He sounds like a really nice guy. They both do.

Kris Thomas glad you two could meet 💕

Kris Thomas I’m happy for you!!

@Kris: So very happy that you found your father. Isn't it a wonderful feeling to call him dad and know that you are his baby girl? I hope you are blessed with many, many more years. Congratulations.

I can't tell you how it feels to be held in my Poppas ( what my 4 half siblings call him) arms and hear him say I love you honey !! We talk every other day. Can't get enough of hearing his voice and hearing Hi honey it's your Poppa and I needed to talk to my daughter !!!!!

Awww, I love it.

That's exactly what my Father said to me. He never knew I existed ! He felt cheated !!

@@KrissiCreates He was

And I love the reply, "For what?" in a tone that said no apology or forgiving was necessary. That says ALOT.

@@acmcbride-olson9320 u can tell his adoption parents really built him up in a good way

Agreed. That was the tearjerker for me. It's like the most fatherly answer you would expect kinda like saying, 'i'm sorry I wasn't there, I'm here now'.

I think days good no child support

Coupal1 same

No tellin'!

Way too many.

Too many and most will NEVER KNOW.😣😣😣😣😭😭😭😭

Glad she is an ex.

@@dinsel9691 Lol...great point!

Sounds like she figured out that it happened before they got together, and has had time to come to terms with it.

They’ve been married for 30-something years and the son is in his 50s. What’s she going to accuse him of? Unless he claimed to be a virgin when they met.

@@mikesteele05 Ehh, that doesn't mean she won't have feelings to sort through in all this.

Kimberly Lunk I hate when some women do this man wasn’t even given a chance to be a father just because you break up with somebody that doesn’t mean you don’t tell them something like that especially with there was a life growing inside of you a baby she didn’t make by herself. this poor 70-year-old man wasn’t even given the choice to be a father she just immediately put the baby up for adoption even though she knew he was the father and if she doesn’t want to be a mother that’s perfectly fine but why did she deny him the chance of being a father she could’ve just gave the kid to him and signed over her rights.We don’t know if he would’ve refused or not because he was never given a choice. If she didn’t want to be a mother she could have signed the away her parental rights this father and son lost 50 years that they will never get back selfish. I’m so happy that there both still alive make new memories together. #ThereShouldBeALawAgainstPeoplePuttingBabiesUpForAdoptionWithoutBothParentsConsent

@@mskagome118 Amen

Facts 💯%

@A Tangerine It´s not the fact that she gave him up for adoption that makes her repulsive. I can understand she had a fling, his father was hot when he was young. I can understand she got pregnant "by accident". I can even, sort of, understand why she gave him up for adoption. It´s disgusting that, even when he was a grownup, she refused to give him the information he had all the rights to.

@A Tangerine It´s women like you wich made me decide to turn gay. "His birth mother chose to not to share any info with her birth son -- her right, her choice." That is zhe most stupid answer you could give. " her right, her choice", in my eyes would even be ok if she would have wanted an abortion. Not telling his dad she was pregnant in the first place was wrong already. Not telling him - as a grownup - about his father was vile. It´s hard not to call you names... Self-righteousness at it´s best.

@A Tangerine "I made you turn gay," Ofcourse you thoroughly misunderstood. Wich could have been expected. You, personally, didn´t make me gay. Disgusting women like you did. You couldn´t... I wouldn´t let you anywhere near me. "Her body, her choices" Her choices have effects on other peoples lifes. How stupid can you be?

@A Tangerine Oh wow. If a mother cannot answer a question then who? You are right, I cannot understand how it was to have a baby out of wedlock in the 50's but I know what it's like to be deeply hurt by people and I wouldn't want to inflict hurt on someone else. She could have at least responded positively when the adult child asked.

So happy for you and your bio dad ❤️

Im 42 and my bio dad doesn't know about me either as it was a one night stand and my mother doesn't know who he is 😢. I worry about doing a test, I am autistic. I have 3 kids who are also ASD.

So happy for you!

Ikkk! The oh my gosh had me! It was the samee!

They’re cutting onions here too 😩😭🤧

Still cutting.

I cried when I heard it

I just cut one and cleared out the room. Now everyone hates me.

they do! I noticed it too!

The way they smile n giggle.

You should see Kelsey Lyn on KZfaq.

Grammarly.com

HANTUCOVA TY t

Talk the same way too

Such mellow, kind, loving people ...

We should praising the parents that adopted him as well. They are the real heroes.

linked2you both get credit!!!!! 👍🏼

The son is super lovely

good genes

Both father and son look great for their age.

Eat their vegetables

This happened to me, also. I was robbed of my father. I finally found him, only to lose him when he passed away months later. People say, But, oh what a blessing that you at least got to meet him. Sure, it was, because I would have been brokenhearted if he had been gone before I found him. But if he hadn't been kept from me for years and years, I could have enjoyed time with him while he was well. Now I can only look forward to seeing him again in Heaven. I know he is waiting for me there to finish where we left off.

She may not have even known his name…too many beers…a 1 night stand. Or didn't wish to involve him at the time. BIRTH CONTROL!

