Don’t Fight for Attention || Coach Ken Canion

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Don’t Fight for Attention || Coach Ken Canion
• Don’t Fight for Attent...

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@GLeon-ov9yu Жыл бұрын

“If a man doesn’t fear losing you he will always devalue you.” This is golden, thanks for sharing. 👍🏼

@CoachKenCanion Жыл бұрын

My pleasure!

@ChoeneNkoana Жыл бұрын

Very golden. ❤

@dpharrison7 Жыл бұрын

Always be willing to walk away. I rather be alone than settle for disrespect

@shevettejackson. Жыл бұрын

Amen girly !!💗

@megsmurphy7777 Жыл бұрын

I have ALWAYS said, "indifference is so much more damaging than active hate."

@reginamitchell975 Жыл бұрын

Thank you .

@rijajones4811 4 ай бұрын

Thank you for helping me realise that I do the emotional heavy lifting in all my relationships. It stops now! I'm worth more and deserve more than I've been getting in return.

@carriemoore8207 2 жыл бұрын

We must protect this man by all means necessary. I love listening to him. He always on point and giving u valid advice from a mans standpoint and how they think.

@CoachKenCanion 2 жыл бұрын

I want to add value to peoples lives

@kimyork4945 Жыл бұрын

@@CoachKenCanion Kim from London 😊 I'm looking through KZfaq... And came across you... Your videos are so right and I know that... I know you are so so so right... and yes I need to pull back... But it's not easy 😔 and I love that you recognise that... I appreciate your time in posting this... I think my fear is what if it doesn't work... But I know I need to do something different... Every word you say resonates with my situation.. I know I need to self reflect (your other video) wish me luck.. xx

@CoachKenCanion Жыл бұрын

@@kimyork4945 You got this. I am here to support u

@kimyork4945 Жыл бұрын

@@CoachKenCanion thank you... Appreciate it... It started this evening and I feel good.. one step at a time and I am trying to be kind to myself... Xx

@SeekingGod77 Жыл бұрын

I agree he valuable to us women this stuff works

@yolandawestbrook8240 Ай бұрын

I miss my father. He would give me good advice like this. Glad to find a KZfaq daddy.

@aleciamoten6867 Жыл бұрын

We don't demand what we deserve. We demand what we tolerate. That's good Coach!

@beverlytriche4111 6 ай бұрын

I have done everything you have requested. I am getting married in June of 2024. Thanks for all your help directing us on a positive path . I appreciate you and all your advice. Now if my grown son can get right, I ll have another blessing.

@shaunierockett4964 10 ай бұрын

A woman must create the standard✨and a man must either adhere or not♥️chin check tht ninja if he falls below the standards‼️Got it✅

@angelfire402 Жыл бұрын

I agree. Happened to me twice. When I decided just forget it. Months later they both started calling at the same time. I was so hurt. I don't feel anything anymore. I ignore there calls I no longer rush to answer the phone. I don't want to be bothered anymore. Now i get more text and calls. what a shame

@sunshinesunflowerz1647 Жыл бұрын

Not chasing anything, not even goals. If it’s meant that I have it, God will make sure that I have all the tools I need to complete it. In regards to a man, he needs to be whole before he steps to me because you ain’t getting anything for free. Yes. I made the distinction between ‘hate’ and ‘indifference’ years ago. Indifference is when you don’t want nothing to do with that person. Fall back game on ♾…

@carolirvine7663 10 ай бұрын

Excellent advice - Tolerating bad behavior becomes a habit, so when our partner does something nice we think this reaffirms commitment - This is false security and clever ploy men and sometimes women use to stay in control of a relationship.

@misstruth1115 2 жыл бұрын

That’s why I’m practicing no sex outside of a marriage bed.

@adaofcharles1217 11 ай бұрын

Forget how I feel, think on what I deserve 👏👏👏

@shirleyamccreemccree6323 4 ай бұрын

I love this guy! Very smart advice!❤

@user-je7qx6ft9i 5 ай бұрын

When I see your content, it comes through my feed as shorts. Right now I’m going through a breakup and decided to come to your channel, and I am sooooo impressed!!! Thank you so much for doing this work ❤❤❤ binge watching tomorrow

@tonyaparrott7242 10 ай бұрын

Absolutely agree with the posture of INDIFFERENCE!! You are spot on Coach! Keep telling us the RAW truth! This is not easy and I'm so very thankful for your help❤❤❤

@anastasiasharidaali8217 Жыл бұрын

We dont demand what we deserve. We demand what we tolerate. Great advice.

