I won't be like you [abusive/negligent/manipulative parents]

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6 жыл бұрын

"Are the pieces of you, in the pieces of me?"
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This is something hitting very close to home with me. I'm not going to expose my issues, but it's taken me a very long time to realise that I am not my parents, and to anyone who's dealing with any of these issues, you are not yours.
No matter how out of control you feel, and how messed up your life seems, you always have the opportunity to make a better one for your children, should you decide to have them. And remember, you're not your parents, but neither are the people who you don't want to let in. Don't let an awful past stop you from having an amazing, vibrant happy future.
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Fandoms: Marvel's Runaways;Teen Wolf;Girl in Progress;Girl Meets World;One Tree Hill;Fear The Walking Dead;Arrow;Riverdale;Just Go With It;The Good Doctor;Scorpion;Supernatural;ShamelessUSA
Characters: Chase Stein;Isaac Lahey;Ansiedad;Maya Hart;Lucas Scott;Nick Clark;Alicia Clark;Felicity Smoak;Cheryl Blossom;Maggie;Michael;Shaun Murphy;Paige Dineen;Dean Winchester;Fiona Gallagher
Song: DNA -pitched
Artist: Lia Marie J.ohnson
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Thank you for watching!

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@elysianchaosproductions 5 жыл бұрын

Hi guys. I am blown away by the popularity of this video and the support it's receiving. This was such a difficult topic for me to deal with. Here's the thing though; as it has blown up so suddenly, I'm receiving dozens of notifications not only for comments of support, but also people asking for the TV shows and movies and songs featured, and as much as I love to introduce people to new fandoms, every fandom, TV show, and movie are all listed in the description, just as they are in every single one of my videos. So please, before commenting to ask what movie or show is at a specific timestamp, please just have a look in the description box. I promise that everything you're looking for is there! Thanks, Kirstyn.

@self-loathing5691 5 жыл бұрын

Nice username lol💓

@geraldinegerard9543 5 жыл бұрын

I like the video but you should have also included fresh Prince of Bel air and the original when Klaus spoke to his mother

@aarthishameer285 3 жыл бұрын

It was a grt video..btw wats the name of the show at 1.25..pls could u tell the name

@aarthishameer285 3 жыл бұрын

Also the name of the show at 0.26...plss

@thesecretlifeofbuns4336 2 жыл бұрын

I can’t believe he hurt the bunny

@braelynherbert1495 4 жыл бұрын

parents don't know how much of what they do actually effects their children

@slope.2469 4 жыл бұрын

yeah they do. they just don’t care

@PhoenixRising87 4 жыл бұрын

And then they get butthurt when their kids get older and imply or outright state how far from perfect they really are.

@aanyaprasad6120 4 жыл бұрын

Lol my parents are one of the reasons i don't want kids.

@kaliljackson7364 4 жыл бұрын

@@aanyaprasad6120 why what did they do

@ellagrossett9735 4 жыл бұрын

slope. Exactly

@amara177 6 жыл бұрын

I'm addicted to sad multi fandoms help me lol

@therealhood1 6 жыл бұрын

_amarasalarixx _ I hope, that you don't forget to mix it up with some fun/ interesting content 😉 Otherwise you can easily lose yourself in the sad content

@amara177 6 жыл бұрын

therealhood1 I think I have xx

@emilycortese6566 5 жыл бұрын

Same tho

@vanishingemotions2532 5 жыл бұрын

Omg same like honestly I’m hardcore addicted to them

@soph0612 4 жыл бұрын

OMG ME TOO

@isisspanler4742 4 жыл бұрын

“Well that was your fault.” That sentence hit me so hard. Apparently everything is my fault.

@jamiethomas3768 4 жыл бұрын

Isis spanler no it’s not

@Jadei74 4 жыл бұрын

Same

@ferrum6979 4 жыл бұрын

im sure it's not don't believe it

@jadewu111 4 жыл бұрын

Yes but also no it was never my fault I never asked to be tormented like this by people especially my so call “family” and more especially my “mother” 😔

@NotTheGodOfWar 4 жыл бұрын

Love, nothing is your fault. ❤️

@Reinbow-rh6hn 6 жыл бұрын

When You Realize That Literally All Your Fandoms Have At Least One TERRIBLE Parent…

@onlineextrovert5842 4 жыл бұрын

stranger things?

