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Ben seems like a good man who thinks he has to shoulder the burden all alone. He's going to end up working himself to death if he doesn't step back and ask for help. Pride is a awful thing sometimes

Ben is a ticking time bomb. Somebody save him please.

I wouldn't have stayed with her to begin with!! This woman deserves jail time and everything else that's coming

Story 1: Excellent job. Perfect case of karma.

First story, good for OP. Sorry she lost her stuff, hope she could get her stuffed animals back at least.

I can relate to Ben. We men have been told from birth we are to man up and take care of everything. If a man shows any feeling that aren't "manly" we're treated less than a human. We can not brake, show weakness or cry. It sucks but as a man myself I want to say I'm here for all the "Bens" out there. We can do this together.

Story 2: The definition of all men, we all hurt inside, some more that others, and almost noone cares. 😢😢😢

Story 1: Gotta love those stories of parents who see their kids as shadow clones. An entity whose work they take benefits from(by force if necessary) and can be discarded when it’s not useful anymore

That second story is, WOW. I agree that OP and Paul should see abiut getting work (even part tjme) to start helping. But I will say it sounds like they are trying ti support Ben any way they can while he hides his burden. He’s got good support in them (made great if they can relieve the burden some by helping with jobs and such).

Story 2: This is the reason why that the self unalivement rare is mostly made up of males, she is not at fault it is just how he had been raised.

i think ben might need therapy after all this .i hope you ben and paul make it through this.

The second story yes he should talk about how he's feeling but not to you, if he does it will change your relationship even without you wanting it to. A therapist is probably best.

I applaud that first OP.

I can relate with the second story so much. I truly can feel and understand what he feels. One big thing he needs is just to be held, to be loved and eventually he'll be able to talk about it. I know I'm like a year late but OP just needs to keep him close and just hold him in an embrace

She really said, Our fiance

i feel so bad that op got robbed of her mother and the police didn't care like the police is supposed to care instead of acting like that.

From what I understand about getting your Masters, there may be less classes depending on the degree but a lot more work. Also, not everyone can go to work and go to college at the same time, it depends on a lot of different factors.

Stiory 1: if she was getting 3k a month why not move out??

Story 2 INSTEAD OF TRYING TO GET HIM TO OPEN UP WHY DON’T YOU HELP HIM PAY BACK ALL THE MONEY 🤦‍♂️

As for the second story: I know a friend who is similar to Ben he's not at all good looking or doesn't have any impressive talent but he's a super sweet guy. The kinda guy who would say sorry even if it wasn't his fault just to de-escalate the situation! And as a friend who knows him from KG.. the reason for him being like this was the fact that he was mostly a lonely person! He wasn't terrible at studies but wasn't exactly a genius, wasn't physically strong, didn't have a good sense of humour... So he never made friends ever.. i even remember him telling me how he sat alone during recess and eating his own food watching the trees move with the wind out of his school window! His parents were both working but dad was alcoholic and egoistic and only earned for himself soo most of the time he was alone in his home and never had much of a family time either! His mom used to work 10-12 hour shifts excluding 2hrs of commute time... So whenever she came home from work she would be in a bad mood and would burst out her anger on him and he couldn't say a word because he understood that opening up means escalating the situation further! There was no way he could ever win an argument with his mom, dad or his uncles and aunts! This kinda life made him the person similar to Ben and he did for exhausted to a point he passed out and was hospitalized for a week! Because he actually dropped out of college after just 1 semester without telling anyone but me and started working a job to save enough to move out! I know all this because of some voice notes and typed notes he had in his phone which i accidentally came across when he was hospitalized. So i think ben must have had similar experiences in his childhood!

Act like the Entitled Person in story 1, Karma is just waiting for you.

Hi I love your videos you’re my favorite KZfaqr I’m happy you’re still able to post

My boyfriend is an incredibly hard worker like Ben. He rarely takes breaks and I only see him every few months. I worry about his mental health all the time.

