Exceeding & Excelling As A Husband With 21 Blue Hearts 💙: Social Proof HOT SEAT🔥🔥 #18

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During this podcast episode, the David engages in a lively conversation with a motivational speaker "Jah" who specializes in overcoming adversity. The speaker introduces his formula, EEO while applying CPR, which stands for exceeding, excelling, and overcoming, commitment, perseverance, and resilience. The speaker highlights the need to survive and outlast challenges. However, when pressed to provide practical advice on how to exceed, excel, and overcome, the speaker playfully evades the question or seams to not know how to effectively communicate the meaning of EEO. David offers advice on how to tweak Jah's messaging so that he becomes a better speaker.
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00:00 Intro
00:01:42 Working in the post office.
00:06:31 Marriage adversity.
00:09:38 How do you exceed and excel as a husband?
00:13:30 Entrepreneurship life cycle.
00:17:13 Commitment and loyalty.
00:21:43 Loyalty and commitment.
00:26:09 Study storytelling ability.
00:28:42 Controlling audience emotions.
00:32:20 The Art of Speaking.
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@RealSocialProof 8 ай бұрын

Thank you for tapping in to today's HOT SEAT! Check entire episode! Please LIKE AND SUBSCRIBE!

@Mickah-67 8 ай бұрын

I just wish I could understand their English better

@RealSocialProof 8 ай бұрын

@@Mickah-67what do you mean?

@ajoeannabrown9563 8 ай бұрын

Dave just keep this one in the archive 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂 This nigga fucked up ... He a motivational teacher teaching people how to Exceed, Excell, & Overcome. Whole time his wife is the test subject. I am done ... I am over this Hot Seat!

@stoneyhighhigh3677 5 ай бұрын

The way Kev just blew this up on tiktok 😂😂 thank you for the content

@mssassi8615 4 ай бұрын

This interview was top tier, you stayed right in him even predicting his style of “just talking just to talk” he falls right into doing what you tried to save him from doing!

@JanaeDoe3 8 ай бұрын

He is used to talking in circles. Most cheaters are.

@RealSocialProof 8 ай бұрын

Wow.. Interesting observation

@danifranc7011 5 ай бұрын

Bingo and that's how he gets his side chicks. It's worked for him, he surrounds himself with an audience which thinks he is smart and doesn't challenge him.

@TM-sc6ip 5 ай бұрын

Indeed, a bullshitter

@THEDOORIZCLOSED 5 ай бұрын

NOTED! Thank you!

@Saveren_ 5 ай бұрын

He couldn’t even answer questions about his own business. 😫

@arielruffin6056 5 ай бұрын

This is what it's like talking to teens who think they have everything figured out but really don't.

@THEDOORIZCLOSED 5 ай бұрын

Precisely why i wont have kids! 😂😂😂😂😂😂

@casandratappin6349 5 ай бұрын

Exactly! He doesn't know words.

@no_prisoners6474 5 ай бұрын

Nah they’d sound a lot more coherent but still not knowing what they’re saying. I think he knows what he’s saying but he doesn’t know much. Teenagers can grow and learn to know more. This guy is in Gods hands at this point. Receiving the Grace is actually harder than learning as a teen. 👀

@thatraspyshxt 5 ай бұрын

Arrested development.

@darielleflynn1214 5 ай бұрын

He’s not overcoming “adversity”, he’s dealing with the consequences of his own actions

@therrychristophe828 5 ай бұрын

Nobody said your own actions couldnt count as adversity you created for yourself😂😂😂

@kirawong4629 4 ай бұрын

He’s still coming out on the better end.. his wife stayed, she’s accepting his outside baby, he has a home and a job. SHE IS the one suffering… not him.

@vishabrown6556 3 ай бұрын

Imagine him as a lifetime partner, oh don't worry we give the 22 blue hearts 😂 . That's literally I'm manipulation in the mind frame of saying it's okay if I do this as long as I can because she's going to stay. But you forget we are all humans and we all break down and we have hearts and minds and souls their combined they feel every emotion that comes that way. Adversity is not him dealing with his consequences of his own actions. Adversity is showing him that he needs to be a better person especially a husband that leads when a family that he has especially the young boys that would look up to him of his sons. Is a narcissism way the manipulates the people around him. A side chick give you so much crap because you're not together y'all just messing around. The minute you marry even a side chick it going to feel the same as when you was married to your wife . Because now you have the same responsibilities the same way I'm living in the same way of coexisting with this person. This generation of man has felt many other generations of man.

@vishabrown6556 3 ай бұрын

@@therrychristophe828it doesn't 😂 no excuses. The universe works in mysterious ways, one of them applies to our actions. You can't overcome adversity at all until the universe and God says so. Karma do exist. Narcissist always think they're in the right and that's where they fall completely short at. Narcissist always prompt each other up also.

