Dr. Umar Blast Podcast Host For Trying To Convince Us There Are No Good Black Men Or Women To Marry

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Dr. Umar Blast Podcast Host For Trying To Convince Us There Are No Good Black Men Or Women To Marry

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@REDMICRADIO Ай бұрын

This is true, you don't see a married couple that's been married 40 years on a podcast telling you what to do.

@mzwetlovequeen Ай бұрын

Why is that? Why aren't the successful married folk on podcast sharing?

@laethyciasimms6894 Ай бұрын

Because they’re getting criticism and ppl pray for their downfalls. When a married woman talks she’s getting attacked by single women

@mzwetlovequeen Ай бұрын

@@laethyciasimms6894 💖💖

@william1126 Ай бұрын

👍 👍 👍 👍 👍 👍

@biscaynesupercars Ай бұрын

@@mzwetlovequeenbecause they’re busy minding their business and living their life. Plus if a couple did people are so toxic and miserable they’d be hell bent on destroying that couple’s marriage

@Better-na-better Ай бұрын

We all need to heal ourselves. Most of us still suffer from childhood traumas that never was addressed. Work on yourself, love yourself and then you can work on a healthy relationship.

@ceofounder Ай бұрын

Truth! Facts! Powerful commentary!

@arlenemuhammad9853 Ай бұрын

So many people spoke bad about Min. Farrakhan when he said we needed therapy or needed to be audited. The Church of Scientology has a good therapy program but just because is was the Church of Scientology it was blasted as something bad. This has been a focus of that Church and they're good at it. People who have been traumatized and abused need to get healing before they get married not just for themselves, but so they don't traumatize their spouse and children.

@Styles.rp25 Ай бұрын

In that order! 🎯

@wb3381 Ай бұрын

I agree that too many of us seek external happiness through money, cars, clothes, jewelry, a good job, sports, sex, entertainment, music,and religion and yet never never nerver experience healthy bonding with safe people

@acailacarroll2303 Ай бұрын

Facts but in my opinion apart of healing is taking accountability. Everyone just wants to blame someone else

@chuckc4724 Ай бұрын

Thank you!! This men vs women, women vs men bs has to die!

@Maui_Gyrl_ Ай бұрын

🙏🏽

@Superyaz-w7n Ай бұрын

Can’t die if the ppl saying men need therapy , won’t get therapy from what their mothers did to them to break them and to make them think every man is cheating. Thats what happens when the mothers bring their kids into adult situations at a young age. Especially girls. And I see a lot of sisters bringing their daughters into adult relationship situations. Now those little girls grow up not have bad relationships but creating toxic relationships because like her mom she’s accusing every man she’s with with cheating. And since she thinks that , she has a dirty attitude with the man she’s in a relationship. Everything is an argument. Everything is a fight while it’s not. You can’t lie most black men try and show women the light but they choose not to see logic and leadership

@MD-DLive Ай бұрын

@@chuckc4724 especially for black folk! It's not helping anything

@MD-DLive Ай бұрын

@@chuckc4724 100% agreed, does not help black folk in the long run!

@Bb-jm6wx Ай бұрын

@@Superyaz-w7nlmao so you think people got men cheat from their mothers, and not the men themselves that they’re interacted with?

@nux2k Ай бұрын

I'm so glad he explained this. I am so tired of hearing black people have this "get over it". "Let it go" mindset. People do not understand psychologically how the brain works overall but especially trauma. People can understand having your back broken and put in a wheelchair and that somebody will never walk again. But they can't understand something Traumatizing somebody so bad that they can never be the same again. Age has nothing to do with anything. They're people who are Damn near 100 Still thinking about something that happened to them as a child (That greatly affected them their whole life) and we'll take it to the grave. Mental scars cut way deeper than physical ones.

@k1llamanjaro532 Ай бұрын

That’s a fact, but as a being it is your responsibility to face your trauma to grow as a person, if that is what you as a being want. Correct generational trauma, overcome your subconscious mental blocks to be the being you are destined to be, because at the end of the day our time is limited and regretting not taking action in your final moments will spiritually crush you.

@jo-alicia445 Ай бұрын

So true

@nux2k Ай бұрын

@@k1llamanjaro532 This is true and I don't respect people who don't try... Trying is all you can do but let's be honest a lot of people are not going to win because of being awesome was easy. Everybody would do it. This is why you should not traumatize children traumatize others or traumatize yourself. Once something is mentally broken it is usually broken and it will never be the same again

@marcelesteban Ай бұрын

@@k1llamanjaro532 Thank you....well said

@lisabrightly Ай бұрын

Yes! Dr Umar corrected him real quick. I love it!

