Dr Gabor Maté on Childhood Trauma, The Real Cause of Anxiety, Our 'Insane' Culture and Ayahuasca

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In this interview, I spoke to renowned addiction, childhood trauma and mind-body health expert Dr Gabor Maté.
We spoke about a wide variety of topics, ranging from how he believes that most mental health conditions originate from unresolved childhood trauma, to why he describes current Western culture as 'insane' because of its failure to meet basic human needs.
He went into detail about what he sees as the root causes of conditions such as anxiety, panic attacks and fibromyalgia. We also spoke about the process of reconnecting with your authentic self.
Amongst other things, we also discussed his experience of working with plant medicines such as Ayahuasca.
It was a real privilege to spend some time speaking to Gabor in London, and if you want to see more from him, check out the full interview on the Human Window website: humanwindow.com/dr-gabor-mate...
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@SaffyKaffy 3 жыл бұрын

I can listen to Dr Gabor Mate my entire life......

@iyaakasha9029 3 жыл бұрын

Me too :)

@pushthetempo2 3 жыл бұрын

This mans work is some of the most important psychological work happening in the world today! His book is really impactful, potentially life changing

@PH--ov7tf 3 жыл бұрын

In one form or another, we are all struggling to overcome our childhoods.

@alexiscausleywaabagiizhigo8606 2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely. Yet brain changes and hormone changes only happen in a subsection of people.

@paulinegallagher7821 3 ай бұрын

And what are we supposed to do about that? He never does actually get around to that part. Like its so easy to just have a do over. The childhood happened, the damage is done. YOU have to decide if youre going to let it define you or not. This therapist likes pointing out the obvious, but he doesnt have a magic wand. I dont want to spend my life watching videos or making him rich buying his books. You get to the end of the book and what do you do? You get on with your life like you never read it.

@paulofurtado4925 5 жыл бұрын

Well for my dad, i had food clothing and a roof "i should be happy!" my mum wasnt much different, did i received love? well i was looked after, at 38 still trying to fix this emotional mess up

@sarahmurray1182 5 жыл бұрын

Perfect definition of childhood emotional neglect

@paulofurtado4925 5 жыл бұрын

@@sarahmurray1182 thanks you just helped me by identifying what it was and at the same time, i think im falling in a dark place again, been like that a few days as ive been on my own and bored for a few days, i have no addictions to numb me down completely, just youtube really. Not your fault obviously, you just gave it a name, and brought up memories, part of healing i guess. Thanks

@caroh2809 5 жыл бұрын

Paulo Furtado I hear you.

@aquamarine0023 5 жыл бұрын

I can 100% relate, Paulo. I think the world we live in that makes us all wage slaves stresses everyone out so terribly that people can't be present for their children because they are too consumed with simply being able to earn money. We live in a broken, toxic, totally emotionally damaging world.

@paulofurtado4925 5 жыл бұрын

@@aquamarine0023 that too, but my dad lost his father when he was 5, he gave a hint that his life was hard and my mum had a horrible father, they were broken themselves couldnt know better probably its their fault and it isn't at the same time, ill take this as a life challenge hehehe, and i know im not that bad at least im aware of it, for what ive seen around, theres a lot of pretending to that we dont see.

@aliceadlington1745 4 жыл бұрын

Wow! I knew there was a reason ‘cry it out’ with babies is being encouraged so much. So we can all become numb robots who work for the system. I hope we as a generation can change things, start responding to our babies and children’s cries, and start a new world of more happy and content humans who love one another ❤️. We need to start with ourselves though...

@actionsspeaklouderthanword537 4 жыл бұрын

They also discourage breastfeeding for that reason!!

@andrewparry1474 3 жыл бұрын

Yes, it's no accident!

@natureisallpowerful 3 жыл бұрын

Gabor mate,wim hof,David goggins, eckhart tolle, brene brown and Wayne dyer are like the avengers to me.

@standardranchstash221 5 жыл бұрын

Such a good guy. I’m 67 now and taught High School for many years. This one talk is better than all the inservice weekly training we underwent for year upon year. An excellent interview.

