I can understand full well why God hasn't given her her second healing yet. This place she is in is so overwhelmingly fragrant. It is edifying to those of us who are in this place and need to hear something like this in a world that just doesn't talk like this. This season she describes in her life is one of the most beautiful things I've ever heard and has helped me so much. I NEEDED THIS SO MUCH. I think God is just letting this rare perfume develop so she can pour it out on all of us. When he's done with this precious season, she'll be healed.
@vickilx95895 жыл бұрын
i just love to listen to her!
@chuckabean17 жыл бұрын
"Trust is born when you are real with your own heart and still look to the Father." MH
@PatriceCetrine6 жыл бұрын
When she started crying I bursted into tears because of my current season.. God is teaching me to not beat myself up when I'm not okay. It's okay to not be okay sometimes .
@edwardakhalbey82085 жыл бұрын
Patrice foxyroxyduncan love you in Jesus
@AshleyKristyen5 жыл бұрын
Aw man i just started watching it and read your comment and i'm like NOOOO lol i'm going to bawl i feel it lol.
@kareemismael90012 жыл бұрын
i know Im asking randomly but does anyone know of a trick to log back into an Instagram account?? I somehow lost the password. I would appreciate any help you can offer me!
@kimbright27633 жыл бұрын
I love it she explains the Father's heart towards us. He wants to be fully present for our ups and downs.
@brittanyjackson64326 жыл бұрын
Melissa, thank you so much for everything! You're transparency, your vulnerability, your songs, your sermons, your testimony, your heart for our Beloved Father! You have a GREAT anointing for the heart (how to connect, guard, heal, and be in touch with our Hearts and the Father's Heart), vulnerability, and overcoming depression and disappointment! It is a joy to listen to you share! This message has set me free! And the song "Explode my Soul" is my resurrection song! I love you, and GOD Bless you and your family!
@ishaw5004 жыл бұрын
This message is setting my free in a new way! I listened to this 2 years ago and went through the heart numbing and walking away from God because of illness & here I am again and I am hearing the POWER and truth of God’s nature in a fresh new way - especially when it comes to disappointment
@jenniferharris4825 жыл бұрын
This is quite possibly one of the most profound teachings I have ever heard! This is glorious... Praise God for your life in Christ Melissa.
@UKmusitopia5 жыл бұрын
This is so important to be real with God. I love her ability to explain that it is okay to feel.
@martinengelbrecht53846 жыл бұрын
David a man after God's heart ... David never stopped pouring out his heart! ☺☺
@thekingsbride0715 жыл бұрын
One of the most profound teachings I’ve heard. Absolutely amazing
@joeovermoe21246 жыл бұрын
"God has a plan, let's bury the dog." I love that!
@janelouw4025 жыл бұрын
😂
@KellieMC6 жыл бұрын
Amazing spirit led beautiful powerful 😢Yes! The Bible says don't let the sun go down on your anger. It doesn't say don't be angry. It also says to guard our hearts, and in that lawlessness will cause hearts to wax cold. We need to draw closer to Him any way we can and put on the full armor.✝️
@throughfaithandgrace29705 жыл бұрын
Gosh this is so good. The lord has entrusted me with 3 beautiful children. I stay at home with them while my husband works and it is hard. Disappointment comes often. But every day I ask for guidance and wisdom from the lord and I know I’m growing every day. The lord has blessed my life in so many ways and I pray that his light shines so brightly through me so that I cAn show his love to my kids. I’m thankful to have watched this. And i pray that anyone watching too would be filled with the fathers love and would know the fathers love and accept him into their heart. We love you Jesus. ♥️
@katherinegomez14572 жыл бұрын
I wonder how you’re doing now, three years later? I feel as if I could have written your comment. Our situations feel so the same. I just had my third child and my husband works. We love the Lord and I KNOW this work at home with the children is valuable , even when its hard.