@akinchinnery1167 Ай бұрын

Hurt people, hurts people, and misery loves company☝🏿..

@moneychaser2430 Ай бұрын

Black people

@ceofounder Ай бұрын

Facts! Truth! Real telling it like it is commentary!

@anthonyhenderson892 Ай бұрын

Some people just enjoy hurting people

@ceofounder Ай бұрын

@@anthonyhenderson892 Scary truth! 100% in agreement!

@moneychaser2430 Ай бұрын

Black people just can't handle the truth you guys are so use to bring manipulated and being told what you want to hear

@lynnmcmillian5137 Ай бұрын

Loving one self is the greatest and forgiving oneself

@southernladybrown5092 Ай бұрын

And others❤❤

@viberantpearl Ай бұрын

Love and forgive self is first and foremost

@maliksmith1870 Ай бұрын

There's a split between those that are brainwashed and those who understand.

@47shadows76 Ай бұрын

Everyone is brainwashed. Unless you literally don't watch any media at all or listen to opposing opinions.

@lynnmcmillian5137 Ай бұрын

A unhealthy mind brings about much confusion

@ceofounder Ай бұрын

Intellectual and thought provoking commentary!

@Ezekiel365Days Ай бұрын

And Umar is taht unhealthy mind as well

@the_shadow_healer Ай бұрын

Its not that people are afraid to approach the right people, its a lot of people who aren't doing the work to heal themselves from their own issues. So it becomes a cycle of jumping in and out relationships carrying emotional, mental, spiritual, and societal baggage. Self awareness and self actualization is the foundation of growing into a better person man and woman. Study your parents and grandparents, recognize the behavior patterns you are repeating, recognize the trauma they individually went through and see if you're carrying that residue. Your past is always with you. Make peace with your past to be the best version of yourself in the PRESENT.

@Peachcobler22 Ай бұрын

True

@viticusbrow Ай бұрын

Well said 👏🏾💯

@RatchetCoon Ай бұрын

Until I see Umar with a black wife I cannot take him seriously.

@Maui_Gyrl_ Ай бұрын

Then why watch him?

@RatchetCoon Ай бұрын

@@Maui_Gyrl_ I don’t watch him. I just come to the comment section to point out how much of a hypocrite he is.

@SphumZAR Ай бұрын

I assume your comment is coming from the “walk the talk” standpoint but I’m genuinely curious, if he speaks like this without a wife and then gets married to a black woman and continues to speak like this, what exactly would be the fundamental difference in his message not life but the message itself?

@RatchetCoon Ай бұрын

@@SphumZAR I appreciate your genuine curiosity but I don’t do “ifs”.

@BrandonSmith-rb1bf Ай бұрын

be careful with that... I might be a dope dealer but that doesn't mean that I dont have the experience to teach children why dope dealing is bad.

@kaofounder Ай бұрын

I agree with Umar that there maybe hidden agents and subconscious motivations, but here's another factor: CONFLICT SELLS. No one wants to hear a podcast about how great black men are and how wonderful black women are, and how much we need each other. The public demand is for destruction in the name of entertainment and these podcasts hosts are selfishly farming and manufacturing hatred and resentment in hopes to get Patreon subscribers, superchats on KZfaq, and monetized video views.

@DblONo7 Ай бұрын

Not defending those podcasts shows but some to most are exposing BW horrible ways and behavior. Too many videos of BW rather choose the so called "scammer and thugs" over BM that works a 9 to 5.

@marthaalexander7362 Ай бұрын

@kaofounder you are absolutely right! It's definitely other people's gain at our expense.

@jman1562001 Ай бұрын

Folks have will expose dysfunctional behaviors for the check. See Jerry springer to content creators. It's all about the bread for that exploitation. Or sexual suggestive material for money.

@NBlack-zh4hx Ай бұрын

That part! 👏🏾

@theblackmoth1111 Ай бұрын

@@DblONo7 so true. Starting to notice that. They are the agents even if they too are black that keeps us in the worst stereotypes . Pushing the negative black narrative more. Making it seem like black being as a whole does nothing right. Purposely overlooking the good. The fact it is more black businesses than ever. More black college graduates in the science etc. no one talks about it. Just the crime and dysfunction.