@janethockey9070 4 жыл бұрын

Standard Ranch Stash Teach your fellow educators

@laraoneal7284 4 жыл бұрын

Standard Ranch Stash I believe it.

@DJK-cq2uy Жыл бұрын

Wow. I'm enlightened

@danieldamata9199 5 жыл бұрын

Brought me to tears, really. How come do we neglect our psychological needs so much?

@lakkakka 5 жыл бұрын

Society. The morinic belief that only certain behavior is good. Rules on which traits you need to portray even if they don’t come natural to you. Even if it means neglecting what you want and think to be able to be a good citizen.

@fmjwest8296 5 жыл бұрын

We are brainwashed, low self esteem and an ability to communicate.

@pluutoop 5 жыл бұрын

Cause we have eyes

@mialite7959 4 жыл бұрын

one word "Scared"

@tientruong2007 4 жыл бұрын

Because when we expressed or emotional needs as children it made us feel unsafe. The love we need for survival was conditional and taken away at signs of vulnerability.

@rossanapettersen 5 жыл бұрын

Excellent interview!! The interviewer is very humble and well structured. Something that we don't see very often on KZfaq. And the guest, no need to say, world-class expert

@paulinewilson720 3 жыл бұрын

Trauma is not what happens to you But what happens inside you as a result of what happened to you wow

@KONAMAN100 3 жыл бұрын

Yes. Profound.

@mamma1506 3 ай бұрын

So incredible to hear those words 🙏

@leasmith7148 4 жыл бұрын

Yes childhood and how you are raised has a very strong influence on a person’s psychological, mental and emotional development. Ancestral issues traumas are also passed down the family line, this resides at a cellular memory level, children also receive the emotional imprint of the parents. People act predominantly from unconscious desires, intentions, beliefs meaning they are not aware of themselves. Until someone becomes aware of themselves, they study themselves and their own psyche cycles will continue to play out. People need to learn to become connected back to themselves otherwise their life is an outward projection of internal drivers.

@jewelsbarbie 3 жыл бұрын

Really great comment.

@EKOvision 3 жыл бұрын

Beautiful put, thank you

@leasmith7148 3 жыл бұрын

@@jewelsbarbie thank you

@leasmith7148 3 жыл бұрын

@@EKOvision thank Emil

@remotefaith 3 жыл бұрын

Source please?

@fmjwest8296 5 жыл бұрын

My parents both medical doctors were cruel-cold and abusive to myself and my two older brothers. As a result I suffer from severe depression and alcoholism, one of my brothers has paranoid schizophrenia, my other brother a drug addict and alcoholic. My younger brother survived with only deep anger, he was the golden child. So much for doctors and their ability to heal. My parents were sociopaths with narcissistic tendencies. I as a result am terrified to even go to a doctor.

@babblingidiot7903 5 жыл бұрын

FMJ West I always thought about how amazing it would be to have both parents as Dr but now I cannot fathom how you must feel ATM.

@iansimpson6618 4 жыл бұрын

sounds like your younger brother might be a narcissist. deep anger, thats 1, golden child thats 2, ........ . So sorry, I had a magic childhood, but have been on and off past 8 yrs with a Narcissist and extremely frustrating and painful dealing with NPD.

@patricemarie2960 3 жыл бұрын

It's far from a perfect world! Even the most successful, medical, legal career comes at a high price! .... These stress ridden jobs, are filled with obsessional thinking, anxiety, depression .... a lot of addiction problems, and no time, or energy, to really build a healthy family! Were we sold a raw bill of goods? ..... that financial, wordly success .... can give you everything you want in life? .... Not even close? ....

@mariethornton2686 3 жыл бұрын

@@patricemarie2960 . so so true

@exbronco1980 3 жыл бұрын

As a patient, i once went to a psychiatrist. he was arrogant and didn't know much about psychology. I'm not crazy about doctors myself.

@JasonGafar 4 жыл бұрын

Loved all of the points by Dr. Mate, but my favorite point is when he remarks that very few people are fortunate to be raised without experiencing trauma within their childhood. It's deeply consoling knowing that I'm not the only one suffering this difficulty, though I wouldn't wish this suffering on anyone else.

