Dr. Drew Sees Parallels Between The Homeless and Celebrities

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Dr. Drew Pinsky’s 2008 book, “The Mirror Effect,” was an insightful analysis of celebrity culture when originally published. Looking back, it’s also turned out to be a prescient guide to the social media landscape that’s emerged over the past decade. In this episode of Dad Saves America, we discuss social media, narcissism, substance abuse, therapy, and Dr. Drew’s wide-reaching career.
Dr. Drew is a practicing doctor of internal medicine as well as an addiction specialist and has become known for hosting KROQ’s “Loveline” for over 30 years, starring in VH1’s ”Celebrity Rehab,” and hosting a number of daytime shows. Dr. Drew recently wrote a teen guide on consent that deals with identity and relationships that he co-authored with his daughter Paulina Pinsky called ”It Doesn’t Have To Be Awkward.”
Dr. Drew’s currently hosts “Dr. Drew After Dark,” produced by Tom Segura and Christina Pazsitzky’s YMH Studios, hosts “Ask Dr. Drew," and co-hosts “The Adam and Drew Show” with Adam Carolla.
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Outline:
[0:00] Intro
[1:48] Dr. Drew’s medical career
[10:21] Dr. Drew’s media origin story
[13:59] The Mirror Effect
[16:46] What is narcissism?
[18:34] Link between homelessness and celebrity status
[22:04] Social media an addiction machine
[28:03] Researching celebrity narcissism
[32:15] Narcissism is self-help gone wrong
[35:12] Socio-emotional development in childhood
[38:27] Mental health and social contagion
[43:09] The downfall of American news media
[48:37] Dealing with homelessness is an uphill battle
[53:30] The difference between helping and enabling an addict
[57:54] Substance abuse, narcissism, and manipulation
[1:01:09] Bloomberg article on social media lawsuits
[1:03:55] Why are people, especially men, suspicious of therapy?
[1:06:00] Therapy helped Dr. Drew deal with anxiety
[1:07:54] Advice for finding a good therapist
[1:11:02] What went wrong with American psychiatric care?
[1:13:29] JFK, not Reagan, dismantled our mental health infrastructure
[1:15:30] Family court throws civil rights out the window
[1:20:16] Envy doesn’t end well
[1:22:30] Dr. Drew says no substance use for teens, no matter what
[1:26:08] Drug laws vs family rules
[1:30:01] Building rich relationships in a family
[1:32:23] Dr. Drew’s positive cognitive bias
[1:34:09] Dr. Drew is in awe of the American story
[1:36:00] Outro
Dad Saves America is a channel dedicated to celebrating heroic fatherhood while teaching the next generation of fathers strategies they can utilize in parenting their children. We believe strong children come from a strong family. We’ve had many experts in the studio, including Jonathan Haidt, Dr. Drew Pinsky, Troy Kotsur, John Mackey, Ben Askren, and Adam Carolla.
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@AGenerationJones Жыл бұрын

“All roads lead to narcissism”. No truer words were ever said.

@billmcgubbins1476 Жыл бұрын

He wasn't referring to the mental health or even simple problems in society or people, which is how it appears you've interpreted that quote.... Just sayin' not doggin' on ya.

@AngelWest58 Жыл бұрын

@@billmcgubbins1476 yet, you don't enlighten us on what he really meant

@billmcgubbins1476 Жыл бұрын

@@AngelWest58 I believe he's referring to the drive behind seeking fame/likes/whatever on social media and how it has magnified narcissism.

@stvbrsn Жыл бұрын

I have been saying it for years, and when I do most people just chuckle. They think I’m joking, it would seem. I’m not. *Social media is weaponized narcissism.*

@honey-feeney9800 11 ай бұрын

@@billmcgubbins1476 yea, This is the first time I’ve heard that quote . And I must disagree with it .

@probablynotwearingpants6228 Жыл бұрын

Usually I never, ever watch something that's presented as an ad to me here on KZfaq. But being a huge Dr.Drew fan I will make an exception.

@TaraConti Жыл бұрын

Same here!

@JohnPapola Жыл бұрын

I'm glad you stuck around!

@AdsOfSteelGaming Жыл бұрын

Likewise

@AdsOfSteelGaming Жыл бұрын

@Ralph Needer are you a narcissist?

@danielcurtis1434 Жыл бұрын

I don’t understand why anyone would be a “fan”? He’s a doctor who like most people has a healthy ego that he feeds regularly. He’s diagnosing trump based on some anonymous accusations. He does a reality show with celebrities for god sakes!!! Please find a doctor who is real!!! There’s soo many good ones that aren’t putting on a show. Believes I find him entertaining. However why does a doctor have fans???

