 😂. We built this life together, and we are still happily married and although the empty nest is quiet, we still are best friends. I have been a stay at home Wife and mother, and I have never been unhappy with that. My husband loves coming home, I have his coffee ready, and he can wind down until dinner. I have an awesome life. ❤

Me & my hubby have been together since 1999! High school sweethearts ❤ married in 2008, our 2 kids were born in 2016 & 2018 😇🥰😝we’ve been through soooo many stages together!!! I’m currently a stay at home mom but I plan to start working part time again when our youngest is in all day school. No one is perfect! It’s tough to keep a family together these days ❤❤❤

We have been married 12 years and 3 kids, I’m not an atm and and this lady is full of sh*t.

That the old days

Nail...head

Yessss!

Yep thats what Marriage is in Broad General View

Yes, men need to date men, obviously,

These messages are all screwed up, so just have the spouse sign a prenuptial agreement before marriage.

​@@AlmaVasquezjr lol

no marriage, it's as simple as that prenups are useless

​@@dianerodriguez6546 Judges can throw out prenuptial agreements at their arbitrary discretion. So what's the point?

That is super awesome! I’m mega happy for you and your family 🌟🔥

Yes. You both valued each other and what you brought to the table. It’s not equal but it’s equally valuable. You invested in her and the kids. She invested in you and the kids.

Until she is unhappy and files for divorce. Your happiness comes crumbling down. Child support alimony and legal fees.

​@@coldtype64 Shell of a human you are little man

This was a feminist pawn move

It's like a dog you have to take it outside regularly 🤣😂🤣

its nice to hear a success story

There are a lot more people like us than the people the dude in this video is talking about. If you marry someone who clearly isn't on the same page as you then you will grow apart. Choose someone that shares the same values and goals as you. And when you decide to have a family your children come first but you can still make time for one another.

My husband works, I stay home with our children. I absolutely treasure the time we have together, and have made sure to keep a beautiful home for him and our babies. I am blessed to be home and he is happy being a provider. Works for us.

​@@lindseybk3029 👏 Amen.

You got a good woman

It's not "educated" it's indoctrinated. University is a cult now that hardly has any benefits, but hey, at least you graduate being exactly the same as everyone else but thinking you're more of an individual, and you have the added benefit of hating your parents for no reason, except that the cult told you to.

You're 100 percent correct

Checks out

The internet is there to confuse both men and women on what the other gender wants or should do.

Fact

right? Yes like it's better for a man who has to compete with both the children and a woman's career, lol. Suuuure lady.

​@@zsuzsuspetalshiii

it’s also the family courts and marriage/divorce laws in western countries. Once women get a whiff of knowing they’re practically invincible in the system they’ll use it to their advantage. It’s almost like working at a job that you can do almost anything wrong and not get fired for it

Ya you hit it. People are easily swayed and not firmly rooted in their own foundations. Their morals can be taken by any 20 sec opinion

Omfg.... you said it 100%

Exactly

Hoes can't resist a chad

I’m sorry buddy , crappy thing for her to do but your absolutely 100% correct. Women ( no matter what their circumstances ) will never be happy content or satisfied.

Your right, we can’t and for the life of me I can’t figure it out. Especially if you have a good man. But I’m trying to keep the family together, it’s not easy though. I’ll just keep praying.

She got what she wanted.

What kind of loser would sell his business to be a stay at home dad because his wife said so

He did exactly what she wanted and that’s the problem. NEVER listen to a woman lol Except maybe your mom, but even then… “grain of salt” my friend. If you’re the shit and you actually hold frame, hold the power then your girl’s in love and she’ll support you to the ends of the world. If you slip up and she gains the frame like we’re all taught to allow then she’ll test and betray you into an early grave…

Why don’t we talk about that! That’s actually 1000s of people with beautiful marriages I want to here from them so bad.

@@gabriellaschweska2054 Most people are glass half empty types.

50% of marriages? 😂😅😆

@@a.r.8987 according to statistics yes.

@@Ex0dus111 it's not the number or the statistic but rather the claim made to the quality of their relationship, "happily ever after!"

💯💯💯

Strangely.....LAWYERS very high on the Narcissism Scale. Hmmmn.

Sounds like someone I once knew as well. Then he had the audacity to complain about a meal I had cooked for dinner one night, after having come home from work while he was working from home. I told him next time, cook it yourself. After four years he moved back in with his parents, then two years later, ghosted me because he couldn't be the responsible adult I needed him to be. Life changed dramatically for the better after that.

