It is true that line" kuch rishton ko behtar karne ke chakar me hum use barbaad kardete he"touching..❤❤

"Sometimes in order to make the relationship better, you end up ruining it" Couldn't relate more

The worst thing is if we make our best friend - our partner ..then after an emotional breakdown we can't find anyone to talk to share .we end up crying all alone. That's the most unhappy and cruel truth

Exactly same happened in my life that "I was giving importance to everyone except myself". I ended up with disappointments and realised the wrong decisions I took because I was compromising with my life and myself. Thanks for writing this and presenting, it was so good to hear and has an impact for sure. 👍

The worst feeling is when you don't want to give up on someone but you know you have to.😌

Very correctly said : the remote of ur happiness should be with you only

Jabb kuch bhi hadd say ziada barh jaaye to Sehat k liye Haanikaarat hota hay😂♥

the line "tum move on karna nii chate ho aur sath khush tum ho nii " exact situation with me

Damn man ..this is soo much relatable..ryt frm 8 yrs of frndshp,giving up on dreams,anxiety attacks,fear of loosing😭😭

How beautifully spoken, and how I could feel each and every sentence to the core.

Either love or friendship , when become toxic , u have to take a decision of moving on , with a smile ...❤️❤️❤️ thank you di..🔥

Your story is exactly the story of my life. I blocked him yesterday for rest of my life.. and this is my healing period running through.

Never ever fall in love with your best friend 🤐🤐

"Zindgi ki Remote samne wale ko de dete hai" and Yes Now You can Control My Happiness" ......... Every Broken heart Can relate this ✨🙂

Probably the best line " i was choosing everyone else, except myself "

I've been following this channel since three years and this is the best video that I came across. Every single word she said is damn relatable to me, specially that line "aisi toh mai hu hi nahi". Thank you for this video❤️

Don't know where this words touched I had tears listening it ...I never made myself a priority maybe that is the reason I remained unhappy...! But as days changed I can proudly call myself as my first priority...love me❤️❤️

One of the best poetry,after Priya Malik's, "Mujhe pyaar nehi,ishq chahiye.."🔥💌❤️❄️

1. Change the person(in this case, him, taking a stand) 2. Change your expectations (expecting just friendship) 3. Set boundaries(we can just be friends and nothing more , getting that clear in your head) 4. Say goodbye In essence, Choose your happiness, your peace.

If there is an imbalance of effort in any relationship that's the signal...you must overcome the fear of losing him/her and make things clear.... Accept the truth and move on cause you just can't force them to love you.... Love yourself 😊❤️

Hum insaan jud hi jaate hai.... apani zindagi mai tutane ke baad...inn lineno ko sunane ke baad khud se jud hi jaate hai✨

Felt damn relatable, difficult to move on from friendships which were so great in the past but now are toxic

This is a masterpiece I heard today! I'm already going through this.. Thanks for encouraging.. I'll get stronger.. I'll be okay.. I'll end up being happy being myself.. 😊

The most important thing is you found yourself..💫 To everyone: Jab mile thodi fursat Khud se karle mohabbat! ❤️ And your happiness is in your hands..you can be alone but not incomplete.#loveyourself #selflove🤍

Getting blocked from someone close to you is the worst thing that can happen to somebody. You blocked somebody, moved on,wrote a poetry and happily recited it. But what about the person who went through lot of mental stress and anxiety just thinking about why you blocked him. The best way is to directly tell him/her that you don't want to be friends with that person. This will cause only pain which is way better than pain and anxiety together.

Never in my life I could relate to anything so much as I did to your story. I had the SAME story. Dosti pyaar aur phir sab khatam. Decision uska tha joh bahut dard deta hai. Aisa lag raha tha jaise meri story narrate ki jaa rahi ho except for the fact that he left me. Those memories I had with him haunts me so much and the reality that he left me broken still is a nightmare. I too was ready to sacrifice everything to just keep him with me. I loved him infinitely but the saddest part is I still do.