@c.p.562 5 ай бұрын

He’s probably the smartest person in his social circle

@THEDOORIZCLOSED 5 ай бұрын

Yeeeeeooooooooo! And i know a dude like this but we are NOT on the same level he be on some ninja ish for real but act like he wise😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@elanc3264 5 ай бұрын

They always are. 😟

@instrinsiclove 5 ай бұрын

Honestly though 😂 needs new circles for SURE

@kaileymo 5 ай бұрын

I had an ex like this. I imagine he partially overwhelmed them with word salad but he never actually thought things through. He was constantly trying to prove he was smarter than me because his ego wouldn’t let him not be the smartest person in the room.

@SD-hs2pk 5 ай бұрын

Or he just believes that he is

@IAmJaidaSteele 8 ай бұрын

He dropped this blue heart tactic like it was a great thing lol

@asiakayla1 5 ай бұрын

😂

@eltiochusma 5 ай бұрын

It was clear: It was not an attempt to CONNECT, it was a TACTIC to ... deceive? Damn.

@Dud512 5 ай бұрын

He should have chosen a different color 🤣🤣🤣🤣. Home Boy thought he did something with those text lol

@syw9882 4 ай бұрын

@@Dud512but Crips wear blue…Crip walking was famous.. hence make the heart the color Crips rep! That’ll resonate with everyone. Duh! GENIUS! 🔵💙🚩

@rtoriq 4 ай бұрын

It was the “oh” for me, like he made such a profound discovery LOL

@Sunshyn3Sam 5 ай бұрын

You know when women complain about carrying the emotional weight in a relationship... this is a prime example of that. No, she didn't notice 21 blue hearts because it is insignificant in relation to the gravity of the emotional turmoil that you put her through. He really thought he did something there.

@Vee_Davis-wb9wd 5 ай бұрын

OMG THANK U !!!!!!! i was going to touch on that lil comment he made about her..she doesnt care about those damn hearts shes dealing with something sooo much more deeper and hes the issue...i hope his wife leaves that she finally figures out he is a POS and bounces

@rodnape 4 ай бұрын

It's really really is, he would definitely scream you don't support my dreams and whole time he freaking sucks!

@Soul.in.the.garden 4 ай бұрын

@@Vee_Davis-wb9wd naw she’s a decade in. Unfortunately, men like him intentionally select women whom they know they can manipulate. Word salads, cheap gifts, trips and love bombing will keep her fulfilled.

@kirawong4629 4 ай бұрын

Honestly just listening to him talk tells me that he is NOT with an intelligent woman. Not to knock her but no intelligent woman can deal with a man like this even if he hadn’t cheated. How can you have an intelligent conversation with him.

@BNG2510 3 ай бұрын

The fact that he even thought he did something with that is embarrassing within itself

@Jay.BeeEats 5 ай бұрын

I have never experienced so much secondhand embarrassment from watching a podcast as I am right now. It's literally making me cringe. Idk how I'm going to finish this. My anxiety is off the charts 😂

@driafibromyalgiafighter9342 5 ай бұрын

I thought I was the only one 😂😂😂my heart is literally racing from this nonsense! It's like GET TO THE POINT!! GOD!!🤦🏽‍♀️🤣🤣🤣🤣

@JusBee1811 5 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@casandratappin6349 5 ай бұрын

My chest literally hurts. 🫤😟😣

@elseven3821 5 ай бұрын

Sameeeee lmaooo

@davisangel1 5 ай бұрын

Yo! SAME!!!

@Isayris 8 ай бұрын

It’s giving I lied on my resume 😂

@Future-billionairesclub 8 ай бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣

@asiakayla1 5 ай бұрын

😂

@StillDaMacAnnie 5 ай бұрын

Big lied 😅😅😅😅 like bruh wtf are you talking about?

@greerj7340 5 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂 fr

@midheaven_mimi 5 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

@catherinecase4758 5 ай бұрын

The fact that he thinks the sweetest job is doing nothing, told me everything I needed to know about his character. If I'm doing nothing at work, regardless of pay, I don't feel accomplished or motivated. You can't be a motivational speaker if you're not motivated in your life.

@Saveren_ 5 ай бұрын

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@kaileymo 5 ай бұрын

Not that this applies to this fool, but those jobs are gold if you’re trying to make big changes. I had a wfh job like this and I was able to take classes and freelance at the same time.

@rhoyalace1922 5 ай бұрын

@@kaileymoyes agreed. roles that allow you the space to focus on your true passion/purpose whatever that may be. or in other cases discover what you’d like to do. but that does not apply to this young man.

@aliveandwell3958 Ай бұрын

Uhm…….no.