@sheemuniversalshabazzallah9422 Ай бұрын

I’m Stickin With My People Right Wrong or Indifferent 💯

@angelhailu812 Ай бұрын

Facts brother

@sheemuniversalshabazzallah9422 Ай бұрын

@@angelhailu812 It’s Only Right People Think Goin Somewhere Else is Takin the Easy Way Out

@FieryDiva-hf5er Ай бұрын

Speak On!

@the_shadow_healer Ай бұрын

Exactly we gotta stop allowing outside voices control OUR inside mental fortitude. Are we that weak that we allow others determine how we value each other man to woman? Unplug from social media, tv, and entertainment people .

@klove6149 Ай бұрын

WORD

@mandor13 Ай бұрын

I was homeless, got into drugs, went into prisons, then i got to know Jesus, He changed my life.. Now i make 22k weekly. have a home, a wife, a lovely daughter... A child of God. HALLELUJAH

@marinaaryantifelisitasgulo1445 Ай бұрын

How did you do it? Do explain please 😯 My family have been into series of sufferings lately

@mandor13 Ай бұрын

All thanks to Christina Ann Tucker

@mandor13 Ай бұрын

After I raised up to 325k trading with her I bought a new House and a car here in the states 🇺🇸🇺🇸 also paid for my daughter's surgery (Joey). Glory to God.shalom.

@LucindaGrace-lq1op Ай бұрын

Absolutely! I've heard stories of people who started with little to no knowledge but made it out victoriously thanks to Christina Ann Tucker.

@marinaaryantifelisitasgulo1445 Ай бұрын

How do I get connection to this woman you speak about!!?

@Bro96101 Ай бұрын

“ everyone is renting space in a home , but not functioning like a family “

@hiyellagal Ай бұрын

This is so true because I've seen it and lived it.

@tashna7831 Ай бұрын

Wow wow wow wow wow Dr Umar this!!!!!!! This was really really needed. Been living with a “traumatized” person. Everyone does things to them. This always happens to them. I felt my energy constantly drained being with them. And my life too a turn. As being in an environment with a person like this is unhealthy. Now since I created boundaries. Now I’m another person to their story on doing something to them because I refuse to tolerate their manipulation and victimization game.

@Imhotep_DrummerJones Ай бұрын

I know what you mean… c’est la vie

@southernladybrown5092 Ай бұрын

APTTMH CONGRATULATIONS staying encouraged be blessed❤❤❤

@viberantpearl Ай бұрын

It's time to severe ties 😮

@tashna7831 Ай бұрын

@@viberantpearl already did. Now it’s time to move out. And I do not guilt myself or shame myself to speaking to them. They would buy things as a “sorry”. Without apologizing. Someone who doesn’t apologize will never take accountability or responsibility. Very very Alarming. Thank you! 🙏🏾

@47shadows76 Ай бұрын

What do you think you did wrong in this relationship? I'm getting tired of the "the person I chose to mate with, sleep with, and move in with is an absolutely horrible person but I'm a saint" argument.

@bellaclyde Ай бұрын

People need to step away from unhealthy cultures

@Tmac_305 Ай бұрын

Examples??

@PhiladelphiaN98 Ай бұрын

From the yt people 😂

@PiplupPlus Ай бұрын

Black men need to start becoming traditional masculine, the lack of fathers contributes to most of these problems! The truth is if there's no masculine & feminine role like nature intended in a relationship its about to sink... You can be rich being a feminine black man in a relationship, but you can't be wealthy without doing dirt.

@bellaclyde Ай бұрын

@@Tmac_305 those thinking that family isn't important. The me me me me culture

@moneychaser2430 Ай бұрын

Black culture 😂

@rsturdy4045 Ай бұрын

Very educated brother 🎉 Dr Umar speak I listen

@Kattkiteyez Ай бұрын

I listen and learn. I love it!

@CryptoWolf1 Ай бұрын

So, he's personally relationship is what we blacks should follow?

@patriciabanks5596 Ай бұрын

He has a right to his own opinion. What he believes starts with him as number one.

@Maui_Gyrl_ Ай бұрын

Exactly. He has good information. Too many ppl are to judgemental and not open to the overall message.

@Kattkiteyez Ай бұрын

Facts and opinions are two different things.

