Jennifer Lopez same I had to rewind because I thought I heard wrong I thought she was like 23

Yea! She looks amazing wow thought she was definitely early 20s

Jennifer Lopez your fine 🤤

I thought she said 13... so sorry for your loss☹️

30 isn't old lol

That's a really nice thought!

kirralea lindbeck That’s such a lovely thought. Also I’m very sorry for your loss, my mom had a stillborn on Mother’s Day 2014 and it was only this year that I’ve truly begun to heal from that experience of losing my baby sister.

kirralea lindbeck in my religion, the stillborn baby waits for his/her parents at the gate of heaven, so all three can enter heaven together.

As a nurse myself, this is such a lovely thought. I wish I could use it.

Pari K what religion is that?

Avery S same, just at the same time 💔 brakes my heart

@Kai Wong breaks not brakes ??? Why point out something like that after watching such a heart breaking video....dickheads like you really piss me off acting like the grammar police on youtube ....

That’s when I lost it myself. Currently 36 weeks pregnant with my babyboy 💔

mine said that too and then he left me divorced me because we both self destructed he was the love of my life and i lost them both

A. I pray your baby goes full term in Jesus name Selah.❤️🙏🏾

Nikki Nikki thank you and I hope so too! She’s super healthy and nothing is wrong with her. I’m now 21 weeks going on 22 weeks.

How is your baby now?

A. God bless your pregnancy ❤️💙 I’m 10 days away from meeting my little man x

JustApotatoFace She’s doing amazing! I’m 28 weeks pregnant and it’s going by so fast! She’s always kicking me though and everything hurts. 😂

Im so so sorry

Im so sorry i hope everything gets better

I started sobbing after reading your comment

Erika Nyberg I’m sorry for your loss. After the doctor told me there was no heartbeat, we were walking over to the front to get me a d&c appt. while doing that he was asking other people how their vacation went. I was so upset.. I’m glad that didn’t happen to you

Erika Nyberg 🙏🏼

I completely agree

I’m really confused why no non-stress test was done before then?! The doctor clearly didn’t see how Braxton was handling the end of the pregnancy. If he had enough room, enough fluid, how his heart was, etc. :(

Jahlen Johnson there’s lot more risks in being induced , but ten days after due date I never heard unless it’s by Doulas/midwives they wait up to two weeks. Usually all my Obgyns say to wait at least 41 weeks before being induced. 41+10 is usually normal when women go into labor can be long time. And stop comparing your doctor to allow 39 weeks is not normal. Unless something is going on. I have 3 little ones and never my OBGYNs said for 39 weeks they said no way . They wait until 41 week mark

Jahlen Johnson i have a friend who is an attorney specializing in malpractice and damage cases. She has had several cases won that were similar to this one - if there is the slightest risk to the baby after week 32 doctors need to really consider constant monitoring and quick c section. If a baby starts having trouble after week 32 an emergency c section delivers them within minutes (hard on the mother and risk of injuries to her especially bladder and such organs being hurt) and a planned c section takes 20 minutes of having the baby out (plus double the time to stitch the mother back up ). Planned c sections well done are the lowest risk delivery for baby and mother. The problem is doctors - they can supervise multiple deliveries at a time where they don’t do surgery(money factor) where you need at least two doctors fully involved for c section (surgeon and anaesthesiologist). Also mothers not neutrally educated frequently romanticize „natural“ childbirth. That s not their fault it s what society tells us. Truth is in nature a large number of infant dies for all species. Because their is no other way in nature. If women knew that with c section even before the due date a lot of the babies lost could have lived and if our medical system respected this and bore the additional costs for surgery instead of natural midwife supervised delivery many babies could have lived. She is completely right to be angry at the doctors . Again, c section starting from week 32 in case of trouble and after week 36 in any case statistically is the safest way to bring the baby to life and avoid any perinatal damage (that is also far too frequent if mother and/or doctors insist on the natural way even though the baby is coming under pressure ).

where is the second part of this video ??

