너무 좋은 의견이고 댓글입니다. 저희도 루다를 위해서 낳는건 아니라고 생각하는 결론에 이르렀어요. 동생을 원해도 막상 낳으면 심한 질투를 하는 경우도 많고.. 둘을 키운다고 육아가 2배 힘든게 아닌 10배 이상 힘들다고도 하고..저희 둘이 준비가 되었을 때 시도하고 낳는게 맞지요 ! 가족을 하나 더 맞이한다는건 큰 결심이 필요하기에 저희가 많은 고민을 하고 있는거 같아요. 심지어 유튜브도 운영하고 있기에 더더욱이요. 조금 더 고민해보고 상의하고 결단을 내려야할거 같아요 😂 조언 감사합니다💕 모두가 보면 좋을거 같아 고정 !

I love this answer!! It’s a decision for you & your husband always and MJ I know you deal with back issues that would also be something else to consider as well. You & your husband will do what’s best for your family ❤ Love you guys 🥰

진정부부님이 결정 하는게 맞습니다!!! 제3자는 감이니 팥이니 하기는 그런네예; 잘 키운 울이삐 루다는 열아들 안 부럽다고 생각 하는 1인 입니더~~ 울이삐루다 오늘 밥을 잘 먹어서 이뽀요~💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

저도 의견에 동감합니다

맞는 말씀 입니다. 다만 40된 외동남자로 자라온 전 사실 조금 외로울때가 있습니다. 특히 매일매일이 좋은 일만 있는게 아니기에. 5년전에 아버지가 큰 사고 났을때 혼자서 일 처리 하러 다니고 이런건 힘든게 아니였습니다. 단지 옆에서 위로갈 될 형, 누나, 동생이 없다는거에 많이 외로웠어요. 그렇다고 부모님에게 내색은 못 하니까요. 뒤에서 얼마나 눈물이 나던지. 다들 자라온 환경이 다르니 생각은 다릅니다. 단지 루다가 너무 귀여워서 잘 보고 있는 사람중 하나입니다. 루다야 건강하게 자라자^^

Agreed 👍 👍

Perfectly said

아주 사실

요즘 지자체와 함께 지원 엄청나요 7세까지 거의 매달 100만원 지원합니다. 7년동안 지원금 8천모아놓으면 중고등학원비 충분히 감당되고 대학가면 본인이 알바하면 됩니다. 최저시급도 높으니 걱정 안해도 되죠

저도 이 감정 😂

유전자가 아깝긴하죠 ㅎㅎ

@@abbaddoddsj23 현 상황에서 루다가 원하니까죠

루다 동생 있었으면 좋겠는데. 부부의 생각이 중요하죠.^^😊 루다어머니 화이팅.

시청자들누구?ㅋㅋ일반화시키지마세요 루다 힘들게고생해서 낳으신거아는데 시청자누가원한다는거..

저도 자매라면 고민이 덜 될거 같아요ㅎㅎ 자매 만들어주고픈..

Yeah but having a sibling is so important imo, it teaches you a lot of value lessons

@@mayamagination but sigblings are persons too, it wouldn't be ok have another baby just for the first one learn values

Agreed with you, Rosalie😊💝🌷

@@julialo3727 ty sweetie! 🤗🌷💜

I so agree

Ruda deserves privacy & a normal childhood, her parents are exploiting her for the $$ they earn, it’s like child actors but no laws to protect them. You wanting to see a stranger on the internet is parasocial & very invasive. Plus predators use the images of little girls for their own perverted pleasure. She could be kidnapped & harmed. See how many recognise & approach her in public.

Just don't have them too close in age and you are fine. I love my sibling and wouldn't trade them for the world. But I was only 1 and a half when my sibling was born. I have a memory when I was 2 (sibling about 6 months) and wanted my mom to hold me, I was crying and well 2, my mom would say "Now, now, you are the older child. You have to wait your turn. I can't hold you right now because I'm holding the baby." I always remember having to wait my turn. And then it never stopped. When I was 3 and a half my sibling was 2, they always had to be held first because "They are the youngest and will fuss and you are the oldest. You know better. Be the big kid for mom right now, ok?" If you have a baby when the child is 3 or 4 or even 5, then I could it not being like what my childhood was like. Because by then the child will want to run around and explore their world. At that age they are also good at playing with toys by themselves and listening to rules.

