Don't Expect Me To Be Your Friend - LOBO " fhe619 "( with lyrics )

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12 жыл бұрын

I love you too much to ever start liking you. So don't expect me to be your friend. I don't walk down through the village or other places. That we used to go to all the time.

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@demietria Жыл бұрын

This song is my mantra.. for 11 years, I love a man who doesn't love me.. he moved on to another lady. He told me many times now that he wants us to be able to hang out like we used to.but I know that it's just me that suffers the consequences of hope. If no one can relate to this song, they are lucky.

@richardmoore2124 6 ай бұрын

I guess I'm not so lucky. I'm 61 years old, never been married or had kids. I've always been second best. At my age now, I know that there was never anyone for me and there never will be. If God hates me so much, then why did he create me and sentence me to a life of loneliness? Beats the flying fuck outta me! I feel your pain, believe me, I do!

@geneglor5045 6 ай бұрын

God is love i know God loves you. There are chances may came your way that somebody loves you but never notice it? Take your time .do believe out of knowhere someone's looking for you.

@gregsimmons441 4 жыл бұрын

"So let's just let the story kind of end" Took me almost 40 years to reach this point.its actually pretty freeing. This song is so touching to me even all these years later

@molarguy 4 жыл бұрын

p.... is that what you want ( let the story kind of end)

@gregsimmons441 4 жыл бұрын

@@molarguy after 40 years, I think I would finally have peace

@molarguy 4 жыл бұрын

@@gregsimmons441 ; I WON'T YOU TO BE HAPPY ( I LOVE YOU, BUT IF YOU JUST WISH TO BE FRIEND )THEN THERE IS NOTHING THAT I CAN DO ....YES !!! AFTER 40- year's YOU WOULD THINK THAT ( I HAVE MOVE ON

@molarguy 4 жыл бұрын

I' AN THE ONE WHO GOT DUMPED

@molarguy 2 жыл бұрын

@@musicompro5081 DO U REALLY WANT THIS TOO END JUST TELL ME OKAY...... I'AM NOT THE ONE WHO IS SAYING LET IT END.

@rajkumarsharma-ec2vi 5 жыл бұрын

Even after 25 years of listening , this one still touches heart ! 😊👌

@jadaaleeshamindexpert7365 5 жыл бұрын

Who did this song originally...

@Cobalt_Star 3 жыл бұрын

@@jadaaleeshamindexpert7365 Lobo wrote it himself, under his real name Kent L*

@kevingallagher6804 Жыл бұрын

Me too…

@petegarza2025 Жыл бұрын

One of the most beautiful saddest songs of all time...Back in 2013 I met a wonderful woman who I started dating and after several months we became full fledged boyfriend and girlfriend we were madly in love but ironically the relationship only lasted for 5 years but they were some of the happiest years of my life...In the year 2018 she met someone else and got married and I was devastated but life went on as I soon discovered... Tragically in 2020 she lost her life to the Corona virus and all I can think about is the good times we had together...R.I.P. babe...😭😭😭...

@teresaolson5011 Жыл бұрын

😢

@petegarza2025 Жыл бұрын

@@teresaolson5011 Ty for your heartfelt condolences...God bless you Ma'am 🙏🙏🙏

@stevegust2100 Жыл бұрын

Condolences

@petegarza2025 Жыл бұрын

@@stevegust2100 Ty for your heartfelt condolences ... Stay safe 🙏

@wagnercarvalhomachado8432 10 ай бұрын

My condolenses. 😢

@davewillis3437 3 жыл бұрын

A song about the fallacy of the adage of "Let's just be friends". If you truly loved someone that is simply impossible. No matter how much you try, you simply cannot ever settle for friendship. The deep feelings get in the way.

@whowho 2 жыл бұрын

But between a friendship or nothing at all, which is better?