@talye 5 ай бұрын

I came over from TikTok 🤣😂 It’s his wife that needs to be the motivational speaker.

@ItsBrittany. 5 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@Ayeteeemm 5 ай бұрын

Not sure if the wife is motivational or a fool cause I don't know...the line between commitment and enabling is very faint in this scenario

@aleciawebb4841 5 ай бұрын

Same 😂😂😂 Context made it sooo much worse 😂

@stoneyhighhigh3677 5 ай бұрын

Whew lawd another Jackson situation she would be a coach for 5k

@review-crunch7635 5 ай бұрын

Now I got to go to tik tok 😂

@geniusatwork8961 8 ай бұрын

CPR-Commitment, Perseverance and Resiliency. He is not even committed to his marriage. He could not persevere past 21 days with his blue heart. He is not resilient enough to invest in his craft to actually put in the work to become an expert at his motivational speaking craft. David did a phenomenal job providing guidance and challenging him to figure out what he was trying to communicate. That young man needs to revisit what his passion really is and how he can execute. Wish him well!

@brooklynn9002 5 ай бұрын

Well said!

@jessicahenry2934 5 ай бұрын

Ate with this comment

@kirawong4629 4 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@jannbee5187 5 ай бұрын

If a man ever said being married to me was an adversity .....and has the nerve to have had kids outside the marriage ..he's wild

@T2Truly 4 ай бұрын

I think what he meant was what he did IN the marriage was the adversity and not the marriage itself. If its the marriage he's talking about then that's crazy😂😂

@jenniferramsey6140 5 ай бұрын

This woman stayed through a near homicide and and a side baby? She’s the person I want to hear from - respectfully 😂

@Tha.supreme 5 ай бұрын

This man wss gone kill himself just to avoid a man

@mrod87 5 ай бұрын

His gun story is so suspect. 😂😂

@yolandalcheek462 5 ай бұрын

😂 poor thing

@geremymason5936 4 ай бұрын

Right? Even his best example of commitment wasn’t something that he did - it was her story. 🥴

@livbrilliantvee 4 ай бұрын

jenniferrrrrrrrrrr, eggzactly! Where's the wife!?

@mayraalejandrajuarez9501 5 ай бұрын

I can tell he never pitched in on group projects in school and still expected credit 😂

@MonicaLauryn 8 ай бұрын

His wife is the one who needs to tell her story and speak- from what I gathered from this is she is a ride or (literally) die, birthed 2 of his kids, he cheats on her, had another kid outside of marriage and now decides he is one facing “adversity”. Sorry sir but she sounds like the real hero of this story-- her adversity was forgiveness, commitment, overcoming all of this “nonsense” and still finding a way to move forward as a wife and partner. She a real one! Bring her on- we need the followup and other side of this!

@wilfredolynxrivera3349 8 ай бұрын

Now I want to hear her story! 💯💯

@TinaStinaFulton 7 ай бұрын

Seriously 💪🏾💪🏾

@kevinfontleroy1862 7 ай бұрын

David stopping him to tell him he needs to work on his story telling, is the most David thing David could do 😂

@Bella_Noire 5 ай бұрын

I feel sad for her.

@Wrappedinhisglory 5 ай бұрын

This guest is acting like he's sending his wife flowers every day. What is your plan. Thoughts become words, words become action, actions build Character. What is your plan dude. Omg 🤨🙄

@THEDOORIZCLOSED 5 ай бұрын

This needs to be an SNL skit😂😂😂😂😂

@kaileymo 5 ай бұрын

It’s giving this 😂 kzfaq.info/get/bejne/f9eqgLifnpbYfZs.htmlsi=AadGo1kWK50LnhS2

@shenisenicole103 5 ай бұрын

It does

@Opie1971 5 ай бұрын

I’m sure it will be! 😂😂😂

@melt.3568 5 ай бұрын

You mean this isn't? 😅 I'm so embarrassed watching this

@Opie1971 5 ай бұрын

@@melt.3568 After the first two minutes the shock was overwhelming. At four minutes in… I had to get me a bottle and a glass because there was no way I was finishing that interview unbuzzed. 😅😂

@djjustice79 5 ай бұрын

This lets me know being single ain’t that bad.

@TheMissMeems 5 ай бұрын

Facts 😂

@soulflower3825 4 ай бұрын

Right... Like sheesh 😬

@lifewithneyj 5 ай бұрын

“Stories mad long and idk where it’s going…” 😂😂😂😂

@kirawong4629 4 ай бұрын

Plot twist It’s going nowhere!😂

@aquasiagriffin9785 3 ай бұрын

At all ! 😂😂😂

@zerotomillions1016 8 ай бұрын

At 4:30, this is what happens when a young man reads someone else's book, gets an idea to share what he learned, but then tries to present it as his own knowledge or as if he is an expert. The reason he is having a problem explaining it is because he is not the original creator of the content.

