EMELINE - this is how i learn to say no (Official Lyric Video)

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EMELINE

EMELINE

2 жыл бұрын

Listen to “this is how i learn to say no” here: emeline.lnk.to/tihiltsnID
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Credits:
Storyboard and directed by EMELINE
Animation by zack sekuler / anythingshop
Lyrics:
Fuck the apologies
Done being sorry for wanting the things that I want
I broke my back carrying baggage for strangers who only ever did me wrong
Was it more appeasing when I was just pleasing?
I look good on my knees
Sucks you’re never gonna get me back again.
When I got healthy, did that make you hate me?
And now, I’m never losing sleep I’m over it.
This is how I learn to say no
Take your pretty words and go choke
People talk shit say they’re gonna get better
I held my breath I can’t hold it forever
This is how I learn to say no
All of the butterflies turned into vicious lies
I’d rather be on my own
Tired of people being sad
Told my mom to leave my dad
Sometimes you just gotta go
Was it more appeasing when I was just pleasing?
I look good on my knees
Sucks you’re never gonna get me back again
When I got healthy, did that make you hate me?
And now, I’m never losing sleep I’m over it.
This is how I learn to say no
Take your pretty words and go choke
People talk shit say they’re gonna get better
I held my breath I can’t hold it forever
This is how I learn to say no

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@heathercrowe857
@heathercrowe857 2 жыл бұрын
To create healthy boundaries, this song hits hard.
@mckaelap968
@mckaelap968 2 жыл бұрын
For real
@aharrypotterfan5951
@aharrypotterfan5951 2 жыл бұрын
222 likes
@kbeasley9632
@kbeasley9632 2 жыл бұрын
@@aharrypotterfan5951 p
@pandakitty1606
@pandakitty1606 Жыл бұрын
I’ve been struggling with creating healthy boundries
@somebunnytolove124
@somebunnytolove124 2 жыл бұрын
As a woman who is getting ready to leave her alcoholic abuser this song is everything to me. 8 years of abuse... 4 kids.. it’s never going to stop. He will never change.. this song gives me back my voice when I feel I have none. Thank you for creating something that I’m sure has helped many people.
@amandakoenig8012
@amandakoenig8012 2 жыл бұрын
Praying you were able to get out. If not, I know you have the strength when you’re ready. 💪🏻
@natashaheffner4602
@natashaheffner4602 2 жыл бұрын
Oh girl I know that all to well I left 2 yrs ago And went back thinking he was going to change after being forced to stop bc he was on house arrest he never changed I was cheated on thrown around treated like a dog. A month ago after I found I was pregnant with our fourth I said goodbye for good. my mental health is back
@natashaheffner4602
@natashaheffner4602 2 жыл бұрын
Bad
@cassiewoldridge8678
@cassiewoldridge8678 2 жыл бұрын
You got this Mama!🖤
@victoriaalvarez1410
@victoriaalvarez1410 2 жыл бұрын
I just left my abusive alcoholic husband as well left with 7 children. And for once im not afraid
@ViksonMonroe
@ViksonMonroe 2 жыл бұрын
This is the perfect song for all types of abuse survivors..It hits hard in a beautiful way! I'm so happy to find the full version released!
@KassieKalena
@KassieKalena 2 жыл бұрын
This!
@deanna1608
@deanna1608 2 жыл бұрын
YES!!!
@HoneyBakedHamlet
@HoneyBakedHamlet 2 жыл бұрын
Im only 46 seconds in and I feel so.. so strong. He choked me? He can go choke now. He gaslit me? It doesn't matter what his own personal narrative is, but I remember the facts. He was unfaithful? He's now sad and lonely. while I HAVE BLOSSOMED.
@Stephandfamily
@Stephandfamily 2 жыл бұрын
Yes!! I agree 💯
@meganlawson4957
@meganlawson4957 2 жыл бұрын
Yes!!! I feel so empowered by this! Coming from an abusive home this just helps so much.
