This is the one line in this movie that has stuck with me

😂😢

And there’s “underrated” guy…

Bro I catch myself saying that every day😂alongside other movie quotes 😩

@@neoneherefrom5836 900+ others saw the cinematic under appreciation of a super talented actor. Then there's you... just being salty for no reason.

😂😂😂

!!!!!!! women equate anything w/o them as cheating. Play your game too much, you're cheating. I personally just don't give af anymore lol. You'd be crazy trying to keep up with a woman and her roller coaster ride of emotions.

guilt tripping works because ppl let it work, and if some me time is worth lying for it's worth fighting for. If the relationship can't survive that he owes it to himself to bring it up sooner rather than later, and at least give a reasonable solution a chance.

No, it’s really not. It’s called wanting to do something that he enjoys by himself with his friends! Stop trying to act like you know everything when you really don’t! It already sounds like you’re single no wonder why!

@@SmallvilleFann1983 He doesn’t sound single at all. He sounds married.

My buddy has the same problem. If he goes out his wife will bank that time. He’s out 4 hours then she’s gotta go out 4 hours. And she texts him the entire time.

yup

yah, the wife sucks

how did you watch this movie as a kid and then become 35 years old when the movie came out in 2007 ? You were 18 then.

@@nomadeperI mean you can refer to yourself as a kid at 18. Most people do

Is it that easy to kill you? 🤯🤯😬🙄😬

The most replayed part of the video lmaoo

LOL that's the best part

Yes lol

Beat me to the comment, not a lot of people caught that

Not that great

@@Nopanop pretty great

Real great, so funny

@@lamakicker69 aww, glad you get so easily amused

@@Nopanop nah you’re just a miserable person who thinks hating popular things makes the unique and special🤣

😂 same!

Yep

That's sad. You don't appreciate your family?

Are you serious???? Quit being so dramatic......

​@@ASMRyouVEGANyet Soft

She wouldn’t even let them take a dump for five minutes by himself No wonder why he needs to lie!

​@SmallvilleFann1983 She said "let her check to see"😂

She's controlling, but he's selfish and lies to her. Both are quite wrong here.

Pete is the one being terrorized. He is out doing harmless fun with his friends while Debbie goes to a club, hiding her marriage and hoping men would quote "f her" yet here she is guilt tripping her husband for hanging out with friends. Shes all about control, and her sister is the same as well. Everything has to be and go their way or else. Divorce!

you should never date anyone

🥱🥱😴😴😴🤤🤤

Yeah Matsui is an excellent pick!

It actually was a good draft lmao they did their homework

As a blue jays fan I loved seeing Delgado up there haha

Yes!

You missed the whole point + those are perfectly fine activities?

@@xavierrusso2942 meaning that when she said "i want time for myself", she was being hypocritical because she has already been doing that.

She went out ONE night to celebrate her sister's promotion and the husband knew about it. This is him sneaking behind her back and lying to her.

@@xavierrusso2942 she not gonna let you hit simp

@@LeapingRat She wasn't lying nor was she going out every week to do those things. He was lying to her to get extra time away and push part of his responsibilities onto her. While he's out having fun, she's picking up additional childcare and household work that he's not there to do. It's a very mean thing to do to your partner. The solution was to be honest and up front from the start, not lie and sneak around.

I want to see that divorce court. "Your honor he didn't invite me to fantasy baseball and he lied; I want custody of the kids and the marital home".

I never understood this, men sleeping on their own couches or living in motels 😂😂😂 Give me the silent treatment all you want but I'll be sleeping in my bed and coming home to my house

​@@ReverZe83facts b&#@× you sleep on the couch how about that

The most replayed part of the video lmaoo

Bruh, I forgot that part, has me rolling right now..😂

FACTS

So is it well written, or just an average couples argument?

Probably cause her husband directed the movie 😂

Does she even work in a movie?

you completely missed the point. The whole point and reason she was angry was because he lied to her, for weeks on end. Relationships dont work without trust

@mosesmoses8357 It's been a while since I've seen the movie so correct me if I'm wrong, but wasn't she lying about going out clubbing with the knocked up main female character? Because she was getting older and insecure about whether or not she was still attractive? And that's why she was convinced he was cheating on her?

@@mosesmoses8357 She was angry because she wnaetd to be part of that not because he lied. Have you watched the video? Lying part was not even something she cared much about.

She’s not angry at him being happy with friends. It’s because she is being lied to. And not lied to with cheating. Lied to because he feels it would be better to be untruthful about hanging out with friends than being forthright. 100% men and woman need alone time either by ourselves or with friends. Just don’t lie haha. Especially with something so simplistic as hanging out with firnds

It's called ACTING.

@@RogersCadenhead It's called being RELAXED.

I believe Rudd said they couldn't get him any Royals gear so he wore Orioles stuff instead.

yeah I didn’t know that nor do I care

Okay nevermind that just makes me angry. Bro is just mocking us

Typical woman!

Well she is a woman for starters LOL

Because she's a woman. It's all about feelings. We all apparently have to adapt to their "feewings."