@brooklynn9002 5 ай бұрын

Definitely a possibility. Good perspective.

@freddietho9132 5 ай бұрын

This the one ! 🎯

@finleys_mama5891 5 ай бұрын

This just HAS to be true! And it's sad.😑

@MsOwens-oo5cb 4 ай бұрын

Yes sounds like HE got motivated, and now is repeated what motivated him, but he hasn’t quite lived it out yet.

@p.d.6888 5 ай бұрын

His poor wife! She married this weak man, he valued her ability to support his continuous bad decisions. Im so sad for her believing that he is worthy of her womb. This man is immature, she stayed to support him almost get shot and not only does he cheat on her, he has a baby on her. Babygirl RUN!!! She deserves better man

@kinequalassiter9448 5 ай бұрын

Worthy of her womb😢😢😢so true She also needs to realize he isn't worthy of her time, energy, or presence

@MelodicMystic 5 ай бұрын

I know a scammer when I see one 😂😂😂

@olivegod 5 ай бұрын

Bugging lol he is not at all aware enough to swipe 🤣

@MelodicMystic 5 ай бұрын

@@olivegod you are not wrong 🤣

@ChrissyAnn85 4 ай бұрын

He’s not smart enough to scam. 😂😂😂😂

@lenaharv 4 ай бұрын

It's the fake yawn/burp for me 😂 Classic nervous tick hilarious.

@user-jg1ez6kk9e 4 ай бұрын

Omg I kept noticing that like dude cmon now😂😂😂😂

@amberamor 8 ай бұрын

“I’m not inspired and I’m not motivated” Big Shands holds no punches on these & I love 😂😂😂

@kaileymo 5 ай бұрын

I think he was being very kind by assuming this guy actually had any type of business plan in good faith; even though it was clear after a couple minutes that he was improvising the whole thing.

@GiovannatheSTRONG 5 ай бұрын

It must be a nightmare arguing with this dude. I got a feeling this quiet humility is reserved for other men, not his wife/romantic partners. And patting himself on the back for a failed emoji challenge vs deliberate & consistent efforts to understand and improve himself (therapy, mentorship etc) is insane.

@freddietho9132 5 ай бұрын

Insane!

@sashanayjackson318 4 ай бұрын

Facts

@StillDaMacAnnie 5 ай бұрын

I’m 6 minutes in and he can’t explain his methods… this is horrible. “I don’t want to go into a whole ramble about it.” Exactly. He’s rambling. He claims to be a motivational speaker and is rambling. He can’t explain his EEO method but just says “survive it”. His adversity was surviving this interview. He needs to continue his JOB at the post office.

@dswannbeautyartist 5 ай бұрын

Lol facts my same thoughts

@THEDOORIZCLOSED 5 ай бұрын

TOOOOO FUNNY im YELLING at my phone

@nishilbutala4513 5 ай бұрын

his JOB method is Just Obviously Bullshitting 😭

@t-moemoseley8308 5 ай бұрын

The one that is "easy". Wouldn't trust him to take the trash out! 😂😂😂😂😂😂

@007b.2 5 ай бұрын

@@t-moemoseley8308 sounds like he's barely doing THAT at the job he gets paid to do!🤦🏽‍♀️

@blanchekalala9289 4 ай бұрын

The wife is the one exceeding excelling and overcoming. She needs to be the motivational speaker.

@miguelmontrell996 8 ай бұрын

Wow....this was BRUTAL! He truly needs to work on his craft, if this is what he is pursuing! The talking in circles, inability to answer basic questions, unlearned, throwing out words with no substance! I wish him the Best! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

@RealSocialProof 8 ай бұрын

We all gotta put in work!

@zeehunter6533 8 ай бұрын

Brutal 😩

@kirawong4629 4 ай бұрын

No he needs to work on his life and becoming a better person. He need MAJOR emotional therapy and growth he has the mindframe of a 14 year old

@natashajohnson2258 5 ай бұрын

This young man could use a year of silence. At least a year of no speaking, unless he's asking clarifying questions. Just be quiet, focus on his family, go to work and study. He needed this cringy moment, and I hope he heeds the wisdom he received here. May he and his family heal, evolve, and live in Divine Alignment and Purpose✨️🙏🏾✨️

@llimettime 4 ай бұрын

Girl I don't even want to imagine what he comes up with after a month of silence

@misskailagreatness 5 ай бұрын

If him sending an extra blue heart in a text message is supposed to be an example of “exceeding and excelling” in marriage the bar is officially below Hell.

