You too. Hope whatever you are doing works for. 👍

@@Tabetha. Thanks! To you as well!

Thank you much and you have a Great day as well. I'm not flirting but I love a bald headed man! To me a bald headed man is Gorgeous.....

@@patseyjohnson470 Thanks and you as well! Yeah I look better bald than with hair. Easy maintenance. Still like looking at hair videos. Seen the videos where men getting hair pieces. Looks nice and natural. But I like my bald head. Nice and simple is better for me.

@@justinjustin4112, yes sir!!

Please make sure you take her to a Black hairstylist; that's so important on every level

@@ccpitts770 she is and saved several inches🥰

I would like to know. I’m in a position right now where I haven’t touched my hair in 2 months. No combing, no covering it up at night, nothing. I have dreads right now, fluff in every section of hair, it’s a literal nightmare. For the past 2 days I have been trying to go through it, picking at it with the end of a rat tail comb and I’m exhausted.

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I know women with 4c hair who just resort to keeping it very low so they don’t have to deal with it. It’s an everyday thing and can’t just let it go. I have maybe 3a or b hair. I roll it on rods every night and I use black castor oil. I do not let it get dry. It’s continually growing and I’m 70 years old. Have to give it tender loving care. It’s always beautiful.

@@youaintmymommaonperiodt8007medium twist help my hair. Im like you where i haven't really touched my hair--new mom and i barely have time to shower. But before baby, i did medium twist kept it in just long enough got it nit to dread then rock the twist out out then a afro them repeat. I was able to get my hair to almost waist length hear which is where im at now but i font have time even to throw those in now,

4c hair is absolutely beautiful but it is stressful. It’s like saying children are precious and a blessing which they are but denying the tiring process it takes to raise them correctly. Our hair takes a process. I’ve wasted tons of money finding the right products for my hair and still haven’t mastered it yet I basically settled with what I have because I can’t keep running to the beauty supply trying every option. But even then I did all of that just for none of the products I have bought to work on my daughter’s hair who also has 4c hair. Guess what? Loss of money =stress. I have went to professionals and the best they can do is keep my ends cut/trimmed but their products suck too that’s also depressing. The slightest moisture in the air can make our silk press go poof and if you don’t handle your Afro or natural styles daily, it can become easily matted so that’s also stress. Thick 4c hair can feel like a nightmare on wash day. Fight through every kink to the root making sure every nap is combed out is stressful and time consuming. I’ve given up on weaves because my scalp itches like crazy but remaining free too long leads to breakage even when I condition moisturize and oil regularly, can’t use too much heat. I love it I’ll always choose to stay natural even with the struggles because God didn’t make a mistake and I have to show with actions that I love me and my hair so my daughters will do the same and not feel like they have to hide behind wigs and constant heat. So while the battle is worth it because 4c hair is great I understand why many women want to cut their hair. It’s not fair to deny the reality that we have to deal with regarding our texture of hair.

Also check out the women of the Chebe & Mbalantu women's technique.

No one cares

@@evilnerd2753 I care lmfao I think it's a sweet story.

@@evilnerd2753LMAOO

@@evilnerd2753 I care. :)

I'd rather have Japanese or Chinese hair, straight and shiny and no work. That's the best texture out there!

I agree with it being the best hair texture. I wish i had 4c hair

Curly hair or coil hair are wild and woolly jokers to handle.. No matter the so called race ☺️☺️ we can learn allot from each other🐿️😊

Girl that fur on your head go have 7 seats please and that's a fact

I'm white too with very thick, wavy hair, I have enough issue with it when it's humid and/or I break a sweat. I scrunch debit and it looks good, then I break a sweat and it turns into sheep's wool. I'm so impressed with what you go through on this type of hair. If it were me, I'd do the beautiful short fro and be done. Lol

@@samikibooker486 - what does this even mean?

Thick and kinky hair over thin,straight and flat hair anyday. Cut VS tangled hair. Comb and detangle daily.

