EP 22 Asnath Mathiba on her husband having an affair with her siste’s daughter for 6 years

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Trailer | EP 22 Asnath Mathiba on her husband having an affair with her siste’s daughter for 6 years
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@victorp1 Ай бұрын

The number one Narcissists enabler is the mother for a son.

@Nunec Ай бұрын

The only time she broke down was for her kids and not the man. My heart broke. May God take her where she needs to be❤

@botshelotong6403 Ай бұрын

I saw that 😭💔

@dineochokoe9532 Ай бұрын

It hit hard

@lilirose1865 Ай бұрын

She needs to realise that her husband has been violating her niece since she was a school girl age 12 or 13 in the 6th grade. But she still talks about her niece as the other woman rather than a victim of her husband.

@AkhonaKweyama-xr2hw Ай бұрын

@@lilirose1865 ohh you don't know us baby you don't know the us ama2ks we envy at a very young age but it could be what you're saying kodwa fear ama2000 nana

@palesadutta254 29 күн бұрын

@@lilirose1865she isn't a victim the young girl..she encouraged it kanjalo nje....if the husband approached her at that age she should have told her mom n her aunt klaar...

@nobathembumpetsheni7817 Ай бұрын

Can we just mention just how beautiful Asnathi is😍

@chiomaenyeribe3800 Ай бұрын

And very well spoken

@bomikaziportiandaba8369 Ай бұрын

She is very beautiful hle ❤️❤️❤️

@katlin1615 29 күн бұрын

Yerrrrr o montle this lady

@PrideNkuna 28 күн бұрын

I am literally saying it out loud, "Umuhle kodwa"

@nakaibeauty4137 24 күн бұрын

She’s stunning

@Ameerah07 Ай бұрын

*marriage does not change a person, it amplifies their character and morals*

@noluthandomaseti3257 Ай бұрын

I believe you here.

@zoliswangqiniso6584 Ай бұрын

True I heard that from my therapist

@user-hy3qd5ku4o 17 күн бұрын

True

@tokozanimazvimbakupa5450 Күн бұрын

Very correct

@mohlagopilusa1953 Күн бұрын

Because after the 1st ordeal of finding her boyfriend with a girl & STILL accepted lobola & stuff, she knew exactly what she was signing up for.

@confidenceponagatso5060 Ай бұрын

What ever red flags 🚩 you see during the dating phase, it multiplies 3x more when married

@lavjamsoflocamp 25 күн бұрын

10 x I always say and shall make u crazy

@gugulethuwinifred6529 17 күн бұрын

Your mother inlaw destroyed your marriage 😢..may the good lord punish her for her sins

@user-ny2ng5xk2g Ай бұрын

I love how madam speaker doesn’t interrupt her guests. Asnath is a really a strong woman

@madams___speaker Ай бұрын

Thank you so much

@lemogangomatla5328 Ай бұрын

I love her for that 🥰

@rebeccamagopa5160 Ай бұрын

Right,that’s the reason I look forward to her podcast 🙌🏽

@mmapeugracemokalapa5386 Ай бұрын

Me too she’s therapeutic 👌🤞🤞

@keotshepileplaatjies8424 Ай бұрын

Oh yes!!

@veronicamakhafula6389 Ай бұрын

You are strong my sister❤ I'm in tears. My niece had an affair with my boyfriend (baby daddy) while she was staying with me. She would leave my place and go to baby daddy for days, come back and life continued(because i didn't know). The day i found out,I broke up with baby daddy, she moved in with him, she packed her clothes and left while i was at work. I was not ok, i even went for counselling. I loved my niece, she was like my baby sister. They had a child. Baby daddy passed on September 2023. Niece moved back to her parent's house after the guy passed on. My sister and i are ok,but i don't go to her house because i don't want to see my niece. It still hurts.

@botshelotong6403 Ай бұрын

Tjooo I am so sorry Mommy 😢🫂

@ameliasmommyshazi7585 Ай бұрын

😢😢yooo it's too much I'm so sorry sis

@sindiswampungose9242 Ай бұрын

So sorry about this sis,its alot! It will get better. Sending love

@precious-mh3ds Ай бұрын

I never thought people do these things yaz. Uxolo sthandwa sam❤😢❤

@veronicamakhafula6389 Ай бұрын

@@botshelotong6403 thank you

@abigailtakobana2950 Ай бұрын

Please! Can we vote for the guest speaker of the year , its Asnath, her articulation, delivery, emotion is on point, the year hasn't ended and I believe she is. She is a natural born narrator. Love and light to you sis ❤

@grannymamohube3303 Ай бұрын

100%

@bomikaziportiandaba8369 Ай бұрын

Oh yes she gets my vote ❤

@katlin1615 29 күн бұрын

Yoh a lady this one... learned.