TheInternet Sucks That’s a horrible thing to say

@@allidoiscry4119 then don't exist

@@helentrofimova1444 yea I know. Finding the courage to just commit suicide is difficult. Not because life is great but because our brains are stupid.

TheInternet Sucks holy shit! I actually had to re-read that three times cause I couldn’t believe what I just read. You are the imbecile I’ve ever seen in my entire life! I sincerely hope you don’t have any children, and if you do I hope cps takes them away from you.. you lowlife troll!

TheInternet Sucks please let me know how you are. I have shared feelings of wanting to not be here anymore. I am thankful every day, I never made that choice.

Hope Eyer congratulations!

Praise god!! Congrats on that blessing.

Excellent comment. Happy ending... positivity in a dark place. As mothers, we can only continue striving.

Congratulations and also sorry for your other baby. Just know they are watching over you in heaven

Rainbow baby ❤️

Crystal Rusmisel so he was alive?

Julia Arnold He was born with no heartbeat, but they were able to revive him(get his heart beating again). So, he wasn’t alive, but now he is.

That's what happened to me. I was 38 pregnant with my lil girl and I had to go for a non stress test and her heartbeat was 140 but the dr wanted her to be move active so her heart rate would go up n down it did a lil but my baby Dr came in and said I would induce her labor but that would put stress on the baby so i said is there a chance I could have her today the dr said yes there getting the or ready now and should be about within the hour I'm like OMG she was 5.5 17inches long Now she's 6.12 19inches long she goes to the dr on september 13th for her 2 month old check up.

Jayne Noche having no heartbeat doesn’t mean your dead

Patti Achilly that is so true, it’s so unpredictable

xoalishaxo And unfortunately many times there are no answers even with autopsy.

Patti Achilly I agree

Yes. Thank you. I understand she's angry and hurting but no one could have done anything

Why say anything. So rude!

Is this really important right now?

@@saraheberle3311 oh fuck sakes, Susan. Relax. It's a compliment

Amanda Stephine - haha! Love it.

@@amandastephine6697 Who is Susan?

@@saraheberle3311 it's a joke

¥oshi Xo i lost a baby at 23 weeks(placenta issues) and I had a 32 weeker in May 2017. She’s my mircale baby, I did over 10 weeks of hospital bed rest and her heart stopped three times and then for some god given miracle as they were doing the ultrasound it picked up again, it was such a beautiful sound and they delivered me at the 32 weeks because of he safety. I feel so blessed. I pray she gets her mircale too! 😭😭😭

gosh. our stories are so alike. I too had a miscarriage i 2015 and became pregnant in 2016...giving birth to my rainbow son i July 2017. still thinking about my sweetheart.

I miscarried in november at 6 weeks, I'm currently 10 weeks pregnant with a strong heartbeat... fingers crossed.

What does rainbow baby mean?

Briana D hope everything goes well and you have a safe pregnancy and a healthy baby

T Flores and so many times, baby is just sleeping. These terrible times aren’t as common as snoozing babies or babies in distress. I’m sure the statements she made about carelessness and people not knowing how to do their job is simply coming from a broken heart. Hopefully time will heal that.

Exactly. Imagine if they all went into a flurry and rushed around saying "I'm really concerned your baby might be dead" - you'd be panicking and crying and in shock for however long it would take to actually get a confirmed diagnosis and then to find out it was just sleeping! You can't do that to people, especially 40 week old people.

There is clearly still a heart beat when a baby's asleep. It does not help to lie.

@@gma904 according to her statements, they said he was probably sleeping BEFORE they did the doppler and US. the medical staff did their job appropriately. it would have been very wrong to have unnecessarily upset and stressed a mother when sleeping could have still been an option at this point.

Exactly. You have to try to be reassuring. You can't just start saying, "Well your baby is possibly dead but we'll know for sure in a minute." Imagine the undue stress on those poor mom's whose babies are just sleeping.

Vanessa Lopez 😿

When you are full term, 40 weeks plus, you are seen by a Radiologist, which is an MD. Not a tech.

