One of the best pieces of advice i ever got was this, Confidence is quiet, insecurity is loud.

This is financial advice and I never give financial advice: DONT LEAVE DURING THE BEAR. If you don’t want to invest…learn. If you don’t want to learn…build. If you don’t want to build observe. DO SOMETHING…other than leave. There is so much opportunity here. Take advantage!

"One pretends to be rich, yet has nothing; another pretends to be poor, yet has great wealth." Proverbs 13:7

The more money you make, the less you want ppl to know.

Fun fact: Rich people don't have anyone to impress

The plan is to be rich not look rich, people should learn how to own multiple streams of incomes and stop believing that they can't live without the securities of a paycheck. Money can also be obtainable even without doing the 9 - 5

If your a McDonald’s employee you can say “I manage transactions for a multi billion dollar corporation!”

My uncle passed away a few years ago. Dressed real old fashioned. Drove a super old car, a simple 2 bedroom house with his sister since they never married. Turned out to be worth millions! We were all shocked to say the least.

”If you buy things you do not need, soon you will have to sell things you need.” Warren Buffett

The poor man yearned for good shoes until he saw a man with no legs and he was so thankful to God for whatever he got. A satisfied person is the richest

“... if you’re the smartest person in the room, then you’re in the wrong place.”

My friend is fake rich. But he thinks I’m rich too but I’m fake rich too.

Number one rule is be a producer and not a consumer. Produce a product or a service

Cars is one way to tell. Almost everyone I know who makes less than 30K a year drives a brand-new luxury car they can’t afford, whereas the doctors and attorneys I know tend to drive modest, used cars.

Thought the video was pretty much spot on! I don't consider myself "rich" but comfortable and retired. What burns me up is when someone tells me how "lucky" I am, I worked my rear end off for 40 years and I'm sure a little luck was involved. However, I believe hard work helps create the luck people think you have.

I have friends who brag about “having over $100K in cars parked in their driveway.” In actuality, they have over $100K in FINANCED cars parked in their driveway. Meanwhile, I have $35K in PAID FOR cars in my driveway and a whole lot more money in the bank.

Actually it depends on the individual. I have met obnoxious rich people and humble rich people

I retired in my early 50's and I can relate to the points in this video. I'm just an ordinary person. I have begun to feel rich inside, because I'm healthy, have a good wife, and have properties and investments that will make more than enough money for the rest of our lives. I'm very thankful that I can now afford more and give more.

Actual rich may not talk money but it's never far from their thoughts

In the small town I grew up in there were several respected men in filthy coveralls. A few had successful farms, a couple ran garages, 1 ran the feed mill, one sucked out septic tanks ,one hauled hogs and cattle to market, another had a backhoe and dump truck. You wouldn't guess but these were the wealthy ones.

No. 3 is so spot on...I’ve seen an heir to a huge retail chain introduce herself as “working for” that company & let the strangers think she’s just a store manager or a cashier. While in private conversation she’d talk about “my CEO” does this & that, in a strange way, unless you realize that the CEO is reporting to her. No. 4 is also so true, some of them spent the effort to delete all Google search results of their names. Just as some fake rich desire to be famous, there are those who value their privacy & anonymity above all else.

“Fake rich” talk about consumption. “Actual rich” talk about investing.

Some of my wealthiest clients wear shorts and flip flops , very humble people and even if they are worth millions , they speak about them as “part of a more comfortable middle class “

“If you live fake rich now, you’ll be REAL BROKE later.” Live fake broke (below your means)!

The loudest person in the room is usually the weakest

Super rich people always let other people take on the spotlight. That’s why you never see any super rich people having their own KZfaq channel. They don’t need to teach anyone how to be rich.

This actually sounds more like NEW MONEY vs OLD MONEY.

all of this is temporary. What we need is contentment and be grateful for what we have and what we can achieve.

The fake rich criticize the dinner check after they’ve had their full; the real rich ( not just money) ensures the hard working server is well compensated after they’ve had their full.