@pulengleanah9640 19 күн бұрын

She is natural indeed I love here she got lots of joke oooh at the same time continue sharing queen 👑 ❤

@quenduba6803 3 күн бұрын

She is the best guest speaker 🎉🎉

@NqakalaS Ай бұрын

Used to work with her, what a humble Nurse and human being, always loving and friendly, used to see the husband fetching her and you could see his a jealous boy friend by then and that how you see that a man is a naughty person in most cases. God bless her and heal her broken heart.

@Ladydee510 Ай бұрын

The minute she broke down! After narrated her story as a brave woman, i shed a tear. We are going through a lot 😢

@madams___speaker Ай бұрын

😭😭😭😭

@ReginahMarike-ku7mb Ай бұрын

Going through a lot sheim, believe me.🤞

@ALPHAROYCE Ай бұрын

Rubbish

@ntsakorachelchabalala4808 Ай бұрын

😢😢

@user-oq9vg2ym2q Ай бұрын

Phephi Sesi..it will be Okay..You haveaGod that listens.. The father must maintain the Kids. That must HAPPEN..🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💖💖

@rebotilemogadime4169 Ай бұрын

There will be a time where women will say "Enough" and start putting themselves first. We can't allow men to waste our resources (time, money, wombs, dreams and goals, mental sanity and self) anymore we really cannot its too expensive a price to pay.

@noluthandosibiya108 Ай бұрын

I wish that I could like this comment a hundred times.

@bokamosomcephe2965 Ай бұрын

This is why the Korean women started the 4B movement 😢😢😢😢.

@rebotilemogadime4169 Ай бұрын

@bokamosomcephe2965 its slowly going to infiltrate the whole world its only a matter of time. And you will see these men will throw tantrums or become more violent. The birth rate in Korea is so low that day care centres are closing and they are trying to give benefits in order for women to give birth but the women are saying andizi

@teeslife2408 Ай бұрын

Amen 🙏

@qn7403 Ай бұрын

Louder because most of her misery was because she didn’t have self love

@TheAdvocatesT Ай бұрын

I went to the same primary with her, she was and still is a very calm person, hugs babes🫂🫂🫂

@madams___speaker Ай бұрын

❤❤❤

@kedibonethatelo9809 Ай бұрын

She is so down to earth,I don't know her, but I love her energy ❤😊

@mologadi-acceptedinthebelo2923 Ай бұрын

She was married to her enemy 😢😢😢

@vbling1881 28 күн бұрын

Exactly

@user-xy3wd4fr5w 27 күн бұрын

Deep.

@spm9130 Ай бұрын

When she said, “a man who has loved you your whole life can wreck you”, I felt it! I was there, and you will be fine my dear. You are stronger than you think, you will rise above the situation. And one day, he’ll come begging. He will regret this, you can count on that!

@lifewithtshidiedza381 Ай бұрын

She will be fine ❤❤ I was told I will never amount to anything I am from a poor family The guy mocked me. As I speak am an auditor and am happily in love...my sister said use prevention mma. I don't trust this guy. That hit me so hard. He dated everything that he saw. When he was done with me he sent me out 😂😂. I was sad but I am so glad he did. She will be ok❤

@auntyb4130 Ай бұрын

❤@@lifewithtshidiedza381

@_molebogeng6281 Ай бұрын

Based on the story she narrated, this man never loved her or maybe he did at some point but it was actually her who loved him with her whole life. The ex husband also seemed like a mama's boy but anyway I'm happy she is finally choosing herself this time around

@madams___speaker Ай бұрын

Sometimes you will even question if someone ever loved you 😢

@DelisileNgema Ай бұрын

i left 16 years ago even today he has never saw a reason to apologise if we did not have a daughter he wouldnt even exist in my life but because of her i try to be civil

@suigeneris5193 Ай бұрын

That man should not be trusted around minors, he’s a predator

@preciousdaniels5717 Ай бұрын

He must get arrested just like this pastor who is trending!! Yooo plus he is not supporting the children.

@robbylebotha Ай бұрын

Trust, ne he needs be be charged and arrested.

@jospatmutandwa6636 Ай бұрын

Don't trust one side of a story next time

@janicebenson526 Ай бұрын

@@jospatmutandwa6636What could she have done for a man to sleep with a minor, he's a predator.

@ivyachola5210 29 күн бұрын

My cousin's husband tried to get me to bed with him. He was totally pants down and I refused. Thank God for that.

@kefentsemamabolo5520 Ай бұрын

I feel like the lady is as powerful as madam speaker ❤❤....2 beautiful ladies in one room

@charmainemathe2194 Ай бұрын

My dad did the same thing to my mom,left her with 3 children and we had to go back to Riverpark. It was hard to downgrade but we survived. You will be fine 🫂

@sholasholknb9199 Ай бұрын

You are sweet

@kgadiaphane177 Ай бұрын

A man can destroy you more than the devil can😢

@nontsikelelonoruwanahealth8035 Ай бұрын

Yey say that again atleast we know the devil and snake can harm us but human beings. I fear.

