Feminine Energy Is Chaos. Indifference Makes You Irresistible
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Күн бұрынWhy feminine energy is chaos, but indifference is your attraction superpower and makes you irresistible.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email update to the viewer whose email I answered in my previous newsletter, “I Chased Her Away, But Now She’s Slowly Coming Back.” He didn’t care about his baby momma until she left him. Then he chased her out of his life and has been cherry picking the book and videos looking for shortcut copy and paste solutions instead of getting to know 3% Man, so well he could teach a class on it. He’s noticing that when he gets busy and focused on taking care of himself and his purpose in life, she tends to be much more flirty and excited to see him. However, he still is not learning the book and doesn’t even recognize when to move forward and when to back off. He admits he’s been lying to himself and being lazy and avoiding learning the book, yet he continues being lazy. It’s been a month since his last email, and yet what has he done to help himself? Not much.
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@raxsmc Жыл бұрын
Us men have to be calm, cool and collected. The rock for her storm. The mountain for her switching weathers. When she wants space, we give it to her, but if she wants attention, we give it to her when we are not currently on our mission or purpose. ☝
@codymurphy998 Жыл бұрын
Men have to do everything the female wants and receive nothing we desire 😂
@raxsmc Жыл бұрын
@@codymurphy998 No man, not what she wants. Then you would be a doormat. You do what you want, if she likes it she will follow
@brianwaller7383 Жыл бұрын
No man have the balls to call her out on her bs. Until men start doing this women will continue with their nonsense. Problem is most guys are afraid to lose the girl by calling her out. Most dating coaches won’t tell you this because it will inevitably lead to guys losing her and their books and courses will flop. These dating coaches will tell you to move on and her nonsense will continue unchecked. This is the reason why the dating scene is a shit show.
@raxsmc Жыл бұрын
@@brianwaller7383 I always call my woman out on her bs, she might get butthurt, but in the end, you gotta state your truth
@raxsmc Жыл бұрын
@@brianwaller7383 The key is to be calm about it
@timnichols7760 Жыл бұрын
It's ALL about mindset. It's almost impossible to do the right things if you're still too thirsty. You must have an abundance mindset to have the right mindset.
@DUNEATV Жыл бұрын
Giving yourself nut clarity before talking/texting works amazingly well!
@brianmeen2158 11 ай бұрын
I tell guys they need to get to the point where they can refuse sex from an attractive woman. If you can get to that point then you own the game
@brianmeen2158 11 ай бұрын
@@DUNEATVif I do that then I usually Never have the desire to talk to them Then 🤣🤣
@DUNEATV 11 ай бұрын
@@brianmeen2158 LOL! Probably a good thing!
@ethanarabia116 11 ай бұрын
Easier to have an abundant life than abundance mindset
@junky32 Жыл бұрын
Your knowledge is helping me throughout my 30s. Currently 32
@Gurubu 10 ай бұрын
"Rejection breeds obsession" is such a strange and interesting concept. I have definitely fallen prey to this in the past myself
@jt_gray 11 ай бұрын
Guys (and ladies).. if you haven’t subscribed to the Coach… DO SO NOW PLEASE. This guy single handily flipped my world and gave me a whole new perspective in life. His work is priceless!!! PRICELESS!!! I just ask that we get him over half a mill subs. That is a tragedy. The world needs to know this information!! “C’mon man” 💪🏼😎
@Malitubee 9 ай бұрын
Yea he’s truly a gem
@brianwaller7383 Жыл бұрын
If a woman is put off by the attention you give her because it comes off as “desperate “ that means she wasn’t really interested in you. You were “meh” to her. If she’s into you she’ll make it very easy for you not hard or even debatable.
@samundraghimire9281 Жыл бұрын
First!!! I respect you coach! Love from Nepal.
