True 😂😂

a true entp brother

Mee too😂

same, don't worry

Not at all. I'm already plenty full of myself. Just learning more about the toolbox.

Or "good job"

This hit home for me..

Yeah I get tired very quickly of throwing my own shoulder out having to pay myself on the back all of the time. Then it’s on!!! Sarcasm laden arguments ……i mean…”debates”! (But since I already know what your gonna say and the excuses you’ll use i of course have answers for those already. Lol

I like hearing "How do you know so much?!" Me:it's a gift and a curse I assure you

"you're right" feels better than any of those.

@smile first for yourself love in your heart uP

everything we do has fluidity

I think there is many ENTP's who aren't extroverted same way extroverted are usually. There was one video where it was explained well. I think it was ENTP vs INTP

That's truly hilarious

12 exits just means 13 entrances

Second 20 agree

I see this guy commenting this on every entp video🤣🤣🤣

@@Heliam-mi7nd I wonder what type he idenifies with 🤔

😂

LMAO

Totally agree. I hate when I have an amazingly logical idea but yet am ignored because maybe I’m an outsider on the situation or don’t have as much experience later to have them use my tricks to no credit or ignore my advice and make the mistakes I advised they could’ve avoided.I hate being dismissed as though I don’t know what I’m talking about, as I don’t like to speak out of my ass.

You describe what seems to be a foreign language to most! It's lonely out here sometimes isn't it? (Echo echo)Add female to your plight and we may be twins. I hear you and then some. I work in male dominant environment so what happens in addition to their delayed stolen eureka gets real interesting is when said decision makers stalk you for more ideas in the future but not in front of others so they can use your fkn operation strategies to advance themselves more .. But I have no doubt you have experienced this too as male entp. And they think we don't know what they're doing 😂 recently, i calmed my inner temper i played back with this new bff.. Told my one boss " i give it 48 hours and u will hear this at the board meeting". When he asked why I am asking this i said the game is getting old. You will know going forward; good or bad, my yes is my yes and no is no..if i am wrong give me rope to fix or fail but if i am getting f'd over _ have to painfully watch us all ineffectively double work (shoot me) they better keep up or fk off. You can tell him or not, good either way. My nurturing of team calabs does not mean i am a doormat. ~ early menopausal entp Ps: i need to get my shit together and work for myself lol. My own fault for not pushing harder earlier in life, previous door matting to try and fit in and blooded tongue-smiling thru middle management for dummies.

EVERY.FREAKING.TIME!!!!

I think a lot of people just get stressed out or even annoyed with these "rants", however logical and reasonable. We do need to work on slowing down and restraining our communication. At least I find writing the best way as I can write at speed-of-thought, but can then re-evaluate how well I'm communicating things and hopefully sum things up a bit rather than just blurting everything out at once. Just as introverts are struggling with expressing themselves at all, especially in "competition" with socially fearless ENTPs ;)

@@Thedreamer20015 same😭😭

Preach

I laughed at this😂 yeah women aren’t exactly the most intellectual creatures. As a great man once said during a long hilarious rant about women “If chicks didn’t have tits and pussies we’d probably just throw rocks at them”

That’s very true. Just today I was in school and it was my teachers birthday. I said: “Are you sad that your older now.” Some people just don’t get my humor...

@Hungti Many people respect me for it, and i value that more than those so insecure that they can't hear the truth.

Silence is a potent tool.

As an ENTP growing up I constantly bot my tongue and kept my internal dialogue to myself, but now that im in my early 20s I’ve learned to speak my mind and speak my truth a lot more. I feel that the world is better for it as long as I don’t weaponize truth and keep pure intentions

Hahahaha. This sounds soo much like me! God I love fellow ENTPs, it's so refreshing and I feel free to by myself, lol. I speak my mind many times and then realize oops, that can go wrong, they are not getting it. She's getting really older, so what?! No reason to be offended but yeah, clown world sometimes

Probably true

Omg it is so scary. This is exactly what I do

Whenever you as an entp in my vision.. manipulating with a positive way with a too sided win_win

Everytime 😌

Thinks about x: Does x: recognises x's effect: recognises former knowledge of x's effect: questions why I am doing x to begin with. Are my intentions honest? Questions self. Cannot come up with a satisfactorily conclusive answer. Alternatively: does y, sees new reaction, oooh new thing!!! New data!! More to play with!!

@Lapislazuli it's hella hard to choose what you want when there's so much to choose from and you've already experienced 10 versions of a thing in your imagination.

"Asking myself how I feel returns a question mark" This curse man! I thought there was something wrong with me until i found out it's just how ENTP's roll. I hate it though. Why can't i see myself as easily as i can see through others?!

@Lapislazuli he makes decisions with logic not based on his feelings.

@Lapislazuli Indonesian

Rapport is social stimulation. You're missing the boat.