@kgadiaphane177 Ай бұрын

@@nontsikelelonoruwanahealth8035 too bad. Extremely bad.

@hildadavids217 Ай бұрын

Men can be very cruel, love yourself. Be selfish, I went through this hell, 40 years ago. Go to church, God carried me all these years. I have 2 sons who are young adults now. God will carry you through all this, you just need to down grade. The children grow so fast. Thank God that you have a job and support. He will get his day, karma never forgets the address. Strength to you my sister.

@zoliswangqiniso6584 Ай бұрын

Yrue

@kedibonethatelo9809 Ай бұрын

@kgadiaphane177 some people are so evil 😢

@ntoshkondilathi3865 Ай бұрын

You are not alone cc, I was left with three children as an Intern then with no shelter but now God blessed me. Cry to God to carry you through

@sibongilenkwana8835 Ай бұрын

She tells her story so eloquently with such grace. I wish you peace Mommy. ❤

@NtobekoSoyamba-kp3sl Ай бұрын

I will also keep her in my prayers because I was kicked out my home by my husband and his mom last year. I'm unemployed and had to move back home with 2 kid's. I've had to start from 0 zero!!! I keep going because of GOD and children.

@ndileka216 Ай бұрын

Wishing you the best ❤

@angypapa2191 Ай бұрын

Trust God everything will be ok

@InnocentiaMotaung Ай бұрын

Sending love😢❤ I pray you get a job🙏

@katlin1615 29 күн бұрын

Why is thqt house still standing? 🔥🔥

@godsfavouritedaughter3476 28 күн бұрын

Yoh, I saw my mother in law do this to my husband's brother's wife. So bad and the husband was like he never knew her, just kept quiet 😢. So sad. She also don't like me😊

@ntshengedzeninetshilindi2561 Ай бұрын

Hi Asnath, the word of God says “a living dog is better than a dead lion” as long as you are still alive nwana wa hashu,something great will come out from you. Keep on praying for the Almighty God to strengthen you and live for your children. I will also put you in my prayer. With God everything is possible. There is still hope

@LesegoMakhafola-24 Ай бұрын

As young man I'm really disappointed💔for what our brothers are teaching us.. I can see now that our brothers are cowards and selfish🚮what shame as man.

@busisiwemichelle5391 Ай бұрын

You can say that again they are even showing their sons so it's a never ending cycle

@LesegoMakhafola-24 Ай бұрын

@@busisiwemichelle5391how can u jss leave ur children jst like that..

@user-of8dp6fy9i Ай бұрын

Noble young man. Learn and choose the right woman do the right thing and respect your family. Keep it up❤❤❤

@sihlendwandwe5777 Ай бұрын

I feel like the mother is the cause of all this chaos

@LuckyJudaz Ай бұрын

@@sihlendwandwe5777everything is blamed on women 😢 we're even used to that now

@esmert1622 Ай бұрын

I learned the fact that we shouodn’t ignore red flags from the beginning

@candy23451 Ай бұрын

It hard to do when u are loving tht person

@nzuluyemfihlakaloancientof5369 Ай бұрын

I love her, such a great story teller and she is so beautiful. I am glued.

@madams___speaker Ай бұрын

Glad you enjoyed it!

@nezisanogumla9730 Ай бұрын

I love her, she’s fun 😅and jolly

@user-ql2kx3zk3n Ай бұрын

you can say it again.shes pretty

@ntombizonkentuli3770 Ай бұрын

Take Him to court. He must deal with the law.

@candy23451 Ай бұрын

Tht what am thinking

@user-gx6el3th5n Ай бұрын

This lady is well spoken,and so beautiful.May the lord see her through.

@karaboramadie1713 Ай бұрын

I have a son and i pray for wisdom to raise a better man😢....may i be a truthful mom and never allow my son to destroy another woman's daughter ❤ You are beautiful and u will heal trust me😊..... But yoooo this is painful 😣

@GeminiJune0608 Ай бұрын

This woman is strong. She did not cry all thru her story, only whn she talked about her kids, she lost it. Now thats being a woman. I really love the advice given by the host. Madam Speaker you are wise❤. I was told i was not the 1st and the last woman to start from scratch. Women hv been doing it. Asnathi is going to make❤

@silentio9t Ай бұрын

The more I see these stories, the more I am learning that men are not everything and I must learn not to put men on pedestal they don't deserve, I hope things will work out for her and I know it will..God bless... sisi Perseverance you are doing a great job Makukhanye.

@Zine_Ngcobo Ай бұрын

100%

@tbozzm6941 7 күн бұрын

Never ever put anyone on a pedestal...!!! Put you instead... Love yourself, empower, advance you...!!! Guard your peace & sanity... Anyone that you allow to come into your life must make a deposit... bring value and never deduct nor reduce any aspect of you...!!! Amen!