@ApostleThe344 Жыл бұрын
I love the encouragement that our situation is not that bad... especially when she pulls back and she doesnt even say anything. Indifference allows you to not care whether she comes back or not. Love it
@ApostleThe344 Жыл бұрын
@talsapps Bro if you didn't do anything wrong genuinely, why is it your responsibility to open her up and get her to share? You create the space for it to happen and when shes ready she will come to you
@VoiceOfThe Жыл бұрын
@@talsapps This happened to me. She pulled back, I pulled back & mirrored her. A few days later she re-initiated and we meet, I act like nothing’s happened, I’m unperturbed. Nothing was discussed. Month later I’m dumped.
@FunnyVideos-cl4qd 5 ай бұрын
@@VoiceOfTheouch thx for sharing. I’m single 11 yrs about to try my luck at 31 … wish me luck Plenty of relationships+sex in my teenage years, so I’m not new to it. It’s just been awhile lool😅🎉😂 no sex over that 11 years. Was more so by choice, or not idk, just got busy with work and life. Own a house now though😈🔥🤘🏻 Hoping these women don’t tear me apart. But they might. Luckily, while it’ll hurt, ehh, I’m used to being single at least 😂😅😂😅 I get matches on apps now but nvr talk to em much. 😕 just not ready yet. I’m figuring it’s best NOT to mention how long I’ve been single & without sex. Man. That’d be pretty hurtful if I confided in a woman I liked like that, and she was “turned off” or made to feel in some negative way about it. And yeah, while it may not happen then if I tell her, she may say months later “that’s a problem for me” like wtf 😂 you all I got, I’m just trying to enjoy my time with you, why you have to be fuckin mean like that? You have a secret? We’re you raped? Should I shame you for that and tell you what a PROBLEM!!!! it is 😂😂🎉🎉🎉😂🎉😂 I mean come on. A little common sense, and self-respect will be your best coach to know what to do. That said, some of Corey’s stuff about texting and etc are great tips if one wasn’t already aware 😂 depends on situation tho
@classicphysique9493 5 ай бұрын
@@VoiceOfTheshe’s probably jumping around
@st.toussaint4632 Ай бұрын
@@VoiceOfThehahaha Ls
@davidj5425 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Corey! Perfectly timed. Have some feminine chaos going on in my life from different areas. I wish these ladies would behave themselves but they like to test us. Needed a pick me up to remember to remain cool and indifferent.
@TGP109 10 ай бұрын
Who is to say she's ''testing you''? Be careful not to project your own confusion onto another.
@christianmercado5510 11 ай бұрын
Corey, I was seeking my purpose path about 5 or 6 years ago and I stumble on to your book and videos. In great part, thanks to you I was able to reach a level where I knew exactly what I wanted and how to get there. I purposely put all my efforts into manifesting these objectives and I can tell you that I live a happy life. It took a few years into building, but for the past 2-3 years I have been pursuing these life goals and I can’t be happier with the results. I just wanted to thank you for your existence and guidance, you add so much value a lot of us. Thank you 🙌🏽
@funnyegg Жыл бұрын
Amazing advice as always! Thank you coach!
@anthonyjacksonjr4812 Жыл бұрын
Words of wisdom, Coach. 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
@Stuntkrazy929 Жыл бұрын
I'm liking the follow up emails you've been doing lately coach B)
@jacobo4606 Жыл бұрын
Corey, Thanks for your teaching. Your work has a Lot and great value !
@thereverendgypsy Жыл бұрын
Corey Wayne is an amazing teacher. Thanx for your every word
@kaursiilbek8995 Жыл бұрын
Good to see you again ;)
@timothylloyd3852 Жыл бұрын
If she wants to walk let her . Wish her the best . If she comes back , depending on what’s she’s done when she split , regardless of “why “ She walked in the first place , she may be just and FWB or possible back in relationship . Either way , who gives a shit . Plenty of open doors to walk thru instead of beating on a closed one .
@ColdWheel Жыл бұрын
Going through a nearly identical situation, I couldn’t stand my kid’s mom at times but now that she’s finally left I apologized for my jack in the box behavior and I’ve been in no contact for about 2 weeks now
@Goddess_Garden Жыл бұрын
Distorted feminine energy can be chaotic but so can distorted masculine energy…
@ShadePuppet 3 ай бұрын
I'd say corruption is a more accurate term for distorted masculine energy. That being said, true feminine energy is *freedom*; it only becomes chaos when unchecked my order, which is the true energy of masculinity. Order and freedom become corruption and chaos if they're unchecked by the other.
