WOMEN ARE CHILDREN.. once you understand this, it will all fall into place.

Freedom with no responsibilities will do that to a person.

That's why I'm never getting married.

They are chaotic in nature

My wife did this. After being run through she came crying to me about how unfair life is! I asked her if it was fair how you destroyed our marriage. Why was she upset because? The younger models were on the scene soaking up all the attention. She was 33 but they were 21-25 she could not take it.

Yep, and that's why increasing numbers of men are walking away in disgust. If her list of demands is that long and unrealistic -- and she's consequently that difficult (if not impossible) to satisfy -- then she's simply way more trouble than she's worth.

Because women are literal children. They all grow old but most never grow up.

@@SingleTax Correct.

steve, you're correct.

Using logic & common sense to communicate to most women, is like singing to a houseplant to make it grow better.

..theyre all 10/10, yet need make-up, expensive clothes, invasive surgery, prescribed narcotics, acrylic nails, hair extensions, lip filler, nose jobs, BBLs, high heels, etc, etc, etc..

great statement

'They' manipulate for multiple purposes, not just money. It's maximising and using up as much as possible.

The Princess Syndrome is real. We teach girls they're never wrong, and when they make a mistake it's because someone (mostly boys or men) did something to provoke them to make a bad decision.

Yes. Women are born with value just because they exist. As long as they don’t get fat and are tolerable personality wise they will be pursued. Men on the other hand only have the value they earn.

I watch his first video the day he launched.

No wonder the country's broke.

He's an idiot

​@@chadsensei-ue6jn ..seethe...

@@janerikpe5852same

1) Most of the time if they get bored it's due to guys getting to lax in the relationship or too busy with other priorities. 2) Clubbing--problems are going to happen, it will eventually backfire on her 3) Dangerous men--plain stupidity, you get what you ask for. Women with this thinking will continue to shed tears and be miserable.

Women talking about attention may sound like a complaint, but deep down, it's a brag.

really depends on the women honestly, some are more of the party type than others, some women are perfectly satisfied staying at home and reading a good book watching a romance movie/ series. Other women are intellectually stimulated in which case yea you got to keep them from getting bored so they don't leave, but if they leave they're not leaving to go to a club, they're probably leaving to go talk to another guy, or possibly even a women, on more intellectually stimulating things because you're just to dumb to be interesting to her.

@@SCOTT77100 Women crave emotional drama.

@@SCOTT77100 You seem like a "Nice Guy" Scott That's code for chump where women are concerned. How many married women have you bedded who explained this to you?

My relative is named Serenity,,and she agrees with you 100%

Yeah, I think I saw a video where one woman admitted it was a stupid idea to break up her relationship: "I mistook complacency for boredom."

And they absolutely HATE boredom.

Marriage counselings ...

@@Muck006 if men were made in the image of god, were women in the image of buffoonery ?

@@Muck006 That hard part there is at that point (I assume you meant post-wedding counseling) that is a day late and a dollar short. High school is where this needs to be taught.

That was my overwhelming thought when I encountered this guy’s content on his KZfaq channel for the first time. Damn, I wish someone taught me this stuff when I was 18. Instead I had to get friendzoned one time too many and learn the hard way that women don’t really like those qualities, even though they claim to.

Yeah right...would instantly be shut down as 'sexist' towards women lmao

Stop copy pasting this quote already. Its old and Al aint no hero or role model... pff

​@Kleyworks But what if it's the truth? Old or not.

@@Kleyworks Funny I typed it out from memory. Don't hate the truth, embrace it.

@@edwo6648 Sorry mate... The quote is doing its round a lot together with warm memories of Al making 4 deciding touchdowns for the cup or whatever - whatever..

I'm thinking men are starting to understand women...and now that they do, they are walking off.

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This is literally true. I know there are laugh emojis but my sister told me straight up. She makes her financial decisions emotionally, and the things she chooses are the things she thinks other women will be jealous of. This kind of chaotic and constant hostility makes no sense to me.

It's commonly known that wpmen will generally show more interest in men that other wpmen want.

In high school I had a crazy ex from another school stalking me to knock on the classroom door and plead we talk in the hall. Two girls in the class I'd never spoken to just handed me their phone numbers - one seconds later at my desk and the other after the bell rang. Later in life as a contractor I leaned that jealousy between female clients would create drama, but also gild my work no matter what. Selecting men on basis of popularity is guaranteed to keep women in a bubble of mediocre lady's men.

