Every man should do this to be successful

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Coach talks about what a man should be doing in order to be successful.
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@manfrombritain6816 10 ай бұрын

"women never feel the sense of danger" - actually a super interesting point. a female friend was reading a book by this feminist that was about boys and men. she asked me one day if i ever feared violence while i was a teenager. i said i didn't exactly fear it at school but i was certainly aware that it could happen, and i would avoid the boys who were more likely to cause trouble. and yeah i was in altercations a couple of times. so it's just a fact of life. she said she was mind-blown by what she read in the book - the author had had conversations with young lads and girls to find out about their experiences, then wrote about the differences. my friend had no clue that men were basically permanently aware that they could be involved in violence at any time. and of course, girls have their own version - they need to be aware of sexual danger all the time from puberty onwards. it's different, but we both have our struggles

@CoachZahabi 10 ай бұрын

Well said. I wish I had elaborate a little more. Men and women’s fears are different in general. Men have to be aware of confrontation in public and or in private. For women it is mostly private violence they have to fear. In the public eye women generally have nothing to fear. Men are expected to defend and protect and women in danger. Rightfully so.

@saya9235 9 ай бұрын

Very interesting.

@MrSITH-qj6zp 5 ай бұрын

In the States women are getting sexually assaulted in public in the day time.

@jd8184 4 ай бұрын

Not just sexual danger but just physical danger as well. The most likely harm to women statistically comes from men After all , it was only until recently that hitting your wife was considered a private marital thing. Sean connery died in 2020 and i dont think that dude ever changed his mind on his stance that it was the right thing to do if your wife was doing something you didn’t like

@riosanchez5537 4 ай бұрын

@@kaya_avcisounds like he's talking about The Male Brain by Louann Brizendine

@rickrazack6186 Жыл бұрын

A man’s inability to protect his family can be very devastating to his ego and masculinity. It’s that’s old saying of a coward dies a 1000 deaths…

@isthi000ify Жыл бұрын

He had no masculinity to begin with

@Saber23 Жыл бұрын

@@isthi000ify every man has it, they just need it cultivated something that the West has completely failed to do

@bayyinahawesome415 Жыл бұрын

I started learning mma to defend my mom.

@danilpankov8114 Жыл бұрын

Though you are able to protect your family from a very small list of dangers. How come a man even have ego?

@Vscustomprinting Жыл бұрын

Firas, women used to have huge arms and protect each other.. In primate society, usually males are under mortal threat if more than one female is involved in the fight.. You are kinda pushing pseudo intellectual patriarchal stuff.. I find it a bit tired, and forced.. No person is an island, and theres no garauntee, .. i konda find its to matter-of-factual for the arbitrary social choices we choose . We arent "made for war", this conflates complication with abstract human ambition.. You know, other primates will often compete and fight over resources, even when they are abundant in the environment.. its so arbitrary how act as long as we persist as a species.

@CreamPieGuy69 Жыл бұрын

Got a strong sense of this analogy, "It's better to be a warrior in a garden, than a gardener in a war." Thank you coach for the reminder to stay hard!

@DBA-ge7vu Жыл бұрын

Inline with Coach Zahabi's valuable message comes a relevant quote, "The more you sweat in peace, the less you bleed in war".

@dragasan Жыл бұрын

I couldn't agree more. Not only did Khabib quit coaching to spend time with his family, but also to protect them. We must also learn how to handle a gun, because when push comes to shove, physical fighting will only get you so far.

@kinggirth8599 11 ай бұрын

Also deescalation skills are important avoid conflicts if possible

@MrSITH-qj6zp 5 ай бұрын

Not just a gun but weapons of all types sticks, blades, bows, thrown. And pressure test with what you can.

@JohnSmith-pg9ns 4 ай бұрын

@@MrSITH-qj6zpchainsaws etc

@mohamadallan8548 Жыл бұрын

Thank you coach. We need more heros like you in the ummah

@JackSparrah Жыл бұрын

The reality that every man needs to hear and understand. Thanks for speaking the truth. And as a Ukrainian myself, appreciate the callout of my countrymen.

@stevielavietv8957 Жыл бұрын

May I ask if coach is right about ukraine not going woke. I’ve heard Zelenskyy has closed churches and condemned faith. It’s hard to know who to believe in the media

@samsin34 4 ай бұрын

Firas, I absolutely agree with your philosophies on life ..I will be playing this to my 11 yo son, both of us are in martial arts , we run, sparr and he comes to the gym with me .

