I'm not even married yet but I personally think this scene right here is so realistic & so necessary for any married couples out there. Communication is the foundation of any relationship.
@mentalhealth40984 ай бұрын
Facts!
@kevinpayton26643 жыл бұрын
You usually don't see Bobby get that upset but he's finally telling Athena how he feels in their marriage.
@rozzgary85693 жыл бұрын
Right!!!! I said the same thing!!
@dannythomas41719 күн бұрын
@@rozzgary8569 Marriages aren't supposed to work like that.
@oliverm.27503 жыл бұрын
Athena: "Mariage isn't supposed to work like that". Bobby :"Who said this mariage is working ???" *Drop the mic*
@TheSandyhayley2 жыл бұрын
I screamed when she said that
@ciara37882 жыл бұрын
I was like "o-" when he said that cuz I thought their marriage was great but I guess not
@TheHeartGirl7843 жыл бұрын
This was tough, but I think it was necessary for Bobby and Athena and Bobby does have a solid point. It’s great that Athena is independent, but Bobby’s right how she doesn’t him include on any of the decisions that she makes and she doesn’t seem to consider his feelings.
@MsQuartermaine3 жыл бұрын
Agree with all of this. I do wish Bobby was upfront with her though. My guess is that he did not want a confrontation, so he kept this from her so she could experience what it was like to be left out. But then it backfired and ended up bringing confrontational, anyway. But it was a good thing that it did because it brought everything out in the open.
@RDCFemmes2 жыл бұрын
But there has to be a conversation aka communication is key
@gracesmyth76202 жыл бұрын
@@MsQuartermaine Bobby tried to be upfront with her each time & each time she was dismissive of his feelings. I feel like he didn't have a choice but to give her a taste of her own medicine.
@gracesmyth76202 жыл бұрын
@@RDCFemmes Bobby communicated his feelings to her each time & she continued to disregard his feelings.
@ZoraNH.dusttracks18913 жыл бұрын
So glad Bobby got this out, because he has been holding this in since the end of last season. Hate to see them at odds, but this was needed…can’t wait to see them grow and become stronger from it.
@CheMJ133 жыл бұрын
Literally one of the hardest things Ive ever had to watch😭
@alexiscox27663 жыл бұрын
I love Athena but I completely agree with Bobby. She's always keeping him in the dark and never lets him lead. Plus he brought up something that I've always wondered, the fact that she doesn't have a partner on the force. If she keeps this up, she's gonna lose a good man.
@dannythomas41719 күн бұрын
Maybe she will next year.
@reneecollin88253 жыл бұрын
🏖 Athena's my girl, but it's about time Bobby spoke up (to her)!! She confides in her ex, than her present man !!?!
@heavenlee68663 жыл бұрын
YES
@9-1-1andconniebritton Жыл бұрын
All the time. I think she's opened more and let him in more now that Michael is gone.
@reneecollin8825 Жыл бұрын
@@9-1-1andconniebritton true! It had to take Michael "leaving", for her to come around?? whatever! 😊
@duchess24123 жыл бұрын
That sass at 1:16 had me 😬😬😬
@traviscummings91782 жыл бұрын
I've only seen clips up until now, but I can already get the sense that Bobby's one of those guys where it takes a LOT to get under his skin, and if he gets pissed at you, you know you messed up. Badly.
@jackiesmith87133 жыл бұрын
I think Athena was at fault, she is too guarded and needs to be more open with Bobby, she needs to discuss important issues with him, it’s obvious that they care a great deal about one another. I hope season five shows more of their personal time together with them making joint decisions, my favourite 9-1-1 couple ❤️
@enn47933 жыл бұрын
I love them & they're so cute and strong together but we need two for one fight. I knew you or nobody understanded why she doesn't tell every decision she makes. I tell It simple. She doesn't wan't to weight anyone with her issues or fights. I'm feeling so bad for her. Shes so amazing but everyone just blame her. I knew at the beginning of the season that she wasn't ok when she said in ep 1 to Bobby that she doens't wan't anyone worrying about her bcs she's ok. I knew😢😦😣 Nobody never ever understands. Why?!😬😡
@trini4life1000000003 жыл бұрын
Watching this scene last night I was like "Yes Bobby! Tell her like it is!" Lol I love Athena but she deserved that.
@heavenlee68663 жыл бұрын
I agree she’s being so hypocritical lol but all love for her❤️
@rozzgary85693 жыл бұрын
Lol wys!! She's my girl!! But Bobby just let so much slide with her,so now he's speaking up!! But fr they better work it out lol 😆
@heavenlee68663 жыл бұрын
@@rozzgary8569 Right!!!
