Amen. May God be with you, continue to strengthen and bless you 💙🕊👑

Praying for the Holy Spirit to empower you to go to something else (a hobby, an accountability friend, the Word) in the moments you’re tempted 🙏🏻💪🏻

Hey mate, Just wanted to give you a few words of comfort that helped and still helps me concerning addiction to porn. God loves you even when you doing it. Yes, He doesn't like your action of watching porn, but He Loves you. "Though the mountains be shaken and the hills be removed, yet my unfailing love for you will not be shaken nor my covenant of peace be removed,” says the LORD, who has compassion on you." Isiah 54:10 please keep this in mind, It will strengthen you. Secondly remember God hasn't given you the spirit of fear but of power, love and sound mind. addiction is not a spirit of love or power, it is one of powerlessness. so what I do when I get the urge is to say "Lord I hand over this feelings to you and I take in your power and love and sound mind." And I repeat the verse of Him not giving us the spirit of fear to remind myself of what spirit He has given me. In a few days time I will be three years free from addiction to porn, and all this I am sharing with you was how He helped me. Most importantly keep your eyes on God and keep praying that He renews your heart and mind in Him. If God saw me through it, I am sure He will 100% see you through. And you will pass through to other side of this journey having a closer relationship with Him. So even when you stumble and watch it, run back to him and ask for forgiveness. Ask for forgiveness 100-200 times a day if you have too, but don't give up because He hasn't given up on you.

you dont have to fix yourself before God. draw closer to him say to God i cant fight this on my own. but you can. and youll see change. i tried fighting lust and i never beat it. only when i drawed closer to God with all my heart and trusted him was i free

Someone said we are not sinners because we sin, we sin because we are sinners. There is no shame in asking for forgiveness… no matter how many times a day. When I first began chasing after Jesus, I would always ask Jesus to answer the door for me whenever confronted with temptation. It helped me to redirect my focus back to Him… I’d worship Him, I’d pray, I’d read or listen to the Bible and temptation would flee. These things brought me closer to God in many ways and helped me get through. I hope this helps 🕊👑

James Tanny - the disciple James writes that faith without works is dead. We are commanded to repent; i.e. turn away from our sin to the best of our ability. Jesus clearly commended Zaccheus who tried to put things as right as he could by giving back to those he had stolen from. "Salvation has entered this man's home". Some of the advice here about getting accountability is very good, covenant eyes is a good start as it is a piece of software that takes screenshots of your online activity and sends them to your accountability partner, flagging anything up that is dodgy. It is far from foolproof but worth looking into. I will ask you some questions about your temptations (obviously I understand if you don't want to answer them, as it is very personal, and I am just some guy on KZfaq). Have you certain fetishes that you've managed to get into? If so, do you find yourself fantasising about these things during the day? As for prayer - what kind of prayers are you praying? Is there anything at all you have found helpful at any point? Confession - have you talked this over with your pastor/minister? Have you found a group of guys who you can tell specific sins to who you can then contact when you feel especially tempted? I did a course called click 2 kick which is run by "the naked truth". Some of the stuff in the course was stuff i knew bit the main thing I got from it is still regularly contacting guys in that group, begging them for intercession when I am especially tempted. I am asking all of this as someone who confessed all this out of the blue to his wife April 28th last year. I knew that those who practice sexual immorality and who have a lifestyle of lying will not enter the kingdom of heaven. It was a choice between potentially losing my wife and child and being assured of God's forgiveness, or of keeping up a double life and entering hell. I got into masturbation and lingerie catalogues and the like at 14, then later fetished porn. I am now 28. I wasted almost half my life with that stuff. Was it fun? Hell yes it was. I enjoyed it. But it is evil. My Lord knows it's evil. I know it's evil.. and it is so difficult today, I have a particular issue of keeping my eyes to myself when women walk along the street in the tightest pants (trousers), known to man, showing every jiggle of their butts and hips. But my Lord wants me to be a man of chastity, committed to loving, activally, my wife and my daughter (now another child on the way, Praise the Lord!!!). I guess my point is, you need both your own personal committment, and you also need practical Christian help. The Lord will not be mocked, but he also wants to be your Father, and wants to forgive you. Sorry this is very rambly, but I hope it's of some help.

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Prayed for you

What’s controversial about rejecting limited atonement?

@@christianthacker8943 because that's not what most Calvinists believes

@@HearGodsWord why should we care what calvinists believe. Instead read the bible through a non biased perspective

@@christianthacker8943 you've cared enough to comment.