ParasaurolophusLovesCoffee yes, or everyone in healthcare would be so burned out and depressed

I understand, but us moms want nurses to understand our worries and not pretend it’s a regular day .

ParasaurolophusLovesCoffee I understand that they do that to help..but when I had a major bleed out at 10 weeks I went to the ER and the doctor told me right away that I was having a miscarriage...she also didn’t seem to know what she was doing as she told me my cervix was open. I had to wait three days thinking I was loosing my baby to be able to see my doctor first thing the next Monday morning...turns out I was bleeding due to a blood clot and my cervix was not open - my baby boy is now 11 months old I was not having a miscarriage. ERs are a nightmare and sometimes the detachment makes things worse.

I had a major bleed out at 13 weeks in the middle of the night while out of town - hubs was on the opposite coast. Had a great, empathetic ER nurse who said fetal heart tones sound great so go to the Ob tomorrow for ultrasound. All was well; that baby is now 10 years old.

... but it's not just a regular day for the parents. It's a traumatic, pivotal time. Acting like everything is fine is patronizing, and I can see why any mother would be offended, angry and upset over it.

theduchessofkitty 😿

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Lauren you will! I promise you. Trust and believe. You have the gift of fertility. I watched so many videos and did so much to overcome miscarriage. Reiki, acupuncture, diet. You won’t be the first person to overcome this experience and definitely not the last! I have a baby now! Thank God!! There is a book out there called Woman Code. It’s what to eat to bring you into balance. You need to after yourself that’s the first key and let go of the pain before. It’s easier than you think but the kind is had to escape! Wish you love. Don’t stay I. The dark but believe in yourself! Xx

It will happen for you I’m sure! Please don’t lose hope. ❤️❤️

laurenalrees I won’t say for sure you will have a baby, but you shouldn’t give up hope. And I personally dont ever want to be pregnant, but I understand those who do. Adoption is always a good idea, too. There’s so many children without a home out there.

You never know what is around the corner 💐

Daniela Rodriguez aa

Did you say 16 as in six-teen? Oh my that's terrible. I'm so sorry.

Olympia Padilla love loveee thisss

@@rachelosborne5982 yes 16 it was devastating for me and my family. And finally in 2017 I got my sticky bean Alexander and he was my healthiest and last pregnancy. I'm forever grateful for the two boys that I have.

Olympia Padilla my heart really go’s out to u in your family I’m praying u make it threw❤️❤️❤️❤️😢😢😔

I’m so sorry for your loss your so strong 💪

Why your only one?

@@Chenxaaa Why not her only one? It's none of your business. It's none of anyone's business.

@@JamieAug ehrm i was really just curious and didn't mean to upset anyone but you also didn't have to react that way it's a question she can either answer or ignore

@@Chenxaaa Yes, I see what you mean.

How are you going with your pregnancy? I'm 40 and have had 5 pregnancies, but this is the furthest I've gone. Now 6 months

NeyaDee kalilah is such a unique, pretty name

Our stories are so similar ♥️I’m sorry you didn’t get to bring Kalilah home (I love that name).. I also felt like I knew Braxton’s personality, he always made me smile! He was our best friend, our first baby, and he just meant the world to us. A mother really bonds after spending every single second with her baby for 9 months. Hugs to you ♥️♥️♥️

This has my crying! I have 5 kids, and in 2010 I lost a twin baby girl at 23 weeks, they sewed my cervix shut and my baby boy survived. I never stop giving thanks for him but I never stopped grieving my baby girl, people tell me to count my blessings that I have other kids but it never stops hurting, yes it gets easier because we learn to live with that pain, and it hurts me still. And I agree, babies do have a personality since the womb, and their sleeping patterns, they are born with a preference at which times they sleep and play. I wish you ladies had never had to go through this. I whole heartedly do. It’s a pain like no other. That’s why there’s this saying, when a child loses their mother their called orphans, a spouse their partner their called widow(we) but what do you call a parent who lost a child? There are no words to describe it. 😭😭😭😭

Tee S I was not. You should check out my stillbirth story on my channel as well

i’m so sorry❤️

That's a beautiful way to respond to tragedy!!