@Amy623 4 жыл бұрын

I am as well suffering from a childhood trauma and my parents think it's normal that everyone parent their children the way they did. I hope one day they realise that they are wrong. I'm slowly helping myself and I am very grateful for this doctor. He gave me allot of hope to heal.

@tmac8892 4 жыл бұрын

Preach brah.

@JasonGafar 4 жыл бұрын

@@tmac8892 LOL, thanks man.

@JasonGafar 4 жыл бұрын

@@Amy623 whenever communicating with dysfunctional parents, try to communicate diplomatically. Dysfunctional parents are very defensive and often refuse to take ownership of their poor parenting. Pray also that they change for the better. Lastly, know that you become who you want to be, and also become the parent that you desperately needed, thereby creating a healthy, functional generation of children, which produces a cycle of generation after generation. Allow dysfunctional parenting to end with you.

@laraoneal7284 4 жыл бұрын

It is sad that this is the reality of our existence. Yes it is hard work to recover from our childhoods.

@curiosity_saved_the_cat 4 жыл бұрын

At the same time you might say the only actual result you'll ever 'get', is the realization that the reality of our existence is exactly as it should be. Only (childhood) trauma/conditioning suggest hard work is required to become 'whole', since socialy unaccepted states of being had apparent isolating (fracturing) results. There's no real recovering. Only from the illusory perspective you're not whole however it is.

@paulinegallagher7821 3 ай бұрын

@@curiosity_saved_the_cat The whole thing is naval gazing bullshit. This endless pursuit of happiness or to become 'whole', like how the F are you supposed to know when that occurs? Cant we just be? I am SICK of trying to aspire to certain feelings and levels of consciousness and being made feel like a failure if I haven't achieved it. Cant I just HAVE a bad fucking day? or week? I dont want or need to be fixed, because some people just ARE what they ARE. I am prone to misery, I am prone to mood swings, I am prone to existential 'whats the ffing point'. That is just the way my mind works. I THINK TOO MUCH. What am I supposed to do, think less? I cant reprogram my brain by reading some friggin book by some man who doesnt know squat about my life. Im so done with all this lol, life is just too short. Just BE, without guilt for not doing more, for not wanting more. just try not to hurt anyone along the way, be kind along the way, and enjoy yourself when YOU feel like it, not because you think you SHOULD.

@jujubee90275 4 жыл бұрын

That definition of trauma was on point!

@radicalhonesty3628 2 жыл бұрын

as I watch this video, what arises in me, is longing and desire... and an immense and intense ache inside my soul... I pray magical blessings in the lives of myself and my true love (whom I am yet to meet). may him and I, both experience magical transformation and new levels of enlightenment and bliss... and may that lead us to each other, very-very soon! and may you, as well, beloved reader, be blessed, too...

@Bearwoman11 5 жыл бұрын

Hearing this lecture, I can't help but think about the children that are separated from their parents and living in these concentration camp. The trauma they are experiencing is inhumane!

@jaypie0864 3 жыл бұрын

Yes! The Obama administration should be prosecuted for implementing the policy of separating children from their parents. So thankful the Trump administration discontinued the practice!

@nathananderson8720 5 ай бұрын

This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my KZfaq channel 10 months ago about self development. Now I have 1,969 subs and > 2k hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I could haven’t learned without getting started in the 1st place.

@3eMoi 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this wonderful interview. My wife just healed from endometriosis, after going through the emotional process described by Gabor Maté. A very painful yet rewarding path (of course it's not the healing that's painful but the psychic wounds that the disease indicates). Thank you very much for asking this specific question. Adding "endometriosis/fibromyalgia" to the title of the video would probably be useful since so many people need a way out of this EXCRUCIATING pain, and since this kind of information on the subject is not easy to find.

@XFonti-ik3ql 4 жыл бұрын

Wise man with a beautiful voice !

@jchase3755 5 жыл бұрын

I still feel a disconnect to my feelings sometimes and have trouble recognizing my feelings sometimes if I am overwhelmed or if someone is verbally,emotionally overpowering me. He hit it on the head. 8:00 - meeeeeeeeeee. I always had to suppress my feelings because I was constantly told they were unacceptable - parent reacting with anger to my feelings.