@prettiestmills2.03 жыл бұрын
I love Angela’s acting but Athena is a little dramatic
@heavenlee68663 жыл бұрын
@@prettiestmills2.0 honestly 💀
@sarcastic_ethan2373 жыл бұрын
Noooo, not mom and dad fighting :(
@scarletblack48872 жыл бұрын
No joke my sister and I started crying after this scene. But we recovered remembering that they needed this.
@kenrickbautista61413 жыл бұрын
Ouch! That was a heated moment for these two.
@kellyallen68303 жыл бұрын
I totally agree with Bobby!
@heavenlee68663 жыл бұрын
im right behind u!
@MrMarmaduke093 жыл бұрын
Man I was stunned watching this scene. I really thought it was about to be over right here!
@mcnoneya3 жыл бұрын
Oh please Athena keeps things from Bobby all the time but what it’s not okay when he keeps secrets. 🙄🙄
@heavenlee68663 жыл бұрын
right! she’s my girl and i love her, but the way she tried to back it up saying she is “independent.” a relationship doesn’t work like that athena.
@mcnoneya3 жыл бұрын
@@heavenlee6866 yup I was talking to my married friends and once they got married they would always call their husband when they stayed out late, not really to ask permission but just out of respect.. kinda to say “hey do you think I should” which annoyed me but didn’t really surprise me as it’s a very conservative group of people but the more I thought about it the more it made sense. It’s like when you’re living with someone, sharing a life together you run NEARLY everything by them, it’s not just you, you have to think about. Maybe Bobby sees something Athena doesn’t- sometimes we aren’t the best judge of whether we are actually okay. We will push ourselves to work to the bone when really what’s best for us is to take a break. Maybe Bobby doesn’t want to worry about his wife out in the field for the rest of their lives. It’s just about mutual respect.
@heavenlee68663 жыл бұрын
@@mcnoneya Yes I 100% agree with you! And even if she is scared to share everything with him, at least that should be run by him! She leaves him in the dark, while he is open to her. Also, when he does open to her she will just focus on her own problems. Like his feelings don’t exist. I mean I can definitely see how independent she is but she needs to loosen up a lot you know?
@mcnoneya3 жыл бұрын
@@heavenlee6866 maybe snd I’m just playing devils advocate here, but maybe she’s focusing on her own problems when he opens up because that’s exactly what she would do. As in she’s independent so even when she does open up say to a therapist she still tries to focus on fixing things herself so maybe she thinks Bobby’s opening up but that’s all he wants, is to share and not have her help him. 🤷🏻♀️ idk does that make sense? But now that we are on the topic, I feel like they threw the mom and dad of the group together even though they hadn’t really built any chemistry. I detect NO romantic chemistry between these 2, a partnership yes, that they for the most part when it counts on the job they are there for each other, except for the obvious issues showcased here. Am I crazy?
@heavenlee68663 жыл бұрын
@@mcnoneya YOU ARE EXACTLY RIGHT!! I completely understand what you are saying! I thought I was the only one who thought there was no romantic spark between them! They are amazing PARTNERS but not ROMANTIC PARTNERS! And I completely agree with your therapist & bobby thing too. Maybe her independence could have came from being scared of another marriage failure? So she wanted to do things on her own? Bobby and Athena literally communicate like they are work partners, not living in the same household and married. They (specifically athena) keep things from eachother! In a marriage you are supposed to be 1 and they are literally 2. Literally feels like there is a wall between them. But girl what did you think of the season finale?!!😯
@ericawalker57123 жыл бұрын
As much as I love Athena this needed to be said
@foolslayer94163 жыл бұрын
Meh, they'll figure it out and come to an accord later. It's what mature couples do.
@wanhanisah77182 жыл бұрын
I really hope so.. in this case, I agree with Bobby
@manramen2 жыл бұрын
The subject matter aside, at least once or twice you gotta have a little conflict in any good on-air couple.
@michaelbachtell13693 жыл бұрын
That went ugly really fast. I hope they don't get a divorce or something They are my favorite married couple including Karen and Hen
@newperspective92333 жыл бұрын
Ouch😭😭😭 that ending hurt
@mikeymchale88453 жыл бұрын
Can’t wait for this to come out on Netflix
@user172843 жыл бұрын
Oh that was hard and I like that Bobby spoke up his feelings but it’s never good to say something that can mean breaking up/divorce... even though you don’t mean it the one who heard tends to keep thinking about it and eventually... ends up as a reality...
@MsQuartermaine3 жыл бұрын
This is besides the point, but did anyone else notice that the dialogue in the episode was slightly different than the dialogue that was in the promo? "Marriage isn't supposed to work like that" vs. "This isn't how a marriage is supposed to work."
@heavenlee68663 жыл бұрын
i think they do that in promos to make the promos more interesting and people more hyped for the next episode.
