Engagement Ring vs. Wedding Ring: What's the Difference?

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Күн бұрын

What’s the difference between an engagement ring and a wedding ring? This question is a lot more common than you think. You’ve probably heard the terms engagement ring, proposal ring, #weddingring, wedding band and bridal set used to describe the rings that people wear when they get engaged and married. But what's the difference??
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@mohitmehrotra3026 2 жыл бұрын

Two rings are just a construct to make more $$$ for the jewellery Industry

@Strikes_Midnight 3 жыл бұрын

You need the wedding band to do ring exchange at your ceremony people! You don't need two but the wedding band is usually the more simple of the two and completes the look.

@loulalucille8946 5 жыл бұрын

I cannot thank you enough for this video!!! My boyfriend didn't understand what ring was what. This video explained it in "guy terms".

@abbysparksjewelry 5 жыл бұрын

Haha love this! He's not alone, I get questions about this from my clients more often then you may believe :) Glad I was able to help!!

@a004 3 жыл бұрын

Tbh I'm still confused

@kwasidapaah8383 2 жыл бұрын

I came to get clarity as well lol

@matg3802 3 жыл бұрын

Shout out to my fellow guys learning something new today.

@shutdowngoogle Күн бұрын

Yes! That we don't need to have 2 rings to marry 1 women. Women need to learn to appreciate they even got a ring and value it.

@alyssa568 5 жыл бұрын

im fine with just getting one ring tbh\

@abbysparksjewelry 5 жыл бұрын

Totally! I know lots of people who only get one ring, and they didn't think twice about it. There is no "right" way to do it, whatever feels good to you is the right way :)

@1840437 3 жыл бұрын

Hell yeah

@DPLmainYT 2 жыл бұрын

Yeah, two is too much for me.. keep it simple 😉

@mariorodriguez1476 4 жыл бұрын

This is great and it answered all my questions thank you

@alexandromontoya3839 4 жыл бұрын

I was so confused with the 2 rings thanks for this video

@abbysparksjewelry 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching, happy to help!

@MedicatedGamerr Ай бұрын

Same 😂

@shutdowngoogle Күн бұрын

They only need 1. Just like in the old times. Don't let jewelers ruin your life

@kidustekeste5892 7 ай бұрын

Very helpful! I was a bit kinda stressed either I need to do surprises on both. But yes, more collaborative work together on the wedding ring just sounds perfect!

@joseph4964 4 жыл бұрын

Multiple people have tried to explain it to me and i still had so many questions! Thanks for giving me all the facts in a quick easy video!

@abbysparksjewelry 4 жыл бұрын

Haha it can be hard to wrap your head around at first! 🙂Glad I could help!!

@shutdowngoogle Күн бұрын

You only need 1 ring! Not 2 or 3. If they don't like or appreciate it. You are with the wrong woman PERIOD!

@bakidkurosaki1182 4 жыл бұрын

Glad my friend recommended meet this video it was really helpful thank you 😊

@abbysparksjewelry 4 жыл бұрын

You're welcome! Thanks for watching 🙂

@halamadrid6733 4 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the advice, I was thinking to get the engagement set and that way it comes with engagement ring and the wedding ring together and never thought of my gf actually going out and looking for a wedding ring

@supernova11711 2 жыл бұрын

We ordered a set. It’s better that way (IMO) because then they accent each other and fit together perfectly.

@lapisthehuman Жыл бұрын

@@supernova11711my question is this if I get a bridal set and it comes with her engagement ring plus wedding ring yeah they accent and match each other but what should I do about my ring? Because the ring the set come with has these gems all over and I’m wondering if a plain band for me would be right? Or should I match our rings up seperate from the engagement ring?

@alexcastillo2076 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for explaining which ring goes first :)

@Henrys.slots1 Жыл бұрын

Thank you. Really was confused until I saw this video.

@lmaobroz9901 3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for the info

@tranquility9325 5 жыл бұрын

I dont see comments right now but yes Abby it all depends on personal preference. Hugs, have a good week!

@jovannycarino4273 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for the advice!