As a black american person of color mixed with 33% European 2% South Asian and 4% Egyptian/Moroccan/Tunisian Arab I've never seen hair like this. I naturally have 2B at the most 2C hair after its soaken wet and dried. The front part of my hair naturally dries bone straight like white or hispanic people's hair the middle front is wavy and the thickest is in the middle at the back where its the waviest is not dense or coarse. I've always said black women should wear their own hair their natural beauty is the most beautiful. But I didn't know some of their hair was this much of a problem. Because black american women have always either straightened their hair with perms hair dryers or curling irons or since mid late 2000s worn wigs or weaves

I see now why black people make such a big deal about hair texture and why they rather just throw a wig on or permanently damage their scalp sowing weaves in. And where the word "good" hair is coming from. It looks like this type of hair would be a pain in the ass to deal with. We can see you cant even wash or comb your hair without a huge headache. I see why some probably wouldn't want to deal with it at all to where hygiene is bad when it comes to not washing or combing for months and years. I just get up and easily comb my straight wavy hair everyday. Never thought their were people out there who can't do that even if they tried. I also now see why I get so many stares from everybody not just black people. And why some insecure people with this type of hair would be jealous of some others with hair that's the complete opposite. And treat them differently.

My mother who has a half white half black grandmother and black asian mixed grandfather used to get so picked on when she was younger that she ended cutting her own long naturally straight hair off.. that went down to her butt.. because darker skin kids would bully her so much about it. When I see people like this with this type of 4C hair I see why insecure ones would target her like they did

I have 4 c hair and I’ve learnt how to simplify my hair routine and fall inlove with my hair. Also my hair is the thickest and longest it has ever been now.I stopped feeling overwhelmed and thinking my hair was difficult cause it REALLY ISNT (I PROMISE) If you need help I am totally open to sharing that with you or just chatting and venting about our hair type 😂

@@elo0o207yes to prevent breakage it it recommended not to manipulate the hair very much. That’s why many put it in braids and throw a wig on top of the braids.

YT recommended it because you watch content like this. Y’all stay in our business

YT has me watching Korean leather work, French shoe repairs, Greenlad "day in te life", German pastries.... All I know is that I have gotten a world of knowledge. Her skills with hair, kindness, and compassion make this world a better place.

​@@FitzySouch 😂

@@FitzySyou need to grow up

YT recommends random things. You nailed it tho on the artist and her art. It is beautiful and miraculous method to watch

Yes same I was like dang she talking about me

I hope she has since enough to take care if her hair this time wtf is wrong with people just letting there hair get like that

I was wondering, which style is the best for 4c hair? I didnt expect that she would use it straight 😓

@@sharellecountz8501 Sometimes it happens when people are depressed/going through hard times. The last thing you are thinking about is your hair. You are just trying to survive.

That's my hair all day. I gave up and just loc'd it up a year ago.

“Ordinary” Bias is wild

I have straight, light brown hair, was blonde as a kid. In university I had a roommate with similar hair to this woman, but not as dense. She had braids in her hair, and had left them too long, so there was a protein buildup. It took us an entire weekend to un-do her hair, one braid at a time. After that, she would go through a process similar to this every other weekend, with the curling iron so hot it smoked. I have never been more grateful for my boring hair. Before that I hated that I couldn’t curl it, even tried to perm it, which didn’t hold at all. After that, I appreciated what I had. I’m now going grey, and it’s got some wave in it. I can’t say I’m complaining… 😂

@@sabrlyon5220It’s ordinary for an old Anglo woman!

@@sabrlyon5220 by ordinary I can assure you she means plain or even boring! My hair is fine, straight, thinning and greying. It just hangs there! No style lasts. I have to wash it daily if I don't want it to look greasy. I love curly hair. ❤

Ditto, I would love tohave my thick hair back. Watched this video in envy. As i age the hair on top of my head is thinning.