They seem to be their own worst enemies.

and they vote on feelings

That was my conclusion after 20 years of dating.

Don't ever say that to a woman, she'll lose her mind.

@@Vade1313 hmmmm, makes you wonder why we ever gave them the vote to begin with. Maybe our forefathers knew best and only men should have had that right.....

Yes and no, I think as men we always need to be on look out for the perfect women that wouldn't divorce us. in today's age though that's complicated because not only do you need to make sure you match up in every way possible and you love each other, and you're vibing in multiple different situations, you also have to make sure your women is not one to be swayed easily by societal pressures because the easier that society can change and influence her, the more likely she will change and grow out of the relationship. So basically if you're looking to get married you need to also put close to the top of the criteria of what constitutes a keeper, a woman that's intelligent and individualistic.

@@hoppeanofasgard1365 Sounds good in theory, but reality is a fickle beast.

@@hoppeanofasgard1365 Statistically, marriage is a terrible choice for men. While men might think they can choose wisely and correctly, statistically men are more likely to choose wrong than choose right. One would not fly in an airplane that has a greater than even chance of crashing but men choose marriage and the subsequent divorce all the time.

I was married for 20 years the first time, and the second time it was over in a few weeks. I gave up on it all. Now every ten years I just pick a woman I hate and buy her a house.

@@geobloxmodels1186 That's why I don't give them my real name.

I don't think that 80% are in the ghost zone, but 80% are considered to be ''mid'' or even below average! Which means that a lot of women end up settling! The % in the ghost zone is roughly equal to the % of men who never get laid or if they do get laid it's with prostitutes. Perhaps 50% are ghosts???

Same here brother same here my friend you and me the same.

Total degeneration.

Divorce court for a man with children is very difficult to describe. As an example, the judge said for me to sign my house over to her using a quick claim deed. If I refused to sign, the judge said she would sign my name. No wonder men refuse marriage. The internet is showing men how bad it is.

I feel like I hear the same story from any man that's really good with getting women. They've been with a decent amount of them and some of them are married or in a relationship and don't even tell the player until after. And it totally sours the player on women in general. One thing I'd offer, is that maybe it's not that all women are like that but the women that respond to a bad boy player type while in a relationship obviously are.

​@@scottverge938but as we see from hoe math the majority of women want the bad boy, it has been estimated that only 5% of women are really marriage materal, the long odds of finding the few that are suitable makes it worse than the casino. And many of the ones that would make good wives are not the lookers that men would like. If you get a ugly fat woman she will have less options, and thus is more likely to behave, and less likely to have an entitled attitude.

And the more that men check out, the better it is for the men that don't.

This isn't natural. This was done on purpose. The destruction of the nuclear family in Western Civilization was done on purpose. Start with the law. The law DESTROYS men in divorce. Next, is government becomes the surrogate man by providing monetary benefits. Next, is cultural - "strong independent" women don't need no man. And now women are going crazy with depression. And Western Civilization is collapsing - Depopulation Bomb. All on purpose. It's just that most normies are too dumb to realize what's going on.

When men check out.. I bet it improves their bad boy score. Haha. Like how people say “when you stop looking for love it can find you.”

@@LaborHours Not really. This works only for the guys that don't fall in the "no people" zone (if you haven't already, check out hoe_maths charts, that stuff is fun :) ). Just being available isn't enough, you still have to be attractive measured by current standards of success and hotness.

Correct. I blame liberal (as in our current neo-liberal) society. It caters to women. It’s all about individual empowerment and satisfaction of desire, largely through materialism. It was a different world before deregulation of the sexual marketplace. Then women sought and valued stability. Now they want excitement.

For most, the State discourages connection by revoking support. If she gets past that, there's a clause allowing collection of spousal benefits associated with multiple deceased husbands. Arsenic and Old Lace, codified.

Look at the primary entertainment form marketed for women - the soap opera. Women deny they enjoy or indeed need emotional drama but if they didn't why do millions of them watch that slop?

Women ascend. They are not looking.

yup...just watch a soap opera....every episode is a marriage or divorce or coma....drama drama drama....

I honestly want to be happy too. I'm in a relationship, and even though we're apart, I can't imagine my life without her; my love for her is strong. I really want her to come back, and I'm fully dedicated to making that happen. We've tried different paths, like therapy, to fix things.

