I can’t believe the ending!!! She feels sorry for her ex husband but what about that awesome man that loves her with all his heart. She’s crazy!!

She could have cared for her ex husband and still date her boyfriend openly. Her bf had said he’d wait for her and she said to her sis that she really loves Han. This story has an “open” ending. There’s still hope for her and Han as at the end, she didn’t discourage him waiting. My thoughts? Just buy him a damn motorised wheelchair and get him a nurse!😂😂

What happens to him is no longer her problem. The minute he chose to abandon her for his own so called happiness and feelings is also the same time she was given her own freedom to be happy again. It's one thing to worry and another to take responsibility. I hate when writers always make the wife or ex-wife be the one to sacrifice everything.

This man has absolutely no conscience! When he was strong and good, he dropped his wife like a hot potato for the mistress. He didn’t care that he hurt her or his son, all he wanted was the mistress. Now he has no problem sitting up in that chair, getting taken care of by the same woman he threw away? This is a terrible ending! I’m so disappointed.

前夫当日选择抛弃妻子就应该承受一切结果,作为前妻如果系出于同情同怜悯之心,大可以同现任的男朋友将来一齐共同照顾前夫,而不应该为了个渣男而放弃自己的幸福,真讨厌这个编剧太不近人情了,一个男人变了心是不值得爱的。

If it was done to me I will never ever take him back! The wife gave up her pride and dignity for someone who never deserved it! She is pitiful!! Once a cheater, always a cheater! I don’t feel sorry for her! She makes me angry! She’s a fool!

故事應該是百年前的思维!女人要三從四德，從一而终!老實説，如果丈夫背叛了自己的話，自己又怎能吞下這口氣?除非自己没能力養活自己和兒子!中國男人寫故亊，結局還是鼓勵男人去找第三者!這不單是失敗的結局，還侮辱了女性的智慧,浪費觀衆的時間和期待，是失敗的結局和作品!

This is a great love story. I just hope the lady will marry the guy who truly loves her. I want her to have a happy ending with her own love story someday.

They should make another ending where she gets married to the man that deserves her.

Her betrayed her, had a mistress for years. This man loves her, he is honest, trustful and she returns to the scam! Wow! What a strange ending! Unbelievable!

No me gusto este final, después de que la humilló mucho, se queda a cuidarlo. No me parece justo para ella y Han

Nooooo, por lo menos hay algún capítulo donde esté patán le pida perdón a ella? Que coraje pero aunque parezca chiste aún hay mujeres sin autoestima. Lo hubiera mandado a un lugar donde lo cuidaran y ya.

真有那麼深情男子和那麼絶情自私前夫！ 絶情自私前夫一定有千千萬萬個 可深情的男人是零個🖤

作者是想為女人洗腦嗎？這樣才算好女人？告訴你 我相信沒一個女人會為了這樣的男人回頭 作者你死心吧。

I hope that Hans &Jilin at the end be together as what Hans said,theres a miracle,as he promise to wait that time..very heartfelt..felt sorry for Hans..😭😘🌷🔥

Final me decepciona mucho, no entiendo porque siempre la esposa debe sacrificarse por alguien que no la valoró. Porque dar una segunda oportunidad a alguien que no te dió ni siquiera la primera?

Muy bonita série, no me gusta el final, las mujeres merecemos del felices, y si tenemos la oportunidad dé conocer una persona que nos respete, respalde, nos cuidé, y nos amé, no tenemos porqué cargar con la persona qué nos lastimó nada más por lástima, hay qué valorar él amor del otro, y ser felices con una nueva oportunidad

Es horrible el final este. Siempre las hacen sumisas, sin voluntad y sin poder ser felices por culpa de ellos. Osea, el la engaña, la traiciona, le miente, la abandona a ella y a su hijo, se divorcia de ella por la amante y ahora que descubre que le engaño la amante y tiene un accidente por eso, no por ella, y la amante le abandona, la ex debe dejar su nueva vida, su nueva felicidad a un lado por el. No es justo. Ella se merece ser feliz no ser la mujer que siempre deja todo por el sin merecerlo. Basta de hacer papeles de mujeres sumisas que perdonan todo

Que triste ver que la esposa sacrifica su vida y felicidad por un hombre egoísta que nunca pensó en ella ni en su hijo cuando busco una amantes por tanto tiempo,siendo buena esposa dedicada a su hogar a su familia. Este hombre no merece que se sacrifique ,el hijo crecerá hará su vida y ella cuando será feliz. Felicitar a los actores por su excelente trabajo en este drama.

