She knows what she is saying Praise God I pray for all our marriages here that will flourish pray that God will change our wives to this.

My husband is my Head! ❤ I didnt know what this meant , didnt know how to accept this i was guilty of rebellion , Not meekness. & so to go from this into submission its not easy overnight - its a cry out to God to change you , its a Oh wait im suppose to listen to my own husband. I was In sin for years , No one taught me submission, No one taught me Authority , i was deep in lust to care😢😢😢 But i saught God In A Humble way , Seeking Change , Seeking How do i pluck out my eye ? 🙈 God Bless You ❤❤

Not married yet. Honestly all I want is to be submissive and respectful. I'm learning new things and trying to unlearn my old habits. My goodness I feel like this video was/is made for me.

I’m not married just had one failed relationship and my current one is hanging on a strings and he’s upset about the same things my ex was so at this point I have to take accountability and try a different route . I’ve never respected , honored or served any man . I just didn’t know this was important . Loving him just isn’t enough . I have no idea what I’m doing so appreciate this video .

I am a newlywed and this video has blessed me tremendously. Thank you for allowing the Holy Spirit to speak through you to bless others. May God bless your marriage and your family!

This is good!!! I was guilty of being bossy and letting him lead. I had to let him lead and respect his authority even when I didn't agree. I also had to extend grace and support him when he messes up. He's not perfect and neither am I which is why God gives us grace too. I love that you included your kids because that's real.

A man of God Should not have a Ego .. Ego Is a self serving emotion, it is a boastful spirit,it is not of God .. God calls us all to be humble .

I think we have so many things in common. I'm strongly opinionated, talk too much and takes my decisions myself. Though my fiancée has been trying to make me see these things you're saying, I still argue my way out, but I think I know better now. I'm learning Thank you.❤

This is just the advice I need at this moment. I think am same like you before. I know how to talk very well. In fact, I talk to the point that I don't allow my partner to over shadow me with my own point. I won't even know and he will start feeling offended with so many words I use. My guy loves me so much and we are planning to get married. I really pray I change how I talk and learn to keep quite. Now I understand men doesn't like it when a woman talks to over shadow them and making so much arguments

Prayed this morning 🙏🏾 asking for guidance in my interaction with my fiance and I come across your video. Thank you for sharing...as a strong babe myself who thought I knew girllll I did not know how underdeveloped I was in some areas that I just knew I had together ☺️

thank you so much for this video. it is golden! you are a blessing! my husband is very patient and loving with me. I have started fights because I wanted to be heard. I’m a work in progress and I’m starting to listen to my husband and without reacting

Thank you sis! This is really encouraging, I pray the Lord helps me to honour and respect my husband

I’m in my 2nd marriage as of Nov 1st and I wanna make sure I’m going in correctly this time 💞

Sis thank you im getting married in a few months and I struggle so much this was encouraging!

Great message coz not recognizing authority was killing my marriage

Thank you so much for your advice, I am already doing a lot of those things and I definitely notice that there's more peace in our home and our relationship but I am trying to get better. God bless you, greetings from Germany 🇩🇪

Amen. This was relevant in my life right now. God bless you Esther. Go far in life in Jesus Name!🙏😘

You mentioned too many good points to mention. Brilliant video and lovely to hear this message ❤️

Nice breakdown of your experience. Hope the knowledge you shared is accepted by those that want to grow with their husband.

This is the video I was looking for. All the other videos of submission I watched were lacking practicality. Thank you !

Needed this, thank you for sharing! ❤

Wow!!you have made me understand this topic of submission God bless you!❤

My husband knows very well about me, 💯,

So good,thank you.

So good Esther.

Ameeen. Am so greatful. For this tips

Oh my!! God bless you so much ma, this is the best video on KZfaq even with the distractions around you you still hit the points. God bless you ma🙏

Thanks sis. I really learnt a lot I'm about to get married and recently I've been having issues with my fiance.

I don't know how to thank for listening to your video. I have learnt a lot from this

I learnt a lot here. Thanks

Thank you so much I learn

Thank you for sharing

Thank you so much for this video

If a man is truly the head, and the wife is truly submitted as unto the Lord, she doesn't have the authority to allow or disallow. We shouldn't use the word allow. It implies the woman is still in control of the man.

