GRAB YO SNACKS! Will post the time stamps tomorrow, angels 💕 DONT FORGET TO HIT “LIKE” pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeee ✨

I think people need to understand marriage isn't perfect, men aren't perfect, and women aren't perfect. We need to have realistic expectations. Communication, listen often and apologize if you did anything wrong. We are always learning. I agree with some things she said, but not all.

To add to the topic of "what's the difference between fear and intuition", fear is temporary while intuition is consistent. Our intuition will continue to remind us what is right or wrong, while fear is here today and gone tomorrow, and ever changing. Breeny, your content and conversations bring in so much depth that forces you to look within yourself and re-evaluate our own values. Over the years you have continued to aid in my growth as a woman and I thank you. You're def my BIG SIS that I never had lol.

It was around this time 2 years ago that I first stumbled across Rebecca Lynn Pope - that same roommates interview and I literally did a 180. I locked off my situationship and then met my now husband of nearly a year. The majority of what she said really connected and helped to take the pressure off the process of dating. Such a blessing. Thanks for this great interview Breeny x

Approaching my 30’s, I’ve learnt a lot based on my mistakes and I don’t regret anymore. Being single or in couple doesn’t matter to me no more, what matters is being AUTHENTICALLY MYSELF 🤗 and enjoy every step of my life. What’s meant to me, it’s gonna come to me naturally. I deserve the best, we’re all deserve it ❤❤❤

'"A man has to stand on his own feet." It's what I am currently training myself to allow my partner to do. 🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️

I know of women who didn’t want to get divorced but were advised by doctors to get divorced after being admitted into psyche wards or going through other stress related illnesses like strokes caused by stressful marriages.

Ultimately marriage is not the prize... it is not a goal like buying a house or earning a degree. Having respect, partnership and reciprocity in a relationship is the prize. Start by loving and valuing yourself and love will find you. Being a wife is not a prize in this current cultural system. Being healthy and healed with people who value you is the prize.

I have noticed that a lot of men get into relationships for themselves, not for woman. A lot of men are still in a relationship because the woman hasn't left yet. A man will know he no longer loves or like you, no longer cares for you, and will he will mistreat you and he still won't leave you. If you notice carefully, a woman will do much better when she's by herself, and a man will do better when he has a woman, it's because 99% of men get in relationship for themselves, but they will never tell you that.

Omg this was me. I've been married twice and related to her journey😳. It's insane how many men will marry a woman because they don't want anyone else to have them , but then have no intention of doing what they need to do to keep the women happy. I no longer date potential. If they can't step up during the dating phase they get cut off lol. I'm happily single until a man can show me they know how to put in the work.

This is single-handedly the best podcast episode I've ever heard on relationships/marriage. Really well done!

I will be 25 in December but I have definitely been interested in becoming a better woman first for myself and also for my future husband. This video revealed a lot for me, thank you Breeny for bringing her on.

Boundaries will keep you single for a while , and THAT is ok!

Can we take a moment to be honest. No not all women are idolizing marriage. No it may not be a “badge of honor” but truth be told to be “chosen” is something that most women that want to be married want to experience. Yes we love ourselves but it does have some type of effect on you to not be that women for anyone. It’s easy for women that have been married before to say marriage isn’t a goal, badge of honor, etc.

I watched this video from start to end. When I saw 2 hours I was like… this is wild. But I will never regret listening to this conversation. I am so grateful to you ladies for sharing such important wisdom with us and Breeny, for asking the questions that we all would have wanted to ask. Thank you 🙏🏾 Sincerely.

I'm only 26 minutes into this video and I have to say that Rebecca has already hit the nail on the head for me, TWICE! For one, being a young black Christian woman who was raised in the faith, I consider myself really a kind and loving woman. I definitely felt like I enabled a lot of the selfish behavior while the men do literally nothing. They bring nothing and I lowered my standards with hope that things will get better. And then being a black Christian woman in the USA, I agree so much with the church part. I feel like it is often so taught that women have to endure everything that their husband puts them through, be his rock regardless of whatever, etc. I felt that a lot. I feel like so many women are doing so many things to become a wife but just like Rebecca said, not many men are doing the same.