@caterinadelgalles8783 Жыл бұрын
I LOVE YOU COACH COREY WAYNEEEE!!! ❤ (a hysterical woman, but I hide it.....mostly/never ) 😅😅😅😅😅😅 He is so no bs. I use you as Vital Life Advice in just Life. Xxx
@johny8113 Жыл бұрын
I have watched your video, Indifference makes the difference.
@KaraRocknRoll Жыл бұрын
I swear even though it’s inevitable you become a robot, it’s still funny.
@shayan357 8 ай бұрын
What you mean by that
@jasonschell7473 Жыл бұрын
Dude I watch video after video, read the book over and over. Listen to it read along with it. And something else clicks everytime.. and I'm a piss poor student. I own my own business, and everything other than relationships are good to go. I been following since a horrible breakup in 2017 and totally messed that up. I'm the common denominator in every bad relationship I have had. 14 times of reading that book, and I'm still learning..
@JamieDrumz Жыл бұрын
Keep at it mate. Like you I had a nasty breakup back in 2017 also; luckily I found Corey’s work as a result and my dating life is now completely different for the better 💪 keep putting the time in and the results will come. You're already three reads ahead of me!
@AYYYEEEEYOOO Жыл бұрын
Yeah man keep at it. I have pretty integrated EVERY 3% principle and have been reading the book since 2017. Almost at 20 listens of the audiobook, I have the kindle version and highlight all type of things. The issue I am growing through and healing is me acting weak and insecure around pretty girls that I like. I will heal this because I believe it comes down to me have a low self view in this area. I can date and fuck a 6 all day 24/7 but when I get a 10 to me it’s over lol
@Carloss86py 11 ай бұрын
Read the book a bunch of times. Stop being lazy.
@gerarpope6581 6 ай бұрын
Lol, I would finally figure this out in the later years of my life, never having a video or Coach or even a book to confirm this. 😅 Some of us really do #liveandlearn 👍🏾
@Anthony-fe4oj 11 ай бұрын
It’s crazy because I used to use my ex as a gauge for the beginning of relationships. We basically had lust the day we met and were so attracted to eachother. We ended up falling in love and the rest just flowed. So I always used to say “you don’t have to make them think. If it’s there, it’s there”. However, looking back and truly delving into my history, I forgot I was a challenge for her. I didn’t want to rush into a relationship because she just broke up with her kids father, and I thought it was too soon for her to move on. A wanted more time for him to get over it before it caused chaos. A few months later she gave me an ultimatum. She said either I’m your girl or I’ll move on. So I made her my girl friend. So it’s definitely true. You have to show mysteriousness, and they have to think they want you more than you want them.
@brianmeen2158 11 ай бұрын
“Indifference makes you irresistible” And yet so few guys realize this and of the % that do, most won’t put it into action.
@ludovico117 Жыл бұрын
We latinoamerican guys need this in spanish. Here in Colombia we have lots of simps. Including myself. One example is a friend of mine. He got another girl older than him. Again. The first one cheat on him and she is older too. The thing is that he thinks in those kind of "disgay" (disney) storys and think in marrige more than the woman. I shared with him the 3% man pdf book and I bet he hasn't read it yet. Thanks Coach Corey for all your teachings.
@1by110 21 күн бұрын
While watching the video , click on "settings" Click on "captions" Click on "Auto Translate" Choose Spanish
@neotenylv09 Жыл бұрын
Robot Wayne is hilarious!! 🤣🤣
@VoiceOfThe Жыл бұрын
Robot Wayne 🤣 That’s gonna stick.
@hamzatayyab8450 Жыл бұрын
Great Advice Coach. Shout out from Pakistan!
@caterinadelgalles8783 Жыл бұрын
Cool 🎉
@amiramenra8296 10 ай бұрын
Calm before the storm. Men First.