@cottonponylover2359
@cottonponylover2359 2 жыл бұрын
This is finally a song I can truly relate to. I'm tired of apologizing for things I didn't do, tired of apologizing to ppl who just wanna abuse me. Imma take this song and use it as my motto for life now. Aint no mean person gonna waste my time occupying my mind and heart
@gianna1417
@gianna1417 2 жыл бұрын
You go!!! You can do this and you’re so strong and you are loved ❤️
@Annoyingblond
@Annoyingblond 11 ай бұрын
yass you do you don’t ever forget it!!
@natalieyork1713
@natalieyork1713 2 жыл бұрын
FINALLY!!!!! Can't wait to play this on repeat for the next 72hrs 😌
@saltyaircrazyhair7269
@saltyaircrazyhair7269 2 жыл бұрын
Same. I'm just going to buy it, burn it, and fucking drill it into my head.
@joliepitt55
@joliepitt55 2 жыл бұрын
Same!!!
@nikholewegner1656
@nikholewegner1656 2 жыл бұрын
Same
@Rosegarden27
@Rosegarden27 2 жыл бұрын
Lmaoooo same
@actuallyashleyj
@actuallyashleyj 2 жыл бұрын
Same!
@christianap.7791
@christianap.7791 2 жыл бұрын
People pleasers, softies, all those who have been used, Highly Sensitive People, Empaths, etc UNITE!!!! This is our song😭😤✊️🔥 Edit: ahhhh thankyou everyone for the likes :)) Your sensitivity is what makes you beautiful and is your strength, regardless of what anyone says/feels about it. I see you all and I hope for love, healing, peace and strength on all your journeys 🤍
@melodybones1815
@melodybones1815 2 жыл бұрын
AMEN!!
@KassieKalena
@KassieKalena 2 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@nicolescags9330
@nicolescags9330 2 жыл бұрын
@alexis112
@alexis112 2 жыл бұрын
Currently in a not so good relationship. Feeling this
@JazziMaiArt
@JazziMaiArt 2 жыл бұрын
My whole life 🥺 ... setting boundaries... creating a bubble
@alanalilly3687
@alanalilly3687 2 жыл бұрын
My new favorite song. I’ve had a problem with setting boundaries for myself and I’m finally healing from my trauma!
@melodybones1815
@melodybones1815 2 жыл бұрын
congratulations on ur healing! may it continue to be healthy and happy healing for you ✨
@angelafahlenkamp9311
@angelafahlenkamp9311 2 жыл бұрын
How freeing it must feel...I was there 10 years ago when I walked into my first therapy session, BEST thing I've ever done!
@nuny4592
@nuny4592 2 жыл бұрын
Same! I'm obsessed with this song, because I have an issue with setting boundaries since I've been conditioned to believe my worth comes from what I can provide for others, regardless if it crosses lines. But I'm working to take the steps to learn and unlearn those unhealthy mindsets. Let's hope we both can make it out of this free
@angelafahlenkamp9311
@angelafahlenkamp9311 2 жыл бұрын
@@nuny4592 remember this during your trials and errors....if the action feels uncomfortable you're probably doing something right because in the past your actions were determined on how to avoid being uncomfortable, it lead to a state of being where people pleasing has had more negative outcomes for your own growth, you may well find that the people that makes this transition harder for you will inevitably be the ones you walk away from, when making these changes its hard to avoid losing friends and family who were toxic to begin with...hold strong because those people will try to pull you back and make you behave the way that makes them feel more comfortable, dont fall for that trap 👍
@nuny4592
@nuny4592 2 жыл бұрын
@@angelafahlenkamp9311 Thank you, that's one of my biggest setbacks- the fear of losing someone close to me. I'm trying to actively tell myself that if they respond with resentment or leave, then they're not worth it to begin with. I'm excited to weave out those who aren't truly worthy of me and overtime lose the anxiety that comes from walking over eggshells to please people. Thank you for the advice and reassurance, it's always appreciated 💞
@MountainEssence
@MountainEssence 2 жыл бұрын
Masterpiece. Talk about a ‘belt it from the top of your lungs in the car’ song. So empowering. Thank you! I’ve been waiting for this to release!!!
@jodydvorak1260
@jodydvorak1260 2 жыл бұрын
YES!
