How to gain your Spouse’s Heart? | EPIC Replay April 16, 2017

How to gain your Spouse’s Heart? | EPIC Replay April 16, 2017 | Ustadh Mohamad Baajour

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@Islamis4all 3 жыл бұрын

Every married couple must watch this video. ماشاء الله تبارك الله جزاك الله خيراً يا شيخنا الفاضل الكريم

@klaw1425 2 жыл бұрын

Please watch nikkah khutbah by imam shafi Abdul AZIZ

@nurunkadil7336 2 жыл бұрын

@zubaidamajid3860 Жыл бұрын

SubhanAllah beautifully said explained MashaAllah every Muslim should know n listen specifically who are getting married this should be a must before getting married ,compulsory like a test paper before marriage A must counseling for boys n girls of marriage age ,thank you sheikh really appreciate my dream came true jazakala khairun kateera. This is also must for old couples too.l mean parents should have this knowledge house will be a peaceful place for kids to grow SubhanAllah.

@zubaidamajid3860 Жыл бұрын

Print my message

@themysteriousdunno1 2 ай бұрын

shukr alhamdulillah

@bekind913 2 жыл бұрын

JazakAllah. Reminders are -Astaghfaar -Kind word compliment each other -Dress nicely -Dont be stingy -Leave your phone tv and listen to each other -Avoid posting on social media -Avoid backbiting -Give gifts -compliment in front of family

@user-xq6ws7ph7p Жыл бұрын

Jazakum Allah Khairan

@OrangeBlossom4x4 2 жыл бұрын

Alhamdulillah I needed this video six months ago. Now my wife of 18 years wants a divorce, despite a blessed marriage for 95% of it. InshaAllah she changes her mind but it’s not looking optimistic. Anyone watching this video please take it to heart and fix or protect your marriage at the first indication of an issue, before it’s too late.

@syedarob3249 2 жыл бұрын

Brother please keep praying, especially the last third of the night for your marriage. May Allah bless what is good for you both, ameen.

@goddessr3065 2 жыл бұрын

@@syedarob3249 So you been no good to your wife and now you regret it. You hurt her. She is not living you without a reason

@goddessr3065 2 жыл бұрын

@@syedarob3249 Why in the night. Can I pray at eny time. What Allah is sleeping during day or what?

@syedarob3249 2 жыл бұрын

@@goddessr3065 you can pray to Allah anytime, Allah does not sleep, please refer to Quran, chapter 2, verse 255. The reason I said last third of the night, because it's a special time, when we do extra effort to wake up and pray to Allah, He loves that. That's just based on what I know, Allah knows best. Also your first comment regarding me not being good to wife does not make sense because I am a wife. Me and my husband we try our best to be good to each other and pray to Allah to keep our home peaceful.

@klaw1425 2 жыл бұрын

Please watch nikkah khutbah by imam shafi Abdul AZIZ

@joon_choco 3 жыл бұрын

The roses at the end were so sweet 🥺♥️ may Allaah grant us righteous spouse and make us a righteous spouse and grant us al firdaws 🤲🏻

@NazmusLabs 2 жыл бұрын

🥺

@itech40 2 жыл бұрын

Ameen!

@mohdhafizhelmi6505 Жыл бұрын

Ameen Ya ROBB

@SuliatAbisolaAjoke Жыл бұрын

Ameen

@Nancy-yz5oc Жыл бұрын

@mohd hafiz Helmi

@sarahsfaith9403 2 жыл бұрын

I wish I can give thousands like to this video😊 especially the roses part at the end, how nice is a community teaching us be nice to our spouse

@sharifahaljofree7278 2 жыл бұрын

MasyaAllah..very very very good lecture..my dad practise all the sunnah above n hes the best husband n the best dad ever💖💖💖💖🥀🌹🌺

@flyincoltd5502 Жыл бұрын

So true.my dad also used to practice all these Sunnah and indeed he was the best dad and husband.

@samehs2422 Жыл бұрын

MashaAllah

@petal21 Жыл бұрын

This lecture is worth listening to a 100 times. It's one of the most comprehensive lectures I have ever listened to. Jazakallah khairal jazaa!

@BMA338 3 жыл бұрын

Very beautiful speech Imaam, may Almighty Allah bless you. I am divorced woman,, and your speech is true and very inspirational

@mariamkaba9763 5 ай бұрын

Oh Allah I love this Deen . How can you not . ❤❤❤❤❤alhumdulillah.