@Elizabeth-tv5ir 4 жыл бұрын

so fetch xo will’s dad

@Elizabeth-tv5ir 4 жыл бұрын

Bro the IT fandom legit all the parent are terrible

@badassvamplover 4 жыл бұрын

@@Elizabeth-tv5ir Billy's dad is worse

@danz2000 4 жыл бұрын

I cant get away

@srijitasenguptaginia01082002 5 жыл бұрын

i just think about how many kids grow up feeling like they're worth _nothing_ because their parents didn't stay. because no one stayed.

@dkfasdh1024 5 жыл бұрын

I'm 10, and it is hard.

@user-jv7bl5zo8v 5 жыл бұрын

I sometimes felt like a nothing because my dad was verbally abusive to my mom before I was born and then when I was born... he left, he dissapeared from my life and all of my childhood I wondered why I didn't have a dad. From ages 1-7 I didn't have a father figure and now I have an amazing step father that I love but sometimes I feel like he'll leave too

@honeybunny3365 4 жыл бұрын

I'm 20 and it still upsets me that my father would rather give up on me and my siblings then see us. I know that I don't need him in my life but it's still sad. 😭😭

@shay322 4 жыл бұрын

Then there’s another end of the spectrum that wishes their parents would just seperate so they could be free of hell of abuse and they feel just as worthless as we don’t feel worth loving hence the abuse

@liliannapassut2246 3 жыл бұрын

I have a father who abused us then left us he is also a criminal but I never really cared that he left 🤷‍♀️

@otrera6175 3 жыл бұрын

TOP SIX WAYS TO LOSE YOUR CHILD'S LOVE: 1: Abandonment/abuse 2: Comparing all of their problems with your childhood problems 3: Telling them to be grateful for everything you give them for example: "be grateful for the food I put in your stomach" 4: Blaming everything on them or on their phone/iPad/TV 5: Too strict- taking away their door, grounding them too often, never letting them go out, etc. 6: Always on their ass about everything

@dxisyxo6518 3 жыл бұрын

but my mother had ptsd which is why she would always refer back to her childhood problems

@jamiethomas3768 3 жыл бұрын

My mom is a lotta those things.

@philosophicalmonkachu7711 3 жыл бұрын

Ticked 5 of those boxes....

@sukriti5433 3 жыл бұрын

Agree + beating up whenever not in their expectations or misunderstanding

@yooniverse9130 3 жыл бұрын

My parents started doing all that when I was 8

@mudfirethebengal10 4 жыл бұрын

"you used to be there. Then you stopped" "You're turning abandonment into a recipe for successful parenting?" Oof.

@sakurachan811 4 жыл бұрын

Where's the first 1 from?

@sakurachan811 4 жыл бұрын

@@taylor1330 thank you for taking the time to tell me this! I my long search is over!

@ssaffahmeaffahmehmood4209 Жыл бұрын

This hit hard

@zolarenard2246 6 ай бұрын

Nick: "You used to be here. Then you stopped." Alicia: "I'm here... Why isn't that enough?" These scenes broke me every time I saw it. This siblings deserve the World 😭

@sans-sational8654 4 жыл бұрын

I needed to hear this today. I've always dreamed of having a family and kids but my biggest fear is ending up to be the sort of parent that my parents were.

@ninaraganova6015 4 жыл бұрын

You will be good parent

@ginacerda2352 3 жыл бұрын

Same....

@t.s3994 3 жыл бұрын

You are better than them. You can be a good parent. You want to be a good parent, and that’s more than some.

@fabricofdreams. 3 жыл бұрын

You're not. You're gonna be an amazing parent as you know what a parent should _not_ be like.