@MsQuartermaine3 жыл бұрын
Heaven Lee I could see that being the reason to include an exciting scene in the promo and then cutting it. But this was a different version of the same scene. I think it's because they do a lot of takes and then splice the best (or what they think is best) ones together.
@heavenlee68663 жыл бұрын
@@MsQuartermaine Yeah I completely agree with you!
@lizaford54843 жыл бұрын
I need them to work it out ☺️
@acwolf923 жыл бұрын
Am I the only one seeing them going to a marriage counselor somewhere in season 5?
@heavenlee68663 жыл бұрын
yeah i see it. but athena is the one who rly needs it. bobby is open and she just needs to open up. this is an easy fix and it’s lowkey athena’s fault. hate to say it bc i love her but it is what it is.
@heavenlee68663 жыл бұрын
@@seasonfour9407 i dont know who you are but don’t act like you know stuff. she is the only reason i still watch the show. you can still love someone and think they are in the wrong.
@heavenlee68663 жыл бұрын
@@seasonfour9407 I would never insult you. Or threaten you. Ever. Aside of that, you don’t know how much I love her and I don’t know how much you love her. Doesn’t matter. None of our businesses. Girly I think you are taking this a bit too personal. It’s a show. I just had a comment on where a visible issue is in their marriage. And discussions on a show is exactly what producers want. Sparks more interest and suspicion. I’m not going to respond to the negative things you said, just pray over them; that’s the devil trying to get to me. God bless you and have a great day!
@heavenlee68663 жыл бұрын
@@seasonfour9407 I would never have any intention hurting you and I’m deeply sorry if you felt that way. I completely accept your apology. I know you didn’t mean any of that stuff the way it came out. I can tell you have a sweet heart that God wants to use for good. And he will. God bless you!❤️
@giannimolluso58462 жыл бұрын
Angela Bassett is one Badass Actress..
@saratsukiyami3 жыл бұрын
I knew it!!! Just tell my mom “I think this two are over”. And she ask me for a reason. 12 hours later she said: “you have right”.
@lawrencef1631Ай бұрын
When Athena doing something behind Bobby's back it's okay but when Bobby do the same to her it's not okay? Bobby right, this marriage isn't working
@jessethecomet44233 жыл бұрын
NOOO not them I love them :(
@90CJk2 ай бұрын
I hate in a couple when one says I didn’t think I needed your permission. Well that goes both ways.
@maryjoycecaabas68803 жыл бұрын
Oh no 😭🥺
@xyPERSON2 жыл бұрын
A lot of people do not like confrontation and try their best to avoid it but sometimes you have to be confrontational in order to get things out in the open that need to be in the open.
@adeliaruiz5003 жыл бұрын
Athens needs to stop it going to cost her
@armargo3 жыл бұрын
Shades of Nate Fisher came out here lol
@MrsKhamillionaire2 жыл бұрын
Stand your ground... Bobby
@philtomkinson79563 жыл бұрын
I'm curious to see if that Rachel girl turns up in series 5. I presume Bobby is still sponsoring her, I wonder what the Han brothers will think about that
@MrsKhamillionaire2 жыл бұрын
Speak up Bobby. Communication is a two-way street... not a one lane highway.
@glynnismcgruder4651 Жыл бұрын
Yes have to break up all the time but I’m a huge fan of y’all what channel TV you guys are my favorite show to watch
@nataliesclan91143 жыл бұрын
How do you find these scenes, what app do you use ? I’m just curious.
@midnight_haze7 ай бұрын
Bobby has a point but my god seeing pile-up lady out and about pissed me off
@edgarmerca5278 Жыл бұрын
beautiful woman Jackeline Basset maintains her freshness and sympathy with her 50
@Toneill029 Жыл бұрын
Hey Athena and I have the same phone case.
@deebeckham43142 жыл бұрын
I don't like her as Bobby's wife. She's all but snarling at him half the time. He deserves better.
@chrisr21572 жыл бұрын
Yeah Bobby is leaving the show
@jacobagee387410 ай бұрын
Rachel is also a victim of pileup to she has to wear one of those stupid leg monitors and i think can't see her son
@isabellanieves81893 жыл бұрын
Oooooo helll yah
@tytan77722 жыл бұрын
😘
@meme-sl4nb2 жыл бұрын
Sorry but her acting is really poor here
@andriakatuga30142 жыл бұрын
Act then🤔
@9-1-1andconniebritton Жыл бұрын
Neither one of them wanted to do this scene so thats probably why. They have said they love Bobby and Athena together and they don't want conflict between them. But they had to bring in a little drama
@sagittarius12.062 жыл бұрын
never and still don't give a shit about Bobby. first character from a show/movie i hated. I guess because he's with my actress mama Angela Bassett