@kassandra9492
@kassandra9492 7 ай бұрын
Literally doing that at this moment
@lairdofpawblins
@lairdofpawblins 2 жыл бұрын
I just heard this song for the first time after today having my dad call me to say he's not coming to my wedding because it won't be "traditional." It hurt me to hear him say that, but I have to stand my ground and do what's right for me, not have my life revolving around what other people expect of me. I'm proud of me. I'm learning. It took a lot of growing up for me to get here.
@stephanieschaeffer5202
@stephanieschaeffer5202 2 жыл бұрын
I totally relate. My dad didn’t come to my wedding for religious reasons. Broke me. But I’ve grown and realized that I’ve tried my whole life to please him and make him love me. You will heal and I’m rooting for your growth ❤️
@lairdofpawblins
@lairdofpawblins 2 жыл бұрын
@@stephanieschaeffer5202 Thank you. I'm sorry you also had to experience that heartbreak, but it's kinda nice knowing I'm not alone. I came from a conservative religious family, so coming out as queer and making the decision to marry my husband in spite of all their hate have been life-changing for me. Totally worth it. I've finally found the real family I never thought I would have when I was younger. 💛
@nandaniraj8532
@nandaniraj8532 2 жыл бұрын
My dad forced me into a marriage, yeah could not be able to shed any tears on that day
@lairdofpawblins
@lairdofpawblins 2 жыл бұрын
@@nandaniraj8532 I'm so sorry you had to go through that. 🫂
@christiantaylor1495
@christiantaylor1495 Жыл бұрын
​@@nandaniraj8532 dad's make better choices
@renee997
@renee997 2 жыл бұрын
You have no idea how perfect the time was for this song when I found it. It’s really easy now to see the people I thought knew better for me get visibly uncomfortable when they realize they can’t fool me anymore. I see it burns them inside now that I’m using the very word they brainwashed me into thinking was wrong when I spoke it for myself. I can’t thank you enough for making this song❤️
@melodybones1815
@melodybones1815 2 жыл бұрын
I soooo again
@karachristensen2132
@karachristensen2132 2 жыл бұрын
You got this! You know what's right for you!
@celestialphoenixqueen9258
@celestialphoenixqueen9258 2 жыл бұрын
my 2 ex guy besties / crushes and my ex / our mutaual friend they fooled me so many times . now they can't and they should be ashamed of themselves 😌😌💅💅
@renee997
@renee997 2 жыл бұрын
@celestial Phoenix queen And they should be 😌
@celestialphoenixqueen9258
@celestialphoenixqueen9258 2 жыл бұрын
@@renee997 i'm hoping they are cause they brought it upon themselves 😏😏
@s1eepymommaaa
@s1eepymommaaa 2 жыл бұрын
I needed this… so many people needed this 🥺❤️
@shannonparcell357
@shannonparcell357 2 жыл бұрын
This song was stuck in my head for two months before it was released. The full track did not disappoint. This song means the world to me. It's like it was written for me. Thank you.
@barbarameyer288
@barbarameyer288 2 жыл бұрын
same here!!!
@miigwans360
@miigwans360 2 жыл бұрын
I agree completely
@idgaffsss
@idgaffsss 2 жыл бұрын
this women deserves more attention honestly speaking she's so talented and she's my favorite singer from now on
@coreykuefler-terweeme7268
@coreykuefler-terweeme7268 2 жыл бұрын
As someone who is a people pleaser and survived an abusive ex bf, this definitely hits hard. I need to set boundaries and not let people walk all over me.
@celestialphoenixqueen9258
@celestialphoenixqueen9258 2 жыл бұрын
can't relate to being a people pleaser , I used to be that way but now I do what I want and say what I want regardless of it'll displease anyone . causr I'm not here to please or entertain anyone 💅💅
@kerrieleidig
@kerrieleidig 2 жыл бұрын
This is so intensely, _intentionally_ written. Lyrically creative, melodically & rhythmically dynamic... this song is instantly unforgettable. Well done, Emeline.
