Dr. Gabor Maté Explains: The Dangers of Ignoring Your Own Needs

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10 күн бұрын

✨ Dr. Gabor Maté Explains: The Dangers of Ignoring Your Own Needs and Understanding the Impact of Self-Suppression
In this enlightening video, we explore the profound effects of chronic self-suppression on our health, guided by the insights of Dr. Gabor Maté. Discover how neglecting personal authenticity and consistently prioritizing others' needs over our own can lead to significant health consequences.
🔍 Key Topics Covered:
🌿 The Dangers of Ignoring Your Own Needs: Learn from historical examples and personal anecdotes about the physical manifestations of neglecting self-care.
🌿 Autoimmune Diseases and Emotional Suppression: Understand the link between autoimmune diseases and emotional self-abnegation, especially in women, through the lens of the mind-body connection.
🌿 Healthy Anger as a Boundary Defense: Find out how appropriately expressed anger serves as a healthy defense mechanism and its parallels with the immune system.
🌿 Disease as a Manifestation of Internal Processes: Reframe your understanding of disease as a dynamic process influenced by life experiences, beliefs, and relationships.
💡 Why You Should Watch:
✨ Gain valuable insights from Dr. Gabor Maté on the interconnectedness of emotional health and physical well-being.
✨Discover practical advice on setting healthy boundaries and expressing emotions constructively.
✨ Learn how cultural and societal roles impact health, particularly for women, and what can be done to mitigate these effects.
✨ Empower yourself with knowledge to transform your health through self-awareness and emotional authenticity.
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🌟 Join the Conversation:
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A very special thanks to the speaker Dr Paul Conti for sharing his knowledge with us:
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@peteteale 7 күн бұрын

This may sound stupid, but what if you don't even know what your own needs are?

@seagypsy_ 7 күн бұрын

No it’s not stupid… I don’t know what my needs are either. I’m a recluse & socially isolated and rarely mix with anyone in society.

@yourinnerchildmatters 7 күн бұрын

It's not stupid at all! Understanding your own needs can sometimes be a challenging journey, but it's important to take the time to self-reflect and figure out what truly matters to you.

@rpura4883 7 күн бұрын

Start to get to know yourself. Explore what you love. Find the things that spark passion. This is the fertile ground that purpose and fulfillment sprout from. People are here but only a few are alive.

@kathleendinsmore7588 7 күн бұрын

Not stupid at all! You can be so conditioned to suppress your needs you forget to ask yourself what they are. Take the time to ask and be patient with yourself. It’s what I’ve had to do.

@gertruidasnyman7672 6 күн бұрын

I have been there for very long .Now i am into 7th year rediscovering who i am .Discerning between what i love and hate 😂.Now i allow myself the freedom to say what i hate and with that i discover what i adore .I hate war and fights .I love most animals ,the pesky ones i hate .All flowers are beautifull? I like people but i had to learn to turn my back on some . We" give off " an energy .If you prefer being alone thats okay ,be in your own happiness .Why would i go to meeting where people fight if i can plant a tree 😂? Do what makes you happy ...

@lisashelley1826 6 күн бұрын

I was a people pleaser, I developed cancer. I recovered after an aggressive drug regime. I attributed my illness to my interaction with others. 31 months after diagnosis, I completely changed my life. I am no longer a people pleaser, and 16 years on, I'm still fit and healthy. My advice would definitely be to put your own wellbeing before anyone else's. Thank you Dr Gabor gift to the world is immeasurable.

@yourinnerchildmatters 6 күн бұрын

Thank you for sharing your story. I'm so glad to hear about your recovery and how you've transformed your life. Your advice about prioritizing your own wellbeing is truly inspiring. Wishing you continued health and happiness.

@decolores23 3 күн бұрын

May the good Lord continue to Bless you, don’t forget to do fun things! Congratulation and Best healthy wishes for your life!…❤🎉🕊✝️🙌🙂

@vixenvalenzuela Күн бұрын

Oh I’m happy to read that outcome ❤

@Coach_Daphne 8 күн бұрын

What goes on your mind, goes in your body... Thank you Dr Gabor !

@yourinnerchildmatters 7 күн бұрын

Thank you for appreciating Dr. Gabor's insights, they are truly life-changing!

@robynhope219 3 сағат бұрын

U needed this guy to tell u that?

@stoicepictetus833 6 күн бұрын

I was abused and bullied throughout my childhood: I know this is common, but I couldn't gain weight as I felt continually ill through stress and couldn't eat much, had eczema on my body, had tonsillitis once a month, couldn't stop shaking. There were also obvious mental illness symptoms. Yes, trauma and later suppression of being allowed to show your anger and feelings towards noone doing anything for you at the time and then having to care for them later in life, affects your physical health dramatically.