Fair play, household chores should be split if both are working similar amounts.

i saw 1 like that (the one i do not call mother anymore, bloody socialist who look at me like slave who should feed sluts like single mothers) she did nothign all her live, she had like 1h of work daily max

I don't totally disagree but most families that have a stay at home parent typically implies that the other is working an excessive amount in order to compensate for lost wages. The average person in the US doesn't make enough money in order to support themselves and a spouse and a child. So the "bread earner" spends 6 to 7 days of their week working and which not only wears them down mentally but also emotionally and takes away free time for things like "dates". The first discussion you should be having is how you will empower working class people to make more money while still having enough time to spend with their spouse. Our current economy just doesn't support the "stay at home" model anymore. So yeah, its important but just not economically feasibly for 99% of Americans.

This is totally true. My husband and I spend a lot of time together even when we cannot have a date night. Date nights are sooooo important.

Stay at home moms totally ignore their husbands and then wonder why they cheat🤦🏻‍♀️

The most important?

Come on dude be honest you were always gone truck driving to support her being home but you were happy with this seriously? If you loved your family wouldnt you want more time with them not just always be gone i don't understand.

Divorce is called annulment and it’s legal. Yr splitting hairs. Furthermore there is plenty to be wary about with pinay.

It is almost impossible to get an annulment in PH

​@michaeldbhawker3556 no it is substantially harder, costs a lot more money and takes more time. So no you are wrong.

Breaking up the family was part of the plan to destroy the west. Back in the 1960s it was decided to have women go to work so they could tax more people then breaking families up gets more tax again

If “divorce is illegal” how did you have a previous marriage with a career woman?

This right here!!!! God bless you for knowing this truth. You should be each other's priority ❤

Is she Asian?

Is she Asian?

jh 1keener - Only IF Life 🧬 Was So Easy With Your NAWALT You Lucked Into. Better 🙏 Pray You Die Before Her. Dating Market Has Vastly Changed Since 21 Years Ago.

Yes! Your always competing against the divorced version of yourself and how useful he would be to her.

Or just marry a women who has a good relationship with their dad and respects men

So true. You can get all the benefits of being married without signing any contract. Marriage is not only a useless institution but also a self destructive one. Save your hard earned money at all costs.

@@RedSpicyFeast1010 what a crappy outlook

​@@jasonboone4737how is it crappy? Adam and eve weren't married...

So thats none of them .

Most of them are into you because of the value you're bringing

Yeah then get screwed by the good ol bait and switch.Just live the bachelor life.

Women are professionals at this they will make you feel like they are into you but guys usually can see right through this day just refuse to believe it..

Grow your self and learn how to interact with people. I’m not working for a while and some how have a girl loving me inanely because I’m the only man to ever make her feel safe. And I’m a disagreeable Dick, but I know how to manage emotions and heal nervous systems. So that goes a long way.

I think its the effect if hormones plus wonen feel tgat theyre not giving enough to chikdren. When they are taught uts ok to have me time and time to be a wife then balance is restored.

You have written a good comment

are you a married woman you are beautiful

And even if you are, you'll still get fucked over just the same...

Muslims marry out of religious duty and they've a hella high divorce rate Unfortunately duty does not enter many people's lives anymore. They forget they entered a sacrament before God 🤷‍♀️

And they still don't get it....

This guy woke up and out of all languages in the world he chose to speak facts

I'm a Muslim and the only reason I would marry is because of my religion. My religion encourages marriage and any kind of intimate relationship with women outside of marriage is frowned upon. Fortunately, it's easier to find a virgin, religious and educated female in my country. Western women have gone crazy. This woke culture has destroyed Thier mentality.

Cool ..BUT your marriage represents less than 20% of all Marriages...my parents Marriage...many of my Siblings Marriages.,...🤔nope

​@@SchrodingersMath Then you should break the cycle of bad marriages in your family and try to work things out differently to how they did X

My husband and I are Best friends and we make each other laugh. We also are both on the same page when it comes to values, traditions, politics and BELIEFS. This is KEY! Married 16 years so far X

Same here …always going to be ups and downs but yield to love and commitment. It’s a gift from God.

The vows really are supposed mean something. If you can't live by them then don't get married. 31yrs married. We did separate and divorce for 3yrs but came back together and remarried. Love was still strong. We needed counseling and didn't seek it.