@dhruvisomaiya8383 2 жыл бұрын

You will be a great parent someday :)

@-vanityx--4343 4 жыл бұрын

You know it’s sad when you’re crying and you don’t know 90% of the characters

@casssam.9251 6 жыл бұрын

I see Dean I click

@emilyj451 5 жыл бұрын

Me to

@iloveochako 4 жыл бұрын

same here

@williamradford7496 4 жыл бұрын

.....same

@Kylie-playsroblox 4 жыл бұрын

CassSam. Lol

@proxy2295 3 жыл бұрын

I saw Cheryl and I clicked lol 😂

@vanishingemotions2532 6 жыл бұрын

Am I the ONLY one getting hardcore triggered by that rabbit getting thrown up against the wall right now. Also great video, and if you were ever abused by your parents or anyone else, I’m sorry. Hopefully it’s better for you now! 🙂 Edit: wow so many likes and comments, I’m glad I’m not the only one.

@torakunoichi 6 жыл бұрын

No I got so pissed off and felt sad for both the rabbit and the boy

@vanishingemotions2532 6 жыл бұрын

warriorwolfprincess I’m so glad I’m not the only one!!!

@georgialawler6945 5 жыл бұрын

It's from The Good Doctor.

@georgialawler6945 5 жыл бұрын

You're Welcome

@whatsup5105 5 жыл бұрын

astydia story I cried! I’m such an animal lover! I cry when I see roadkill!😭😭😭

@alexisstray3583 4 жыл бұрын

Does anyone else have a parent that is basically never home like they’re at work all day but when they get home they’re either yelling at you or just sitting on their ass completely ignoring you?

@ashlynnhill413 3 жыл бұрын

I do

@fabricofdreams. 3 жыл бұрын

Or complaining about everything you do...

@liya9422 2 жыл бұрын

Thats literally my father when he comes home he just watches facebook or yells and ignores us completely, and sometimes i feel like it doesnt even matter what i do or say because im not that important to him :(

@alexisstray3583 2 жыл бұрын

@@liya9422 what is with dads on Facebook every 5 minutes? Because my dad dies the exact same thing

@naledikgwaila9113 2 жыл бұрын

I do it’s my dad

@nicodelossantos6039 6 жыл бұрын

1:23 my dad says that to me almost every week.

@alsfowafafwajg 5 жыл бұрын

That's fucked up man. There are numbers you can call and talk to somebody who can advice you on your situation.

@abidanielson2747 5 жыл бұрын

@@alsfowafafwajg no there isnt because they all say the exact same bullshit and when its used so often it goes through one ear and out the next

@jamiethomas3768 5 жыл бұрын

Abi Danielson yeah, that’s plum the case with me partner!

@honeybunny3365 4 жыл бұрын

You don't need him to be Happy. Those who love you no matter what are the most important people in your life. Please never forget that.

@nikolnovakova8812 4 жыл бұрын

My mom does

@awk-wordwriter7179 6 жыл бұрын

I'm watching this at school. And I nearly cried. I live in a place where my mom's bf is abusive and my mom does nothing about it.I'm leaving but I didn't want to leave bcuz I was threatened. I shouldn't be uncomfortable in my home. Anyone else in thus situation...pls stay strong. You'll make it

@elysianchaosproductions 6 жыл бұрын

I'm really sorry to hear that, but I'm glad you're getting out of that situation, as long as you get somewhere safe. I hope all the best for you, and I hope you can be your best self

@awk-wordwriter7179 6 жыл бұрын

elysian chaos. Thank you. That means a lot.

