DON'T MARRY A NIGERIAN MAN IF YOU AREN'T WILLING TO COOK!! IT IS YOUR DUTY! THE FIBERESIMA'S!!!

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Ай бұрын

In this video i will be showing you how I prepare my husbands dinner. I'm making him Nigerian stew chicken and white rice. This is one of his favorite meals he can eat every single day, even if I don't know what to cook I can count of him to enjoy this. This is how I make it! You can follow along and try to make it too!!
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@TricieNicole2303 Ай бұрын

My African husband of 13 years do not allow me to cook everyday, we both work and share cooking and cleaning duties, he's a wonderful man! Whatever works best for each marriage. Glad we went to pre-marital counseling, and we both understood that it's not about cultural traditions but about God's guidance for our marriage. ❤❤❤#Lovewatchingyourchannel😊

@nataliamcdonald4298 Ай бұрын

Amen

@hekeepsblessingme1312 Ай бұрын

Amen!

@dladybug38 Ай бұрын

Amen

@KimberlyReviews Ай бұрын

@@TricieNicole2303 Amen to counseling!

@CrystalMyLife 28 күн бұрын

Say that bc Que don’t understand.

@niecygrinage2086 Ай бұрын

My man of 20 years is Nigerian, and we take turns cooking.

@aisham.mkayabiola5271 Ай бұрын

My husband is Nigerian and he love cooking for me, we both cook together happily married 💚🤍

@feliciawells216 Ай бұрын

Good for you sis are you black American or of another tribe it doesn’t matter for now but good for you. Can’t wait to go marry my fiancé we’ve been together for years and years and finally we decided we can’t be without one waiting for passport so I should be there sometime. Wish me luck what a beautiful comment made.

@jessicaekuola5800 Ай бұрын

I’m Nigerian and also married to a Nigerian man and I loveeee to cook. It’s just my nature and calling lol

@kcmarie3774 Ай бұрын

Girl, my hubby is Mexican, and I'm a stay at home wife and you better believe I learned to cook real quick lol but now I actually really enjoy cooking for my family and learning new recipes. Love seeing you in the kitchen doing your thing!

@ettashelby3341 Ай бұрын

@@kcmarie3774 Mexican men really do believe in the wife cooking and making breakfast every morning . I have Mexicans in my family and I just love them and their food is my favorite , most of my grandkids are Mexican .

@iyajeanette2283 Ай бұрын

my mom cooked for my dad every meal and washed his plate., he never cooked or washed...i cooked for my family because i enjoy cooking but like my food because it is healthy and tasty full of flavor, both of my daughters cook for their men because they love to cook and eat their food and enjoy the pleasure good food brings to their families. our family is blended slavic and mexican.

@joyceiswa7420 Ай бұрын

I don’t comment at all but I had too. Your such an amazing wife! The way you take care of your husband you do it with love. His happiness is yours and vice versa. Transiting into a whole culture and country outside of yours is not easy but you are honestly doing such a wonderful Job. God bless your journey and may he continue to provide such a fruitful marriage for you both.

@smoothmorrison7203 Ай бұрын

That could not have been said better 🙏🏽. ✌🏽❤️🍷

@feliciawells216 Ай бұрын

@@smoothmorrison7203yesss favor is what it be

@Royalshalom 11 күн бұрын

Amen

@Celine_S1986 Ай бұрын

Regardless if a man really loves you and wants you he could careless if you cook or not you can learn if you want as my man says if he doesn’t know how to cook how could he expect me to do it if he never learned. And as we see food may be the way to her man’s heart but he loves her regardless if she new how to cook or not he will teach her and Ofcourse she’s learned after marrying him in many videos, other women have taught her in the video how to cook Nigerian food ✌️

@MELISAC389 Ай бұрын

Hey Que, the stew looks amazing, I have A little constructive criticism if I may. Please, from now on, put your hair up in a clip to keep from touching it as often as you do over the stove and in the kitchen. Touching your hair while cooking it’s just as bad as not washing your meat before you cook it but I love you girl and I’m happy you’re back with your baby.❤❤❤❤Blessings to you always

@bujiboo5144 Ай бұрын

Also rings should be removed when cooking period... Screaming Bacteria...Be safe when cooking...love u Que❤ food looks great

@mizzymckay Ай бұрын

This is facts you are. Talking it's crazy how this comment didn't get a heart ...truth hurts .......❤❤❤❤❤❤❤...she . Should of put her hair up it's to lose over the food ....eating hair and food with no hair ....just saying

@merelymyopinion Ай бұрын

My hubby is Nigerian as well but he will cook also.