@drbakhshi7064
@drbakhshi7064 2 жыл бұрын
The “intentionally” got me…
@frosty_friends1807
@frosty_friends1807 Жыл бұрын
Unforgettable? What the fuck are talking about? It's has new sans written all over it. It's the most generic music video, the most generic song, the most generic sound, the most generic looking girl 🤣. I mean come on stop the serious cap. I just came from a video of her singing this live. She sounds horrible live and Hardy could keep a tone. All the comments were people bagging on her for sounding so generic, people just wished singers could actually sing. Now every 20 something American women that's taken singing classes thinks she can sing. There just isn't a lot of deep, soul cutting, eye catching material here.
@Ffloyd12
@Ffloyd12 Жыл бұрын
sure.
@renivp3208
@renivp3208 2 жыл бұрын
Not a song I can personally relate to or need in my life, but really hoping it will help my friend gather some confidence and stand up for herself more. Sending it straight to her 🙌🏻
@louisasevier1034
@louisasevier1034 2 жыл бұрын
I'm glad she has a friend like you in her life.
@thenewpyt4331
@thenewpyt4331 2 жыл бұрын
since i first heard part of this I've been ryhtmicly looking it up to see if its been released yet, I'm glad the algorithm caught on and put it at the top of my home page the second I opened youtube after it was released. love the song!!
@calimcdermott4097
@calimcdermott4097 2 жыл бұрын
My daughter and I have been waiting for weeks. I cannot stop listening!!!!!!!! Beautifully executed! And one of the most important messages!
@gianna1417
@gianna1417 2 жыл бұрын
Love this song 😂😭
@candicecp
@candicecp 2 жыл бұрын
Listen to it 3 times in tears. It’s better than therapy. You have a gift. Please keep doing what you’re doing. ❤️
@ozislost
@ozislost 2 жыл бұрын
This is literally me learning to set boundaries with my dad. It hits so hard I cant even put words to it. I held my breath I can’t hold it forever This is how I learn to say no
@witchyboo_kat
@witchyboo_kat 2 жыл бұрын
The first time I heard this on Tic Tok I bawled. I just sent it to my mom and she said she's trying not to cry. Obviously we have a generational issue
@solaugust
@solaugust Жыл бұрын
To Emeline, I don’t know if you look at comments, but I just finally left an abusive relationship, he’s trying to get me back and I’m finally learning to say no and set my boundaries. This song found me at the perfect time. Thank you so much for this masterpiece
@E.O.15
@E.O.15 16 күн бұрын
You are amazing! I'm so happy you left him.
@Lucianoaoao
@Lucianoaoao Жыл бұрын
---- Fuck the apologies Done being sorry for wanting the things that I want I broke my back carrying baggage For strangers who only ever did me wrong Was it more appeasing when I was just pleasing? Look good on my knees Sucks you're never gonna get me back again When I got healthy, did that make you hate me? And now, I'm never losing sleep, I'm over it This is how I learn to say no Take your pretty words and go choke People talk shit say they're gonna get better I hold my breath I can't hold it forever This is how I learn to say no, oh All of the butterflies turned into vicious lies I'd rather be on my own Tired of people being sad Told my mom to leave my dad Sometimes you just gotta go Was it more appeasing when I was just pleasing? Look good on my knees Sucks you're never gonna get me back again When I got healthy, did that make you hate me? And now, I'm never losing sleep I'm over it This is how I learn to say no Take your pretty words and go choke People talk shit say they're gonna get better I hold my breath, I can't hold it forever This is how I learn to say no, oh "I think what we proved is that we are family And no matter what we're always going to be a fuckin' family Sing with me!
@Matete_Z
@Matete_Z 2 жыл бұрын
The wait felt like a century but its worth it. I resonate on a deep level, this was very much needed !
@kristimatsueda5717
@kristimatsueda5717 2 жыл бұрын
Emeline really out here helping and empowering us with every song she puts out
@Shy_Shy.
@Shy_Shy. 2 жыл бұрын
Was in an emotionally abusive (14 years )boarderline physical ( 1 year) relationship. This is strength. This is power. This song is my support to stay strong even though he had me believing i was worthless and nothing without him. Thank you
@victoriapinkerman1134
@victoriapinkerman1134 2 жыл бұрын
laying in bed sobbing while listening to this. Very easily my favorite song because of how inspiring it is. I know there had to be some real bad pain in there to make something like this, I hope your journey is treating your better now 💙
@krystenteagarden7133
@krystenteagarden7133 2 жыл бұрын
I am nearly 35... And have been away from him for nearly 10 yrs. But I can't stop listening and crying. Thank you for putting my wounds in words... You have a gift for giving others a voice.