@epictetus9221 5 жыл бұрын

You might find Richard Grannon's work helpful (esp. the Emotional Literacy course)

@harlenevan 5 жыл бұрын

I feel the same way. I am 46 and only beginning to allow my true feelings to come up. And I'm still struggling. I don't even know what I'm feeling most of the time. My twin brother said to me last night "why can't you just say what you feel to Mom and Dad?"

@pluutoop 4 жыл бұрын

Yess

@natalieschroeder7038 4 жыл бұрын

I understand. My counselor recommended "Loving what is" by Byron Katie. It helped. Also, my spiritual educator uses book "Spiritual Rhythms for the Enneagram: A Handbook for Harmony and Transformation" by Adele Ahlberg Calhoun , Doug Calhoun which helps people embrace themselves and recognize triggers from childhood that form our personalities. For a laugh, check out comedian, Tom Papa, who will make you laugh out loud and feel how alike we all are: kzfaq.info/get/bejne/aeCbn7Cqu7WZlI0.html Lexapro SSNRI for persistent depression/anxiety made a baseline to the lows to enable me to make the changes to my outlook. You're okay how you are. Be well.

@tulinbeyduz920 4 жыл бұрын

harlenevan as Jordan Peterson has said sometimes we have to get use to talking about uncomfortable things otherwise it sits inside and causes resentment . Sometimes we have to confront what is uncomfortable but then we feel liberated afterwards.. I wrote a letter to my mum when I was 23 years old 15 years ago . She told me not to call her mom anymore . I feel better for voicing how I felt . It’s taken a whole load of my shoulders.

@micheleagren1604 4 жыл бұрын

I just have to say that this interview is so comforting and helpful. Once we know what is going on we can start to heal.

@rickymedi6564 5 жыл бұрын

Enjoyed every moment, deep self realization is always a given with Dr.Mate

@HumanWindow 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks Ricky!

@suzeb7005 4 жыл бұрын

I watched again & Gabor 🙏 You are my other religion, so Thank you & shout out from Perth Western Australia 🇦🇺

@pipwhitefeather5768 5 жыл бұрын

Fantastic. Thank you Gabor Mate the world needs your insight. Namaste.

@ledaswan5990 3 жыл бұрын

Mpm

@tammysims5164 3 жыл бұрын

With Gabor Mate I feel hopeful.

@jleviathan9766 4 жыл бұрын

Stumbling upon this is such a huge breath of fresh air. I'm an Aspie who was raised by extremely broken individuals who suffered a lot under the Soviet regime, and my hardest journey has been accepting that I was never truly properly loved and taken care of because they were so emotionally stunted and unprepared for both life an parenthood. More horrifying is the fact that the majority of the population is in the same boat too, and perpetuating cycles of neglect and abuse thanks to our normalisation of it. It feels ridiculous pointing fingers at how flawed our society is when we have come so far in terms of all these technological advancements, which we use to justify our greed and self destruction, but when we look back at how things were historically, we see that our current environment is in no way adapted to our needs. "we are a species with amnesia" is the most accurate way of putting it... It also feels like the latest generations of young people are becoming more aware of this and are starting to break these cycles, thanks to the advancements in psychiatry that have been made over the last couple of dozen of years

@ChrisInToon 4 жыл бұрын

Hello Martin, just wanted to say that you should be proud of yourself for this excellent interview, and I wish you well for future growth individually and with your channel. Thanks,

@HumanWindow 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you.

@Aldred86 3 жыл бұрын

Excellent. What Dr. Maté said about the legal system I have thought for a long time. We just lock up people who do bad things. But do we ever ask why they went to those lengths?

@klaritybelle5005 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you Gabor, your authenticity hits deep and means so much more than intellectual relationship to trauma

@RiseandShineHolisticWellness 4 жыл бұрын

I am one who has healed myself from endometriosis and fibromyalgia and other issues. I wish I had found this man years and years ago! Brilliant!!!