❤Loved it❤. We always loose our own self just to have the fav person in our life who even don't care. We keep suffering, roaring inside and irony is nobody even gets to know about that. It takes alot courage to loose own one seriously 💔and more to accept that they have already moved on its us who's yet crying over the people who don't understand our worth. But once we finally move on everything changes. For the things we cried we smile now , it gives pleasure by thinking of all these. You smile by recalling the good memories, forgetting the bad ones. ❤ Here many are writing comments and speaking through hands just like me deep inside for someone 😂but as usual that someone doesn't care LOL

Related 💯💯🥲😍one side Loneliness and the other side is magical ✨.

When something is totally relatable... u can understand each and every word... Thank u for presenting it so beautifully...

Thanks for sharing this story, Harshita! . It gives the courage and strength to not give so much importance to that "special one". I would like to listen again and again.

Lines and their meanings are heart touching and so true we really need to understand the difference between love and compromise with ourselves......you nailed it and the way you spoken- it's directly touched my ❤️

Fear of losing someone......... So relatable story.

Truly relatable.. 💔 I also gave the remote of my happiness to someone who just gave pain and i was going through exactly same situation ... but now i have realised ki hume uss insan ki khud se jada care nahi krni chahiye jise hmari ratti bhar bhi care na ho ❤ aise insan ke liye atleast khud depressed na rahe ... i also started having panic attacks but i think time is the greatest healer.

Kuch rishton ko behtar karne ke chakkar me na hum unhe barbaad kar dete hai *I felt that line*

Such a strong personality ❤️! And a great speaker..I was spellbound ✨.

Oh God, this is incredible!! Well portrayed, Harshita Gupta!! Team Tape A Tale, thank you for bringing such lovely stories which inspires and directs!!

It's almost surreal to come to know that there are many people who are or have been going through the same thing that we experienced. Let's hope that things will be better as time passes! I encourage everyone to take small steps in this journey of recovery.

The same condition I'm going through 😔😔😔😔😒😒 but after listening this I come to know that , my first priority must be "myself" 🙏🙏🙏

I'm really touched by her every line ✨✨💔💔

Wow, I love what you did and for being a true inspiration. And haan, "dont give the remote of your happiness to anyone."

Was going through same feeling...thank you @tapeatale for releasing it at the bestest time...😊

needed to hear this! Thankyouu Harshita..! very well presented!

I lost also my best friend 🙂❤️ With her I had a magical relation 🌻

"my happiest place turn out to be my darkest place" it was all good until I fall in love with my best friend. I lost both my childhood friend and lover. I wish I would never confess my feelings. kash hum dost he rehe te.

It's obvious. The day we start loving ourselves, is the day we start becoming happy!

After listening 🎧 u i found all my questions answer and u are completely right .. this is done .. Thank u ..

The line that hit me " Nobody should have a power to control yours happiness " that I wish the always remember it . Becz it is just happing with me also that my male frnd is becaming important for me more than aur friendship .. I will absolutely know what is happen with it when we will give more periority to someone . 🙁

Unbelievable truth dear 👌👌 I suffered form this situation and I want to say that there is no love greater than self love & self respect.

She made my day so wonderful 😀😍

I appreciate your efforts for comeback and stand for yourself ❤️😀 God bless ☺️☺️

Thank you harshita for this video , i guess i was waiting only to hear this words , just like your story i am dealing with a person like this, he wants me in his life but he never understands how i am feeling... Thank you again

Bahut kch kamaal or kaam ka likha Harshita aapne 👌👌👌👌 can't conclude in few words but actually it's reality u spoke & amazingly told 👏👏👏👏 thanks for the new hope & motivation dear.

You spoke what's going in my heart today..

Can relate almost all the lines... Got anxiety attacks while watching your video! And yes everybody says the just block them... Forgot them.. But it's not that esay as to think of it... If you genuinely care or love someone you just be happy in their happiness... But most of the people sacrifice their own happiness and get depressed... That's not the solution! You hve your own responsibility just stick to them prioritise your family at the top they are the only one who genuinely care for you without having any expectation from you... Just remember you can not be the lead role in everyone s life.. So be the main character of your own life and get ambitious and stick to your goals and make yourself and your family proud! ❤

शायर वी अजीब तरह से इश्क़ फ़रमाते हैं ❤ आँसुओं को दावत पर बुलाते हैं और दर्द का जश्न मनाते हैं ❤

I got goosebumps while watching this video 🥺😔 . Every lines are true yrr.