@emmafernandez8636 6 жыл бұрын

Emily Taylor I used to be, by my own father. We had some fun times but I knew they wouldn’t last. One day we’ll be at a carnival the next he’ll be yelling at me calling me a “liar like my mother” a “mistake” and telling me I “Ruined his Life”. This is called emotional and verbal abuse. If I try to explain it, some people just say it’s a part of growing up, it’s natural in arguments, it’s not a real kind of abuse. But now he is better, he has gone to rehab, and I now I wait for him to come home from federal Prison

@nobody-og5tl 5 жыл бұрын

I'm uncomfortable in my own household too

@june13girl43 4 жыл бұрын

This is late but I also don’t feel safe in my house

@sunflower-lz8sc 5 жыл бұрын

“What,was so wrong with me,that you had to leave?” “You know what,THEY did it all because you!wherent!here!” Fiona deserved the world😤😭👏❤️

@kevinskywalker5539 3 жыл бұрын

For the ones that have abusive parents, don't believe what they say. They may tell you it's your fault, or all that lies, but it's not true. They have their problems, and take it out on you. None of you deserve to be treated like that. You all should have happy lives.

@adamarysalinas1955 4 жыл бұрын

“If you were really afraid you would get an A” I sadly relate to this

@clixche6366 4 жыл бұрын

I started crying when the rabbit was threw. My step mother did that to my guinea pig 😭😭

@Yeetuspoket 4 жыл бұрын

clixche i’m sorry for you:( wish u all the luck in the world❤️

@clixche6366 4 жыл бұрын

@@Yeetuspoket thank you 💞

@rayne9291 4 жыл бұрын

My dad would beat the family dog in front of me and my younger sisters :(

@captainmarvelwilson508 3 жыл бұрын

That is really sad.

@erinmcshannon9126 6 жыл бұрын

2:18 i always see her as lexa from the 100 lmao.

@_emmers_ 3 жыл бұрын

Ikr lmao. I literally love that show ❤️

@misheelbayarsaikhan101 6 жыл бұрын

this reminded me of my father. All the abuse he did to me , all the bruises, scars he left me made me stronger. I became strong, but it still hurts

@proudswiftyarmydirectioner 5 жыл бұрын

I can relate. We're in a same boat, mate. So let's stay strong.

@faristasairuv5143 4 жыл бұрын

It’s great that you’re out of that situation now. The hurt will fade with time. Good luck. ❤️❤️❤️

@ashlynnhill413 3 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry, I know how it feels

@hannadrabbant2458 6 жыл бұрын

Hopefully the rabbit survived 😭😭 that poor kid

@emilyfarrell3892 6 жыл бұрын

Hanna Drabbant no the rabbit died so the brothers ran away but then the brother who was taking care of the brother with autism (Shaun) died in front of Shaun

@Grace-im3is 6 жыл бұрын

which movie is this? Assuming it is a movie haha

@emilyfarrell3892 6 жыл бұрын

no its a show called the good doctor its hella good i recommend it

@linettexie2373 6 жыл бұрын

Hanna Drabbant he dead

@kaziahaguilar 6 жыл бұрын

Hanna Drabbant that’s exactly what I was thinking that almost made me throw up

@YoursTruly-sj3zy 5 жыл бұрын

"Its the only way for a child to grow up when their father abandons them." WOW ANYONE ELSE RELATES TO THIS!!!😭😐

@katgirlsings353 6 жыл бұрын

This is me and my broken old life

@bel410la 4 жыл бұрын

Dean, and Fiona never fail to bring tears to my eyes.

@hattiestarr5046 5 жыл бұрын

In season 14 episode 12 I believe dean confirmed that John had neglected Sam and emotionally abused the two, probably taking a few hits on Dean too. I’ve had guesses throughout the whole thing but like damn that’s further proof.

@lupia09 5 жыл бұрын

“My dad doesn’t have enough time for me”.. hit me so hard.

@georgie5870 6 жыл бұрын

This video means a lot to me considering how much neglect and abuse I have been through and even though I know I’m not alone, I wish no one to go through the effects of being underloved and/or abandoned 🖤💔

@honeybunny3365 4 жыл бұрын

I go through that feeling everyday but I'm trying to figure out how to be Happy without my father being in my life.