@alzihr191919 2 жыл бұрын

This lecture is Life-changing . I wish every married couple get to see it . Jazakallahu khairan

@klaw1425 2 жыл бұрын

Please watch nikkah khutbah by imam shafi Abdul AZIZ

@user-et2ng1qb2m 2 жыл бұрын

Good lecture Mashaa Allah. I think a lot of these issues are caused by the underlying issues of emotional immaturity, lack of compassion, lack of self-control, lack of self-accountability etc on both parts. If that's fixed and aligned with Taqwa, perhaps we will start seeing the positive effects of such talks in our wider Ummah Inshaa Allah

@mabintykallay5338 2 жыл бұрын

May Allah bless our kids righteous spouse. Ameen

@elenakarim1 2 жыл бұрын

Ma sha allah. May Allah bless my dear husband with the highest paradise.

@salvacionawan6937 3 жыл бұрын

MASHALLAH, very powerful message and the best guidance and example to every couple, to follow , to have a happy and loving family...So nice flowers for all the wives of our brothers..ALWAYS bless you Sheikh with all the bounties and goodness, in this world, and the hereafter.

@samarahal-khawaldeh2412 2 жыл бұрын

Mashallah the ending melted my heart subhanallah what a great shiekh and community to be apart of

@souaddiso4213 3 жыл бұрын

MashaAllah, well said, Islam has it All alhamduLillah

@humsafarkhan2030 Жыл бұрын

Great lecture. JazakAllah Khair.

@luulsharib 2 жыл бұрын

I love this topic wallahi made me cry Alhamdulillah ماشاءالله تبارك الرحمن ماشاءالله تبارك الله جزاك الله خير

@Sniptool Жыл бұрын

This sermon reminds me maulana Tariq Jameel lectures in urdu on similar topic with great impact. We need to fix our houses first if we want to have good society, if that having defect all the remaining structure would be collapse.

@chicago80z 3 жыл бұрын

Jazak Allah kher for the beautiful lecture. May Allah SWT bless you with a long healthy life. We gain so much knowledge from you Masha Allah.

@mansuraluby3263 2 жыл бұрын

Ma shaa Allah🥺🥺💞..May Allah grant us jannah🥺🤲and good spouse's 💞

@larabayowunmi5684 2 жыл бұрын

Jazakallahu khairan. May ALLAH bless you and reward you in this world and the hereafter

@AceAcademics508 2 жыл бұрын

Mashallah , beautiful voice, beautiful quran recitation

@mrsKarim-mw7tp190 3 жыл бұрын

Masaallah, allhumma barik,Shaikh beautiful, may Allah blessed you and Your families and us,may allah makes all our family's full of Noor happiness, and established our deen.may allah Rewards you in Both world's. Allhumma amen.

@qudsiafarhana5524 3 ай бұрын

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@annleslie5730 2 жыл бұрын

Salam alakum Alhamdolilah, Mashallah this was a beautiful 😍 sermon which I shared with most contact. May Allah bless you with the highest Furdous. THANK YOU

@faridahnsubuga9214 2 жыл бұрын

Beautiful, beautiful lecture masha Allah..... Barack Allahu fikum shk. May Allah reward u for ur time and effort.

@kandegomdah4718 Жыл бұрын

That is true , we love kind words than gifts .

@aishaAliyq Жыл бұрын

We sure do

@django9494 2 жыл бұрын

Alhamdulillah..What a wonderful speech. Love from Riyadh.

@irissonata6371 2 ай бұрын

May Allah make us of the righteous spouse. IN Sha Allah 🤲. Great lecture by sheikh .May Allah bless Him and his Family.

@shafinaabdul2898 3 жыл бұрын

Ma sha Allah! If only both the partners in a couple had gone through this video!!!

@asadullah23200 2 жыл бұрын

MashaAllah this is an absolute gem! Jazakum Allah khair and InshaAllah we can all adopt the sunnah in our homes and hearts Ameen ya rabb al alameen

@mounisifou7770 Ай бұрын

Jazaka Allah khran sheikh shukran may Allah reward you for your beautiful advice alhadumlilah

@imaslowlerner Жыл бұрын

Mashallah, I wish I could have sat down and listened to this lecture with my then wife before we divorced in 2010, بارك الله فيك.

@unanoor8710 3 жыл бұрын

Ma shaa Allah, may Allah reward the sheikh for a practical nasihah. From England

@bg5462 2 жыл бұрын

Ameen

@jahaymaammarrahpanolong2909 2 жыл бұрын

Mashallah Tabarakallah, i so love listening you ya sheik😍 may Allah swt bless u more..

@m.safwanpeerzade7681 2 жыл бұрын

Jazaak Allah khair sir ur every word was precious yaa Allah put love and mercy between every husband and wife ameen

@taqwa9650 2 жыл бұрын

Thank you from my heart Sheikh. Love to listen to all your khutbas. May Allah SWT grant you Jannat ul Firdous! Ameen!

@imranhassim6731 3 жыл бұрын

Mashaallah very useful lecture for couples.