@@kjbeach4555 you gotta let it go man for your own peace

@@kjbeach4555 I don’t know what to say to you, but I hope you will see him again in heaven!

She may have not known if she was promiscuous.

✊🙏👏👍

wtf u talking , woman beaters say sorry all the time and they are garbage

lol! i know! it was so cute!

Mom The JuuhEbayer

Yeah, I loved that, "Oh my gosh!" ... "Oh my gosh!" :)

@Tina Butterfly Not just that. They think alike too. Same approach to life.

Sure look alike

If he's not his son then he's his clone

Whom he dissed to hell.

@@clawcross He didn't diss them. Stop projecting. Wanting to know your birth parents is not dissing your adoptive parents. He did nothing but express how wonderful they were. He just needed to know what characteristics he shared with his birth father. There's nothing wrong with that. Stop guilt tripping people, you narcissist.

@@inactiveaccount6106 he betrayed his adoptive parents

Linds French And, not wanting to meet her son.

K O no excuse for it. Your Asshat comment shows how imnature you truly are. Good luck with that.

that is how it was handled 50 years ago.

"she did not want to"- right. So SHE made life altering decisions for both of them, without regard to their feelings. That is what selfish means.

sometimes a turn down a path is hard for a young ego to accept and be acted on. Sometimes it's too late.I know as I am just at 66 being reunited with a loved one from 45-46 years ago. Lots to make up time-wise

Any man can be a father, but it takes a special man to be a dad.

That is how all adoptions end; betrayal.

@A Tangerine At least she should have given him the information he asked for as an adult. She had no right to decide for them. And BTW my father did. I was adopted but my biological father was always a part of my life. I just had two dads. When I would get presents from him, he would make sure my adoptive brothers would get presents too. I´m not saying you´re totally wrong but she didn´t have the right to decide for them. I think she was disgusting.

Today? Why do you think his mother was forced to give him up 50 years ago? Judgmental people.

Shell Chenonceau what’s your point?

The point is that there are a lot of people raised by adults who were NOT their birth parents and the important thing is the love. I speak from experience !

Proud member of a Family of Choice here, too. My biological parents have personality disorders, and we finally had to go No Contact. I lost a lot of extended family and family friends in the process, but I am very blessed to have some wonderful people in my Family of Choice who love me and let me love them. ❤️❤️

Frederick Hunt: great story of reconciliation.

And your future together!

Hello how are you doing 👋😀☺️☺️🙈😀

Diedrie Gibbs I didn’t want to judge her at first because 50 years ago was a different time and maybe her parents forced her to give baby up for adoption, especially since they dated briefly and she lost complete contact. However her not wanting to meet her son and refusing to give him his dad’s info is downright vile. She’s a pos for that. Hope karma gets to her.

You “church people” are half the problem tho.

Fiona Dublin okay, apparently you personally know all church people but I never had the pleasure of meeting you.

It's very ignorant to call her selfish. This was a very young woman and you don't know her. They were different times.

SlyDoll7 you're the ignorant individual. First of all the father has rights, he had the right to know he was having a child and he had the right to also decide what would be the outcome for that child. Lastly she's selfish because the child now man sought her out to ask who is his father and she refuse to answer his qeuestion and then hung up on him. You're welcome

ikr.... imma stop cutting onions haha

"You're."

Check out Jordan Peterson, he can probably offer some guidance

Me too

Me too...my half sister found me. I didn't know she existed. 3 more half sisters. Father. But he doesn't want to meet me. He didn't know for 62 years....

I used Ancestry and 23andme. I received them as gifts from people who knew I wanted the health results. I had not considered that I was a frequent sperm donor throughout 6 years of college in multiple states. To say I have a lot of children is an understatement. To discover that all at once is very overwhelming, and there are probably many more who haven't done their own DNA testing. I just wanted to help others have children, knowing I didn't want any of my own. The consequences of DNA testing 40 years in the future wasn't a consideration back then.

Hello how are you doing 👋😀☺️👋👋

Very sad that the girl was aloof . Maybe it's her nature , maybe it's her generation ? Whatever the reason , your husband must hv been real hurt .

Pastel Pistol so people feel no need to find their birth parents, that’s just they way it is. Let them be happy with their life and move on. Children don’t owe the birth parents anything.

Some people lie to the child as well, they are told your father never wanted you. Maybe he never knew the child existed.

Saeed Almansoori 🤣

u know what i mean...

Hello how are you doing 👋😀☺️☺️👋

wow

Yeah that's how I found out I have 4 younger half sisters. Only 1 wants a relationship. Father doesn't. : (

He was born 50 years ago. Things were so different back then. His father didn't even know that the young woman he had a brief relationship with was pregnant. I'm glad he finally found his father 😄😄😄

In most states, it is legal for a mother to give up child for adoption without father's approval unless he is registered with the state. You don't know what the mother has gone through.

@@IHeartQuilting2 ok but it should still be illegal to give away someone’s child without consent tf

@@IHeartQuilting2 you don’t know what the father has gone through as well what is your point here