Horrible final. El hombre la traiciono y solo x su hijo renuncia a un hombre q de verdad la valora. Esta bien el amor a los hijos pero donde queda el amor x ti misma. Q enseñanza le das a tus hijos.😞

10 años dice ella y debe cuidarlo por su hijo y él al menor guiño se fue con otra … no merece ese sacrificio, puede cuidarle pero ella al lado de Han que la quiere de verdad y Han es un amor de hombre el otro un pelele cobarde!!!

Now that I have emotionally removed myself from this story, and realize that this is just that... a 'story', I turn my attention to the writers of this masterpiece drama. The writers are among the best in China, and they know exactly what they are doing when crafting a story line like this. They know what affects the ratings and what grows viewership. They wrote a story that would move the emotions of Chinese viewers. This drama is a cultural reflection of China and its society, shaped over many dynasties. I'm a Westerner and through such Chinese TV Dramas, I am learning about how Chinese people view life, its path, and about social behavior and relations. Embeded in the story and characters is the Chinese moral and ethical codes... about social expectations of girls and Women, and boys and Men. This drama shows how Chinese people view love and marriage - that the two are separate things and that love and affection (and sex) are not required in marriage. A whole family/household, the stigma of single parenthood, and keeping 'Face' are powerful forces that keep a lot of loveless marriages and households together. Its still hard for single mothers to get a job that pays as much as men get, to look after self and kid(s). Such conditions ensure that the practice of affairs, cheating and having mistresses will continue to be a normal part of life. The writers were conveying the current morality and ideals of life, love and marriage of today's China. We were 'taught' the profiles (and thoughts and actions) of 'ordinary' men, and 'ideal' men. We (Westerners) also got a glimpse of how Chinese view the role and place of women. Jilin is a portrait of the ideal Chinese woman... Beautiful, wise, authentic, strong and loyal. That no matter what has happened (financial crisis, husband's job loss, mistress, etc), she is expected still look after the family and household (cook, laundry, cleaning, sex, financial management, school chauffere, etc). Love is not a requirement. I get the sense, from my Western cultural bias, that it still sucks to be a Jilin in today's China. 🀄

Que amor el de Han 😍final abierto una luz de esperanza para ella El un cobarde como.padre y hombre 😎😖 no merece el amor de su hijo ni la lastima de ella

Please make a different ending. Make him get back on his feet, and cry when his wife leaves him to be with gorgeous Han. He's lost his mistress, and his wife.

女主妹妹一番话说得很好，对女主很失望，被渣男出轨和离婚这段時间，是谁在陪她

Such an unfortunate ending. The man left his wife and kid like nothing, but the wife abandons the other guy who really loves her because her ex-husband got injured? There's other ways to help your kid's dad without getting back together, the women has her own life too, going back to an ex-husband who gave you and your kid up for someone else is just plain disrespectful, not just to herself, but to her kid. I know this is just a storyline, but I wish they would focus less on ratings and more on the fact that women should not disrespect themselves by going back to cheaters

What a HORRIBLE ending!! She let go of someone who REALLY loves her for this dirt bag! She’ll NEVER be happy with him. She will constantly remember the things he did to her. WHAT AN IDIOT WOMAN!

Ese impresentable es capaz de no curarse tan solo para que lo cuiden, así de cobarde y egoista es ese exmarido… ella no tiene perdón si se sacrifica por nada y por un don nadie … esperaba un final razonable y con un amor merecido…quizás ella tampoco merezca el amor desinteresado de Han💔

The husband has a hide expecting to play happy families again, but we all know it was only lust with the other woman. She was jealous of his wife so she stole him for revenge. She crippled him in every way and ran to leave the ex wife to pick up the pieces. She looks after him because she still loves him and always did, but this pain will run deep in her heart forever. 😭

Que final horrível!! Revoltada com a atitude dessa mulher. Se esse ex marido tivesse um pingo de vergonha na cara e carinho por ela, não se aproveitaria dela. 😡🤬

Final mediocre y como exponen.asi.ala mujer tener que sacrificarse ella para cuidar al tipo que la humilló y abandono con su hijo para irse con la amante estos chinos dejan muy mal parada con este tipo de dramas

She loves Han already but she pitied her husband who was paralysed for her son. My heart goes to Han who is willing to wait no matter what.

一定是男人拍攝的這個男人還會原諒怎樣可能以係男人出軌有病就有前妻來照顧真係想得太美了

這個老公根本就不應理他😡有一個好男人愛自己又不接受❓有穿金戴銀同做到咁高層都不要❓這個靚女人做這個角色…令好多人多失望😵

This woman is such a fool!!! This man would never take her back even though she is his sons mother. What a lame excuse. He does not love you. He left you for the woman he loves. You thing sacrificing your love will make him love you. He will just do what he did for 16 years, taka, take, take, until you have nothing more to give. Then he will leave you again!