Yeaaaaa! You interviewed @rebeccalynnpope! She's the BOMB. 🤩🤩🤩🤩And so are you Breeny!🤩🤩🤩

*Ditch your list!* Love it! There's a reason why the list we carry for our potential partner may mean absolutely nothing. It's influenced by our environment, our past, our upbringing, trauma, social media.. All of it. So incredibly important to go out with someone who is not your usual type. Loved this conversation! Always an inspiration for my channel x

See our girl Breeny doing big things. We are so proud of you. 😘

Whewwww chile I love this lady and this my first time ever hearing about her but she is full of wisdom, intelligent and so down to earth. This was EXCELLENT! I absolutely love what she said at the 1 hr 56 min mark because she is so right about that. You have to build a relationship with God and take everything to him first. He has heightened my intuition to the next level. Your intuition is literally God within you. We as women often times totally ignore our intuition and that’s where we go wrong. Wow great candid conversation for sure🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

This was a valuable in depth discussion on relationships and marriage. Breeny did an excellent job on asking questions and Rebecca was definitely on point about everything. This by far added to my dating strategies on how to be a good wifey and what not to settle for in a man.

I’m going to watch this later, I was a divorced single mum at 25. I thought I had it bad. Finally someone who was in a similar predicament to myself. Will absolutely indulge later. Just need to find me a good 3 hours of free time on this very busy day 🙃🙃🙃

A collab we definitely needed! Thank you Breeny and Rebecca ❤

Love this! I think women need to step back and wait for the right man while we develop ourselves. We lose ourselves in wrong relationships. Peer pressure is something young people need to overcome. A good place to start is in the church.

As someone who also married at 19, I enjoyed this interview. I would have liked to hear Rebecca share her shortcomings and what she could have done differently. All I heard was how she was unhappy and the men were not ready, but I’m sure at 19 and 21 she was not ready either. It felt at times like she put it all on one party… it definitely takes two. As a now 48 year old you gain experience, intuition and reflection and sometimes that very religious background can make huge issues in the real world in relation to sustainability of a healthy relationship, I’d like to hear how she actually showed up in those early relationships. Clearly there was something broken within her to get married that young multiple times. No judgement, I’ve been there and I know it comes from a broken place….but you grow and mature & do better. I enjoyed this great conversation ladies.

For me, I don't think it's as simple as idolizing marriage in itself. It's about the inherent need or desire to start a family, maintain companionship, and receive support. This and much more can be achieved (and almost guaranteed) through the confines of a family. Lastly, build your community through the family you create. This is why even after years of success (fulfilling her purpose of making all that money) and living her best life, Rebecca still got married at the end of it all. Of course, she knew better at this point and could choose better also men rarely choose women for their brains and money unless they are users or don't have their sh*t together. Get your money and books up for yourself, your security but maybe not to attract a man because in most cases they honestly won't care

Love the wife Convo... Your a wife when he finds you!!❤️🥰

I love her honesty and that she gained lessons. She is so resilient. She has a lot of wisdom worthy of listening to. She’s literally my new online auntie and I’m glad I watched this.

There is soooooo much foolishness on social media about relationships. But every now and then we get one of these. Thank you, thank you thank you for this one.

Thank you Breeny for asking ALL of the important questions. Thank you Rebecca for leaving no questions unanswered. We needed this! ♥️

People jump from relationship to relationship all the time with no intention to commit. Marriage just shows your level of commitment.

Nailed it again Breeny. I'll only add, to put God first. "Delight in him and he'll give you the desires of your heart."💕💕💞💞 "He that findeth a wife, findeth a good thing." Proverbs 18:22.