@abbysparksjewelry 4 жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful! 🙂

@omarperezrodriguez1827 5 ай бұрын

Thank you for the information

@chretiensmith3325 3 жыл бұрын

That helped me out so much, next year in going to propose to my girlfriend and don't know much about this stuff

@kariay50 3 жыл бұрын

Congrats!

@jdubdoubleu 5 жыл бұрын

So, does she wear two rings together, or does the wedding ring replace the engagement ring during the wedding? What if im not buying the two rings as a set, do i purchase the engagement ring, then later purchase the wedding ring? Im overwhelmed!

@abbysparksjewelry 5 жыл бұрын

Not to worry! The only ring you need to get her first is the engagement ring. You can shop for the wedding and engagement ring together, but typically women like to help pick out the wedding ring. Make it easy on yourself, get the engagement ring first, pop the question, and then go shopping for wedding rings together. Typically women will wear their engagement rings with their wedding ring together, not as a replacement. But it's also a personal preference! The process of getting engaged can be really overwhelming, but I'm sure you'll do amazing! Just focus on getting that engagement ring first. :)

@ameliemarez2206 3 жыл бұрын

Why can the same ring you propose with be the same one you use at the ceremony... like why spend so much money!

@Muzicboy3 Жыл бұрын

I’m with you jdub … I’m with you brotha

@Countcho 8 ай бұрын

This is so beyond confusing. Is it a set? No idea.

@Disappearit 3 жыл бұрын

What if the engagement ring doesn’t match the wedding ring? Or like fit together?

@choshow86 2 жыл бұрын

So when I buy her engagement ring she wears that until the wedding and at the wedding does she not wear the engagement ring or does she just put the wedding ring on with the engagement ring?

@abbysparksjewelry 5 жыл бұрын

What did the process of getting your own wedding ring look like?

@lindsayfloyd2299 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you. The pressure is off of me. Lol

@mysticallavish1360 3 жыл бұрын

My bf proposed to me and chose my wedding ring with me. I'm ok with no engagement ring. I still will buy his wedding ring but we haven't chose his yet.

@ThatcherEdwardsGC 11 ай бұрын

I’m a just get an engagement ring then get a wedding ring set Later This video really helped me make up my mind

@Nahnod22 4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for this

@abbysparksjewelry 4 жыл бұрын

You're welcome!

@lyfestylemuzik7931 Жыл бұрын

Thanks Abby 😉

@eddierodriguez40 4 жыл бұрын

This helped lol thanks

@Salih.EduBlock 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you 🙏🏽.

@derricklawson4614 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you

@ufuomaogbonna2981 Жыл бұрын

Am I to put on d engagement ring before the wedding ring

@muhingirajeremih7752 4 жыл бұрын

On which finger do you wear the engagement ring

@taniahurtado6624 2 жыл бұрын

Can I use an "engagement ring" as a wedding ring instead of the typical wedding band?

@shaherharden9636 3 жыл бұрын

hey thanks a lot !

@DayNja1423 Жыл бұрын

do you need to get another ring , ie cant we just use the engament ring as the wedding ring?

@caecae2726 3 жыл бұрын

Oh wow! I thought it was only one ring now I find out there's three rings. 😱

@mabelidove6813 6 ай бұрын

Can one ring be used as both the engagement and wedding ring?

@tinkerbell2882 5 жыл бұрын

So how do i wear my rings the engament goes on first then the othere peice at a ceremony

@abbysparksjewelry 5 жыл бұрын

Great question! Some of my clients will wear their engagement ring on their right hand on their wedding day so that the wedding ring can be placed on their ring finger during the ceremony, and then they'll put their engagement ring back on stacked on top of their wedding ring. But I've also seen clients who just wear their engagement ring normally and have the wedding ring stacked on top of it during the ceremony. It's really about whatever feels comfortable to you!

@hectorruiz1291 3 жыл бұрын

So just wondering I'm going to upgrade my wife's ring for our anniversary. But is it necessary to get a wedding band or just a really nice ring?