Yeah, there's MUCH more to this 15-second lawyer clip than what was shown. The problem, as I recall, is that the Stay-at-home-moms accounted for the largest percentage of the "careers" that were surveyed, therefore the percentage of Trad-wifes that got divorced was the same percentage as others that were surveyed. When you marry, it should be for having children, and you need to come to grips with who will be raising your children.

You guys are weak fragile little men so scared of strong and educated women 😂 it is so entertaining. Also. ..this guy is the most hurt man of KZfaq. Being divorced and full of resentment towards women

Where did you get all of that info about her?

@Chad lmao. There are far too many MASSIVE ASSUMPTIONS in the first lines of the OC (the “strikes”). Now you didn’t write it. I asked because maybe that person saw a much longer video. However I am doubtful and I think it’s more like what you said and it’s just an assumption. The only one that sounded bitter and angry was the person who made the original comment here. Clearly a woman hurt him. I do however agree with him that it’s almost always the women who “grow apart” from their relationship. I watched it in my own house and with many men I work with.

Why is every man attacking the lawyer? She is actually giving a good example that is really important. Women are focusing on children, men on their job and growing apart. Instead of emotional meltdown and attacks in her character, let's think about it. Is growing apart good for relationship? No. What to do to build strong relationship? Intentionally grow together. What do you need to grow together? Spend quality time, being attentive to each other's needs and problems, supporting each other, comunicate atc. Its actually great advice. You just see a female and a lawyer and assume the worst.

If we would have more stay at home moms, we would have less problems in society. We need moms to raise the kids, teaching them about morals and values. Don't believe the lies.

No association. I know more divorced religious couples than non. More cheating by the religious spouses too, go figure.

I’m not really buying what she’s saying. I mean it makes sense at first. But I thought most divorces were initiated by college educated womans? So college educated womans are just staying home? Idk, either way don’t marry them.

FACT !

Once you take faith out and societal pressure it's on the couple to be upfront about how dedicated they are to the idea of marriage. People don't want to do that.

Lifey insurancy

@@rocketboostjump ,Waste of money in our book..

@@rocketboostjump That's if he bothered taking any out to start off with. I've read so many accounts where the wife struggled because the husband didn't look into the future while he was alive, to ensure that the family would be taken care of if anything happened to him. When you're young, you think you're immortal and don't think that you could be run over by a bus tomorrow.

​@AxS that the individuals fault. My husband has life insurance, and he makes sure everything is set up if anything happens to him. This is why dating is so important. You must choose the one who's right for you.

​@@tammathashade1334 if thats your take then dont complain. The system is in place, so the remaining family will have something to stand on. It's not anyones fault you decided not to partake.

I'm sorry for your loss x

She's in a better place now. My condolences 🤝

That's so sad, my condolences. God bless you and lead you to happiness.

@@ohklahoma7376 how do you know that ?

​@@luc1d356 don't do that here. It wouldn't be fair to the thread opener.

Hmmm

2 become 1 under God. Bless you madam

No it doesn't leave you vulnerable. Women initiate 80% of divorce so the guy isn't gonna leave you unless you REALLY fuck up.

I advise all my Sons and Grandsons to never enter into a contract where one party is incentivised to break it. Marriage in the West is dead and women killed it.

Bless you

@@ChillConservative2k15 yes. It does make you vulnerable. If your husband leaves you for someone else you’re kind of screwed, and feminists have gotten women to believe this is the norm for most marriages. So, naturally married women feel vulnerable when they are stay at home moms and not able to make money. Swallow your bitter red pill and get over it. You people are just as bad as the stupid feminists. Only pigs fight in the mud over whose 💩 smells worse.

Yeah, to hell with the nuclear family.

Never sign a marriage contract That only Benefits one party Ladies!!!! FACTS

Both of you made great comments. This should be taught in high school.

Don’t matter if you sign a marriage contract or not. The judicial court has the ultimate decision, the judges have open wide discretion with immunity, and everything is rigged in favor of women…, and women know that. The lawyers know that too, they just want your money….

Marriage is an institution; it requires a lifelong commitment. And who wants to be committed to an institution for life? 🤷🏼‍♂️

i want to be friendship with you

Wait did you bring her back here or are y’all living in Mexico? I’m just asking cas I’ve heard stories of men bringing wives from other countries here, some end up bad some end up great.

May Prichard did. Modern family.

I found mine in the Philippines.

Yeah, I tried that. It was going great. Then her family "traditions" ruined it. Her parents essentially forced her to be with someone they planned her to be with since she was a child. Basically a forced marriage. The guy beats and bruises her, and her parents turn a blind eye, because their "traditions" dictate that the man is superior and always right. Now she's pregnant with twins by a man she hates. Mexican "machismo" culture is so backwards and outdated.

