Facing Cancer Again: A Real and Raw Conversation

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In this raw and deeply personal conversation, previously recorded on 2/6/24, Sandy and Phil Valentine openly discuss Phil's cancer diagnosis and the impact it is having on their lives. As Phil is preparing to start chemotherapy for Non-Hodgkin's B Cell Lymphoma, they reflect on their experiences of Phil's previous bout with cancer in 2010. Sandy expresses her struggle with seeing her partner in pain again while Phil shares his contemplation on death, revealing spiritual questions and emotional fears. The couple discusses the importance of kindness, community and maintaining a strong support system. Through it all, they highlight the importance of recovery and their faith, reiterating their determination to stay resilient against cancer.
00:00 Introduction and Catching Up
00:06 Reflecting on Past Experiences with Cancer
01:35 Dealing with Emotions and Anger
02:27 Facing a New Diagnosis: Non-Hodgkin's Lymphoma
05:07 Understanding the Medical Process and Delays
05:44 Navigating the Healthcare System
07:54 Contemplating Mortality and the Afterlife
08:44 Facing the Possibility of Death
14:31 Dealing with Anger and Emotional Changes
18:18 Understanding the Treatment Regimen
18:46 The Four Quadrants of Health
21:16 The Role of Art in Coping
24:20 Facing Chemotherapy
30:34 The Impact on Family
33:00 The Power of Kindness
34:55 Coming to Terms with the Unknown

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@JoanSeibert 6 күн бұрын

Just because you don't feel his presence that is what ultimate faith is that he is still there

@meshell1399 4 ай бұрын

Too of the most genuine people I ever saw having a conversation. Thank you 🦋

@tammybutler276 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for sharing from the heart. As a survivor I am all to familiar with the why my question. Thank you both for being open. Prayers and blessings. Dr. T.B.

@Bigjoerecovery 4 ай бұрын

Thank you both for sharing something with the world that is difficult and painful to deal with Phil you truly are a great inspiration and I am so glad to be part of the CCAR family keep your focus and positivity. I know you're still touching people who have questions and these videos are a relief to have and can help in ways you'll never know. I wish the best possible outcome and keep continuing in your journey I'm sending prayers and blessings your way!! Thank you both for being open.❤

@profdavidclark 4 ай бұрын

Deeply moved by this Podcast. So sad hear this news. You are both such wonderful and brave people. Incredible that you have done this moving broadcast. Am thinking of you both and sending the biggest hugs from afar. Sandy and Phil, thank you for being you. Wishing you well and hoping for the best outcome. My love.

@lesleyannboshoff7061 4 ай бұрын

Dearest Phil, I had a fear of death before having a near death experience some 25 yrs ago. I am no longer afraid. I have cancer and had to stop working as a result. My journey is a long way to go but I know we are here for a time like this. Our purpose is unknown to us be He knows

@charmainecarter2669 4 ай бұрын

Oh sweet Phil, I too am a cancer patient, I have not been blessed to have my cancer gone as long as you were, mine was only 8 months. And I continue to fight. Going on 4 years. But what I do know is when I am done with this life I will be taken home to the spirit world and will be reunited with family and those I knew as a spirit before I came to earth and received my body. You didn’t come into this world alone you came with your spirit guide and you won’t return alone your guide will be there to take you back home when it is your time. And it is a home with love that cannot be described, a more beautiful place than this world. May this bring you peace.

@kathleenmcbride1471 4 ай бұрын

Zero months here. Scan today to see how much is left and current spread. Do not want to hear the results... Peace for all of us.

@pierrettehebert3044 4 ай бұрын

Going thru similar experience. I go to treatments & appointments alone as much as possible. I don’t want my illness to affect my (adult) kids until it absolutely must

@pro-a1904 4 ай бұрын

Two of the most genuine people I know sharing life in recovery, including the very hardest part. The human condition can be so difficult, but I see incredible beauty and love here. Phil and Sandy, I do not know how you got through this session. You are loved. You are supported. If I could help either of you in any way please know I would.