Kudos to your brother.... i wish everyone starts thinking like your awesome bro 👏👏👏👏

Awesome 🙌👏👏👏👏👏

He is a gem ...lucky is the girl who is going to be his partner

Good initiative by your brother. We don't have any right to judge people and make joke of their appearance. Its high time that we decide where we are heading to, a more open minded, tolerant and more accepting world or a narrow minded and intolerant world where people just judge another one.

Really appreciate ur brother thoughts..wish kuch log aur ho aise soch wale bohot kuch badal jayega

I think a reason for that could be that dove is a "female related products" brand so that's why.. but it might be completely wrong

Yup, if we actually dig a little deeper, we women are more judgemental and unsupportive of each other. Time to take some accountabilty. Let's build each other up.

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Yes exactly

That's why we believe the beauty test stops with each one of us.

😂 😂 😂 May be yeah

Yass!!

Yes.. You are right!😊

She has amazing curls..😍

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Me tooo

Yess right me too

Ya bro

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Same 😔😭

Even I cried at that part! The sadness on his face 😭

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What did she say at 1:02 i didn't get it😦

True😭

Please do share the video to all you can, not just women. Because together we can make all the difference. ❤️

@@doveindia thank you dove. I literally had tears it's time to break this beauty standards

@@yrashid6108 We agree. It's time each one of us does our little bit. ❤️

@@yrashid6108 good

@@yrashid6108 Dil acha hona chahiye yeh important hai

These are just philosophies which dont work in real world. There are just few traits related to physical appearance that appear as beautiful to us humans and not every physical trait. So fooling yourself by saying these words wont take you anywhere. It's better to accept harsh reality.

@@Legallegends10 But you see nobody understands your viewpoint maybe because it's not practical. I mean no offence to you but I am just trying to show you what according to me reality is.

@@Legallegends10 Yes of course, you have the right to express as long as you are respectful. But I was trying to give you reality check. But cant impose my opinion on you!

@@Legallegends10 😊

@@SS-lv1wn ☺

I die for them . I have absolute straight hairs.

Me too

Dude Mujhe ghunghrale baalon se pyaar hai! They're so beautiful!

I swear! The expression on the father's face was heartbreaking!

I have also experienced since childhood.. Its really heart breaking💔.. Hope no one should ho through such racism., 😞

Yes, this can stop. If parents, siblings, future in laws and brides all speak up. Together, we can #StopTheBeautyTest.

@@doveindia Iam really happy that you pointed this issue , I think being fat being short being dark cannot justify a person . Literally respect to your team . I don't understand how can a person judge anyone . If a criminal is looking handsome or beautiful , will anyone marry him/her . It's the character of a person who makes him/her special not characteristics . I am taking a pledge today that I will respect each and every person and will not make anyone feel different . Love and regards from Krish jain ☺️

Bhai is level ke school jokes par koi WhatsApp par nahi hasta. This is exaggeration

Exactly, you are correct

True , infact I feel great realising women care about men getting judged too. Instead of justifying a wrong with a wrong, it's better to understand both things are wrong and appreciate it when someone calls a wrong thing out.

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Most of time Men gets judged on basis of income, wealth, women gets judged on basis on skin color, basically physical.

Well i agree..; ...but adds are made emotional so they can trigger emotionally to buy their product .. But this add ...there is something fishy in it ...like .if all beauty are equally important then why the hell they run this dove company ...🤦🏻‍♂️.. It's a trap ..these companies are triggering those girl who think themselves ugly and can buy their product .. These fucking beauty product ..give you the idea of ugly and beauty ...& See their irony ..they are saying for stop judging..😂😂😂😂

Fair and lovely is from same company as dove

Have you readen the ingredients list of these products

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So true

exactly EXACTLY EXACTLY EXACTLY & EXACTLY I WROTE THE SAME THING HERE: rightly #stopthebeautytest _i tell you get rid of the _*_"perfect"_*_ definition you have..it'll bring you pain_ _no khamiyaan at all_ we are born in a judgmental society -we all know who said it correctly kim namjoon it is right and we all are born in a body just to mark our existence nothing else. we do what we want and live in a DEMOCRATIC country.. let's be happy and proud of ourselves.. let's get rid of the small things

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Brother... The same goes for boys... Who in the name of fitness are first brought down for their body and then by the so called the other gender

They are doing a great job by marketing the story with the times.. ultimately the end goal is to sell products and keep the customer base happy with these stories.