@JMac-27 3 жыл бұрын

Does she want an upgrade, girls can be very sentimental. Depending on what you are getting because the rings need to sit flush which means they nestle up next to each other without a gap. I'd tell her you are going to get her ring cleaned and take it with you to purchase the new ring and have them tell you what will work design wise.

@hectorruiz1291 3 жыл бұрын

Well it's for our 6th year anniversary. So kinda wanted it to be a surprise.

@tiffanyann8258 5 жыл бұрын

When does the male receive his ring ? Do we go shopping for his afterwards or wait until the wedding day ?

@abbysparksjewelry 5 жыл бұрын

Traditionally they would have purchased the wedding ring before the ceremony, and then they would actually receive their wedding ring at the wedding ceremony and wear it from that day forward. However, I've seen more and more men going against tradition and wearing a ring like their fiancé wears an engagement ring before the actual wedding to show their commitment with their partner. You and your partner should do whatever feels right to you! If you want to start wearing your rings right away wear them! If your man wants to wait until the ceremony, that's ok too. It's about what feels right for your relationship :)

@brittanyrix9803 4 жыл бұрын

No u need to have the ring before the wedding lol

@Sarahlivingmagically 3 жыл бұрын

Do you wear the ring on the wedding day or does he put on the ring and band on her together the day of the wedding?

@MilitantTalker 3 жыл бұрын

I've always wondered this too

@markmiller-lm3gg 5 жыл бұрын

thank y0u for your help...n0w ikn0w what to do.✌

@abbysparksjewelry 5 жыл бұрын

You're welcome! Happy to help :)

@YourMaj3sty1 7 ай бұрын

I don't get it. So on wedding day, do you tell your fiancé to take off the engagement ring? I'm confused

@Exploer8591 3 жыл бұрын

I still don't understand which is the engagement ring and which is the wedding band. Is the engagement ring the one with the larger diamond?

@abbysparksjewelry 2 жыл бұрын

Typically the engagement ring has the larger center stone, and the band is more simple in design with smaller stones. But really these rings can look like whatever you want them to, these "rules" are just a tradition and by no means a one-size-fits-all approach. Things are definitely changing and people are more and more getting rings that appeal more to their personal preference.

@emileagenor5683 5 жыл бұрын

Would you suggest purchasing one online and which online retailer? James Allen?

@abbysparksjewelry 5 жыл бұрын

Hi Emile! Great question! I usually recommend seeing the ring or the materials being used to make the ring in person if you can. If you do decide to go the online route, you don't always know for sure what you're going to get, so make sure the jeweler you choose is someone you can trust. Read lots of reviews, do research on the quality or ethics factors that are important to you, and ask a ton of questions!

@emileagenor5683 5 жыл бұрын

@@abbysparksjewelry Abby, I appreciate the quick response! I have a very specific budget and enough details (4Cs) to make an informed decision. I'm just struggling with finding legitimate assistance with finding the most authentic and beautiful wedding ring I can find with my specific budget, can you help me out?

@abbysparksjewelry 5 жыл бұрын

@@emileagenor5683 I would love to help! It might be easier to give us a call so we can get all the information about the ring and your budget in more detail, then we can better help direct you towards what you're looking for. Our phone # is on this page: abbysparks.com/contact/

@leroyatleroys 5 жыл бұрын

The love of my life is particular. She is not materialistic. She actually hates expensive things. So I have decided to make the rings myself. She also has jewelry allergies so I am going to have to get very creative with the metal I choose to use. That being said, since she doesn’t like buying expensive stuff, should I make the wedding ring or should I just make the engagement rings and then let her tell me what she wants for the design of the wedding ring?

@abbysparksjewelry 5 жыл бұрын

That is such a thoughtful thing to do! I bet she will love it, especially because you made it, that makes the ring so special. Some tips for metal that are hypoallergenic, go with palladium or platinum and you shouldn't have any problems. And then wether or not you want to loop her in for the wedding ring is up to you! I know in my video I mention that she'll have opinions, but there is no "right" way to do this. Go with your gut, if you feel like she's going to enjoy making that wedding ring with you then wait on the wedding ring, but if you think that she'll love the surprise of both rings then you should surprise her :)

@leroyatleroys 5 жыл бұрын

Abby Sparks Jewelry Thanks for the input! :)

@abbysparksjewelry 5 жыл бұрын

@@leroyatleroys Of course! Glad I could help!

