Watching from India occupied Kashmir. ❤❤❤

May Allah bless our brothers and sisters of ummah with Jannah ❤ Aameen summa Aameen ❤

I think videos like this focus on a very important topic but I think they miss the most important point. Tawheed and belief in Allah first. Love is nothing if it is not for Allah. So a husband grows to love a wife because of his love for Allah and a wife grows to love her husband because of her love for Allah, likewise with other relations and aspects in life. Any other perspectives might be 100% beneficial in this life and possibly to live happily but the benefit and happiness stops in this life if it is not done for Allah. Many many people got married because of love and many reasons but forgot to marry for the sake of Allah.

The last question summed up a lot. Im someone who grew up in a household where it was said that my parents are together just cause of me and my brother and it made me hate myself even more. I would have better left with my mother than my father abusing her. Saying this, as I'm almost an adult now, I understand the importance of marriage but I also understand the importance of divorce too. Sometimes distance makes things tolerable. Maybe the parents coparenting the child without staying together can be a lot better than stucked in a toxic marriage. And to each and every problem of life, there needs to be personal values and morals which comes from a faith, I believe, or else it's random cultural and psychologically things someone puts together along the line. Thus it shows the importance of practicing our faith and learning more about Allah's words and how our prophet (pbuh) dealt with situations. I've been watching this channel for more than a year now and I've never commented before but this video made me comment about a bunch of things. May Allah swt reward you guys for the efforts you're putting into spread islam and islamic knowledge+ values. Jazakallahu khairan 🌷

They know how and what to give to our generation for betterment.... ❤

Married is truly a test of human character especially for the leader.

Light on the Tongue, Heavy on the Scale (Dhikr) Prophet Muhammad(ﷺ) Said: The One Who Say سُبْحَانَ اللَّهِ وَبِحَمْدِهِ، سُبْحَانَ اللَّهِ العَظِيم “Subhan-Allahi wa bihamdihi, Subhan-Allahil-Azim” 100 Times No One Will Be Better Than Him On The Day of Judgement Except Someone Who Said It More Than Him' [Sahih al Bukhari 6682] Also in [Sahih Muslim] Say It At Least 100 Times During The Day While You'Re Fasting Also Share With Others

Brother Ahmed is not only a Sheikh but also best counseling in marriage! Jazakallahu khairan 🤝

My brothers and sisters, build yourself up, work on yourself, increase your knowledge and actions, if you were alone, stranded in a forest, who would you be?

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

I would ove to show this video to my daughter when she is of age for Nikah! very well articulated. Keep this video forever

Pray for me, especially for nikah 😢

Don't Skip Do This ❤ Prophet Mohammad (ﷺ) Said Whoever fasts the month of Ramadan and then follows it with six days of fasting in the month of Shawwal, it will be as if he had fasted for a year.” Sahih Muslim, 1164) or (2745) How to fast in Shawwal 1 You can fasted immediately after Eid it's fine. 2 You can fasted them separately still fine. 3 You can fasted them on Monday, Thursday .( Also it's sunnah) 4 You can fast them anytime in Shawwal. Also Copy & share with others

I didn't know, I need this rn. I just started a relationship like 3 days ago, reunited with old friend, and then yea, we talked, discussed, and found something in each other. We decided to get serious, marriage. And I'm still learning how to understand myself better, improving before get married. Both of us needs more time to developing ourselves, to be good. And for that, I trust him. We will see if this can work out. Cause I still don't know the future. All I can do are praying and improving for a better future. Thank you for this video, it opened my eyes.

As an engineering enthusiast, i really loved the atomic bomb and nuclear energy analogy It fits perfectly

Thank you. May Allah reward you This is very important advice Watching you from Somalia🇸🇴

Very realistic and Islamic approach to a topic many of us face in life but know absolutely nothing about.

This is incredible stuff on one of the most important issues, marriage!! Make this viral. Everyone should watch this before getting married. Really helpful. For married couples as well. Lots of thanks from Kashmir❤

MashaAllah. Learned a lot of things. It was a very important topic. May Allah accept your efforts.

Great video and very good clarified answers and you're giving clarifying examples as well 😃😃great job

This Man is just mashallah 🥰 and well gifted 😊we need knowledgeable people like you in our society 😢Thank you Brother . May Allah bless you and your family ❤keep sharing your knowledge with us ❤

Wow this is such a good video, very thoughtful about all situations by not even taking anyone’s side, very logic and helpful, since my marriage already ended few years ago, by now I figured it slowly that it wasn’t a healthy marriage from the day one to begin with, and when i noticed my poor children suffering with our daily dramas and struggles then ending it was the only way, I’ll definitely recommend this video to my ppl specially to my kids and I’ll also keep in mind how to behave as a mother and mother in-low with my kids. Thank you guys, your videos are always very helpful 🫴🏼💐 May Allah swt reward you all with good health in your life and happiness of this and the next world

Thank you for this. Really insightful. May Allah bless you.

Such beneficial advices,Allahumma barik brother.

An amazing video. Masha Allah, Allah bless this brother

Me watching this when it's just 3 days for my marriage insha Allah

MasyaAllah.. Jazakumullah khairan katsira ❤

As a woman, this video is so real. This man knows very well what makes the marriage work even from the woman's side. If you want your wife to love you, you need to show her your love first. Like a mirror or in Al-Baqarah: a garment for you as you are for them. No red pills. Just Islamic, rational, emotional and realistic at the same time at the same time. Not married but I have seen marriages and notices the patterns like the man said.

This 20 minute video has more knowledge than a 3 hour podcast. jazakAllah ❤

Masyaa allah! The explanations are so succinct and accurate! Justice is so important in marriage, and the rules of engagement as well. At the end, we want to please Allah and uphold Justice.