@MKSOSWEET 5 ай бұрын

Damn tiktok brought me here because this is crazy AF 😂

@destineecarswell4431 5 ай бұрын

Me too 😂😂😂

@vanessavernon2162 5 ай бұрын

Me too I had to see the whole video and it’s worst than I expected.

@custom6212 4 ай бұрын

Same 😂

@ericechevarria3788 7 ай бұрын

I feel dumber listening to ohhh boy ramble about nothing🤣🤣🤣

@Cocotikihut 4 ай бұрын

Im glad this man humbled him and told him the truth instead of catering to his ego just because he's a man. Bro code needs to be thrown in the trash to make these men better ppl.

@etorialv 4 ай бұрын

Did anyone else catch this? When he was talking about commitment, it struck me that he didn’t really share how he’s proving his commitment to his wife after his infidelity. Instead, the focus was all on how dedicated she is to him by her staying in the car while he put her in danger. It made me wonder if anyone else felt that was a bit one-sided? Like he told the story of their entire 7 years of marriage in that one flashback.

@jasminekuehn5133 5 ай бұрын

The only motivation I’m getting from this is how to hold people accountable for their bullshit answers 😂😂

@adrianaselena14 2 ай бұрын

Forreal 😂😂😂

@lakeshawilliams6964 5 ай бұрын

I feel so bad for his wife. I would be so embarrassed if this was my husband.

@06youngrandy 5 ай бұрын

I’m from Jersey this dude is nothing but a slick talking New Yorker says a lot without saying anything

@zbrewed 5 ай бұрын

I did not foresee blues hearts leading me to find out he is/wants to be a motivational speaker.

@SunniDae333 3 ай бұрын

💀

@iHeartCocoMarie 5 ай бұрын

I can say he listened well no interrupting or getting defensive … hope it landed

@noemyv1208 5 ай бұрын

he wasn't listening. That's the type to look like they are being respectful and listening to the other person speak, but they only hear what they want, and give you some long winded response that has little to nothing to do, or add to what the other person asks or says.

@judyforbin9008 5 ай бұрын

The way I said what when he said “you gon have to pay me for that session”😂😂😩😩

@caiyeacaiyea2859 5 ай бұрын

This was so disappointing, he doesn’t even know what he’s talking about. You don’t have to front having a strong amount of intellect, because then you come off as small minded around a bunch of people who are actually intelligent, he embarrassed the hell out of himself the entire interview.

@dearondaharrison 5 ай бұрын

Shands is passionate about helping entrepreneurs excel because the fact that he could sit there and engage with a complete narcissist shows me he cares for real lol

@jasminekuehn5133 5 ай бұрын

The fact that he thought they were going to connect on the difficulty of marriage but this man LIED to him and his “adversity” is infidelity……. BIG DIFFERENCE

@joyceg7859 4 ай бұрын

“ who said you can’t go through adversity that you caused for yourself “ i Al ost knocked they mf head off over the phone screen 😂😂😂

@living_water- 8 ай бұрын

Nothing unique about his story. He cheats, his wife takes him back and now he thinks he can teach people how to overcome, excel and exceed? To succeed as a speaker he needs a better story and a better way to convey the message.

@jjohnson08a 8 ай бұрын

FACTS

@TrinityPlaceDesigns 8 ай бұрын

Couldn’t have said it better girl. Like please. Wish him the best. But I’m good.

@noemyv1208 5 ай бұрын

He needs to sit down somewhere in a corner, and stay there until he is sorry for putting his dumb ass "tactics" that help no one.

@joyceg7859 4 ай бұрын

But the audacity and unmitigated gull to mf say HE overcame some shii

@kirawong4629 4 ай бұрын

And he has done ZERO SELF WORK….

@KeyLoLoKye 5 ай бұрын

Interviewer: How do you overcome adversity? A Motivational Speaker: Just survive it. 😐

@shenisenicole103 5 ай бұрын

😂

@MissOPitts 5 ай бұрын

The interviewer was trying to throw him bones that he refused to expound on smh.

@Widelene1 5 ай бұрын

His entire business model.. And people actually pay for that?!

@katlaw69 4 ай бұрын

Just like that 😂😂😂😂😂

@livbrilliantvee 4 ай бұрын

that's it! speech over, errbody go home. thanks for my check

@Abhudson 5 ай бұрын

Everything made sense once he explained that he’s a cheater.

@Pretti_Me 5 ай бұрын

How did you sit through this without laughing hysterically??? Please teach me this kind of restraint 🤦🏾‍♀️

@user-jg1ez6kk9e 4 ай бұрын

Yeah this interviewer is a true professional 😂

@walterbenniefield4626 5 ай бұрын

I love how Dave ain't giving him no slack lol said exactly how I felt

@nowuknow7364 5 ай бұрын

If people paying him to MOTIVATE, I know that I can get paid. 😂

@DaBeautyIAm 5 ай бұрын

Here from Twitter. Instant regret 😂😂😂.