Bet ur kids don't look like you

exactly!

You are also in denial it seems like

​@Mr. Centrist I know it sure is difficult to interpret sarcasm. Bless your heart

Half your retirement

Way too many ignorant men set this exact scenario up. All the while, they act smug thinking how much better they are than other men because he can keep his wife at home while other "lesser" men have wives or girlfriends that also work. Yes, when they split she is going to completely ass-rape him in court with no complimentary reach around. Afterwards, I know many of those same men that are doing far less off than me, and are NOT having fun. If you do decide to put a ring on it, make sure that at a minimum she has her own job and career going, and enjoys her work Also, if you have kids, this is all the more reason to have a companion that has solid career. For the guys that I have talked to that are one income households, with wife at home, and especially with other kids at home, it really makes me feel stressed. I tell them that they are great fools and are being irressponsible. They often have responses like what are you talking about. I explain to them that if they get hit by a bus, get sick, or get laid off, then it is not just him that is in trouble, but his entire family is fucked. Not only does his wife have no job, no career, no money coming in, but because she has been out of work for so long, it will take her a very long time to build her career and make a decent living. In the broader scheme (since we are talking about broads), if you fly it, float it, or fuck it, you are way better off leasing it!

Do people get prenups? Dont they prevent that?

​@@gamertardguardian1299 Pre-nups get tossed out of Western courts.

@@gamertardguardian1299 prenups only work to a point. These days most of them get tossed out by judges or good divorce lawyers know how to get around them. Only really has teeth if you pair it with a post nup and good luck with that conversation.

Yes, you signed up to be a husband and father. Men who call themselves ATMs are neither. They're selfish and resentful and deserve the divorce they end up with.

So far....

@murky-snickett 22 year's so far.... Nothing last forever.

@@insomthegreat Exactly, so why get married lol

@@murky-snickett2961 Why live??? You get married to raise a family. You don't have to do anything.

The challenge for a man is to get the milk for free without obligated to buy the darn cow.🐮🤠💃🎠💵🥳😂🎠🎠

Men need to not think with their peepee. Keep it zipped until you know the lady you want to put it in. Don't put the peepee in unless you want to put a ring on her. Degen behaviour us what's messing up society, low impulse control is what has people imagining they are in love when they obviously are not.

How do you research a woman?

​@@gabriellaschweska2054 Compare specs with other models and read user reviews.

@@kebas239 do you go with the girl that has the most reviews with the highest score lol

Can’t fix a golddigger who was never really in it.

Fucking chore it takes two hands to clap. Do you say that to women too? Or only to the men. What about accountability for women? Women need to work at their relationships and marriages instead of mooching of the husbands money while getting plowed by deadbeat chad and tyrone from high school.

Doesn't work with narcissts though. They are black holes and they will destroy you and your marriage/family.

​@@shaunwalsh85 Facts

It is about "Life Choices"....own it. If you choose to stay home and play with the kiddies, then you need to be marketable, continue your degree, keep up on your credentials, continue ongoing education, stay informed. The kiddies don't need Mommy at home, after age 6, watching "The View" all day long. When things go south, then you should be back in the job/career market within a year. This "But I raised the kids", followed by the alligator tears in court, will be ending over the next 20 years. Alimony = Legalized Slavery.

Elektra: I could have given you the world. Bond: The world is not enough.

Why nurses?

@@xxx.118 - Cuz they're not right in the head.

@@HardRockMiner Wow that's not good. I am considering nursing, but apparently there's a lot of abuse thst takes place among the staff. So much for it being a caring profession. Did you date a nurse?

@@xxx.118 - 3.. They were all varying levels of psychotic.

@@HardRockMiner Wow. That's made me question my desired profession.

You do know if a marriage is going well or not , because you are not there watching when nobody is looking

Well it is advice being given by a career woman so there's that

Good point

Even people who are not career oriented have a job. Think the cashiers you encounter are careerists?

​@@vornamenachname594 but at some point it is economical for the mom to stay at home vs a cashier at 7-11

That is why the woman is full of shit.

Facts, if she's stay at home, so your probably working mad hours to provide. She get lonely and stray.

​@@jamiesp3901or men just get a side piece as they view their spouse as just a housewife or mother and that's not exciting anymore. I've seen this with my friends. They get other ladies to touch the peepee while their significant other is at home trying to keep the family together. There's a story for all sides and both men & women can act like despicable humans.