@@yshmishra1 of course! After all, it's business. But atleast the ad is thoughtful and opposes the beauty standards instead of some dumb ones

@@melodyofmusic9575 which were made by themselves...

But ur Salary depends upon ur hard work but ur color is not determined by hard work or talent

Salary is something that depends on your hardwork bro..looks are what you are naturally gifted you can't do anything for it, it'snot that we are southkoreans to go for plastic surgry for little flaws....better salary means the man is hardworking...not everyone can do that.

-namjoon

@@Gita_V he never said .stop making up things .

-kim NAMJOON 💜

Army 💜

By Namjoon, Armyy yayy

This is so cruel. Tbh before meeting guys and their parents I used to think that world is not that bad. One time I just get to know about meeting 2 hr before they came so I can't get ready, I had oil in my hairs so I just made braids. But the lady said I am not the one in the picture. The girl in pic is someone else and she don't want to get married because she had an affair and I was just a replacement. It was my birthday and she told all this to my parents and I was listening because I was standing just behind the curtain. And one other time a guy family wants his whole joint family to see me. They already came 2 times and they wants to come again to judge me. It was humiliating. I used to think karma is real but I guess it's not, because all those people are now happy without any guilt. I will never do something like this with anyone (boy or girl).

Tum girls bhi hum boys ka face dekh ti ho samjhi

​@@factsonly4930jayda giyan matde tum girls bhi hum boys ka face dekh ti ho

They can't say that only because of the obese lady. Health is important. You're right about different kind of hair, skin tone etc. But they have to be a brand promoting acceptance but definitely not promoting obesity. So, they asked to see how even the obese lady has stunning skin. They're showcasing smooth skin of all these women. (That's their product). Like can you see what's amazing about her instead of looking at what's not great (in the eyes of the beholder).

That’s so true

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And thin

@@Ayasha_Kasim mm yes I edit it

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@AR All In One yes that the truth

@@v.nagajothi9f295 yes kind and educated girls are perfect

Absolutely..

Right

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Right🤝🤝

There is ,color height discrimination, selling boy and taking dowry, and forcing two strangers to stay together and have sex without any internal connection, and forcing them to not take divorce If their marriage is not working, There is everything wrong with arrange marriages still they say it's 'sanskari'and "bado se Kabhi galtiya nyi hoti bade Kuch Soch samjhkr hi faisala krte h"

I also face this type of humiliation

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Finally found a sensible lady in comment section 👍

Absolutely, u said my heart out. These are ridiculous marketing gimmicks. None of this is a kami, they're all beautiful girls the way they are. Society is changing & accepting diversity. No point making such ads & pushing the society 10 years back again.

Well if ads convey the right message instead showing fairing skin message, there's no issue. Many will see this and understand the right thing. There is no harm in changing their fair lovely ads to something real and important. Its a great marketing technique. So its perfectly fine!!

I know that very well. Half the people in comments also judge the people they date equally harshly, then preach morality 😂 It's just a virtue game. Nothing more. They were the ones peddling fair skin products until last year. A company is no one's friend.

Yes. I've always pointed in every discussion why do people say "saaf/safa" for fairer skin. (As if the darker are dirty?) I'm sure they're clean. Few shades darker yes, but if people don't stop uttering these words to define complexion, nothing can change.

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And these "beauty standards" were endorsed by dove a few years ago :)

This is all a gimmick to increase their customer base.

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Exactly!

No your point is relevant.

Well said !!!

Correct

exactly EXACTLY EXACTLY EXACTLY & EXACTLY I WROTE THE SAME THING HERE: rightly #stopthebeautytest _i tell you get rid of the _*_"perfect"_*_ definition you have..it'll bring you pain_ _no khamiyaan at all_ we are born in a judgmental society -we all know who said it correctly kim namjoon it is right and we all are born in a body just to mark our existence nothing else. we do what we want and live in a DEMOCRATIC country.. let's be happy and proud of ourselves.. let's get rid of the small things

Army 💜💜 and yes rightly said .... Many western people get Tan and want to get darker and here we are neglecting such natural beauty for light skin and everyone is beautiful the way they are..

agreed..in the start..i was like someone is doing real good work..but then the end tagline..really made it stupid

finally find a girl who understands the real mindset of dove behind this.....i just commented and girls came out of nowhere and tagged me misogynistic , element of patriarchal society and all 😂😂😂 they just can't understand that this add is just for promotion of a beauty product nothing more than that