@donnajordan3540 Жыл бұрын

I had to stop fighting, I’m gone

@falishatucker3486 Жыл бұрын

I love this message so much. I appreciate all that you do. I'm newly single and it's a struggle out here in the dating world. But I'm up for the challenge with your guidance.

@rahdancecompany5443 Жыл бұрын

Chin checked mine and he got mad and went silent.

@DB-gu6tf 6 ай бұрын

Thanks Coach Ken. I used your advice. I pulled back just a tiny bit and he knew he needed to adjust himself. That opened up an opportunity to communicate. It was so beautiful. Our connection continues to grow because I’m not making the mistakes I used to. I’m really happy right now….thanks to you coach.

@CoachKenCanion 6 ай бұрын

Great job!

@iwig2714 3 ай бұрын

Omg this was FACTS so on point. Keep blessing us. I walked away 10 years was too long 😢

@wandasmall1433 2 жыл бұрын

This video has very great information. Thanks for sharing. Now how about hitting that like button to show our appreciation

@mzdee7021 Жыл бұрын

Until the pain of staying the same becomes GREATER than the pain it takes to CHANGE....you WON'T ❤️❤️

@MS.M1220 8 ай бұрын

God is my guide first and foremost. This should be everyone’s declaration.

@sony3246 Жыл бұрын

It's crazy to me that any of this game playing is needed. Two human beings should be able to respect and love each other without all of this extra.

@chiobabe2180 8 ай бұрын

Best advice I heard from a guru. And a sane blk man at that. Lord protect this man! ❤

@AnnieTangerine8714 5 ай бұрын

I have done like EVERYTHING wrong.... everything.....and now my once amazing relationship is a mess....and yes, I dont wanna lose him. He is a great guy. I hope I am not too late. And actually I hope that while pulling back, if it doesn't work, it will prepare me to walk away. Cause right now I am not willing to walk away...God help me

@lawandalivingston3603 2 жыл бұрын

So glad I came across the video. So applicable to me right now. Thanks ❤️

@CoachKenCanion 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching my channel. Please share

@farahkibriya6311 Жыл бұрын

At least he is articulate and can speak eloquently

@Mikeismybaby02 Жыл бұрын

in my current situation I'm so happy I ran across your videos they help me in my weak moments.

@r314522s 2 жыл бұрын

I totally agree with you especially with the toy analogy. Thank you

@CoachKenCanion 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching

@latrice3748 2 жыл бұрын

I could really use your help lol

@CoachKenCanion 2 жыл бұрын

@@latrice3748 email me at kencanion@gmail.com

@CoachKenCanion 2 жыл бұрын

@@latrice3748 email me at kencanion@gmail.com

@nikkinikki3001 6 ай бұрын

Chasing vs attracting, I love that logical breakdown. Thank you.

@CoachKenCanion 6 ай бұрын

You're so welcome!

@kimbellas6874 10 ай бұрын

Coach your saving my life love you❤

@ayrakwa1 2 жыл бұрын

Very good advice Coach!

@angeg100 Жыл бұрын

I just came across your videos. You are a God send. I was meant to see your videos.. I have made colossal mistakes in with this man.. I am going to correct them now, by walking away. It's been almost 3 years. My needs are not being met, I have complained, said I am done and still allowed him back in. I wished him a happy birthday yesterday, he did not even reply. My pain of staying the same is greater than the pain of changing. Thank you so very much for what you do. Stay Blessed.. 🧡🧡🧡🧡

@CoachKenCanion Жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching

@marialacerda6593 Жыл бұрын

My guide is the Holy Spirit !!!!

@carolarchibald6944 9 ай бұрын

Thanks coach Ken you have opened my eyes so wide. I put in so much and get nothing back.

@CoachKenCanion 9 ай бұрын

Excellent!

@tiffanycrenshaw5421 5 ай бұрын

This is some dam good advice!