Brilliant video ....that has changed my mind set totally

One simple advice; never take anything for granted. Once you lose something/someone you'll get to know the value. Have respect evem if you disagree to an extreme extent. Regret is the worst thing at the end of it.

Very useful video from a 22 years old man 😍Jazaum allah khir

Truly good and insightful advice. Insha Allah those preparing for marriage should listen and benefit.

There is a misconception that women never forget the past. But in reality this a human trait not only in women Men don't forget too, they keep everything hidden until there is a dispute...tried it, lived it.

Practically informative. Thanks

What you said are very true including the last one which leads to a never ending or repetitive cycle until the children stop it either by not choosing to live by the same pattern of parents or by not getting married. It’s lucky to get a chance and live a different life while raised in a toxic and abusive environment. It’s more probable that the children from abusive homes will suffer in life. It’s painful that the children go through the abuse from parents and then suffer in life as well later on.

good work brother thank you ❤

MashaAllah this brother talks only wisdom . BaarakAllahu

Saving this vdo i will see before going to marry ❤

Thank you very much for your efforts and guidance.

May Allah bless you all in both dunyas,thank you very much

I'm really lucky to hear this advice before marriage

Make this video viral! Everyone should watch this before getting married💍

I agree with you 100% after 28 years of marriage

Mashallah, Jajakallaho Khair

Very nice analogy ❤❤

Masha'Allah Tabarakallah. Very good explanation

Beautiful advice ❤❤

Wonderful content ..very beneficial ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

So much love for this video

In 25 minutes you gave concrete answers to a lot of problem which would need a 6 months couple therapy, great video !

Everyone should watch this before getting married 💍

I DON'T HAVE WIFE! MAY ALLAH GIVE ME GOOD WIFE🤲🤲🤲🤲

Good advices mashaAllah 👍

جزاكم الله خير ❤

Assalamualaikum. This video and the previous one helped me a lot. I noticed the subtitle is only English though. I wondered if it is possible to translate to other languages as well? For example there's Towards Eternity Indonesia 🇮🇩 but not many videos are translated including this one.

Alhamdulilah great advice

صلو على سيدنا محمد صل الله عليه وسلم

Me and my soon ex- husband to be and I have been talking about our ongoing divorce. This video is a gem to all singles out there, so solve the problem during engagement period before marrying someone. I would say that in this video, 100% of my marriage issues are mentioned.

Great job 👍

No matter what you do she will always bring up anything that you did that hurt her even the smallest incidents.

well said.❤❤❤

A big love from Manipur Muslim India❤❤

Way back then, I always heard this word from my parents': "We're married when we're 24". To this day, the scale of success around here is at what age you're getting married, the earlier the better. Like, it's a race against time and if I can't get married at the designated age, then I'll be considered a failure to both community and family. But, day after day and upon looking towards how I mostly react to something with anger during that age, I feel like it's a sign that told me I'm not emotionally stable yet

Beautiful wisdom shared, every person should watch this before marrying.

His wife is so lucky ma sha Allah

Ilm+Hikmah Allhumma barik.

If a woman keeps bringing up a past event, its because the underlying sentiment in the action has come up again packaged in a different form. Its not about the event itself, but the underlying sentiment expressed showing how you view your wife, whether that be done conciously or unconciously.

Hope every body get perfect partner ❤💫

Watching From Kolkata

Jzk khair, please do VoiceOver in Urdu if possible we really need it, may Allah accept your efforts :)

Watching from Pakistan

Jazakallah Khairan Brother 💝

I too can talk hours about how to have the best marriage. But when I try in real live with my wife, she sucks the energy out of my soul. The problem is woman don't respect rules and agreements. They say yes and do no and then discust about your reaction, not about their wrongdoing.

Plzz add question segments in your video so we can jump to our interest Thanks

very knowledgable and wise speaker 👏🏻

Rabbana hablana min azwajina wadzuriyyatinna qurrata a'yun waj al na lil muttaqin na imama.

Masha Allah, this was a beneficial video. I have a personal question, Is it advised to get engaged before marriage?

I haven't watched it but I guarantee you After watching I would still say "JUST DON'T GET MARRIED "😊😊

Love this channel

I like this channel very well ❤❤❤

make duaa for me that Allah will send me a good husband who is sensitive and not neglecting

My husband is an amazing man I just wish he would talk about problems/marriage/feelings .......

Brother your such content is stoping me from being married 😅😅😅😅just for fun 😂

Marriage is risky but at the same time not marrying can also be full of regrets 😅

Masha Allah you are very knowledgeable

I think is real

Be patient is the key that will solve all problems, at least thats working for me

This was the absoluteelly wis3s things I heard of relationships so far. Wish all men realised what the man realised. Could you plzz make a video with same content for men who only speaks arabic??

Assalamu aleykum Brothers. Thank you for the great video. I feel like I am really in need of such videos about marriage and life of muslim family. I am also interested in videos that describe the concept of a man and woman according to the Quran and sunnah of Prophet (p.b.h). That might help me as a man to understand how to measure myself as a good man and how to measure my future wife as a good woman.

It’s more of like after marriage interview than before marriage

Allah bless you

Alhamdulillah

lol Thank you!

Seems like a never ending war...💥💥💥💥💣

I am that "harmed" child, if only we can turn back time I would prefer a divorced, happy parents.

Listening and apologizing then just saying you won’t do it again is just words. It’s better than brushing it off, but also won’t last long. Where trust is broken, temporary empathy and words only isn’t enough. Don’t go after a feminine woman just to require the masculine from her, because the masculine would ‘just get over it’ without any resolution, discussion or true change.

I should have watched this 16years ago.

Need duas for pious spouse🤲