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Mam don't you know any overweight or dusky skin girl who is happily married?? Don't go by what's shown in news reports and mass media. Think logically from your personal experience . Don't we have such "Not so good looking" friends who are happily married or in a happy relationship?? Majority of Indian society never discriminate or judge based on outward appearance. I personally know so many good looking boys earning handsomely getting married to so called "Not so good looking" girls and treating them like Queens. And those minority who judge outward appearance judge both genders. Don't good looking girls judge boys??Will any good looking girl get married to someone who looks like Rajpal Yadav? These people just love to generalise and divide people. That's it. If good looks are the only criteria for a Happy marriage or relationship, 90% India will die unmarried, single and virgin

Show me a Dove ad about fair skin?

Dove doesn't tell that.

tagline of dove is smooth and clear skin what does it mean

@@ZaranDesai dove has a few ads but they've changed a lot ...and I think she said that for the actors who were being rude not for the brand

@@ZaranDesai so all the white skinned dove models are only in my imagination ???!!!!

Exactly 👍

Many men and boys will agree to your statement, but no sooner they get married to an independent woman, they'll ask her or even force her to stay at home and take care of house lol.so I urge girls not to be fooled by them online or offline

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But they promote it as being a 'girl's personal choice to have good hair'. But here it's about judgments put by society onto girls for no reason.🤷‍♀️

In their hair test ads, they never said "If you won't have thick long hair nobody would marry you"

@@SyedHamzaAli8047 No girl!! You will have to stand up for yourself. Speak up for yourself.

Those tests are a concern of health not diversity. Dove has had women with different hair colour from dark to completely grey and white. Saying "improve skin texture" is not same as "become fair to please men"

this is the same company That sell fair &lovely products

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With the tagline they are reflecting this judgemental society's standers, it's not like that it's their opinion on beauty standards. I have curly hair, I do get bad compliments from society, I hated my hair once,Back then I thought they are my "khamia" but now I know that they are actually my "khoobia" we need your love ourselves, love who you are, and what you have. We need to be confident about yourself. Maybe I'm not on point, but j hope you can understand..

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How did you cope up with that?? Because this shit hurts very much. People break your confidence to the limit that it is impossible to breathe.

Same here .....

Tum girls bhi hum boys ka face dekh ti ho 😢😢😢

​@@rupali2632hello ji

True! but I don't care :P I like my braided hair so much! :D

I am also wondering about that.... 😂

Lmaooo thats me

Look at you...you are discriminating in indian boys vs korean boys ...! Men need justice too ...😑 ! 🔥🔥

Bro same😂

@@thespiritextremous2992 koreans are transgender they dont have bear lol

It is in the disclaimer that these are real stories. So it obviously happened and that's why its being shown here. Theses are real people and not actors. So.... If they say it happened then we have trust that it did.

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You think these things don't happen in love marriages? The only difference you're seeing here is in arranged marriages, someone might actually say it to your face why you're rejected. In love marriages, they just subconsciously know why they're rejecting you but they won't tell you. Arranged marriages don't take away the choice of a person. You can still decline if you don't want to get married to someone. Tell your parents they're trash for wanting you to marry someone against their will. Half these problems come from the fact that the parents are controlling and abusive, then it is the parent fault for being this way.

Yeah you are right. This gender expectations suck. For both and men and women. For women it is hard to not get judged for there appearance and for men the same. For men if you're not hot and cute enough, you aint gonna survive your youth same goes to women. No one wants a partner Who is not good in appearance and who is a straight minded career guy/girl. Infact i got judged by my appearance and my economical issue. You know if a men don't have a strong economical status hes doomed.

@@dracomessierrr1977 @DracoMessierrr My case, I was so confident till my 12 or 13 years of age... But then i started getting all these comments about my skin color and constant comparison with my fair skinned siblings, my confidence really levelled down ... I gave more focuse to my looks than my capabilities !! And I am done with it... The most important thing is don't treat anyone or judge anyone the way you have been judged !