I KNOW WHAT YOU MEAN. I ALWAYS HAD THICK LONG HAIR. MY HAIR STARTED THINNING AROUND MY EARLY 40'S. NOT TO ILLNESS, BUT HEREDITARY. ( BOTH SIDES OF MY FAMILY). I'M NOW AT THE PLACE WHERE I DON'T KNOW WHAT 2 DO WITH IT! I WEAR IT NATURAL. ( WHICH I NO LONGER LIKE). MY TEXTURE HAD CHANGED DRASTICALLY 4 THE WORSE! WIGS HURT. ( MY HEAD MUST BE 2 LARGE). I DON'T WANT A WEAVE, BUT I'M LEANING 2WARDS ONE. I SURE WISH I LIVED NEAR THIS " MAGICIAN"! YOUNG QUEEN YOU ARE AWESOME! MY LOVELY BEAUTICIAN LEFT MY STATE. 😥😪 BUT. I'M HAPPY 4 HER.

Amen

I always say: "Bad with them, worse without them."

I have always had very thin straight her that started falling out starting at 18yo. So I love to see such strong thick hair, looks so rich…!

I was thinking the same. If I have one knot in my hair that catches on a comb, I’m surprised. I can’t imagine how much work this is!

А самой помыть голову и расчесать волосы было облом сделать? Довести до такого состояния это какой же лентяйкой надо быть!!

Она стала королевой!

@@innamedvetskaya8398 You don't know this woman's situation. She could have been in the hospital sick, had an injury that prevented her from doing her hair. Or she could have been depressed. Who are you to judge?

Oh’STIOP! 🙄 There was absolutely NOTHING identifying within her body language at the beginning of this video that suggested she was “Defeated.” Some of you can be so freaking dramatic sometimes. It’s like you live TO TRY to find something that’s not even there!! 🤨

​@@antoinettenyuurnibe3302 Nah.. She just didn't want to deal with that mess on Her head. Crazy... Some of these people want to make their 4C hair someone else's problem.

Buzz it off.

@@jaedavis937 didn't you watch The Color Purple! ?

@@perraru yes I did

I’m tender headed and I went through this 😂 I’m shocked I survived, never again

She has a technique in everything she does. Carla is a professional.

Me too! Thin fine hair but I had to watch this transformation.... just beautiful!

Everything you said!!! It turned out so gorgeous!

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that's me as well! 70 y.o. old white woman with thin, straight hair! 😟🙁 just loving these videos. Thank you

That is a good scalp message stimulation of the scalp

Well said! ❤️

@@leahmason824 thank you! 😊

I echo "well said"

@@debraspeight2720 thank you so very much! 😊

Blessings!!! I know the feeling of being judged. Hair yanked at consultation. In the chair secretly crying.

Well my hair halved in amount at 18.

I also lost most of my hair after menopause. I now have to wear wigs which are hot . I'd give anything to have my hair back.

I lost a lot of hair after birth control at 23… and more at 30 after long term stress… and more after my pregnancy… I am afraid I won’t make it to menopause with much of my former crown.

Jesus loves and adores you🤍 He wants to walk with you in this journey of life and uplift you. Accept Him today and live a life of peace

Love you!! ❤🩷🧡💛💚💙🩵💜

I've been in a similar situation for the past 18 months and have resorted to keeping my hair braided most of the time and cutting it myself with kitchen scissors when I can't bear the length any longer, since I can't really leave the house for a haircut. Just washing it takes more effort and energy than I currently have while recovering. I can't imagine dealing with 4c hair while going through this nightmare, so I feel for you!

I'm really sorry you are suffering from so much and I hope you a speedy recovery. I suffer from chronic back pain, but I'm sure it nothing as close to what you have been dealing with. I hope that maybe I can help.... My daughter by no means has 4c hair. She does have eurocentric texture with more afrocentric curl. If her hair isn't in a bonnet or braided at night. She wakes up a hot mess. Matting over night. I've noticed that braids have massively helped with that. I frequently lose things I struggle with finding her bonnet. I also just recently ordered her a couple zip up silk pillowcases off if Amazon. I'm sure you may have heard this before, if you haven't now now you have (?). 4c hair is absolutely beautiful& I'm sure it's a lot of work. I hope you're able to find some low maintenance options that help you in your hair care& growth. I really hope you the best of luck& healing.