@ibrahimmanneh458 2 жыл бұрын

Great words please pray for me am searching for a wife ya shaykh. May Allah blessed you and your family.

@mohamedsalman2568 2 жыл бұрын

MASHA ALLAH ❤️❤️❤️awesome tips. In shaa Allah will follow.. The last part was😀😀😀 I miss that gift😭

@user-mw9uu9mt2v Жыл бұрын

Omgggg sooo good. Last part was epic 😁❤️

@nassimakadri6689 3 жыл бұрын

Masha Allah love the idea of the gift in the end haha

@abderrezak7412 2 жыл бұрын

Please, do use subtitles as some people are hard of hearing or totally deaf and would really enjoy listening to your lectures. Insha Allah.

@balqeswardak9369 Жыл бұрын

Salam brother. I love all your speech. Listen and crying for myself because he never feels me or praises me no matter how much great things I have done during our 25 years married. 😢please call us on our prayer 🙏

@apuhj4614 Жыл бұрын

May Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala grant you ease and touch your husband's heart to be kind ..aameen

@monirasultana4083 Жыл бұрын

Sister, have patience and one day Allah will surely answer to ur prayers and u will be greatly rewarded by Allah, Aameen. Also, a time will come when ur husband will also regret and will appreciate all that u have been doing for ur better half, In Sha Allah. I just hope and pray that it never becomes late for him.

@mrsKarim-mw7tp190 2 жыл бұрын

MasaAllah barakALLAHufikum wa JazakAllahu khairan shaik may Allah accept our house in full of happines,removed our all difficulties sickness. Allahumma Aameen.

@Salma2500 Жыл бұрын

Jazakallah kairan Shaykh for the Advice really touched me.. I pray inshallah for all of us sisters to have an understanding husband, who follows how the prophet Muhammad (saw) treated his wives.

@Aisakusainn 2 жыл бұрын

Marriage is indeed a blessing. Remember when you were single and praying and praying to get married? You feel like you have this emptiness. I see man you looks so much distracted because he really wants to get married.

@goodflowh 2 жыл бұрын

MashaAllah, the best lecture and as thoughtful gift. I wish all imams/masjids did that.

@apuhj4614 Жыл бұрын

Ma shaa Allah ...Nice talks BaarakAllahu feekum

@mohamedmustapha396 Жыл бұрын

May Allah grant us a good spouse and offspring

@amnanisar23 2 жыл бұрын

truly a Gem, Ustadh Bajour

@babithamk3027 2 жыл бұрын

Masha allah.. What a beautiful speech

@rebirthhair6706 Жыл бұрын

Love this! Much needed advice! ❤

@aleeza7866 3 жыл бұрын

Some man never appreciate what ever the wife does for him ,he puts her down all the time mostly in front of others

@21972012145525 3 жыл бұрын

Try marital counseling. Haleh banani has good videos on KZfaq, but you can also check with your local masjid.

@imranhassim6731 3 жыл бұрын

Yes my husband also do.

@aleeza7866 3 жыл бұрын

@@21972012145525 my husband never admits his abuse towards me he thinks it’s always my fault

@aleeza7866 3 жыл бұрын

@@imranhassim6731 we can only pray there is nothing else we can do

@sfkhan7797 2 жыл бұрын

@@aleeza7866 May Allah make it easy for you and give you ease

@irshadalikhan9509 2 жыл бұрын

May Allah SWT bless you, You are such a charismatic scholar

@DJsaima 2 жыл бұрын

This was an amazing lecture thank you so much xxx

@reginaldthomas1257 Жыл бұрын

😌😇🤗🤝🏾🫂🤲🏾❤💓💗💟 May Allah Guide Us, Insh'llah, Allahumma Ameen. Allahumm Alim ❤️ 🤲🏾

@rifamahmood917 Жыл бұрын

beautiful talk....ma sha Allah Tabarakallah

@annaagata1 Жыл бұрын

Ameeen thank you for a lesson and a Dua Sheikh

@brurberhanu9991 Жыл бұрын

MashaAllah, the best idea ever, Jezak Allau khair.

@maevemurdoch1123 Жыл бұрын

Jazak allahu khairan this was so beautiful. May Allah bless you all and give you Sakina in your homes AMIN

@razeenaamath218 Жыл бұрын

Very important advices May Allah bless you

@sairapeerbux4554 2 жыл бұрын

absolutely 💯 Alhamdullillah

@kandegomdah4718 Жыл бұрын

Subhanallah , even if a mistake is made , he will remind you of the passed mistakes in your cooking .

@kandegomdah4718 Жыл бұрын

Very beautiful lecture and so much we can all learn from . Thank you so much .

@madcanashiba8947 Жыл бұрын

Try not to cook for sometimes and when he asks you to do so tell him, no, "you don't like my cooking anyway"..☹️☹️So that he will be grateful the next time you cook for him.

