Was coming to say this!! My mother told me this many many years ago (but pertaining to children) 😂

Joel mobbed by the "leurve" machines

But what if I'm also lazy? ;)

@@aina3387 Then you need a Beckham in your life :D

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@@kittypewpew I probably do. My horse is pretty young and I'm the only one who has ever been on him so I'm always worried he will flip out and I'll end up on the ground. But in reality he's a pretty smart, confident guy who is a bit lazy and could use a little more pressure than I ever put on him.

@@aina3387HAHA i feel you here. But my dog knows that if my tired/lazy ass yells at her, she must be doing something REALLY wrong 😂😂😂

The fact that joel had customers that said another trainer told them to put their dog down says a lot. Even if you want to be a good owner, god knows if youre gonna find a good trainer

Discipline = Freedom. A well trained puppy becomes an asset, an untrained puppy becomes a liability.

discipline is loving, tbh.

Don't worry, there's much worse than that

Agree

Yeah I have a pryadoodle that weights 70% of my weight and I’m 160. And he is a teenager. Very good dog, but he needs the same corrections that Joel talks about

I hate it when the wife jumps on windows to get inside

@@Myndi78 😂😂😂 And the licking the guests without permission...she always does that. 😎

@@mooksool soooo... Can I come over? 😁

He probably is one. I know Larry Krohn says something to the effect of "I'm a marriage counselor and the dog just ends up improving"

Omg I totally just noticed the replies.. Now that I'm using that perspective.. I'm glad my hubby doesn't stick his head up everyone's dress and drool when he smells women's like the dog does tho, that's for sure. He sure is a good boy!

right?! Gorgeous abode!

Lol. I noticed the same thing😂

He's a brilliant dog trainer but really, that was rude. I think she should have given him a correction 😂

I lol’d better than adjusting …. 😂😂

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Yeah I saw that when I was watching the footage. I feel like that’s a spot to put a foot thought.

@@BDTraining, I think of all the running shoes that were put on that hearth and tied up before a good run.

When my chihuahua wants to be picked up, he comes to you puts his head down, and gives you his handle. He doesn't like to be picked up any other way, and even our vet picks him up by his handle. He cries if you don't use his handle. He is very old and I think he has some aches and pains.

Joel was actually talking to everyone who was watching the video. He did that because all the people that do not like him wait for him to hurt a dog so they can call him out. They would have jumped on that. “He yanked and pulled on a golden retriever by his hair and skin. How awful!”

I wouldn't have had a problem if he grabbed some loose skin. Dogs grab each other as such all the time.

I think we’re in a gray area on whether a foot can be put on that thing

@@BDTraining fair 😅

@@BDTraining It looks like its meant to be stepped on

That paw touching is a definite Golden thing

That part is very important!

“No participation medals with dogs I'm afraid.” 👏 LOVE THAT! ❤️ (If I read it right.) An excellent way to say, “Nope, that's not going to work here,” to the owners that “might” think Joel is being a little harsh.

We all need constructive criticism, and so do dogs. I loathe it so much when owners accept bad behaviour from their dogs and do nothing to correct them. They will just make everyone's lives around them miserable, and I'm sure the dog doesn't want that, but just doesn't understand it from verbal feedback, so some physical way that doesn't hurt them works better.

My thoughts exactly! I wonder what she does for a living

Yes!

@@claire6568Looks more like generationsl wealth

I love the kitchen.

Do you know what Gentle leader he recommends ?

​@beckygwinn2107 that's literally the name of the item "gentle leader"

The gentle leader does work, don’t it. I’ve got a puller… she is perfect, with the leader on, well still needs correction, but the corrections actually amount to something. She is ok sometimes without it in but I make sure to also carry the leader. If she starts acting up is show it to her, she likes not having it on, and that will sometimes get her to start listening. 😊

I had to use the Sprenger collar with my Doberman. The gentle leader just wasn’t enough. I think my dog actually likes the sprenger better because he doesn’t have something around his face all the time. He seems happier on the walks.

@@markhoffmantotally agree. Prong is way better than any head collar. Clearer communication and less annoying to the dog.

yes!!!! Both dogs were like, "Okay, now what are we going to do?" Full attention❤

​@@AIuzky yes! I used to love Cesar Millan but ever since I learned about positive reinforcement and then see Joel. I realized that Cesar uses sort of the same methods, but his are very forceful and when he uses his other dogs, they don't really do much to help.

@AIuzky no it's not abusive, do you even watch Joel, him and Cesar align damn near the same, they just both have different techniques... Go somewhere else with your agenda! You probably should learn how to spell too while you're at it.

@instridewith_life you cannot fix aggressive or bad behavior with "positive reinforcement" Joel and Cesar are not against positive reinforcement, they use that too, but with behavior like this you cannot fix it. You really need to educate yourself on dog behavior.