@romoore2094 Жыл бұрын

My sis was dr Drew's patient at Las encinas hospital I believe he saved her life, for many years. Dr drew literally taught us families on the weekend, in a classroom setting, about the addiction taking over our loved ones. My sis did not really listen to dr drew when he told her to wait on taking anti depressants so she could really know what drove her addictions. She wanted the anti depressants bc her mental state was more than she could bear. Las encinas did wonders for her, giving her 15 yrs more of life before she took her own life. I don't think she would have lasted another day had Las encinas not accept her

@lucciangel6260 Жыл бұрын

I’m very sorry and my heart goes out to you. ❤

@DJarry394 Жыл бұрын

I am so sorry that happened to you. I was there during Dr Drew’s reign. He overemphasized trading addiction to drugs to addiction to a cult. It is sad that because of his love of AA there are no other options. It was hell at Las Encinas. For a number of reasons, but worse is being in the shadow of 12 Step. I had a belly full of that crap. It is slowly being discredited as new theories on mental illness and substance abuse emerge. Las Encinas is lousy with Dr Drew. The “experts” at LE only gave me a few days of Librium when they “withdrew” me from Benzos. I went through months of having withdrawal symptoms. Everyone is an addict to them. They preached that addiction a disease you are stuck with.

@rebeccagrace1509 Жыл бұрын

Whoever needs to hear this... I was able to put down my addiction with the help of anti-anxiety/depression meds and therapy... and YES... Jesus's God. I would NOT be alive if I had not chose to embrace and study The Teachings of Jesus in The New Testament of The Bible DAILY. The goal is not to be on perscription meds forever unless you REALLY need it. Addiction is a symptom of Pain from A Deep Emotional/Psychological Wound... or mental illness. The root of the wound needs to be healed. Just whatever you do... NEVER give up. Jesus's God is NEVER giving up on YOU. He is WAITING for you to pour Him your heart... with what He already knows. He WANTS your troubles... people are not gods... Jesus's God of The Holy Spirit IS.

@electricaf365 Жыл бұрын

Fake news

@stacierocke6830 Жыл бұрын

So sorry you lost her

@JusttLizz Жыл бұрын

I grew up as a teenager in the 1990s, listening to Drew on Loveline. Thank you so much for all your amazing work ... especially now for being so honest about these 💉's !

@bluest1524 Жыл бұрын

You apparently didn't notice it was a toxic, lowlife, narcissist fest for Pinsky and Corolla, in which they regularly humiliated guests. He is an authoritarian moron and a genuine narcissist.

@theologist5166 Жыл бұрын

The comments regarding narcissism was so insightful and compassionate...I really appreciated stumbling upon this interview

@marktourtellotte1336 Жыл бұрын

I have 29 years experience as a mental health practitioner (psychologist) and can say that Drew is right on in everything he said. Bless you, my brother!

@laraoneal7284 Жыл бұрын

Some of us childhood trauma survivors continue on avoiding everything when it comes to relationships. Especially with everything happening today. We have a pandemic of narcissism everywhere. That keeps me in an avoidance paradigm indefinitely.

@GR8APE69 Жыл бұрын

And this is only compounded by the fact that OVER 80% OF ALL romantic relationships are now started online! And yet, most people will tell you that they DON'T like it, but it has started to feel like the ONLY way to meet new people. And let's not forget how these dating apps use the same type of toxic algorithms that more typical social media uses to everyone's detriment. It's really a shame what has happened to dating and relationships/human interaction in general.

@verothomas1524 Жыл бұрын

Good point. I work at a coffee shop. Daily, I come across a multitude of these personalities that are so “ off kilter.” Specifically, many are so unfocused. I must make them focus so we can establish the order and move them along. They often do not like, especially when I press for specifics. It’s wild and so tiring sometimes . Tick Tom is the source of their $12 drink recipes 🤦‍♀️

@mikeymike1981 Жыл бұрын

My sister had severe childhood trauma, married a narcissist… last year at age 49 she took her life

@trilabradorable 11 ай бұрын

So true!

@newnotification30 11 ай бұрын

@@mikeymike1981sorry to hear about your sister.

@bensolo7000 Жыл бұрын

The fact that our current economy is hollowing out the middle class into either very rich or very poor makes this juxtaposition even scarier.

@JohnPapola Жыл бұрын

The picture is brighter than it seems on that front, but there's definitely a LOT of people being left behind. That's especially true for all the men dropping out of the workforce and struggling to find purpose, which leads down this dark road of addiction.

@billmcgubbins1476 Жыл бұрын

The fact the current economy is the result of carefully executed plans by corporate/goverchunk powers and their tools makes your statement even scarier still!

@johannadavis7594 Жыл бұрын

No child under 18 should be on any social media. It's that simple.

@migrantson Жыл бұрын

As always, Drew keeps it high and tight after 50! Love you Dr Drew!

@laurenmooring1921 Жыл бұрын

Mommies all over the web!

@CantTellYou Жыл бұрын

👖

@amandadee412 Жыл бұрын

Ok, I was absolutely not going to watch this because it was promoted by KZfaq, but I love Dr. Drew, so I gave it a chance and wow! I am shocked that KZfaq is promoting this; this video highlights the dangers of social media and discusses the importance and role of the nuclear family unit. KZfaq doesn’t tend to be a fan of these things or the topics being discussed. I loved every second of this video!