Same.

Same here! Amazing

Same!

Yeah, mine is board straight and these videos are amazing.

I have the Hair From Hell! I have wavy hair, and in humid days , it is absolutely tragic, you can’t comprehend how hair can do what mine does 😫🤣 I probably could put so much more work into doing my hair, but the professional touch is the only thing that helps👍🏻

So, true.

I agree; she should appreciate and take the lessons learned and train her thick and beautiful hair. And please lady, don’t cut it. Just get your trims at the schedules times.

@@patriciabrooks303 well don’t cut it out off not bringing herself into the knowledge of how to care for it. If she decides to cut it one day, hopefully it’s because she wants to for a style. I don’t mean any harm, but at this age she still doesn’t know how to comb her own hair? I can understand if she’s a spring chicken but she’s a well seasoned hen. Maybe there are some underlying issues we aren’t privy to. I understand things happen.

@@TheePrettyGirlSwagI know Crystal recommended some products from her product-line she can use to care for her hair. Hopefully, she paid attention and can maintain her hair at home or find a good stylist. At her age, all she have to do is simply comb and brush her hair daily, and shampoo and condition on a weekly basis. Her hair would even look good in a twist-out style.

​@@TheePrettyGirlSwag everyone should learn how to care for their hair. Some people just don't. It could be from laziness, depression or just life itself. Maybe she will go to the shop more often now.

Thx u for taking the time to learn

@VeeBee81 MEEE TOOO !

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I have a daughter in law with extremely thick curly hair The issue is she was adored and raised by a white family and now is with a white family and we have no idea how to maintain and treat her hair

Thank you and yes all of what you said is very true

I understand the depression all too well. I hope you’re feeling better. I I also suffer with major depression and prior to Covid was gojng through very hard times. Depression kept worsening and I stopped caring for myself, and had no idea my straight fine hair could matt so horribly when I’d given up and wasn’t washing it at all for months! I’ve been so ashamed of myself and I feel so embarrassed and worthless because it DID HAPPEN TO ME! I’ve still got this enormous hunk of hair on the very top of my head nearly matted completely to my scalp. I’ve been tryjng to get it loosened for almost 2 FULL WEEKS now!! I’ve tried everything I’ve read and so many products and it will not budge! I won’t let anyone see me and I’ve not been able to leave the house. it’s that BAD! Not even a cap or hoodie or anything will disguise it now if I could find someone to help me! I’m so desperate right now and it’s nobody’s fault but mine. I hate myself for allowing this to happen. I’ve only told a couple people who don’t understand depression at all. One said I was so lazy I deserved it. Omg I’ve been so upset 😭 and don’t know what else to do. This is the most awful thing I’ve ever done to myself and I’m not young. This is destroying me. I wish the very best for you! ❤

@@Symnsn Oh, darling! First off, here's a hug from a fellow human who cares about you. 🫂 Secondly, it's OK and it's SUPER SUPER common. Your age doesn't matter! I'm a mother of three with a teenager! We're going to remain human beings until we leave the planet, so there's no point in expecting yourself to stop having human weaknesses and tendencies! Try going to a hairdresser and asking for help. If your budget won't allow it, look for a beauty school in your area, and speak with the trainers there. Maybe it could be a special project for one of their students. She could list it on her resume. You may inspire someone there to specialize in these cases (there are MANY) or to volunteer time. YWin, win. Be gentle with yourself. Would you ever be so hard on someone else who's going through a tough time? You deserve a loving parent, and you can be that parent to yourself. Say it in the mirror. "Nancy, honey, I'm so sorry you're sad. But, you're not alone. I love you, and I'll take care of you."

@@Symnsn I can relate. Continued BLESSINGS to you.

@@Symnsn hey i just thought i'd say that you're not the only one going through this. its not your fault. you're not lazy, and you shouldn't hate yourself for letting this happen to you. at the end of the day, life can take over at times, we just have to push through as best as we can even if that means neglecting ourselves along the way. keep pushing, hope all gets sorted out :)

I would like some of those looks, too!