@@rev9fan1 You dont need to tell me to educate myself, I'm very well educated having gone through a dog trainers certification and many years of working with different dogs in my job. I was just commenting on the difference between Joel and Cesar.

@@AIuzky Depends on the dog. He has some insane dogs.

I know, mine had a muzzle like that and that's amazing

I heard gentle leaders can break snap or pull on neck ingury or Mae a sore neck .That's why I wouldn't use one .... Seeing and hearing about can't lead a horse using a halter makes more sense As I have been using a harness the guy at the pet store told me to use a harness instead of he felt collar ..He also told me he is a dog trainer and knows harnesses are the best to use 1.5 months later broken harness my arms feel like hey are going to come out of my sockets.. I have abig dog I am 64 Catahuhla Leoperd dog

right?! It was hard to get past that and actually watch the vid! 😂

I was really skeptical about a head harness for a big dog because it seemed so flimsy, until Joel talked about horses. Then it dawned on me - yes, the head harness doesn't need to be massive - horses don't need a massive halter.

Correct! Paying more attention to what you are doing than doing whatever she wants to do without any boundaries. She stays safe and is a good dog citizen. Dogs don't like to be in trouble all the time. Plus, who doesn't want to know their boundaries so they don't always get into trouble? Dogs want to please us!

Remember, “This is not the channel to shame the owners of the dogs on this channel.” ~Joel Beckman

He said that for all the viewers of the video.

@@User7688.--_ yes, I get it

I know, his videos are helpful

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right?! That'd be my dream assignment: go train 2 beautiful sweet clean loving Goldens in a gorgeous house with a teachable owner😂

@@jillsy2815 yeah me too but realistically I would be rolling around on the floor playing with two very rude dogs and they wouldnt learn a single thing 🤣

@@Myndi78 🤣That's so fun to do!!! Yes🤣🐾❤️

Yes! And the owner was even surprised how much the dogs loved Joel! But she learned.

He has a puppy series. Remember, 6-9 mos is the craziest time in the puppy's life and after 9mos you can gett hardcore. Start with love❤

@@jillsy2815 Thank you

I feel for you, and I’m sorry that happened to you. I wouldn’t want to have grown up the way you had to, and you had to just take it. You can’t blame yourself now. You did the best you could with the skills you had at that time in your life. I would have raised my two boys the way you did if I had gone through what you went through. I had pretty much the opposite experience with my two children. My first son was a good baby and toddler, a respectful and helpful teen. He was a confident, leaning toward cocky young man, he was looked up to, and he wore it well. I was pretty hard on him. I believe every decision we make there is a consequence, and it is either a good one or a bad one for us. I showed my boys that at a very early age. “We need to get ready. Would you like to wear this or this, or I can choose for you. He did not want to get dressed. He was battling me getting dressed. We stopped and talked. He still didn't want to. So, “You can either let me dress you, or you can go the way you are. It’s cold outside.” (it was winter.). He kept battling. I stopped and said., “Since you don't want to get dressed, we’ll go to daycare like you are.” I picked him up sweetly in his T-shirt and diaper and put him in his car seat. (I had taken his clothes out to the car beforehand. We were a block from home, and he said he was “ca-cold.” About a mile away, I asked him if he was ready to put his clothes on, and he said, “ye-yes,” shivering. I stopped the car, and he let me put his clothes on. He never fought me getting dressed again. My family and people thought I was so “mean.” When the boys were little, I let natural consequences play out but was right there for them when they made a decision that they weren't happy with and there to comfort and talk with them about what happened. Screaming in a restaurant, “If you don’t stop screaming, we’re going to the car.” We don’t scream in restaurants. No one else is screaming, are they? Mind you, the screaming was because he couldn't climb and play on the floor under our table. He didn't stop, and out to the car we went. I told him to let me know when he felt better, and we could go back in. He did, and we happily went back in. No grudges were held. They began to believe that I would do what I said I would do. I was consistent. I had to be. They always had a choice. They are wonderful, caring, and thoughtful adult men. But it was hard to do what I knew I had to do. I believe what I did was the best for them. Maybe others don't, and perhaps it was wrong, but I don't believe it was. I was a single mother that loved my boys more than anything. I did what I had to do because I did not have consequences growing up and was very social and happy and utterly clueless about life and had to learn the hard way at 17 when I was out on my own. I wasn't going to let that happen to my boys. Thanks, Pittymama, for reading this long novel. We should go out for coffee. ☕Cheers!

@@pittymama4500, I'm so sad. I am more than sorry that happened to you. ❤️

Being consistent all the time is the key. You can't let one time go without the correction.