@maddie8942
@maddie8942 2 жыл бұрын
After my ex boyfriend started abusing me, I felt like I had nothing. But hearing this song makes me want to cry but like in a good way. Thank you
@vivalamadeline
@vivalamadeline 2 жыл бұрын
I am so ridiculously in love with this song. I can’t wait to share it with my mom, and anyone else I know like her & I who needed this.
@xnyroxchannel
@xnyroxchannel 2 жыл бұрын
The warrior adult self with the inner child at the end (in my interpretation) I CANT SHED ANYMORE TEARS WHAT R U DOINGGG I love it 🤍
@liannecarson823
@liannecarson823 2 жыл бұрын
Needed to find this song today!! To every survivor reading this! You are strong, amazing and blessed 💜 May you future shine as bright as you!! 💜
@angellroberts6213
@angellroberts6213 2 жыл бұрын
I've had this on repeat since it dropped. SUCH an iconic song with an incredible message behind it ❤️
@ezek1380
@ezek1380 Жыл бұрын
Saw her singing a few seconds in her car… came went through all her songs… and am in lost of words by the quality and energy of her songs… wow… can only wish you the mega success you absolutely deserve!!! Wowww
@katdawg6
@katdawg6 2 жыл бұрын
Just ended a 5 year relationship with a narcissist and this song popped up and is exactly what I needed. Thank you!!
@user-fz1uz6je5w
@user-fz1uz6je5w 21 күн бұрын
Me too the same. We deserve something better and I wish you the best. I hope time to heal our pain in our souls and find our happiness in ourselves 🙏❤
@kaylaparker9048
@kaylaparker9048 2 жыл бұрын
I felt the lyrics so deeply. Been waiting weeks for this song to come out.
@vanillabeans1000
@vanillabeans1000 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!! 6 months sober today 🥰🥰🔥🔥going to listen to this ALL DAY
@kristalwalker5685
@kristalwalker5685 2 жыл бұрын
You got this! I just hit 4 years. One day at a time
@amandakoenig8012
@amandakoenig8012 2 жыл бұрын
Such a boss! Way to hit 6 months
@elizabethskipper4008
@elizabethskipper4008 2 жыл бұрын
Been listening to this for hours since I got broken up with. He was controlling and I didn't realize it till now. It was for the better, but now he's chasing to get back with me. This is empowering to me and is helping me to say NO!
@StellaisStellar
@StellaisStellar 2 жыл бұрын
This has been MY song! I listen to it on repeat at work and at home. Loudly singing along! (much to my kitties dismay) This is my "I don't have to accept your bs. I deserve better." song. Thank you Emeline!!!! I love it!
@bbaileyno
@bbaileyno 2 жыл бұрын
I can’t handle how much this song speaks to me. Thank you so much for not only putting it into words, but into song!! So much love for you!
@kristinapusec5941
@kristinapusec5941 2 жыл бұрын
EMELINE babe you are a fighter and a winner! I'm so happy for you that you got better and became happier! This new song rocks! Wish you all the best! Keep on rocking girl! ❤️💕
@shellyreed2373
@shellyreed2373 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for writing this song.When you grow up watching a co dependent and a narcissist play out their mess it leaves you seeking out that same role play as an adult.I spent years not knowing why I was doing this or that I even was.I finally understand and now Im free of those chains.💕🙌
@TheBlackRose7
@TheBlackRose7 Жыл бұрын
I had a very toxic friendship and environment. I'm still healing from it and this song is very inspiring to me and I hope it helps other people love you!
@mahnoorkhan7845
@mahnoorkhan7845 Жыл бұрын
"people talk shit, saying they're going to get better. i hold my breath, but i can't hold it forever." my fav lines.
@naoemie
@naoemie 4 ай бұрын
I decided to file for divorce yesterday and for the first time I get to listen to this song without feeling wishful
@OmgxXLile
@OmgxXLile Ай бұрын
slay I’m soo glad hope life gets better for u!