@lindseyduran4446 2 жыл бұрын

Friendship, or nothing at all. Deep thoughts, intriguing question. In my opinion, not a correct answer, personal choice. Two involved individuals, both must agree. In my situation, absolutely no doubt in my mind. Preference for him to remain part of my life. Obviously, we are not in agreement.

@alicastillo9839 2 жыл бұрын

Para el reposo , y el romance estas canción es exelente

@fourthtunz 2 жыл бұрын

@@whowho The person you may be in love with does not have a dog in the fight or cat ha ha so it’s better not to be their friend it’s too hard if you’re in love with them

@kristenperrine5006 Жыл бұрын

@@lindseyduran4446 I agree. I'd rather him be a part of my life, but clearly he can't do that. I wish someday he will change his mind.

@bencumby9132 3 жыл бұрын

This song always reminded me of a love interest (in my mind) from high school. I always thought it was just me but 38 years later I get a message on my phone. Maybe it wasn't just me. I feel 17 again.

@jenniferjamison4912 3 жыл бұрын

9 months later...do you still feel 17? ❤️

@tommymcvie9961 2 жыл бұрын

......and thats good, ben cumby.......tommy mvcie

@mitchellsummerlin297 2 жыл бұрын

That's cool. Enjoy it!

@lindseyduran4446 2 жыл бұрын

You write beautifully Ben! Relate to similar story, thanks for the memories!

@bencumby9132 2 жыл бұрын

@@lindseyduran4446 Thank you for your comment. I love this song. I'm driving across the southwest corner of New Mexico tonight. I stopped for a break and saw your comment. Thanks. I'm playing the song now and it will get me to Phoenix with happy memories of my youth.

@rathapho3929 4 жыл бұрын

I am from Cambodia. My dad left me LOBO's CD album still. Missing him and he gone for years past

@gregorymorrison3434 2 жыл бұрын

I loved a woman from Cambodia years ago!

@mikey6538 6 жыл бұрын

a beautiful sad song. they sure don't write songs with such painful lyrics anymore.. I am glad to grow up listening to such classics in the 70s. sad that time has gone too fast.

@kathyvaness9255 6 жыл бұрын

Mi Key is this you

@mikey6538 5 жыл бұрын

@@kathyvaness9255 what you mean?

@germanmontejo22 3 жыл бұрын

Try listening to I'm Not The Only One by Sam Smith and I Love You So by The Walters. Both of these songs are new, like only a few years old. They both have painful lyrics and the story is really sad if you look at it.

@maltipillai4553 Жыл бұрын

But music is eternal so enjoy 💓

@samuelbowles4523 3 жыл бұрын

I can't listen to this without crying....

@tomcox22 5 ай бұрын

When you hear about latest lover is truly when the walls start crashing in

@bloodybones63 6 ай бұрын

Pray you never hear the 'F' word from someone you love. It means they think they can do better, & they hope you will go away.

@dennisg-olofson3711 9 жыл бұрын

You can not enjoy a Love Song unless it has meaning for you. This song has meaning for many who loved someone who could not share his or her love. Sorry for all who can not feel this.

@peterpiper831 5 жыл бұрын

Dennis G - Olofson Why are you sorry ? Would it not be better to meet someone you CAN share your love with ?

@molarguy 4 жыл бұрын

@@peterpiper831 p

@TheGodLambert 2 жыл бұрын

Actually,then, they are lucky

@lonniebeavers7794 4 жыл бұрын

Oh that first broken heart . And the 70s something you just don't forget .

@chix7348 2 жыл бұрын

"so let's just let the story kind of end" I'm broken💔 my dear friend FL😭

@gregsimmons441 4 жыл бұрын

March 10 2020 and still love this song as much as I did over 40 years ago......it's like a timeline of your life.

@tonywilliams8426 2 жыл бұрын

Greg...it isn't LIKE a timeline..it IS one!....

@robynlanguage1799 7 жыл бұрын

I love this song to much to ever stop liking it or listening to it, so so nice 1972, was a good year for me

@sawnose4775 6 жыл бұрын

Yeah, I can dig it!