"As much as I would like to have more genuine connections, I also fear getting myself too invested and hurt as I have seen too much of what people are capable of, at the same time I want more and some part of me is hopeful for it" Damn I have never related to a sentence as much as this one. I have always noted that I have never ever had a romantic relationship with someone I really liked. Because the more I like someone the harder for me is to make a meaningful connection. But even when I try to, there is something inside me stopping me from doing so because of a fear of being hurt, or even worse hurting someone I really care about.

Find some INFJ they will cut through all your Bullshit lol. - Fellow ENTP

@@ihsankamil6279 my best friend is an INFJ and he definitely opens my eyes to my more vulnerable and emotional side. I’m 21 and still working on being able to open with him about stuff bc being open with him is like a different kind of raw and open. It makes me feel uncomfortable honestly but it’s something internally I need to work on.

Please challenge us (when we say/do something and you have an insight!) xD

Start adopting realism and stop thinking with your emotions and you can experience this too. But beware once you loose your emotions life may become dull and uninteresting. Procede with caution only and know this once you go black, in this case you may not be able to go back

Oye, I'm the same way mate. I think I come off half crazy and half charismatic.

As one too I can see when others are being manipulative, which is my main purpose is making sure someone doesn't get take advantage of or hoodwinked. I love being an entp, but the boredom can get to me. However think this, if you are bored, you're the boring one.

Since young age I've realized it's easy to manipulate ppl (and by manipulate I understand making ppl change thier opinions to my liking) so I've made myself a promise I wouldn't do that. And yes, ENTP here.

Nah, I get lazy manipulating people. It’s not that I can’t do it

I've noticed that manipulation comes in two different types. I myself despise emotional manipulation and I honestly hate it, it's also quite good that ENTP's can sense when someone is trying to manipulate us. Now the second type of "manipulation" is which I don't necessarily dislike - Putting out irrefutable logic and reasoning which changes people's opinion into one that benefits me (and doesn't really harm them).

I over analyze a conversation so much, but to other people it looks effortless.

Very well said.

damn same

You're goddamn right

maan

Word for word i share your desire for that middle environment... for those same reasons. I had the pleasure of being part of a team with that perfect ballance twice in life and miss them so much. So rewarding and so hard to find.

Beacuse the more social excercise you have the better you will be at it. And older ENTP is always better than a young ENTP

Yes, infj and entp are match made in heaven😊

Our manipulating tricks never works on infj and we can also understand their emotions also...they would be.perfect life partners....

Hmm. I write a lot, usually with lots of very specific terms and outlining; for basically everything. I do use a lot of emoji however. Especially regarding sarcasm. But, never vapid, and they're usually related to what's being said, and now, and not at all the relationship with recipient - which come to think of it, might be how some write. My more ISTJ associates I've not seen use any much. My ENTPs definitely use. Usually with humour and sarcasm.

Love the humility;)

@@antoinettenovella1630 insecure people created the word humility.

A huge part to this is zero'ing in on what someone cares about overall & appealing to that...a natural skill for that translates out to serious influence in groups if you get the chance to 1-on-1 with the members.

Reading comments 2 seconds in...

But once you shower them with compliments their hearts will melt away lol.

Same

I don’t feel like I have any real friends, but a decent amount of people think we’re great friends. I haven’t had a true great friend since high school, and I don’t really care. Idk if some would call that depression or something like that, I wouldn’t. So far it seems like people open up to me and they think I open up to them, but I don’t think they truly know me. I have 2 truly honest relationships with my wife and son and that’s about it.

Conversely, I definitely consistently got myself access far beyond normal access for a whole lot of things.

Not anymore الحمدللە :)

Alright. Gotta have a cheap Fiat for the Ferrari to have it's value. If all had a ferrari, it won't be so special anymore, it'll become standard, and standard is boring, and often unappreciated.

Maybe look past personality types, i feel like we're all too into expectations of how this and that should respond, there could be more too it that you wouldn't know or something, cutting off the friendship though, just seems more like you hit a button that was bad for that certain person, or maybe they were just looking for a reason to not be friends, hell life circumstances might have a play in it, then they just never tried repairing it. Ik this is kinda an excuse, but im trying to make sense of it

There's no advice for you, just be you only you know you best so take you're years to figure it out. Trying to be more charismatic will just be an act in the end, just let it come naturally, hah you might not even realise you already are. Almost forgot, don't try to live you're life based on what us "Entps" are supposed to be, that'll just make you act like what's considered an entp, which is pointless since being yourself is more than just being an entp.... Sorry for sounding like some kind of wise motivational speaker dude, im trying to up my English

thank you broski for your advice, it's really helpful!! imma let loose a little ykwim

@@mobisqrd1827 🗿im tearing up, no one ever accepts my advice 🤣.. Thx u made my day ngll