I agree wholeheartedly. 👍

I will admit she has an attractive face. But *blue hair, 200 extra lbs and cumbrella lashes 100% rule out beautiful!* Great mother? She is raising this young man to be a 'baby👶boy' like Jody from the movie. Lazy & depending on women to take care of him. This must be another black woman making this comment. Our community will never heal & repair with this low level thinking!

Should have had him with a Godly father.

She failed him.. Where is his Godly Father and her loving husband.

@@virtuoussoulhealer3644y’all love to hold the momma accountable but no accountability ever falls on the father!

They always choose baby daddys

Right

Males are the last people to stand up to responsibility like the cowards they are.

@@kayshawnsimmons5585 there are some good ones. Apparently, his dad didn’t help teach him anything.

Where is his father??? The same place where the mothers who picked bad fathers are at.

They need to choose men that will be there to raise their children. This young man lacks integrity and accountability.

@@RonDonProductions so does his dad. That's NO excuse to be a POS adult. We all have to be responsible for our own lives at some point no matter who was not there

@@kayshawnsimmons5585 That's why I said they need to choose better men to lay with. These deadbeats don't deserve the children they make. Before we can be responsible, we have to be given the opportunity to do so. If you give that chance at a young age to a kid, then they will likely grow up to be responsible at 18. Otherwise they will fail a few times before eventually learning.

So true I think that is the down fall now days especially in our community. Mothers are overly Generous to they son’s, with love, letting them make mistakes and slacking off at growing into a man. We need to start the tough love back. I have 6 brothers and they all are like night and day because of my dad but my Mom just always been the one to baby my brothers and accept every piece of slack.

@@Kee191 your observation is correct my mom was the same way growing up.

FACTS EVERYTHING

Wow😮!! So, that's how low the bar for children is today, huh?😮 True respect would be to stop lying, respecting her advice (the school) , acting more responsible, and respecting her property.

​@@Noco235EXACTLY. He's not going to change a thing. Saying "yes ma'am" means nothing when she's going to allow him to continue using her

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😂 Right

If she keeps bailing him out and paying for everything he won't grow up

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Haha

Yes we did!!!!

Happy Friday ❤

Yes we did

I’m in retail one more and I’m off 😭😭

TGIF 🎉

FAX! I stayed working from the time I was old enough. Oldest of 7 and we stayed outta food and opportunities 😢

I was Just thinking this myself, isn't that the truth.

Not every kid is like that ima tell u that now My whole family is old school das why I’m responsible, respect, everything for mine

She didn’t raise him right

Might as well take advantage of

That's a convoluted question, IMO. Are you saying that the complaints about men result from them being raised primarily by women and bad habits being allowed by mothers (women)? If so, you're placing the entire blame for the disintegration of family on women. Is that what you meant? I hope I am wrong.

They never do😒😑

Thanks for the love

Mothers stop having kids out of wedlock and find a good husband so your kids have a father and a stable home.

Well those dads aren't men with integrity. I have family like that and the now adult son still walks over his father. Just pathetic

I know plenty that were great father’s…kds get older want to do their own thing…only so much you can do with an adult chld…

Sounds like she did everything for him, which seems good, but it can stunt your ability to become independent and responsible. Hopefully this will be his wake up call.

How does one ensure that?

@@sereneamani1713 it’s tough but starts with choosing correctly. If one happens to choose incorrectly, the mother should make sure child spends time with father.. even if it’s just for holidays.

@@TruthSeeker19908 You're right. It's tough. However, if one chooses incorrectly, the mother should make sure that the child spends time with a father who could be harmful to the child's development?? I think that to ATTEMPT to ensure that there's a father in the house is to choose someone that has the potential, desire, and qualities to be a committed husband and father and the woman have the same potential, desire, and qualities to be a committed wife and mother. And after both have lived up to their potential, THEN have children. That won't happen in this world system, but it will happen.