@thenamakays6871 Ай бұрын

If theres a Podcaster who knows how to ask relevant questions ... Madam Speaker! 🎉🎉

@madams___speaker Ай бұрын

Thank you so much

@sazi7128 Ай бұрын

5 years ago I needed someone to hold me like that and tell me those words of encouragement.😢😢 I fought the battle all alone.

@pulanemayekiso4701 Ай бұрын

😢Sorry sisi. Stories like this, just tear me deep! You know when she said "He kept on saying I'm a parasite" 😭 That's what I'm hearing as well😭😭

@dede-ju9zh Ай бұрын

When you thought you were alone God was always with you sis.

@jeanniejacobs1364 25 күн бұрын

I want to cry, hearing this sad story. BUT GOD!! GOD Will restore what the canker worm has eaten. GOD will wash away your tears, young lady. His mom will beg your forgiveness on her death bed and he will be calling on you to take care of him, soon... I pray for you dear. I have been through alot. BUT GOD!! You will laugh again! GOD bless you and your children exceedingly and abundantly. Will be praying and thinking of you... You are Beautiful ❤️🌺🌿

@sheronsnethembancube2693 Ай бұрын

She breaks my heart when she starts talking about her kids.....it's not easy being a mom I tell you❤🎉

@suigeneris5193 Ай бұрын

I hate how they handled the niece. She was a victim of grooming and sexual abuse. He groomed a child, he’s a paedophile and a rapist. How tf can a child in grade 8 consent to a full grown man?! Disgusting behaviour, he’s scum of the earth and the family failed to protect that girl. She needed protection and he needed to go to jail for statutory rape.

@DM135__ Ай бұрын

That part broke my heart. They failed that girl - she was 13/14 when it started 💔. A child. Little girls are not safe anywhere, even with their families.

@suigeneris5193 Ай бұрын

@@DM135__Exactly! She was a baby being groomed by this evil man. I hope she heals and finds peace and also knows that it wasn’t her fault💔

@sparrow62210 Ай бұрын

I concur, I hope she can forgive her cause she was also a victim❤

@ALPHAROYCE Ай бұрын

Same thing I said. How can you make the niece the villain?!! The husband is a pedo

@caskido Ай бұрын

We need a part 2 please, you are a strong woman, kids know and sometimes they can't express themselves cause they don't know what words to use......

@sajobleads Ай бұрын

The niece was just a baby💔 I’m asking myself if he can be trusted with his own daughters 🥴

@naturalbeauty8041 Ай бұрын

I was just thinking the same. How can the niece be blamed when she was a CHILD when this man took advantage of her. He was responsible not the niece. 😢 Sad

@ntombidlangalala3298 23 күн бұрын

Actually this was child abuse . Her husband sexually molested this child . This is so sad for the niece , the poor girl was raped at such a young age . May God help the niece and heal her .

@mbalimthimunye 7 күн бұрын

Yes the baby was groomed 😭😭

@dimphogift3747 Ай бұрын

Madam speaker those words of encouragement at the end was something else❤you deserve your flowers girl

@Naledi_Matsane Ай бұрын

Love and light to you mama🙏🏾🙏🏾 …my biggest takeaway from this is as women we need to learn to love ourselves and take accountability for the role we play in our own suffering

@gugukhumalo9313 Ай бұрын

"take accountability for the role we play in our own suffering..."

@simangelenyanda5158 Ай бұрын

For 4 years you supported him and never once called him a parasite. I am so mad on your behalf! Love and light to you, your kids and your sisters. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

@thonkhaPatricia Ай бұрын

Red flags were even dripping blood but she just kept going.loving someone is a complicated matter.😮

@robbylebotha Ай бұрын

Dont forget she threw bricks in cars and nearly killed a dog out of anger. And yall find it funny

@candy23451 Ай бұрын

Patricia.. very true

@annmaryjoseph879 Ай бұрын

@@robbylebotha At least she admitted she did but check yourself. Are you one of those prideful men who treat women with such disgrace or commit sins too shameful to even talk about but here trying to put down a woman who lashed back at those who wrongly and wickedly hurt her?

@Lelough_ 25 күн бұрын

When do these people with so much love give this same love to themselves?