Good point...this video shows the real big difference between the two. I have relatives who have all the high end stuff but, let an emergency come up they calling on me. No I'm not rich but, I budget, save and give tithes to my church. I only buy what I need and bank the rest. So, I have leg room when emergencies comes up. Wise people have a hold of their finances and they have a strategy in place when it comes down how they manager their money. You have to learn from past money mistakes and learn what works for you and what don't and take it from there. Learn to have confidence in who you are and what you have. If, the people (relatives included) who you hang around don't like you because you don't have all the latest stuff (clothes, cars, jewelry, cellphone's, etc.) then you might want to change friends and hang around people who like you just because you're being real and not fake. Good video enjoyed it.👍💯 P.S. Choosing to live life moderate is how you save money and have less stress in your life.

I think this pandemic has taught people the importance of multiple streams of income unfortunately having a job doesn’t mean security. So l really appreciate your transparency

Most of this is true. Used to work as a car salesman and the people who came in "looking and sounding like money" were some of the most in-debt persons you'd ever run across; max'd-out credit cards, living in a luxury apartment, no saving, and credit rating in the toilet. Lots of time we'd tell them their credit was so bad we couldn't get them financing on the steam off of a hot dog cart.

you nailed it man. I was raised in a rich familly but i never realized how rich my parents were until i left them to go live on my own. My dad is the big money maker, tho he doesn't like it when i talk about what he has. He is a workaholic, does full time and when he is not working he spends his time renovating his current house until it doubles in value. Thats when he sells it and buys a new bigger house and repeats. On top of that he is a professional engineer/architect thatwork for both the government and military for 40 hours a week during winter, spring and fall. And in summer he goes work in the North where is paid 24/7 sleep time included. And when i was a kid i thought that was normal... He sure fooled me. The last house he bought renovated and sold was an old victorian style 4 story house including basement the living and dining room plus kitchen first floor and 2 floors of bedrooms that were rented by students. He addaed a 5th floor with a second kitchen and bathroom for the people the rented the rooms thus increasing the rent income and nearly doubling the house value that was already worth a million dollars before the renovations. And that is just my dad's hobby, its not even his actual job.

Rich people are quiet, maybe because it takes a while to save up and become rich. It's mostly not an easy thing to do. You have to sacrifice some fun things, and do some tough things, to reach it. And when you get there...The hardest decision is "Do I have enough now, or should I keep going?"

As a former wealth advisor, this is so accurate

fake rich: bmw 3series drivers... actual rich: fob Chinese lady who can't parallel park her Camry.

Re number 3: Fake rich - fancy job title. Wealthy - no job title because they don't have or need a job.

I see friends on facebook buying brand new cars all the time, and the first thing that comes to my mind is; I feel really sorry for them. I know for a fact that they leased or financed these vehicles, most of them say they "deserve it", or "they earned it". They're gonna be working their entire lives for things that don't bring true happiness to their lives. I drive a 2005 honda civic, I save 2/3 of my income and invest it, and I value becoming financially free someday far above pretending I'm rich to impress people. How rich you are is determined by your net worth, not how much you make annually.

So true with people that were not yet rich but already boasting about their money 😉. There was this saying that coins creates noise while paper bills were silent, true enough.

I think this video is basically emphasizing about contentment instead of money when describing "actual rich". Like Socrates once said, "He is rich who is content with the least; for contentment is the wealth of nature.”

This reminds me of all my co-workers who told me they made more money than I did when I never asked them about their annual income in the first place. I quickly learned that they were lying about their salary LOL.

"Focus on yourself and your skill." Good Advice!

When you're rich, you wouldn't want people to know you're rich, since their mind will obviously think differently if they know you're rich compared to making average wage.

A humble person never talk about himself." Blessed are meek they shall inherit the earth.,"

True, actual rich people are humble.. My boss before just wear simple clothes but we know its branded, their phone is not the latest but works as needed... And we as their staff, holding the latest mobile phones 😅 and i never heard them said.. I have this or that.. They dont even have social media accnts... 🤔😅

Who's ready to become an ACTUAL RICH?🙋

I am a gardener for some very wealthy folks and they are more interested in others and ask what’s going on in my life. We exchange everyday stories and ideas. They also get out there and pull weeds with me and take the subway in NYC.

I’m 44 and wear $8 polo shirts everyday bought on Amazon. People think I’m poor but actually worth $1mm. Not rich in my mind but not bad for someone who never earned more than 90k/yr. my wife is super hot too so I could care less about trying to impress anyone else.