@yourinnerchildmatters 6 күн бұрын

I'm so sorry to hear about what you've been through. Your pain is valid, and it's important to acknowledge the impact it has had on your life. Remember, you deserve care and support. Please take care of yourself and seek out the help you need. You are strong for sharing your story.

@vixenvalenzuela Күн бұрын

Oh no, I hope you are free from those shackles now

@robynhope219 3 сағат бұрын

It sure does...I hope you gained some weight!

@thundergrace 7 күн бұрын

thanks....i am going through a difficult trail right now.... i am living in my car....because i have been abused in shelters and i dont meet the criteria for domestic violence shelters...we are living in a violent culture. people are like vultures and prey on you and your orivacy and personal belongins....the other day i saw on a car that said #onlythestrongsurvive....it made me very upset. being in my car has limited my ability to really think things through clearly ..i am always in upheaval....i have to straigten my car out every day...its always getting messy because there isnt much room... i cannot get a job and i find that tehre are wicked cruel women who are bent on sabotage and rub in my not workig and say things like I have to get to work etc....they wont give me a job becaue i am a christian..i have to make some major decisions ..ia m being stalked and harassed by cops and cops in their own personal vehicles.. i want to be around people who really love me...

@yourinnerchildmatters 7 күн бұрын

I'm so sorry to hear you're going through such a tough time. Your strength and resilience in the face of all this are truly admirable. It’s heartbreaking to know how much you're struggling, and it's important to remember that you deserve kindness and respect. Please keep reaching out for support, and know that there are people out there who care about you. Take care of yourself as best as you can.

@motherpedar3592 6 күн бұрын

It is me people and relatives pleaser. It completely drained me and i got sick ,my knees developed arthritis and hardy walk more than three blocks. When i confronted my immediate family with their behavior they turn against me and isolated me more and more. Even my tenent take advantage and doesn't want to move and pay the rent. That is why you cares for people and use you

@yourinnerchildmatters 5 күн бұрын

I'm sorry to hear about what you've been going through. It's important to prioritize your own well-being and set boundaries with those who take advantage of your kindness.

@karingandalovic3885 8 күн бұрын

Your channel and all your highly informative, validating and uplifting posts are my guide and support in my healing journey....thank you so very much and best wishes to you and everyone on their respective paths🌻

@yourinnerchildmatters 8 күн бұрын

I'm so glad to hear that my content has been helpful to you on your healing journey. Thank you for your kind words!

@rltreasure 4 күн бұрын

Hard to do when parents always bully their daughter by telling them you need to do as yo’are told less there be hell to pay!

@yourinnerchildmatters 3 күн бұрын

Thank you for sharing your experience. Remember, you're not alone.

@yourinnerchildmatters 9 күн бұрын

Discover the life-affirming wisdom of Dr. Gabor Maté as he discusses the importance of prioritizing your well-being in this insightful video. Learn why it's crucial to never ignore your own needs and how to cultivate a healthier relationship with yourself. Join us for a transformative journey towards self-care and self-awareness with Dr. Gabor Maté. #DrGaborMaté, #SelfSuppression, #EmotionalHealth, #AutoimmuneDiseases, #MindBodyConnection, #HealthyBoundaries, #SuppressingEmotions, #WomenHealth, #ChronicIllness, #HealthConsequences, #EmotionalSuppression, #HealthyAnger, #DiseaseManifestation, #EmotionalWellbeing

@janinecombrink2105 3 күн бұрын

Dr Gabor is amazing. We need specific detailed teachings on how to do this. How to even identify our own needs. What healthy selfishness looks like in practical terms.❤

@yourinnerchildmatters 3 күн бұрын

I appreciate your support and interest in learning more about these topics. Stay tuned for more content on this!

@ianmack5068 8 күн бұрын

Fantastic info provided here❤ grateful for all your doing ❤

@yourinnerchildmatters 8 күн бұрын

Thank you for your kind words, I'm glad you found the information helpful!

@DEtra591 8 күн бұрын

Dr Gabor love your book “The Myth of Normal” it explains so much that has been helpful to me. Have you ever thought of coming to Halifax, Nova Scotia? Love to see and hear you in person😀

@decolores23 3 күн бұрын

Thank you Dr. Gabor I love to hear you speak. I always learn something you. God Bless you!…🕊✝️❤️🙂🙏🎼

@yourinnerchildmatters 3 күн бұрын

I'm glad you enjoy my videos and find them informative!