@woutergorter9 4 жыл бұрын

Make a video about how you overcame trauma. I believe it would be helpful

@jennifergalberth1240 3 жыл бұрын

HOW DID YOU HEAL?😎😇💕😃👋🖤❤👍?

@UpFromUnder6 3 жыл бұрын

How did you heal from fibromyalgia please? I really need help badly.

@gettingcooked1558 3 жыл бұрын

Please provide us with some of the tools you used to heal yourself, tens of thousands need to hear from you.

@UpFromUnder6 3 жыл бұрын

Can you please tell how you cured yourself from fibromyalgia? The pain is excruciating! I cry daily! PLEASE HELP!

@cavelleardiel 5 жыл бұрын

We carry trauma from each generation. I help people get to the root cause and remove any attachments to it. When you understand yourself you will have phenomenal coping skills.

@marijkevandermeer2772 5 жыл бұрын

BEAUTIFUL! Good! Do you do online coaching? I would be much honoured if you could be in the circumstances to respond...🌹🥀🌹

@SusanHopkinson 5 жыл бұрын

You sound like a student of Melissa Peer 👌🏻 I also work like this with people and the results are wonderful to see. 🙏🏻

@cavelleardiel 5 жыл бұрын

@@marijkevandermeer2772 Hello I actually use a form of hypnosis with nlp and cbt. We can discuss how this works so effectively. You can check out my website at www.cavelleardiel.com. My information is there and we can chat further. I love to share what I do..

@cavelleardiel 5 жыл бұрын

@@SusanHopkinson I am a graduate of her program. All hypnosis is good but her program does work very well. I sent you an fb request. I would like to connect with you!

@lisaanndavis3289 5 жыл бұрын

I need help please. I need to learn how to let go.

@jcook899 4 жыл бұрын

The thing I hope doesn't get lost in this talk about engaging in questions and positive supportive practices is the key nature of finding a tribe a group that will help support you and you them on our journey. Make this your aim show up and tell the truth and a lot of the other specific things discussed as solutions in this video become possible. Without having that community I have found very little healing is possible.

@A_T__ 4 жыл бұрын

jcook899 I agree. And its so challenging! A lot of us end up here because we dont have support systems. And families are just people that brought us into the world and we grew up around. Not necessarily supportive at all.

@skippy7208 3 жыл бұрын

How do you find this community? Most people seem to be on a treadmill existence and not really interested in delving deeper into the nature of their own psyches.

@adambrunskill9359 3 жыл бұрын

if I was in charge of the education system Gabor would be a subject.

@midknight1968 4 жыл бұрын

Love You! I was abused for many years as a child thank you for helping 😘

@oopsidazy143 4 жыл бұрын

quote “trauma is a wound”

@dejanangelovski7941 3 жыл бұрын

on the soul

@andyokus5735 3 жыл бұрын

This doc seems very cool. No bullshit. I'm listening to him.

@flyingcrew2640 3 жыл бұрын

Doing a past life regression is great too.. You can see why you came to the parents you have and the karma balance.. Love gabor..

@CatJourney198 2 жыл бұрын

Can you elaborate please? I would love to follow your sources.

@mskharrazi3075 4 жыл бұрын

The next step is talking through the pain and suppression to heal ourselves. This is why I always say having children is not a given for marriage but a privilege. A serious endeavor to love and protect. Not indirectly but directly. No arguing even if the baby is asleep, you can’t hide the contentions between parents which deeply affects the child. I’m damaged. But I’m trying to fix it.

@recyclerking1 3 жыл бұрын

Well said.

@papasscooperiaworker3649 3 жыл бұрын

wdym by a given and a privilege for this context? also why can't they hide it, sorry? is it bc the child will find out somehow sooner or later?

@anyakosta364 3 жыл бұрын

@@papasscooperiaworker3649 look how animals respond to arguing And if you care for them ull see they.try to hide or run away they are scared.....so no arguments around kids....take ur issues somewhere else or resolve it in a different manner...basically...other wise You are projecting your own egoism unto someone and inflicting trauma ........