@demechiakirkland5146 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for showing me another way to communicate how I truly feel without feeling like I am the one that's running him down. This video was extremely helpful 👏. I was raised in a house full of men but I still have a lot to learn about the man in my personal life. Thank you for helping me to understand on my journey.

@CoachKenCanion Жыл бұрын

You are so welcome

@stephaniebaker5519 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you!! Much needed insight. Love this!! Thank you!!!!thank!!!you thank you!!!

@CoachKenCanion Жыл бұрын

You are so welcome

@luzimarah8907 Жыл бұрын

Thank you sir! Thank you for giving valid advice from a man’s standpoint and telling us how they think. It meant a lot for me bc I don’t have that male figure in my life that I can pick up the phone to ask for advice from. So since I don’t have that in my life I look forward to your videos. So…. Once again thank you for your advice!!

@christinaringo2535 2 жыл бұрын

After listening to this I had to subscribe You are Amazingly HONEST!!! Thank you ❤️

@CoachKenCanion 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you. I really want to empower people

@alicialandrum2048 Ай бұрын

This is good information

@peacelove280 9 ай бұрын

Awesome, Beautiful, and Wise message!!

@CoachKenCanion 9 ай бұрын

Thank you kindly!

@JusttRaquel Жыл бұрын

Wow, some nuggets here . Thank you 😊.

@CoachKenCanion Жыл бұрын

So nice of you

@angieangie9062 Жыл бұрын

Thanks

@Amaviv09 9 ай бұрын

This got to me at the right time, thank you coach

@cathyjackson5675 2 жыл бұрын

I Thank God for you

@CoachKenCanion 2 жыл бұрын

I thank God for you

@ElaineSimplyEL Жыл бұрын

TRUTH!!!! THANK YOU!

@amaal1 11 ай бұрын

Much needed to hear this. Thank you. Back in the dating pool.🙏🏽

@ChoeneNkoana Жыл бұрын

I'm back in the dating pool, and your lessons are valuable. Thank you.

@CoachKenCanion Жыл бұрын

Welcome back!

@neicyluv553 Жыл бұрын

I deserve BETTER! Amen.

@neicyluv553 Жыл бұрын

Man, speak yo ish! This is so true!!

@Delaine2005 Жыл бұрын

Thank you! This was on time!!!

@dkay1888 Жыл бұрын

Truth.... Thanks

@jollymboya1069 2 жыл бұрын

Well put..

@sherondadavis8907 2 жыл бұрын

I kept going back only to go through a repeated cycle.

@gletsayaaasantewaa2793 Ай бұрын

I’ve been there too sis. I had to decide I was more important than the relationship, and finally walked away…

@preese100 Жыл бұрын

Impactful!

@Cherryblossom-fg1pl 6 ай бұрын

Thankyou so much ❤

@Almediale 2 жыл бұрын

Great advice

@user-by6ol1es1f 10 ай бұрын

Thanks so much for the advice 😊

@annmohabir5043 8 ай бұрын

So true

@Braveh3artGirl 6 ай бұрын

This is AMAZING advice. Thank you so much ❤

@CoachKenCanion 6 ай бұрын

You're so welcome!

@RosemaryBashiru-pn3ns Жыл бұрын

Thank you coach

@aviwedyantyi5535 Ай бұрын

Thanks alot

@empressnaja Жыл бұрын

This is Absolutely!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾✊🏿✊🏿👍🏾👍🏾 Spot on advice to live by.

@CoachKenCanion Жыл бұрын

💯

@yolandagreen9180 Жыл бұрын

Good stuff thank you

@sharhondariley 7 ай бұрын

I appreciate this wisdom so much ❤

@ms_may_gyen Жыл бұрын

💯💯💯 I have a few different “guides” as long as their aligned with my core values. -relationship -financial -spiritual -academic -entrepreneurship

@tinatina4131 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for keeping it real coach. 🙏🏼

@CoachKenCanion 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for appreciating the content

@paulaharvey186 Жыл бұрын

Thanks!

@CoachKenCanion Жыл бұрын

I appreciate you!!!!!!!

@newyorkdiva3 Жыл бұрын

Thank you.

@CoachKenCanion Жыл бұрын

You're welcome!

@shirelsummers9185 Жыл бұрын

Love your wisdom.. Very good info!

@CoachKenCanion Жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching!