@iloveochako 4 жыл бұрын

2:10 always breaks my heart 💔 Sam and Dean deserve better 😭

@addy9185 5 жыл бұрын

My dad is bipolar and gets mad for everythin and im done living likethis 😭

@Scooby_Nubie 5 жыл бұрын

I'm so sorry :''''( *hug*

@Hillary_Official_1 5 жыл бұрын

I'm sorry for you *hugs*

@brightbee2457 3 жыл бұрын

"I had to be more than just a brother, I had to be a father, and I had to be a mother, to keep him safe." I-Umm just give me a sec...

@annadau8612 5 жыл бұрын

You are a truly remarkable survivor who deserves a relationship where you feel safe, respected, appreciated, and trusted on a daily basis. You deserve to have your emotional needs and wants to meet consistently. You wholeheartedly deserve to feel sincerely cherished and loved. You deserve to come home each and every day, knowing that you are always safe and appreciated. You will be able to discuss what’s going in your mind with your partner without worrying about what his reaction might be. You will be once in a while showered with physical affection in the form of reassuring hugs and sweet kisses. You will be able to know that he will be there for you, no matter what happens and vice versa. You will share spontaneous laughs with him as well as find him to be a shelter where you can share unspoken tears. ❤ Stay extraordinary, my lovelies!

@honeycoves7831 4 жыл бұрын

My dad was never there, even if he was, he never cared. My mother loves me but doesn’t accept who I am, she only loves the fact that she has a daughter. I used to cry watching edits like this, but now I can’t feel anything.

@loser_kid4472 4 жыл бұрын

1:23 my parents have actually said that to me before. Because I told them they are the part of the reason why go to a psychiatrist. Because they used to hit us and the more we’d cry the more you get hit also pretty sure that’s why my brother is somewhat emotionless

@animrose 4 жыл бұрын

I wouldn't say my step-father is 'abusive' or 'neglectful' but if he does something wrong, he blames me and threatens me to the point that I cry. In front of my mum he's to complete opposite. He is kind and sweet but really I know he isn't like that. At first I thought he was perfect for my mum until a massive argument they had... He threatens to hit her and hurt both me and my sister. You can see it in his eyes. That he isn't the person everybody thinks he is

@celesteodair1834 6 жыл бұрын

this is so emotional and amazing, I love it so much, this is really beautiful :)

@thegatekeeper8612 6 жыл бұрын

2:11 always Pull's on my feelings

@kayleeadora9581 5 жыл бұрын

the gate keeper Right I always liked John more then Mary because when Mary came back she was showing neglect to both of the boys and she wasn’t there for them before she died and especially after she came back to life.

@iloveochako 4 жыл бұрын

@@kayleeadora9581 I'm not defending Mary cause she was pretty bad but she did come around at some point unlike John who neglected them their whole lives he is way worst then Mary

@urmomstatters3829 3 жыл бұрын

“You are not your parents.” Thank you. I really needed that.

@spitfirerat 4 жыл бұрын

This breaks my heart because not only can I relate but so can my nieces and I they’re already starting to question why they weren’t good enough for their parents to stay😭

@micom3051 Жыл бұрын

The axe forgets but the tree remembers. Parents forget what they said and the hurt they’ve caused, but we remember. We hold it inside where we will NEVER forget.

@S1SEU0 4 жыл бұрын

I wish i had parents that would understand me or love me ❤️

@Fiiireflyyy 4 жыл бұрын

Right now I’m just reliving the flashbacks of my childhood. Hope one day I’ll forget everything and feel nothing watching those video

@username1700 2 жыл бұрын

It’s so difficult, when you feel guilty for not liking them, for seeing the things they did wrong. And you know you can’t stay there, but you are afraid, you don’t want to leave not to hurt them. Even if they hurt you so much.

@webedits4763 4 жыл бұрын

the worst thing is when you answer back your parent and they shout at you like you have done something illegal

@marcyh6636 4 жыл бұрын

I would rather be a good mother than a good wife

@t.s3994 4 жыл бұрын

I never saw this show, but the girl hugging her friend at 1:06 had me in tears. I think it's because of how you she was, and how at that age she was understanding abandonment, because her friend was. This has to stop. Kids should go to bed with a smile, and wake up with one, and I know not everyone does.