@ferrarifessetv4343 5 ай бұрын

lol 😭

@rt650 5 ай бұрын

Same 🙋🏿‍♀️

@averyb.476 5 ай бұрын

Nah this was gold 😂

@Widelene1 5 ай бұрын

😂😂😭😭😭

@abigailhollis3916 8 ай бұрын

I feel like those acronyms are created by him from a desire of his to develop his own character, he just need to use them for himself until he really embodies them…

@CharaNeal 2 ай бұрын

Yes. He is lost. He does not know how though.

@onlyAscension 5 ай бұрын

Im praying for his wife

@BlackGold_ZAR 4 ай бұрын

The motivational speaker getting motivated to give up motivating. 💙

@IfTheOceansWereInk321 5 ай бұрын

Why is no one talking about how he put his wife and younger sister in danger because of reckless behavior and ego??

@user-jg1ez6kk9e 4 ай бұрын

Hahah I’m on that part now and I’m sitting here like wow this dude simply isn’t smart

@nadia_manjate 5 ай бұрын

I think I finally get it… he just loves saying the words’ my wife ‘… no shade. But It’s not about the actual marriage and what any of it means . But, the Man just loves saying my wife. It gives him validation somehow. Ditto👌🏾

@shenisenicole103 5 ай бұрын

Yes

@danifranc7011 5 ай бұрын

Yall too nice in the comments. This dude uses this slick talking on women and its how he cheated on his wife. Whats this nonsense he talking about

@tete-a-tiara1024 5 ай бұрын

Exactly! This is embarrassing to watch. I don’t even think he knows what he talking about tbh 😂😂😂😂

@MiVista_Alyssa 5 ай бұрын

He’s not even smart enough to be slick

@kaileymo 5 ай бұрын

Right. He’s not good at making a point because he doesn’t have one. You can tell he’s used to just word salading people into submission.

@kaileymo 5 ай бұрын

@@MiVista_Alyssaexactly what I was thinking!! 😂 He very clearly just likes listening to his own voice

@pooh4025 5 ай бұрын

How can you motivate someone when you can't even explain what it is you do...imagine paying this dude for chaos 😮

@htownforever0510 5 ай бұрын

He lost me with hearts thing…he really thought he was doing something. 😂😂😂😂😂

@christopherhenryjr8060 5 ай бұрын

Big scammer energy no real plan no real advice no real story giving read the back cover of the book vibes

@perfectDOE 5 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@theheartacademyllc 8 ай бұрын

This was extremely hard to watch. He really struggle to articulate his thoughts. How can you speak to others!?!

@theevolversuniverse65 5 ай бұрын

This reminds me of the old American Idol auditions when people got on there claiming they could sing, but couldn’t carry a tune a we wondered who lied…but we were entertained by it. Most of these hotseat guests have similar behaviors, demeanors, and lack of ability to articulate a clear path to their goals.

@THEDOORIZCLOSED 5 ай бұрын

Tv gold😂😂😂😂

@EGJPTTT 5 ай бұрын

I was scrambling all over the place to find the full video. 😂😂😂 most “motivational speaker” personality men are just like this, full of sht. Talking in circles the whole interview is crazy.

@diamondcrawford9272 5 ай бұрын

How is the man being interviewed a motivational speaker? I can’t listen to him for more than 2 minutes.

@tammie1164 5 ай бұрын

He need to just stay at post office

@danifranc7011 5 ай бұрын

😂

@Lemons19902010 5 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@MKSOSWEET 5 ай бұрын

Lmfaooo 💙

@tete-a-tiara1024 5 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@THEDOORIZCLOSED 5 ай бұрын

Cuz he deadass aint got it!

@lilmiss6665 3 ай бұрын

him taking the awkward silences as an opportunity to say the “i’m just kidding” excuse 😂😂

@TrunxKraft3000 8 ай бұрын

My dude basically said he tried to give his wife a piece of his heart one day at a time. 🤣😂🤣

@AyAshHole 5 ай бұрын

For 3 weeks 😂😂

@Lemons19902010 5 ай бұрын

Not a piece of his heart 😂

@TrunxKraft3000 5 ай бұрын

@@Lemons19902010 🤣😂🤣

@aleciawebb4841 5 ай бұрын

💀💀💀😂😂😂

@raven513able 5 ай бұрын

Only last 21 days smh 🤦🏽‍♀️ he need to find a new “career”

@katcraig7525 5 ай бұрын

He was doing that heart thing to make himself feel better. I can guarantee you that is not what she asked from him to feel safe with him emotionally.