@triocha233 Жыл бұрын

Martial Arts has been nothing but amazing to me my whole life. Karate, Boxing when I was younger & now it’s BJJ, Wrestling & Judo. March 12th next comp 🥋💥👊🏼

@ahmodali4563 Жыл бұрын

All the best for the comp brother 👊

@modder1705 Жыл бұрын

Good luck bro!

@dm9392 Жыл бұрын

Keep preaching coach! Love the content about the reality of masculinity and the true responsibility of men.

@mariomaro7 Жыл бұрын

1 MILLION % coach. This is exactly what I needed to hear. I used to train, was fit, got sick, and am now turning into a useless blob. I can feel it and see it in the mirror and hate myself for it. But the distractions and my desires shackled me in place. This reminder coach helped me objectively look at my situation and realize I'm heading down a very dark path. I'm now going to get off my ass right this second and go hit the gym. Thank you coach, YOU ARE A BLESSING ❤‍🔥

@stefanocioni2587 Жыл бұрын

Yep; good luck brother; sweat it out and push man, I believe in you

@shawnmovfath7233 Жыл бұрын

Same here. Used to do MMA and lots of other trainings, but am now fat and extremely unfit. I am gonna start as well. Good luck.

@bez1196 Жыл бұрын

Hope you guys are still going strong. And if you're not, get back on that horse fellas!

@Hadithoftheday247 4 ай бұрын

All praise is due to Allah

@MMAShredded Жыл бұрын

Motivating :)

@Living_6 Жыл бұрын

Mark said he started MMA bc when he did other stuff (ex. running, bicycle) he would still be overthinking too much. Whereas with MMA, he has to be fully focused and can get his mind out of work

@BelieveTheBat 11 ай бұрын

I would like to add, not only to protect and provide physically but also spiritually and mentally 😊

@divine7223 Жыл бұрын

Provide and protect, lets get it!

@charlesgauldin8010 Жыл бұрын

This is golden, as always! Thank you coach!!!

@SMR651 Жыл бұрын

Love these types of videos. Lots of self help advice a lot of guys could benefit from.

@MSalman1 Жыл бұрын

thanks for the advice Coach!! :)

@ln5747 Жыл бұрын

I'm always amazed at the confidence and sense of calm I felt after only circa 6 months of training BJJ. It made me realise just how incapable your untrained person is and how incapable I was, quite frightening really. I really thought I could look after myself. Now, knowing 99% of men have no training, I have zero intimidation around others and standing my ground in situations. It makes you calm and assertive and is a wonderful sense of feeling knowing you can take it further if required.

@outstandingvegan Жыл бұрын

This is why I became obsess with bjj, I’m boxing since age 14 but 1st try session on the mat I realize how easily I could be taken down and be unable to defend myself now I wake up every morning thinking how can I be better grappler and fighter overall. Even though I’m a chef and a model but never again I want to feel as weak as my first day on the mat

@kinggirth8599 11 ай бұрын

Good for you but don't get a false sense of security if someone pulls a gun on you or if you're outnumbered and someone stabs you cuz your not intimidated

@ln5747 11 ай бұрын

@@kinggirth8599 that's common sense and you're awareness of such issues becomes greater with training combat sports, not less.

@kinggirth8599 11 ай бұрын

@@ln5747 I said that cuz you sounded too arrogant don't underestimate anyone

@user-ig1ew2kb8t Жыл бұрын

Dropping truth bombs, thanks Firas from a young adult

@miguelpablo7278 Жыл бұрын

this is healthy masculinity

@yac7571 Жыл бұрын

100% agree! Thanks for not being quite on these topics and expressing your opinion.

@bblwarrantydepartment981 Жыл бұрын

He’s speaking facts. The confidence I have comes from my wealth and my experience training mainly

@ReverseArrow Жыл бұрын

Great advice ! 🙇

@snakemont 11 ай бұрын

Providing & Defending!

@phoenixknight8837 Жыл бұрын

Barakallahu feek! Excellent advice.

@srambrero Жыл бұрын

preach guru Firas! loved this

@Nigel514 Жыл бұрын

True words have never been spoken very accurate analogy

@therulesaredifferent8280 Жыл бұрын

EXACTLY right. It is what it is.

@CG-zi5ku Жыл бұрын

This man is a true sage.