Moving on from someone you hold dear is invariably challenging, but in my experience, I was guided by a spiritual counselor who prevented the breakdown of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.

Thank you for this advice. I'll promptly start searching for her online. I appreciate it. I'm optimistic that pursuing this approach will also lead to favorable outcomes for me; her absence weighs heavily on me.

Welcome... You should..

This seems like an AI-bot comment... it's not touching the actual topic. And there's another comment here almost identical.

Dr. Simp will just over talk him in not letting him get a word in. Like he always does when someone is winning an argument against him. This is why I don't watch TV, it's garbage.

Makes me want to start spamming Dr Phil's videos telling him he needs to talk to Hoe Math. Dr Phil is a fuckin joke. I'd love to see him have an honest conversation with him.

@@thystaff742 Well, that's Dr. Simps job. He's also a gate keeper. And you're right. TV is garbage, 100% pure manure and poison.

This is why we love social media. We can tune into what we want to watch.

Dr Shill is not even a doctor man's an actor 😂😂. Phil need to worry about his hairline instead of other people.

After they win they will divorce him. They won, they took his money and they can be free again.

Yep!, that's how it works, and that's why they'll put up with harems, which while most guys love that kind of situation, they rarely if ever understand the dynamics at play because they know damn well if the situation was reversed they'd be disgusted, but guys are not women. totally different mindset.

Every woman thinks her vagina is magic and will convince the man that he only needs her forever.

​​​@@hoppeanofasgard1365 ..whats more disgusting.. dipping a chip in the community guacamole, then trying the salsa, then, oh, is that chipotle?.. Or, being the side dish that every man in the party is dipping his fingers into... Exactly.

probably two of them have agreed two share him.... they will remain his sleepers for life if he gives them what they want

Marriages would be more successful even without arranged marriages if you get rid of no fault divorce so women couldn't just leave because they weren't "feeling" it anymore. Marriage in its current state means absolutely nothing when you can get out of it at a whim and get cash and prizes if the man didn't protect himself accordingly.

@Malinkadink That is true. We live in a gynocentric world. Men need to be Men again and make changes.

@@Malinkadink Even if no fault divorces were a thing of the past marriage would be a terrible thing for men. Attractiveness for women drops STEEPLY in their teens or at the start of their 20s. For men it rises until their mid 30s, then alls off very slowly. Studies show the sex drive of women drops STEEPLY once they get married. Women do not want to have children anymore: over half of all European wh:te women will never have kids, those who do on average have their first child at the age of 35.

@@txdmsk Attractiveness for women drops in late TEENS?? Wtf dude

​@@snicklefritzfryright? Somebody might wanna check this guys hard drive 😮 might be some pdf files saved in there

I'd just reply "the right to change your mind doesn't mean you won't have to deal with the consequences of changing your mind..."

Making a deal with an entity like that only made sense when you had outside factors that made it very difficult for said entity to act on those mood swings. Now all of that is gone and with it goes the concept of marriage.

Listen Bros, you wouldnt sign a contract with any other stranger or family for that matter where they get all sorts of your hard earned cash and prizes just because they change their mind.. there is literally no reason to get married, ever.. if she wants to be mad about it, she can go protest with her vagina hat and tits out on capital hill to remove no-fault divorce laws.. oh, and DNA test at birth, no exceptions

@@city_of_coompton6832 Except that when you reply that way it means that you are hateful and therefore dangerous. Yes, that's what it means to those women.

She gets a house, land, alimony when she changes her mind. It's an easy decesion for her. That's why they do it.

Women are born rich and with age, become richer in spirit.

​@@shans1986Lol.... yeah, sure thing sweetheart

​@@shans1986Or cats.

God I wish we had all been taught lesson.

As is true with human nature, you don't tend to appreciate that which you didn't WORK for (like when daddy buys you a new Camaro for your 'sweet16', vs saving from your after-school job to buy your first clunker). Females are BORN with value- most don't appreciate this and thus waste it. Males must WORK for their value. They not only appreciate it but are righteously angry when a female uses the courts to steal much of the value he worked for for "no fault" reasons after he invested in her.