@AdeAmani 5 ай бұрын

This was cringy, I’m flushed with second-hand embarrassment. The young man was clearly out of his depth. Not only could he not articulate HIS idea, he looked genuinely lost, confused and bewildered as Mr Shands patiently dropped those pearls of wisdom.

@IAmJaidaSteele 8 ай бұрын

His story about the guy with the gun didn’t do anything but show how his lack of results based thinking gets him in dumb ass situations.

@averyb.476 5 ай бұрын

I honestly wanted to hear the ending lol

@THEDOORIZCLOSED 5 ай бұрын

@@averyb.476there was never going to be an ending. He lost his point, and is not articulate

@bksander01 5 ай бұрын

Exactly this

@kirawong4629 4 ай бұрын

I was wondering how looking at someone ends in gun shots…. Why didn’t someone just look away? He put every woman in his presence in danger over what? He is not smart with a huge ego.

@kiwiidelight8608 5 ай бұрын

This man is a scammer and doesn't need to mentor nobody

@oniquebundhi2411 5 ай бұрын

Absolutely no one. He keeps using circular references to describe the words he says. He’s used to talking, not having to actually KNOW anything. I da hear his mouth getting dry. Lol😂

@acaciagirl 5 ай бұрын

Lmaoo

@KeyLoLoKye 5 ай бұрын

*Nene Leakes voice* he’s a con artist

@HypeLemonade 5 ай бұрын

@@oniquebundhi2411 this is most hood dudes who has done time. If anything he needs a smart man to follow.

@1stgenwealthy 5 ай бұрын

Please call the police.

@Chin715 5 ай бұрын

😭😭😭😭😭😭 I beg

@vanessam.2553 5 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@Widelene1 5 ай бұрын

😭😭😭😭😭😂😂 crying!!!!

@believer_in_tmh9020 4 ай бұрын

Lol

@tonirsims 5 ай бұрын

I'm here from tiktok and Kevonstage. Lmao he CANNOT teach you to Exceed, Excel or Overcome NOTHING! 😂

@Cynthia1086 4 ай бұрын

Yall remember in living color, damon wayans played the incarcerated brother who was trying to talk knowledge from behind bars but he wasn't making any sense? That's who I think of when I listen to this man overcome adversity

@Swink0990 5 ай бұрын

I didn’t believe not one word out his mouth. He’s a master capper

@TransformationMajor 8 ай бұрын

6:43 Dave: Whats your adversities currently? Speaker: …..This interview? 😅

@therealseangary 8 ай бұрын

Bruhhhhh!!!!!!! You wrong! lol

@TransformationMajor 8 ай бұрын

@@therealseangary 😂🤷🏾‍♂️ .. All jokes aside shout out to him for transparency!

@vandj5000 5 ай бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@kimkimone 5 ай бұрын

Yo this comment had me cracking up!!!😂😂😅

@minettesmith4240 7 ай бұрын

All due respect WHAT THE HELL IS HE TALKING ABOUT! he need to journal his thoughts. If his wife forgave him, he need to forgive hiself.

@MuvaStorm_ 5 ай бұрын

This gave me anxiety 😂 my goodness.

@meileahsmith9228 5 ай бұрын

Sameeeeee 😂😂

@TeamKPOP97 5 ай бұрын

Lost me in the first couple of minutes cause him talking was a process 😭 just trying to understand one sentence lmaoo

@veenusdaniellebeauty3328 5 ай бұрын

Side eye since “the best position in the post office” .. we are 3:01 in and I CAN NOT

@thefloridanative 5 ай бұрын

This dude needs his “motivational speaker” card pulled 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@carleysoul 5 ай бұрын

He said "Me and my man,my wife..." he call her bro everyday.

@MzJamaicanBeauty12 5 ай бұрын

I think he was going to say marriage and jumped to my wife instead

@joyceg7859 4 ай бұрын

No he said his “ mar.. my wife “

@bohemianshe7458 5 ай бұрын

These self proclaimed motivational speakers speak to small minds alike.

@chasidycollins9061 5 ай бұрын

He seems a little slow.

@chocolateradiance7216 4 ай бұрын

Little!!??

@24kwamoo 3 ай бұрын

😂😂😂

@chasidycollins9061 3 ай бұрын

@@chocolateradiance7216 I was just being generous.

@dvdndsWill 8 ай бұрын

This interview completely gave me confirmation that without having a mentor to lean on or ask questions that I am on the right path with my ideas, plans, and goals. Thanks Dave! 💪🏾✌🏾

@RealSocialProof 8 ай бұрын

You got it!!