@migrantson Жыл бұрын

I didn't even think of that lol it is wild YT gave it an ad pass

@solo7253 Жыл бұрын

The tide is starting to turn for the people who oppose the narrative. I think that Musk getting Twitter is huge for more open discussions of different views.

@amandadee412 Жыл бұрын

@@migrantson right?! I’m shocked

@amandadee412 Жыл бұрын

@@solo7253 totally agree!

@KM-zn3lx Жыл бұрын

I like him alot. Jordan Peterson is good too.

@aurorabustillos3507 Жыл бұрын

Dr Drew’s experience is impressive and has definitely helped him be an excellent physician and human being.

@rosscampbell1173 Жыл бұрын

Imagine Drew at 20, at Amherst, bright future ahead, then a 20 yr old Adam Carolla, scrimping to buy a pickup truck so he could make a dollar more an hour as an apprentice carpenter, and now they’re besties. That’s America!

@Steelhorsecowboy Жыл бұрын

Carolla is hilarious but paired with Dr Drew was so frustrating to try and hear Dr Drew through Adam's nonsense. I like them both but not together.

@motofari13 Жыл бұрын

Wow, Dr Drew is the man! I only knew him from MTV back in the day. He is such an authentic, wise, and accomplished man. He completely sidestepped the social contagion of "trans" and "rapid onset gender dysphoria" question and the interviewer didn't push it. If you follow his logic on all the other topics, I am sure he has strong opinions. He likely didn't want to risk his medical license to answer honestly, which I can get. Jordan Peterson's license to practice in Canada is under duress for simply speaking his mind...

@cruisepaige 11 ай бұрын

He’s a typical media Dr.

@leannemo7382 11 ай бұрын

He’s talked about it in more depth on his own show/podcast.

@michaelweber5702 11 ай бұрын

@@cruisepaige -- Seems to me Dr. Drew is very much better than a typical media doctor ...

@davemayshow Жыл бұрын

55:04 “The Vortex (being sucked into an addict’s world)…the (addict’s) brain is in survivor mode, and has been usurped by all the higher functions; reasoning, inter-personal functions and emotions that now serve this broken motivation..you just become a source of gratifying that addiction. Period.” Wow

@MS-bs8dd Жыл бұрын

Yes that was a wow, a big piece of the puzzle for me- tho i’m understanding it this way, that the survival brain usurped those higher functions like reasoning and empathy. Such an important conversation.

@waynejohnson4960 8 ай бұрын

I love Dr. Drew, and especially the old Loveline episodes, and now the Adam and Dr. Drew Show podcast - they're great counterbalances to each other - Dr. Drew, the intelligent, erudite, educated doctor, and Adam, the street smart, world wise everyman - they play well off each other and share their unique takes well, and beautifully come to shared common-sense conclusions. It's one of my favorite things to listen to on Spotify on my morning commute three days a week

@harmony7377 Жыл бұрын

Wow. I always loved this man. 83-I was 1. I love history-I now know-what a bad time it was for so many!!! The work he and so many others did-changed the narrative. Bless all those who loved lived and lost through that period. I see you!

@garygogo9048 Жыл бұрын

Grew up watching and listening to Drew. Met him in person one time on a cruise ship and he was super cool, same dude you are seeing and hearing is the same guy you meet in person.

@michaeloedy1568 Жыл бұрын

I love the part about the rich and the poor suffering from the same illness. It makes me feel better about being in the middle. It has become apparent to me that I will not achieve the level of wealth and success that my father has. That’s been tough to deal with. He set the bar high. But it has to be acknowledged.

@dianes5762 Жыл бұрын

The rich and poor absolutely suffer from the same diseases, across humanity. How the rich and poor are treated is where the two worlds are polar opposites.

@bryanutility9609 10 ай бұрын

Life is too short to worry about such petty things. Your goal is to have a great family of your own. Let go of your father.

@bryanutility9609 10 ай бұрын

Life is too short to worry about such petty things. Your goal is to have a great family of your own. Let go of your father.

@deborrastrom8559 10 ай бұрын

As a nurse with an eclectic medical experience ( Who's father was also a Internal Med / OBGYN & Concierge physician.) I concur. Thank-you Dr.DREW For all you do. When working the night shift I listened to you often. ❤️ Blessings to you & your family & team.

@dianecourtney2724 Жыл бұрын

Was only going to watch this for 5 minutes… I kept telling myself every five minutes or so just one more part… and before I knew it I had watched the whole thing. Fantastic video !

@justjanel1 Жыл бұрын

Wow. I was totally sucked in. I loved this entire conversation. This stuff is so important and as a parent, really makes me think and want to make some changes, screen time especially!

@brenttanner9889 Жыл бұрын

This is an awesome interview! Great questions and awesome answers! Thanks for getting Dr Drew and for paying for the ad space so we could find it! 😊

@breal6910 Жыл бұрын

dr drew is one of my heroes. His honesty and ego are in the right spot. his show with Dr Kelly Victory, everyone should be subscribed to. HERO

@catherinestarkey205 Жыл бұрын

Extremely well done interview!! Dr Drew is so under appreciated and could do so much for our homeless and addiction issues (crisis!) today.