Жена сделала правильный выбор выбрав мужа, он отец ее сына, мамы всегда должны думать о детей первым делом молодец настоящая мама ❤🎉

Me parece que los que opinan sobre el final están equivocados. Ella no se queda con el esposo. Es una persona generosa, amable y compasiva sin olvidar que es el padre de su hijo y nunca va a dejar de serlo. Cuando se reúne con la persona que ama y escucha que la va a esperar siempre, el silencio de ella es un acuerdo tácito entre ambos para esperarse mutuamente. Es un hermoso final de un amor generoso, sublime y sin egoísmos. Son ellos dos y sus sentimientos sin importar el espacio o el tiempo . Siempre juntos !!!!!!!!!!

Ran across this by accident. I'm so glad I did! This was a powerful story of humanity! Hope that I find more like it.

Wow he is a real piece of work, before all he cared about was the mistress and the the baby that never was.

編劇編的很離譜，因為真實的人事應該不會重圓，既然當初離婚是因為對方出軌，而且是自己選擇，何必再把前夫找來受罪呢？

Trocar sua felicidade com um homem que honra o q prometeu,por um filho q ao crescer te deixa de lado sem pensar um segundo e ficar com o homem q te trocou por outra e nem por um minuto manteve sua palavra, isso eu jamais faria. A escolha foi dele.

I know it says the ending. But one can hope for her heart to be filled with not only the unselfish love of her son but the unfaltering love of Han Zhijie. Love will prevail.....

这个女人的悲剧是自己造成的 如果这是她的选择 她只是感动了自己... 她的确不配拥有幸福 所以不幸福 只能说是活该了

Thankyou for a lovely film .Linda Bellamy UK

照顧前夫跟追求幸福可以不衝突啊！請個人照顧前夫富商可以輕易做到不是？總得給全天下負心出軌的男人一個警示吧！女人這麼縱容男人，難怪男人可以毫無顧慮的出軌囉！

ENSEÑANZA DE HUMILDAD Y RESPETO X LO QUE SE LLAMA AMAR DE VERDAD. WUAOO. CUANTA FALTA NOS HACE EN ESTE MUNDO PERSONAS COMO ESTE HOMBRE. ME ENCANTA LA LECCIÓN QUE LE ESTÁ DANDO.

這個女人真的很笨，前老公的情況可以請24小時護理。沒必要再去傷另外一個痴情的男人

Tem meios de atender uma pessoa deficiente,não precisa abrir mão do casamento sincero por uma pessoa que se portou tão sem caráter,quando se recuperar vai fazer tudo de novo ou até mesmo estando nessa condição devemos sempre ver com a razão é não com a emoção.

Nossa que decepção, tem mulher que gosta de sofrer , prefere se afastar do cara que gosta e cuida dela , pra cuidar do traste que mentiu, enganou e só fez ela sofrer... Revoltada 😡

世界有這種好男人去等一個唔知幾時先會回到自己身邉做老婆❤真的是絕了🙏

前妻只是單純因為前夫是兒子的生父，此外，前夫是被騙愛上小三，他們夫妻兩人並未撕破臉的結下仇恨，他們之間的多年夫妻深情，都讓女主不得不光明正大照顧前夫。如果我是這位前妻，也會取得現任丈夫信任和諒解，幫助前夫康復...這是一部發揮人性光明面的愛情家庭劇。按讚！

非常不合理的結局 前面看的 浪費時間 同情可以用其他方式幫忙 而不是放棄追求幸福

Los finales que el que gana es el que traiciona, y en los que la mujer cree que debe olvidarse de ella por hacer feliz a los hijos.

講的冠冕堂皇，前妻也是渣女一個，前妻內心只想她終於贏小三了，講的多好聽，不過我想富豪終於離開渣女前妻了，他一定會找到比渣女前妻更好的人，這樣想我心裏就好多了。

我想就是因為有人寫這样的故事，有人拍這样的戲劇，造成一個社會價值觀，也間接縱容了小三的養成。男人玩殘自己後还可以回到原配那兒受到照顧，没有遭到報應。原配女人很偉大嗎?也不見得，對於那位愛她的男性是一種折磨，也非常殘忍，她不應該把被抛棄的經歷，又推给另一個人去接受這傷痛。我希望社會大众集体吔棄小三，讓她們無地自容，不得再度拆散其他正常家庭。纠正這股歪風。

At the end of this drama, I fully understand why she did it, I beleive she doesnt love her husband any more, however been loyal to him is a sense of morality not to mention her son is happy, when she walked across to talk to her future husband!?, there was love in their eyes and most important understanding of the situation, he will wait for her and she Will go to him soon!!!, that kind of love is the most beautiful unselfish love there is, is all going to be okey, he said it all and she understood and walked away but not forever!, next time in the series it will concluded that real loves is willing to understand and wait. Can't wait to see more.