@throughfaithandgrace29702 жыл бұрын
@@katherinegomez1457 hi!!! I’m doing good :) I homeschool now and I’m happily married ♥️ holding on to Gods goodness and mercy ♥️ God bless you sister. 🤗
@vangygalvez9295 Жыл бұрын
What an amazing testimony Melissa, it cannot be more real and powerful way of deliverance, that to face the grieving and declare healing for your heart in the Name of Jesus. I was touched and ministered to. Thank you for listening to the Lord and sharing your story.
@chuckabean17 жыл бұрын
"If you don't know what the Lord is really like...you won't know where to go when you hit the hard moments." M. Helser
@ebonyscruggs86196 жыл бұрын
Wow!!!Something broke off my heart listening to this thank you Jesus
@teohproject4 жыл бұрын
So rarely can believers talk like this without being judged or left alone until the hardships are gone... so hard but so helpful!
@micaadolfo20137 жыл бұрын
I needed this thank you. Keep me and my sister and my daughter in prayers. Breaking bondage in our family
@maryannaplenger46166 жыл бұрын
Did anyone else think the last I'm not gonna lose you sounded like Hallelujah! This was such an amazing teaching.
@magb38817 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this message. Praying God rewards you for your obedience and vulnerability.
@Dianna_Meza7 жыл бұрын
Amazing message I so needed this word. Grateful it popped up on my home page on KZfaq. Thank you Pappa
@aportman586 жыл бұрын
I love listening to Melissa speak and sing she's great!
@caraleegledhill95436 жыл бұрын
I am strong and full of life!!! Thank you im so encouraged and blessed by your testimony and your battles ! I feel dry bones coming alive when I hear your message thank you for having the courage to be so vulnerable its so refreshing and empowering to see such strength found in what the world calls weak 💪 ❤
@lucillejeanedradan7067 жыл бұрын
I am not gonna lose you God! I want to keep you in my heart :) Thank you Abba!
@iiAngelic7 жыл бұрын
yuciyye andrade Jesus will always watch over you. He is the savior who tore the veil!
@susannabonke85525 жыл бұрын
Jesus really cares for you!
@normthompson95883 жыл бұрын
Hi there it’s just about a year later I sure have learned a lot about god with becoming terminal illness I was very sick before so I bin comparing your teaching you are a great teacher me a just a old grump that listens well to you great work I mean it big time I am fighting a lot of illness but you bring piece to me
@aportman586 жыл бұрын
I came across this video listening to praise and worship songs and of all times, Melissa's words are the exact words of all times that I needed to hear! I have played bass for several churches over 4 decades as a Christian and have found myself very currently frustrated having allowed numerous situations in along life's path that's harden and calloused my heart and soul, to the degree I struggle to feel or even try caring to try to reach for God. I hate it especially at this juncture in my Christian walk -- especially as a life-long musician (bass player). I find myself just wanting to distance from everyone and more less just exists. I guess where I am is insulate seclude distance to avoid getting hurt or disappointed by those that you should trust the most. I love music and at my happiest when on a stage playing my bass, and even though there are places I can go play, but I am weary and tired of the mundane, repetitive, worn-out set list, playing with half-hearted non-disciplined non-committed musicians. One of the most miserable places to find yourself in. I have a recording studio in my home, so I will sit with my bass for hours playing many of Bethel's music!
@forerunner76 жыл бұрын
Allen Portman .. Your comment brought me to tears.. This is where my husband is at.. Only its with church and "people" in the church.. He loves the Lord, and he is growing.. And people are careless and fickle and constantly disappoint.. He grows so weary of people in church and ministry.. Instead of letting their yes's be yes's and no's be no's it turn into a mess. He wonders if God is for him. To the point he distances himself and cannot allowed trust. I've been surrounded by ministry all my life as a pastors kid.. But the church, people, and ministry seem to be terribly disorganised, lack communication, have lack of respect of others time, talents and capacity of serving. It can be exhausting, but through it all the Lord sees everything!! He knows our heart and the what breaks it. But he is faithful in the pain, the healing, and the journey.. And he'll be faithful to finish what he has begun in you, and in my husband. I'm trusting the process..
@betanialagos30855 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your honesty. I pray you begin to rush every moment of disappointment towards your Father’s heart, so often that after a while you won’t need any disappointments to be there. I’m learning myself to go to Him first and don’t allow distractions to numb my heart.