@colorocko1 Жыл бұрын

I've heard of Dr. Drew for years but never took him very seriously back in the day. This in depth interview about him really impressed me. Great job! John asked him many questions I would have liked to ask. I really learned a lot from this interview.

@shellylinnn Жыл бұрын

@@colorocko1 I agree!!! It revealed more of where he came from as he developed through the years. I feel he's a good man and any ego as others are calling him out on is not a bad ego on him. He's not the ugly egotistical type. I sense it's more that it gave him a lot of confidence and that's good because he doesn't parade it in any way. He did work hard at everything he did, so he deserves to have earned confidence in himself.

@l21n18 Жыл бұрын

No he’s a clown

@l21n18 Жыл бұрын

Narcissisism is a meaningless term without a whole host of presupposed value judgements, funny how Dr. Drew would go after celebrities when his whole career had berm about self promotion at the expense of others

@SamStone1964 Жыл бұрын

@@l21n18 Narcissism is a very meaningful term. Lack of empathy, self entitlement, inability to connect emotionally, reactivity, defensiveness. Those of us who have dealt with narcissists appreciate the term.

@KM-zn3lx Жыл бұрын

I went to a therapist because she was supposedly good for anxiety. All she talked about was herself. I told the office no further visits would be scheduled cuz she made me so anxious I couldn't sleep! Haven't been to anyone else since.

@OM-or3im Жыл бұрын

I once had a narcissist therapist as well. Like with many professions, it happens. But I’d encourage you to see someone else because you never know when you find a great one! I think it happened to me after 2 pretty bad ones. I’ve met narcissistic people in many “important” positions actually. They are part of life. Glad you were able to see the red flags right away and didn’t go back to her.

@patriotpeasant199 Жыл бұрын

I had a massage therapist (after bad car accident) 3x’s a week, and I left feeling more stressed d/t her constant talking!! She was incessantly telling me about every detail of her love life, and used me as her counselor/therapist 🙄 Atleast the sessions were paid for by the guys insurance who T-boned me! And she was great @ deep tissue massage :) You should keep trying others though, there are some good Psychologists out there to help with your anxiety.

@dshepherd107 Жыл бұрын

I understand. Here’s a suggestion. Check out Patrick Teahan’s KZfaq channel (licensed therapist specializing in childhood trauma AND is recovered from the same himself). He’s fantastic & the first therapist I’ve ever found who is genuinely helpful. Also, check out the Crappy Childhood Fairy’s KZfaq channel as well. I wish you well.

@annairwin8147 Жыл бұрын

So many “therapists” are truly in more trouble than their patients…Dr. Drew is an exception to me

@mikewallin6049 Жыл бұрын

So if you had a bad meal would you never go to another restaurant? Keep going until you get someone who helps you.

@shirleyashanti3031 9 ай бұрын

I love Dr. Drew and his body of work. His optimism is cathartic for me being one whose glass is always empty. He's lived through so much of what I've seen, and I appreciate his sobering perspective and wish more folks paid attention to him. Thank you for a great interview and discussion.

@tyd8077 Жыл бұрын

Dr Drew, you are criminally underrated and one of the wisest people of our time.

@annenelson5656 Жыл бұрын

Sorry dude but you’re wrong. I knew Drew Pinsky in high school. We were a bunch of spoiled preppies who were pretty smart. Drew Pinsky is quite intelligent but he’s a terrible doctor. He misdiagnosed my friend’s father among others. I gotta say Drew Pinsky is hella good singer and dancer. He killed in our high school musicals. I mean he was amazing. So much talent. But not cut out for medicine. I’m glad he’s all board certified in several disciplines but most doctors are Fellows in the American College of Physicians. It’s almost required. We went to Polytechnic High in Pasadena, California. It was a college prep school attached to Cal-Tech. It had a very challenging academic curriculum. We graduated in 1975. But Drew Pinsky’s talent on the stage was tremendous. So now he’s found his way to where he belonged in the first place: Show Business.

@iknovate Жыл бұрын

Living in a city that because of increasing services has become a magnet for the addicted and mentally traumatized, would love to have Dr. Drew serve as an advisor to verify or deny effectiveness of approaches/programs. Want to make sure that resources are being effectively used to benefit these individuals so that they improve and not get worse.

@katethegreat2222 Жыл бұрын

I don’t think our leaders want to actually help the addicts dying on the street. If they wanted to help, they wouldn’t keep doing what they’ve been doing , and failing, then repeating the same failed policies. Actions speak louder than words.

@SamStone1964 Жыл бұрын

@@katethegreat2222 Yes if they cared it would already be sorted.

@berachtdorian6191 Жыл бұрын

Riding the bus and living in a wealthy neighborhood, I can testify that the very rich and the very poor are the same breed of human. It's a terrifying thing to understand.