The 2nd story: The OP better be the best GF or if they get married wife that she can be. Ben is the guy that females claim that they want. And no OP it is NOT "toxic masculinity", that is what we men do for those that we love.

Yes, yes, and yes!!! Glad to see that we encouraged you! Keep grinding!! We here for it. Have a great day!!

Congratulations on 1M you deserve it

you are the genius

Kudos to the horrible mom for at least making you get a degree worthwhile

For a moment, I thought that Ben had supraventricular tachycardia.

🎉🎉new vid yay!!

1st story: That sounds like my cousin when he & his wife were stealing from me and I didn't know it! He even had me on a $40.00 a week budget & when I was walking out on him, he said "twenty dollars is good enough for you!" I got a lawyer, regained my poa & went no contact when I was moving to Indiana!

Hey if you're ever in the situation as the second story and you feel like your SO is taking on too much I have found that this helps best (at least with my husband) Everyone has a cup. Some cups are big, some cups are small. At the end of the day if you keep pouring water into the cup the cup will overflow. I told this to my husband back over a year ago. We were having money problems, 6 hours away from our home town, I was pregnant, and we were facing eviction. He was trying to be strong for me, but I could sense he was falling apart. After telling him that we laid in bed and I held him while he cried

There is no such thing as "Toxic masculinity." Only a lack of it. Screw anyone who unironically used that phrase.

Story 2, its the reality for men. We have to hold in our emotions and be seen as strong, otherwose women label us as weak and effeminate. But when we do that, its labelled as toxic masculinity. In reality, men have a lot fewer options when it comes to help with mental health. Thays why the suicide rate is roughly 75% men.

Ben is a GigaChad

Love ur vids

Story 1:OP, you should take it a step further. Your mother's boyfriend sounds like he killed cops in the past take it further, and have him arrested by the swat team as he's sounds clearly too dangerous for society

Story #1... way to go girl 😊👍👍

Happy one million

Good video

That 1st story would have resulted in a pier 6 brawl. Typical cops. Useless

I’d be crushed if my brother was a pole smoker

I don't care if he begs you not to take some of the burden off of Ben's shoulders, help him.

First story: if OP wasn't able to go to art school... There is something else she can do. She could set up a shower station!

Mfs who say first be like:💀

It's entirely possible that he is fine with the current situation because he knows it is largely temporary and is setting up two people he cares about for success. He may not care about them getting a job right now, especially since OP being in school means later on she can contribute more. "Deep down he wants you to get a job" -- don't ascribe stuff like this, come on.

Good video❤

Fish, feed and grow

The mother would have also had to pay back everything she got during her fraud. They do have emergency food stamps that you can get immediately if you are actually starving, which OP was. Idk why they didn't give them to her. I hope she's doing so much better now. The part about the cops not caring bc the bf is a little weird to me. I've known people that it has taken many cops to arrest them, but they still did it when the law was being broken. Plus, it was the mom that should've been arrested that day, not the "scary" bf. That part was really odd to me.

Ben is the goat fr

the cat from the game😭😭😭

As a man who does the same thing it's how we are raised we are men we don't break

Ben needs to make a go fund me

Sad to say this, But when my mother was still drinking, She used to talk to me the exact Way that the mother of the first story talks to their child. Basically saying every hurtful thing You can think of to try and manipulate and guilt trip me into doing what she wants. And i'm also sad to admit that my brother used to do this too. It was how he would talk to me when I was being ungrateful or selfish

you are not the jerk

40 seconds in and i'm already angry there is no way she convinced you art is "stupid" that mom was just jealous she can't do art that good

I'm glad you didn't give her all that money cuz the average rent doesn't cost no $3,000 that's equivalent to about three and a half months worth of rent

Correct me if Im wrong but I believe the first op has a good case for battery, assault, and grand theft

Story 2: is a Code Eugene in the waiting. He's gonna end up on a bell tower with a 🔫🔫

1st story lacks the part about mom going to prison for fraud. I wonder how true?