@pnkpricess0597 жыл бұрын
This message is incredible 😭😭😭🙌🏾
@michellecoronado46082 жыл бұрын
I am still listening in 2022 💛💛💛🌼🌼🌼🌼
@tracidannielle2 жыл бұрын
Me too. This message truly doesn’t get old.
@martinengelbrecht53846 жыл бұрын
I used to hate emotion but God healed me and now I love my heart .... but heart stuff is complicated stuff!
@alyderuby2480 Жыл бұрын
I can only praise the name of the Father. I checked her song Explode My Soul in between then I came back finish watching the video. Tears came out as I beat my chest like her did at the end of this video, and my body and mind changed. The paralysis and the feeling of being "stuck" had shaken off from me. I want to open myself to God and just be real with my emotions. Yes, I can grieve and fully experience my heart because I have my God.
@chrikiexpgarsuta77507 жыл бұрын
YES its melissa helser! I can't wait to watch this. She's an anointed speaker :D Greetings from Philippines!!
@shelbyvasquez42125 жыл бұрын
Loved this sermon.❤️I needed this video. Lately I’ve been going through a hard situation and I know this is just the enemy trying to take my peace away. I am praying and waiting patiently for God . I declare that the enemy won’t take my peace away anymore and bring my past up anymore!
@diann58047 жыл бұрын
So powerful. He truly sets us free.
@JasonKatsanis7 жыл бұрын
Thank you Melissa! And thank you Yoni for posting. Such a powerful message. Just what I need to hear right now. Lord, remind me. Lord remind me. Lord remind me.
@lilacook25083 жыл бұрын
Ive had severe disappointment in my life. Then i would feel shame over feeling the disappointment. Thank God, for this message... So encouraging & freeing! I now know its alright to grieve my disappointment. Thank you Melissa!
@andreacantu93334 жыл бұрын
I have watched this video 1000 of times 😢 whenever I’m feeling upset or like giving up I watch this and it reminds me the love Jesus and our father has for us !! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@donnanewby33863 жыл бұрын
I thank you Melissa for sharing such a important and wonderful message. I believe the Church needs to understand this and impliment it.
@TheLifePhoenix6 жыл бұрын
THIS IS AWESOME! So well explained, explaining something so hard to understand
@speakfreedom26488 ай бұрын
I still listen to this
@SnowWhiteDream784 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for being real. I recently had God remove my best friend from my life, and what I felt Him asking me at the end of listening to this was, "Will you love me with the same zeal with which you loved her?" I'm more determined than ever to get to know God for myself.
@lolipoplolyloly7 жыл бұрын
This hit me right in the feels! Jesus is amazing period!
@sparklefulify7 жыл бұрын
Thanks for posting this valuable message.
@nathanpurdy4542 Жыл бұрын
I have gone through a lot of disappointments in Life thank you Melissa for coming into my bedroom and teach me how to openly grieve and not to stuff it all in
@sandragee28643 жыл бұрын
WOW! *That was deep!* Thank you for your message. I believe God is absolutely proud of the legacy you are leaving for your kids. Because I know and trust the Father, I can honestly cast off any anger at myself and feelings of being ashamed, of being insufficient, defective. Goodbye to “l need to pull myself together”. I think of one time in particular where I felt God sitting quietly with me during my gut wrenching crying spell. After a while of crying, God flooded my mind with the truth: I am in you and you are in me. Feel my presence. We are walking together. It is a process. I am so thankful that I am becoming more aware of God’s perspective of time. I am no longer the Self Rescuing Princess. I am putting on the mantle of the Princess With Hope and Authority.
@molinamarked7776 жыл бұрын
This message rocks me every time I hear it!
@xchorro Жыл бұрын
Oh man even hearing a sermon on "self empowerment" especially embracing my heart just feels so wrong still and that's what she was talking about. The lie that I'm not allowed to feel or look at anything ugly inside of me because my God is good. This year and new season has been a lot of learning how to love me because God loves me, not just love God and think nothing about myself because God is all I need, it's true but he is for me and he WANTS me to love me the way he loves me.