And that is why you aren’t in a relationship or at least a happy one. Leslie Mann’s character is 100% right. You never lie to your partner no matter how small it is, because the moment the lie gets revealed, you start losing the trust that’s supposed to tie the two of you together. Additionally, both persons in a relationship deserve alone time, not just the guy, and in a relationship, even after marriage, both partners need to keep going on dates.

Ugh hearing her whiny nagging, let a man get some MAN time geez

Oh right thx for giving the perspective of her hypocrisy. I guess I should re-watch it now that I'm married and have kid of my own.

That’s a woman for u

Would Pete seriously even care

She wasn't lying about going dancing

SHE WENT OUT ONCE AND REJECTED JASON SEAGALLS ADVANCES.. WHERE IS THE CONSTANTLY?! If you don’t know how to watch a movie just say that.

It's not breaking and entering at all, and only trespassing if they had posted no trespassing or if they told them to leave and they didn't.

"cupcake"?

@@Seeker265729 It’s not “only trespassing if they posted a sign”. That’s asinine

@@Seeker265729 someone random comes into your house without asking and your think they are all fine and dandy? probably not prison time but at least a fine

Unlawful entry

PREACH!! the need of a hobby, friends, spending wiht yourself, or your family its JUST AS important as having a spouse... and more people need to understand that

Yep Desiree knows what's up

@@jweezy5490 😘

100% true bro.

If a woman has it in her head that you have a flaw, nothing resembling logic will interfere with that. Some women(and men) need to get over their fragile little egos and learn to let things slide. She is not the center of his universe. She is a partner. You share a life. You don't share an oxygen tank. People who think they need each other need to revaluate. You DON'T need each other. You are only together because you share a love. That's it. There is no survival element in this. Both of you need to retain the option to leave if that love dies. Don't become dependent on each others thoughts and time. Your relationship will go down in flames. Been with a woman for 20 years happily married because we respect each others freedom. I don't need to know what she is doing all the time and vice versa. Because the moments we do choose to spend together and grow is that much more special when new things happen to the both us away from each other. Be open to learning and growing and learn to detach from each other. Recognize that the infatuation part of a relationship is fleeting and that REAL love has longevity and evolution. You will love, lust, hate, anger, despair, fear, adore, admire, envy, and respect each other over time. It WILL happen. The feelings are incidental. You are building a life together and have to roll with the punches and push through and the reward is a mature and natural progression. Use your brains. Not everything you FEEL is correct. Not everything you FEEL is incorrect. Use. your. brain. This goes for both men and women.

He is doing those things because she is overbearing and short fused. Frankly, if he has to do those things he is just better off without her. He would have had to know she was like that before the kids came.

And she's got some nerve being so short fused when, at this point in their lives, HE IS THE ONE bringing home all the bacon and paying for all the beautiful things they have!!!! What a horrid and ungrateful woman.

Also, wasn't she out clubbing husbandless (enough to get in without a wait and know bartenders/staff by name and they know her) with her friend in skimpy dresses dancing and flirting with random guys at the start of the movie which was only a few months prior to this point in the movie?

@@darren871 I have a feeling Leslie Mann, this actress, is almost the POLAR opposite of Debbie IRL. If she was anything like Debbie, a rich and influential Hollywood bigshot like Judd Apatow would never stay married to her and take this toxic abuse. I bet Leslie Mann is sweet, willing to compromise, and soft-spoken in real life.

@@CheerfullyCynical829 So because a man makes the money in a marriage, that gives him the right to treat his wife terribly, and she should just take it and be grateful?

No kidding. As someone who's been cheated on, if I found out my ex was actually just doing...this, my response would just be "....okay" We all need time to our friends and hobbies. Its hard to balance when you're in a committed relationship. Nothing wrong with getting away once in awhile

Tbh cheating is a worse act but this is sadder.

@@BlackDiamond2718this is definitely not sadder. Being cheated one is one of the worst feelings ever. Fantasy baseball is just silly

@@thaddeust.thirdiii736 sadder because of the situation. Cheating is more about anger.

It’s worse for her because her character is controlling. She’s more upset about being wrong then his inability to communicate it because he literally said he spoke of a draft and she didn’t even care enough to remember

“Want” implies there’s room for discussion. I use the term “need” and it’s honored by the wife because she knows I mean it, considering I ask for so little.

Trust me. After finding a good woman that understands this, you won’t think a second longer about the ones who rejected you or couldn’t respect you for wanting alone time.

Be a man. Say it. If she fights you about it, take it anyway.

@@alohasnackbar7622 Oh just like that huh, gee why didn't I think of that?! 🤣🤣

@@JustSomeCanadianGuy That dude ain’t married and if he is, it’s not lasting haha

Totally agree LMFAO

Hahahaha

But that's Antman

Good pick lol

Now I know how she keeps getting roles in movies

I don't think a man as successful and influential in Hollywood as Judd Apatow would have stayed with Leslie Mann if she was ANYTHING like this shrew Debbie. Leslie Mann is probably the polar opposite of Debbie: Kind, considerate, understanding, willing to accommodate and compromise without fighting.

@@CheerfullyCynical829 well he did say modified. Probably over dramatized to make it entertaining. But probably did have some sort of issue similar.