@vietashroffoliver2521 4 күн бұрын

Thanks for posting this. Reassuring as this has been my belief for the past 2 decades or so

@yourinnerchildmatters 3 күн бұрын

Thank you for your kind words and for being a long-time believer in the message of this video!

@letsgetrealwithyanky 18 сағат бұрын

Beautiful and very true. Dr Gabor provides so much helpful information for us to heal. I just wish he would apply this logic to the Jewish people in Israel. Many feel very hurt by his warped views. May all humans heal and live in true peace.

@yourinnerchildmatters 18 сағат бұрын

Thank you for sharing your thoughts. It's great to see people engaging in meaningful discussions.

@amygerstle2037 2 күн бұрын

Very important video and thought provoking. Thank you for sharing ❤

@yourinnerchildmatters 2 күн бұрын

Thank you for taking the time to watch and share your thoughts!

@exploreworld3493 8 күн бұрын

thanks for this video ❤😘

@yourinnerchildmatters 8 күн бұрын

I'm glad you found the video helpful!

@zovalentine7305 6 күн бұрын

Contemplate this: "Dear God, I need money" The prayer is instantly granted. You need money. All creation begins with a decision to have a desire. All we humans ever do is imagine and decide.

@zovalentine7305 6 күн бұрын

Or contemplate this: Q. How do you know you don't NEED it? A. You don't have it ❗

@zovalentine7305 6 күн бұрын

❤ Gabor Mate MD PhD CM ❤

@nataliemcgowan3425 2 күн бұрын

My partner well maybe soon to be ex partner always invalidates my opinion, also passive aggressive. Wasn't always this way I changed too when my dad passed away suddenly massive heart attack in 2018. I took a nervous breakdown June 21. I'm better than I was but not 💯 yet.❤

@yourinnerchildmatters Күн бұрын

I'm really sorry to hear about what you've been going through. Losing a loved one and dealing with a breakdown is incredibly challenging, and it's understandable that it would affect you deeply. It's important to prioritize your mental health and well-being. Have you been able to talk to your partner about how you're feeling? Sometimes open communication can help, but if they continue to invalidate your feelings, it might be worth considering seeking support from a counselor or therapist. Remember, you deserve to be in a relationship where your feelings and opinions are respected. Take care of yourself and stay strong. ❤️

@nataliemcgowan3425 Күн бұрын

@@yourinnerchildmatters ive tried talking might as well talk to a brick wall. I'm bisexual and she is gay. She dislikes when men approach me then suppose anyone be like that. I talk she gives silent treatment or says I'm sick talking about this crap. I wanna be with somebody that understands me. I feel uncomfortable broaching some subjects with her now (wasn't always like that). I'm still struggling with the death of my dad. Sometimes I wanna just disappear.❤️

@yourinnerchildmatters Күн бұрын

@@nataliemcgowan3425 I'm really sorry to hear about what you're going through. Relationships can be incredibly challenging, especially when communication breaks down. It's important to be with someone who understands and supports you, and it sounds like you're not getting that right now. Have you tried explaining to her how much this means to you? Sometimes people don't realize the impact their actions have. If she still isn't responsive, it might be worth considering if this relationship is healthy for you. Also, I'm so sorry for your loss. Losing a parent is really tough, and it's normal to feel overwhelmed. Please don't hesitate to reach out to friends, family, or a counselor for support. You don't have to go through this alone. Remember, your feelings are valid, and you deserve to be heard and understood. Take care of yourself. Bless you dear!

@robinhood6954 5 күн бұрын

Ignore them or not, they still never get fulfilled! 🥴

@yourinnerchildmatters 5 күн бұрын

Thank you for the reminder.

@hummingbird4934 Күн бұрын

So… I’m gonna die early! NONE of my emotional needs are met 😢

@ellenmuseum 5 күн бұрын

Check and check

@yourinnerchildmatters 5 күн бұрын

thanks for watching!

@estherrosario9419 4 күн бұрын

Wake up call…

@yourinnerchildmatters 3 күн бұрын

Thank you for watching!

@trevawhitmoyer682 8 күн бұрын

Now we know that more women have MS because it’s linked to the X chromosome, of which women have two. Men are XY - only one X.

@yourinnerchildmatters 8 күн бұрын

Thanks for sharing your thoughts!

@chikabolitaful 2 күн бұрын

“ those are the ones that get cancer by the way” where’s the studies

@yourinnerchildmatters 2 күн бұрын

Thank you for your comment!

@sheldonduff9338 2 күн бұрын

He is a doctor and is entitled to tell his personal experiences and observations. People get cancer for many reasons, this certainly could be one factor. Be kind.