@moeledikgale2493 Ай бұрын

Yohh I found myself crying at the end when she said "I don't know what I did to him so bad". You didn't do anything Asi, that man never loved you and hence the horrible treatment. He loved the idea of the comfortable life he had, just not with you. You are going to be fine with the kids, oska wara. God will definitely see you through this storm. He's going to change those lemons you sucked all this years into a sweet lemonade. Trust in Him, O tla bona. All the love to you and the kids sisi❤️❤️❤️

@greatergodage5219 27 күн бұрын

"I don't know what I did to him so bad" I will tell you. You cheated by taking revenge. You made yourself something that is like him. You demeaned yourself. You showed that you're not better than him, that the two of you are the same kind of human beings: untrustworthy, uncommitted, gutter people. He sleeps with his niece and other women and looks in the mirror and doesn't like the man he sees. Now he looks at you and sees himself: the person he is running away from. You are not better than him. My take: Do not let anyone make you what you are not. Always maintain your standard and integrity because in the end they will speak for you. Even if they parted ways, he would have so much respect for her because she is a better person, and would try to please her from a distance. See how a 3 months fling brought the lowest points in her life to the whole world, crying on camera. That's lower than lowest. Not that it matters in this age and time, men have evolved (I dare say genetically evolved) to look for and stay with a woman who is a better person than he is. He wants that to rub off on him.

@lavjamsoflocamp 25 күн бұрын

He is a narcissist off the mom

@tertiat Ай бұрын

Why is he not paying child support, take him to court. Fight for a better life for your kids, he can't be enjoying life & the children are suffering.

@candy23451 Ай бұрын

Yebo

@naturalbeauty8041 Ай бұрын

How can the niece be blamed when she was a CHILD? This man took advantage of her. He was responsible not the niece. 😢 Sad

@retsebilemalele1715 Ай бұрын

I'm suprised people keep saying a affair, sounds like rape

@naturalbeauty8041 Ай бұрын

@@retsebilemalele1715 Exactly 💯

@KamoheloSehloho-go1yw Ай бұрын

It's wanting someone's life that lead people to and young woman to a devil's world. She wanted her Aunties life.

@angiebaks2859 Ай бұрын

She should have said something.. not innocent here. What is the worst that could have happened to her to speak out??!!

@refmokobe7698 29 күн бұрын

@@angiebaks2859She wanted her aunties life

@lifewithtshidiedza381 Ай бұрын

The marriage should have been never took place😢

@MMAJWALASOOTHO Ай бұрын

It's late for that

@lifewithtshidiedza381 Ай бұрын

@@MMAJWALASOOTHO We know We are just saying the facts

@Lelough_ 25 күн бұрын

She forced it and she got what wanted, a HUSBAND

@lifewithtshidiedza381 24 күн бұрын

@@Lelough_ true😔

@nozukojoseph2214 Ай бұрын

A man that you've love your whole life will wreck you especially if that was your 1st love. What makes things worse is you persevering in the hope that "things will get better". You work your butt off building a family, you love him, his parents, siblings & relatives more than your own. Every affair you find out about, you forgive & soon another will surface. Unfortunately, (as much as everyone will be trying to convince you that this is not working) it is only you that will make a decision to leave. You definitely will cry for a long time BUT time will come whereby you'll be narrating the story as if it happened to someone else. At that time you'll be saying "Thanks God for taking me out of that". As a mother you have no choice but to be strong for your kids. Channel all that love to them & only them. ❤❤❤❤

@rikavandenberg6874 19 күн бұрын

The mother in law has always hated you. Don't stress about regrets it's made you a stronger woman and mum. The mental abuse has been crazy from the start. All you did was love an unlovable selfish cheat. Don't blame yourself. Your children are your blessings, and they will make you proud. Trust God trust what is happening

@thenkaliway85 Ай бұрын

At 1h15min, she mentioned she doesn’t go to church but she prays now… I recommend to start attending church and find comfort in the community. It helps

@hildakgodu5796 Ай бұрын

A lot GOD will heal her and she and her kids will be just fine 😢

@Ameerah07 Ай бұрын

Chruch is toxic Do u think if she was in a chruch community they would advise her not to leave?

@overstandself9954 Ай бұрын

I dont think church helps with most matters. It's kinda like family. You will be lucky to get help without being a hot topic of some sort.

@sparkle257 Ай бұрын

Let her do what works for her. Church is not always the solution.

@bwari01 Ай бұрын

Church is where they laugh at women who are divorced. Church is where women are manipulated to stay in abusive relationships while praying for men who are not praying for themselves.

@khathutshelo051 Ай бұрын

When the time comes we will talk about how VENDA mother in laws are cruel and raise their sons to be “pseudo husbands “ because WTF. To be honest this lady’s husband was abusing her with his family. There’s no ways this guy will ever see peace in his life.

@dineochokoe9532 Ай бұрын

I just fear for the girl he will remarry

@khathutshelo051 Ай бұрын

@@dineochokoe9532 eix you know especially since we still live in a patriachal society.

@keepitfrankwithfentse Ай бұрын

Babe. Limpopo men nje...My mom loved my granny aka her MIL cos she was treated like an egg mara Ive seen how limpopo mothers act like their sons are husbands...they never cut the cord. Its a pandemic at this point..

@mpeu4625 Ай бұрын

Women raise their daughters to be wives but not their sons to be husbands! Toxic!!!