@astridbiram2776 4 жыл бұрын

I've had depression, but l keep fighting unless you have depression or mental illness you don t know what it's like.😪😪😪

@XFonti-ik3ql 4 жыл бұрын

It is a nightmare!!!!

@papasscooperiaworker3649 3 жыл бұрын

wdym unless you have depression or (other) mental illness?

@skippy7208 3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely! Life is so tough when you’re afflicted with mental illness.

@criticalthinker6736 3 жыл бұрын

Dr. Mate was also featured in the independent documentary *Zeitgeist Moving Forward.* I highly recommend all watch it for a new train of thought and non-secular ideas on the root causes of aberrant behaviors, from addiction to violence. I think it can provide a different insight as to why so many of us feel stuck, unhappy, and just plain hopeless, especially during this pandemic. Good health to you all.

@aquamarine0023 5 жыл бұрын

Such incredibly important topics. Dr. Mate has such a valuable insight and perspective.

@caroh2809 5 жыл бұрын

‘Only 100% of the time’. I totally agree. This man really has it.

@sgturner59 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks for this. Good to hear Dr. Maté.

@Mushroom321- 4 жыл бұрын

Great listening interviewer!😃 I could listen to him all... Day. 👏

@joy96815 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the upload. A well done interview, Very insightful!

@janec.kowalczyk5824 3 жыл бұрын

My pediatrician growing up➖was my son's pediatrician for the first 5 years of his lifel➖ he retired. I wish I would have asked him questions about my mother's care for me.

@KyleMHart 4 жыл бұрын

This is beautiful. Thank you Dr.Mate, you're work is much appreciated and will be put to use.

@travelfaraway9 3 жыл бұрын

I am on my journey to heal my wounded self, to understand me, i am always coming to this channel to listen to Dr Maté

@AB-op9cq 5 жыл бұрын

Dr. Mate pls go on the JRE

@MrJoecantu1134 4 жыл бұрын

A B I second that

@mani-ksb 4 жыл бұрын

One of the best informative interviews! Have a lot of respect for Gabor.

@odette8905 5 жыл бұрын

Lovely interview. Well done.

@BarbaraMerryGeng 3 жыл бұрын

I am so grateful for Dr; Gabor Mate’s generosity & compassion for humanity...

@gunnell9817 5 жыл бұрын

Great intervju with a great person! Thank you!

@markusarocious8994 4 жыл бұрын

Dr Mate speaks it so well..

@cathrine1151 5 жыл бұрын

Great interview and really good questions from the interviewer.

@HumanWindow 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you, Cathrine!

@genevieverosochacki3950 4 жыл бұрын

Agreed. Apart from posing good questions, the interviewer really listens, allowing audience to receive the full value of Gabor Mate’s reply. Excellent!

@Gemelli2906 4 жыл бұрын

I do not know anyone who has not had some form of trauma. None of us got Ozzie & Harriet for parents. Perhaps there should be more parenting classes, not just about burping and feeding but on emotional development of children.

@shadowbanned4149 4 жыл бұрын

spot on / I'm edging towards 4 legged friends they are so much more simplistic /

@melissa_anastasia 5 жыл бұрын

Let's heal this stuff! Yoga therapy, somatic experiencing, plant medicine, and then fix system to raise healthy people! We have the tools and then we need to actually keep going with it all.

@kellyv6075 5 жыл бұрын

For me, feeling is my biggest healing ! Let the messengers of emotions come up and be heard , be validated so they can move through us :)

@rampantknight 4 жыл бұрын

@@kellyv6075 yes I agree and after a while to me it can be quiet exciting to do, like the healing is fun, and then I am able to feel the stronger heavier emotions with less resistance, its painful and tough at times and i can see how these emotions are trying to create negative thoughts, but i just stick with the feeling, and afterwards the rest of the day is always more pleasant.

@saumitrsharma2816 4 жыл бұрын

@@rampantknight how to do it?

@Nicole-wv9tb 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for the validations that I'd never previously received. Thank you Gabor.

@sandraainsley2163 4 жыл бұрын

Every part of me resonates with every part of what Dr. Mate says.