@rocketfatts7769 5 жыл бұрын

Everybody should know this

@jasmineb4787 4 жыл бұрын

Not trying to be offensive but nobody knows everything

@codliverwell1832 2 жыл бұрын

So, I hope you guys understand that it's not the ring that makes a wedding perfect. Weddings can be perfect without a ring too

@alexloera2013 Жыл бұрын

Cheap bastard

@ygbodybuilder3023 Жыл бұрын

So the engagement ring can be returned to the store

@THX-1138 Жыл бұрын

Legendary video right here

@kadianedwards632 2 ай бұрын

What if there are 3 pieces?

@TycoonstoryMedia-gd9nu Жыл бұрын

The ring is presented as an expression of betrothal, representing two hearts pledging themselves in marriage until the circle of life is complete. As a visible reminder of their connection and union, this small but significant gesture will proudly signify that special bond for years to come. - Tycoonstory Media

@nathanielcopperfish912 4 жыл бұрын

How does the guy get his ring? and he buys 3 rings? One engagement ring and two wedding rings?

@abbysparksjewelry 4 жыл бұрын

Typically what I've seen is couples will get their wedding rings together, after the proposal with the engagement ring. Usually my clients pay for their wedding rings together, as a team. But it really just depends on your relationship and how you and your partner want to get married! There are no rules :)

@nathanielcopperfish912 4 жыл бұрын

@@abbysparksjewelry Does the guy get an engagement ring?

@abbysparksjewelry 4 жыл бұрын

Historically/Traditionally no, typically men will only have a wedding ring. But I'm also seeing this start to shift in today's society since now both partners in a relationship are much more equal and traditional gender roles are no longer important. I've had couples where a woman proposes to a man with an engagement ring before he proposes, or they both propose to each other, in which case then yes, he does get an engagement ring. Ed Sheeran and his fiancee both wore an engagement ring, so times are definitely changing

@Muzicboy3 Жыл бұрын

Is the wedding ring just the band?

@laurakhan 4 жыл бұрын

I need to buy 2 rings-

@joseestrada3290 4 жыл бұрын

So when I propose should I give her the ring with the diamond or the band ?

@abbysparksjewelry 4 жыл бұрын

Traditionally speaking you would propose with the ring that has a diamond or gemstone on it, and then give the band during your wedding ceremony. But nowadays it's really up to you, do what feels right for you + your relationship. It also doesn't hurt to talk to your partner and find out what they are expecting for each ring, and this may take some of the pressure off of you too to have to just guess what it is they want

@emilendahunga 2 жыл бұрын

@@abbysparksjewelry ☝️🤙❤️👌✅ I love this.

@MrDonwholio 5 жыл бұрын

So if im trying to surprise her how do i know what size to get so that i dont have to later go get it resized?

@abbysparksjewelry 5 жыл бұрын

Don, I talk about this exact dilemma in this video! :) ----> kzfaq.info/get/bejne/prhzrJl1z96VlqM.html Hope it helps! Let me know if you have any questions after watching!

@MrDonwholio 5 жыл бұрын

Got it thanks. Was hard to hear with the volume on high and the phone in my ear. But thanks ill see what i can do

@abbysparksjewelry 5 жыл бұрын

@@MrDonwholio This is really great feedback, I'm new to KZfaq and might need to invest in some better sound equipment. Thanks again for your message and feedback! Glad I could help.

@MrDonwholio 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you for the help andx replies

@paulvelez6256 5 ай бұрын

What about 3 rings

@Stacy967 3 жыл бұрын

I’m married without ring

@ismaelcuadrarivera6991 3 жыл бұрын

so the wedding and engagement rings have to match?

@abbysparksjewelry 2 жыл бұрын

Not at all! Some people like to have them match but it's totally fine for them to be totally different, it's just up to personal preference!