@AhmedMohamed-ff9bw 2 жыл бұрын

May Allah's love and mercy be on you forever

@bakbakmindalano5662 3 жыл бұрын

Salaam. How did u reach that deep knowledge and faith. Love to hear your mesg.its full of wisdom . We trully feel your love in imparting that wisdom.

@klaw1425 2 жыл бұрын

Please watch nikkah khutbah by imam shafi Abdul AZIZ

@adi345adi Жыл бұрын

MashaAllah.. one of the most wonderful speeches I heard on this topic.. Barakallahu feek yaa usthad

@SharriffRahman6b6b Жыл бұрын

Alhamdulillah it's good to have such as positive man giving positive advice. It's encouraging and motivating.

@Adv.Muheet 8 ай бұрын

haha felt so good after listening you ... allah bless u

@mdabusaqibalamansari9979 7 ай бұрын

Subhanallah subhanallah subhanallah ❤❤❤❤❤ soo benificial video

@zarlashtrabmal3163 Жыл бұрын

جزاک الله خیرا یا استاد فاضل

@PinkFlowers365 2 жыл бұрын

Jazak Allah khayr

@rahmahty7026 3 ай бұрын

Amiin Yaa Rabbal a'laamin. Same to you sheikh

@latifabargir8852 3 жыл бұрын

Subhanallah

@samarahal-khawaldeh2412 2 жыл бұрын

Mashallah

@fadumafaduma5376 2 жыл бұрын

Mashallah

@rehanaabdullahi79 Жыл бұрын

ما شاء الله تبارك الله جزاك الله خيرا 🙏

@fakiyakiddiestv9211 Жыл бұрын

This is awesome advice. May ALLAH swt bless and reward you dear Ustaz Bajour. You are a great blessing to the Ummah. Jazakallahu khairan.

@rabiaabdul9009 2 жыл бұрын

Masha Allah

@joweriya6545 2 жыл бұрын

mashahallah ❤️

@capompocomedy3050 Жыл бұрын

Ma Sha Allah 🥰🥰🥰

@azizaahmad9249 Жыл бұрын

الحمد لله حاضر وجزاكم الله خيرا

@silverback564 4 ай бұрын

Amin

@anthonykadir4711 2 жыл бұрын

Great brother

@tahminarahman1431 Жыл бұрын

Alhamdulillah

@Aven2025 2 жыл бұрын

Subhan Allah what a beautiful message, how can we contact you sheikh for our Counselling Jazak Allah Khair

@tanveerbanu2285 3 жыл бұрын

Mashaallah india

@hamzamohamed6748 2 жыл бұрын

I feel so depressed and alone. I cant find a spouse but have everything else.

@TokyoHomes 2 жыл бұрын

Alhumdulillah

@amirhshaikh 9 ай бұрын

Surah Ar-Rum, Ayah no. 21

@mamoonanimani6476 2 жыл бұрын

Love you

@SA-xe3ow 2 ай бұрын

As Salamallahikum wa rahmatulillah wa barakatulillah, jazak allahu kheir ❤❤❤ Subhanallah wa Alhamdulillah wa Allahu Akbar wa la illaha illalah wa Lahaula wa Laquata illah bi Allah ❤❤❤

@wandaasgarali1737 2 жыл бұрын

Jazak Allah Khairun. Can we still donate on the upper left corner to Epic masjid?

@AhmedMohamed-ff9bw 2 жыл бұрын

Alhamudulillah

@HananOZ 3 жыл бұрын

A good surprise when you come home, not you're divorced. Or Asalaam alaikum habibti, meet your new co-wife.🙄

@brothersintruth 2 жыл бұрын

Hmm 🤔. Better be sincere and not embarrass your spouse by false praises. He/she will hear it from others and then would not trust you. But use wisdom in helping your spouse to be better. Praise the effort. Part of growing closer is to be able to trust the other with good or constructive opinions.

@muneersyed6500 3 жыл бұрын

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@user-wf1dg8nw1t 5 күн бұрын

My husband loves me to butter him with ghee . Today am going to give him two parathas dripping in ghee and Hyderabadi Biryani then I have made him happy for that day only.

@bennymuhammad2988 3 жыл бұрын

👌👍

@imranhassim6731 3 жыл бұрын

I had 2 times panic attacks because of my husband and hospitalised and mentally stressed by him.

@nuurjumaan266 2 жыл бұрын

Oh sorry some are animals

@najban2922 2 жыл бұрын

imran hassim, sit with your husband when he is in good mood and ask him what you doing is wrong to him and how does he want you to change and you’ll also get a chance to tell him about his faults and changes you would like. Give him enough time to change if you think he is not changing then find someone you trust who would listen to both sides and sort out.