@elliemay7569 4 жыл бұрын

John Bruzzese 79 year i graduated!! Good uear my friend

@elliemay7569 4 жыл бұрын

Great year

@ellabatausa3790 4 жыл бұрын

country songs

@user-il6if7pk6y 3 жыл бұрын

@@elliemay7569 I turned 18 in 1969. Other than the risk of being sent to Vietnam, it was a great year to be alive. Now I am 69, and all years are great years to be alive, lol.

@silverandcold34 11 жыл бұрын

the poor woman has no idea,how much this man loves her. what a shame!

@molarguy 4 жыл бұрын

@patricemarie2960 4 жыл бұрын

.... So many real things ...... are a shame! .... That's what makes life hard to take .... Right????

@trixiecubillas4393 3 жыл бұрын

Maybe the woman has no idea because the man chose not to tell his feelings.

@quynhg4074 3 жыл бұрын

That's how life is! He's attracted to her and she isn't. Until he told her he would not except the friend zone!

@marchinggiant2423 3 жыл бұрын

There's no shame in love just because someone didn't get to know it - what a dumb thing to even bringing ituplike this especially with this beautifulsong. The purest of love still remains in them who owns it and they always find a way to spread it...

@bubby2325 5 жыл бұрын

My favorite melody by Lobo.

@k3ith29 4 жыл бұрын

Heard this song in an antique store with my girlfreind. Great song. Another great song that played after this one while at the antique store was " seasons in the sun" another great song.

@gayeharden3577 3 жыл бұрын

Awwwwww love Seasons In the Sun still listen to it💖

@jeaninerose3836 2 жыл бұрын

I can't listen to this song without crying also... My " that one" died yesterday. He was my husband.

@not-so-smartaleck8987 Жыл бұрын

I'm generally not into "country-ish" music, and I forgot about hearing Lobo songs on the radio back in the early-mid 70s (when I was around 10-15 years old, give or take), but hearing this song--as well as another song from the same album, "I'd Love You to Want Me"--brings back fond memories of that time in my life. 😊

@maristrong8510 7 жыл бұрын

Love this Lobo song he had such an amazing voice

@Sheridandreamin Жыл бұрын

🎼 Don't expect me to be your friend.🎶 by LOBO. I always think of a certain young man who sang this to me, long ago. We were so young, I believe I broke his heart. At that time, I just didn't see it, I thought he was my best friend, he told me through this song, he wanted more. It is my one true regret.💔

@docmason9677 6 жыл бұрын

It brings back sad memories of love lost back then and how I felt at the time and still do.

@molarguy 4 жыл бұрын

@ryanquisel4945 2 жыл бұрын

This sad song reminds us, that' love is a very special feelings,we can't resist but try so hard to hide,coz u don't know if that person feel the same way as you do

@kekss2k392 5 жыл бұрын

Its so good to hear this kind of music. April 2019

@steelbanjoman7729 5 жыл бұрын

1972 was an excellent year for music! The tunes are so melodic! Great era in rock! The Golden age of rock n roll!

@alicastillo9839 2 жыл бұрын

Siempre he sido un gran fan de lobo , su canciones me caracterizan de ser de los años 50,s estas son melodías que si habla del verdadero sentimiento.

@Prophecynut Жыл бұрын

Golden age? 🤔

@jasonbrown5993 3 жыл бұрын

I experienced the exact thing with a co worker we was best buds but nothing else and there was a 25 year difference and realized I didnt have a chance a year later so this song is for her

@maltipillai4553 Жыл бұрын

Such a beautiful song the 70 s was something else👍🙌

@ritanolan2099 4 жыл бұрын

The 70’s were the best years for music. The last decade for real music. After that it became all computerized and souless. Loved the love songs and beautiful ballads. And Lobo’s voice!!!! Never another one like it. He is blessed with such song writing talent also. One of a kind guy! Love him!