@celesteredding1550 Ай бұрын

That's a good man & husband 👍🏾😊

@dianneprice6776 Ай бұрын

I love to cook for someone who really appreciates the love and time you take to prepare and cook that meal❤

@unikquaboo Ай бұрын

I mean dang y’all she haven’t saw her husband in months she is a wife that wants to cook for her man let her y’all always being negative but don’t have not a lick of man to go to

@louniece1650 Ай бұрын

🤭

@marilynsissom9341 27 күн бұрын

I have a husband he is Africa I don’t cook every day no and no he don’t want me to cook every single damn day

@sarahgore3930 Ай бұрын

Whomever said to not to wash your chicken or any meat, is crazy, you don't know where are Whomever been touching that meat...I have been washing chicken for 50 years and will do it until I can't.

@michellecinquegrano3020 Ай бұрын

Amen

@celesteredding1550 Ай бұрын

Amen to that--chicken, pork, lamb, whole beef, turkey, etc...

@joycemarshall5106 Ай бұрын

I always wash my meat

@autumnofmanyseasons7349 Ай бұрын

@susanengel-ix8bl it's not cleaned it's rinsed quickly and then packaged. There is still bone fragments on it and sometimes it's dropped and placed in packaging. I've seen for my self working in grocery stores and meat markets

@NoNeedToLoveMe Ай бұрын

@@susanengel-ix8blbaby, don’t tell nobody else that

@ohnoshedidnt 28 күн бұрын

Q you look cute chunky beautiful. I am my father was from Nigeria and my mother was from America in both homes you must cook and have the home clean. So whatever works in your home do it 💚💚💚

@PerpetuaOmare 2 күн бұрын

Am Kenya married to Nigerian 19 years now happy I cooc Nigerian food as well and I enjoy eating them.Bravo Que we love you

@naty1012 Ай бұрын

I usually see other African youtubers add crayfish powder and ponmo (cowskin) to the chicken stew & sometimes egg. In the Caribbean you can't starve a man either, if you don't like to cook forget about marrying a Caribbean man. They don't play with their stomach.

@thefiberesimas Ай бұрын

I don’t like ponmo but you want whatever you want in it!!! It’s terrible to be serving tv dinners to a man

@Gcolorina Ай бұрын

How come they can't cook their own food though

@YvetteThompson-yx9tt Ай бұрын

VERY HAPPY FOR YOU QUE AND GODWIN WISHING YOU THE BEST #NOT A DAY WITHOUT JESUS 🙏

@PrisTvv Ай бұрын

Is better to wash the meat immediately before but in freezer, just wash and portion them into ziploc bag, any time you want to cook just put it inside the pot and cook rather than struggling to defrost to wash it.

@KimberlyReviews Ай бұрын

Que! Why are you yelling at me? I am engaged to a Nigerian, and I don't cook. It is definitely frowned upon 😂 I agreed to cook once a week after we get married.

@thefiberesimas Ай бұрын

This is your warning ‼️

@KimberlyReviews Ай бұрын

@thefiberesimas thank you Que!

@celesteredding1550 Ай бұрын

😮 I bet it is frowned upon. Why would you cook only once a week? Any man, no matter his nationality, wants & needs to eat 😢

@KimberlyReviews Ай бұрын

@@YashkiaMccaskill thankfully he's fine with cooking! He doesn't live in Nigeria. He was fully aware before he proposed

@user-zk6qf8sr7j Ай бұрын

@@YashkiaMccaskill😂😂 girl it’s not that serious. It’s just food. Every marriage is different. If her Nigerian is OK with it then that’s their marriage. Continue to cook for your man and y’all be happy. You did the absolute most which your response to this woman.

@jackiegrant1946 Ай бұрын

Just you. Not every Nigerian men wants a woman to cook for them. It's an even playing field, it's NOT THE 1920''s

@janjanett Ай бұрын

You got down on that dish Baby! lol. I can tell! My ex husband is Liberian and so he enjoys very similar flavors… and stew (or gravy as Liberians call it) is always a good go to meal! I like to use crayfish for seasoning, and I love the flavor from a mixture of proteins (maybe a little beef, and cooked gizzards (OMG, it’s so good). That basmati was life… and with a side of Liberian home-made Pepeh Sauce … GIRL! Thank you for sharing! I may make this for a meal this week!