@promayes8186 Ай бұрын

I'm glad someone is raising awareness to this foolishness and black and women really need each other and we gotta get the black family back strong. And he is right there are a lot of hurt damaged people and it's a lot of miserable people in their own pain that want others to be in pain

@coreythomas3633 Ай бұрын

Exactly

@Chitownbrotha30 Ай бұрын

I don't agree with a lot of what Dr. Umar does or says but most of the time he is on point....

@jermainewashington2224 Ай бұрын

Agreed 💯

@southernladybrown5092 Ай бұрын

We are human, but we should all strive to be a better person each day. We have breath in the body.❤❤❤

@RisingPurpose9941 Ай бұрын

& that’s ok. No need to agree with everything, we are all experiencing life from our own perceptions, therefore witnessing reality uniquely. ❤

@kay.x-kay.x Ай бұрын

You must be 1 of those "Bunny-Hoppers" or "Negropeans" he be referring to 👀 Bc he's actually on point majority of the time! 🤷🏽‍♀️🧠

@khalilali8860 Ай бұрын

It’s because you’re not on his level when it comes to knowledge.

@moety2 Ай бұрын

Some great points. What I think should be added is we live in a selfish materialistic culture. It’s all around us every day. How do you expect healthy relationships to form when the foundation of the culture is so dysfunctional and toxic? I think what is most being talked about here are symptoms of this. We talk about all the problems with the plants and not about the soil it all comes from which is toxic.

@tshepomotshepana7635 Ай бұрын

The internet is not a real place that is all I have to say

@ladymb4237 Ай бұрын

It is called Da Innanet 😂😂😂

@SphumZAR Ай бұрын

I’d say that maybe ten years ago but now, I can find at least 50 people around me only that live exactly the internet way, and that’s just me with 50 that I know, the same 50 knows someone else just like them

@_LaToya_ Ай бұрын

I thought decentering was taking a period of time to focus on the betterment of you. You should enter into a relationship as the best version of yourself. I do agree there’s a direct correlation of experience with parents and relationships!

@southernladybrown5092 Ай бұрын

Exactly prime example abuse much❤❤❤

@kreativeforce532 Ай бұрын

Nope that's not what it means at all. Normal people don't even use that terminology. When you hear it, RUN. It comes from the 🌈 brigade of the governement via psychology, academia and popular media.

@nunyabiznys5169 Ай бұрын

based on what I'm seeing, patriarchy does far more harm to male/female relationships than feminism Women trying to get men to fund their whole lives - do that from a patriarchal standpoint. Men who think they don't have to help in the household leading to resentment and disconnect - patriarchy. If more people thought fairly and outside of strict gender roles, there would be less conflict.

@candorsspot2775 Ай бұрын

Feminism is a scam run by radical females to make men into slaves. A woman wanting to be taken care of has nothing to do with patriarchy. Why wouldn't a woman want a man slaving away while she does whatever she feels like? Feminism was about women doing whatever they want and then shaming men into doing what they want men to do.

@tiffanysmith2407 Ай бұрын

You're making too much sense. This stellar comment will go over a lot of heads, but is all facts. 🙌🏾

@candorsspot2775 Ай бұрын

@@tiffanysmith2407 Feminism promotes female SELFISHNESS. That is all.

@salj.5459 Ай бұрын

Wrong, because the Black family was stronger BEFORE the feminist movement (even though there were issues). So your analysis doesn't hold up to historical facts.

@rosamaundallen1035 Ай бұрын

You are wrong. This was how civilization was built-on gender roles. When you know your position as a man or woman, families and societies operate better. If it wasn’t for patriarchy, we would not have the things we have in our society. Stop with the new age mess.

@ChildofGod98765 Ай бұрын

This is on point I ran into a channel. It was a black man and he was dogging out black woman. It was so sad.

@Peachcobler22 Ай бұрын

There are so many of them on KZfaq, it's exasperating at this point. Irony is I stopped using Twitter cause of all the toxicity, now it seems like the toxic goons have all found their way onto KZfaq. 😢

@Longlostpuss Ай бұрын

Alot of them do deserve dogging out though, seeing they are the very single mothers who are raising these men into what they've become. Nine times out of ten, it's the women that terminate the relationships and choose to be single mothers, let us not forget that.

@mufasa1794 Ай бұрын

Most of them are african and Caribbeans men tho. Also, our black American men. Im over bm but im not going white tho

@FREE_WILL_DEFENDER Ай бұрын

@@mufasa1794thank goodness

@bettiesanders9620 Ай бұрын

Black people were traumatized during and after slavery, institutional racism, discrimination in employment, education, housing, and every arena in life. Despite this American traumatization, we survived, thrived and built communities, institutions, and industry because of our melanin and DNA genius. How? Because we are the God's of earth but we forgot our spiritual mission and Godly inheritance.