@_emmers_ 3 жыл бұрын

I agree. 100% these kids deserve better. But I know this show it’s called “just go with it” and the little boy and girl are actually siblings.

@t.s3994 3 жыл бұрын

@@_emmers_ Oh my gosh, that’s even sadder

@kaygrace2057 6 жыл бұрын

i’m sobbing. man i have no words for this... i relate on... levels. levels that are so high i can’t see them

@dantethespoon1087 3 жыл бұрын

"He doesn't have time for me" hit me so hard, I actually started crying cause that's how I always fealt about my dad

@icryglitter444 4 жыл бұрын

My mom has anger issues and so many toxic habits. She’ll look at you and talk to you with a tone and look at you as if you are stupid. I told myself I would never be like her but I just see myself acting more like her more and more everyday. I feel sad about it but most of all, angry

@ferrum6979 4 жыл бұрын

yeah me too its kinda hard but we are not our parents be more of yourself anger either comes from pain or fear you will overcome this cause you're strong

@marjoniwilliams838 5 жыл бұрын

All the dean moments made me cry because he’s not an emotional personal but when they give him those scenes wow he puts everything thing it I swear I sometimes believe all that actually happened

@counttommymarion7319 2 жыл бұрын

I remember nothing but hate and pain as a kid. But, I remember that some people.. where truly great people.

@sageplayz6870 2 жыл бұрын

the fact im sobbing over the vid but sobbing the most about the rabbit being thrown

@marineresrt1109 5 жыл бұрын

i was asking myself when we’ll see some Shameless moments and i was fucking happy to see it at the end. you did an amazing job, really wonderful and heartbreaking.

@kaiieah6121 5 жыл бұрын

When he threw the rabbit, I was sobbing, you saw the sadness in his eyes .

@alexc6342 Жыл бұрын

I used to watch these everyday as a teenager looking back I was just trying to find people that I could relate to. It's been 6 years since i had a stable relationship with my mother. I'm happy than ever and wish it stays this way

@rebeccabrown251 Жыл бұрын

I don't want my children to repeat my decisions and I can only pray that they are receiving the treatment that they need to help understand. I hope they have my perseverance to find their happiness.

@kainami9520 4 жыл бұрын

“If you are afraid of me you’ll get an A” ...sounds like my dad and step mom

@astariratu4694 4 жыл бұрын

This why we should be nice to everyone. We don know what they going through

@nixcie 5 жыл бұрын

Of all the sad in this video, the rabbit hitting the wall is what made me cry

@kacilazybee Жыл бұрын

im so glad you added maddison clark cause ibe always hated her and everyone loves her

@mayersonprime 6 жыл бұрын

I cried, yes.. There's that feeling that my mother doesn't love me and actions speak for themselves. It's pretty hard watching this and having to watch all the bad memories in my head. It's just fucked up. Everything is fucked up.

@nlowxlight2692 6 жыл бұрын

You chose the perfect Song for this incredible Edit!😍 Its so well done and though out i loved every second of it!^-^

@miriamakhalwaya9461 3 жыл бұрын

If you ever feel heart broken because of leaving someone who couldn't love you the way you loved that person then be happy, you saving your future children from missing love from both parents.

@only_amaya8752 11 ай бұрын

I’d love to believe that I won’t be anything like my mom but I see anger in me and I hate it but at least I apologize to people my mom thinks what she does is “funny” or “quirky” like “haha I take my anger out on you I’m just quirky like that”

@jamiethomas3768 4 жыл бұрын

I can SOOOOOO relate to this. My parents are the WORST. My mom Kelly has EXTREMELY and very toxic ambition in her nature. She says certain things are my own fault.....(crying)are they? BECAUSE IT JUST HURTS SO MUCH COMING FROM HER!