@captainnemo4422 Жыл бұрын

Coach for president 🙌 👏 u got my vote!!🗳

@anti_hero_660 Жыл бұрын

So true Firas I believe men need to do these things from love as well to provide for your loved ones, protect your loved ones and to discipline your children

@serenevalor Жыл бұрын

1% listener, here ✋️ 😆 Really tho, my husband and I enjoy listening to you. He's teaching me how to defend myself as well, and all I want to do is fight 😆 Your daughter and I are alike. Lol. I was a tomboy too growing up. With a Dad like you, eventually, she will obtain her blue belt (and maybe higher!). She just needs to learn to love the process as much as she loves the end goal. My dad taught me that too. Didn't get it into my head till I was 7 though 😅 Thanks for all your advice, Coach!

@AlAdams13 11 ай бұрын

Well said, provide/ protect, simple imperatives.

@intrusivethoughtofthatonetime Жыл бұрын

I'd also add health (including mental) and general adequacy in thoughts and behaviour (yes, they need to be worked on every day)

@user-xp3xq9gh9p Жыл бұрын

heard nothing but FACTS 👏

@mywellnessjourney-kk3sx Жыл бұрын

Coach Zahabi speaking truth here.

@markcoyle5211 5 ай бұрын

Love this

@jamesyoung5610 Жыл бұрын

Provide and Protect

@seebabs7776 Ай бұрын

When my eyes are open, I see a stoic man bestowing wisdom upon men. It's just him, a microphone, an internet connection and a blank white wall. But his ideas are expansive, grounded and colorful. I'm grateful for this man and im grateful for the one who put him here infront of us. Thank you for your time, ideas and selflessness. Be well coach.

@user-vf7zg2kv9b Күн бұрын

💯 Beautiful advice

@peacelove1058 10 ай бұрын

Amazing content ! As always .

@joeistead Жыл бұрын

Lot of truth in this video.

@f18_ Жыл бұрын

100% agree. No you're not crazy if so that's 2 of us. Well said!

@elviseugene1233 Жыл бұрын

It's better to be a warrior who's a gardener than a gardener in a war. "Sweat in peace to bleed Less in war"

@2KRAW Жыл бұрын

Truth hurts...so keep training.

@shawnmovfath7233 Жыл бұрын

Wise words

@Dante3014 Жыл бұрын

Thanks for giving a word about Ukraine 🇺🇦

@josephback-upaccount6116 Жыл бұрын

Waste of lives of brave men on both sides. Scandalous that the West provoked this war and Zelensky threatened with death by Nazis in his government to not make peace.

@hichampapi393 4 ай бұрын

Couldn't agree more 👏

@mrfarax4944 Жыл бұрын

I trained my sister when she was young. Best decision I ever made

@christopherbrown7876 Жыл бұрын

please keep doing these coach. Great Kuya advice (kuya = big bro tagalog) 🇵🇭

@Cub__ Жыл бұрын

Shout-out coach

@mohammed96011 Жыл бұрын

Firaz dropping red pill knowledge

@apurvamodessa597 Жыл бұрын

Cannot agree more. I needed a break from training, skipped wrestling class, took a week off and ate like a pig.. 🤣 I needed this! I am back to training 💪🏾 thank you coach 🙏🏽

@jakethecaliforniawolf4888 11 ай бұрын

Facts.

@funky3041 Жыл бұрын

Red pill firas zahabi, loving it ♥️ 😁

@EnergiaMartialArts Жыл бұрын

🙌🏼👊🏼

@Easybreezy3257 8 ай бұрын

This is great advice,time spent watching Firas videos is always a good investment,stay dangerous people 😊

@pmartialartsx Жыл бұрын

I want to link this so bad to my Martial Arts school feed but I fear it will come at a cost but great info 👍

@tytebeats Жыл бұрын

Glad to see I'm not the only one who thinks like this.

@haraldodunkirk1432 10 ай бұрын

Amen

@DefenderOfAzeroth 4 ай бұрын

I have to say that women DO understand the possibility of violence. They may not be thinking about it as much. But women are without a doubt cautious of assailants; especially in cities. They’re aware of violence. I’ve had female friends tell me that they’re always keeping an eye out while in the subways stations or while walking home alone. 100% many women are aware of violence.

@mostrinomostrino1763 Жыл бұрын

Wish i had a gym near me.

