Can I just say that Mikael is the most articulate and rational person I've heard when it comes to relationship. Sarap kausap ng ganitong klaseng tao.

"living in the present rather than being scared about the future" - Madam Bonez

When you're married,time will come that Love dissipates, but friendship remains. That's what married is, it begins with one hello, and end in commitment to each other. I've been married for 18years, sometimes happy, sometimes mad, sometimes lucky, oftentimes lugi.But you've got to fight for it on a daily basis.And up to the both of you on how you want to rekindle it.

"Living in the present rather than being scared about the future or regretting your past is the best kind of decision that anybody can make" ~ Fofo & Bonez

Hindi ako naniniwala sa falling out of love, yes nawawalan ng spark pero anjan paden ang love natakpan lang. nagiging worst lang sya once nagpapasok ka ng ibang tao sa puso mo, pero kong e try nyu mag bonding ulit gawin ang mga bagay ba hindi nyu na magagawa and open sa isat isa masi save pa ang relationship

Falling out of love is a decision. Since, love itself is a decision as well :)

That’s why we cannot trust our hearts, as even the bible says, the heart is more deceitful than all things (Jeremiah 17:9). We cannot trust in our feelings alone because they can change like seasons. And the sole reason for the need of marriage to be God-centered. Because honestly, we cannot make it successful on our own. We are all doomed to fail and hate each other because of our differences. We truly need God for wisdom, strength, and guidance to protect our marriage. It is also important to understand that it is a sacred covenant rooted in commitments that promise to stand against every storm, not merely to emotionally feel and stay in love forever. I always listen to your podcast and I always learn a lot from #BehindRelationShipGoals. Thanks for always sharing your personal experiences! :)

For me, love is simply how you two are willing to make things work. Regardless of the challenges you both face. Also letting each other grow individually while supporting one another

Watching your podcast while I'm still single so I could be prepared for the right person, learn things and grow alone until I could grow with someone too! :) Thank you for making these podcasts!

Listening to this just after a break-up from an 8 year relationship (a few weeks ago) and it still hurts like hell, especially when one claims to have fallen out of love, started liking someone else and even question his love for you in the first place... and you're the only one who wants to hold on. Hoping for healing and peace soon. Thank you Megan and Mikael, I love your relationship maturity.

Marriage is a commitment and love is being commited to love each other no matyer what.. and most importantly place God at the center of the marriage

This conversation can be very uncomfortable and very scary to people in a long term relationship. But you guys discussed it fairly and even used your relationship as example 🙈👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 Admiring your wisdom and courage on matters like this. PS i knocked hard on wood for you Megan because love you guys together & even if there’s a chance for anything, long lasting love still exists!!!

A relationship consists of 2 people and more and basically, to work it out In any way possible is for all parties to be willing to step up and put effort to work it out.

We used to listen to your podcast, sharing opinions about your content. She broke up with me 4 months ago, without telling me the real truth behind the break up. She just told me she's not ready. Listening at Megan. Yes, falling out of love is possible in every relationship. But thinking about it and being in that state of feeling frightens you. DAMN that's true love. It's really up to the couple if they stay in love and look back to the reason why you love the person. Mekail is a very a lucky guy. Kakaingit. :(

I admire you for having the guts to discuss future possibilities, yes there are bumps along the way, but if you communicate it and do something about it, love will still prevails. Love do comes in many ways as we grow older, but as long as theres respect and understanding, it will prosper. Stay in love sweet couple and may GOD bless you more ❤

love is not a feeling. its an act of the will. u CHOOSE to love. its a decision. happily married for 17 yrs with all the ups and downs. and the secret ingredient to that is God- theres three of us in this marriage. we treat it as a covenant not only between partners but with God as well. its a promise for life. the "feeling" of love comes and goes. inspite of everything (ups and downs) we are happy.

For people to fall out of love is possibly when one has outgrown the other and like what you said people constantly change and grow and sadly other couple fail to grow in the same level together and tendency is, insecurities arises and the other slowly loses that spark or liking or even that attraction or interest or probably just got tired with each other as sometimes this imbalance could create friction and because they don't have that same level of thinking their arguments most likely don't benefit the relationship but harming it and without realising the relationship is going downhill and it's too late to do something and suddenly realises that it has reached the bottom

When both of you are matured enough to handle things in your relationship even though you don’t know what will happen in the future will make your relationship even more strong and healthy.

Waiting mag start 🤞💕

People change, things change and as you go through life and take in these experiences - they affect you in ways you can’t really predict. “I control my life and decisions” yes to a certain extent. But experiences also change you and you can’t completely control and dictate the experiences you go through. - Mikael

I don’t believe in falling out of love. We just love the person in a different way. Like, you care less.

Topic it self would be Uncomfortable for People commited in a Long time relationship pero Mikael discuss it so Light, ganito yung maganda sa Relationship, for real you see a Genuine maturity.💯💗

I really love that you, guys, can openly talk about things because most members of today's society have totally lack that. I'd love and genuinely pray to have a partner whom I can openly talk with and resolve issues pertaining to us and others in a calm and mature way.