@veanwhitcher78673 жыл бұрын
Wonderful teaching, a wonderful ministry! This may be the most important teaching I have been witness to, and I am well over sixty! Thank you for clarifying this very important issue of emotion.
@markdownham71097 жыл бұрын
I am interested in how Melissa Helser is developing a relational understanding with the "Gift of Tears" - to be a Heart Specialist and to have Heart Knowledge - Cardiagnosis - which includes increasing Spiritual Discernment among other things - you have got to work through the "Gift of Tears" - it can literally shift atmospheres around and much more.
@keiladiaz13625 жыл бұрын
Wow I didn’t know it was on KZfaq! I listened to this on podcast! And omg! I was in my car, and after I listened to it I was delivered in my car! Seriously, don’t listen to Melissa or Jonathan’s podcast in the car, it’s dangerous! Lol 😂 I could barely see because of my tears and I was weeping and screaming like in pain, just mourning and it was awesome!! God bless her life!
@anitaduplessis28655 жыл бұрын
Oh Melissa, this message was so for me today. It's time to grieve and know that I'm not going to lose my heart for God is filling it with Himself again.
@SojournerMichelleRose5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for bringing God's message. It was meant for me to hear it.
@KapuaKuheana7 жыл бұрын
YES. Thought this was for this years Wonders conference but wow, WorshipU!
@7777777Alina2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Melissa for sharing your testimony. I was crying...I I understand more now. God bless you and your family!
@AWalkingHat5 жыл бұрын
God has also showed me this some years ago. I did not grow up in a charismatic context, but was raised by an authoritarian mother who punished me for trying to express my feelings when I disagreed with her. She would often add a manipulative spiritual twist to it. The passages of Scripture that confirm what Mrs Helser is saying are many of the Psalms where David, the man after God's own heart, often asks in anger: "How long, Lord?" The Holy Spirit reminded me of these passages during that season of my life.
@gracetroko3 жыл бұрын
thanks so much for sharing this message. It was exactly what I needed to hear. So beautiful Melissa explains Jesus embracing and really showing his humanity and how we can too. I have spent so many years rejecting my heart's feelings that I almost completely lost me. Thank God Jesus didn't and I am still here.
@jonathanlinn26563 жыл бұрын
Thank you Melissa for being authentic and genuine
@teohproject5 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love this talk... I heard it two years ago and have been thinking g if it since... thank you so so much for posting this... bless you!!!
@dianemarkwell94627 жыл бұрын
Love this woman of God.
@try-a-craft93197 жыл бұрын
THIS WAS AMAZING!!!!! THANK YOU!!!!!
@edwingomez-mc7tn6 жыл бұрын
Thank you JESUS! HONOR AND GLORY TO JESUS, THE LAMB OF GOD.
@KatherinePion6 жыл бұрын
Strong woman. God bless her❤️
@jcismyall6 жыл бұрын
This was amazing.Thank you.
@jachmoodyable6 жыл бұрын
Jesus modeled fully trusting His Father's love!
@normthompson95884 жыл бұрын
The more I watch you the more I love what you stand for a great lady/ mom/ wife
@mp1969ful7 жыл бұрын
Bless you💖
@TS-tv2ik5 жыл бұрын
Melissa, I loooove YOU. My sister, you are a gem!
@Gabrielle_17 жыл бұрын
Jesus was so alone in his discouragement just like we are sometimes. No one had His back.
@gookoojohnson11116 жыл бұрын
G JC ?? His Father had his back.
@shannaleezer41405 жыл бұрын
I spent months in my valley wanting my heart to stop in my sleep and angry with God for not letting it. This spontaneously popped up in my KZfaq while desperate for meaningful worship...I banged on my heart and finally found strength through complete weakness...this was now a year and a half ago...my 3 kids have their Mom back...I am involved in multiple ministries, creating a website, www.abba8cadabra.com...God bless you and your transparency and testimony, Melissa Helser. I love you, my sister.