@angelitoorpilla3982 11 ай бұрын

E2 kantang nito naalala ko nung December 31 new years day tumitingin ako ng fire work tapos naiingit ako sa may mga kayakap na magjowa Wala ako ng magawa nung umalis nalang ako at umiyak

@roycooney4507 Жыл бұрын

45 years, she's still in my heart, just not in sight.

@sngsmilesalot 2 жыл бұрын

Another favorite song from my youth. Funny how the first two notes of a song can take you back in time, if only for three minutes and 35 seconds. Time travel DOES exist.

@laislegg3522 2 жыл бұрын

It's a magic carpet ride.

@gregrogers6777 5 жыл бұрын

It hurts a heart to much to give either one up, a friend, or a lover

@purehearts143 4 ай бұрын

But you dont send me flowers hmmm hmmm did you???🥰🥰🥰❤️❤️❤️

@edzer4366 6 жыл бұрын

I’m 13 yrs old and I like old songs because I can really feel the song

@jebrondumago2606 5 жыл бұрын

Wow nice.. You have a soul of music..

@luizduarte2962 5 жыл бұрын

Época boa essa luizduarye

@luizduarte2962 5 жыл бұрын

1972estva em sao Paulo Luiz duarye

@luizduarte2962 5 жыл бұрын

@Josh Allen Dancei muito essasmusocaluizduarte

@gabrielleangelica1977 Жыл бұрын

I was 12 years old 🗝️ when this song came out...

@kavitachristine9714 Жыл бұрын

Beloved music of the seventies

@p.e.overbrook1307 7 жыл бұрын

One of the best "I got dumped" songs

@leondante7080 3 жыл бұрын

You're right buddy.😀

@madhavprakash5313 3 жыл бұрын

or maybe "I dumped you"

@garyblanchard1084 2 жыл бұрын

More of a breakup song than anything else

@sandtalanders156 2 жыл бұрын

I loved everything they did, could listen all day!! 😊💘💌🎸🎶🎵

@jamaleewitty594 6 жыл бұрын

ONE OF MY FAVORITE LPS.OHHHHH I MISS THE 70'S......

@ronallen3487 4 жыл бұрын

had a love who ended it. This song came out soon afterward. I cried.

@LLcoolDel 2 жыл бұрын

Just a beautiful song. Makes you feel funny inside.

@randyleach7028 5 жыл бұрын

I love this music i want to go back in time. And just keep me going in circles 60s 70s 80s and never leave .

@randyleach7028 3 жыл бұрын

Sorry but this was a great time in my life. Great days we were poor had nothing but we were happy . and the MUSIC was Amazing .

@kathykolinski6998 2 жыл бұрын

I love that idea, can I tag along?

@davidgesnaldo2685 4 жыл бұрын

Amazingly beautiful song They don't make 'em like they used to

@nohobob 8 жыл бұрын

i lived this song, it still has the memory of it. this song when it came out hit the nail on the had.

@damnedyankee946 5 жыл бұрын

I am glad my heart don't break the way it use to....

@molarguy 4 жыл бұрын

@stephrules1028 5 жыл бұрын

Ups and down of every relationship always heard in a beautiful arranged of the song

@heleneandersson6513 2 жыл бұрын

" Don't expect me to be your friend,," ,,,,,ja det är så jag känner,,,det är svårt för mej känna för dej som för en 'vän',,,för mej var det total Kärlek som jag kände/känner för dej,,,,💗

@wendyrenwick4416 3 жыл бұрын

I love this song because it wss playing as it happened to me in real life.

@icepickwillie8980 3 жыл бұрын

Me too , my friend , me too.... Only mine is occuring in real time as we speak :( ... When the time is right I am going to send her this song and make her listen to it from beginning to end closely, because this song is for her from me.... I cant believe how much this song mirrors my feelings... Regardless of all the betrayal, I still really do love her with every fiber of my being.. She was my best friend in this world and fiance.. and that makes it 2 losses that I am mourning over.. But I love her way to much to ever just be friends...... I'd rather drop off the face of the earth and lose all communications then deal with that emotional distress.. and anxiety...and depression any longer than I must endure

@davidbrink1021 2 жыл бұрын

I couldn't agree more with the words.