@jimboslice4623 Жыл бұрын

Do more on this topic. Thought experiments

@gunnysteele1233 Жыл бұрын

EVERY TIME I LISTEN TO THIS MAN I AM UPLIFTYED WITH THESE TYPE GEMS HUGE RESPECT TO U FIRAS ZAHABI

@outstandingvegan Жыл бұрын

Yes

@derekross6649 Жыл бұрын

Yep, always believed this.

@fran9023 4 ай бұрын

This make more sense with clip he says he would advise his 20 year old self to learn how to invest

@isthi000ify Жыл бұрын

May the eyes of cowards never sleep ~ Khalid Bin Waleed (greatest commander of the Muslim army)

@jim8574 Ай бұрын

I like to fighting its like chess, also the workout. Keeps you on your toes.

@briancaldwell1504 Жыл бұрын

We’ll said

@stefanocioni2587 Жыл бұрын

Funny thing is the more we learn to fight, the less we want to in the real world; make BJJ mandatory in all schools and see bullying cases cut in half year on year

@sidahmed789 3 ай бұрын

Coach zahabi’s daughter is more of a brawler typa fighter lol, تبارك الله ❤

@aaronharris4628 10 ай бұрын

I remember when 'woke' used to mean 'aware' or 'conscious'. The meaning has changed.

@sistematico17 Жыл бұрын

Most important video ever

@jamestk656 Жыл бұрын

I think Zuck said that he used to run to try to not think about work but running is boring and you can't help but think about other things while running. He said he likes jiu jitsu because you can't think of other things while someone has their knee on your belly lol.

@nomadicsoul34 9 ай бұрын

Its why my two young sons grapple. My 7 year old has stood opposite another boy over 400 times and rolled and wrestled. He stands there cool and collected ready to roll. I know he doesnt fear the physicality of other boys. Hes told me he is confident there isn't another boy in his year that beat him. That alone give him the confidence to walk with his head held high.

@MrSITH-qj6zp 5 ай бұрын

It's better to know and not need, than to need and not know. Pack an effective EDC.

@Al-hu7eq Жыл бұрын

MAKE A PODCAST

@isasardar7696 10 ай бұрын

TLDR; Every man, regardless of age or wealth, should continuously work on improving their ability to provide and defend themselves. A man should prioritize providing and protecting, and should constantly improve his physical fitness and martial arts skills. He mentions the need for self-defense tools like mace and stresses the significance of being prepared for potential conflicts.

@gnawty4662 Жыл бұрын

I love this topic. From health to mindset Firas - your insight and attention here is so important. Wishing you and your family the highest health.

@privateprivate2268 Жыл бұрын

👍

@freman75 Жыл бұрын

How do you improve your cardio?

@BrainFuck10 11 ай бұрын

Move a lot and control your breathing

@kristjanlampe6891 Жыл бұрын

At least somenoe is preaching truth now that Tate is not able to...praise Mr. Zahabi

@spencerdean4181 Жыл бұрын

Very good point on the sexual assault of women during war/conflict. Men often point out that women are inferior physically and give it as a reason for why they should not be combatants. As you know coach, there are some women who would put the average man in the ground physically. As a soldier I justified seeing women in combat rolls if they were physically more capable than average men in combat rolls, but .. Here is the reality, 1 man can get 5 woman pregnant in 1 day. 1 woman can be pregnant once a year at best. We have to protect our women, men are expendable, women are not.

@BrainFuck10 11 ай бұрын

Yeah but it doesn’t matter if she’s physically strong there’s other reasons why women shouldn’t be in ground combat, lower bone density, period cycles, emotional hormones, and unlike men women are programmed to be protected from birth so their instincts are not optimized for the dangers of war so they lack situational awareness in that environment.

@relax5371 Жыл бұрын

Hello firas, outside of this vid’s subject I personally think that bjj is useless without wrestling because how are you going to submit someone without knowing how to take him down. I have tried BJJ and I liked it so much but stopped it because I don’t find it so useful knowing that my gym doesn’t offer wrestling so that’s why I just chose muay thaï

@wajihbec1087 Жыл бұрын

Interesting. I want to start muay thai but i don't want to get my face broken lol. Is it possible to train it without putting my head in danger that'll maybe cause CTE?

@faradaystpete5683 Жыл бұрын

Wait, so you quit BJJ because your gym didn’t have takedowns so you switched to a striking art? Don’t get me wrong, keep doing striking, but grappling is the foundation. Find a gym that does takedowns.