@williamcullis71684 жыл бұрын
Good morning Melissa. I hope this gets to you. I am from Port Elizabeth, South Africa. I am a Prophet. The Lord showed me in the last 2 years that a prophet knows a prophet. We can see each other from across the room, or should I rather say, the Holy Spirit points us out to each other. I want to encourage you with this. The enemy wants us to come under conviction of pride when we stand and declare our office. He tries to keep us out of the full promise with the pride issue. Knowing and declaring your office is never pride. It is a humble acceptance to the office the Lord has bestowed upon you. As prophets we (humbly) serve our Lord and our brothers and sisters. This is the opposite of pride, pride would dictate that our brothers serve us. Stand tall and firm on the rock that is Christ. Like King David, I leave you with this,"You have caught the heart of God, be blessed and be a blessing mighty warrior. Joshua 1:9 The Lord is with you, where ever you might find yourself and in every situation."
@paytinporter6 жыл бұрын
How do I bring my heart back to life?? I feel so numb, like I'm not experiencing my feelings as I should...I don't remember what happiness feels like...or sadness..I just want to be able to cry and feel, I want to be able to truly feel sad...I want to be able to truly feel God's love for me...my heart, it feels dead
@dumarinaputros38836 жыл бұрын
i dont have an answer for you but i just want to say patience but you need to pray to get ur feelings back. bless u
@57andstillkicking6 жыл бұрын
paytin lee This is emotional shutdown which is what happens in depression. It is a an unconsciousness way of protecting yourself from trauma. Jesus will gently open you up if you ask Him to.
@shelly40996 жыл бұрын
Great Word
@11teiko6 жыл бұрын
AMAZING word!
@lukelaessig84355 жыл бұрын
Jesus set me free
@gillescott44126 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@anatasyas6 жыл бұрын
thankyou it helps me alot. im in such a disappointment and i dont know where to go, today i know that God very loves me He have a plan a wonderful plan for me
@Lina-sg3lw6 жыл бұрын
What a good word.
@nstefan274 жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤️
@Varmani775 жыл бұрын
I trust you GOd help my unbelief. Father over my heart because out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks. Father get me out of this, I don't want to grieve anymore. Father anything is possible through you. Father help me not to loose my heart. Connect me back to your original plan for me. Let your will be done. Not want I want but what you want for me. Father let my heart feel your presence. It's me O God standing in the need of my heart. I reject disappointment and press toward the mark of a higher calling. I ask for a face to face encounter with you O God. Show me your glory now. AMEN
@susannabonke85525 жыл бұрын
Go ahead Melissa! you help me more tahn i can say!
@michellesmith649 Жыл бұрын
Amen that’s right
@michaelmarroquin72456 жыл бұрын
STRAIGHT 🔥!!!
@iiAngelic7 жыл бұрын
We are taught to always keep ourselves together in public, or you are an insane hysterical for not being able to function. I fully understand why people hide their emotions. Especially at work where adults spend most of their time. There is little room for releasing emotion.
@SuperJermaine0017 жыл бұрын
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@aportman586 жыл бұрын
I agree! I know women and men handle emotions differently, but ultimately, a major weakness of Christians, is not being honest and open to God with our internal emotions, hurts, pain, weaknesses... Christians also have challenges to find those 2 or 3 people they can really truly trust for sharing their most fragile emotions with. Someone that they can be truthful in sharing responsibility to be open, honest, transparent, and accountable!
@susannabonke85525 жыл бұрын
we can ask for wisdom which we need in times like ours ( !!! ) to show our heart in an appropriate way!
@marissaramirez70987 жыл бұрын
wow
@hankaargalska88117 жыл бұрын
😢😢i know this place ....
@josevasquez-ju8rb2 жыл бұрын
your family is important ...to him.
@AmyLNeely5 жыл бұрын
💞love💞
@j.p.49106 жыл бұрын
8:35 The heart does not have the answer, quite the opposite.
@57andstillkicking6 жыл бұрын
Jay Paglia I think she meant that since the Holy Spirit lives in our heart ( Who does have the answer), if we shut down our hearts we will be unable to hear Him as well.