@angryartist3170
@angryartist3170 2 жыл бұрын
This is amazing!!! I've recently kind of realized that I'm tired of being a punching bag for everyone else. Or a human diary to dump all of their emotional baggage onto. It hurts me to say no. It really does. But I know this is good for me.
@celestialphoenixqueen9258
@celestialphoenixqueen9258 2 жыл бұрын
I used to be that way when I was little till I was almost a preteen . eventually something snapped within me and I had enough of it . now I am happier that I made that change 😌
@salamander9575
@salamander9575 2 жыл бұрын
This is how it's felt to cut off contact with my dad. It sucks to be tough when you're soft, but it's so so worth it to not be hurt anymore
@crystinapierce6833
@crystinapierce6833 2 жыл бұрын
I really want to like this song but I can’t get through it without crying for some reason. I’ve heard it a few times but can’t finish it. Keep doing what you’re doing!
@kristalwalker5685
@kristalwalker5685 2 жыл бұрын
Same here
@jodydvorak1260
@jodydvorak1260 2 жыл бұрын
Been there. Keep listening.
@angelafahlenkamp9311
@angelafahlenkamp9311 2 жыл бұрын
Thats called release...your body seems to crave it...if you don't the energy turns inwards and causes illness....trust me, I'm there
@starfire8319
@starfire8319 2 жыл бұрын
As a survivor , this hits harder than a rock 🥺 SENDING LOVE TO ALL OF YOU , STAY HEALTHY , BLESSED AND SAFE WHEREVER YOU ARE 🙏 ❤. ❤🤗😚☺
@haileybright3967
@haileybright3967 2 жыл бұрын
I can not stop listening to this song. It's beautiful and I really believe it deserves to be a #1. When I say I have listened to it on repeat for about 5 or 6 now times, I'm not kidding. This song just speaks to me
@clarissawhalen4330
@clarissawhalen4330 2 жыл бұрын
This is such an amazing song. I love it
@jessicamorgan1125
@jessicamorgan1125 2 жыл бұрын
Yesssss. Im so excited!!! Ive been waiting for this song so long. I cant wait to blast this in my car!
@WateverWatever04
@WateverWatever04 2 жыл бұрын
"tired of people being sad, told my mom to leave my dad" HER POWER
@Jackorwtv
@Jackorwtv Жыл бұрын
LITERALLY
@frosty_friends1807
@frosty_friends1807 Жыл бұрын
Why is that celebrated? What's the context? That's not right to air out her parents laundry. What type of person does this and who the fuck celebrates it? This is why you're gonna be a 35 year old cool wine aunt with dogs or cats as her children because who the hell would want to marry a woman so self centered with herself. This song is fucking generic it's so clear and obvious she doesn't write any her material. It's what I'd imagine an 11 year girl would think is deep. I've heard her over open mic and she's not that great a singer either. She's just looks like a girl who's dad has a lot of many and paid to have her dream of being a "hit new artist". Maybe not who knows.
@Jackorwtv
@Jackorwtv Жыл бұрын
@@frosty_friends1807 i dont care if she's not that great of a singer. if you want my context its that my step dad is a toxic man who beat her?? Also why do you look so deep into the artists lyrics some artists don't write about their life and write music for people who need to feel heard. If you read any of the other comments like the vent comments maybe you'd see why the song is so strongly relied on??? As a child of your parents you should have a say in who your parents are with because maybe they make you uncomfortable. Having the confidence to speak i what a lot of people need, especially victims who were under control by family members in disgusting ways.
@amanahmadansari9628
@amanahmadansari9628 2 жыл бұрын
The power in your "This is how I learn to say NO"... exactly resembles someone who would say that after so long of abuse✨
@reydragonclaw1128
@reydragonclaw1128 2 жыл бұрын
She made her own armor out of the spears that hurt her and then gave that armor to a kid, I'm gonna cry this is so beautiful!!!
@yahoozie-aka-jess4577
@yahoozie-aka-jess4577 2 жыл бұрын
The melody to this song sends me. So proud of you!
@nicoledaher4983
@nicoledaher4983 2 жыл бұрын
I have this song on replay and it's funny how you find that one song in the time of need for strength. Thanks doll, your words in this song are perfection!