El la ama de verdad . Que hermoso 💚 el la esperara

這部劇，說明了什麼是成全，無論是否殘缺 只不過人面臨到眼前看的時候，發現自己的選擇，永遠跟實際情況是不一樣的 最後的這句成全，也就是不是成全，只是遺憾了

What????? That sucks....for her and the kid. But the other guy is better off away from that hot mess! Lol

Qué final más absurdo!!!!

Люди не меняются. Бежать надо от предателей!

Me encantó la hermana lo re ignoro..perfecto

幻想剧！想改變單純女生的想法！出軌，道德觀念已經偏差的男人，要原諒他？，這一部劇是想要洗腦，要原諒出軌的男人？門都沒有！😅

Historia interesante desde el punto de vista sentimental, lo ideal es que hubiera dejado k una persona cuidara al exesposo y visitarlo de vez en cuando con el esposo e hijo de ella con el canalla, mil disculpas; no tenía k hacer sacrificios x el bien del hijo, yo creo más bien k la esposa todavía lo queria x eso no se casa en su momento con su prometido, no entiendo este final ni lo creo, se ve k la autoestima de ella está muy baja y la enseñanza para su hijo k le deja? Gracias a las actuaciones de todos, me encantó el desempeño del actor k actúa como prometido de la exesposa y que no se queda con ella solo en espera! Muchas gracias

Mesmo sendo um Dorama!!! Não gostei do final. Ele e muito egoísta deixou a desejar com seu egoísmo, ele retornou a casa dela como se nada aconteceu. Ela não se valoriza não tem amor próprio e submissa a um homem que não a valorisou. Que lastima o Han tinha que se valorizar, ele perde muito tempo de sua vida amando e esperando uma pessoa que não o valoriza. Tem alguns Doramas com alguns episódios, e meio semelhante com a vida real. Obtemos muitas falhas em nossa jornada e muita dor para aqueles que são lastimados. Temos que aprender a nós valorizar levantando a cabeça com alto estima tocando a vida a frente, como se fosse um vento calmo tocando em nosso rosto, e não com um vento turbulento que destrói tudo que vem a frente, assim são algumas pessoas que aparece em nossas vidas pra nós lástima trasendo muita dor e sofrimento. Temos que pensar o que não queremos para nós também não desejamos para o próximo, assim que temos que nós valorizar e valorizar muito a quem realmente nós dar valor.

Q tristeza, yo al ver llorar a mi hijo hablaria con el y le explicaria q su padre es su padrecy nada cambiara pero ella debe seguir, duele y mucho pero quien traiciona una vez lo vuelve a hacer que no......

Que final un desastre total, y unos papeles donde la mujer es ridículamente tratada, sin voluntad ni carácter. PATÉTICO YA NO ESTAMOS PARA ESTE TIPO DE FINALES NI DRAMAS donde de alguna manera sr violenta el papel de la mujer.

She is crazy to stay with the cheater and my god the other guy is too awesome. It’s a rarity to have someone like that.

Esse Dorama lindo, porém o final triste 😪

No me gusta que se quede con su exmarido... ella tiene que reahacer su vida, ese final es un fraude!😡😡😡

这种结局让关心她人失望，让痴情于她的人遗憾，糟糕的结局！

Какие у них прекрасные фильмы ,без крика и ораний как в казахских фильмах

que pasaría si vuelve la amante con el otro hijo que espera y ya el esté recuperado ella volverá a quedar sola que mal final los hijos con el tiempo se van ahí ella conocerá la verdadera soledad

Nos deja muy mal paradas a las mujeres .aguantar a un adúltero ?esos son así toda la vida no cambian .que desperdicio de mi tiempo haberla visto esta serie me dejó enojada.😡😡😡😡😡😡😡

You Can Forgive Someone Without Living With Them, Questioning Yourself Daily He 's Only With Me Because Of His aBody Conditions

Is this the end????? It's very terrible. Unintelligent.