@hlengiwemathenjwa1371 Ай бұрын

I pray a lot of women that worship broken marriage just in the name of the kids or the years gained may learn.....leaving a toxic relationship Is being strong even from cutting off from the engagement stage is strength....I left my marriage after being married for a year which felt like 50 years of misery and I told my self l would rather do this earlier than later and I wish cut off the bullshit from when I was engaged.

@mphohappiness1736 Ай бұрын

God is nooot a fool. We will all pay for the things we do to people. I love that the mother in law has daughters. That's exactly where the karma will hit her. God will pull through for you mama. Your kids' tears will find justice my dear. You are still young.

@osheimohmagdalene7548 Ай бұрын

So touching, God will take care of you and the children. He'll come back begging but it will be too late. You deserve a better life and family for the kids. God bless u

@angelinealfesta680 Ай бұрын

This woman is funny hle😂😂😂😂😂😂. "He bit and went ghaaam" Love her❤. Its a sad story but very funny 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@mphohappiness1736 Ай бұрын

I laughed so hard. I listened to that part 3 times

@KhanyisaMukansi Ай бұрын

N the part of the dog...in the air

@ThlologeloPromiseRampa Ай бұрын

I couldn’t help but laugh too. The nerve for him even bite her 😮

@triciakekana 29 күн бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂

@TheAdvocatesT Ай бұрын

Women go through alot, we are lovers by nature, we give in... This remind me of me relocating to where my boyfriend was and the first message I receive when I landed to where he was, was that it won't work😂😂😂😂🤦 imagine he was supposed to pick me up 🤭 you will heal my dear, you will be okay🥰🥰 his day is coming 🌹 stay strong and love yourself whole heartedly

@Boity_Lehihi Ай бұрын

She is a funny story teller, a brave woman, until she breaks down for her kids😭😭😭 God is with you Asnath❤❤you will be fine

@hlulaninohlahla Ай бұрын

The puppy part made me laugh so hard and stopped sympathising 😂😂😂😂 but when she continued from there she made me cry 😢😢God restore the years that the locusts has stolen from her like you did Joel 2 :20 -22

@kgomotsomaleme1320 Ай бұрын

The puppy situation made me laugh too😂

@kgadiaphane177 Ай бұрын

I love how u held her hand madam 😭

@b_mandisa8560 Ай бұрын

I cried 🥹

@madialemotsiri586 Ай бұрын

I suspect the mother is behind him moving on, karma is relocating him, watch de space.

@kopanomoabelo7609 Ай бұрын

Definitely the mother

@bakibaki5475 Ай бұрын

True

@missbonolooabile1733 Ай бұрын

This was my suspension as well. A very horrible mother of tou ask me.

@katlin1615 29 күн бұрын

Definitely

@francinantombi6923 17 күн бұрын

Yes de mother in law knows a lot,she's not enough with the husband but y is she doing ths to his son

@ingridphillip5367 Ай бұрын

Wow I’m already saying she is strong woman of God💕🌻🙏

@madams___speaker Ай бұрын

Indeed she’s strong

@dineochokoe9532 Ай бұрын

I love the fact that she has her lovely and supportive sisters❤oh my God I can imagine the love. That's what gives her more strength. I wish I had one like hers. Take heart sisi nxase❤❤❤

@Bessie-ff7rs Ай бұрын

He even robbed the children of health insurance wow!!

@theresaphooko3594 Ай бұрын

That niece of your will never have it all, Be grateful that u got out alive, some dey don't get de chance see another day or even raise their kids...u are a very brave and strong women.

@LethoHali Ай бұрын

Sis! Gather up strength to go to family court! God is with you. He will NEVER leave you nor forsake you!

@ingridphillip5367 Ай бұрын

This story is just wrong on every level! She ignored all of his red flags. I thank God she was able to get out of this nightmare, she’s beautiful and I know that God Will restore everything that happened to her🌻💕🙏

@sifisosithole9631 Ай бұрын

The relationship was just a red flag as a whole

@tebogonemakhavhani3884 Ай бұрын

😭😭😭😭😪😪😪Yooh I hope this guy never finds peace sham cause it’s sick that he is out there having the time of his life while 4 people are suffering cause of him 😢Yooh I pray this lady finds peace and the strength to conquer this hey.

@enthierm3658 Ай бұрын

Trust me... It will start with him loosing his job... Then he will remember he has a family...

@bonolomoaneloa8293 Ай бұрын

Sis 😰

@oliviajoans Ай бұрын

Can we talk about how that men groomed the niece 😭

@-Natefo- Ай бұрын

Danko

@TimMacquire Ай бұрын

He is so conniving

@ElethuDuna Ай бұрын

Dude. He is a pedophile. She must have been 14/15 years old. If I was the mother of the child I would have reported him for statutory rape.

