1994 happened and things were supposed to change , no is so stupid as to believing things would just change overnight but there was a time there for a few years when things looked like they were starting to go right but the goodwill and spirit of forgiveness from both sides evaporated because of the lack of the willingness to compromise . The past could not be undone , people had lived their lives and buit up their lives thru hardwork and ingenuity and this could never be undone but instead of working together with this the other side failed to use the goodwill shown by the one side when they chose the right path of standing back from violence and rather chose peace the ANC and the black majority chose the path of telling the whites that they are unwelcome in SA . This has led us down a dead end road which will only end in disaster in the future .