Wow!! What a GREAT JOB!! YOU DID THAT SISTAH 😆 LOL

What is European American? An European who moved to the States, or an American who moved to Europe?🙈

Beautiful,beautiful u know ur work u r a peofession from the old school not say u're old. because ure not.The 4:45

I also have thin, very fine hair. I l've realised we often want the opposite of what we have. I would love thick curly hair.

​@@mariskaajoy3899Shut up

I’m filled with admiration for your skills in dealing with this 4c hair if your client. I’m Caucasian with the after effects of chemo. It changed from coarse to very fine. I lived my coarse hair. It took very little care except and excellent cut and using shampoo and conditioner Now I use Olaplex products and hair oil and a mask plus Vit B complex to maintain the hair I have left.

I know some remedies for arthritis, I had it and I got cured. If interested just let me know

@D Valerio I would love to know. Please do share.

I wish you were here in North Carolina I look at you all the time

O cabelo da criente realmente estava danificado mas com uma boa hidratação amaciar para fazer cachinhos maninha TUDO querem mudar a essencia das pessoas ficam escravizadas destes alisamento chapinha pelo amor de Deus cuida do que é natural cremes bons tem para isso chega de chapinha o negócio forçado a beleza natural e muito melhor doque essa beleza feito por chapinha nossa queima demais o cabelo da criente tem se cuidar naturalmente é ISSO

Try locs? Honestly sister locks or small style normal locs is a god send for 4c hair. It’ll still require work, but there’s a plethora of information on how to take care of it. The main takeaways are moisture, oils and ACV rinse to wash away build up.

Absolutely, sis! So many of us w/this beautiful dense hair, but little time to manage it…thank the lord for beauticians who care and love their gift!

This is absolutely Gorgeous,I would love for her to do my hair👍How do I contact her?

It's truly an artform!

As a middle aged white woman I’m in complete agreement! Love these videos!

I'm a black woman with an adopted white child (girl) and I love to watch videos of white women drying (usually blonde), getting hair extensions and issues with getting body and maintaining styles!! It's fascinating to see their battles too. Girls we all suffer for beauty. 😆 🤣 😂 😹

@@sandrajohnson7774 Amen!

I agree! Especially braiding hair. I have no idea how they do it but it's amazing! I also love the thick curly big hair! It's my absolute favorite and I'm jealous of anyone with that hair 🤣

Which conditioner do you use

@@amberb4984 I use heavy conditioners like Thank God It's Natural (TGIN) Raw Black Honey.

Oh man, I can relate. A job like that can feel like such a challenge and you are down on your energy right now. But, it looks like it can be done. I myself wish we did not have to care about these strings coming out of our heads!!!😅 I care about you and how you are feeling and so do others. ❤

I agree. You can tell the intensity of my depression by my hair. I love being natural but with a mood disorder, it may be easier to get back to a relaxer for when I can’t bare to do it and then avoid it

@@Editzz45706 yes, maybe allow yourself to do that. We need to make hair easier!

Just think how beautiful you will feel and how better you will look after you get it done. Go for it! You deserve to treat you!

Yes, i feel the same way ❤.

Don't teach like they use too

Most of these ppl that do hair now aren’t even classified as *_hairdressers_* they really just *_stylists_* bc most of them won’t even shampoo and condition your hair b4 styling. Smh…

Yes indeed. The care she puts in when doing their hair.

As my Grandma would say "You sho nuff is a damn good Hair Dresser"!

Thanks for that tip! Yes it gets worse when the water 💦 hits it..

Absolutely gorgeous! I wear braids a lot because it keeps the hair out of my face. That however allows for dreads to develop and they do quickly in my hair. I'm caucasian with Spanish, Swedish & Native American heritage. My hair is crazy enough I've shaved myself bald multiple times so I don't have to deal with it. Watching your videos gives me hope for a self care approach and not always having to rely on a salon. Your work is amazing!! Keep up the good work lady! Bless up.