@newdrug1880 Жыл бұрын
I'm on my 10th reading of the book! :D
@brahim2462 Жыл бұрын
The Robot is back! 😆
@VoiceOfThe Жыл бұрын
Robot Wayne 🤣
@user-iq7qc6de1d 11 ай бұрын
Will Robinson, danger danger danger! lol
@Summer25080 11 ай бұрын
Like my ex. I started to feel done because he was so not behaving like a strong man. He had nothing for me to be proud off....so i backed off little by little. And he asked me to move in with him for the second time, asked me to marry him while we were just busy cleaning the garden and got into an little fight because i did not gave him enough attention and he told me it made him feel insecure. (I was cleaning the kitchen...) We were together for 3 months!!! It made me even feel more turned off and in the end i got sick for just spending time with him 😂 I broke it off and i never felt better! 🎉🎉🎉 He was just a weight on my shoulder. Not a nice person to have around.
@ralfj.1740 Жыл бұрын
Over pursuit mode is bad.. Super pursuit mode in Knight Rider was pretty cool ;)
@efrencalvario Жыл бұрын
i know she will be back , and i will be ready, i thought i became more mature but in reality i became more soft and femenine , when i was 16 my first indoor Olympic adventure was with a 36 YO woman then with a 38 years old woman my whole dating life was so easy i knew what to do and i did never care about failure i used to act like a 3% men without knowing it , till i got in my mind that being real and being nice and all that BS we see in the movies would it bring me a better woman haha i am gonna be what i was and i am gonna do what i know will bring me the results i need in my dating life She reached out and I just asked directly. I hope you are doing well ,I miss that pretty face of yours. Let's get together when are you free? Well we have a date this Friday. ..to be continued
@basketweaver1144 Жыл бұрын
Corey loves that ignoring reality quote, but to me it seems like the most useless quote, because who thinks they're ignoring reality? Everyone believes they have 20 20 vision, so they will agree with that quote even if they miss something.
@sekhabisa 11 ай бұрын
Deep down you know when you ignoring the reality!!
@joen8529 Жыл бұрын
Too many people know this advice now. All the competition knows this stuff, and if every man is indifferent, the most attractive looking and financially secure indifferent guy still wins most of the time. It’s still great advice, it’s just that a huge percentage of dudes know this stuff now, so it provides less of an edge than it used to. I’d say knowing this makes you more of a 20% man than a 3% man at this point.
@joen8529 Жыл бұрын
That said… I will concede that 3% is probably still close to accurate for those who’ve read the book 10-15 times. Hahha. Just the basics like indifference, that type of “secret” is out.
@scottrc5391 Жыл бұрын
No, the "competition" knows how to FAKE being indifferent, but a man who is actually truly indifferent is still relatively rare. I know men in their 50s still chasing after women and doing stupid, wimpy things like they're schoolboys. So you can FAKE it, for a while, but you'll slip up eventually.
@CoachCoreyWayne Жыл бұрын
Nonsense
@joen8529 Жыл бұрын
@@CoachCoreyWayne Hey! Nice!! I got a response from the Coach. Hell yeah. haha.. Soo… You think? Ive been watching you on and off for years, and at the beginning there was very little like that advice, but these days I feel like every last single dude I meet says “you need to be indifferent to win…” or some variation of that. Now maybe they aren’t good at actually putting it into practice, or they haven’t read the book or read it enough times to do it right… I guess I have no way of knowing that… See I also believe your advice is the best out there I’ve seen… it just seems like this particular message has caught on like wildfire because in fact you are right… (a testament to it being great advice indeed,) but to me at least, it seems like it also spread *so crazy* that half the dating advice people on the net out there have ripped you off because of that. Kinda like what Commissioner Gordon said to Batman… “Escalation.” What once was more rare has now become a necessary foundational skill… I can also concede there’s absolutely a good chance what I wrote really is in fact nonsense. You’d probably know much better than I would because you are the one dealing with all these guys. I just know what I’ve seen firsthand myself, a very small sample no doubt.