@MS-mb7xj 4 жыл бұрын

I never had abusive parents, in fact my home life when I was young was complicated and rough. My parents divorced when I was 3, and growing up I looked for a father figure in every man my mom brought home. Back then she was trying to live a youth she never had, and i was raised by another man who was only there for 7 years. I learned a lot. I didn't meet my biological father until I was 6, but by then it was too late to try at a relationship. He popped in and out back then and still does now. Just today, I'm supposed to be graduating tomorrow (postponed ofc) but he didn't even message me back, instead messaged my sister asking how much money she wants for her birthday. Back then it used to sting, but I'm way past looking for a father figure in anyone because my mom grew and stretched into both. She did her best for me, and yeah she had her flaws but she tried to be there for me and understand me more than he ever did. Sometimes its the neglect and abandonment that gets me the most on the bad days

@lunabloosm244 3 жыл бұрын

"YOU ARE A SELFISH GIRL WHO IS INCAPABLE OF LOVE ANE YOU NEVER CARE ABOUT ANYONE", thx mom that will be a bruise in my mind forever

@meganfr1447 2 жыл бұрын

"You used to be there , but then you stopped.." That hit me hard..

@nht3892 4 жыл бұрын

2:12 😢😢 He had to grow up so fast

@nimmymalhotra3820 Жыл бұрын

Which movie or serial?

@jamiethomas3768 4 ай бұрын

@@nimmymalhotra3820supernatural

@lucasstout3148 5 жыл бұрын

The person who said their dad was there and was listening but they weren't really there I felt that.

@sakurachan811 4 жыл бұрын

You have any idea what that show was?

@lucasstout3148 4 жыл бұрын

@@sakurachan811 No idea sorry

@tvandmovieedits4233 6 жыл бұрын

This is amazing and made me want to cry but the editing is perfect. The scenes, especially the ones from FTWD and the Good Doctor which are pretty underrated as well where great. Love it

@marinaswhims 4 жыл бұрын

OKAY I AM CRYING BUT THIS EDIT IS SO AWESOME OH MY GOD

@lolae.4562 4 жыл бұрын

I don't get physically abused by mom. She provides me with a great life but I am constantly getting mentally abused by her insults and fights with me when no one is looking and then she acts like the victim. Home is supposed to be a place that makes you feel comfortable but to me it feels like a place that is constantly lowering my self esteem and I don't want to be here feeling like that :(

@ferrum6979 4 жыл бұрын

yeah you deserve to be in a healthy environment where you can safe and happy

@TophPower 4 жыл бұрын

It took a doctor to tell me that my parents abused me and made me hate myself and have never been able to love myself. My fiance said ”What I get annoyed with is how much you hate youself, for you are good” and that is something I always wanted to hear, that I was good enouth

@andrewnamkung7081 5 жыл бұрын

This video means a lot to me, at the age of 3 months my mother left me so I deal with abandonment issues, when I was five my father was very abusive to me. I let him beat on me so he would not hurt my siblings, which cause my PTSD, I want to say thank you for making this video.

@activesocialmenace 3 жыл бұрын

It's even harder when you only start to realize that most of the things wasn't just life being life, and *you* always failing, and *you* being dependent and incompetent... it was *your parent's* neglect.

@haileywells2189 5 жыл бұрын

Aw Maddie always kills me with the "I'm your child" scene. Love ftwd 💕

@katie6526 5 жыл бұрын

Supernatural and shameless u,s 💕 their two of my favorite shows

@tvds8350 3 жыл бұрын

I promised myself that if I have kids that I will give them anything but love, the love I never received from my parents.

@mads3930 4 жыл бұрын

When your parents hit you with the " I'll give you something to cry over, or be scared of" ○~○

@kjmrvz 4 жыл бұрын

This brought back so many horrifying memories.

@kodyking6875 4 жыл бұрын

My dad got a tattoo on his neck that says "family first" he chose a truck over me and my brother and moved to another country to live with his other family.

@FanCityCentral 5 жыл бұрын

Beautiful edit ❤️ so much love for this

@ines1084 2 жыл бұрын

Yesterday was rough for me. Watching these makes me feel like I both have it better then them so I shouldn't complain and also making me once again see the common / similarities with my family which hurts.