@Geno794 жыл бұрын
@@57andstillkicking She did not say that. She said the heart has the answer. Man-centered-trash-gospel that saves no one.
@baibadoveika56037 ай бұрын
🙌🙌🙌
@genevabaird38824 жыл бұрын
I literally just had this happen... pull the plug father
@eliu276 жыл бұрын
si alguien pudiera subtitularlo en español serian genial
@goodwordco.59136 жыл бұрын
👍
@hannamgeorge6 жыл бұрын
THAt so recked me.
@michelescomedy6 жыл бұрын
What version of the bible do you use?
@VerenaHosek5 жыл бұрын
Michele VanDusen there’s only one version :-) But I’m guessing she’s using the passion translation ☺️
@guardiancherisher96165 жыл бұрын
What worship school was this?
@preciousmartin19746 жыл бұрын
wrecked me
@allthisiscrazy7 жыл бұрын
This should be nsfw I am 😭 😭 😭 my 👀 out at work trying to hold it together
@brotherjay896 жыл бұрын
Should a murderer or rapist not feel shame? I mean, I don’t intend to be antagonistic. But isn’t anger, hatred, and lust all “feelings”?
@trishawhitehouse42265 жыл бұрын
ForwardMomentum You are being honest, asking questions. That is a great question! Anger, hatred and lust are reactions to deeper feelings. Only the Holy Spirit can appropriate those deeper raw emotions that can lead, if not given to Him, and worked through with Him, us, in the flesh to destroying ourselves. And yes, if you do something that grieves God, it is healthy to feel that. It’s the beginning of getting right inside. Fleshly Guilt actually prevents people from weeping at the feet of Jesus when we don’t understand we can come to Him and be washed clean by His blood, we try to cover that pain up by many things, like building a wall against more healthy feelings, like insecurities. The fact is we have these deep needs that Jesus can meet, but we try to meet our own needs without Him, and as a result become entangled in negative and destructive emotions. Repentance comes from actually feeling the deepest feelings of sorrow over what harms people, and the deadly affects of sin in our lives and others. To admit we need Him, to admit when we feel hopeless, depressed and disappointed. To admit when we are scared. He can take it. Often others can’t handle the enormous power of our hidden and concealed emotions when they break through. For instance, in my life , I have struggled with lust. As Jesus pulled that off, underneath it was the fact I felt lonely, empty and unseen. The lust was the covering of the deeper need. God does deal with the outcrop of our mishandling the deeper emotions, and is always trying to call us to bring it to Him! He is the Healer! There are consequences for mishandling our deep feelings. If you let negative emotions rule you, and you commit a harm against someone , you have a reaping of that, which may mean going to prison, or even the electric chair. Those laws are there to protect people and to manage the harms done of sin, in a sinful world. It’s a grievous thing, but there are those so hard in their hearts, so walled up against feeling anything, they no longer have a conscience at all. It’s dead. Even then, we have the option of grieving or pushing those feelings down further, and covering them up with fleshly armor that puts us farther away from the Fathers love. . We have the option of choosing death or life. People that don’t know God don’t know they have a choice. When I wrote that, it brought tears to my eyes. Praise God we have a choice! God is able to handle everything we think and feel and help us to grow. He is the all consuming fire that is able to contain, but not destroy. Sometimes, when we vent on people, they end up feeling burned, and run! God is capable of dividing between bone and morrow, and help us sort out the messes inside us. Praise Jesus for you! May your day be full, rich and free in Him!
@TommyCambron954 жыл бұрын
TESTIMONY. I wrote a song after having a panic attack- immediately God gave me peace. The song is called “You Undo Me” and its on my channel. I have a GoFundMe link to help with the album I am going make. If you feel led to donate you may do so through the link in the video description -God bless you .
@michaelgalvin12464 жыл бұрын
She is very powerful with the Lord, but the Lord says our heart's are wicked not to listen? I could be wrong? Someone correct me? Praise Jesus the Christ
@sandrasanders7064 жыл бұрын
I think she needs that when your heart is aligned with the Lord that's when you need to listen to Him because He is there...