@truthserum4886 3 ай бұрын

This took me on a rollercoaster and actually made me sad. Here, we have a married man, ill equipped to love and protect his wife's heart to the point where he can't even articulate how he'll begin to mend their relationship in the aftermath of his awful choices. He, like so many other black men, wants to use his voice to influence others without much to offer.

@janicesims5674 5 ай бұрын

I love this! You gained a new follower! The fact that you checked him along with schooling him with knowledge!!

@Opie1971 5 ай бұрын

SAME! I’ve never seen a host hold someone’s feet so intensely to the fire. Then on top of that, give the person unsolicited advice, guidance and understanding when it’s so desperately needed.

@janaychappell8100 5 ай бұрын

Came here for a good laugh at some stupidity and left with some great entrepreneurial advice.. love this.

@MunchlaxJ 8 ай бұрын

He feels like a liar to me, I used to lie alllllllll the time.... I just feel it idk.

@shymiaross_evans5215 5 ай бұрын

He started off by lying that's why it took him so long to finish his sentences in the very beginning of the video

@kirawong4629 4 ай бұрын

Why did you used to lie so much? I know two people who are pathological liars but I don’t know if they can or will ever grow out of it…. But I’d love to know why the people who do it do it…

@MunchlaxJ 4 ай бұрын

@@kirawong4629 fear, lack of confidence

@kirawong4629 4 ай бұрын

@@MunchlaxJthat’s interesting. I’m glad you grew past that

@PKHOKIE11 5 ай бұрын

The circle speak is strong with this one 💙

@myalynnrn7080 5 ай бұрын

the bar is below hell

@taxadvizher 8 ай бұрын

The diverting of answers. No answer was directly answered to the questions… Seems like he has a lot of stories that need refining and he needs a speaking coach. This was painful to watch because many business owners who are just starting are like this. I commend him for getting in the Hot Seat.

@BuildABossEmpire 8 ай бұрын

21:51 it was in this moment David saved the show😂 and many from logging off . Where’s the story going bro… def needs to connect

@Lemons19902010 5 ай бұрын

I'm still lost on what he was trying to convey, LOL😂

@fame_goddeso4499 5 ай бұрын

The blue heart wasn’t even the bad part it was the cherry on fucking top 💀💀💀

@marygutierrez9607 5 ай бұрын

I saw the shorter clip of this on IG and boyyyy I didn't know he said this SO early in the interview lol. It was downhill from the beginning unfortunately lol.

@datdudedevonta 8 ай бұрын

David u really give out a lot of great genuine advice, I can tell u really love what u do

@RealSocialProof 8 ай бұрын

I do what I can!

@kevinkidneyy 8 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂 i love David he cracks me up . He ask questions i would ask also

@RealSocialProof 8 ай бұрын

Great minds think alike!

@sgray9971 5 ай бұрын

Jah needs to understand himself. This is why he is not coming off authentically. He's presenting a version of himself, which he thinks others will accept.

@casandratappin6349 5 ай бұрын

Word! Therapy is needed! He has a mind filled with trauma and he needs to be healed!

@DivineAwareness88 8 ай бұрын

So wait a minute she was placed in a life threatening situation and he cheats on her? That's how you reward her for being committed to you? Wow, I almost gave this man props for being courageous by admitting his infidelity for the world to see but he has major flaws. Honestly, and I'm sorry if this comes off as rude, but his wife has little to no self respect. Their marriage can only last if they heal themselves individually because they were just 2 broken people who ended up together because they were never whole when they were single.

@aleciawebb4841 5 ай бұрын

But the blue hearts … 💙💙💙💙💙💙

@mrod87 5 ай бұрын

This man does NOT give a fuck about his marriage. Men who preach being “whole” gotta look whole. That marriage is for the look so he can keep scamming. The way you do anything is his you do everything. Look at this interview. 😂 he scamming her too.

@kaileymo 5 ай бұрын

He brought up the MARRIAGE as the adversity and had to switch tactics when he let slip that he cheated on her. I really don’t think it was his intention to reveal that. He was gearing up to complain about his wife.

@shymiaross_evans5215 5 ай бұрын

@@aleciawebb4841😅 not the blue hearts

@Vee_Davis-wb9wd 5 ай бұрын

i can say this with all my heart....i would have walked out on him after he 1 told me he cheated and 2 brought back a child from his affair partner...nawww my adversity i would have to over come is me not taking something and ramming it in to a body part....he would have to gtfo of my face

@femdivinemind7777 4 ай бұрын

When he explained CPR...the host said "Commitment?" 😂

@jesstiss222 5 ай бұрын

This is a masterclass on how to DATE and see who people for who they TRULY are. Women especially, be WARY of smooth men who talk nice and “seem” deep. Protect your hearts and guard your wombs 💙🗡️