Pls continue to do podcast 💜

Very good sharing of ideas and very good ending or final words for this podcast Bonez and Fofo.

Thanks for sharing with us...Mikael and Megan....God bless you both today and all throughout the year

So much to learned on your podcast😊 Godbless you both❤

You are both such an inspiration for young couples and all types of couple.

I can stay here and listen to you all day.

I couldn't love this couple enough. Got me to subscribe!

Hello Ms Megan and Mikael.. pls post new podcast.. keep d love alive always.. God bless

You guys Are my favorite!! Learning a lot. Thanks for sharing.

This is what I am waiting for. Thanks Boneze and Fofo.

11:50 I love how he choose to think and focus on that way. 💖💖💖

I really love these two so much. I learnt a lot from you two 😘😘😘

Thank you for sharing this Ms. Bonez and Mr. Fofo!! I learn so many things to your vlog. Stay strong you two. 🥺❤️

I love how you guys are so realistic kahit nakakatakot. :)

living in the present rather than getting fear in the future or regretting your past💯 such a good reminder for us✨ thank you so much💗

I really love this two my inspiration couple. 💓

I'm just a new fan here and wishing your married life be at its best in any aspects. God bless you both Megan & Mikael 😍

Open communication is key to let relationship prosper and understanding on both parties' perspective is another vital attribute to be accepting on one's view because we are unique kind of being who thinks and feels differently.

My favorite couple ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

Cutie the new intro :>

So far as a new fan of Fofo and Bonez marami na akong napanuod na podcast nila.,,Fofo kind of strict person✌✌(pananaw ko lang)but i love his word of wisdom..we dont know wat happend next but i hope and pray na Forever na talaga si Fofo and Boneezy❤❤❤i love you both godbless

Nakakatakam ang milktea huhu! ordered the cream cheese oreo and ugh! ANG SARAP!! ORDER NA KAYO!!!!

you both are so cute..by the way, this topic is indeed interesting..

Much love from Kenya Thanks for speaking in English

It would be easier if both of you fell out of love, but what if one of you is still in love. Thats too painful to bear most especially to the one who’s still holding on.

Hi Bonez and Fofo! I really love your podcast. Actually, I just randomly stumbled upon #BehindRelationshipGoals on Spotify and got hooked without even knowing you were the celebrities Megan Young and Mikael Daez. It was after the 2nd episode, I think, before I realized that LOL. I guess that just shows how I genuinely love the content haha I have been binge-listening ever since the first episode. Anyways... I would like to suggest an episode where you would talk about physical intimacy in premarital relationships. This topic also kinda leans on sex-ed I guess since this would tackle issues regarding chastity, sex, multiple partners, slut-shaming, etc. Since we are living in a conservative country where sex is taboo especially when it comes to young couples, I think this would have great significance in today's times. There are also people who would make such a big deal regarding the past sexual relationships of their significant other. I think this is one of the issues that couples in the early stages have been facing. I know that this is quite a sensitive topic and I am aware of you keeping your podcast PG. I am suggesting that you don't have to be explicit about it and you may not talk about your personal experiences in order to give respect to your private lives. It would be nice just to have your stand or principle regarding the said topic since not many Filipino content creators are honest and bold enough, unlike you guys, to talk about issues like this in romantic relationships. Thank you and I hope this comment reaches out to you guys. XOXO

Hello to all of you watching from australia😃

I think it really does happen for no reason at all. People do fall out of love but still commitment is a choice.

When you are married and suddenly you fall out of love with your partner, the thing you should do is to remain faithful to your partner and do your responsibilities as a husband or wife and be open to him/her sa lahat ng bagay esp. talk to him/her why na fall out of love ka bigla. Try to think why you marry that person? Is it because of love only? Try to think the pros and cons if you will jump to a conclusion na iwan mo siya dahil lang na fall out of love ka. Maraming mangyayari. For me, it’s a choice but the important thing to do is to remain as a husband or wife to her/him. Continue your relationship with your partner hindi dahil sa anak nyo kundi in the beginning, siya ang pinili mo na pakasalan. Siya ang gusto mong anakan o magkaroon ng anak na marami coz the main purpose kung bakit ang couple ay nag-asawa is to procreate offspring and help each other to get to heaven. Iyan lang naman talaga ang pinakaimportante sa lahat. Once you tied a knot, no one can separates you with your partner in the eyes of God. Dahil it’s a law of God. It’s a mortal sin you know pag piliin mo ang magkasala o iwan ang iyong partner dahil lang nawala na love mo sa kanya. Isa pa, pwede naman tayong mag-asawa kahit hindi mo love ang partner mo. Ang marriage ay isang big responsibility sa mag-asawa. Hindi yung pinakasalan mo ang yung partner pero ayaw mong anakan ka niya and you want him to understand you sa desisyon mo sa bagay na yan. Hindi gano’n. Iba na kasi ang kahulugan ng marriage sa makabagong henerasyon ngayon, they forget what’s the real essence and meaning of holy matrimony. Ang panandalian lang ang iniisip hindi ang eternal life. We should think of the salvation of our souls first. 😉

It is possible to fall out of love but hope when that happens and I hope it wont happen to both of you, find out or try your best to find how to fall back in love again. 😍

But above all else.... LOVE ....