@alexalyo40 4 жыл бұрын

Amazing insight as always, thank you Dr Mate.

@mialite7959 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks for uploading. Love me some Mate' !!

@marijkevandermeer2772 5 жыл бұрын

BEAUTIFUL!

@MissAllyjandra 4 жыл бұрын

Fantastic 🙏🏼💛 God bless!!!!! 🙌🏼

@topgtom 4 жыл бұрын

Dr Gabor Mate is the best🙏

@lori5946 Жыл бұрын

Adult child of dysfunctional family. I learned not to feel and be a codependent. I have anxiety because I have a critical parent voice in my head who tells me I am garbage. So learning to love and reparent yourself. Allow and accept my feelings. I do inner child work. 12 step groups help like coda, AA,NA, and ACA. I do want to do ayahuasca to over come my childhood trauma. I have a lot of unresolved anger that need to be released. I am learning boundaries and what real love is.

@A_T__ 4 жыл бұрын

Dr Gabor is great as usual.

@zillahbugeja8973 4 жыл бұрын

A very good interview. Succinct, simple.

@kokilasharma1078 4 жыл бұрын

Fabulous interview!!!!!!!!

@HumanWindow 5 жыл бұрын

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@lidanygonzalez8288 2 жыл бұрын

Dr Gabor for President ,!!

@tamibovaird3253 4 жыл бұрын

very insightful, such an expert!

@salome3049 4 жыл бұрын

❤️❤️❤️ so true... time to get rid off all that meaningless things in life, job included.

@j.m9189 4 жыл бұрын

Dr Mate, you have changed my life. Now I understand my traumas and I am healing. Xxx

@CatJourney198 2 жыл бұрын

What are you doing to heal?

@user-gc2wt3dx7q 4 жыл бұрын

Another quality interview. Thanks for sharing. Used Gabor s work as framework and toolset for understanding peeps I work with and society since 90s. Re yr friends and anxiety I d also ask whether this is affected by prescription meds taken since infancy and/or non prescription drug use adverse effects. And would dig into the work insecurities Gabor mentioned early on. Other area that could be relevant you ve covered in yr recent convo s - sleep quality, day time light exposure and effects of artificial light at night. Finally caffeine effects and social media adverse effects also important factors to include when investigating anxiety.

@b.o3898 3 жыл бұрын

it is really great, thanks so much....

@memeworko5947 3 жыл бұрын

Amazing man you’ve got us diagnosed childhood trauma dissociate identity disorder 5 years an no one has spoken to me an feel understood crying my body is full of pain an revictimising toxic choices behaviour addictions one day I hope to have a day just one where I don’t feel the pain

@emh8861 5 жыл бұрын

I was very loved as a kid. I didn't feel pretty, but that's ok. I was never jealous of beautiful people.

@caroh2809 5 жыл бұрын

Emma Leyva wow. I just saw you only as ‘pretty’ in all your comment - you are at peace with yourself and there’s nothing more attractive

@andyokus5735 3 жыл бұрын

You were loved? Honey, you don't know how incredibly lucky and blessed you are.

@AimEmery 3 жыл бұрын

If you’re interested in integrating childhood experiences so that they don’t keep tripping you up read the book the presence process and do the work! 😊

@maricari5000 Жыл бұрын

My favorite!!!

@sherylmac40 2 жыл бұрын

" All you have to do is be nice to the kids" the fact we are having this conversation. Is a sighn of the Times.

@astridbiram2776 4 жыл бұрын

We need to help people with mental illness and not judge them,that's what the problem is!!!!How come cancer is taken seriously and depression is not,how come Aids is considered a dirty persons disease, this is where our system is failing.🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

@tictoc5443 2 жыл бұрын

Great insights

@sophiakh9590 5 жыл бұрын

Great 💕 thoughts

@blissh808 4 жыл бұрын

Moving forward, It’s important to know the messages ( the damages), however it’s not important to blame the messengers (parents). They didn’t know it themselves and the damages have been passed on generation after generation. The sooner we know, the sooner we ended the dysfunctional cycle.