@LadyBug1967 Жыл бұрын

I have felt that way for decades and I believe they are the same because neither have any morals tho it's for different reasons. This podcast though added another dimension to it because both are addicted and I hadn't really thought of the addictions of the wealthy but it's quite obvious. Their addictions are to money to security which is a false security and to being number one and destroying anyone else who comes in their path that may threaten it in any way shape or form. I remember working in a temp job and the boss woman who was also temp looked at me and she said--I know what you're thinking. AND I thought: it was about noon & was thinking about lunch. HOW does she know that? She was worried about me because I was much smarter than her it seems. And I have to credit her with noticing that which I hadn't even thought about that till now. BUT I guess she thought I was smarter than her and I probably was, just saying😉 but I was only thinking about lunch. I certainly wasn't thinking about taking her dhitty little temp job. AND then she called me into her office and she said: YOUR analysis on these legal documents is so different than-- and she named this young guy. I thought-- YEAH, so what? I knew that his would probably be pretty superficial although he was planning to be a lawyer. I could tell from his personality he wasn't exactly in possession of great depth in any way, shape or form. THAT was her reason for firing me. Pretty crazy but that's how they are when they get power and she wasn't even an elite, even more dangerous if she had been.

@tyd8077 Жыл бұрын

I observed the same. Both are extremely dysfunctional

@MustangsTrainsMowers Жыл бұрын

This video should have 50 million views.

@rfpeace Жыл бұрын

as a 55 yr old CA. native, I was listening to Dr. Drew and the "Poorman" (DJ Jim Trenton) while still in high school. Just recently rediscovered him here on KZfaq, but he's the same dude here today! He's a good guy and makes this world a better place to be in:)

@brendacompton1958 Жыл бұрын

I listen to loveline for years. With Adam Corolla and Dr. Drew. Loved that show. I've even been listening the the old episodes on KZfaq. Adam talked so much about himself-- his life, his opinions his upbringing, career etc. It refreshing to hear more about Drew's background for a change.

@TarmacSkin Жыл бұрын

Excellent interview… A must share

@jonmack5832 10 ай бұрын

❤❤❤❤❤This is amazing how Dr Drew is able to articulate these complex issues with such simplistic layman words. Great Job!!❤❤❤❤❤

@tlacahetl Жыл бұрын

Dr Drew is so wise and honest... you bet I'm coming up in may!!

@jacksquat4140 Жыл бұрын

I have grown tired of the notion that low self esteem is the cause of violence, bullying, and narcissism. In the real world, predators look down on their prey, and feel they have a right to impose their will on another. In geopolitics you never see a weak country, and culture, that invades its neighbors in order to take their land and resources. It's always the countries, and cultures, that think they are superior, and deserve to have what others own. Look no further than the line of David in the Old Testament for a perfect example. You see the same thing happening with the global Oligarchy, who think they are the superior race - the race of the rich. They believe they are so superior that they deserve to have it all, while telling the rest of humanity that by 2030 we'll "own nothing and be happy."

@joan3891 Жыл бұрын

This is a phenomenal episode. I love Dr. Drew. I am also glad I found this channel! We don’t need biased politicians and activists to fix the homeless problem, we need the dedicated, sane medical community and parents. “Empathy is the last to be developed” … what a huge distinction! Thanks Dad Dude! ❤

@l21n18 Жыл бұрын

As opposed to what the clown Dr. drew? Also He isn’t appealing politicians? What’s your definition of “sane” here? A man who engages in shameless self-promotion at the expense of others and has a constant need for the limelight? What’s an activist too?

@HikeRx Жыл бұрын

porn addiction is a huge problem.

@SamStone1964 Жыл бұрын

Yes it is but it's a symptom not a cause.

@kathymyers7279 Жыл бұрын

This interview was so good.

@GamePumaAll Жыл бұрын

Stop giving your 10 year olds smart phones and get them away from the heathens in public schools.

@Bikewithlove Жыл бұрын

“The Mirror Effect” got me into psychology. It’s a powerful exposé on a debilitating disorder that awareness of is a life / death matter. It’s the real epidemic of our time.

@Keycity60 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this interview. We need much more of this discussion due to all aspects of our society aiming their arrows at our children. Parents today need help dealing with issues that previous generations didn’t have. Almost daily there are reports of parents attempting to shield their children and then the modern day Jacobins show up with their guillotines

@JohnPapola Жыл бұрын

Thanks, John. It's a crazy world out there for our kids.

@davemayshow Жыл бұрын

36:14 “It’s essentially a socio-emotional exchange system…that it embedded in our face, and in our body…that starts in infancy…me having emotions that wash over me, that I can’t identify; you reflecting them back to me, appreciating them, not catching them, but understanding, relating and feeling them to some degree AND reflecting them back on your face; so I know I’m felt!”

@tessahall797 Жыл бұрын

I think majority of people have always experienced trauma, through history of mankind. It’s rare to not have had some trauma. Some obviously much more severe than others.

@billmcgubbins1476 Жыл бұрын

Trauma is normal and common for 99.99% of all life on earth, let alone people. Only postmodern western societies are able to pretend that trauma (and by proxy, any discomfort of any kind) isnt normal and common. And also the same societies attempt to erase all trauma from existence and the results speak for themselves. People live 20 years never having seen any type of adversity AT ALL suddenly realize that the world (and all life) is sculpted by trauma and pain. And then go on shooting rampages or kill themselves. Everything is needed in balance. ☯️ can't have happiness without pain. Cannot have ecstasy without trauma. Trauma is REQUIRED in order to put life into perspective.