@bellaclyde Ай бұрын

This movement started with feminism

@coreygreene9498 Ай бұрын

White feminism

@distantquasar5218 Ай бұрын

@coreygreene9498 But it's the BW who is finishing it.

@PiplupPlus Ай бұрын

@@distantquasar5218They're puppets, reality is that not everyone can change, let them suffer while we focus on the ones that want to progress this is for both black women and black men I love the black men and black women who at least try to progress.

@nonino1644 Ай бұрын

BM aided W feminism. Added them to the civil rights bill.

@candorsspot2775 Ай бұрын

@@nonino1644 That's a fact. Blk men got fooled and are still brainless today and I say that as a blk man. Blk culture is very feminine and while better in the past, I do have to wonder if it's always been that way. A culture where feelings matter more than physical reality and results.

@lynnmcmillian5137 Ай бұрын

A weak mind one can easily find! Cause if you don’t think for yourself, you will be led astray I came from a broken home but by the Grace of God I decided what I did not want for my life So forgiving and loving and caring and moving is the greatest thing one can do for self ❤

@kgotsofalangklaas560 Ай бұрын

this is deep

@niaprice3267 Ай бұрын

5:50 !! This!! They dont want to confront how the parenting style and culture left us in the shadows of healing and wisdom. A major spiritual component was missing despite us having the material needs met.

@DanButters1 Ай бұрын

I’ve been saying this before I knew who Dr. Umar was. We as a people really need to get it together within ourselves, families and communities. Social media also does not help there is too much idolatry of money things and relationships

@RisingPurpose9941 Ай бұрын

You can not outrun your past. The aim is to make peace with it to move forward and keep breaking the old narratives and cycles of what used to be.

@FijiMatic Ай бұрын

I agree

@GS-gd8tc Ай бұрын

This is so real!!!!! Even when you heal your past is still with you. But you have peace with it. Dealing with it makes all the difference.

@Jazzycoach24 Ай бұрын

Great points made by Dr. Umar especially regarding childhood trauma, upbringings and seeing toxic parental relationships that affect the type of relationships you attract as an adult.

@Actlikemjsmith Ай бұрын

He not married either or dating but giving all the advice 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@SphumZAR Ай бұрын

I’m genuinely asking, if two people, one married and one single are giving the exact same advice on marriage, who is correct there? Same exact advice from two different people.

@MotherEarth3121 Ай бұрын

Right. Don’t he have multiple kids with different women too? Lol

@mightydread3116 Ай бұрын

He is a qualified psychologist so he would have more insight than the average person ❤️✊🏿💚

@Adasdream 29 күн бұрын

Two things can still be true! What he saying is still the truth!

@rccurry7431 Ай бұрын

Dropping Knowledge from the universe 🌎 Feeding the Mind with the obvious And Common sense of Reality interesting Topics Thanks for sharing Dr Umar SALUTE 👍

@lynnmcmillian5137 Ай бұрын

When one chose to use hurt as and excuse to do foolishness is terrible

@fazziland3932 Ай бұрын

This ‼️

@kingdavid5525 Ай бұрын

It’s not that the past is with you it’s the memories that you decide to hold on to or not

@arlenemuhammad9853 Ай бұрын

There are a lot of narratives whether legitimate or not that are being used to keep us apart. Sometimes legitimate issues are inflated to keep us at odds with each other. We need to settle our differences with each other without the interference of outsiders.

@SphumZAR Ай бұрын

You’re right, although I don’t see us ever getting back in a good place collectively because the outsider doesn’t need both men and women to further their agenda, they just need either the men or the women, as long as one group is dysfunctional and you are able to give them the victim status then you will further the agenda of keeping them apart forever. Sadly this happens because there are stages to this think of keeping us apart, one stage needs one group at a time, women for stage one, men for stage two etc. So in all those stages we are dealing with legitimate issues most times but we aren’t actually solving anything.

@TruthfromRicky Ай бұрын

Lmfao “these are heterosexual women?” Lmfao ahahahaha Umar is a goat 🐐

@AaronBrown2015 Ай бұрын

This one of the most powerful videos I’ve seen in a long time.. what a great video. This needs to be spread and sparking conversation all over America right now. Especially for OUR COMMUNITY, but everywhere in America.