@taniellej2433 Ай бұрын

When they dance it’s good I miss my husband 💙💙💙💙

@FelishaMarie24 Ай бұрын

Ask him do the dishes ☺️ everything in a relationship is 50/50 I do believe is more 100/100 but girl it can’t always be like the old days. I feel like that’s some of the blessings of today era. Doing chores for each other it’s a love language too. ❤

@constancebeverly630 Ай бұрын

No it's not everything in a relationship is not 50/50 if you see something that needs to be done just do it

@prettyeyes3413 29 күн бұрын

Exactly

@rosannaharrington1015 29 күн бұрын

Thank you it is 50 50

@constancebeverly630 29 күн бұрын

@@rosannaharrington1015 no it's not if it is 50/50 that means that your marriage is 50/50 1 Corinthians 13:5 "Love…is not self-seeking". Love is not about asking how to meet half of the needs in a relationship, but rather about how to meet your partner's needs and put them first. Genesis Genesis implies that God intended for marriage to be a blending, not a 50/50 relationship. A 50/50 relationship doesn't work in marriage. The deceptive "you do you'll part and I'll do mine" always falls short.

@rosannaharrington1015 28 күн бұрын

@@constancebeverly630 I have a good marriage very good 15 years it's to many black that can't get a good marriage I have one we good we go anywhere we want across sea he not from here we are happy we people of God thank you but your not telling me none thing girl

@lindajohnson9058 Ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂 I never heard him fart until u said something. 😂😂😂😂

@littlechannel1980 Ай бұрын

😂😂

@Only1SapphireDiamond Ай бұрын

It’s his sound effect 🫣👀😂😂😂 woohooo 😫😂😂

@terrasingleton7473 Ай бұрын

Yes, and usually, whatever I'm looking for is staring me right in the face, and I still don't see it! 😂

@shoedeeva4355 Ай бұрын

It’s not just for Nigerian men

@Mslindalin777 Ай бұрын

Exactly… smh…but this is her journey for now. So I’m just rolling with it.

@neauxheart3741 Ай бұрын

Why you so literal. N you know damn well most men especially US men don’t really care if they women keep up cooking in the household smh so stop

@tracywright1640 23 күн бұрын

Right!! All men love it

@Getitsexxee Ай бұрын

You go Que!! That food looks amazing! Serve your man girl

@pihaat Ай бұрын

Delicious....Love the way you interact with your husband...Blessings to you both!

@sarahbeth42291 Ай бұрын

I love that you gave us a video right away! I was getting upset every time you would disappear for a minute lol be missing your videos, so this is much appreciated. I’m tuned in 👏👏👏

@Mslindalin777 Ай бұрын

Well I have noticed when she is in Nigeria she puts out videos almost everyday. Back in US just the last week of the month now. I have enjoyed the earlier channel format better content… but still here…Que is a very unique, adventurous woman. I give her that.

@theresaferry9907 10 күн бұрын

Things that turn up missing usually mean that someone up in heaven is missing you💗

@babeb1952 Ай бұрын

Que, that food looks so good. I’m gonna try to make that

@chrissy000 Ай бұрын

I know he's glad that you're back home. And that dance said it all.

@berniceb2636 29 күн бұрын

Hi Que! Love your hair! The food looks so delicious to eat! Great video!

@naty1012 Ай бұрын

Baking soda is great for washing vegetables too, to kill impurities

@celesteredding1550 Ай бұрын

And vinegar but be careful as vinegar tends to toughen meats if left to sit in it too long 😊

@ieshasenter6217 Ай бұрын

If you have ocd stay out of the kitchen lol 😂🙏

@ieshasenter6217 Ай бұрын

Salt method sounds best. If you have ocd stay away from the food lol 😂that food aint do nothing to you! You ever watch those movies where they be scrubbing they kids because they have a disorder lol idk why this reminds me of that.

@naty1012 Ай бұрын

@@celesteredding1550 yes !

@rachellerichey2632 8 күн бұрын

Girl my sister has been married to a Nigerian for 20 years and together for almost 30. She makes his rice and sometimes his stew other than that my sister doesn’t cook for him. He loves my sister and so does his family and friends. She has helped them so much financially, and with coming to America and their families coming to America as well. Not all American women cook for them, they support in other area’s and their men are faithful to them. I am don’t eat meat, but; I am going to make a Kenyan dish for my brother in law to see how he likes it. I am happy for you. My sister sad to say has yet to go to Nigeria though. Her husband and four of his kids have built their own homes, also his family members have also. Their homes are huge, and really nice, they would be very expensive if they were built is America. Hopefully that can happen for you as well, it would be nice to build your own home for you, and your husband as well.