@donnajordan3540 Жыл бұрын

I appreciate the advice you give always 😊

@CoachKenCanion Жыл бұрын

You are so welcome

@reeseyanceyms.rayiamwhoiam100 Жыл бұрын

This message was powerful. Thank you so much. 💪🏽💯🙏🏽

@CoachKenCanion Жыл бұрын

You are so welcome

@avanellejean-marie6740 Жыл бұрын

Awesome advice thank you appreciate you coach blessings.

@CoachKenCanion Жыл бұрын

You are so welcome

@gaylabrown8028 Жыл бұрын

I recently subscribed to you! I love listening to your videos and you’re a major blessing to me seriously!!! Thank you so much!❤️

@CoachKenCanion Жыл бұрын

I appreciate you!!!

@Gg-rssystG8 Жыл бұрын

There you go.

@mosedimayo1919 Жыл бұрын

Just came across your Channel and i must say u made a lot of sense for me...much love🙌🙏keep teaching.

@CoachKenCanion Жыл бұрын

Thank you. Glad you are here

@pelegrineginindza5605 Жыл бұрын

Im definitely going to apply ds

@giaalston9092 6 ай бұрын

I’m afraid of losing the friendship. Which is why I keep fighting for the relationship. I make excuses that he is dealing with grief, and loss of a close loved one, that he is adjusting to being a single father, he just isn’t ready for a relationship. I know and say all these things but still fight for the friendship and relationship that we had for so many years, and he is inconsistent, and pushing my love away. How do I be there for him without involving my emotions or feelings for him? Which normally leads to sex and giving into what he wants?

@jenniferwheatley7643 Жыл бұрын

Thank you

@CoachKenCanion Жыл бұрын

You're welcome

@virginiaharvey Жыл бұрын

Competing.trying to get someones attention.trying too hard repels.attracts opposite.

@nivniv7844 Жыл бұрын

I like your personality. Subscribed

@CoachKenCanion Жыл бұрын

❤❤

@kellymarsh8541 2 жыл бұрын

Excellent advice

@CoachKenCanion 2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching

@Stella-kx3lt Жыл бұрын

This is so good!!! Thank you sir

@Pacifica74 Жыл бұрын

Staying with him when he's like this is giving up.

@Mikeismybaby02 Жыл бұрын

dealing with this now with my husband I'm separated from. Thanks

@QueensFirst Жыл бұрын

I needed this TADAY!!!!

@Chilly-Bibee 2 жыл бұрын

I just found you and you are awesome!! Thank you.

@CoachKenCanion 2 жыл бұрын

AHHHH, Thank You so much. Please share

@Chilly-Bibee 2 жыл бұрын

@@CoachKenCanion I did already!

@pamelaclary6805 Жыл бұрын

It takes too much to be with one, don't put yourself through it, you'll be better off.

@roshelleanncalilao1764 Жыл бұрын

This is so Nice, i recently subscribe. Good thing I came across one of your video, it could save ME and HIM. accurate👍

@CoachKenCanion Жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching

@patricetrotter Жыл бұрын

I need reassurance because I don’t get enough

@patricadyson778 Жыл бұрын

This is where I am now . Do not care.

@kymberleybyrd6998 Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much, this help me so much. I really needed this message ❤️💫🙏🏽

@classykatina3574 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing this. It makes a lot of sense. 💎

@CoachKenCanion Жыл бұрын

You are so welcome

@kashmeererock7261 2 жыл бұрын

Love ur vids. Wish I found this one a month sooner😪

@neicyluv553 Жыл бұрын

Wish I knew this 32 years ago but here we are...

@sherondadavis8907 2 жыл бұрын

1st time seeing video.

@CoachKenCanion 2 жыл бұрын

Hope you enjoyed it!

@sherondadavis8907 2 жыл бұрын

Yes it was very useful. I keep asking why i keep going back..what am i doing wrong..feeling like maybe it is me..why cant i openly talk to him about shifts that i see without it turning into him getting upset. Me learning things not going to change. Its a lot sir lol. Im just looking ti be better for me and if i ever meet someone who really sees me and wants to grow with me i wont be so untrusting and nervous that they gonna do the same thing. And that im not either through my triggers and trauma from hurt in life and relationships. Sorry for the ling post.