Not all the time I spoiled mine and now they are grown responsible adults and living well. A doctor a vice president of a bank over more than 1 branch and a school teacher a coach and a mentor and in the military and a caregiver for the handicapped youths and the most important thing of all they have a relationship with God yes I'm so very proud ❤❤❤❤❤

@@1010QUEEN7 you let your children sit around (after high school age) playing video games, not Cleaning up, being hard headed, doing NOTHING…like this mama? I’m sure the answer is no. I did a lot for my children too. But they took care of their responsibilities. They made Good grades, we had a chore chart that they lived by and they are respectful. I have three grown, successful children too. It’s a balance. This mama doesn’t have that balance.

@@TheBayeauBelle I had rules and chores some people said I was strict but they gave me no trouble all were honor students they weren't allowed to stay home when they finished high school it was trade school or college they had to do 1 or the other you are so right

I've seen cars on the road that looked like they should never be on the road😂

Totaled doesn't always mean not drive-available. It can mean it costs more to get fixed than what it's worth.

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@@CocoChanelle-1 🤟🏿

That’s false I didn’t have a man in my life and I turn out to be great stable job college educated and I own not rent my house…and I’m very driven

You took the words out of my mouth...

That's the dad's fault

​@@kayshawnsimmons5585😂

@@kayshawnsimmons5585 Dad and mom's fault. We gotta pro create responsibly!

FACTS!!! How can someone learn responsibility if they never get the opportunity. Once you turn 18 you don't automatically gain new adult powers lol

@@RonDonProductions that’s the issue. Many parents don’t realize as soon as they start walking, they can have a responsibility. For instance, teaching the toddler to put his toys back in the play bin. It starts early.

She could be an RN or LPN. One salary often doesn't stretch far with a large family. There are two-parent working families that live in housing projects or subsidized housing. Also, as a nurse, she probably does not mean 3 40-hour shifts.

Nurses don’t make a lot of money everywhere. There are select states where nurses bring home bank. Plus she alluded to the fact that she wasn’t handling her money responsibly.

I don't like how you're trying to discredit this lady. She use to live in the projects but later purchased a home in a better neighborhood. Also, plenty of nurses work A LOT of overtime and have 2nd jobs

As someone who grew up in this hometown…it’s a struggle . I worked two jobs for over 5 years and eventually became a GM and still couldn’t get by. I ended up leaving the state.

Yep, and the fact that they all just overlooked the fact that he took his mother's car without permission right after she told him he's never to drive it again? Nope.

She isn’t the only one

His dad walked away from him, she did the best to put him in a better place with no help from her dead beat bd

I wonder how old the father was?

@@sereneamani1713 So do I.

@@kayshawnsimmons5585 I didn't hear that in the video. Maybe you know them 🤔

Shut up y just 😡😅

I agree with you. BUT how could JM "put down" low-income communities when he was born and raised in one. Could it be that he's just describing the situation? The way you describe schools actually fits the way of the world period. I don't think anyone actually wants to be poor (low income). In this society as it actually is now, it takes higher levels of income to thrive and survive. The way this wicked system is set up lack of money is accompanied by lack of opportunity, lack of human services, abundance of scarcity, neglect, prejudice, and discrimination, etc. Unfortunately, it's easier to move to a more so-called upscale neighborhood than it is to improve a deteriorating neighborhood. The MAJOR REASON, IMO, is that impoverished neighborhoods serve a purpose in this nation. To maintain the status quo. And it's not just the dominant culture that wants to maintain the class distinctions of the status quo.

Accountability is a mf to people who can’t accept it

Particularly for women..

​@@flexicojonez674🎯🎯🎯

So parents have to pay for their children expensive mistakes ?

Parents have to say No!! Beforehand to avoid anything like what we witnessed here in this case. Doesn't hurt to simply just say no..

So this woman was thinking that "kids don't need daddy"? Actually, MEN should also stop thinking that their offspring don't need active and involved daddies. Responsible men do not engage in behaviors that could produce children that they can't or won't provide for.