@D-Fens_1632 Жыл бұрын

Trouble is it's all relative. The slave who was beaten would tell the black guy who thinks he was discriminated against because he got 10 years for the armed robbery he committed while the white guy only got 5 years to get over himself. I'm sure my ancestors watched their parents get eaten by wolves at some point, I doubt they'd wanna hear my "I get anxiety in grocery stores" bullshit.

@SamStone1964 Жыл бұрын

It's not the severity of the trauma that matters, it's how you deal with it.

@johannagrace7768 Жыл бұрын

Walk a mile in my shoes and see how many skills you have to ‘deal with it’. Trauma changes you. Trauma that begins before birth and continues well into adulthood compounds. It is not trauma + trauma. It is trauma x trauma. RESPONSES to trauma are necessary for survival. Over time, we become wired for survival, not everyday living. It takes the right information, the right support and the right strategies to overcome. And only then can you find the resources you need to confront what has actually happened to you. The abuse, the betrayal, the abandonment. You have to find the courage to live, every day, with the grief. The grieving that never, ever ends. Because you have lost so much: your sense of safety and security, your sense of self, your ability to trust in other people. AND WHILE YOU ARE GOING THROUGH ALL OF THIS, you have to make the choice, every single day, to be in a world that is full to the brim with people who can and do inflict this kind of pain on others. You have to find a way to feel safe in a world that you know is not. So keep your stupid creeds to yourself. If you had walked this path, you wouldn’t be so f’ing flippant.

@melissagreenwood1717 Жыл бұрын

@@johannagrace7768Dr. Gabor Mate has some amazing videos about all of this.

@garymartinez1460 Жыл бұрын

First time here, Strong episode. Can relate. Beautiful interview. Thank you.🙏🏽

@poochini7272 Жыл бұрын

Wow! Revelations just popping off in my head . Makes so much sense!!! Ty!

@sherrythomas8149 Жыл бұрын

I like the section after the interview where you present the takeaways from it as pertains to parenting or life in general. Although I'm obviously not a Dad, I'm still a parent to grown Sons and always enjoy learning.

@janmansour4313 Жыл бұрын

Fantastic interview! I’ve learned so much and I’ve got some helpful information on narcissism. THANK YOU very much. Dr Drew you’re amazing gift from God

@donnakreye8339 Жыл бұрын

Dr. Drew & Dr Joe Dispenza are life changing heros of our times. They are both committed to humanity. Seeing Dr. Drew stand up to political nonsense is my favorite part about him, “he’s not brilliant so he helps humanity; he helps humanity so he’s brilliant.” My quote. When you have found your niche/purpose you shine like a brand new Penny. THANK YOU to these individuals and sooooo many others…..

@kerrymarris4260 Жыл бұрын

Definitely one of the best, honestly straight up, no holds barred talk about the internet. Growing up with fake book. And how to deal with all of thee above, without being an enabler. Very well done gentlemen....

@Sanlynnben Жыл бұрын

This is an EXCELLENT interview- if I ruled the world, everyone would have to watch it. I definitely will share 💖❤️ .. thank you 🙏🏻

@DadSavesAmerica Жыл бұрын

Thanks for sharing!!

@deverhart5 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for talking about the central nervous system and codependency.

@CarlosMunoz-nv6ir Жыл бұрын

I highly enjoyed this interview. With Dr Drew, there is hope.

@jenniferbond5771 11 ай бұрын

Wow. Dr. Drew this is a very compassionate view. You get it. God bless and please continue

@ruthokelley5833 Жыл бұрын

Thank you Dr Drew…I listen to you! You offer sanity…to the ‘doubting Thomas!’ More therapy is what we need…and more Dr Drew types to facilitate great progress! ❤

@sharonschlup7087 Жыл бұрын

I would love to hear Dr Drew’s opinion on the trauma based learning and social emotional learning that teachers are being required to teac and utilize now . As a teacher, I don’t feel qualified and worry this will do more harm than good. Most in our profession feel it’s a key word to excuse behavior

@bobjary9382 Жыл бұрын

Me too, he is adamant that he had functioning models of treatment that just need application. I would like to see that because no one seems to have good outcomes especially with adduction. I dont think misplaced political ideas can account for such high fail rates ? The risk of odose death following rehab is many times higher than that of untreated addcts . Even the best intervention is far more dangerous than no intervention. I am sll for the evidence based tbinking so.Im struggling to find substance other than an adherance to tradition .