@qn7403 Ай бұрын

She needs therapy that poor girl

@sulezinyembezigqeba Ай бұрын

The best guest ever, the Pablo part killed me 😂😂😂😂😂 I'm sorry about her marriage though❤

@phindileforbeskhumalo2571 Ай бұрын

I highly recommend church my sister, a community of believers that will walk this journey with you and help you carry the cross. I wish you and your children healing!

@Vhuhwavho_mul Ай бұрын

True

@phindileforbeskhumalo2571 Ай бұрын

Just to add my sister, please make it a point to forgive your ex husband. It might be difficult but ask God for strength to forgive him so that you can succeed in your ways. God has a beautiful plan for you my sister and this is not the end of your story!

@Yoza1113 Ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂Pablo oh my God i love your guest she is a good story teller Very sad story though very touching the kids will be fine my ccta must go for mantainance

@tumi2610 Ай бұрын

😂😂😂Pablo ke stress, Her story telling is on another level.

@leboganglekgoathi1560 Ай бұрын

Not pablo catching the smoke 😂😂😂😂

@tumi2610 Ай бұрын

@@leboganglekgoathi1560 😂😂😂Where was he going le yena

@thatssozimbo Ай бұрын

Madam Speaker that monologue at the end, I cried😢😢

@VeliswaMa Ай бұрын

I am in a very similar situation. These podcasts are my therapy. On the part that breaks Asnath about the man severing ties with his children in every form, I can identify. It used to make me ask myself questions to which I didn't have answers until one day I came across this quote. " A narcissist will never co-parent with you. They will counter parent. They don't care about the emotional damage that the constant drama inflicts upon the children as long as it causes emotional drama to you."

@sinedladla1955 22 күн бұрын

This is wise!!

@Funeral1000 Ай бұрын

The education in this channel is loaded.

@fisanizondi951 29 күн бұрын

I was killed when she's showing how her husband beat her😂😂😂😂, first time hearing man bite lady 😢 God

@Iam_Nelisa 17 күн бұрын

I’m watching in my TV but I needed to come here and like this video, the host is an angel for allowing her guests to speak!

@MusaMphahlele Ай бұрын

Asnath I love you. I'm proud of you. I wish we can meet. During my interview with madam Speaker, I've realized that I really needed to speak about things I've went through. And after the podcast shooting I felt a sense of relief that I've never felt before. Yes I received negative comments from our fellow woman, but that made me even stronger. Madam Speaker you're doing a very great and excellent job by inviting woman we can relate too. May God give you strength not to get tired. See you at Soweto theatre ❤️❤️❤️

@Asnathmatheba Ай бұрын

How do i get hold of you

@isobelndoro Ай бұрын

I am so sorry. I saw your interview, Musa. May God bless you and your children

@isobelndoro Ай бұрын

@@Asnathmatheba Thank you for sharing . May God bless you and your children

@Ntando-cw1uq 12 күн бұрын

@@Asnathmatheba❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

@nelliedejager9553 Ай бұрын

Wow...such a beautiful articulated lady...you are wise and knowledgeable beyong your years..stay strong...you'll rise from ashes...you saved your kids by moving out of that house so you can reach your destiny..now is your time to rise...go and make the world a better place..you have soo much to offer..great lady..you are going to make it big out there ..God bless ...praying for you.

@ntwananontwanano2879 Ай бұрын

Bathong! The dog part😂😂😂

@tebogoleshoro5489 Ай бұрын

Shuuuu, des is so sad. I've been crying de whole episode. Not bcoz I've been dere.m not married, I've neva been but seeing what women go thru. May u b strengthen in Jesus's name.

@ntsakisimashele7905 Ай бұрын

Salute Madam Speaker. If my sisters keeper was a person. You are doing the most my love. Thank you Sesi ❤️

@xhosa789 Ай бұрын

You remind me of me. Mama you need to get to a point where you realise its just you now, you are not alone however when it comes to those kids... its just you. Don't aak him for anything, he enjoys hearing your pain. Do what you can and let God do the rest. It sounds like you have an amazing support system and that is beautiful. I pray nothing comes between you and those who love you. that team behind you will grow and flourish with you

@matshidisobella9927 Ай бұрын

He cheats and all this BS then punishes her and the kids??? For reacting accordingly to his actions??? Toko yawe 😔

@user-jc2iu5mh4q Ай бұрын

😂 toko neh

@user-hi9zh7lf8y 13 күн бұрын

Mara Oka sere toko😂😂😂😂

@user-dh9vn3gj1m Ай бұрын

You will do this life gal. Some of us are trying to rebuild again after being in similar situations like yours. Trust me you will get through this. Strength to you. You are in our prayers 🙏🏾

@zoliswangqiniso6584 Ай бұрын

She is a very strong woman you will pull through, I've been there when people said you will be fine Time heals i thought they were buying my face ,but here i am today Im fine staying with my 3 kids it's not easy but kuyenzeka.wish you all the best

@user-os3fk9wc9x Ай бұрын

Couldn't wait to hear this story. I think he is bitter cos he never thought you would eventually burst him. Kerp strong gal. God will heal you

@kgadiaphane177 Ай бұрын

Is she still alive? 😢😢😢😢 Who would survive this? Oh God please help us.