Thank you, You are a true Queen!

Thank you 🧡

❤❤❤it was very helpful thank you

Thank you so much

I’m not yet married But I’m finding it difficult or at times I will get angry and talk to him rudely but after which it has caused issues that’s when I will realize that I talk to him rudely and not the way I was supposed to talk, but I found this video so helpful and I believe if I followed all what she said I will be a better person to my man, and I’m happy she talks about God and the Holy Spirit will always help and teach me 😊❤

I so can relate. Thank you for the advice.

Oh my darling, thank you so much for this

Thanks for sharing this . Much appreciated

You're forever blessed in the name of Jesus Christ amen!

wow thank you❤

Thank you and what a good mommy🤍🙏🤍God bless you and your family 🤍

Thank you so much for this video. I’ve been struggling with communication in my relationship and this video has opened my eyes to things I didn’t really think about. Much love!

Wow as a man my self I never put man hands on a women, a lot of times when you are that type and you respect your mother, some women will take advantage and vice versa. For anyone who is miss-interpret what this woman is saying.....The key to the lasting relationship starts with respect and trust first. She is not saying tip toe around a disrespectful man, on the contrary she is saying to respect his position in the house hold. IF you don't...then you should not be with him. A lot of tragedies starts with disrespect and untrustworthy people whom were hurt in the past. This happens on both the male and female side. You men should not take advantage of your position either! God bless this women that don't make them like this any more.

Needed this

Bless you my sis. The Lord spoke to me through you, I pray the Holy Spirit to help me to be just that. Abundant blessings.

Just 3 years of marriage with a lot of knowledge. Great job.

VERY TRUE

Amen everything you are saying is on point

This video is really helping me. God bless you!

Thank you so much The video was amazing Have learnt a lot on this God bless you Esther ☺️

What Does Name "Esther" Mean You are fine when in harmony but changeable when in discord, because many of your best qualities are then reversed. You are entertaining but may be impulsive. Freedom is a necessity, and you find it difficult to settle down. Your versatility results in many changes, and often brings travel. Your fine intellect is capable of high honors if applied seriously. You are capable of inspired thinking applied to material things. You can be restless, & changeable. You have an eventful, exciting life. You are versatile and have the ability to learn easily. Creative and outgoing, you are always looking for an opportunity to show your abilities, especially before audience. You are very flexible and likes to feel appreciated. You are looking for chances to mix with others socially and to communicate his ideas. You like to talk and can easily relate to different cultures and concepts. The biggest challenge for you is uncertainty. Easily getting bored, you can move from one job to another, switch projects and lovers. The high creative force can lead you either to happiness or unhappiness. If you understand your goals, if you can make major decisions in life and follow it directly and straight up without worry and uncertainty, you are able to achieve great heights.

Well said

Thanks for this video! valuable content presented in a gentle manner ❤ Thank you

Absolutely ❤️🙏🏾❤️

Wow awesome

I learnt a lot from this video, thank you so much 🙏

This was a great video!

Thank you so much for this it’s necessary and helpful in being a wife .

What a beautiful mother

FACTS!

Thank you so so much for this video 🥺

Thanks you are so right and I hope I did not hurt my marriage I will work on it 😊

This is so helpful, thank you ❤️

I'm a newlywed looking for guidance as a wife, this video was helpful. Thank you

May God bless you, my sister.

I found this video very enlightening and i can now see where i go wrong.

This was very nice I may have to listen to this every day until it sinks in. Is Ego a good word if you are a Christian? Prov8:13 God hates pride. I am not a heavy Bible thumper but there are some things and words that should not be used when talking about the Christian man. I have only heard this from women I think men knows that Egos get them nowhere with their wife.

Hi Esther, thank you for sharing. Where did you get the garmet rack behind you?

Please do more video on marriage again

Learn to tame your mouth! 🙌🏽 working hard on it! I’m a working progress.

What do you do when your husband makes a mistake financially or about quitting a good job?