Why don't you get a job no matter what Ben said

Karens getting wild with this one like YOU GOT HIDDEN TALENTS BUT KEEP THEM HIDDEN KAREN🗣🗣🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

I think the same thing happened to me as OP in story 1. My mom left when i was 2 & my dad raised me. My mom was only in my life here & there but after she was in an almost fatal accident & went on disability after, once or twice at a younger age, she had me sign checks. I was too young to understand. Years later as i was older & had a child i got called about a bank account i nevrr knew i had. Upon asking her about it, she claimed she used to have an account under my name but never mentioned why. As i got older & thought about it, I'm pretty sure i was also getting checks under her disability & she never told me & kept it. I think she was probably getting them direct deposited so she didn't have to have my signature & probably had herself on the account as well. It's just a theory but by all the other things she did to me as a child i believe I'm right. Examples are when i was very young, she'd have a day on a weekend set up to come & get me for the night & never showed. I remember my dad dressing me up, putting pigtails in my hair, the whole 9 yards. I found out later that she had been at a bar all night instead. When i was a teenager & she'd promise to come get me for a weekend, she'd call at the last minute to cancel aith some excuse about being stuck out of town. I'd later that night see her driving down the road snd at bars, many other things. Thank god my dad loved me so much. Anyways, I'm pretty sure she did that to me for years. I've never confronted her about it & we barely speak now.

'the woman who birthed me" Not "My mother." Totally deserved.

I disagree. Ben doesnt want you to get a job he wants you to finish your masters at which point you better take care of him.

Wow you got to 1mil subs

Let's go feed and grow

Story 2: why it's toxic masculinity when he is literally carrying to full grown adults. He's taking care of everything and wonder why he's acting like he is. Y'all need to grow up and get a job. It's pathetic to try and be mean him for going above and beyond.😤

Story 2 you should have called Welfare and IRS immediately and reported her to the police. The OP was an idiot in this

Story2 I love how they are a really good couple and although ben brother came out gay ben stil supported him what a sweet brother ❤

story 1: mother awful, but OP is wasting money on stuff she really can’t afford.

Ben is heading for a mental breakdown. She needs to make him spread the load cause he can't shoulder the load much longer

First story How the hell did you keep your shit together I couldn't my mom would be on the floor with a broken nose

Did you ever get your phone and stuff back?

Wait did she get her stuff animals because stopping you from having a panic attack I think you need them in that case

name of game?

Story 2 I'm pretty sure OP is in a job unless they haven't mentioned anything about quitting, or being let go from, the job because of the pandemic. so there is a chance that her boyfriend is using both paychecks of hos jobs and her job. as for her boyfriend's brother yes he would need to get a job.

It's honestly sad he can make these many videos meaning there are this many people

What is the game called

what game is this you are playing in this video

Fybro cam be very bad but the B got what was coming

Why the game feed and grow fish

1.story I would have slapped my own mother .

Second sorry I get where she’s coming from but I don’t like how she said toxic masculinity. Makes it seem like she’s tryna find an excuse to be mad at him, but With what he’s going through can’t be expressed by words atm to him. That’s basically asking an animal how there feeling you not finna get a response. He himself just can’t physically talk about it specially when he’s not trying to get anyone involved or to worried

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That first story is so much bullshit

Story 1: The mother was a physically, emotionally, and financially abusive bitch. Story 2: Ben is being, well, a man. He needs to find a way (possibly a manly way) to relieve his strength. Because sooner or later they will in the worse way possible.

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Please come here to claim your here within a hour ticket

When my beloved, and I went to College, and Uni. we were both working. If we can do it so can you.

Are u a girl or a boy please answer

Hello

How did we survive with daycare assistance the only form of welfare I received as a single teen mom? They hand it out so easily that a mom and an adult daughter can fight over it. Wow. No wonder the country is in massive debt and is going down the shtter.

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Story 1 once again we need to abolish the police just a bunch of 60 thousand dollar street lamps they don't do anything

idea for better view score- make new ones without this voice [ups and downs with wanna be trailer voice] and use the other one- I'm trying to listen it but I CAN'T ITS SO ANOYYING

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