Yo perdí al mío a la 31 SDG. I lost my baby boy at 31 weeks. He was my first baby :(

@@cumeniraquelalanizbaylon5771 So sorry for your loss 😔

sounds like she was pretty alert about it to me.

Desiree Cordova this is kind of a shitty comment. You might not mean it this way but it 100% sounds like you’re placing the blame on her for not ‘being alert’ of her baby’s movements. Chose your words more carefully

No I wasn't giving the blame on her because she was a were of the movements I only say us as professionals should give more attention about the education of movements... I never blame her at all

What I wonder is, even if you get to the hospital as soon as you don't feel movement....are they going to do a C sec and resuscitation?! Seems like they don't resuscitate these babies that are term. I don't fully understand.

brenna af yess girl there’s many mother who make it big this helps them so much

She needs to watch the agulairs if I spelled it right they are awesome she lost her youngest son to cancer

As women it's a powerful thing when we come together and share our stories. That's when we can support, learn, laugh, love, grieve and grow with each other making the world not such a big place.

C H no. the first time was 3 months after i turned 16, but i don’t wanna talk about it bc of the circumstances it was under... i go pregnant by my boyfriend like 5 months after that but miscarried then got pregnant again and we had a baby. we’re married now.

Hope you’re doing ok 💕

Omg you shouldve gone to another hospital I am glad it worked out

My OB made the call to do a c section after almost 24 hours of Pitocin because she was afraid I would bleed out if I kept going on it. I'm so glad she did because my daughter was coming down at an angle and there was no way to know that until she was out of me. I don't know what would have happened if my OB hadn't made the call and I'm glad I never had to find out.

Oh congratulations 🖤🖤🖤 dont worry just get check ups s lot

Alissa Taylor thanks babe ❤️

Same.. 27w 5d. Praying for our babies💗

Same im scared this would happen to me 😭

god bless you and your baby, and mamas 💗.

maddie bliatout some people dislike it as in they don’t like what happened. At least you would hope. 😕

They probably disliked that the baby died

I think they disliked it because it is a sad situation and hop it doesn’t happen to everyone. But I prefer to comment to show I support her. So sad 😞

Gina Tafferty wtf is your problem sick idiot

It's their right to like or dislike

Two sets of twins in a row, I think maybe God decided your darling girls just weren't ready for the big wide world yet... He took them back for a little bit but finally gave them to you when it was the right time. They were waiting for you just as much as you were waiting for them! Much love!

Tianna_D’AndresMommy I know the pain in the heart all too well, unfortunately. It is actual pain, like a part of my heart broke. I got pregnant too soon after my first loss & ended up losing my second exactly 9months (to the day) from my first. It was that horrible pain all over again. I went crazy for awhile after. It’s honestly all a blur. I pray no one has to go through that pain & anguish. But life is not fair & none of us that have gone through this are alone.

Jenna Frazier So sorry for your loss. No one should have to go through this ever. 😭

Love to you and peace in your heart. Love from a person who cares x

I’m so sorry this happened. Why does this happen ???

I completely understand her loss and how hard it is to cope right now but i think that understanding that this is the way it was meant to be will help her get through this time a lot easier than simply considering "what ifs". Most times, stillbirths happen and there's nothing the doctor could have done to prevent it.

Saraxalison thx 🙏 so true

Fern Viking he was in the womb for too long the placenta starts failing at 40 weeks

@@imperfectpretice20 but this happened the day after her due date so she was still at 40 weeks.

Her placenta probably failed

She was probably farther along than the doctor's thought but you can visually see the placenta changes after delivery and see the calcification so, they should have been able to see the placenta failure...if that was the case.

Tonya Copeland-Stone sometimes there’s “non threatening” calcifications that happen after 37weeks and if she did have some, maybe they probably thought it was nothing and it could’ve potentially been the cause for the fetal demise?