@dkdoodle 3 жыл бұрын

I disagree, sometimes in the initial stages of healing it can be important to break free of those relationships if there was a lot of inmeshment, in order to differentiate and develop. A stage of anger at one's caretakers is also necessary. Of course the view that they didn't start it and were acting out unconsciously can be held simultaneously.

@anyakosta364 3 жыл бұрын

Even further i was going to school in Stockholm Sweden......with Palestinians......they got an out of state on their papers....and act out their PTSD in every day life even in school.....they dont feel they fit in And dislike the western happy go lucky culture or a reserve culture That doesn't gossip....they truly Act anxious and paranoid at times ....and they press them on to blend in Into a western society...... When immigrants from troubled world zone arive to the peaceful western world countries.. They haven't been addressed at the core issues... But a mandatory to fit into and pick up on the western world vision aka dream aka archetype ..... Its truly obvious if you interact with now come immigrants.....and then we start the blame game..... An immigration could be already A traumatic experience.....

@anyakosta364 3 жыл бұрын

And our parents and grandparents Are children of the ww2 past parenting and they are influenced by the trauma.......trump and Biden are those kids

@sph798 2 жыл бұрын

Wow v true about childhood trauma and fibromylgia anf also heart disease! Thanks for connecting mind and body with illnesses because many doctors do not combine the two together when treating their patients.Well a 10 mins patient consultation can't reveal much.

@dianesilva1078 3 жыл бұрын

The number of ads during this talk breaks your line of thought and seem to come at the most signuficant parts of the talk.

@rheahayes3149 3 жыл бұрын

I’M GRATEFUL FOR FINDING “HUMAN WINDOW” WEBSITE. DR. GABOR MATE IS AN AMAZING BLESSING & WE HAVE MUCH TO LEARN FROM THIS BRILLIANT, COMPASSIONATE & EMPATHETIC MAN. CHEERS FROM 🇨🇦

@Keetcha100 5 жыл бұрын

Yet another excellent talk with the brilliant Dr. Gabor Mate. It is unfortunate that the discussion regarding Hilary Clinton and Donald Trump were edited out. Both of these people are also acting out on the world stage their own respective childhood traumas. I have heard him speak on this elsewhere and I am pretty sure that would have been the gist of what he would've been talking about if you hadn't edited it out.

@martincaparrotta238 5 жыл бұрын

Thanks for your kind words! The discussion you mention wasn't edited out - unfortunately it was not recorded in full due to an issue with the camera used to film the interview. I agree it was a shame that this part was lost, but as you say, he has spoken about them and other politicians elsewhere.

@jennygao826 4 жыл бұрын

This was so helpful to me... I have been dealing with endometriosis for a few years now... and my gut feeling/obs has shown that it gets better/worse depending on my stress level. It makes so much sense now hearing there’re studies done on this connection to childhood experience. I feel very inspired and empowered to hopefully heal from all this..

@25johis 5 жыл бұрын

I'm from Colombia. Interesting

@astridbiram2776 4 жыл бұрын

I will buy his books.

@arpitasharma5908 4 жыл бұрын

It's true...I m a living proof but thank you for inspiring me....what happened with me...to no other child..

@mayamichelle6741 2 жыл бұрын

There's no mention of trauma in the legal system. With traumatized people in court facing judgement and punishment before judges and lawyers. It's also important to recognize that they too are also traumatized and probably just like Gabor Maté, chose their careers as a result of unprocessed trauma. So the people running our legal systems are not only trauma uninformed and lacking any knowledge/skill/training, but they are also trauma oblivious. What a mess.

@kareemmohammed5270 4 жыл бұрын

profound talk

@karenjensen7968 5 жыл бұрын

❤I am a fan, Toy Are so right 😍

@axelleeavantam4606 4 жыл бұрын

System Of A Down: please make Toxicity II. The people need it...they just do not realize it yet. Great interview. I have been seeking for sound of soul for so long.

@EklectikaAaynne 4 жыл бұрын

Wonderful interview . . . thank you both. And so now I'm hopeful to secure one of Dr. Gabor Mate's "Compassionate Inquiry" for the layperson - myself. Any further update as to a date it will be ready?