Definitely don't skimp on your sleeping system or your tent, but I'm a big fan of the Teton Sports backpacks. You can get their 65L pack for under $90! I have a video on that pack.

I'm in a similar boat, having just started camping in April. One problem you'll find is that everyone had a different opinion on what "the best" is. I already own three different tents, only to have recently discovered that I'm a hammock guy. Kind of glad that I didn't drop big money on those tents. Of course I also have a couple sleeping pads that I don't use anymore either, instead I use quilts (underquilt and top quilt). It turns out that I also prefer alcohol stoves over isobutane, but I have a nice expensive isobutane stove too. I guess my point is, I can't recommend going fancy until your *experience* tells you that you want that fancy thing. The one thing the video didn't mention that I find valuable: keep a light change of clothes (shirts and T-shirt) and comfy driving shoes in the car. Even if the trip gets rained out and you're covered in sweat and mud, something that simple makes the drive back home much better.

The best advice would be to find a buddy you can go with. I can certainly understand the apprehension about going into the woods alone for an overnight trip. I have an overactive imagination which I have to keep at bay on almost every solo backpacking trip I go on (and almost all of my trips are solo). 😂

I hate to say it, but my best and only advice for safe, solo backpacking for women is - "Don't." Especially if you live on the east coast. Always take a buddy to be safe. It's not the 4-legged creatures which would be your concern. For the most part, they leave people alone.

That's so encouraging! Thank you!

They were definitely bad!!