5:53 They are right about the child's cost. Growing up I was more aware of our money problems than my sibling. At age 8, I could see my mom barely had enough for us and spent none for herself. For 10 years she wore the same clothes and shoes even though they had holes in them and refused to buy new for herself because she had to buy clothes for us cause we kept growing. Then in middle school and high school my sibling was always in some sort of sport or stage production. Soccer, tennis, musical theatre, art classes, etc. It cost a lot of money. My mom would ask me "Don't you want to do any sports or activities?" I refused because I knew we couldn't afford it. It was only when later in grade 12 I went on a foreign exchange trip for myself. My sibling kept saying "You don't do anything but school! Do some activity! You don't do sports! You don't join clubs! Why? Do something!" So I got a job and paid for half the trip and my mom paid the other half. It was a good trip. :)

Даа это правильно!!!!😊

정색하셨네 아줌씨 그냥 바램 하는거겠지.ㅋ

으아 정말 너무 힘드셨겠어요ㅜㅜ 그럴땐 어떻게 해야하나요 흑흑

그런가봐요~ 안된다(?) 얘들아

저도 맏이다보니 더더 고민이 많은거랍니다. 맏딸의 역할이란...😂 집집마다 상황이 같은건 아니지만서도 어쨌든 루다도 동생이 생기면 맏이가 되는거기에.. 동생이 있어서 장점보다 단점이 많긴 했습니다 저도(엉클 미안). 자매라면 또 달랐겠지만요. 어쨌든 집안에 큰 일이 생겼을 때 동생이 있으니 든든한건 있더라구요. 저희 부부가 더 많이 상의하고 이야기 나눠볼게요 !

Agreed with you, Marguerite!😘💖🌷

Both of my parents were only children, so they wanted me to have a sibling so I wouldn't be lonely growing up. So I do have a younger brother. I most enjoyed teaching him things and bossing him around. Other than that, he was pretty obnoxious--always clowning around and getting into trouble at school for being so disruptive in the classroom. My friends would actually tell me that they felt sorry for me that I had HIM as a brother. We fought a lot until we were teenagers, and then we bonded over rebelling against our strict parents. We got along well until his first marriage ended. Now we are much more distanced as brother and sister. I have been slowly awakening to the fact that he and I are very different, and although my loyalty to him as his sister remains, he has a much stronger alliance with the members of his new wife's family. My sense is that he is just staying in touch as a dutiful brother, but he doesn't show any real interest in my life or who I am, says we have nothing in common, and clearly would not have my back unless I set foot on his doorstep and had to beg him to take me in for some reason. He's not the kind of brother I would like to have. All this just to say: Every family is different, so it's best not to assume that "a sibling is the greatest gift you can give" a child. Just is not always the case.

형 로다 ㄴ ㄴ 루다에요 ㅠㅠㅠ

"Mom" just spent a year getting her body back to a shape she likes, so, nope.

😂

Юленька, привет. Рада встрече у нашей любимой Рудочки. Полностью с тобой согласна, если закроется канал, мы будем скучать за нашей девочкой Рудой. Юля, у нас всё хорошо. Сейчас отдыхаем, в отпуске.

@@user-ms7yv1fv6e Танечка, как же я рада, что ты мне ответила именно у нашей любимой девочки!👍😘💖🌷 Хорошего вам отдыха!❤ Потом напиши мне в нашей переписке, буду очень ждать😍💝

@@user-ms7yv1fv6e Танечка, каким-то чудом нашла твой комментарий и решила написать здесь. Только что я написала тебе в нашей переписке, надеюсь ты получишь оба мои сообщения. Буду рада твоему ответу, хотела бы продолжить нашу переписку, если ты не против, обнимаю🙏❤😘

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