@rosekay5031
@rosekay5031 2 жыл бұрын
I need this so much in my life right now. My family left me because I left my abusive relationship. They hate me because I said no to his abuse and no to their enabling bullshit. I love this song so much. Thank you for writing, recording and sharing ❤️
@kirikaize
@kirikaize Жыл бұрын
I love the line "take your pretty words and go choke"
@misintrica
@misintrica 2 жыл бұрын
My life lived... every word. ThankS for this super strength in words and song...I'm well on my way healing from tons of toxic injury through my life... thank you so much!
@josephboyer7866
@josephboyer7866 2 жыл бұрын
This is really a beautiful song that resonates with me deeply I have always had more hope for people than they have for themselves and they always break their promises to me and I am so tired of it.
@melodybones1815
@melodybones1815 2 жыл бұрын
ditto
@angelafahlenkamp9311
@angelafahlenkamp9311 2 жыл бұрын
It takes time but some of us learn how to recognize the ones who will suck you dry and stay away from them!
@TheBmenzsays
@TheBmenzsays 2 жыл бұрын
FINALLLLLLY! You are being slept on, girl! I am waiting for you to blow up. I love your voice- so freaking beautiful as are you 🖤 keeping throwing us the jams. I AM HERE FOR IT
@FuschiaScreamin
@FuschiaScreamin 2 жыл бұрын
100% OBSESSED with this song. Can not wait for more from this artist!
@reaganking8827
@reaganking8827 2 жыл бұрын
FINALLY I LOVE THIS!!! i’m so proud of you!!!
@melodybones1815
@melodybones1815 2 жыл бұрын
she did amazing right 👏 👏 👏
@xena6115
@xena6115 2 жыл бұрын
THIS SONG IS SO GOOD OMG-
@santanajennings2088
@santanajennings2088 2 жыл бұрын
I have been playing this song a repeat since the day it came out. I’m obsessed with this song!!! It’s so good!❤️❤️❤️❤️ I have sent it to so many people
@melodybones1815
@melodybones1815 2 жыл бұрын
my bestie sent to me too! can't stop playing it....powerful message
@elidcebriew266
@elidcebriew266 2 жыл бұрын
This song builts my confidence in myself when I completely unable to do what people want me to be or to do:)
@luvsick_ash
@luvsick_ash 2 жыл бұрын
As a woman who was in a very abusive relationship for nearly 2 years…. This song right here!!! This is song means everything to me.
@albertlyngdoh2160
@albertlyngdoh2160 2 жыл бұрын
This is a masterpiece ❤️❤️❤️!!!!!
@sadisticplaymate69
@sadisticplaymate69 2 жыл бұрын
Just discovered this song through tiktok a couple hours ago and it's already on my on repeat playlist on spotify.
@mushmouf1400
@mushmouf1400 2 жыл бұрын
Frfr
@brittney868
@brittney868 2 жыл бұрын
This song speaks to my soul! I’m an empath who has suffered under the abuse of many narcissists, family included! Recently I removed the toxic force and this song tells the story so perfectly! Learning to say no in order to protect yourself is key to a successful happy life! Many blessings to all!
@that_kid_nobody_notices
@that_kid_nobody_notices 2 жыл бұрын
Once again, youtube shows me an amazing song via an ad.
@darknoonthirty
@darknoonthirty 2 жыл бұрын
I'm literally the reason my parents split because my mom finally listened to me after over a decade of telling her to leave his abusive ass. I needes this song so bad and i am so very thankful it exists.
@lunakmii8389
@lunakmii8389 2 жыл бұрын
This song goes along great with my therapy and I’ll continue to come back to it when I need strength. I’m currently experiencing what its like to set boundaries and have people lash out at them. I was certainly “more appeasing when I was just pleasing”, but I almost died that way. Now I’m learning to look inward and respect my energy. Thank you for this beautiful song 🌿💞
@Mimi_thun
@Mimi_thun 2 жыл бұрын
YESSSS FINALLYY
@amandalou9489
@amandalou9489 2 жыл бұрын
YAS!!!!!!!!!!!! BEEN WAITING❤️❤️❤️❤️
@jacquelinecyr390
@jacquelinecyr390 2 жыл бұрын
Listening to this til it gets a million views. Cause that's how many times I need to hear it. Thank you for this! I'm sure you created this because its what you've struggled with yourself, thanks for breaking through and creating this song! 💕
@intentionalmediallc4338
@intentionalmediallc4338 2 жыл бұрын
10 years in recovery from an eating disorder and this gives me such vibes!! OMG. Love to all you young or wise still learning to say no and love themselves
@mamamoonglow
@mamamoonglow 2 жыл бұрын
In the middle of CPT and this song is on repeat. Trying to remember my power, banish the voices that say I'm weak and helpless. To everyone facing down those kinds of thoughts, you've got this.