@Cheese_crackers Жыл бұрын

Does the man buy his own ring? How does that go?

@crispybatman480 7 ай бұрын

Maaaaaaan. Why is she the only one who gets engagement drip?

@mahiyatsafiyullah7103 Жыл бұрын

Why do I need both rings why can't I just have one ring to buy?

@xav1er512xo 10 ай бұрын

I was thinking anout getting married but now i dont 1700$ engage ring then 5400$ for a wedding ring just way to much

@ibrahiymghany4996 4 жыл бұрын

Lol. And how I know

@Federico-zm1ym Жыл бұрын

I want to get a women's proposal ring and then engagement ring for me for myself

@BloodAndGutsTV 2 жыл бұрын

Are they suppose to look different? Can a wedding ring have a diamond?

@abbysparksjewelry 2 жыл бұрын

They can look however you would like them to look! Wedding rings can have diamonds, gemstones, a unique design in the metal, or just be plain.

@john_0122 2 жыл бұрын

lot of people choose that engagement ring and wedding ring is the same

@abbysparksjewelry Жыл бұрын

So true!

@mcruz4467 3 жыл бұрын

The 3rd ring will be SuffeRING! lol

@AKSBSU 3 ай бұрын

Thanks for the explanation, but I have no intention of buying multiple rings. That is absurd. A nice wedding band will have to be enough. I can afford platinum and diamonds, but I'm not blowing excessive amounts of money on this nonsense. Neither of us currently wear jewelry of any sort. She occasionally wears some clip-on earrings for special occasions. I'm probably going to just buy some really nice platinum or gold bands, wedding bands only. We've been in agreement this is something between us, not a spectacle for others. Going for the most basic wedding ever (her request, actually) and some simple but very high quality bands.

@Qwertysamu Жыл бұрын

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@rebeccahermes9970 3 жыл бұрын

WOW... I will Yes Marry One Day I believe I have Hope, Faith, I Believe....

@thechampion1918 3 жыл бұрын

Two rings 😭

@joeybaseball7352 5 жыл бұрын

Why am I watching wedding ring videos? No girl is ever gonna wanna marry me.

@braiansingh9730 5 жыл бұрын

We are two dude...

@schooloflove7076 4 жыл бұрын

You need to change your mindset and have a little more confidence. What you think, you will atrract to yourself. Think like you have a bunch of girls that want to marry you.

@inee107 4 жыл бұрын

not with that attitude! women like confidence

@joeybaseball7352 4 жыл бұрын

@@inee107 so you speak for all women?

@joeybaseball7352 4 жыл бұрын

@@inee107 it was a joke btw

@AudioAndroid 5 жыл бұрын

A Wedding Ring needs to be made so that every 10 years another ring is made to connect to it, that first connecting ring needs to represent what the couple has gone through as Husband and Wife during the first 10 years of their Marriage. When 20 years have passed a second connecting ring is added that also follows the same theme as above but representing the 2nd 10 years of their Marriage. In the end a Woman's ring should be able to tell her story, a story that could show Love and Determanation or the Birth of their First , Second, Third Child etc. Seeing a Woman wearing a ring made up of a combined 5 rings would let anyone know she has been Happily Married for 50 years and that message and show of rings on its own would be a driving force for any couple, a goal and a message for couples to work through their hardships and to achieve a 5, 6 or 7 Ring standard or more. P.S. the Young Lady in this video has one of the Prettiest Smiles I have ever seen, she is definitly the Second most Beautiful Woman I have ever layed eyes on.

@abbysparksjewelry 5 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

@supernova11711 2 жыл бұрын

That’s really sweet except…who would want a ring that thick?!

@AudioAndroid 2 жыл бұрын

@@supernova11711 it would be more in line to those Rings that are made to combine with out any discomfort.

@lf559 2 жыл бұрын

I think an engagement ring is just a pointless tradition of the West... If you know you're in love and you know you want to get married... What's with all the getting on one knee drama and crap. Moreover... Wedding ring holds more value because it binds the vows made on the wedding day..... Can someone please give me a different opinion in the comments? Do you agree or disagree?