That one dislike is from someone who already lost her husband before watching this video.

I subscribed! You're so beautiful (Ma Shaa Allah)!

Wowwww This video was amazing for me thank youuu!!! Now i need to put this in practice. Our biggest issues happened because of my trust issues any advices on that ??

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Hi..

We are Gods and Goddesses though. So its even ok to say God. We are all creators. Not thee creator but yea. This advice will be used. Thanks.

Peaccce sister. I wanted to ask for advice on not always bringing up issues, like hair in the comb or clothes everywhere? Do I sometimes take care of it for him or just tell him in a nicer way? I want him to get better habits without it seeming like I’m nagging.

How do you deal with a Narcissistic Husband? I am thinking about Divorce. Not a good feeling to be in the position I am. I thought that there should some equality for a Working Wan like myself and he works too. I believe in 50/50. What about you?

Forgot to mention that I have been married 20 years and have 3 children with my husband. We are all struggling because it has to be what he says almost all the time.

Not married though but this is going a long way for me now...

Great Stuff. Would love to do a collab with you about this.

….just as a wife

I agree to submit to your husband except if he wants you to sin or he wants you to enable his sin (ex:by your silence, or in any way enabling his sin)! Follow Mathew 10:15-17 kjv! First submissively appeal to your husband and respectfully show him the scriptures for what Gods word says and how you and he must follow God if you want things to go well for your marriage and your lives, and children’s lives and everyone’s lives! Pray before and after and if he won’t submit to Gods will, then you still must, out of love and honor towards your God and husband! Bible says to always obey the higher powers and the highest power is God, not your husband! Abigail did the right thing and did not submit to her husband but submitted herself to God and obeyed him, and went to honor her husband by going to David for help! Nabsl still would not submit to God so God took him off the face of the earth and David married Abigail and I believe Abigail is a great grandmother of Jesus! Eve in the garden new that her husband would want to take the fruit, and instead of following God, she put her trust in the serpent and wanted to please herself and her husband and so she offered Adam the fruit! Then when God confronted Adam for following his wife, he blamed his wife for his own choice to sin, and next, God confronted Eve for her sin, and she blamed the serpent for her sin. This great sin is mainly know as “Adams sin” in the Bible, even though Eve was first to sin. God doesn’t blame us for other peoples sins, only for our own sins. But God will hold wives and husbands and children and everyone responsible for the sin of silence if they see their loved one is in unrepentant sin and then they don’t biblically warn them (don’t follow Mathew 18:16-17). Most wives arent obeying God because they are afraid their unrepentant husbands will be mad at them. And most Churches and Christians arent obeying God because they are afraid tne unrepentant abusive person will be mad at them, or they are often afraid that their own wives or others will hold them biblically accountable for their unrepentant sins in their marriage/families!! These are false witnesses and must repent snd speak the truth in love to purge the little bit of leaven out of their relationships and Churches before the sin grows and destroys the entire family and Church! We must (even wives), always have faith and suffer persecution that will often come, when we follow Christ only. Those who follow Christ until the end will have great blessings on the end of not before them! There is many scriptures that teach these truths!

wow!!!1 amazing stuff

Do you apprpve of submission in a relationship?, he said if i want this to work i have to listen to him and submitt to him

I loved this video as a Muslim woman. What do you do if your husband is very critical and controlling?

What do I do when my wife doesn't want to have sex with me? I have been married for 5 years and I have struggled with this topic. I feel like I am a good husband and a provider but I feel like I'm getting angry and frustrated. Sexually frustrated! Do you have any advice for me?

the woman has as much authority as man has. just as much. she is the head over her husband just as much he is over her.

So you never bring up an issue that you have with your husband to him? What im hearing is just let it go and tell God, because you cant expect him to care or listen. That doesnt sound right to me

How can I get my husband back if he want to divorce

as a man, this video is kind of fucked up. the best relationship is held together by a mutual understanding and equal say. this ain't the early fuckin 1900s anymore

Thank you Esther , this has really gotten at a point of need ,is it possible to connect with you on watsapp I really need to have a deep chat with you thanks

Pls can I private chat you in a way