@cookingwithmamadukes4191 Ай бұрын

Thank you for showing us ❤

@bannerisred.__. Ай бұрын

I 😍 love stew and rice! My bd is from Nigeria 🇳🇬 as well. Thanks for the upload! Now I can learn how to cook it and surprise him one day.

@Aisha-bm3fu Ай бұрын

Well done Que!! 👏🏾

@TheQuietStormWBROWN Ай бұрын

Hello Beautiful Que !! 👑 Why am I sitting here waiting on you guys intro music. LOL !! THE FIBERESIMAS 💃💃💃💃 Love it. 🤗🤗

@LisaRamirez866 Ай бұрын

It’s joyful seeing you guys together and the stew looks delicious😋 Much Love From Dallas Tx❤

@barbaraengel594 Ай бұрын

Looks amazing

@ZellaWerk Ай бұрын

It looks delicious. The rice cooked to perfection.

@genxage Ай бұрын

I really enjoyed this one. I'm going to make this same dish. Love you Q~❤

@Melda242 Ай бұрын

Your food looks very delicious, Que!👍

@sheliad1265 Ай бұрын

Que the stew looks delicious ❤

@PastorTraci Ай бұрын

That looked yummy! I’m going to try to make that dish for my hubby ❤

@erikabrown25 Ай бұрын

It’s his dance for me 😂😂😍😍 I’m so happy for you beautiful

@mom45ish Ай бұрын

That looks so good,I would love to try that 😊

@venitabutler1430 Ай бұрын

Que , that looks delicious

@letitcracc74 Ай бұрын

Looks amazing ❤

@kathyyarbro9443 Ай бұрын

Hi Que. I’m happy for you honey. I pray for you and your hubby❤. You keep pushing . Your doing awesome!!!!!!❤

@nicholegory3303 Ай бұрын

Hi !! Que & Godwin Happy Tuesday. Wow Que The red stew came out good . I love my Nigerian red stew . I made Nigerian red stew a month ago I put chicken, turkey and I added some spinach to mine. Then I made plantains on tge side , I made an oat meal Swallow. , made brown rice . My ex was taught me how to cook Nigerian food . I follow Janet she is on Utube and learned how to make other Nigerian cuisine.. Que you dud an excellent Job and your husband loved it . Que you are a good wife . God bless you and Godwin. Thank you for sharing. Good night 😴 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🙏🙌🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷💯💯💯❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

@brittanybonnett2008 29 күн бұрын

I love this video!! ❤

@devinnlynette6045 Ай бұрын

I love this!!! 🙌🏾🥰

@Aisha-bm3fu Ай бұрын

This goes for any man from any African country, I believe. My husband will not eat anything besides Liberian/ Nigerian food.

@thefiberesimas Ай бұрын

They are so strict on eating their food!!! Omg

@lisabrown1755 Ай бұрын

Hey Que. The food looks delicious & your husband is well pleased. It's nice to see y'all together. I'm looking forward to more vlogs from both of you ❤️❤️

@BAMS84 Ай бұрын

Good Job Que!!!

@stoniaballard4750 Ай бұрын

Your dedication is OUTSTANDING...A WOMAN WHO DOES THIS IS USUALLY THE WOMAN WHOM HE GOES TO WORK AND SUPPORT HER AND THE KIDS...💖

@goldenbeautiie2049 29 күн бұрын

Hey Que 😊You & your hubby are so refreshing to watch ❤ your skin glowing as well. You look so happy humble and refreshed ❤️❤️

@PrisTvv Ай бұрын

Wow! The stew came out so yummy 😋 you did so well, hubby said it already 😂 you're a good chef

@tinaburnette4170 Ай бұрын

Hello and Blessings to The Fiberesimas! Que your food looks delicious ❤

@YADNAC Ай бұрын

I love how you serve your husband.. this chicken stew looks amazing 😻 such a good cook Que❤

@kiasmith9462 Ай бұрын

Anyone would want some of Que's cooking, I want a plate right now!! If your love language is to feed your husbands belly every night, please continue to do so. You're a good wife and he is so blessed to have you.