@fulufhelomakhado4082 Ай бұрын

She must approach the maintenance court if she haven't..

@thatokgatla8502 Ай бұрын

i cant find her on Instagram and i would love to support your businesses ❤❤❤Stay strong its not the end of the world❤❤

@nokwandajijwa4457 4 күн бұрын

Ohhh wow I’m in tears literally cause wooow …. I thought my life is a movie and getting to know that I am not alone. My sister you can do this, I’m routing for you❤❤❤❤❤❤

@Ato995 Ай бұрын

Asnath , you are healing nations mosadi. Thank you for your authenticity. Children are a lot more resilient than we think, stay strong. One day they will understand and ba tla go leboga. ❤❤❤

@lebolenepa8266 Ай бұрын

There’s nothing wrong with starting over and kids need a happy home, they don’t care about fancy materialistic stuff. Mother’s love goes the long way. You will get through it ❤.

@constancefaithful1451 Ай бұрын

The Pablo's scene 😂😂😂😂😂

@mmathetimphex7235 Ай бұрын

Poor pablo😂😂

@londekamhlongo2615 Ай бұрын

Even the biting scene 😂😂😂

@shingangetheonah9396 Ай бұрын

😂

@triciakekana 29 күн бұрын

I kept seeing Pablo flying😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@colleenwilson5683 Ай бұрын

Sister!!!!!! U r a Phenomenal Woman !! ❤️❤️ That fool has lost a gem . You're going to be ok my darling, God's got you .

@daisyfleming886 Ай бұрын

A man like that should not be trust with children be very careful be strong for your children

@joycesebati4695 Ай бұрын

Aaag shame man i can relate with so many things ,the crazy making,abadoning of the kids,dealing with financial crisis alone with the kids i know is hard mommy i am sending healing and praying for you be strong and you are fortunate you are still here to tell the tale and i can see my darling you've got this ❤❤good luck with your future endeavors love you lot and madam speaker thank you 🎉🎉

@m_tecturial Ай бұрын

Such behavior from vhanna vha Vhavenda ain't shocking at all. Even their parents are in on it. And there seems to be no signs of change with the new generation of mother-in-laws.

@mubveleli7204 Ай бұрын

Not all venda people are like that ,otherwise we wouldn't have Dirvoce amongst other tribes

@LuckyJudaz Ай бұрын

You're tribalist hater

@amazetimbane Ай бұрын

Such a good story teller ..was so glued to the way she does her expession sounds "the mmhhh" "Haaaa" "Okay" I love Asnathi❤❤ ..... She carries such a presence 😊😊

@relebohilebridgett3098 Ай бұрын

Ahh my sister may God give you strength to raise your kids and for to heal...You are going to be okay my love. Madam speaker may god also bless you to keep on supporting other women, we love you.

@spm9130 Ай бұрын

The honest truth is that most men don’t fight fairly, they use their own kids to fight their ex wives. It’s very painful but they always pay for it! Mark my words, ex husband and niece deserve each other.

@elladube2694 Ай бұрын

I will pray for you my dear you are strong and beautiful and intelligent. Allow God into your life and he will fight your battles love you dear.

@dianentokonyane6892 Ай бұрын

This story has hurt me. By God's grace things will fall in place. You are a strong woman.

@marciamasemola8262 Ай бұрын

I love the fact that you just let her narrate her story and didn't interrupt her... Her story is painful and I pray that God meets her at her point of need

@SibsM93 Ай бұрын

You are a strong woman. You will be ok, the kids will be ok. There will come a time where you will no longer need to be strong. GOD has your back, and by you sharing your story openly like this, it's only the beginning. Love and light ❤

@thandolwenkosi9644 Ай бұрын

Thank you madam speaker for your encouragement and word full of wisdom

@relebohilerose1269 Ай бұрын

The ex husband was abusing the niece, how can he date or coerce a grade 8 that’s a minor

@khomotsomaselesele1629 Ай бұрын

I thought the same thing. I feel he was also being enabled by his mother and if the niece's mother had threatened to open a case the mother would have had an eye opener and call her child to order.

@relebohilerose1269 Ай бұрын

@@khomotsomaselesele1629 I think she would still want to defend him

@Annie33385 Ай бұрын

Him grooming the 14 year old niece is crazy

@relebohilerose1269 Ай бұрын

@@Annie33385so crazy, I am not pleased with how it was handled

@_molebogeng6281 Ай бұрын

How does a 14 year old afford lavish things and nobody asks questions mara