Omg Breeny. Thank you for inviting Ms. Rebecca Lynn Pope to your channel. She dropped some incredible gems. As a single female who has never been married, she thoroughly educated me. I love "Doctor Pope." I plan on following her on KZfaq and buying her book. Excellent video. Well done Breeny!

I really wish all women would understand that life is not all about men honestly🙄

Live your life the way that you want to live it, don’t let other people live it for you…

Breeny, this was such an amazing interview and I’m so grateful you did it. ❤️🙏🏼 I watched it from beginning to end with no pause because Rebecca was so captivating and revealed major truths about everything she talked about. First of all,marriage&kids should not be put on a pedestal. Nor anyone who is married has everything figured out whereas who isn’t,doesn’t. I also want to add a small disclaimer on healing with what she was explaining in the end..that we should always see ourselves as beautiful,lovable,whole and complete beings and there is nothing that we need to “do” to prove our worth. Even in our darkest times. I find a common trap when you’re into self development,that you’re not “good enough” now..there’s a huge level of shame and that there’s something wrong with you so you need to do “inner work” to become good enough,to be in a loving committed relationship. No. You’re always beautiful,and you do the work as part of the journey of your human evolution,not to become “good enough”. Releasing that shame,accepting myself just as I am and having gratitude for everything I’ve experienced in life was crucial and a game changer for me. ❤️ Thank you to both amazing ladies again 🙏🏼✨ Sending much love and gratitude 🤗😘

Marriages are designed to bring our wounds to the surface so we can heal.

My favourite ladies collaborated!!! Thank you so so much ladies! 😍🤗🥰

I agree with Rebecca when she said that men that had marriage and being a father in their hearts get married younger and aren't the single 35 year olds. I asked my bf if he wasn't with me, would he still be getting married by 30 and he said of course! I always say that the 30 year old version of my man isn't out there for me because the 30 year old version of my man is married.

This resonates on so many levels of my generation. The taboos needed to be broken, I was one of those you had to get married my parents are churchgoers and I’m referred to as the black sheep / prodigal child. My mother was always submissive to my father they had bad domestic scenarios. I have refused to trust and submit to men wholeheartedly when older. When Rebecca said she felt freedom from that second marriage it gave me those chills again , nothing can ever describe that feeling .

Breeny. You outdid yourself , I did not expect this, you are both my favorite coaches online.

Ohh this is so good 👌🏾 I am 28 just out of a 4 year relationship with an older man and questioning who I am. I had low self esteem before that relationship and it got worse in it and now I am picking up the pieces. I idolize not only marriage, but men and that’s why I put up with so much traumatizing stuff with him. My dad was a pastor too and he was also sexually abusive so I wanted nothing to do with him. I thought I wanted the complete opposite of him sis 😅 I am glad God loves me because that was a big lesson learned for me. This conversation is right on time and much needed. Thank you so much Breeny and Rebecca!

I’m so happy I came across this video. This legitimately made me become more feminine and realize we need to stop idolizing these instagram relationships. I’m 20 and watching this video helped me really understand the truth of relationships. Thank you so much💗

This woman is real… and you gotta be real with yourself to appreciate a lot of what she said

Love this collaboration between the 2 Queens. I was happy to see this. Stay blessed ladies.

I really appreciate her transparency! She is amazing. Thank you for this interview Breeny.

THIS!! I was here for ALL of this. Glad you two beautiful ladies came together to give us ladies what we needed to hear. This was a really great interview.

Breeny, this was a wonderful interview, you asked some good questions girl! I really appreciate Mrs. Pope’s honesty about her experiences and the lessons she learned along the way. I was especially humbled by her revealing that month in Belize. These are the kinds of things we don’t usually hear from the elders or even the social media influencers that let us know that marriage takes WORK! To hear that it isn’t and hasn’t always been perfect and yet you can still be on track without compromising yourself is such an encouragement. Thanks and blessings to you both 🙏🏾

This is such an insightful session. Thank you Breeny . It would be beautiful to see You and Mina - The Universe Guru on The Intimate Series. She is phenomenal !