@ArianaZ6
@ArianaZ6 2 жыл бұрын
She's so talented I'm speechless ♥️♥️
@Fortheloveofbon
@Fortheloveofbon 2 жыл бұрын
Been here since Hush in Boston and will still be here after you’re playing the garden
@alethuo76
@alethuo76 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this song!! This hit the nail on the head!! Such a spot on song to explain EVERYTHING my daughter and I have endured!!❤
@Luna-xb9zn
@Luna-xb9zn 2 жыл бұрын
This hit so hard im literally crying
@navitachauhan6194
@navitachauhan6194 2 жыл бұрын
You are too beautiful ... To be true ... Too talented ..... Ur all lyrics are getting soooo close to my heart
@meganpetrea899
@meganpetrea899 2 жыл бұрын
Anyone else get excited when the notification came thru that this was out? 😭😭
@benhenry7349
@benhenry7349 2 жыл бұрын
Amazing
@smileymel07
@smileymel07 5 ай бұрын
That line where it says, "Thank your pretty words and go choke..." that's that moment you realized they never cared and all they ever had were pretty words to cover up their endless lies and empty promises. And I felt that in my soul.
@Heidisopinion
@Heidisopinion 2 жыл бұрын
I love this song it is so beautiful
@TatianaJones8271
@TatianaJones8271 2 жыл бұрын
This song has a powerful message
@carissashley
@carissashley Жыл бұрын
I will be playing this on repeat on Father’s Day.
@corrineblanco2421
@corrineblanco2421 2 жыл бұрын
LOVEEE It 💯 Saw Her Mom's Reaction On TikTok To This Song. CAME STRAIGHT HERE 😤🙄 breathing & taking it all in . THIS IS HOW I LEARN TO SAY NO 💕
@rachaelabney3148
@rachaelabney3148 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this song! I’ve had it on repeat…sometimes you just gotta go. Amen I ended 11 years of feeling not good enough and I’ve grown so much 💕
@midnightcreature7583
@midnightcreature7583 2 жыл бұрын
the only thing wrong with this is that it's too short 😩 WE NEED MORE LIKE THIS AAAH watch out world, this is gonna be a good one.
@miraanda8357
@miraanda8357 2 жыл бұрын
I sent this to my friend she really needed to hear this perfect timing for her life what a beautiful song I look forward to you having a lot of success in this industry just don't sell your soul
@meganzielinski3213
@meganzielinski3213 2 жыл бұрын
Please make this song blow up!! Top charts, absolutely beautifully sang/spoken
@taylormartin5009
@taylormartin5009 2 жыл бұрын
I cannot stop listening!
@shannondenicola1558
@shannondenicola1558 2 жыл бұрын
Been singing this song in my head for weeks! so worth the wait absolutely amazing!
@steviefinley8735
@steviefinley8735 2 жыл бұрын
Just heard a preview on tiktok broke my legs running here to hear the whole thing!! On repeat it is!🖤🖤🖤
@lais9670
@lais9670 Жыл бұрын
Isn't it crazy how we find the perfect songs to the moment we're living? Yesterday I just had a really anxious day after realizing how much I give in to what everyone wants, and how badly that was affecting me To the point I felt anxious and angry all the time for days But then I just decided to finally be more harsh and learn to say no and don't let people walk all over me This song will be my reminder ❤
@saruprabha6060
@saruprabha6060 2 жыл бұрын
thank you sooooo much for Cinderella's dead and this song. This is a medicine for my depression. The lyrics are damn good. I am addicted to it.
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