It's so nicee,hits right in the feels thankyousomuch for this masterpiece needed this badlyy✨

Atlast Letting go is the only thing left 💖💯

i have no words... just tears rolling down.. this just made me realise ki how important i am in my own life.. thanks

This is called the maturity of a person who has been through a lot thick and thin and has seen many ups and downs. Life is a rollercoaster of many unseen events that a person must be able to understand and move on. ❤

Deeply touched ❤️

Thankyou for such a beautiful masterpiece ❤️

amazing..the game of human emotions ,everyone has to deal with emotions in some way or the other,but you dealt so nicely...in the last part of this video i could feel the pain you gone through when you decided to block him...that must have been a thunderbolt on your heart... god bless you and keep you happy ❤🙏

Lines touch my heart ❤️

Bestest poetry of all 💛

Srsly got goosebumps after listening this ! 💛

Best speech that I've listened in my whole day❤️

The words just touched my heart 😌

Harshita Gupta ❤ it is so raw and real 😍... Your words are full of magic as it is so relatable to most people....

I hv done the same ... Choose myself rather than toxicity❤️

Wonderful... Very strong & motivating speech👌👌

Wow! Superb yaar...👏👏👏😥😢😥

Thanks alot for this I actually needed this ....lots of love and happiness 💕to you....thanku so much 💖

Beautiful & Relatable ❤✨

Sooo beautiful♥️ thanks for this....

Awesome it's so so true ..never give remote of your happiness to someone else..pyaar tootne se jayada dosti tootne ka bura lgta hai

Life lessons which we learn only when we experience it.... no amount of reading and precaution can help us learn this....

Totally agree with your words It hurts a lot but reality holds that you must leave

Thank you so much.. I am inspired from ur story..

Congratulations... You spoke your mind... And is helpful for all..

This story is soo relatable to me, I felt she is telling my story to everyone. ☺🤞 I created mess, I took a stand, I healed my self. 🤞

Poem is so beautifully recited by you.. I really love it💕♥️..... ♥️💟All d best

Wow!!! Just loved it.

Truly healing words💕

Sometimes some stories are so relatable that you cam relate or you can what is going to come, you can literally learn from these stories or decide what to do.. 💯

Each and every word felt like my story and my situation and surprisingly goa trip matched too....1❤

This was necessary. It will help almost everyone 😃

Well said, " Expectations breed uncertainty "...... Again well said, " Love is the friendship which has caught fire"....🔥 Let me put it once more, this time it is volatire " Friendship is the marriage of the souls & this marriage is liable to divorce "...... You can never stay strong friends, it definitely catches the fire..... It really is a blessing if this happens both ways other wise a nightmare if limited to one.

I'm not your hater but i have a girlfriend and she also has a best friend like you... She exchange things with him, shear things and time with him accept me... But mene apne Sare friends se duri bana li becouse the only best friend i have in my life is she... It really hurts 💔really.. Nahi ata muje ye tum ladkiyo ka so called best friend wala scene... We broked up we were together since 3 years use aik second bhi nahi laga "breck up" Bolne me.. Agar koi ladki is comment ko pad rahi hai or wo relationship me hai to samjo yaar app bande ko mat karo ye sab or ladka pad raha hai so bro sidha bolo muje bura lagta hai or agar nahi manti so please khud ko dur kar lo guys otherwise it'll really breck you from inside 💔

Exact same situation happened me...my bestie and I was in long distance friendship. Aur usme bhi hamne bhot acchi memories bana li thi ...lekin vaha pyaar la chakker...thanks for motivating me ... ✌️

Loneliness se itna dar jati hai k toxic love mein reh kar self sabotage ban jaty hain... Hats off to you.

Best one...so relatable💕

Really deserve like for story I don't know is it really happened with her or just imagination but dealing with situation was awesome...

Love ur stories !! 💓

It sounds like healing ❣️

Wow wat a Beautiful story ! I agree with her!!

Loved it ❤️💔🥺 We deserve happiness too ❤️ Make yourself your 1st priority 💞

I know how this feels 💔 Hats off to you ❤️🙌

Life changing. Hats of you sis.

U r such a wonderful person nd thankz to u for showing such a ryt path ❤❤🔥🔥