I am already wealthy in health and love lol not Money YET! 🤟🏾

I buy good quality of clothes from thirft stores and it cheap prices, but i still dress nice and save money

It also depends on how you define 'rich'. Most people only think 'rich' means having money, gigantic houses, fancy cars, shiny things. You can be 'rich' without those things. No, this isn't some 'spiritual' crap. It's simply recognition that much of what society tries to convince you that you 'need' is actually excess. When you recognize the difference between 'need' and 'want', and manage both according to your means, you're 'rich'. Maybe not 'rich' in the financial sense, but in the PRACTICAL sense. I neither require nor desire a 'lavish' lifestyle. I'm comfortable enough with what I have, modest though it might be, and as far as I'm concerned, that's 'rich'.

*The best thing to be on every wise individual's mind or list is to invest in different streams of income that is not depended on the government to generate funds*

I used to see people like this all the time. People who live outside of their means; wearing fancy clothes while eating ramen noodles every day. Smh.

Honestly these are also signs of people who are insecure. You can be wealthy and still be insecure and show off these traits.

If you were really rich you’d probably not be watching this

„If you are the smartest in the room, you are in the wrong room.“ Very good 😂

I got a few minutes in and bailed.I don't care much what others think of me and I don't care if someone is pretending to be wealthy. I consider myself very rich as I have all I need, most of what I want and I am able to help others with my time, talents and treasure. I don't buy things I don't need with money I don't have to impress people I don't like.

The Receptionists at my Wife's Practice were some of the most Arrogant "fake rich" wannabes. Always bragging about this or that. My wife is a Dentist and drives an older domestic SUV to keep low key even though she is Successful.

I have known people that look virtually broke..but have all their wealth in land and property, not on their back.

I remember a conversation on Facebook, she’s an employee of a particular company, she was going home, on her way she saw what she thought was her boss but she got confused because his appearance is not like she used to see in the company, she saw her boss wearing casual clothes on a food stall, she approached him and talk to him, he said don't this to other employees, apparently her boss really enjoys his simple life he said he wears expensive clothes and drive expensive car just to impress the investors because appearance is important when making a business deal

My aunt always called it new money and old money. New money can act like some of the fake rich.

Verrrrrrrryyy true. Like I'm always telling people: "I don't need anybody to know how much money I make. That'll make me a target." Rocking fancy clothes, and driving exotic cars, doesn't make sense to me.

Many rich people like to be unassuming to avoid people being jealous of them, avoid people begging them for money and to avoid people thinking their boojee.

Wealthy people never talk about money they don’t want you to know that they have it. That’s the difference. People who are in a lot of debt always talk about it cause this amount in my bag cost this much and I have a Rolex is. They have no money in the bank and are not wealthy.

The people I have met who are actually wealthy, and old money, have been the most down to earth, modest people I have met. If you saw them on the street, you'd have no idea how rich they actually are because they don't feel the need to flaunt it. They've got nothing to prove.

I talk about money all the time, but that’s cause I love investing and would like my friends and others to learn more about wealth building

It’s better to have a $10 wallet to carry $300 than a $300 wallet to carry $10

Ha Ha Right On! I learned this in the 1980's. I worked for a multi-millionaire. He wore a Mickey Mouse tee shirt. I learned a lot from that man. Now I live comfortably. HEY, how did you know I wear dark clothes and I'm generally quiet, and enjoying the simple things in life. OH MY God how did you know about my conversations with friends? Ha Ha

I buy designer bags because I love the quality of it. I don't know if i'll be fake rich but what I know to myself is that I have money and investments but it doesn't mean I'm rich and buying designers are not only for rich people! God! I think those people who buys quality items has a specific standard and that's fine it doesn't mean I need validation.

The rich portray themselves as poor, from what I've seen over the years.

Knew this guy years ago. Very expensive car & clothes. Sometimes when lunch time came he would say he was going to this restaurant a mile away and he would get all of us coworkers our orders as well. So we gave him our $$$ and he came back with our lunches. Found out later he charged all the lunches on his Visa and used the cash we gave him to pay the minimum payment due on his Mastercard!

Reminded me of my school alumni who came to our school in an old car. Not like a vintage car, but more like a beater. No one knew he's a millionaire and then he suddenly donated millions to the school.

Very true, our landlord owns so much property...he wears t shirts and birkenstocks and very humble.