@Jazzycoach24 Ай бұрын

“Your past is always present, in your current experience” well said Dr. Umar 💯👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@devindasilva2258 Ай бұрын

Honestly this is the best Umar interview I've heard very well spoken and he touched on good points

@FuzzCuzz-f9c Ай бұрын

Was he asked about the school he has been building for over 10 years with poor black folks donations?

@mzwetlovequeen Ай бұрын

@@FuzzCuzz-f9c isn't the school already built?

@Jophlo78 Ай бұрын

@@mzwetlovequeenNo, the school doesn't even exist.

@filtrotp40 Ай бұрын

Good is a relative term. Our community used to have a definition of a good man and woman. Now, the definitions come from outside the community.

@iDesignFLi Ай бұрын

As a married man and psychology major, I’ve found that People with trauma also date those who validate their initial perspectives of the opposite sex… and some date those who validate their perspectives of themselves. If they feel like a failure or unworthy of love they will find a mate that confirms those thoughts. Some also punish themselves through the people they date

@LBNoah316 Ай бұрын

Parents have a huge impact on their Children's lives. Especially Father's they have a huge impact on their daughter's lives. For their to be any kind of unity or harmony within a group of people. The group must first look inward at themselves. Holding themselves accountable for their actions.

@dmoe4sho Ай бұрын

He said everyone is traumatized but then said traumatized people can’t have relationships because when others try to love them, they have things in their head. In that case wouldn’t the person trying to love them also be dealing with trauma as well? Therefore no one should be in a relationship. Makes no sense at all. Everyone looking for a quick fix. Lifestyle changes can’t be found in one off answers. It take consistent effort both parties and we have forgotten that part.

@Jazzycoach24 Ай бұрын

Wow, I agree and can relate. PTSD is so real and definitely needs to be discussed more in these conversations about trauma and relationships.

@brandonbeach8943 Ай бұрын

There are so many ways to address all of the issues that were brought up. I have the simple answer to all of it. EVERYTHING LEADS BACK TO GOD!! We serve a God that is not of confusion. If people in general focus and committ to God the negative in the world will see a huge decrease.

@dinasalih4373 Ай бұрын

yeah that must be why black ppl are so oppressed and disenfranchised, they just don't have enough faith in God...

@essencetoney933 Ай бұрын

I don't care what my black men do, I'm riding with y'all and for y'all

@Jesus_Gang_Stepper Ай бұрын

I love you sister

@Jazzycoach24 Ай бұрын

“Tell me about the relationship with your father, then BOOM, everything comes out” there it is. 💯

@Bro96101 Ай бұрын

“ PAST IS ALWAYS PRESENT “!

@MrCharizmatiik Ай бұрын

Yep. It has been a set up. I been saying it for a good while now.

@sergeN22 29 күн бұрын

man it s good to hear you

@mpalmer7800 Ай бұрын

I’m never going to get hitched to my masters son !!!

@jaredmackey4511 Ай бұрын

You have a master?

@nux2k Ай бұрын

@@jaredmackey4511🤡

@mpalmer7800 Ай бұрын

@@jaredmackey4511 Your forefather’s children have taken over from them

@JuanMateoUno Ай бұрын

My sister 👍👍

@alexanderjackson8389 Ай бұрын

You have power. You don't have a master... (Unless you're referring to a religious figure)

@jaygravy1681 Ай бұрын

I dont live my Life to other people expectations... Live your life on your terms and I will live mine on my terms.

@firesign4297 Ай бұрын

"Even When You HEAL...Your... PAST Is WITH...You " 🔥🔥🔥💣🎤

@rolandmarkland6844 Ай бұрын

Has Umar gotten married yet?

@sheemuniversalshabazzallah9422 Ай бұрын

Yes Umar is Married

@DC-yn8yl Ай бұрын

@@sheemuniversalshabazzallah9422 he is not married but has 2 baby mommas, don't lie lol

@dn30001 Ай бұрын

@DC-yn8yl why people like to lie? 😂

@grimwill7380 Ай бұрын

He himself should never speak on marriage. Umar

@DC-yn8yl Ай бұрын

He panders to women, doesnt hold them accountable for their bad decisions. He also wants single men to be stepfathers to single mothers. He isn't qualified to give advice on this topic.

@leticiawescott8868 Ай бұрын

The elephant in the room has finally been addressed. I'm glad that Dr. Umar was the one to address it. Well said.