@Rios Girl98 the guy working themselves into an early grave isn't the same guy that get side piece. To get a side women, you have to have the looks, money and time to have another women with to many Red flags for the Wife. That's the business owners or executive/ management type 5% men. Their long hours are golf meetings or business dinners/ trips. You see the prefect situation for some bs to start. A normal 80k to 120k man trying to support a family is working 60+ hard hours. He hardly has time to sleep let alone entertain another family. I they be outliers yes, but in general, your talking about man 1 not man 2.

​@Riosgirl98 many marriages are sexless..men have needs 🤷‍♀️ and if the wife withholds sex...

@@Aribbonofsoundmen Same goes for women. It's an issue with both sexes, not just limited to men. If sex is the only reason you're with somebody then that person needs to look in the mirror.

No

The problem is the current iteration of feminism often puts it in a woman's head that the husband being at work all day is a form of neglect. And that's when the bullshit starts.

@@blacksquid270 A right thinking woman who is catered for financially and emotionally cannot spell the word neglect .. the women who run these themes are sad faces who are oblivious to the real world to know that life is not all bout them alone in their so called “relationships “ a dude has got to have time out too-

As a man I can say there are some very immature, selfish men in these comments who think only of themselves, not their wives or children.

This occurred for maybe 50 years of history. It never applied to all women.

Divorce didn't exist for a long time.

Between modern-feminism, social media, mainstream media and their single friends - they enter a relationship half assed with one foot in/one foot out already.

Well. This is the result of h00kup culture. When you toss out the religion out of the society, you are also throwing out the moralities

The first that touches his pee pee 😅😅😅

So you actually have 3 jobs now?

been researching 996 turbos for a year now. but i know how 304s are these days

I'm a 40 year old woman and I feel the same. I've always been really happy being single. People need to do what makes them happy and not what society wants them to do. I've been called names left, right and centre all because I won't put myself into a convenient box to ease other peoples opinions of my choices.

@@Riosgirl98 outstanding. You're so correct. Even as a man I get looked at strangely as in how can a man be so content in his own skin and not NEED companionship. There are others out there like you and me but not many. That's okay of course but I've met others that are single that get into relationships because they feel genuine loneliness. That's not a good thing because so many end up separate and divorced because they make the wrong choice based on the fear of solitude. Anyway I wish you all happiness always in your journey of a solo life. We are a rare breed.

@@sebastienseb919 Thank you for your comment. Yes I agree some people cave to fear and enter relationships for the wrong reason. Nothing should be done out of fear but solely out of love and gratitude. I hope people who chose to be single realise we can still live really satisfying and happy lives ❤ Being alone is not the same as being lonely. Bless you and your journey 🙏

@@Riosgirl98 😊

@@Riosgirl98 enjoy dying alone with no one by your side

Is she Filipina?

@@jasoncarter4343 You bet your candy ass she is 😂

I always say this. She has to be obsessed with you in a stalker type of way from the 1st ever date. If shes not texting you first after the 1st date saying she enjoyed the date or whens the next date Im not taking her seriously. Too many dudes are chasing way more then the girl🤢

If you want to keep them, you need to recognize her contribution and not be resentful about "being an ATM" or holding it over her head that you make all the money. It's a partnership, not a competition.

Are you serious?? Are you actually advising men to marry a woman who is already a stay-at-home mom? You're just trying to break up happy, functional families, and that's evil. You should be ashamed of yourself.

@@selohcin bro slow your roll lol I meant marry a girl who plans to be a stay at home mom, not one who's already established. You gave me a good laugh, thanks for that.

@@Pteromandias it's simple, really. As a man, you can control the money, and if she chooses to cooperate in her role, she gets to spend some of it. How is that a competition?

What's up our advice?

What is your advice?

Wow! You're my hero.

Finally a sensible good natured male human 👏. Im sorry you had to loose two women you loved. 😢

@@kennethwood6439 Don’t expect more from someone then what they can be. Don’t make many rules, it’s hard to keep them. Your partner is a extension of you, if you stole something you wouldn’t cut your hand off. So if she spends to much money, wrecks car, gets drunk, that is an extension of you. So learn to except it. Biggest thing when your dating if you don’t click separate now, don’t wish it to get better. If she likes you marry her, if she is cold or doesn’t like you do not marry or move in, it will only get worse. My wives were partners. They all lie, cheat and steal from time to time so you have to get use to it.