2 Queens dropping nothing but Gems. Thank you Breeny for this!! ❤️🥰

“Where are all the men being raised to be equipped..?” YESS! That’s the root

Cant believe i watched this entire thing like a whole movie!! Gorgeous, inspiring, edifying. Thank you!❤

I can’t tell you how much this video has been so helpful. Knowing self is key. Love from Nigeria 🇳🇬 ❤

Breezy you asked all the right questions! I never heard this woman before but the gems she was dropping was enough to last us women through a lifetime

Never knew how much I needed this interview in my life, lots of wisdom. Thanks ladies 🌹🌹

I don’t know how you ladies came across my algorithm on YT because I’ve never heard of you both but PRAISE GOD you did and I clicked on. This was the BEST conversation I’ve ever heard and I live at conferences etc. I appreciate the transparency and road map because I am a 50y/o getting out there on the dating scene. You ladies helped me! I’ll be sharing this with manny and watching it over and over!

Wooow what a great interview. This was jam packed with so much gems, I jotted a lot of things down. It may seem long but there was no part of this that I felt was a waste of time. Thank-you to you both for being used as a vessel to help guide us in this dating scene that is really filled with mixed messages and division. God bless you both for your honesty and wisdom 💕.

I remember when I met breeny in real life such a classic beauty with a lovely personality I won’t lie I was surprised she was so lovely. So grateful for the advice and tours we had. Also this content is changing lives you don’t even realised

One of the BEST interviews on relationships!! Thank you ladies for being so transparent😘💛

This was a candid conversation, it took me a while to get around to watching it but when I started I didn’t want to stop. This video has so many gems, really great points and can’t wait for more interviews.

This conversation was absolutely amazing! Thank you x

33 min in and I’m glued to the screen!! Haha!! I haven’t watched any videos from Rebecca in a min so this is super on time!!! I relate to Rebecca so much even our personas… I’m fina watch this in it’s entirety this is so 🔥🔥🔥… Thx Breeny & Auntie!!! Welcome back B!!! 💕✨👏🏾🙌🏾

God bless you women. I’m 20 years old and I literally needed to hear this, thank you for this.

A man has to stand on his own two feet. ❤️❤️❤️

Best two hours of my life. I watched it in two days. Welcome back Breeny! You look beyond gorgeous 😍. That hiatus sure was worth it😊

Thank you so much for taking the time to share this Breeny and Rebecca! This is soooo wholesome! 💕

The realest relationship convo ever!!!! Thanks for all the gems Ladies👏🏽👏🏽

Great interview. The 💎 💎 💎. Breeny has literally brought my on all my faves...Rebecca, Stephan and Tony...this series is PRICELESS. Waiting for you and RC Blakes to pop up in my notifications. 🙏🏾

I am so glad I’ve found this video. Breeny , I’m very grateful for you bringing these wonderful collabs on. I’ve been blown away by Toni’s intake and now Rebecca just humbled me even more! Was definitely eye opening! Thank you🙏🏾

Thanks breeny....now I have bachelor degree exams in dental school, but I save this episode in watch later....I can't wait to see it ❤🌹❤

This was such a phenomenal interview! Oh my gosh, I enjoyed this so much. Major kudos!!! 🎉🎉

Breeny What a great interview! I follow Mrs. RLP but this interview was the bees knees! I’m been married twice going through a very very toxic divorce after 30 years. We ar`e `going through everything one can go through in an horrible divorce, anger, violence, shame, financial ruin but I’m still divorcing this man, its been a long process in kings county Brooklyn . What a mistake, wow what a learning process. I’m healing through learning, therapy, reading, journaling and building my spiritual relationship with Christ, getting closer to my family etc. Thank you for this most informative interview. Blessing to you Ms. Lee wishing u all the very very best and continue to vet well in these streets, totally listen to your inner voice which is Christ himself, my friend. Stay still and hear him. Pray for discernment so that you make the very best decision on your man of purpose. Blessings.