@deionjones24 Ай бұрын

Your past is always present in your current experience!

@elliegoulding744 Ай бұрын

I work at this venue where they throw parties all the time and have weddings there as well, and let me tell you something: women from every other race are choosing the bear on the internet but are not walking like they talk in real life. Black people really have to open their eyes. I say this because this gender war is mostly affecting black people because people from every other race are putting their differences aside and getting married at the end of the day.

@SphumZAR Ай бұрын

Somehow that doesn’t surprise me. I’m from South Africa and we also have a gender war here but that gender war it’s only affecting the blacks. Every other race remembers their positions and play those positions very well, and then go to the internet to spread the hate they don’t even subscribe to.

@alkebulanlion6198 Ай бұрын

Africa it’s pure unity

@user-ze6rq7zu9t Ай бұрын

THE BUSINESS = case in point!

@pan-africanisms Ай бұрын

Thank you for all the Support Brothers and Sistas. Peace and Pan-Africanism!

@gratefulone8131 Ай бұрын

I agree with the Dr 100%

@illmeeillmee9373 Ай бұрын

Hard to find doesnt mean impossible. You will have to be single longer to ensure quality but it’s possible

@briangc1972 25 күн бұрын

He nailed @1:49. No ifs, ands, or buts, about it. AND that truth applies to ALL colors and races and nationalities!!!

@lisabrightly Ай бұрын

Brilliant! I love this conversation.

@peacehappyb237 Ай бұрын

Women are looking for a Gentlemen.

@mhairsto24 Ай бұрын

I'm walking back home from the Dollar Tree with a brown bag in hand, Dr. Umar got me pumping my fist like Malcolm X is speaking. There are a lot of people out here who hate black men or black women, but yet still think they know what is best for us. If you had 100 terrible experiences with black people, then get help, do not hold in that pain. Black people may disappoint you, but we don't have the ability to hurt you like someone from the dominant society and then get away with it. The vast majority of black people issues come from oppression and the frustration of not being free for the last 500 years, that pain comes out in many different ways. We need reparations to heal our trauma and about 10 years away from white supremacy in order to free our minds and learn to enjoy life.

@winningvictory Ай бұрын

This I Never Knew discussion/topic/platform is informational gold! The Bald Head and Dr. Umar hit it out of the park with this video! The Truth Is A Dagger To The Heart Of A Liar!

@firelanefaulty4877 Ай бұрын

Umar just did breakfast club ..go check it out ..💯💯

@Maui_Gyrl_ Ай бұрын

I had no idea! I will.❤️🙏🏽

@amac9443 Ай бұрын

"They don't have the self esteem to approach the right people." This is the truest statement ever! These people are always spending so much attention talking abut people they don't like. I always wondered why they just don't find someone who has the traits they want instead of being angry all the time. It's because they're scared to go for them and can't admit that. Wow. Some people just don't want to be happy in this life.

@vsupreme9386 Ай бұрын

100%. Why are unmarried people talking to other people about relationships? That's like a person who doesn't own a business telling others how to run a successful business.

@beautifull2798 Ай бұрын

🔥 as you self reflect, you'll understand and inner stand, that he's right. Family be good to one another. Everyone is dealing with life. Living it through their own perspective. Spread love and receive it. 💚

@MarcKlark Ай бұрын

Address the accusations with regard to FDMG Academy. I'm interested in hearing both sides ⚖️

@distantquasar5218 Ай бұрын

Dr Umar is a single BM for a reason even though he has all the answers.

@nataliej261 Ай бұрын

Yea because he's misogynistic, narcissistic and hypocritical.

@jman1562001 Ай бұрын

Would he have time to travel and give speeches if he had a wife at home to tend to. Got to keep the hustle going before the well dries up.

@sevenwhatuknow Ай бұрын

@@jman1562001That's the sorriest excuse I've heard for him

@moneychaser2430 Ай бұрын

Doesn't he have 2 baby mamas that are s3x workers?

@distantquasar5218 Ай бұрын

@jman1562001 Others do it. Look at all the Pro athletes and celebrities that are married and do a lot of traveling. That's not an excuse.

@adeezy617newonenation Ай бұрын

Full black man stay by yourself best option ‼️‼️‼️‼️ until further notice

@cjjubilee9302 Ай бұрын

I love his truth bombs! His positive messaging is calling out a lot of content creators who refer to women as having a box, or those who use outrageous clickbait to “secure the bag,” at the expense of a generation of hurting black men and women. Thank you Dr Umar!