@AlejandraGarcia-ke4cn 4 жыл бұрын

I just broke down even more at “that was your fault”. Being the daughter of an alcoholic who is abusive in every form sucks, and imagine being 8 years old begging your dad to stop drinking for him to retaliate “you’re the reason I can’t stop drinking, you make me drink. I need to drink because of you” hearing that over and over every year I begged him to stop.. I have given up on him now. It’s one of those nights where everything is hitting me and it just hurts

@ferrum6979 4 жыл бұрын

it still wasn't your fault that you were born i hope better days are coming for you

@blinks7083 6 жыл бұрын

*I see Cheryl I click*

@spacedustandplanets7901 6 жыл бұрын

Wendy whaleiums mood

@QueenLDes 4 жыл бұрын

Omg... me too. #teamcheryl

@cottoncandysubs4500 4 жыл бұрын

I don't have to live with this, happily, but I feel really sorry for those who do. Hope y'all who've been through/who are getting through this get better.

@CamillaZahn 5 жыл бұрын

This is amazing. Just amazing. No words but thanks.

@lilx2633 5 жыл бұрын

The rabbit bro....😭😭 the look on his face says it all... I relate to his whole video oh well high levels tho -

@YoursTruly-sj3zy 6 жыл бұрын

You are not ur parents you choose who you want to be and if they made their choice so be it ....just don't let ur choice be based on the decision they made you are ur own person and u can decide for yourself ....... You are not ur parents ur more and ur are wonderful never give up because sometimes you have to. Be ur own friend. so....never give up👍☺

@deannahayward931 4 жыл бұрын

I relate to this so much it tells a story . It's sad that kids have to go though this

@Brooke-of4si 3 жыл бұрын

1) this edit always makes me cry, because it's actually fricken perfect and relatable💔 2) For my Teen Wolf fans, all I'm gonna say is this-- Even though we don't see a lot of Mr. Lahey, what he did to Isaac permanently scars me. I loved Isaac so fricken much, and seeing what his dad did to him kills me. I mean really, WHO LOCKS THEIR SON IN A FREEZER?! It's just sad, and it breaks my heart💔

@emilyrichardse5110 6 жыл бұрын

1:46 2:22 Deans mom wasnt abusive she died when Dean and Sam were little.

@elysianchaosproductions 6 жыл бұрын

Emily Richardse I was showing the aspect of what it’s like to not have a parent there so it applies to both of deans parents

@celestefieramonti 6 жыл бұрын

Mary wasn't abusive, but John was, and what she did or didn't do didn't really matter in the end because Dean still had to do it all. And then when she came back she didn't do much to be and stay with her children. Just my opinion :)

@elysianchaosproductions 6 жыл бұрын

She died because of her own actions and when she came back she abandoned both of her sons again, and joined the men of letters. She really wasn't a good mother.

@celestefieramonti 6 жыл бұрын

elysian chaos. exactly

@hiimsky4381 6 жыл бұрын

No but if she hadn’t died John probably wouldn’t have been abusive

@VioletEmerald 5 жыл бұрын

Great video! Intense. I relate because of my abusive mother to many of these plots.

@FrostInFreezer 4 жыл бұрын

I havent watched any of those shows, but the video sadly still makes sense. Well done.

@jamiethomas3768 5 жыл бұрын

This is really relatable.

@deannahayward4600 4 жыл бұрын

0:36 is my most relatable moment . Everything is my fault .

@nanathablue 5 жыл бұрын

I didn't know how much I needed this til I watched it, damn

@audreyheart2180 Жыл бұрын

🙏❤ " How To Read a Book " was a great help and very informative. (1) Once you begin, read quickly through the book and get a general "feel" what it's about. (2) Then go on to a second reading where you read more carefully and take notes, but not heavily annotated. (3) A third and subsequent readings will be much more in depth & you will have conversations with yourself about the book as if you were describing the work to another person. I've applied it for nearly 30 years and my efficiency for reading is so vastly improved. -Eppie Hemsley