Very true .and people blindly foloow Kardashian And their makeup.and its worst even when light colour foundations are more demanding and ...thousands of women jave to hide their natural skin problems from world😕

Most of these facts are plain untrue Corset was invented by a woman named Roxy Caplin. They stayed in trend for about 20 years, by which time they started declining in popularity. It was never a must but definitely a beauty standard back then. Make up was invented by ancient Egyptians. Queens, yes queens such as Cleopatra, the one who conquered Egypt and married Julius Caesar was one of the first ones who started colouring their lips and face to appear more glamorous. She didn't do it for any man. She was the most powerful woman in Egypt. Men bowed to her. Caesar traveled to her to make an alliance. Besides which, make up isn't exclusive to women. A lot of men, especially Rockstars and film actors use it. It's a part of societal beauty standards and men alone don't make up those standards. For instance, the perception of buff, slim males being seen as highly attractive and preferable mates isn't something men invented. It was chosen by the society to be an ideal male figure and it still is to this day. Fat men are never or rarely ever accepted as heroes in movies and hosts in TV shows for this very reason. The only ones pressuring women to wear make up is other women. Men don't care as long as you take a shower every day and keep yourself hygienic, fit and healthy. I can't even tell you the first thing about make-up as a man. I don't know anything. Don't give in to peer pressure and cut off contact with everyone, guy or girl who pressures you into putting on make-up. Chinese foot binding was definitely an atrocious thing to do. And I will concur it was imposed by men. Girls covering their head has different reasons in different religions. In Hinduism, north Indian women started covering their heads during the Mughal invasion so as to not get abducted by rapists. In Islam, the Quran dictates women to cover their head/body in public. I don't know much about Islam but my friend tells me it is the word of God and their God told women as well as men to dress modestly. So women were to aspire to wear hijabs/burkha in public and were to be accompanied by a man of the family whenever they had to go out.

Also while casting for the same ad

You are absolutely right. Ab toh ye aunitya ladko ko bhi nhi bakshti.

None have any issue lol..its just that both men and women are judged in the worst of ways..and that is equally wrong

Saying men are judged doesn't mean denying the fact that women are judged. It's just that we are easily offended by people not even realising what they want to say. And men who are judged based on their looks and income have the greatest empathy for women who are judged on their looks.

@@shashwatsharma4420 did i deny that women are judged?and nobody is getting offended lol..its just that men should get to see their hardships showcased too that's all.And dove is the same brand showcasing models for their promotions..don't u think this is hypocrisy on their part?

@@priyabrataghosh4491 Bruh that comment was not for you , I was replying to her. Anyways, I know the vicious tricks corporates use to sell their products, and I know most of their models are fair and slim.Handful of ads they make with fat or black girls are just to solve the purpose. And again, I was not saying you are offended, but many people in this comment section are.

@@shashwatsharma4420 o sorry for the misunderstanding..anyways u were right tho

It's all about changing through time. They only have morals and standards to understand people psychology at this point. What can marketed best. Manufacturing sector especially cosmetics(related to women) has always uphold biased institution in delivering advertisement just to survive in the market. There is no conscience of them, they are influencers hence they doing their job.

@@ruchivishwakarma2961 And thats the hypocrisy hes talking about.

@@dracomessierrr1977 ikr :)

It's as much a father's fault (to accept the saying) as it is of the naysayer.

@@chittrarthverma may be u're right but i don't want to accept this truth

My father also say same words 😥

@@anjalisingh5022 don't worry wo tnsn me h isliye aisa khte h

Tum girls bhi hum boys ka face dekh ti ho 😢😢😢

Hello fellow blink

i'mma join ya with my popcorn 🍿

Would you like some coke as well

Hahahaha

I need my caramel popcorn here with some coke!!!

Army 💜

Army 💜

Yes exactly I honestly feel more insecure after watching this 😅

Walk in straight line for what ?

@@aadilahmed7384 thats what the absurdity is.... It's done to check grace and elegance.

Agar mere sath koi aisa krega to mai 1,2 Gaali dekr nikal jaungi🤣🤣

@@pujasharma6928 tumhari jaisi strength har unfortunate girl ko mile

I am 4'11 .. And fat .. I used to hate myself too. It took me years to get confident and face the world. Dont hate it.. Short girls are damn cute. Just so you know once , one of my boy bestfriend said boy like short girls . Others are just Insecure and jealous of you . Love yourself

Same problem sirf height km complexion fair chehra sunder lmbe straight baal nature bhut achha sb chijo m talented pr ek kmi height km I don't know why.?? Khubiya khud btate h log muje lekin last m bolte h ek height ki kmi reh gyi vrna to tum lakho m ek ho

Yhi ek kmi confidence nhi ane deti

@@rohinimandepula8906 I'm 4'11 too🥂.....and skinny... people constantly says, girl...eat something get some flesh atleast 🥴 it did bothered me back then but not anymore cause fuck'em😏

@@do.you. my girl right there

Army 💜