In general, men bond much more to women than women to men - how come tho is there science behind this

" In general, men bond much more to women than women to men." Actually, this is only in the case of men who do not have abundance. Women select men, so when a man gets the only woman that "settles" with him he has no other option but to worship her. At the same time same woman is still getting attention from other men - any error on his part will get him dumped. Understanding where you are on the HOE MATH chart is very important, if you have abundance you are most likely on the left side and you understand the game - your filter for "bonding" or standards are much higher, and you simply do not "bond" to the first woman that gives you attention.

thery never had that knowledge they just stopped paying attention to the men in their families

The difference was that ... Get this... Girls *like... Being used... As king as the guy is a real chad. Its not a "mistake" per se... Its a willing choice, and one they are thrilled to make. It just so happens that this choice has some monumentally negative consequences.

you mean right at the same time as mothers entered the work place??? and the free love/sex generation happened

@@patrickday4206 Probably a correlation. Although women were always in the workplace. My mom grew up with no father, because he was killed fighting the Germans in France in 1945. My grandmother had to work on the assembly line at General Electric in Philadelphia, which she did for many years until the late 1970s. But community hadn't been completely destroyed in those days as it has now. So my mom had her entire extended family all in the same small neighborhood growing up. Everyone looked out for her too, because her father was a war hero and that was well respected then. It was an entirely different world. The way that time is now generally perceived is grossly inaccurate too. Women being driven into the workplace en masse to serve as tax cattle was a deliberately engineered operation.

@@jamesclark6427 some say the government encouraged it to increase tax revenue

It's always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing. Her name is monica Erlene mora...

You won't regret it

AI-Bot.

What looks is be a Chad and keep her in her place. And she must look up to you

I agree. The mistake is the bad boy she doesn't want back.

LMAO, so sad but true!

That zone doesn't mean you have multiple girls. It means you're attractive enough to get multiple girls, but you forego them for your keeper and give her all your investment

I think you might be the one confused. Being considerate and polite, especially to a fault, is exactly what makes a nice guy a nice guy. Btw, there's nothing wrong with being nice, as long as it doesn't come at the expense of virtue and personal boundaries. E.g. it's not possible to truly exercise virtues like honesty, transparency, integrity, etc, without risking offending others. Also, when nice to a fault, it becomes manipulation (i.e. choosing words with a focus on manipulating thoughts and feelings in someone else, regardless if the intent is good or bad). The only form of communication that isn't some form of manipulation, is to choose words that focus on describing what one truly feels and thinks, and this risks offence. Plus these virtues require courage and strength of character in some scenarios, and the opposite is cowardice and weakness, which are not virtues. The process of attraction happens subconsciously. It's not a conscious thought process or choice. People experience attraction as things they feel, "chemistry", "vibe", etc. Women can't help often being romantically attracted to courage, honesty, integrity, transparency, strength, confidence, etc., and not the opposite of these. Human beings are biological pattern recognition machines. Millions of years of Darwinian evolution went into women being able to subconsciously sense the physical and behavioral traits needed to raise offspring with optimally. Some animals mate select with peacock feathers and dances and the attraction process is instinctive, our species has our own mate selection process and criteria coded into our DNA as well. Human males evolved to play a specific role in our species via hundreds of thousands of years of natural selectin, just like any other male in it's species evolved a role, and in humans females evolved to mate select accordingly (the purpose of mate selecting is to mate and produce offspring). it's that simple. Being "nice" makes women like a guy. What it doesn't do is arouse women (we evolved to have arousal, to induce behavior that produces offspring).

Women rarely confuse. They feel everything a mile away)))

​@@tylerdurden3722OP comment was spot on and your long rebuttal was unnecessary.

@@tylerdurden3722you're in error, niceness is agreeableness and obsequiousness. Not to be confused with kindness, which is generosity and deference for someone according to their station (honor)

if she is not sure about that aspect, she will test you. she will do something that a man who has abundance would say NO to, if you do not say NO to her - you are a nice dude without a spine. nice man is afraid to say NO because she might reject him, this is where nice dudes make a mistake.

is Olive Oyle virgin ?

Blitz took the Olives pit 🫒

Well...Blow Me Down!!!

@@garyhoward2490 Olive will do the job, for sure.

Reality gets written into art. There was nothing funny about how the cartoonists portrayed female nature. From the classics to cartoons the truth of things has a way of showing forth.

Agree

I've come to this conclusion too, but it took me years to come that understanding because growing up we are taught women mature faster than guys and are the ones with the more level heads as a result of that maturity.