@melissagreenwood1717 Жыл бұрын

As a parent, I'm glad its being taught. There is nothing wrong with being able to name your emotions, understand how they make you feel, and have coping skills. A lot of adults can't do this. It's not excusing the bad behavior, it's giving you the information to best work with the bad behaviors. My kidd has ODD. I never went to therapy as a kid for various reasons, I don't have that diagnosis. I just called it my f you streak. And there are times I tell myself to just shut up and do the thing but I cannot make myself do it past that point. And part of it is kids learn that they are people too who have a say over their feelings and bodies, and that is very frustrating for adults who want them to be like well trained dogs because we all grew up with the idea that children are required to obey instantly.

@steeltoejam 11 ай бұрын

Please look into SEL further up the chain to see where it comes from. SEL is not what is labelled on the tin. There is a lot of money behind it and is being implemented in lockstep in all English speaking countries.

@anjylkat 10 ай бұрын

@@steeltoejamwhat is SEL?

@honey-feeney9800 Жыл бұрын

Thank you Dr. Drew for your support of maintaining family for a child’s stability . Although I had a few traumas when I was young , my divorce at age 49, after 23 years of marriage , heightened the trauma again and shook up our son whom had just turned 21 . Now 22 years later my son , his son ( our grandson) and his mom live in my house. It’s cost me a lot of my savings but their family is intact and I think it’s provided some stability for my grandson. I’m broke financially because I used their inheritance for them while I’m still alive. I’ve prayed about this over and over .

@FRAME5RS Жыл бұрын

Why do you think that money you worked for and saved is his inheritance? I don't like to see adults sacrificing themselves while they are alive, just to have a bunch if money to leave kids. Let them earn their own. I encouraged my mom to take trips and spend her money while she was alive. There was very little left when she passed but I didn't care, it was hers to enjoy.

@honey-feeney9800 Жыл бұрын

@@FRAME5RS I know what you mean . I wish I had made some other choices . Basically, I did for my grandson’s welfare . I had been his guardian until end Od 2021. The parents got caught up in drugs . They relapse occasionally.

@FRAME5RS Жыл бұрын

@honey-- feeney Sounds like you should stay his guardian unless and until they stop relapsing. Kids are smart and even though you're there trying to hold it all together, it will affect him. Adults who shirk their responsibility of raising their kids onto their older parents are so selfish. I raised mine and I'd hate to have to raise my grandkids for this reason. Sorry you're in that spot. You should be doing what you enjoy, not this.

@texastea5686 Жыл бұрын

Kick out the kids and adopt the grandson.

@stacyyoust Жыл бұрын

Bless your heart 💞❤️

@drewa1999 11 ай бұрын

Profound. Awesome session gentlemen! I do miss hearing Drew on loveline.

@gabriellemaes4078 Жыл бұрын

I absolutely love you dr Drew. God bless! Stay authentic!❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏

@ragacats 11 ай бұрын

I burned out working as a mental health professional in trauma and addiction. Dr Drew makes me think about working there again. Super smart, insightful, big picture.

@michellebaeza4618 10 ай бұрын

Dr. Drew, thank you for speaking out. Love you and your wife.

@carrimcdevitt8367 Жыл бұрын

So good!!! Sharing this for sure!!! Thank you!

@Mrs.CGraves Жыл бұрын

Therapy today is AFFIRMING only. These kids all messed up get affirmed and they do NOT get better on top of the Parents being emotionally blackmailed and held hostage by unsaid thoughts of suicide. Finding a therapist who doesn’t partake in this is far and few.

@michaellang4242 Жыл бұрын

I see parallels between transgenderism and narcissism.

@davecros4887 Жыл бұрын

Awesome interview. Dr. Drew has such a great attitude, so much knowledge and motivation to keep society healthy.

@seedailypay Жыл бұрын

Outstanding conversation. Wow!

@Istpmom 11 ай бұрын

Omg! 😢 thank you for your work dad saving America and Dr.Drew! Here with you to help!

@drew8979 Жыл бұрын

I’ve been off social media for years and haven’t looked back.

@wendelsbruckenheimer4470 Жыл бұрын

This is such a good conversation. Dr. Drew is awesome and knows what he’s talking about.

@cynthiawilliams8432 Жыл бұрын

Love Dr. Drew and his drive to heal, and help people, thanks man!

@kimdavid4406 Жыл бұрын

Great conversation!!

@shazam6274 Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this. Very informative and well worth the hour and 1/2 that I thought I didn't have available to watch. If you are reading this, set aside the time and watch this interview! If after watching, you think it was not worth your time, I'll give you your money back!

@FRAME5RS Жыл бұрын

No need to sit and watch. We all know what Dr. Drew looks like. Just pop in some ear buds and listen while you do your dishes or cook dinner. Allows time for catching these kinds of interviews.

@shazam6274 Жыл бұрын

@@FRAME5RS Great idea, but 1) I gotta get some wireless earplugs & 2) I only cook in the microwave for 2~3 minutes :).

@SamStone1964 Жыл бұрын

@@shazam6274 I put my phone in my pocket and listen while I do chores or go for a walk.