@sujatapal2729 2 жыл бұрын

Great song ... have been listening for the years

@manuelnachor7622 11 жыл бұрын

Very nice song! How I love the melody!

@dibn1308 5 жыл бұрын

So beautiful a song to signoff the love....! Lovely...

@Music4allofU 10 жыл бұрын

Interesting re-make of Lobos classic track.

@charlvanniekerk9401 3 жыл бұрын

Yeah.....approximately 40 years back....what a story.....what a tragedy

@otisbeck5327 4 жыл бұрын

I don't listen to country, but this is a beautiful song and I can relate to it.

@Prophecynut Жыл бұрын

I never considered this country but contemporary

@megatwilight43 11 жыл бұрын

thanks for all your comments ...

@dianatan666 3 жыл бұрын

I fall in love with this song sang by first puppy , he taught me how to play the guitar!

@lololomo5484 5 жыл бұрын

Nice song. Different angle with the lyrics. This was played a lot on the radio. Seems like this song's style -- and a lot of music by Lobo, -- influenced Dan Fogelberg, who came half a generation later.

@jasondziura5538 Жыл бұрын

my favorite song to remind me im a human an i love :) beautiful somg

@marlowej6302 10 жыл бұрын

Love it. A great song from my youth and a terrible situation to be in. Have a listen to Chris DeBurgh's "The head and the heart" if you want a song on being conflicted in love.

@ronniepacaro7241 10 ай бұрын

My favorite of Lobo, meaningful lyrics.

@Dave7Josh2 11 жыл бұрын

Kind of corny but anyone has ever gone thu it can relate to this song.....

@homercaluag 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks Lobo 🤠 all the way from PH

@ThatsfeelgbSound 5 жыл бұрын

i was a young boy of ten years old. i still could relate to this song. good stuff (MULDEW) - gary b. ♡

@gundraandesta8341 4 жыл бұрын

this song always accompany me during the day in the field especially while spraying chili with pesticides.. and stomata promptly open easily to allow nutrient get in..it's a most popular song than ever.. that's way I keep listening🙂👍

@estelafaria6 Жыл бұрын

Que voz suave maravilhosa para os ouvidos a quantas saudades de tudo principalmente do passado dos meus 17 anos a saudades ouvindo uma música dessa aínda nossa aguenta coração ❤️

@Gilbertolueka 11 жыл бұрын

Oh God I Love This Song..

@BIG-DIPPER-56 Жыл бұрын

Thanks 🙂😎👍

@theresabillones5878 2 жыл бұрын

This song is very so touching ♥️. This song always reminds me of you. Until now your my very best friend. And I love you so much for being you. ❤️❤️❤️

@guamsaint 10 жыл бұрын

@maxpao123- The song is saying that he loves her too much to ever start liking her or to be her friend. Before you love someone you have to like them first and be their friend. He doesn't want to start all over again or go back to that part of his feelings he had towards her.

@massimoangelo6975 10 жыл бұрын

Thanks, guamsaint, that makes sense,now..

@rosalindasoria4974 7 жыл бұрын

guamsaint _

@molarguy 4 жыл бұрын

@glenjohnjuyo2307 3 жыл бұрын

Wow! That' a good explaination! "It all make sense now" :) -- quoted from the comments

@dannydriggersdriggers4086 Жыл бұрын

It's a very Beautiful song I heard it back in the 70s Love it

@johnwalls7170 5 жыл бұрын

Story telling thank you for this wonderful tune

@lonidelahuerta3439 Жыл бұрын

😥💔😥💔😥💔pain & heartache

@nilzanazario1162 2 жыл бұрын

Adoro o cantor Lobo sensacional 👋👋👋❤️

@sig1190 2 жыл бұрын

좋아요~35년만에로보만나보내요 ~>

@russellsimonds7148 10 ай бұрын

Shit, we've all been in this situation once or twice....❤

@keithkacner1695 10 жыл бұрын

A teenager song. Appropriate then and now.