Women, not all, but most don’t even know what they are going to think from one day to the next. They are not logical but ‘emotional thinkers’ controlled by their hormones. It’s their tragedy, and in a way, men’s too. 🙄

​​@@hoppeanofasgard1365 Both things are true. In almost all animals with some exceptions (like pandas due to extreme malnutrition) the most developed are born less mature, less independent and mature slower, but they mature further. In contrast others reach "adult" state faster but develop no further.

Yeah, misogyny is just sooooo logical.

My sister's friend called me an incel lol, I'm more voluntarily celibate because I'm no longer a teenager/young 20 year old with nothing to lose. I told my mother if I get married I'm putting my assets in a trust with her.

He makes some good points but his chart is crap

@@Richard-mq7wf Seethe simp

Most of my college education is in computer science. I can relate to the highly analytical way of thinking.

By chasing men out of your league and demanding he settle for less

Just be a bitch - the rest will take care of itself

By slutting around until the good one comes along . Then the good one figures out your past. Throws up and leaves .

In a old Simpson epsisode before they went woke they made a Backstory about The angry cat lady. And its frightningly accurate

When did they go woke?

That's why you have to play on that emotionality of women, if you can't trust them to keep a commitment, then work with what works, be romantic with her to always bring out the feelings that are conducive to keeping her. it's that or bust I'm afraid with most these day.

My 6 year old acts this way, she will say she wants to eat such and such, then 5 minutes later she suddenly doesn’t want to eat what she said she wanted to eat 5 minutes prior and now wants something else. This behaviour is also not a one of here and there, it’s a reoccurring theme constantly changing her mind and not being able to make a decision and stick to it. Having children gives you a very good insight into the psyche of the majority of females if you are observant enough. It really isn’t an exaggeration when it is said that many women act like little children.

@@jermaineayivoh8263 It can get so frustrating at times though... Tell me do you know how we came to as a society to have this false notion that women mature faster than men? Because clearly for the majority of them they stick to their childish ways longer.

@@hoppeanofasgard1365 As to your point about maturity, well I suppose it depends on what we are trying to define maturity as. If we are strictly speaking about physical maturity, then yes girls comparatively to boys tend to reach their physical maturation point at an earlier stage. You’ll sometimes have 12-14 year old girls that have fully developed female bodies. Boys however tend to not hit puberty until 15, 16 or sometimes “only” at 17 years of age. When it comes to the mental side of things that’s a completely different story. I reckon when it comes to mentality it’s a combination of nature and nurture. As men not only do we generally tend be better at keeping our emotions and grievances in check, we are also expected to take responsibility for actions to a much higher degree than females are expected to. Males get harsher judgment and treatment from society at large for stepping outside of the accepted gender norms. Females however generally get much more leeway and have many of their faults and missteps excused or completely ignored. In a sense it’s the same way misbehaviour and law breaking from a child isn’t met with the same sort of punishment/ disciplinary action as misbehaviour/ law breaking from an adult when it comes to the court of law. The fact that women tend to reach physical maturity at an earlier age than men do, works as an advantage in their younger years yet paradoxically becomes a disadvantage later down the line. The advantage is that very early on in life, women tend to get an abundance of attention from the opposite gender just for existing, meaning most women have achieved next to nothing in their younger years yet at times manage to acquire attention from men as if they have some sort of celebrity status (depending on their physical attractiveness of course). The downside to this is that it causes many women to get mentally stuck at the age at which they started receiving vast amounts of attention from men. Because of this many women grow up with the delusion that they don’t need to change anything about themselves, why would they if being just themselves was enough to attract plenty of men in the their youth ? This is also why when men make the mistake of asking females for dating advice, what they will often be told is “just be yourself”. The reason women tend to give this advice is because it worked for them on masse when they were young and attractive. Attracting women as a man however is much more nuanced and complicated than it is for a woman to attract a man. The chickens come home to roost however once women begin to age and lose their youthful looks. This is the stage at which many women are confused as to why they aren’t capable of attracting men like they used to be in the past. The answer of course is extremely obvious, but since many women have a problem with self reflection, many fail to come to the proper conclusion! As to it at times being very frustrating having to deal with women, yes females can be on occasions a headache to deal with at the best of times. Though I also find that many men make the mistake of trying to communicate with women as if they were men. Logic tends to be the domain and language of men. Emotion tends to be the domain and language of women. When you’re trying to converse and interact with a child, you aren’t going to get very far by talking to it as if it were a grown adult. You could talk about quantum physics to a kid, but it is mostly likely going to look at you in confusion and eventually get bored and go on to do something else, instead of trying to communicate in a language it doesn’t understand or doesn’t have any interest in. Instead you’d be better off to lay out a colouring book and several differently coloured crayons in front of the child, and then say something along the lines of: “Hey doesn’t this book look exciting ? I wonder what colours would best suit that tree over there ?”. The same principle must be applied when talking to women. You need to be able to interact in the language that females respond to. If you are able to affect a woman’s emotions through your presence as a man, the likelihood of her falling for you significantly increases. It’s in a woman’s nature to feel attracted to a man that can influence her emotions. The worst thing you can be to a woman, is a man that has no effect on her emotions. A man that has no effect on a woman’s emotions may as well be a ghost to her. You may as well not exist in her eyes. Modern day society has played its part in incorrectly teaching men that women and men are equal, meaning the same. Men, women and children all have their value in society of course, but we are by no means the same. The sooner men realise this and act accordingly, the better off they will be in the long run. The advantage of being a creature of logic instead of a creature of emotion is that logic can be used to understand emotion and it’s origin, whilst emotion if allowed to remain unchecked can wreak pure chaos with little to no understanding of where it came come. This may be a pretty long winded post, but I really thought about the questions you asked and tried to give the most thorough of answers that I could come up with.