@patriciaaguilar6944 Жыл бұрын

Excelente entrevista, muchas gracias por compartirla ❤

@pamlamb892 Жыл бұрын

Absolutely wonderful interview with Dr. Drew!!!❤

@ADAMKTN Жыл бұрын

Dr. Drew is a gem. Been listening to him since Loveline back in the day. Great interview

@JCSAXON Жыл бұрын

I had never considered the correlation but it makes perfect sense when stated simply. Thanks

@dianareddell1496 11 ай бұрын

This was a wonderful interview. ❤ Thank you so much.

@honey-feeney9800 Жыл бұрын

I hope Dr. Drew will be doing more lectures and interviews .

@franjustor2423 Жыл бұрын

This was a great interview.Very,very good !

@sallysanford5592 Жыл бұрын

It is so important that we hold up individuals as yourself, you have and continue to inspire all of us to be aware of how we need to take time for self care and be mindful of those who are suffering in multiple ways You bring to the surface what all humans forget and that is no matter who u are or how much money u have, it is vitality critical to look at are mental health state of mind it will harshly effect us all and no one is above it and for you to have the mind that can truly change the world So for your service from my family and myself Thank u for sacrificing your life helping thoea who forgot or never knew just how to love ourselves

@IndigoBellyDance Жыл бұрын

Thank u for the Full/long interview.

@Theextremepessimist Жыл бұрын

Subscribed. Loved this episode and I’ve always admired Dr drew.

@puma001 11 ай бұрын

What a sweet heart! I've not heard him speak before, just heard criticism. He has love, that is THE key to everything.

@audreylgreen5502 Жыл бұрын

How well do I understand all these parts to the holistic view of the homeless and drug addicts and narcissist / personality disorders. I have lived and worked with all three groups. It's hard but manageable . There is hope.

@SamStone1964 Жыл бұрын

Manageable for the non narcissist.

@latentsea Жыл бұрын

Good lighting, set design and camera work.

@DadSavesAmerica Жыл бұрын

Thanks!

@tammyjo4082 Жыл бұрын

I love Dr. Drew!! And his wife Lisa is amazing. Keep up the honesty Dr. Drew.

@elightenedking1997 Жыл бұрын

Good stuff! Thank you for this content. 😊❤

@DadSavesAmerica Жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching!

@daniellemason8481 Жыл бұрын

Excellent episode thank you both so much!!!!!!

@DadSavesAmerica Жыл бұрын

We appreciate it, stay tuned for more to come!

@soniacasanova384 Жыл бұрын

I’m a mental health clinician that recently worked 5 years with law enforcement in Los Angeles county. Everything that Dr Drew is saying regarding the homelessness/mental health crisis is true!!

@melkal7818 Жыл бұрын

I just found this chancel and listened to a couple of the videos and I was like wow. What an awesome channel ❤

@DadSavesAmerica Жыл бұрын

Welcome aboard!

@PsychiCorey Жыл бұрын

Glad I clicked this. Love you man thanks for doing ur part to save America CUS WE NEED SAVING. We need better food in schools I'm hoping we can find a way to help at least communities grow some healthy food for the school and remove fluorescent lights so bad

@SamStone1964 Жыл бұрын

Such a simple thing to have edible gardens in every school.

@sarahball-ruck846 Жыл бұрын

Really enjoyed this interview & these conversations ~loved the dialog on news media or fear industry ... thank you

@DadSavesAmerica Жыл бұрын

thanks for watching!

@sarahball-ruck846 Жыл бұрын

@DadSavesAmerica watch the full video - was so well done - intelligent & thoughtful & hard topic - not easily done... bravo👏👏👏

@GetUnlabeled Жыл бұрын

They refuse to look at anything that will detract from their wallets

@tracymcdonald8440 Жыл бұрын

I feel sorry for parents trying to be parents today. How exhausting it must be now to fight against an increasingly perverse world where good is evil and evil is good.

@harmony7377 Жыл бұрын

Thank you. No one tells you how hard it is-and then-with modern tech-no one knew how much harder it was about to get! Thank you.

@seedailypay Жыл бұрын

Agree. What a hard time to raise children today. So tough

@johannagrace7768 Жыл бұрын

Parents need Jesus Christ. The world needs Jesus Christ. I am a parent who has Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder as a result of severe childhood trauma. My life was a mess when I became pregnant with him. I gave my life to Jesus Christ at the age of 25, when my son was 2 years old. He is now 24 and is a strong, kind and capable adult. He made the decision never to drink alcohol when he was in his teens. My son has his own faith in Jesus Christ and, because of this, he has fantastic boundaries. He doesn’t compromise who he is to belong. When I look at my son, I see a miracle.

@TheBella2u 11 ай бұрын

Ha ha, I love Dr. Drew's honesty! We need more like him.

@davemayshow Жыл бұрын

I see parallels between homelessness and mental illness/addiction, because Ive been mentally I’ll since age 6, an addict since 22 on and off, and homeless since 24 on and off.

@mikebunch5553 Жыл бұрын

Love it, great series.

@jdlives8992 Жыл бұрын

Dr drew is a amazing American. Like Judge Joe Brown he says it like it is and the truth. Even though it’s detrimental to his career. I appreciate his ballllz

@dshepherd107 Жыл бұрын

That sounds like some crackhead behavior to me