I believe that it was meant for me to watch and listen to this video today. The whole conversation was so rich and beautiful. Thank you, Jesus, for letting me eat at your table and to get as much food as I wanted. And for letting me see a woman you have literally transformed into a vessel of honor, ready and equipped for your use. Thank you very much Rebecca for letting God use you. Amen

A lot of wisdom. I really enjoyed this interview very much. This has been iconic. Thank you ladies for sharing this with us. It has been such an eye opening conversation. ❤

Best interview ever! Packed with so many relationship gems. I have followed Mrs. Pope for a couple of years and she never disappoints. Her spirit led, no nonsense advice is always spot on. Thank you Breeny for introducing her to your followers. Our young women need to be armed with this information while navigating these dating streets.

Wisdom, raw truth, knowledge. We needed to hear it!! Great conversation.

I absolutely loved this interview! Thank you both for your time and energy! You are making a difference to all of us ❤

Agree with the 3% number. Only a few men will treat and see you like true wife material. I was engaged six months after meeting my fiancé-he left no doubt, kept our courtship moving and snatched me up 😂❤

Incredible interview 👏. I've been married 13 years and I'm learning so much from the advice given. I just sent this to my 18 year old daughter in college and subscribed to both of you amazing ladies 🙂

This was so amazing Breeny! Thanks so much for this collab. Please do more of such convos. I love how you asked all the right questions. I was like Breeny got us! lol

This was a great video I watch Male and Female videos for Wisdom to me this was just relational intelligence Thank you Ladies for the wisdom God bless walk in peace filled with blessings 🙏🏾

“We do too much, we help too much, we give too much.” I felt this so much.

Breeny you are such a great interviewer. Love how you let the guest speak and then you ask such excellent follow-up questions. We appreciate this content sooooooo much!!!

This video is a total gem.💎 Definetly will be rewatched with a notepad. The modern dating market is so rediculous right now that every tip I can get is super helpful.

I love her story. I totally understand the stigma of marriage before dating. I did the same thing. You've got to take the time to know yourself and the other person before you commit.

Breeny, this interview is extraordinary, I love the way that you think. Especially the way you can articulate your thoughts whenever you ask questions. Even questions we as ladies haven't considered, thank you for that.

Breeny, I have to say that this was an amazing video. You were asking all the questions that I have been wondering as I've been trying to navigate my way through my twenties as someone who grew up with the faith but is not "traditional" in many ways. I've the chemistry on camera and the conversation flowed well. I also loved the insight from the both of you. Thank you!

This conversation was suuuuuch a blessing!!!!! MashAllah!!!! Thank you ladies sooooo very much for this. This has truly blessed my life!!!!! Alhamdulillah

This was a GOOD conversation. So much truth and wisdom and insight! Learned so much from Rebecca!

Everyone needs more than their salary to be financiaIIy stable as making money is an action. Keeping money is behavior. Growing money is knowledge.. 💯

Breeny what an incredible interview @rebbeca wow. Wisdom on steroids sis, thank you for being so open and honest. You’ve saved us from a lot of heartache.

This conversation really calibrated me! Thank you 🙏🏾

Modesty is important too ladies 🙏🏾🙏🏾

I love how she talks. This was very insightful. Thank you both ❤

Wow I’m already an hour in and it feels like 20 min! I love this conversation ❤

Every 2 hours and 40 minutes of this was pure goldddd. I have so much hope for my future. And can we just talk about how breathtaking Breeny looks 😍😍😍

You asked really good questions Breeny!! Love this interview! 😁

This was a brilliant conversation!! One of my favorites. Thank youuuu both!

Two women I absolutely love to watch and support….what a great conversation. Very well done!

I really needed this message! I will definitely take what I’ve learned to apply it to my relationship ❤