@@jermaineayivoh8263 Nonono, that was amazing, and I enjoyed reading all of this post. I'm the kind of guy that likes to leave no stone unturned so the more detailed the answer the better as far as I'm concerned. Thanks, and I largely agree with practically everything you said here, make a lot of sense!

Good point, thank you

A castle besieged, is not a castle no more. It's a hut now.

All their value comes from external sources. Hollowed out

Which is why the father was the one in charge of setting daughters up with committed relationships historically. That’s why the father is the one who walks down the aisle in marriage and literally hands the daughter over to her husband. It’s because leaving relationship building up to women has always been a chaotic fail, you read about such things even in the Bible.

It makes sense in a twisted way why women found Ted Bundy attractive

WOMEN aren't worth it anymore.

@@ruckboger I'm totally not surprised. Think about what characteristics makes a bad boy a bad boy. You''ll eventually realize that women just like bad boys lol like literally.

True, and barely any men will challenge them because doing so is a losing strategy. Men tell them that they are 10s to make them feel like they are keepers, even when they obviously are not.

it's hard for women to resit the Chad, the Chad is the guy that's 10 out of 10 on the good looking meter, dresses well, and has super smoothness powers and possibly status as well. If a guy has all of that stuff, a women would have to be very smart and logical with a good up brining to resist the charm, basically you're looking at maybe 5% being able to say no. In other words, a chad is going to chad, and women are going to swoon for it.

@@hoppeanofasgard1365 Chad isn't going to ask he will make you ask.

Chad-widowed

yeah remember her talking about the expert she would believe anything he said because of how he said it. As a man on a jury I would scrutinize anything anyone presented then make my decision.

I'm moderately introverted myself, want to know how I overcame this limitation with women? I dressed in ways that got their attention and worked out. I never could overcome not being the life of the party personality, around to many people I get quiet and my thoughts go more inward, I just don't have that kind of charisma either, but it didn't matter when I looked masculine and always kept up with the fashion trends that women find hot. Try it, I can't guarantee it'll work for you but what do have to lose!

Changing my appearance to simultaneously be more masculine and 'fashionable' would just be an act and way outside of my comfort zone. I'd rather be myself, comfortable and alone than fake and uncomfortable (and still alone, more likely than not).

@@AlexandriPatris Well you kind of have to let it become you. I'll admit when I started working out I liked it, and I think that's a big part of it too. But you're probably right, if you don't enjoy working out a women might detect that you're not being yourself and that can work against you almost as much as a more muscular physique is working for you. As far as keeping up with fashion trends though, honestly it's neither here nor there for me, I don't not like it but I don't particular enjoy wearing all of these hot in style clothes either. If really pressed on the issue I probably would just say I'd like to just wear a t shirt and blue jeans and call it a day lol, but somehow it works, but I make it work too. But it's up to you, my only advice is sometimes maybe we have to step outside our comfort zones just a little bit to get what we want. But that's just what I found works maybe there's other ways. Good luck in anycase!