Que fria,que sea infeliz tampoco merece nada,ni siquiera le sonrio y le ofreció de todo para que el estuviera cuidado,es una estupides que diga que se sacrifica lo hace de pura ganas..Horrible todo

This was stupid on all levels, she found a great guy who loved her & her son and y’all have her go back to @$$hat that cheated and dumped her. 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

Любовь профурсетки ге выдержала испытаний - укатила со своей великой любовью в Америку. Очень жаль жену, она пожертвовала собой ради изменника мужа. Очень жаль, что не сможет быть с любимым человеком. Но как мать, я ее понимаю. Сын очень любит своего отца

Leave your him alone Get a nurse to take care of him.This cheater arrogant husband is taking advantage of her

When I saw this drama last year, I was so angry by its ending that I kicked the wall several times.Played on my mind constantly that I was really irritable...I really want to kick that jerk,and throw him out wheelchair and all in the water...now I want to slap the ex-wife to wake her up from that limbo.

Ese tipo es un sinverguenza, tanto que la hizo sufrir a ella y a su propio hijo por una mujer que no valia ni la mitad de lo que vale la esposa y ahora se la pasa sonriendo como si nada. Ella debe casarse con el otro señor y que aprenda que el fue el que abadono primero.Por suerte la vi por pedazos.

看到這種結局（文字），又是父權思維，要靠這樣洗腦多少女性呢？

I loved this series but don't like the ending. He betrayed her, humiliated her, didn't value all she did for him, she deserves to be with the man who truly loves her and her son. The husband should let her be happy.

Final decepcionante, típico de las mujeres que consideran que ser sufridas es un galardón para colgar con orgullo en el pecho. Mujeres ... SOLO SE TIENE 1 VIDA. Más autoestima por favor. Tuvo huevos para dejarla, pero no los tiene para afrontar un accidente. ¡ Hay pobrecito, no vaya a ser que se suicide ! POR FAVOR ES UN ADULTO DUEÑO DE SUS ACTOS, y manipulador. Al hijo le tendría que poner un psicólogo para que comprenda que las relaciones no siempre son eternas, que ella debe seguir su camino y que su papito ya está bien grandecito para decidir si se faja bien los pantalones y aprende a vivir con su discapacidad como lo hacen muchas personas que merecen todo mi respeto y admiración, pues son muy inspiradoras por hacerle frente a la vida.

Duvidooooo, que se fosse Ela, a ter problemas de saúde se Ele faria esse sacrifício. Realmente, tendo casas de saúde e enfermagem, não precisava Ela abrir mão da vida dela. E no mais os filhos crescem e vão viver suas vidas. Mas, infelizmente, tem mulheres que agem assim, até mesmo no Brasil e na vida bem real.

最差的結局。不需再看。

中國女人真的很偉大！穿著高跟鞋，還能輕鬆推著坐輪椅的壯漢沿河岸漫步，嗚，這要是真實人生，我給跪了。

Случись с бывшей женой такое, он бы не вернулся, чтобы ухаживать за ней, да и любовница не позволила бы такому быть. Что ж так цепляться за прошлое, зачем эти самопожертвования?

编剧思维太落伍，还停留在仅仅会赞美女性的贤惠善良的品质上，这往往是中国男人对中国女性的期许。现代女性的内涵、价值应该大大超过贤惠善良这种层面，虽然这是必要的。中国男性作者思想贫乏认知层面低已经被时代抛弃了，可惜中国媒体被政府垄断，才给了他们一口饭吃，不然这种水平的剧本根本不会被拍成电视剧，换到韩国试试！

男人在外面風流怎么没想有残廢的一天？

El niño super espectacular su actuacion todo

Lamentavel ...depois de tantas humilhacoes,ainda vai cuidar desse marido ingrato!!Final injusto!!

The fact is it happens in reality many times. The man abandons his family for a younger female who he thinks will dance to him. When at last he reality hits, he wants his family back. It is my experience too. I have not taken him back, but I'm a softie so later I don't know. I may take him back, but my kids(they were in school) now both working youths say I'll be a fool if I take him back.

妳自己去做偉大的前妻吧！看下去，真是浪費！

無聊的婚姻無聊的爰情雙重打擊男人明知故犯不應該原諒而且錯了無數次這位太太不可思議如果社會的婚姻是這樣沒有一點教育意義

Que poca mujer. No tiene autoestima, se deja y es un felpudo o trapo de piso de su ex

Wow that ending just sucks! If he could walk, he would run to the arms of some other woman. She left a man that truly cared and loved her for a cad!

I really enjoyed this, the Actors the Story line was very Relatable, Culturally it all basses Infidelity is Painful but One should not have to Sacrifice their Happiness out of Loyalty.Peace

Зачем она вернулась к бывшему?он же эгоист,нельзя из жалости к одному портить жизнь себе,достойному мужчине и сыну,хотя сын и любит отца,но в сложившейся ситуации мальчику будет лучше с мужчиной который принял их,а не с отцом предателем.