@relax5371 Жыл бұрын

@@wajihbec1087 yes of course in my gym there are 4 levels to striking. 1 beginner. 2 regular. 3 intermediate. 4 advance. We only do sparing at level 4 so the other 3 levels we only train and learn techniques and rarely spar and even if we spar we don’t hit the face just body sparring. I hope that helped

@wajihbec1087 Жыл бұрын

@@relax5371 then i better develope pretty good defense before i get to level 4 lol. Thanks man that helped 🙏

@mp0wa Жыл бұрын

@@wajihbec1087 I wrestled in high school and just started Muay Thai training this month. I'm at the beginner level and we do a little bit of light sparring already. Head shots are light while the body strikes are a little harder. You're not going to get CTE, I see the more advanced guys wearing headgear when sparring. Wish I had started this when I was younger...I love the training! My biggest challenge right now is my shins are bruised up from the kicks and will need to be conditioned through time.

@bader6287 Жыл бұрын

الرَأيُ قَبلَ شَجاعَةِ الشُجعانِ هُوَ أَوَّلٌ وَهِيَ المَحَلُّ الثاني فَإِذا هُما اِجتَمَعا لِنَفسٍ حُرّةٍ بَلَغَت مِنَ العَلياءِ كُلَّ مَكانِ

@Carlos-ke3pj Жыл бұрын

How difficult is to hear some wise words nowadays. We are getting used to accept bullshit without complaint

@TheArtofBlues Жыл бұрын

strength training is big when you get older. the first to go as you age is strength!

@kinggirth8599 11 ай бұрын

No, strength is last to go, speed reflexes go 1st

@markwilson4690 10 ай бұрын

@@kinggirth8599 exactly what I was thinking.

@buddybrick1176 2 ай бұрын

Flexibility and mobility is the first to go mate@@kinggirth8599

@adhdmed Жыл бұрын

My 5 year old doing splits and backflips, he's natural with kicks and gymnastics. I'll send my kids to Karate but will teach them boxing and Jujitsu myself.

@nevanfarrell4907 Жыл бұрын

would you fight a paul 2.0 the robot

@josepharmand6117 Жыл бұрын

There is a rough logic to what you say coach. But 'Women never feel a sense of danger' is dead wrong. If you talk to many women they feel a sense of danger all the time. And they are acutely aware of their surroundings, getting to their car safely, not going into dodgy neighborhoods, down dodgy streets, talking to dodgy males. Their antennae for danger are up all of the time.

@CoachZahabi Жыл бұрын

Yes you are definitely correct in this instance. I was referring to a public group setting. I was a doorman for many years, men fought all the time, women very rarely and if ever a man hit a woman he would get stuffed in a shoebox. Even the worst guys knew not to hit a woman. But I agree coward will attack women via ambush when nobody is around.

@josepharmand6117 Жыл бұрын

@@CoachZahabi Indeed. There's a lot of dickhead males (and females too...in a different way) out there who wont take no for an answer. And get all in their feelings if a girl isn't interested. And start acting out and getting weird and threatening. Especially if too much alcohol is involved. My nieces tell me they are always alert and aware for risk when they go out.

@BrainFuck10 11 ай бұрын

@@CoachZahabisimply put, women lack situational awareness because they’re sheltered so most threats don’t even register to them.

@chadwithautism Жыл бұрын

Some men think that since they didn't get provided for, they shouldn't provide for their surroundings. The irony is that they barely even provide for themselves. They victimize out of unfairness due to circumstance. They justify their existence as living. But unknowingly their existence perpetuates real danger. Vulnerable at every angle. Nonchalantly ignorant. Their vices can produce virtue but at a price. Even if you pay half of it, you'd experience dangerous levels of freedom. But that too comes at a price. Dividends become rhetorical. Statements are inevitable. Reap what you own.

@box4aza Жыл бұрын

Men's responsibilities are triple p preach, protect, provide 👍

@viiplayer1 Жыл бұрын

"Taller the are the more you can protect me" *Mike Tyson: 🤨*

@davidc.9758 10 ай бұрын

2024 game changer

@kokolokoblaszczak Жыл бұрын

I think You are a little out of reality means you see what you wanna see

@tameemahmadi Жыл бұрын

Asalamu Alykm brother Firas… awesome & practical advice Excellent podcast Keep up the great work Habibi

@dustinjan1 Жыл бұрын

Ukraine - not only did they export the women and children BUT over 250,000 men who were working in other countries immediately RUSHED to Ukraine to fight! #respect!