​@@AlexandriPatrisMight want to check in with yourself if "extreme" introversion is a cover for disordered anxiety. "Fake and uncomfortable" are also giving me that impression. It's not an act, it's an action, as in "actionable goals". Nothing wrong with a little discomfort when pushing yourself, but if a lot of discomfort keeps you from desired companionship, that's going to be a problem if you're an introvert or not. There's a point where choosing comfort can become incredibly uncomfortable.

If you own your creepiness and ickiness you will transform through it and become better. We are all capable of being creepy. And capable of excepting it.

My story is very similar. Classic nice guy. Grew up on a farm. Athlete. Always helped the neighbors or anybody else who needed it. Got cheated on by my first serious girlfriend and it broke my heart and my faith in women and to a lesser extent humanity. I swore off relationships. Learned some cold approach tricks from some of my older cousins and became a player. By the time I was in my mid twenties was keeping a rotation of 3 or 4 women that I would "date". If I met a new girl who really caught my attention I would ditch one of the others. Then I met the woman who got me to give up the other women and I married her. We just had our 30 year anniversary recently and to this day she says I am the biggest jerk she ever met. My wife got to see that the good guy, at least some of him was still inside me. The simple fact is that a man just cannot afford to show weakness to a woman before she has been imprinted by him and he knows she is a decent person herself.

that is because women are valued for virtue but most resent it but don't want to be seen that way if they acted that way. It is part of why they like bad boys they don't want to be the bad one, the bigger/fat one, the older one, ect

This comment will remain engraved on the stone of my heart until death. Holy shit.

​@@StarboyXL9I tried in martial arts to a very high degree, and I have heard similar comments from women. I tell them that "I am trained to know how to kill people", and you can see their eyes become like saucers.

Great book! An eye opener. I read it in my childhood/early teen and along hearing my mother, teacher and principal of a girls school, so fed up about other XXs made me a red pilled guy decades before that was actually a term.

Also the predatory female.

1971. Good book.

@ms-jl6dl I was going to say I need to revisit it. But it'd actually be visit it as I've only breezed through parts... I need to take my own advice

The whole system is gynocentric and serves the feminine evolutionary mating imperative

If they'd take all that away? Women would start acting right again!

It’s as risky and volatile as penny stocks lol 😂

Absolutely correct.

I think women should have the right to choose the man they want to be with, BUT that requires a women to actually be able to really think about what she wants on a deeper level than most do, for her to be able to self reflect on a lot of things and of course to be mature. As such it's not really so much the fathers or brothers right to insist they marry a certain person and not others, so much as it is to guide them and stop the worst of the trashy guys from getting a chance at least until she's mature enough or wise enough on her own. obviously when that time comes for anyone particular women will vary greatly though.

@@hoppeanofasgard1365 It’s her right to choose. It’s her responsibility to Deal with that choice.

@@current9455 For the most part I agree with you, but fathers can't just take a back seat either. fathers not being there to guide their daughters largely results in the society we have today where men are frustrated that women have slept with to many guys and women are frustrated because they end up single at 35 with no future prospect of ever resolving that issue and ending up alone.

@@hoppeanofasgard1365 Women are the gate keepers of s€x Men are the gatekeepers Of relationship’s. There are zero keepers.

That is why strong and stoic men were want made the good times. We are currently ruled by the weak and evil men who have weaseled their way into power because they are psychopaths.

I hear ya. But you see, that's the thing: Women do not prioritize kindness and stuff. In fact. they think a kind man is a weak man.

"This world is going to hell" Has been since 1776. "and they are pushing it there harder" Good. You all deserve Hell. You know nothing but hatred. "What kind of world will our children get?" Lol, you think there's going to be children in the future? Hilarious.

Holy crap! I just looked that up and you literally quoted it perfectly. I must have read that version many times... But I never actually really understood it until today. Daaang!

@@breakingthemasksthat's the apocrypha. Better to read proverbs and Ecclesiastes cause you know those are actually divinely inspired. How do we know? The Old Testament is repeatedly quoted by the new, and the apocrypha never is

Single mothers create players. People still don't realize this.

nope, women create single mothers Women control access to sex (needed to create kids) Women destroy relationships (hence them being single) Women choose bad boys who wont commit to them Women refuse to marry good men and stick with them

Women choose players. People ignore this.

Woman has 100% control over who gets inside her body AND who comes out of her body. YOU are part of the problem.

Single mothers raise players. People ignore this.

yup.

These days, good guys don't even get in the race. You just get to pick up the remnants years down the line. So lucky! /s