I never realised that but it makes sense especially when you think about this is 40 or whatever the sequel spin-off was called. The fact that his real child is in the movie.

Yes

Does it?? Do you even talk to girls?

​@@MrJimShortsdo you?!

The wife is a pain in the butt. Demanding, emotionally abusive and manipulative, and ready to believe the worst about her husband. She's suffocating and insufferable.

He was lying behind her back. Yet somehow she's the villain... classic misogyny

@@ASMRyouVEGANyeto, its the constant nagging she does, when she is with him. Constantly bringing him down, attacking and bickering. It’s also the constant hypocrisy on her part, going out to the bars dancing with random guys. He enjoys being alone on his own time, because of that. When she finds out he is literally just going to see Spider-Man 3 and a fantasy league with his male friends.. NOT cheating, then he’s still the villain. 😂 if that’s misogyny, then you have about as many brain cells as a worm.

@@ASMRyouVEGANyet No, it is a double standard. She was lying to him, as well.

@@ASMRyouVEGANyetshe also had time to herself throughout the film. She’s just selfish and the sequel proved it

I love the fact that she walked in the some strangers house, without even knowing that he was in there! That whole type of mentality gets on my goddamn nerves, no wonder why he wanted to get away!

Yeah she is nuts

She had had it with his lying snd irresponsible behavior.

@@ASMRyouVEGANyet She is a hormonal hypocrite.

@@ASMRyouVEGANyet she was the liar and irresponsible one, this scene is supposed to be a joke about the woman being a hypocrite, but for some reason people don't understand that and assume the guy is the one wrong here

Maybe their marriage was arranged 😂 jking

Well seeing that she had a proclivity for the club scene and he is very simliar to Ben, they probably met there...

Then you guys need counseling or a divorce. Living like that isn't healthy

Then you need counseling.

That's Judd Apatow movies in a nutshell

Yep. Women become very co dependent. A husband couldn't go on a fishing trip for a weekend. The wife would ask why they don't do anything when the whole family just spent a whole week at Disney Land. She can go somewhere for a weekend and he just shrugs.

Considering she herself goes out and does things without him is pretty hypocritical. And she goes out to clubs and flirts with other guys. Yet what he's doing is worse than cheating.

Being overly attached is bad. Imagine if you broke up or had a divorce or even died then one person may be significantly impacted mentally

Or maybe they just genuinely like spending time with one another

@@rp4712 happens all the time specially with death. It’s obviously a great impact, but some people literally have no idea what to do/how to go on.

You just married the wrong person I’m afraid.

Sounds like you married the wrong person and now you're bitter

That's right.

Why not romance? People need their space even in a relationship.

@@s.marshian8455 seems like this is probably someone younger. But once you live with someone then this makes all the sense in the world. Parental relationship isn’t quite the same, for what this scene is trying to represent.

It's the same thing either way

*Cough* PETE *cough*

… says a guy who uses a picture of himself smoking weed as his icon what year is this

The whole mess started with him lying

Lying is not right, but why would he want to lie in the first place ... because he want some personal space... sad.

@@ImLegend1022 yup there is always a reason

If he had told her the truth about what he was doing this crazy broad would have FLIPPED OUT!!! She would have thrown something at his head.....

You serious? My co-worker was gonna buy a PS5. His girl flipped out, believing he was gonna turn into a couch potato. Instead of arguing with her, he just said forget it, and didn't get one.

She was also hard working AND did majority of the housework. He was lying snd pushing his fathering role onto her. He was not a responsible, honest man

Come On 😂

@@ASMRyouVEGANyet She was lying, too.

@@ASMRyouVEGANyetPete was a talent scout for rockstars. He scouted well known musicians named in the movie and made BANK. She should be grateful to have a man that brings home big money, so she doesn’t have to work. So many women would be grateful for that.

doing the majority of the housework was literally her job. He brought in all the money that allowed them to live in that house and funded her entire life. @@ASMRyouVEGANyet

I think of it like the office or like big bang theory. It is really funny when you let go and just laugh at the absurdity but irl you know this would never fly.

Yeah, i see all the misogyny in it and how it also perpetuates the manchild persona.

@@ASMRyouVEGANyet dawg i keep seeing you in the comments complaining about misogyny and mentioning how men in the comments are being mean, but i've only seen you commenting about men. I think it's about time you start realizing that maybe you and your attitudes towards entire genders may be one of the reasons behind your issues....

Don't you understand Rom Coms? Men are morons and the women fix them in the end. I love you how you are honey, but oh he magically gets a better job.

Unfortunately sometimes you find out after the fact, not before... Choose wisely...

So true

Did it hurt your feelings snowflake that a fictional movie character is making drama in a comedy/drama movie? Lol

@@josephherrera6656 art imitates life...

@@josephherrera6656 you clearly haven’t been married or divorced. Come back here when you land on planet earth

@@hiaslayer yeah dude must be 16

@@josephherrera6656 "lol" is dead

If you were him, he would be gay and would have no use for his wife at home.

Carpool??

@@josephherrera6656 still no cars in the driveway

and there’s realism guy