Oh my God!😕🙏🏻

Vlasta Barac it’s a terribly feeling that unless you’ve been through it you can’t even begin to understand. I completely understand everything she’s feeling. ❤️

I completely understand her too I went through a lot when I had a stillborn few weeks ago and still recovering from it

Tshimangadzo Mavhungu OMGOSH! I am SO sorry! Truly!!! My heart breaks for you.

Tshimangadzo Mavhungu kzfaq.info_contact?c=1QaaAVG7XBxgbqsUB6nIOIAxTXyP1Q Feel free to add my on contacts on KZfaq friends and talk if you ever need to vent! I will listen I’ve been there I’m here

This is heart breaking and beautiful. Did you adopt/foster? I can't imagine going through fertility issues for years and then still going on to have 13 biological children, doesn't seem like there would be time. but congratulations on your big family!

😔💔 from one mom to another, I'm sorry for the pain you have to go through

i’m so sorry:(❤️

Maria E. Brennan uust4 mm 6yB

I lost my baby at 8 weeks ..that was my worst night mare and very painful, I cried my lost baby for yrs ..until something inside me told me to let my little angel rip ..it still hurts alottt , but i know God wants me to let him or her keep his little 🕯 on.After loosing my pregnancy I got pregnant right away my precious daughter gaved me the strength to be strong and bring her to this world. I wish I could've been alarmed sooner ..but everything went so spontaneous that after hearing baby heart beat a day before ..Next day around 8 am my bleedimg didn't stop and received the worst news THERE WAS NO HEART BEAT ANYMORE PRAYERS GOING YOUR WAY.FOR A HEALTHY PREGNANCY TAKE CARE .TRY TO REST THE BEST YOU CAN AND STAY POSITIVE .. 👶👶👶👶👶👶 Remeber always have faith Lots of prayers for a healthy pregnancy ..you can do it and 👶 too. Stay strong

d n I am so sorry you lost a little angel! I have an ultrasound Monday to see if baby still has a heartbeat but I haven’t bleed in 4 days. I only bled once. It’s different for everyone though :( thank you for your encouragement! I appreciate that.

@@hannahcollins732 You are very welcome ..praying for a healthy heart beat, god is good 💖😇

Hannah Collins I pray ur baby comes out ok and healthy 🙏🙏

Praying 🙏🏼❤️

lisa Timmons was just about to comment the same thing, I think the staff was just trying to reassure her & make her feel better. I wouldn’t want to hear negative things as I’m walking in thinking something is wrong.

I was about to commemt the same. Doctors are supposed to reassure you and keep u calm. No one benefits from a panicking patient

also can’t the mothers stress really hurt and effect the baby and make it worse if there is something wrong and the baby is hurt?

What do you mean that he came back to you?

Debra Pena they put me in a different unit, one with no babies, due to me completely losing it after my DNC. My dr knew I wouldn’t have been to mentally or emotionally handle hearing babies crying or making any noise. I am so sorry for your loss.

Jenna Frazier just hold on... 🙏🏼

Pappas not bubbas

Papas* it’s like a nickname for Hispanic babies

madison harressey 😭😭😭😭😭😭

I cried☹️❤️

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My story is so similar to yours. I lost my 1st daughter in 2010 when I was 34 weeks. She too had Trisomy 18. And it was undetected until one of my last ultrasound. And I remember the nurse becoming quite and had a very serious look on her face. She tried to stay positive but I knew something was wrong that’s when my Dr. broke the news to me. I was 30 weeks when I found out, but I delivered her at 34 weeks. A few years later I had my second daughter on January 15th 2013. She’s now 6 years old!!!

Love n Life congratulations

Pamela Muños 😩😭😭😢

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I lost my daughter Amelia at 41 weeks after several years of infertility and ivf so I understand your pain. I am so sorry for your loss. Did you ever conceive again? My Amelia would have been 3 months right now. It's excruciatingly painful and everyday is so hard living without her. I just pray that one day is not so painful.