@rosannaharrington1015 29 күн бұрын

You don't know what she do every night lol 😆

@ChunkyDisMyLyfe Ай бұрын

Heeey My Beautiful Little Sister 🤍 & Amazing Brother n Law!!! May God Continue Pouring Out Many Blessings To Your Familie 🤍🫂

@michellecinquegrano3020 Ай бұрын

Amen

@mom45ish Ай бұрын

I love watching you cook😊

@jennyhill5794 Ай бұрын

Que, the stew looks delish.

@soniapappillion3555 27 күн бұрын

I love watching you cook it makes me want to get in the kitchen 😊

@thefiberesimas 27 күн бұрын

Please do!!!

@4leafcloverllmm191 Ай бұрын

Looks amazing 🔥

@stefanietrimiar9565 Ай бұрын

Go ahead Que! Girl! We all love you so so much! Okay with the chicken😂

@user-gt3gx2fn9w Ай бұрын

Thank you Que you are an inspiration to me 💞🙏🏿 and proof you can find happiness,i been feeling like my light 🚨 is dim sometimes but you brought me pure 🕯️ light thank you God bless 🙏🏿 you and your marriage 🙏🏿

@feliciawells216 Ай бұрын

Thank you baby girl I always make to much sauce 😊 I will make this for my fiancé when I get to Nigeria next month thank you baby

@ednaallison9492 Ай бұрын

Hey girlie much love you and yours❤

@JadaEliece Ай бұрын

Looks so good omg

@ajflife46 Ай бұрын

Very happy for you guys ❤❤❤

@Msladyscratch601 Ай бұрын

Que,the meal looks delicious 😊 So happy you are back Home with your baby. Yes I clean my chicken, I may start boiling it like you did.😊

@user-gi3rd9mu3w Ай бұрын

I'm so happy for you guy's god is good may he continue to bless y'all ❤❤

@dustimitchell1219 Ай бұрын

I love this video

@nunya5108 Ай бұрын

My hubby loves my stew! Our favorite is with grilled mackerel. It is absolutely the best!

@AmeliaTometczak Ай бұрын

Love you girl. Such a great wife!!!!!

@marcelw3225 Ай бұрын

God Bless you Que

@janeenwilson7513 Ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing leave Mr. alone he was eating his mango. Enjoy his way for his bill to be done. Thank you for sharing again. Smooches love the content. Keep doing what you’re doing. Have a blessed one. Bless you and family.

@that504chick3 Ай бұрын

Que I'm now hooked to Nigeria movies I beng watch them on KZfaq

@prudyskitchen6630 Ай бұрын

They heard you fart! That was iconic 😂😂😂

@AsiaDivine-93 Ай бұрын

Omg I’m like this look like Q!! I know ain’t nobody stealing her post. The new name threw me offff heyyyy Que I missed you💯💐💋

@louniece1650 Ай бұрын

🤣😂😂🤣🤣🤣That was funny. Hubby was eating his fruit and had the knife.

@Beverly-wk1hj Ай бұрын

Hello que happy Tuesday! You’re absolutely right I think all foreign like a woman that cooks! I live in nebraska theirs a lot of foreign men from Mexico I use to be married to a Mexican man I cooked for him everyday! You’re a good wife for your husband to have most women don’t like to cook for their husbands!

@lenab6031 26 күн бұрын

I married a Nigerian man and he loves that I cook for him . There are times when he cooks but I love taking care my man.

@michellecinquegrano3020 Ай бұрын

Looks delicious 😋😋

@sherrystinson8235 Ай бұрын

Dang he tore that up and that stew looks delicious

@lzshow Ай бұрын

Thank u for sharing I always wanted cooking videos of food from ur muckbung

@gailsimmons8210 Ай бұрын

When you married that's what you should do for your household

@marytaylor7165 Ай бұрын

Looks delicious 🤤

@user-ej2bv3vr9u Ай бұрын

Once yo married cooking is something you need to get used to. Remember soon you will need to feed your kids too. So it's a must for any wife or mother to be. True men should also chip in but its solely the wife's responsibility.

@allglamdup1253 28 күн бұрын

This sound foolish to me cooking is not a gender role. I'd it is ask him to build you a house from the ground up, or change the oil, or replace a pipe in the house girl bye

@vickie5383 26 күн бұрын

Right, Nigerian or not

@cherisefabusuyi8519 Ай бұрын

My husband is Nigerian and he loves to cook and does traditional Nigerian dishes so very well. I cook very well too but black American soup food and other intercontinental dishes. And he likes them, I'm still learning the Nigerian cooking. I've mastered Egusi & jollof rice. I make my pepper sauce very well too for stew chicken and just about everything they use it for lol.