@richardmoore2124 4 ай бұрын

The official friend zone song!

@sharonclements5354 2 жыл бұрын

He took my heart with him

@stephenmoretti3252 2 жыл бұрын

68 now, good life, married, grandchildren, house, dogs,no complaints, but I'd go back to those times in a minute.

@andywinslow9638 3 жыл бұрын

If you loved someone who left you and remained friends I'd say you either never were meant to be a couple or loved them enough to not risk destroying the good that was there. If however you don't remain friends it's cause you truly loved them and can't just see them as one of the guys or a sister figure. If you hate them and don't care about them they truly were never a friend

@yvonnegibson37 3 жыл бұрын

I agree with you Don, but I think it would be nice, if after a break up, you could be friends(even when you loved each other). At least you could still be part of each other's lives. You would not lose them entirely. To me it would be better if could be friends and not lose them forever!

@andywinslow9638 3 жыл бұрын

@@yvonnegibson37 Thanks Yvonne. I know its still nice if they can be in your life. Too many times that's not the case.

@mardabo4078 7 жыл бұрын

I think of all those who are pining away over the secret love of someone who only wants to be friends. and so . . . just for a chance to be near them, they settle for that. Been there Done that. No More.

@molarguy 4 жыл бұрын

@Serioussamurai500 2 ай бұрын

🎸🎶💥 Memories 💔

@dicklee4035 Жыл бұрын

that's true ,when I was in high school ,l followed a female teacher 5 years,first we were in a very good relationship, but after she married and I found out .....

@houstoncat2471 2 жыл бұрын

Beautiful song. I remember it well and described very well how I once felt.

@juliestewart3031 10 ай бұрын

Wow!! So true..2 days ago my husband of 18 years told me is going to leave and reunite with his ex wife..He wants to be friends. Really? It's just a shame that I cannot hold my hurt and anger towards him because I forgive everybody. But I did tell hi. NEver come back. And No, I cannot end as friends..just leave me with my memories..

@peterbrouwer2475 8 жыл бұрын

Nice Song.

@lourdesmanibusan 8 ай бұрын

Okay SUNNY 😢 SUNSHINE 😂❤

@christinekavita Жыл бұрын

This song introduced me to a new singer I didn t know then.

@jeffeastes265 6 жыл бұрын

My lovely bride of 24 years left over 4 years ago, and she is so excited to “be friends with me”, she tells me she is enjoying other multiple relationships while I continue to pray for her and our children:-) God is good, and He will deliver us all, if we allow Him!!

@maltarpeddy 6 жыл бұрын

Jeff Eastes Amen May The Almighty grant you peace of mind. Hang in there

@blestdausan6706 3 жыл бұрын

One of my best favorite ever lobo

@capaodaonca18 5 жыл бұрын

AMAZING MUSIC

@michalecinquina197 6 жыл бұрын

His songs make you feel happy and sad

@luchohijar5099 5 жыл бұрын

No esperes que sea tu amigo despues de amarte como te amo.Te fuiste y me dijiste.Seamos amigos.No un hombre no pude ser amigo de una mujer si la sigue amando,no,si ya la tuvo en sus brazos en un tiempo largo.NO,NO ESPERES QUE SEA TU AMIGO.

@marnel67890 11 жыл бұрын

i like this song cuz nakakarelate ako...i remember d past....

@tonywilliams8426 2 жыл бұрын

People get so invested in a love affair that they cannot unmesh themselves. WELL, Maria, you did a number on me again didn't you. Q.v. the excellent I'd Love You To Want Me on this too... like I said, Christmas Sucks....