@Changamira Ай бұрын

We need to see Joshua Maponga, Obenfo Obadele Kambon & Dr Umar Ifatunde and Dr Claud Anderson link up right here

@rpcrealpeopleconsulting6324 Ай бұрын

What happened to men approaching women in public? And not on social media..

@SphumZAR Ай бұрын

They stopped due to the negative outcome they get which negatively changes their perspective on life. If there wasn’t a risk of being referred to as a creep, pedo, rapist, etc just because the woman thinks she above God then men would still be approaching women in physical form.

@sylviabrown5263 Ай бұрын

I’m one of those ‘elders living alone’ I’m open to a relationship commitment with togetherness.

@consciousenergy713 Ай бұрын

Could you respectfully ask brother Umar Johnson what's the opening day of this school it's been 15 years

@waltporter7707 Ай бұрын

Why are you worried about it? Did you donate ?

@candorsspot2775 Ай бұрын

@@waltporter7707 I think he's worried that blk boys aren't getting educated despite Umar collecting millions of dollars from blk people.

@sevenwhatuknow Ай бұрын

@@waltporter7707you dont need to contribute to hold someone accountable for what they say and proclaim to be doing. If you don't criticize the people you like, you'll fall for anything they say

@Maui_Gyrl_ Ай бұрын

If black ppl donated like Dr Dre donated MILLIONS to a white school, then it would be built by now. We don't support each other that's the problem and why we don't have our own schools, resources, stores ...nothing! Stop laughing at each other and start helping/supporting one another!!🤦🏽‍♀️ Y'all laugh at everything instead of helping. I pray one day we stop tearing each other down.

@candorsspot2775 Ай бұрын

@@Maui_Gyrl_ Umar collected millions and there's still no school. Why is that?

@SNoB_AriS1 Ай бұрын

Dr Umar Johnson is an Angel sent from heaven to Earth 🌎 to teach us truth

@darleenmcclung9615 Ай бұрын

There are good people who desire and believe in healthy relationships. Both could be waiting and healing. I’m all about healthy and loving relationships. Both parties will have to be on the same page of core values and principles and willingness to work together. ☮️

@oodlesnnoodles8670 Ай бұрын

Ite now , Where tf is the school!!!!!

@Jophlo78 Ай бұрын

It's non-existent.

@maverick1991able 10 күн бұрын

I just think people don't know they can win. It's not malicious they just don't know.

@KC-cx6nn Ай бұрын

That was a great exchange 🎉

@jasminegiles3929 Ай бұрын

Why does it have to cause conflict for a woman to focus in being her best self outside of the standards of men?

@VictorShongwe-eh3sc 22 күн бұрын

Yo past is always PRESENT......

@DawintaBrown Ай бұрын

Yes my parents did it! And made it

@lotsoflee Ай бұрын

The sound balance is off

@Risha-Rene Ай бұрын

Unhealthy relationships with your parents & that trauma also causes people to be promiscuous, self-destructing & will also affect sexual orientation. These boys without a father grow up & the love they didn’t get from their father, they go out & seek it from another man

@Risha-Rene Ай бұрын

@MoneyRell100M BOTH genders. This applies to men & women. Are you saying bc that’s all YOU see that it’s more lesbians than gay men? If so, that’s a mute & irrelevant point & doesn’t make my comment less true. Most men are not open & honest with their sexuality so you won’t see it. But again, off topic

@Risha-Rene Ай бұрын

@MoneyRell100M it’s irrelevant to my comment & off topic. What exactly is your opinion? That more women are gay than men?

@Risha-Rene Ай бұрын

@MoneyRell100M ok

@SphumZAR Ай бұрын

@@Risha-ReneGenuinely asking, if you don’t have the necessary credentials to tell that someone is gay, and that same person has never came out about their sexuality, how is it you’d know that they aren’t open about their sexuality in the first place?

@Risha-Rene Ай бұрын

@@SphumZAR that would be a question if I was actually accusing someone of being gay

@sekkhiaakare7701 Ай бұрын

Excellent!!!

@marlofenderson3347 Ай бұрын

Thank you

@karlandbarrett5045 Ай бұрын

13:40 thank you

@imaz2616 Ай бұрын

Dude not even married to his baby mamas. And wifing up new baby mamas don't count. Gotta practice what we preach and not be on child support due to a sista lol