Ouch. Hearing this hurts because the realization is real! 🙂

We don't really know what will happen next but.....it's between you both how to manage your relationship......

27 minutes never felt so short. 😉 amazing how mature time made you. but also gave me the feeling of fear and felt something deeper. x-rayed the facade. “interstellar” feels 🥺

...you cant control the future but definitely you can take control of your future

Falling out of love yes its a gradual accomulations of lies.. Pain.. Mistakes.. And taking for granted the partner. In my case.. I was trying so hard to get into my partners mind.. And trying to talk. But I can't get what I wanted.. Until I just keep silent and 1 day.. I WAs just not feeling him. Like I don't talk.. And just smile. Then.. Eventually parted ways.

love is always a decision that you will make

Naramdaman ko yan Ang sakit kasi may nasasaktan Kang tao hirap Kasi pag na out of love ka😢

If you happen to fell out of love to someone. Would you rather tell them or just keep it yourself?

Hindi ko na kinaya inggit ko sa Chatime-- I'm going to get one of their Cream Cheese PB Drinks through Foodpanda! 😂

Today is tomorrow... just think about it.

Ang ganda ng topic! Medyo na sad lang ako kasi parang ibig sabihin naka set sa mind mo na mangyayari yung bagay na yun in the future? Kahit dapat ang thinking mo is hindi mangyayari yun kasi nga love mo siya dba. Or sadyang wala talagang poreber? Lol. Malulungkot ako pag nangyari yun kay bonez and fofo, so hindi ko na lang pala iisipin haha

I wonder what THE situation they were talking about..

Lalim niyo dalawa,...marami matutunan

This was sad 😥

I did knock on wood for you guys. Hahahahha it would break my heart if you guys fall out of love.

Knocked on wood for you, Madam Bones!! haha. Love the topic for this week's podcast, I like how you guys are realistic and honest in expressing your opinions.

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9:30 I laughed so hard my prostate started hurting.

Hi . I need your help. :( Recently lang yung live in partner ko mag 8 years na kme. Sinabe niyang na fall out of love na siya saken.. na hndi na niya ako mahal. :( Na may nagugustuhan na syang iba. :( I asked him why? AMINADO AKONG MALI/KASALANAN KO BAKIT TO NANGYARE SA KNYA/SAMEN. I have to be honest. Para mas ma advisan mpo ako ng maayos.. ako yung tipo ng babae na napakaselosa ko. Napaka praning ko.. lahat nalang gingawa niya pinapakialaman ko. Cellphone niya as in lahat.. Tiniis niya yun ng ilang taon kasi mahal niya ako.. Pero nawala yun dahil ang pakiramdam niya hndi ko sya nirerespeto at pinapahalagan.. Sobrang nagsisisi ako ngayon kasi sumobra ako ng pagmamahal to the point na diko napapansin na nasasakal ko na pala sya.. :( So sabe ko MAHAL KO SIYA AT BABAGUHIN KO LAHAT, ITATAMA KO LAHAT NG PAGKAKAMALI KO.. nag ask din ako mag hihiwalay naba tayo? He replied NO. HINDI KA AALIS DITO SA BAHAY, MAHALAGA KA SAKEN. :( Minsan snsabe niya MAHAL KITA DAHIL MAHALAGA KA SAKEN. Sabe niya baguhin ko daw ang ugali ko at aayusin niya ang problema niya dun sa babae... hndi niya maipapangako hanggang kailan pero sabe niya MAGTIWALA TIWALA TIWALA LANG DAW AKO :( Ang gngawa ko ngayon is Inaasikaso ko sya, mas lalo ko syang minahal kahit nakikita ko sa mata niya na hndi na niya ako Mahal.. Masakit pero kailangan kong gawin dahil may mali ako at MAHAL KO SIYA :( Ngayon inaayos padin niya at walang kasiguraduhan kailan. I love him so much buong puso po tlaga.. nagsisisi nako at ginawa ko na ang part ko ngayon.. Ang problema is nasa knya na kung paano niya aayusin ang problema niya.. basta ako ginawa ko na ano ang dpat... ginawa ko na ang part ko.. Sobrang sakit sa araw2 halos namamanhid nko :( PLEASE GUSTO KO NG ADVISE MAY PAG ASA PA PO BA ANG RELASYON NAMIN? HANGGANG KAILAN PO AKO MAG AANTAY :(

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What if the other person shows lack of interest in u? Should u not get out of the relationship ?

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~I must forgive you, you must forgive me too, if we want to try to put things back the way they used to be🎶🤪

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Hopefully not happen😢

Hi! I have a question please, why did you decided not to have a bridesmaids and groomsmen? Thank you. Who brought the wedding symbols? Are they in partner as well?

I literally knock on wood for you Bones😂😂😂

im hoping that will filipino will check out yung page nila coz u will learn alot of things than pranking.

i know im not the only one who learns A LOT of things from them 🥺🤍 goalsssss

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