@kellykiser7600 Жыл бұрын
@@joen8529 Everyone may know it and say to do it. Few do and blow it. You know that to be true. Men know how they should act but don’t. So who cares if everyone knows almost 97 percent wont follow it or lose their center at some point and blow it.
@viperpodcast Жыл бұрын
I tried to find the portion where we can pay for an email on your website under the products tab. I didn’t see it. I want to do a paid email!
@Reinguko 10 ай бұрын
Yup, even if she goes away like a cat and cheats on you just be a rock. It sounds so f****** stupid when you say it all out. But the fact is, how many girls are there? Are you gonna find that will respect you? Shall go out, get tired, get bored of you cheat on you and come back because you're cool and collected? I think the hardest thing for me is accepting it. And letting her come back into my life. Which if I have an abundance mindset I wouldn't. But just because I have an abundance mindset. Doesn't mean I get all that p****
@HaydenHero 11 ай бұрын
Man, I really need to get off my ass and read the book more. I’ll admit I’m lazy as hell with reading lmao
@gregorycurrier8383 Жыл бұрын
If these guys haven't read your book 15 times,, they certainly haven't read Doc Love's dictionary (like you recommend ed,,, ) they end up consequently as cannon fodder
@DR4SH3R Жыл бұрын
Corey Wayne for life
@jacksongutierrez4920 Жыл бұрын
Just head my girlfriend and her roommate talking behind doors and she’s thinking about breaking up with me :(. She was saying to her I deserve someone that’s more all over me like I am with her. Sucks to hear man
@JeremyBarbell Жыл бұрын
That’s a gift man, you know what you need to do. Back off and let her do all the initiating. Wait for her to reach out then court her with a date night and have some sex. Mirror her level of interest. If she still isn’t all over you, then she’s just not that into you and you can find way better. Trust me, I just broke up wit my girl of 2 years cuz she wasn’t reaching out at all. It was all me and I got tired being the only one putting in effort. And I feel way better now.
@beekenko2379 Жыл бұрын
Let her go it’s over. When she sends you the “we need to have a talk” text. Simply say “ok” and when she says “it’s not you, it me” “I need to work on myself” you reply “okay.. take care” with a smile and walk away and never look back or talk to her again
@davidj5425 Жыл бұрын
@@beekenko2379 This is truly the best proactive "gotcha" approach when you are tipped off that it's coming. Process that ending in your own time but don't let her see you suffering. Then when she ends it you just accept it calmly with your chin up. If you've traditionally been more codependent then It's the last thing she'll expect and she'll be questioning her decision for months just because you reacted in a strong, masculine way. God I wish I did that with my ex when she broke it off. I did it right at first, but then I couldn't hold it and caved after a while. Didn't stay congruent. I wish I had. There is so much abundance, and she wasn't worth grieving over for so long. Love was cheap and fleeting to her anyways. Now I'm with someone else and the only thing about that ex that bothers me in the slightest is how I handled it at the end. If you have the gift of foresight DONT screw it up! Be strong and respect yourself!
@benjaminholt6640 Ай бұрын
This is why men must at lesst once in their life practice semen retention. This is the fastest way to crush that needy energy
@DR4SH3R Жыл бұрын
How do I get a signed copy of how to be a 3% man?
@anonanon4194 11 ай бұрын
His coaching advice is solid, but it is sad that guys can't be themselves, by that openly expressing their feelings and have to follow strict guidelines to keep a woman interested. Also not sure how this applies to situations where you are exclusive and in a long term relationship, his advice to women going cold is to keep yourself distracted by paying attention towards women who are more open. If exclusive, most guys are not in that position. When dating however, that is fine.
@abrahamcordova3796 Жыл бұрын
i miss the intro song :(
@marcrigor6423 6 ай бұрын
Blows my mind Western guys have to beg their own baby mama for a date. And Corey won't even discuss the fundamentals of that bprobably because it's outside the scope. Sad stuff.
@namename3139 Жыл бұрын
my mum is bd to me so i go away but then she talk to me again, and tries and disprects me
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