This was an interesting video. I’d have to know what the producer of the video’s definition is of “the rich” and the “fake rich” because a lot of rich people I know talk a lot about money while a lot of poor people do not. So I’m wondering where they got their information.

Phycology can't predict who rich or who poor because it according to their tendency

Fake rich is were you have to tell ppl your rich 💯

It is true....the real rich seek smarter & talented people, so they can constantly improve themselves. It's a common trait among people with high SAT scores.

After being around wealthy people and fake people I can vouch for this video. I have come across fake wealthy and phony high achievers and I have met real wealthy people as well. I always has really good conversations with wealthy people and they wanted to know about me. Also many of them I remember were humble and dressed decent but not over the top

Hi guys just want to let you know, being rich/productive don’t means they are better than other ppl, lots of outstanding ppl are not considered rich in any sense, if you enjoy what you are doing rn, you are in a good shape. you don’t have force yourself into certain stereotype that people consider better than other, hope you have a wonderful year ahead!

Over the decades folks I admired lost homes, went bankrupt and generally crashed and burned. The ones I barely noticed retired and moved off, never to be heard from.

My husband was a removalist for 12 and a half yrs. But the company he worked for was contracted to deliver high end furniture for hotels, designers and some celebrities over the years. The constant thread he found with a lot of these ppl was they were always stressed. Always down. Delivering these gorgeous pieces to there mansions, and some would barely have furniture in them. He learned quickly that for most ppl all the fancy stuff was a facade and most ppl were not happy.

I don’t want to be FAKE RICH!!

Looks like everyone on my Facebook friends. Getting new trucks like everyone is in competition.

This is so true... Most people who are flashy with their money are the ones that have very little of it. They may make a lot but haven't converted it to wealth... there is a difference between income and wealth.

Well most of my traits are for a rich one. Even my friends think I must be having a lot of money But I don't have that much The thing is I spend it sensibly according to necessity rather than show off.

Wearing rolex while driving 90’s corolla

This is so true I know so many people like that it’s hard to have a conversation with them , constant boasting about anything and everything

Three of us were spending a day around various parts of D.C., wearing pretty ordinary clothes. We went to see the *upper middle* class mall in Tysons, Virginia. We did not at all look the part of a shopper in that mall. Then we went over to the *upper* class mall nearby. You could probably still tell we didn't belong there, but we looked a lot closer to it. That was the moment I realized how normal my sister's upper class neighborhood really is. When she first moved there, I was very surprised at how ordinary people's cars and clothes were. Her neighborhood gave me strong suspicions; the experience at the malls was confirmation.

It’s the one that always complains he/she doesn’t have money.

Your last 20 seconds was priceless. Do what your passionate about , I was doing my thing and a stranger found me . The rich care about a legacy help them make one.

For everyone downing other people for leasing/financing a car - it’s actually BETTER to do this (given a low/fair interest rate) so that you can use that money you’d otherwise spend towards investments, allowing your money to work for you and thus wiping the opportunity cost. Educate yourself of the matter and it will start to make sense....

They need to stop showing people scattering money all over the place because rich people don't throw money away. That's money they would be investing.

This is not accurate. Not everyone hides their wealth. e.g. The Kardashians

Statistically, it's probably true. But I find it interesting how the video repeatedly switched to images of showy women with shopping bags when talking about fake rich and then switched back to seemingly inscrutable men when discussing actual rich.

My oldest brother, when he went to college in the late 50s, when people would ask what our father did. His answer - "He's in oil". He owned a service station and garage. I was just proud he quit school in the 8th grade during the Great Depression and owned his own business, was respected by the businesses all over the city, and was consulted for his opinion many topics even though he was a very quiet, humble man.

Thanks so much for sharing this positive video mate!

Rich/wealthy people do not show off. They tend to be humble and stay low-key. Broke folks always gotta show off and be "extra". I noticed rich wears regular clothing and look like bumbs while the fake rich is extra, always gotta be in expensive name-brand. I know a rich billionaire (no lie) and he drives a Honda Accord lol. THAT is rich!

I stand to partially disagree, most of those Actually Rich people started as fake rich

The real rich talks about how the rain makes his 10-acre wide lawn grass grow faster.

For the fake rich, a lot of this comes down to narcissism.